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Blue Pill Examplejohncillo/r/TheRedPill18/04/19 03:16 PM
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Same shit for me, but later I was told the girl had a boyfriend,
/r/seduction15/12/25 10:29 PM
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I think she might have feelings for her friend because she doesn’t know how to differentiate an emotional connection vs. a sexual relationship
/r/askMRP09/09/24 05:23 PM
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Did she have any friends? I have a theory
/r/askMRP08/09/24 02:31 PM
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r/restofthefuckingowl
/r/seduction01/09/24 06:36 AM
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Yeah, what is Brad?
/r/TheRedPill04/07/24 01:24 PM
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Wow, these are great examples! Thanks man! I really appreciate these tips
/r/askMRP30/05/24 07:12 PM
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Yeah I could, not sure where that might be since I clean up after me to some extent and I have everything in order project/house/financially/physically(starting to). I have actually thought that maybe when people get mad at me or frustrated I could be acting like a child and submit without knowing. Either way, time to read the sidebar again
/r/askMRP30/05/24 03:41 AM
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Yes, you’re right, I think I keep messing up on identifying the intention behind the actions since I’m willing to justify when people cross boundaries. Got some work to do, thanks for reaponding
/r/askMRP30/05/24 03:34 AM
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Thanks, I needed to hear this, and you’re right, I must have enforced in the beginning, my mistake on that part.
/r/askMRP30/05/24 03:29 AM
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That’s a great perspective
/r/askMRP30/05/24 03:28 AM
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I will get downvoted but good take OP, the reward for the selfie should be attention in replying back in a playful manner, save the compliments for the bedroom
/r/seduction07/04/24 03:26 AM
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This response is not typical redpill, but much more of a man that was in your position: It Gets Better. I know that purpose is valuable but more than that is to do things without objectives, just for the pleasure of doing them, to enjoy life. Women are just a nice ice cream on a saturday afternoon. If you want to find your purpose start by enjoying life.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/23 03:42 AM
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There you go https://youtu.be/vkSKosQOSmY
/r/MensRights10/10/21 01:53 PM
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This is the response I needed, thanks man!
/r/askTRP08/05/21 11:11 PM
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This is bad OP, you gotta work on your insecurities, you need to have abundance and stop trying to act as fucking alpha, transcend all that shit, build yourself. Build someone who doesn’t give a fuck if your gf is on instagram at 5am because you are sleeping since you need to get up at 5:30 am to train and do shit, build your life with something significative, something with meaning, transcend yourself, girls are just part of the ride and they are not a guarantee for happiness. Build someone you…
/r/askTRP09/04/21 06:43 PM
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Number 1 is the most important, do it progressively, take the pressure of yourself one day, other day you can set yourself to bomb a date, I mean like trying to go bad, other day, you can just enjoy what you do even if you make mistakes. Another important thing to do is to pause and ask yourself: “Am I enjoying this?” if you feel anxious, stop or breathe right away, sooner or later you’ll know where you want to be. Anxiety and neediness come from a place of fear to being alone, caused by abandon…
/r/askTRP09/04/21 05:58 PM
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As other people have mentioned is abundance but also you don’t feel good being you. So neediness comes from a place where you’re not comfortable with being abandoned and that’s ok, we all experience it. But if you base your personality trying people not to dislike you, you’re gonna have a bad time. What to do? These are simple yet really difficult steps but they can help you. Understand Authenticity: Being authentic is being really brave, having courage to show who you really are, the more authe…
/r/askTRP09/04/21 02:01 PM
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Next her
/r/askTRP03/04/21 02:22 PM
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Some time ago I read over here: “You’re not hers, it’s just her turn”
/r/askTRP02/04/21 12:43 AM
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I am in this comment and I do not like it haha however, high n count in men is better than high n count in women
/r/askTRP01/04/21 04:52 PM
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Yes and no, people evolve and change their beliefs, normally you walk on earth as a male and the world presents to you that way. When people transition the world presents to them in a different way, so they will be changing over time who they are but the essence remains, so you have to make a choice, keep them as a friend or not because they are a different person or still be friends because their essence is there. You don’t know the result so if you care for them you might have to wait on the r…
/r/askTRP22/03/21 02:20 PM
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Same here, ditched all my plates to go Monk mode, and has been liberating, I have seen now the real issues in my self esteem and I’m working on them through therapy. I have realized why fuck women where you can fuck life?, you can actually do something meaningful and that is a feeling that is worth 100 orgasms.
/r/askTRP20/03/21 03:33 AM
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Yes, atomic habits and Peterson could be the answer for this young man
/r/askTRP15/03/21 02:00 PM
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This is the way
/r/askTRP08/03/21 11:30 PM
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It’s her ultimatum to you, when she feels she lost her power over you, she feels helpless. That was a good response to not give her too mich attention, I sense she’ll be back
/r/askTRP02/03/21 07:44 PM
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True.
/r/askTRP28/02/21 04:59 PM
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Yeah, this got me thinking
/r/askTRP27/02/21 02:44 PM
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Yeah, that’s what I thought, or I am getting old or I am being too strict and restrictive with my life
/r/askTRP27/02/21 02:44 PM
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LMAO she literally shittested you
/r/askTRP27/02/21 01:11 PM
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Where is the question?
/r/askTRP26/02/21 05:29 PM
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Not sure if trolling, but what I think he means is that the more you transcend all this alpha, beta, omega, etc. bullshit and realize there’s no need to be on a hierarchy, automatically you become alpha without realizing it and you will start embodying your own personality and be more authentic and more yourself, raising IDGAF levels to 100.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 08:12 PM
