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VividFall7/r/askTRP30/11/19 02:33 PM
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VividFall7/r/askTRP24/11/19 06:44 PM
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It's bullshit. Would you like your girl to call you in the middle of the night waking you up? I don't think so. I'd be angry if anyone did that.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 03:54 PM
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Maybe she just doesn't like it. Ask her something like "are you ashamed of me?". Unless you mean shit like making out. That's weird to do in public.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 11:01 AM
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It bothers you, so why not tell her about it? Whenever she asks you to buy her something just don't, tell her you don't have money on you.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 10:55 AM
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If she has the ability to take you, she should take you, I mean it's pretty disrespectful of her to do that (going without you). In this case she doesn't, and she has a valid reason not to take you (employee only), so just suffer alone and remember to STFU and not be needy. As for cheating—if she cheats, you will notice.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 10:46 AM
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Sounds cool, go. Try to get to know her friends and have fun. Alcohol helps. Just never, ever tell her you felt uncomfortable and/or neglected. She will spend the birthday with her friends more than with you. You will feel neglected, but don't tell her.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 10:42 AM
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Tell her that either she gets over her ex, stops contacting him and forgets about him, or the relationship is over.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 07:36 AM
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Is this satire?
/r/askTRP10/12/19 07:18 AM
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Also, don't listen to most commenters here. Snapchat streaks are the cool kid shit all people do now. It's not even texting, it's just sending pictures to everyone you want on streak. Nothing suspicious.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 07:18 AM
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IME, if you worry about it, it's nothing. It's only when you let your guard down and become comfortable does shit happen.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 07:15 AM
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He probably thought a hard-no was just a "stop it… teehee". Don't be like this dude, escalate only when you are sure.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 03:34 PM
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Act like it never happened.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 09:12 AM
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That's inhumane. If a woman really is into you, she'll help you get through hard times. Especially if it's your fucking mother dying. You can't always be a hard slab of rock for a woman just because you want to keep her. Get a grip.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 03:54 PM
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She's extremely shitty and egoistic. You just wiped a fat load of dog shit off your shoe. Godspeed.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 03:49 PM
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If she doesn't show interest, you don't show interest. If she shows interest, you show interest.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 12:41 PM
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Keep it to yourself. You're probably being a bit insecure.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 11:46 AM
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IME, ugly chicks make it up with personality. Hot chicks have almost none.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 11:34 AM
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AWALT
/r/askTRP06/12/19 03:00 PM
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I got bullied for months, not just verbal, but deep psychological abuse and physical. It left a huge mark in my psyche and I haven't recovered at all, despite all the therapy. If you're really being bullied and it isnt just some random idiot calling you names, I'd say give him a bad time with the help of friends, or if people don't care about snitching, then do report it at your school/work whatever. Of course, if he's your friend and he's bullying you, he shouldn't be your friend.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 08:35 PM
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If you feel like you'd be happy if it wasn't posted, tell her that she can't. If you want to make a clown out of yourself, tell her that you want it to be published.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 07:14 PM
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Do you think the cops are going to believe a diagnosed mentally ill person that threatened to kill herself/hurt you?
/r/askTRP04/12/19 05:28 PM
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When you two are together have a talk with him. No one's going to believe a funny guy like you actually told him "hey man, fuck off and stop laughing at me". They're just gonna take the piss of him.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 05:27 PM
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Break up like regular. If she threatens to hurt you or herself, call the police.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 01:22 PM
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Ok nothing is lost tbh. There isn't any sign she rejected you to be honest, you're just overthinking. Unless I read it wrong and you have already asked her out, but if not, then do so.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 12:21 PM
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Women are like robots. You ask a simple question like why and they go on for a fucking hour and you end up half-listening.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 07:52 AM
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This. She literally doesn't care enough to text him. That isn't being submissive.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 01:43 PM
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Ok dude calm down, body count doesn't even exist at that age. She probably is still a virgin, unless she has a reputation of being a whore at the school. If that's the case then you shouldn't even pursue her.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 08:30 PM
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Act like it never happened.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 08:17 PM
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It's normal. At your age, I went to a psychologist for issues like this. Didn't help a lot, though it REALLY does improve your social skills. Psychologists have some fucking magical skill to open up your mind and realize a lot of shit. Also makes you a lot more confident. Also just ghost her so she gets the space she so much needs. She'll come back, but don't expect her to. Game other chicks.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 08:16 PM
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Good job. Maybe shouldn't have escalated the joke to the point of being an asshole, but if she took it well at the end, then you did well.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 08:00 PM
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Holy shit. It's like a replay of my HS LTR experience. She WANTS to be around you, that's why she says only if you come. It can't be more apparent than that. Tell her you want to meet alone, just you and her, and since you don't have experience, I'll give you a line I used on my first LTR when I met with her alone (after a period of talking, to escalate): "have you ever kissed anyone?"; if she says yes, then go "teach me" ; if she says no, go "I'll teach you". Honestly I'm still proud of myself …
/r/askTRP02/12/19 07:53 PM
