LTR acting suspicious

Opperkech69 · 2019-12-09T16:56:10+00:00

"When there is doubt, there is no doubt."

FattiesMakeMeGag · 2019-12-09T17:07:26+00:00

Your LTR has snapchatted a guy every day for 30 days lol. The relationship is over.

Confront her about it, you'll receive some trickle truth and her tell you "you're being controlling, I'm allowed to have guy friends."

Your only other option is to check her conversation between them and they might only talk through snapchat so the convos don't get saved.

Best option is to leave and vet girls better next time.

DefJ456 · 2019-12-09T17:52:37+00:00

Always trust your gut. Time to gtfo.

oscarboy311 · 2019-12-09T19:13:23+00:00

Do not confront her. Do not show that you're jealous or anything. Your LTR snapchatting a guy for 30 days straight is indeed highly suspicious (not even acceptable). At this point, she's already done with the relationship but just doesn't have the courage to tell you. So yeah, just break up with her. As a high value man, you cannot stay with someone who disrespects you like that ... sorry mate.

Hexo9 · 2019-12-09T18:58:19+00:00

Went through something similar. It’s not worth stressing over I can tell you that. The doubt, worrying, and constantly questioning the trust will fuck you up.

Red_Pill_Brotherhood · 2019-12-09T20:03:11+00:00

Good chance shes cheating. Very least she is being disrespectful and enjoying the attention of another guy on a platform that deletes evidence.

Dump her. "This isn't working for me anymore. We're done. Best of luck."

ApdoSenpai · 2019-12-09T18:28:57+00:00

Don’t mention it and just end it. Vet better next time. Good luck

KrissVectorEOC · 2019-12-09T17:57:33+00:00

Wonder what snaps they've exchanged while you aren't there or maybe she went to the bathroom with her phone and came back to starfish while she was thinking about Mr. StealyourHo

Snowaey · 2019-12-09T19:26:00+00:00

Sry bro, your LTR is a hoe

iphone5000 · 2019-12-09T18:08:59+00:00

Your best bet is to end things and cut her off. She may come back to you, but if you wait for her to do it then you're for sure screwed.

UEMcGill · 2019-12-09T20:11:29+00:00

So my LTR started acting bitchy around 30 days ago

So in the LTR game, you should always adhere to the 2nd date rule. A bunch of things may be going on, like her wanting you to kill the puppy, she's got a side dude, etc, but the biggest issue you have is you let this get too far. Bad behavior should never be tolerated beyond the 2nd date.

What does that mean? If you were on a second date with this chick and she started acting bitchy, would you have put up with that shit? You wouldn't then, and you shouldn't now. Don't conflate dread with bad behavior. Dread will induce things like comfort tests, but it won't generate outright disrespect. With dread, she'll be worried about you, with disrespect she'll disrespect you.

Bitchiness is a reflection of lack of frame. Bad behavior should always be dealt with on the spot and with clear boundaries. She acts bitchy, you remove her access to your time. In the end, you filter her out faster and it never gets to the point where you're sitting around after a month wondering what the fuck happened.

leftajar · 2019-12-09T20:33:23+00:00

Ask her about it. Be prepared for trickle truth and emotional manipulation.

Stick to your guns. Whether she admits anything or not, tell her to gather her stuff and get out.

When she protests saying, "you're breaking up with me?!" tell her, "you broke up with me."

EarlOfJerusalem · 2019-12-09T17:51:42+00:00

Real question is where are you that snap chat best friends are still viewable

MyNameIsDaza · 2019-12-09T18:35:19+00:00

Sorry mate

Tiberiuss7 · 2019-12-09T19:52:54+00:00

.next()

MattyAnon · 2019-12-10T02:18:38+00:00

it was just for shits and giggles

"just for shits and giggles" means "I take no responsibility for my actions".

Zanford · 2019-12-09T20:31:08+00:00

Go with your gut. And by 'go' I do mean 'go', aka ghost.

Do not give her a butthurt exit speech about how betrayed you feel, how could she do this blah blah blah

flatox · 2019-12-09T20:58:31+00:00

Drop her ass like she never existed and never look back.

Aesthetik_1 · 2019-12-09T21:36:42+00:00

Just tell her straight up if she wants to see somebody else she is free to do so.

It’s better and less painful to cut her loose now than to see her slowly swing over to some dude.