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I feel you bro and sorry for your loss, true human nature is exposed on tragic circumstances and sometimes all you can do is cry, and if you don’t have someone to support you, then that cry helped you clean yourself inside and outside. I think the comments say something is true, I can synthesize as “take reponsibility of your actions and emotions” so many of these guys could be sabotaging themselves by crying to an unstable partner, the one that stays understands human nature and was able to see…
/r/askTRP19/02/21 07:58 PM
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Yeah, I think that we’re not robots, I have cried with a plate watching a movie, funny enough she told me it was “sexy”. And it is because of the frame I give, so taking from one of these comments, if you want to cry, cry but do not give a fuck about the outcome, don’t cry because you need help from her, rather cry because you’re helping yourself and she’s a peasant at that moment.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 07:53 PM
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Hey Uncle, it looks like Become The Prize and Five Minutes of alpha articles' links are down. Can you re-upload them?
/r/askTRP18/02/21 06:20 PM
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I hear you bro, listen to this old dog, there’s more to life than spinning plates
/r/askTRP14/02/21 10:16 PM
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I’m with you though, but you can mateguard in other ways: “It happened to me last week, remember (insert name of your friend she doesn’t like) ? she wants to go out just to a cup of coffee...” you will not hear about Bob
/r/askTRP20/01/21 02:43 PM
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“I know you’re offended that I haven’t specifically excluded you, good ‘jew’, from my criticism of rape culture, but let’s not lose sigjt of the fact that rape is pervasive, and you’re madder at me for hurting your ego than you are about rapists...” This is what hate speech sounds like
/r/MensRights20/01/21 06:22 AM
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Well 1. dating app: I don’t know you but it looks like there’s a dichotomy on what you want, you don’t want damaged women but you’re looking for them on a dating app, so do you want a relationship? do you want hookups? or do you want to get a good woman and damage her. Validation: If you need girls to validate how good and manly you are, you’re kinda fucked. If you want plates, that’s ok, but real trust in yourself comes from the inside they are just confirmation on where you are Empathy: It’s n…
/r/askTRP07/01/21 12:58 PM
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Sidebar is a compendium of topics about Redpill, go to the main oage of this subreddit and then swipe right below the About section
/r/askTRP06/01/21 08:57 PM
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Read. The. Sidebar
/r/askTRP04/01/21 03:49 PM
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Yes and No, we’re not apes, but we have social hierarchies. Once you learn that alpha male is just an abstract definition, you will step down the ladder and not being part of the game, and that will make you a true alpha. Leadership skills are needed, yes, but in a mission and a purpose for your fulfillment, people will start to follow you because they believe in you and your mission. You don’t HAVE to lead everything, to be a good leader you have to be a good follower first. Find your mission, …
/r/askTRP31/12/20 12:53 PM
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This OP, vulnerability has to come from a place of stability, take care of your emotions first, talk to your male friends, and then talk about it with her once you have stabilized what you feel.
/r/askTRP15/11/20 01:14 AM
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Sorry bro, but you’re putting pussy on a pedestal, why would you need a girl to feel like the leader of the pack? Have some respect over yourself and build something where you can feel that way. “If AWALT teaches us anything, it should be that women are nothing you should set as your goal. Brutally focus on yourself, your hobbies, your values. Sculpt a great body but do it for yourswlf and yourself only. Delving into the hedonism that is pursuing women as a goal will only bring emptiness and dis…
/r/askTRP13/11/20 02:10 PM
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Hey OP, I read your story and it is similar to mine, it resonated with me a lot. So I can give you some advice. First, is ok to not feel enough, you should be thankful even because if you felt enough then what is worth working for? If you feel enough in every way of your life then what are you going to learn from life?. Second, your limitations mark your way to where you want to be, so you should be thankful for them, I know you want to climb that mountain as fast as you can, do that play on che…
/r/askTRP11/11/20 04:58 PM
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Ok, so I was like you in the past and I think I have sorted this out. The essence is to be true to yourself and feelings that means being authentic regardless of what people think of you, also what you think it’s reciprocal in every relationship. There are a lot of ways to command respect, one of them is to tell people to not cross boundaries or just simple silence, ignoring. Silence and absence are great ways to command respect, is not that you’re butthurt, because you’re a busy man and you can…
/r/askTRP06/11/20 02:20 PM
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Where is the father and mother of this child?
/r/askTRP31/10/20 03:27 PM
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Correct, and it looks like OP is lost, he says that he does all sorts of stuff and he’s so smart but until now it’s starting to figure that women are not the main goal, improving yourself is the main goal, and OP might say “I am doing a lot to improve myself” well yes, but it looks like you’re doing it to punish them when you’re gaming them. Do you have a mission? If you do, have you shared it with your community? Have you run into a challenge pursuing your mission instead of looking for a chall…
/r/askTRP31/10/20 02:15 AM
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Okay, so I can only suppose 2 things might have happened: 1. You transcended into a good state where you see women are overrated and in reality they are part of the ride, like a coffee and a dessert in a saturday afternoon. You have a mission and you are clear in how to obtain it. This takes years. You watch too much porn, so your dopamine receptors are not even okay so you see every girl as meh and you prefer to go home and jerk, you already hunt and that is what you like to do, therefore you d…
/r/askTRP30/10/20 01:17 AM
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Thank you! I was thinking about the same thing, meditation is key
/r/askTRP14/10/20 01:53 PM
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I think it is a good idea to have an old phone only for calls during the day, I can hold myself while on my PC, the phone is the problem when I exercise or play my instruments.
/r/askTRP14/10/20 01:29 PM
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Thank you! I am always busy but the thing is while doing stuff I always check on social media, and then opens the door for procrastination, like right now I stopped playing the piano to respond haha