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Not really. People don't give a shit unless it can create humongous drama and they don't care about you. They'll even share their own experiences with you, so if it backfires, you can get revenge (though be a better man than them and don't.) If it's an LTR/plate, think twice. Mostly they don't give a fuck, but if you act insecure or otherwise unattractive they'll pick it up most of the time.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 07:47 PM
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I'm sorry but I think you have autism.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 07:41 PM
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What gets me is that we had so much in common and liked doing the same things. I feel so inept. This might be a bit of a rage but I don’t know how to handle it. I thought that about my past 7 LTRs. After I healed, I realized all of them were just boring hoes, and I could get a replacement in mere weeks. As for how to deal with it, accept the pain, cry, punch your mattress, whatever. Let it all out, then focus on getting your life back on track and make sure to get more women. I hate breakups. Th…
/r/askTRP02/12/19 04:09 PM
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She knew you were acting clingy and shit, and she already broke up with you in her mind (but wasn't sure if she wants to leave you). The begging was a last-minute resort—she just couldn't handle all the conflicting emotions she had at the moment. Should've dumped her, left, and she (very likely) would come back crying the next day begging for you to talk to her, and it would've been fine. Good on you for not accepting a break, kinda a fuck-up for going along with her begging, but hey, we all mak…
/r/askTRP02/12/19 03:39 PM
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This. If you're feeling extremely insecure, you can act vunlerable from time to time, but very sporadically.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 04:21 PM
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Women will see you as needy, shit test you, and remove you from their life.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 03:12 PM
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His LTR asked him if he would be open to spontaneous sex in a club if they weren't together. He said no, she said yes, and then he told me all about it. I told him that now you know what type of a woman she is, basically a whore. He disregarded my advice, despite telling me he felt mad about it. Fast forward a few months ago, he tells me his LTR wants to go with her girl friend to a club without him to have a "girl's night". I told him to tell her he won't be happy about it, and if she goes, the…
/r/askTRP01/12/19 11:18 AM
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That's just your experience. Maybe you're just no a pleasant person to some people? IME, being tall and fairly handsome has helped me be tremendously in accepted and liked by a ton of people.
/r/askTRP30/11/19 12:50 PM
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You have a ton of benefits. Even being tall in itself is a huge huge benefit. If you're Chad-tier, your life is essentially easy-mode.
/r/askTRP30/11/19 12:38 PM
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No, not really. As far as you're concerned, she can do whatever the fuck she wants as you're not exclusive. Maybe she was trying to show you she has options by kissing other dudes in front of you, perhaps she wants you to chase her more. However, leaving was not the correct thing to do in that situation (made you look hurt). Honestly, I would do the same thing, but approaching them and talking to them would be way better.
/r/askTRP30/11/19 12:36 PM
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You're just a bit insecure. Don't worry, shit like this doesn't even matter for a woman. Also, good on you for trying to be 100% honest all the time. It helped me out a lot, honesty really is extremely helpful in any relationship.
/r/askTRP30/11/19 12:32 PM
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It doesn't really seem like he's a beta? When having your girlfriend as a guest at your house, it's pretty customary to ask her if she wants something to eat or drink or something. Also giving her your sweater isn't anything beta either. Being alpha doesn't mean being an uncaring asshole that is completely indifferent to your LTR's needs and feelings. Alas, in my experience redpilling your brother or other relative never ends very well. Almost drove my brother to suicide.
/r/askTRP30/11/19 12:27 PM
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If you are in an LTR (so you have oneitis by default), definitely. At least I do, because I'm insecure as shit, as are most men, I tend to believe. Just remember not to show it to your LTR. You can't make her feel like you are scared of losing her. You have to be good at hiding it. Best of all, don't be scared of losing her at all. I've never achieved that in an LTR, though.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 07:47 PM
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She probably won't cheat if it's that little time. Hell, nothing will happen even if she leaves for a month. However, if it's shit like Erasmus, and she leaves for half a year, dump.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 02:20 PM
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Tell her she's not your type.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 11:19 AM
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This. The amount of autism you can get away with when the girl likes you is enormous.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 11:17 AM
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This. Its alpha as fuck to just tell her you like her and want to get to know her. Instead of making up bullshit excuses, tell the truth and be bold.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 11:14 AM
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She probably feels uncomfortable, or brought her sister and her bf for them to see what you are like.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 11:09 AM
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My good friend used to say that the hard part isnt getting the girl, its keeping the girl. Relationships are hard work, leave you thinking and worrying every day, and draining you emotionally. Best to get a LTR that doesnt expect a lot of shit from you and keeps her mouth shut about feelings.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 11:01 AM
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Ask them what their dream is, what they want to do in the future. In my experience, I just ask simple questions and women go on speaking for hours. It's like talking to a computer. Even a simple "what's up, what were you doing the other weekend" makes women speak. They'll often do some open-ended reply like "oh you know, not a lot, I'm a pretty boring girl". And you can develop from that.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 10:58 AM
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Yeah I agree. My comment might have sounded ironic but it isn't. I think some people feel utter anger and disgust when they hear that it's only their turn and she's not yours. It would be all nice if your girl was there forever for you, but since it's not the case, why not embrace her, feel the love, but know that she might not be there tomorrow? It's the only rational thing to do.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 10:28 AM
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Yeah. Just enjoy your time with a girlfriend that may or may not be there in the future.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 09:46 AM
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Don't act like a child. Your issue is not that you understand RP and think it's some manipulation scheme. Your issue is that you think that understanding women makes you a sociopath, which is absurd. If you don't want to feel empty, maybe you should get some experience. Get into an LTR with this virgin, catch oneitis, see that AWALT. Thoughts like that won't fill your mind ever again after you experience it.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 08:43 PM
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