What ever you do, you must not get emotional / look hurt in front of her. I have had chicks contemplate a branch swing, but by the sheer way of delivering that talk and my nonchalance about it made them reconsider.

Of course now you know better than to further invest in her I hope.

The_Belony · 2019-12-10T02:00:41+00:00

LMAO U didn't look at the kid's pic on IG and think that he looks kimda young? Cmon man

eatclentrenhard69 · 2019-12-09T20:18:25+00:00

There's a difference between paranoia and instincts. It sounds like your instincts are correct here.

thisismyfirstrode0 · 2019-12-09T20:22:20+00:00

Ghost.

catsdontsmile · 2019-12-09T21:20:52+00:00

I think she's cheating on you emotionally, but not sexually yet. The reason she's treating you like shit is because she wishes she was cheating on you with him. Relationship is doomed.

Spaghetti1776 · 2019-12-09T21:26:59+00:00

Nice detective skills bro. Probably saved yourself a 3-5 month decline to a dying relationship. Time to go. Do anything you can to fuck her life up without breaking the law if you feel so inclined. Better luck next time, the best predictor of her future is her past. Never forgive a woman for a whore past, there is no end to the stories I could tell you of men ignoring this to their own detriment.

abomba24 · 2019-12-09T21:40:10+00:00

Man I know this sucks but this comes across so pathetic. You know the answer here, this is all shit counter to your mission

IceBear---69 · 2019-12-09T21:55:32+00:00

Cum on her face or make her swallow one last time and ggggGhost that Ho!

No need to break up with her formally, that's only for women who have shown you respect....and this situation of yours is NOT respectful from her end.

-ThePathIsTheGoal- · 2019-12-09T22:54:22+00:00

Just know that if you’re 17 or 18 and in an LTR, that LTR is about 30 days away from being over after it began.

StellarMemez · 2019-12-09T23:10:01+00:00

after your edit: If she really didn't care about this dude then she would have opened them in front of you just like anyone else. Actions not words. She made excuses AND cried because she knew she was doing some bullshit. You should have established a firm boundary, and end the relationship if it gets crossed while keeping your options open.

The fact that it's her friend's boyfriend doesn't matter. They would do it anyway. The fact that he's younger doesn't matter. grown ass female pedo teacher fuck their students, don't they?

Also this relationship is 99% going to end when you go to college anyway. this behavior is a red flag for any serious relationship when you are older.

NoVirtueSignal · 2019-12-09T23:25:59+00:00

Demote to plate, or next.

rizzyfromthe9 · 2019-12-10T00:04:16+00:00

Why is your gf snap chatting a 14 year old ? Creepy af

trancedj · 2019-12-10T01:24:20+00:00

All I read was the first 3 sentences.

“She’s never yours, it’s just your turn.” And your turn is up. Move on.

Good luck.

ZedBaby · 2019-12-10T02:49:21+00:00

Word of advice kid, stay away from social media

fretty555 · 2019-12-10T03:41:55+00:00

In the end as long as you have control of that pussy nothing else matters.

VividFall7 · 2019-12-10T07:15:36+00:00

IME, if you worry about it, it's nothing. It's only when you let your guard down and become comfortable does shit happen.

boyleaaron · 2019-12-10T07:25:37+00:00

Go Mgtow. Watch Coteries mateguarding complex and Human's she's not yours... You will be sorted if it happens again 👍

strainer123 · 2019-12-09T20:03:27+00:00

Listen to your gut. She's cheating. Ask to look at her PMs on various social media sites, whatsapp, if she refuses you know whats up.

mrrooftops · 2019-12-09T22:34:32+00:00

You'd be surprised buddy... Hopefully you won't reread your edit in the future kicking yourself.

rappidrabbithump · 2019-12-09T19:50:11+00:00

Who cares? Just keep your options open the same way she is. If you have more girls snap chatting you than she has guys you don’t really need to worry either way if the LTR ends. Keep that abundance up no matter your relationship status

Red_Pill_Brotherhood · 2019-12-09T19:26:48+00:00

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prince0verit · 2019-12-09T22:00:57+00:00

AWALT. It was just your turn.

its-mystery · 2019-12-09T18:16:25+00:00

I think investigate a little more, try to check her phone when she’s not around. There’s a high probability she’s cheating tho

Title	LTR acting suspicious
Author	Nfuckedmeup
Upvotes	88
Comments	130
Date	December 9, 2019 4:51 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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