/r/askTRP14/10/20 01:28 PM
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Not sure why you got banned about this since it is redpill theory, also, that is the beauty of the redpill, to focus having a great life with meaning, where you trascend with it, so women become like a coffee and a dessert on a rainy day, stop trying to learn about women and focus on yourself, don’t despise them as it is nature’s way on passing on best genes.
/r/RedPillBooks12/10/20 04:59 PM
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First, your validation of yourself comes from money, as simple as that, is not that you validate money to be a currency to get women, the problem is that you feel that money is the only thing you have to give to people and now it’s gone. That breaks your frame, you don’t feel enough, you are literally ashamed to be employed, like if your job defines who you are. When you start accepting yourself, your situation, start seeing that you have a lot to give to people, and don’t treat yourself badly. …
/r/askTRP10/10/20 10:35 PM
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I improved reading this thread
/r/askTRP26/09/20 03:52 PM
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Fucking agreed, stop having a fear of being rejected, agree and amplify, and take care of that abandonment issue.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 10:43 PM
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This. Your mission has a meaning, not only to you but to others. You stop seeking validation from women, because at the end what moves you is your reason to live, women are overrated when you start seeing that are bigger things for your life. Enjoy it my friend.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 02:19 PM
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Correct 100%, I think OP misread the social situation and needed to invest a little bit more for this to work.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 07:12 AM
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This one is gold. The one I use is just “let’s go with the flow and see what happens” and normally they agree. But I’m gonna use this one instead.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 07:10 AM
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Smooth
/r/askTRP17/09/20 01:33 PM
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Try RPT from Leangains
/r/askTRP27/08/20 12:44 AM
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Hey guys, I am fucking this HB20, she said she’s gonna get the money I own her or she’s gonna burn my house, on Monday she threw plates at me and said she was gonna kill herself. Is she LTR material? P.S.: We have a baby together.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 12:41 AM
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I agree with this, however, you can’t put the emotional baggage into someone else, you know the people you can be vulnerable with, however you need to deal with your emotions and feel them alone, then if people love you, they will support you, but be responsible of your own emotions first and then ask for help if it is needed.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/20 06:50 PM
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Well, I agree with 100% on this post. But I learned the hard way that is not good to bottle up emotions. And you can tell women about something that happened ONLY if it doesn’t affect you anymore. From a place of stoicism, like a “yeah, that happened, I’m still alive and well, want a beer?” don’t let your guard down, so everyday, take care of your emotions so you don’t put the burden on others.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/20 06:44 PM
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I have blocked all my exes, better walk away.
/r/askTRP12/08/20 10:32 PM
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Saved! I am somewhat confused tho, because you really need people to achieve your mission, the mechanic, the cashier, everyone could be of service to you, but I think I understand that if you really believe in your mission and give something valuable to the world, people will come in to help you. Being grateful doesn’t mean to be a heel licker. Being grateful means to work hard and achieve what you can while you live. Get together with people who help you grow and lead them with your mission.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/20 07:12 PM
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This is a tale as old as the bible, break up with her, breaks don't fix a relationshit. She wants to fuck someone else, she doesn't have respect for you.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 05:46 AM
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I think the main point is that is a experiment, you can say whatever you want in a playful tone, but this looks more like aiming to the neck, like when a girl tells you, you suck or that her ex was better than you, that is not shit test that is being a cunt due to her self-steem. Which it could be OP’s narcissistic trait, but oh well who am I to judge.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/20 03:44 PM
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Being an asshole with extra steps. He’s got a point, but I think it is better if naturally you shittest them, because you see yourself as a high value man, not just to test if girls are insecure.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/20 01:21 PM
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I recently lived in a kind of hell for me. Where I was in front of my fears, weaknesses, pathetic behaviour and all of that of which I’m not proud. And you have to accept it, you have to enter hell, so you can go back to heaven with a new given gift. Look up the Hero’s Journey.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/20 05:19 PM
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I think Meditation can be added to this list, in order to be aware of your behaviour and bring it to your attention and focus you need to start meditation. Also is a great tool to slow things down. OP, with what you’re describing it looks like you’re running from or looking for something and usually the answer to that is the same for both cases. Stay safe. Keep improving
/r/askTRP25/07/20 03:10 AM
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This worked for me, I feel great
/r/askTRP15/07/20 01:00 AM
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I used to date women like the ones you describe, until i married one and after the divorce I kept dating those until I hit a BPD chick that got me bad. What I have gathered throughout the years is that you are not emotionally stable, that doesn’t mean you’re broken, so I will ask you a couple of questions: When you see a girl like this, do you have the desire to save them? Or maybe you say to yourself, “if she would change x or y she would be perfect”? Do you in some way act like you demand some…
/r/askTRP09/07/20 01:27 AM
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Woo take it easy Mr. Chad Thundercock
/r/askTRP02/07/20 03:29 PM
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Also, women for evolutionary purposes have vetted aggresive and feral men due to conservation of children( this has made us more rational). However, it could be a combination of 3 things. A previous altercation fear, motherly instincts, and she wanted out. Nothing the man could fix now, he’s protecting.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 02:33 AM
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TRUE. I can add that if you feel lonely or are actually alone is because you didn’t build strong bonds with people. I know feeling vulnerable in front of people might seem dangerous but the more you do it, more you will feel strong in that state and you will be surprised how many people will offer you support.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/20 03:05 PM
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What to do when your father is a bad person? When he wants to destroy your mother through their children, with no signs of empathy. And until this day he doesn’t regret the domestic violence, the abandonment and the betrayal done to us. What to do then? He’s your father, you can’t remove him, you will be united, you don’t have control over that. However, I think you have control over you, accepting you had a bad person as a father is the first step to his redemption in your head.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/20 11:42 PM
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Ok so I think I will get downvoted but here goes: You cannot repress emotions, they will come to bite you hard, I believe that is what happened on this story and so many more, you cannot say “be a rock and never get to feel” because we are fucking humans. The best thing you can do is have someone and somewhere to be vulnerable, for me, is my therapist, my brother and closest friends. However, you can also talk about these things with your LTR but from a place “I’m working on it”, making jokes to…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/20 07:17 PM
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That’s the thing, Abundance is a part of a biological frame of men, it’s part of our nature too. However, having a family is ingrained as well, LTR’s are hard mode pussy, so if you want to start one, go ahead, but do it from a place of abundance and good frame, maybe you’re feeling this way because you haven’t found any girl to share more than a fuck, or someone you genuinely like. Keep doing what you’re doing and be critical, don’t consume or do something just because you read it on a forum, ma…
/r/askTRP04/06/20 04:38 AM
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I can add one more to this: There are some things that gave you disgust or repudiate yourself, if it is your aggressiveness, your pussy behavior, your beta framing, the one that has thought about killing, all these are you, and you have to accept them and learn from them without repressing them, because they will become even bigger obstacles to achieving your goals.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 04:57 PM
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There was a post about this in here with all the types of dates
/r/askTRP28/05/20 02:13 PM
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Sidebar
/r/askTRP14/05/20 04:29 PM
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I agree 100% with this and I can give you am example. I have a friend that was constantly insulting me while we were playing videogames ocasionally, it got bad so I removed myself from the situation. After some time passed he posted something in our group chat, so I encouraged him to make a blog out of it. The guy did, and now all this resentment was removed all of a sudden. I think a true alpha is meant to construct communities and civilizations, gaining people through respect.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/20 07:58 PM
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Yes! This comment is gold, she will try to talk about your relationship but do not fall into the trap, only logistics, even if what she says makes you mad. Try to be rational and mature on this.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 07:08 PM
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Thank you, I needed to hear this today.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 03:36 PM
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This. Agree and amplify is so underrated and is a skill that will help you with everything, say yes to everything, and then make it ridiculous. However, there are times where you just need to agree and then ignore, change subject. Agree is a way to say that you’re comfortable not being perfect. I also use these responses: Is everything okay at home? This works all the time, because basically you are pointing that the behavior is erratic and nothing to do with you. I use this when the insult is r…
/r/askTRP05/05/20 10:23 PM
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OP, Pretty good comments overall and spot-on. I would say that you need a little jump, just that tweak and that is how you phrased the question: “How I become more likeable?” and an alpha doesn’t care if people like him or not, so try to look inside and see if you are trying to be a likeable person, which is more urgent that you dettach from other people’s approval. Once you’ve done that, you need to be charismatic “The charisma myth” is a great book to start with. On the way you will lose frien…
/r/askTRP30/04/20 11:38 PM
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This is the important part, you put yourself first. Women will always try to deive you away from your mission.
/r/askTRP28/04/20 04:23 PM
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I had this same problem, you have to look at yourself and see if you are imbalanced, that means asking: Do I feel attracted to the type of girls that are damaged so I can save them? Do I feel good when a girl says she can trust me with her issues? Have I sabotaged previous relationships by being beta just to victimize myself and get attention? Do I feel like I can save them from something or someone? Am I getting attracted to girls that crave attention? Now, once you have defined that, take a lo…
/r/askTRP27/04/20 11:02 PM
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You can post this to asktrp and maybe they can help you with this. But yeah: 1. Lift 2. Get your ass off the couch 3. Lift Lift will help you with confidence and that shitty mentality. But most of all find your purpose.
/r/RedPillBooks23/04/20 03:34 PM
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Calisthenic Movement Advanced Program (Handstands, Mobility) fully recommended. Been working on my second album, almost finished, learning to write it on music sheets Adopting morning routine as religion: 1 hour piano, 1 hour guitar, 1/2 hour voice, 1/2 hour meditation Trying to go to bed early (This shit is difficult as fuck for me) still learning. Working some overtime to not get fired, some coworkers were left out recently. Fucking reading (this one is tough due to audiobooks around) I left G…
/r/askTRP19/04/20 05:51 AM
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Ok so, that edit doesn’t put things into perspective, I know TRP is amoral and what you did is on the playbook. But the mentality: “well my sister is a piece of shit so I’m gonna be a piece of shit with her” doesn’t work for anyone involved. This is something that doesn’t help you or your family grow, the trust is gone, so I’m gonna ask you 2 questions, but they don’t need a response: 1. Are you constantly sabotaging yourself and your relationships? 2. Do you like to suffer and eat shit so you c…
/r/askTRP17/04/20 10:31 PM
8

This. Is. On. Point.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 10:24 PM
2

I used Self Authoring program by Jordan Peterson, it has helped me so much, to reveal who I am, what I want, all my goals and how to achieve them.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 08:33 PM
7

Even Osmosis can’t do the trick, pesticides on water can also affect your balls, charcoal filter should be there as well, Dr. Tracy Gapin expands on how to optimize and take care of your balls.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 12:46 AM
1

This is well put, however, it is on the line of ideology but not quite, ideology is often constructed along the lines of dogmatism and Redpill is not like that. You read, you experience and then you internalize. Where we need to make the distinction here is that is not a set of truths or laws, we are dealing with theories, a couple here and there confirmed by studies in the same category, however you need (and I and the redpill theory cannot stress this enough) to be critical with everything is …
/r/askTRP06/04/20 08:49 PM
2

It’s part of growing, and also learning to recognize our own toxic behavior. Thanks for the support. Good thing is, everything worked out for the best. Stay safe bro.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/20 04:17 AM
5

Ok so one of my ex-girlfriends was crazy as fuck, so when I decided to break up with her, I did it on my house, BIG FUCKING mistake. Have you ever been forced to be locked in your house by a psycho? Well she did that, because if I step out of my house, according to her she “would destroy and burn everything in it”, I was scared, I saw the intention in her eyes, so I said, “I will suit you for that” and she threaten me to tell everyone I raped her, which I couldn’t even comprehend how she managed…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/20 07:33 PM
15

Good OP, this is the final goal. Go build an amazing life.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/20 07:18 PM
22

I might need some link on this fam
/r/TheRedPill24/03/20 11:33 PM
2

I think this is a symptom of something underlying about respect from her to you. This is no disrespect because everyone can do whatever with their bodies, but she doesn’t respect you in any ways and subconcsiously is trying to sabotage your relationship by changing her color without asking you nor letting you know. Look for the cause. Have you lost frame? Have you been too comfortable? Her pink hair is telling you she wants the fuck out.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 04:16 PM
12

This. This is the answer, also OP is in a dichotomy because he doesn't know about text game and the only way he was able to communicate with women it was through compliments. OP, sincerely, get a life. Find your mission, become that person you always wanted to be. Learn about game and you'll see how those pieces of the puzzle come together.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 03:37 PM
2

This is spot-on bro. This new mindset has flourished recently because I’ve noticed that many girls value my skills in certain areas where other girls don’t. And has given me freedom because I prefer to be authentic than changing for someone. Thank you bro. I will use this.
/r/askTRP21/03/20 08:13 PM
1

I have this fucking mental blockage too. “Out of my league” is something I’m continuously concerned. However, raising SMV and abundance has helped me attain a better level of confidence and going “let’s get rejected” and be on my game without pressure
/r/askTRP21/03/20 02:27 PM
7

Exactly, she's feeling it. Keep going OP. Nice work on how you handled that shit test. Let this be an example that your insta/facebook/snapchat, etc. is yours and you are the only one who has the right to post, like or follow whatever you want.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 10:08 PM
9

Yes, I am in that situation as well, and as smv goes, normally girls only date up or cross, sometimes low but is not the norm. However, my point is, be selective, fuck with someone whom actually you see attractive and plate the ones that are willing to let you lead and have fun. If you aim too low it will damage your SMV, it will damage the girl and so on. It is like if a girl is a whore, she is damaging the beta who fucks her because he thinks his game is top notch and that doesn’t help anyone’…
/r/askTRP17/03/20 12:53 AM
55

Also, there are a lot of handsome and high smv guys fucking whatever gets in front of them, elevating the perception of the girl’s SMV and then they ask why aren’t good men out there. Be selective please.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 10:41 PM
0

Thanks everyone for their comments! I will now proceed to calibrate myself. I really thank you for guiding me.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 01:40 PM
2

I will remember these words, thank you brother
/r/askTRP10/03/20 08:28 AM
1

This smells like incel a little bit. Not always looks matter, you have to be top of the hierarchy so women that are interested in the hierarchy you’re in, they select you. So yeah a great body helps but it should not be the aim of your life. You have to enrich it with other things, being integral and use your capacities also to help your community. That is what redpill is. You being the core of improvement. With that being said, we’re also social animals and as other animals we also have social …
/r/TheRedPill09/03/20 03:16 PM
6

I’m a musician so this is important to me: Hans Zimmer - Interstellar He is one of the great composers, top quality, changed the film music industry and for me, he changed my life. Since I listened to this, everyday is practice after practice to get near my dream to do a film score. Radiohead - Live from the basement The band, the album, the production and the performance on this dvd are one of the greatest I’ve seen. It changed my perspective in music from sound, to expression, to performance. …
/r/TheRedPill06/03/20 05:42 AM
1

Yes, that also works. But what I can take of that book is that you have to develop the ability to talk to anyone, display value while staying humble and create something to invite her for a second date.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/20 03:18 PM
5

I read the mystery method and while it is good to check the system, it is outdated, but all game principles are based on his system. I would then jump to RSD Max material and Julien. Then read “the way of the wolf” once you have it internalized. Read about kino escalation as well. Bang by Roosh has kind of good principles on first dates, however is like a complement. Edit: changed Roissy to Roosh
/r/TheRedPill03/03/20 02:52 AM
40

This is on point. Game is not about tricking chicks or run routines(which is its point for selling) is about been social and have a great time within the boundaries of social behavior. It’s like having training wheels for social behavior: you learn how to display value while being humble, you learn how to tell stories, you learn about body language and how it is 80% of the conversation, you learn how to be reserved and mysterious and adapt everything to your essence. You will realize that in ord…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/20 12:47 AM
1

Yes. This. My man.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/20 03:19 PM
5

I liked one of the responses here: Remove yourself from the situation, fuck a plate you wanted and then come home. This will help you get your mind straight on what this LTR means to you and if you’re gonna take shit from her.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/20 02:28 PM
14

So OP, how the other OP should have handled it? I think his response on thinking about it and then confronting her is not at all bad since he was not going to be overly dramatic. However, I would’ve downgraded her to plate since it is disrespectful shit.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/20 02:06 PM
5

This is a good point, but you are able to measure her interest in you if she offers another day available. If not, then she wasn’t hooked up from the beginning
/r/askTRP10/02/20 10:36 PM
8

I know that feeling bro, I’ve been there, the problem with assessing and trying to change ways on yourself is seen as a path to improvement, eventhough these are good subjects of study, the core of what you’re doing is seeing what you’re doing wrong so you can change it and people stop ignoring you, right? But what if I tell you that you will lose your authentic self while in the process. Hear me out on this, this is important: The sacrifice you make for being authentic and accept yourself is th…
/r/askTRP09/02/20 08:25 PM
33

You did a post about it, so you’re craving their attention, start working on your inner game and how to develop your authenticity, so you can stop trying to prove to people you are worthy.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 07:21 PM
0

Yup, also OP after YOU GET A JOB, check your testosterone levels, it looks like your levels are low and should be low due to all the smoking. However, if all is good, then see a therapist. You have so much fucking going on that might be overwhelming.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 12:27 AM
1

mini-golf, laser tag and coffee are my go-to.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 08:03 PM
-24

“I am not looking at it, you’re putting it in front of my observational field, geez”
/r/askTRP05/02/20 07:25 AM
2

Cool, the thing is that it works for me, but yeah, so long as you are actually fucking 2-3 on the regular I think is valid to have it that way.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 09:10 PM
0

I agree with almost everything except the plates part, according to Rollo “Spinning Plates doesn’t necessarily mean you’re fucking all of your plates. It’s more of a spreading out of your efforts across a wider pool of subjects.” And this is key to people new to Redpill and I talk about in a place of personal experience when I started game, I was able to feel the abundance because I have many prospects and targets. Continuously working on your game is what helps you feel abundance.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 07:38 PM
8

Yes, check out this about responsibility (4:15 forward) Men are made, that’s the beauty. As long as we’re not dead, we can change our lives. You have to take responsibility of your actions and deal with the consequences. You have to touch bottom so you can go up and redeem yourself and being reborn into a man you’re proud of, a man that can lead and be reliable, a man with a mission. It will hurt and you will suffer but you will end up growing, because you can be fine in this life with mediocre …
/r/askTRP03/02/20 08:49 PM
4

Well I can break it to you. It goes like this: -Openers: -Posting a wink gif with someone who doesnt know how to wink and adding: “I don’t know how to wink” always gets response or a chuckle. “I know this profile is fake but can you give me the name of the model from the pics to send her a message?” if there is a picture with a dog “You look cute, your human is not bad”. Developers: “what’s my tinder crush doing?” Or “right now I am talking to my tinder crush, I think she might like me, what sho…
/r/askTRP01/02/20 06:41 AM
5

Tinder is a female validation tool, so if you keep the bait happy (the girls) they will constantly open up these apps. I have a script that has got me laid and got some plates out of it. However, these are mainly chicks with low self steem sometimes just looking for revenge sex or a hook-up. 20% of the time works all the time.
/r/askTRP01/02/20 12:16 AM
3

Go to r/ marriedredpill subreddit
/r/askMRP31/01/20 03:19 PM
1

Yeah, it is hard when people disagree after you make suggestions since in order to go along with what you want, you have to convince them, and I am not a fan of walking along those lines. I guess I will start detaching from the group, that’s what you sacrifice if you want to be authentic.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 02:24 PM
3

This is great advice, sometimes I just give a fuck too much.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 10:02 PM
7

Yes, 19 yo are volatile and child-like in some cases, I married one, in my no red pill years, it is better to give it at least more than a year to start thinking about a relationship, also you need to make sure you live together prior marriage, go to askMRP subreddit and see all the miserable things they go through, so use one of the iron rules by Tomassi: Iron Rule of Tomassi #4 NEVER under any circumstance live with a woman you aren’t married to or are not planning to marry in within 6 months.…
/r/askTRP06/01/20 02:51 PM
1

This is a relatively good study since there has been a lot more about gossip being the form of aggresion for women, for men is more physical. What is good about this is that the fem-centric society we live in is now seeing that women are also aggresive.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/20 03:40 AM
152

“Give me a kiss and give him something to talk about” Added to my frame.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/20 08:45 PM
2

I see this as reasonable, and I’m not trying to invalidate your point here, but sometimes people are scared, objectively it sounds like the fucking best thing to do but inside your head, sometimes, you need someone that tells you: “jump”
/r/askTRP03/01/20 10:46 PM
1

No, remember the power of pre-selection, according to Mystery Method they are your lever to achieve better looking girls, use them as your advantage, if they are your friends you can kind of use them as “wingmen”
/r/askTRP03/01/20 10:44 PM
28

Yes, the commonality is a huge thing since they only have high school experience, 18-22 are joyful, relaxing and easy, however they are not reliable so enjoy while it lasts. I recommend you reading Preventive Medicine - Rollo Tomassi which will help you in calibrating some game for age range.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 03:11 PM
3

Ok, here’s my 2 cents. Only 1 person mentioned this, you lack assertiveness. You could read the book “When I say no I feel guilty.” According to the book you could’ve gone with: - “You’re right I’m a boy, what can I do to make myself a man?” - “What is wrong with being a boy?” The bomb would have been defused. On my experience I can give you other options: “You are being disrespectful, is everything okay at (work,home, me)?” Agree and Amplify I think that in any hierarchy you should tell people …
/r/askTRP28/12/19 02:22 PM
13

Also OP, if you think you deserve to be treated in a certain way, remember that respect is earned, once you truly don’t give a fuck and nod and smile to negative people and brighten everyone’s day. You will be a leading force. Right now you are in the phase where everyone needs to test you to see if you are congruent inside and out until you earn your place because you intimidate them, keep going: “XV. Maintain your state control You are an oak tree. You will not be manipulated by crying, yellin…
/r/askTRP19/12/19 02:04 AM
3

I’ve had so many issues with posture, found out I had anterior pelvic tilt and sway back. I fixed it with squats and doing lots of core exercises. Core is one of the most important things, for the head and hunched back I used Calisthenic Movement program, not only it resolved my back contractures but also helped with mobility and posture.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 05:26 AM
7

This. OP, gtfo. You might say: “but these are only suppositions on her behavior” yet you mentioned she is acting differently towards you and out of respect for yourself you deserve more from a LTR, now go back to your old girls and slay them. This isn’t working for me is a great line, look out for yourself.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 07:35 PM
1

This. With just a couple of months in TRP, it is too difficult to digest everything, you have to internalize TRP. I know you do a lot of things but how much of that is demonstrative towards women vs. For your own enjoyment. Also, you gotta learn GAME, game and frame is everything even if you don’t have the looks, you’re on the anger phase, have a read: The 5 stages of unplugging
/r/TheRedPill09/12/19 02:51 PM
2

Hahahhahahhahahah this!
/r/askTRP08/12/19 06:54 AM
1

Hahah well I believe that I didn’t write quite well the situation but she’s not his girlfriend, eventhough TRP is amoral, I’d find that disturbing to do.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 06:01 AM
3

:O
/r/askTRP08/12/19 12:46 AM
-1

Of course not, however I need to see her reaction on this, on the other hand, my brother is really defensive with me on this kind of things so if I ask him he would likely tell me to fuck off because he’s resented with me for other things that I did to him when we were growing up.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 12:36 AM
7

Yeah, you’re right.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 11:04 PM
-4

Why not? I mean if he says they fucked and then she says they didn’t I will always believe my brother, if he says no, then I will still tell him so he will stop being her orbiter.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 10:51 PM
-1

Exactly, I think I might check today what comes out of them going out and ask her and him if they fucked, that way I might be able to have facts on my supossitions and next her if needed.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 10:16 PM
1

Thanks bro, you’re right. Respect to myself.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 10:52 PM
1

That’s the thing, plates are from other contexts or other activities, this is someone I know from friends and something I love that is music, so I might need to restart other place
/r/askTRP03/12/19 10:51 PM
1

Amen brother.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 09:43 PM
1

Thank you for your words, I really needed to hear that, I think meditation can help on all points, I will integrate those to my sessions.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 09:40 PM
2

Hahahah have your fucking upvote
/r/TheRedPill18/11/19 08:51 PM
4

Yes, that’s why TRP always endorses to work on yourself and get better with passion since that on itself is dread working for you on the relationship
/r/TheRedPill14/11/19 04:48 PM
5

I don’t think control of something/someone is the response here, the only person you have control over is YOU, so in this case if she wants to go to Europe with friends, then coincidentally you will invite that friend she doesn’t like to a party you will throw while she’s gone. If she wants to go to drink coffee with an ex, then you were asked to teach that HB8 of a coworker to rock climbing, implement dread instead of ultimatums.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/19 03:49 PM
2

thanks man, really needed to hear that
/r/askTRP30/10/19 04:55 PM
3

OP, read this. This is a great synopsis about your behavior. It was not rude what you said but you still have some things to work on.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 01:07 PM
2

part of Mystery Method is to have a casual date and have them trust you by moving them, whether it is from a club to another club or a meet area to her place.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 06:14 AM
7

This. Keep the dread. She’s feeling it. She is reacting to you so I think she’s more concerned about you leaving than fucking other guys, however, AWALT, keep an eye out and she’s not yours, it’s just your turn.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 04:00 AM
3

I don’t know, do you like to hang out with them? Are you interested in building a friendship with them? Can they help you become a better man? Remember that your enemies and friends make you stronger since you need competition to improve so, choose wisely.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 03:51 AM
7

First of all, start reading more because your redaction is not very good. Yes, you’re not a threat to them, however the narrative must be changed, because if you want to have alpha traits, remember that the alpha doesn’t play games since he is above all of them, they should not be a threat to you because you should be confident in your skills and have abundance, maintaining your frame. So, in this case, you are reacting to them because you feel threatened by them, you are a little bit insecure o…
/r/askTRP29/10/19 03:34 AM
7

After this kind of situation, the question: “What could I have done differently to avoid this?” Always comes up. You could have done the following: - Go out in a date with that chick that flirts with you and she doesn’t like. - Stopped treating her like a princess and start dreading. You could have done a lot of things that could probably work, but if she chose to put herself in that situation, you are basically with your hands tied, she wanted it to happen, maybe consciously or not, she lost he…
/r/askTRP21/10/19 05:53 PM
25

So this is how your dad was supposed to talk to you. Now go back there and start making and being awesome!
/r/askTRP08/10/19 07:54 AM
6

There is an old guy that respond to you on why, but I will underline it: Experience and game. Clearly you are seeing now that game reigns over other things. This guy probably has a rock hard frame and you are here pouting over her, maybe he fucked her and made her squirt for the first time or maybe fucked her while traveling, maybe she has daddy issues and he treats her like her little girl. It doesn’t matter, what you can do now is to get over yourself, read Rational Male one more time, read ou…
/r/askTRP07/10/19 02:16 PM
1

Yes, it’s like I got caught in the act exactly. I will brush it off as you said.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 03:49 PM
1

Hahahahahaha I liked this one
/r/askTRP06/10/19 03:48 PM
4

Your best bet for a quick fix is to reframe the situation, instead of thinking: “man, I’m the side plate and she’s with another guy” think in terms of: “good, I am a plate so that means I can fuck anyone and she wouldn’t mind, I wonder what she thinks about threesomes with her friends...” make your dick happy.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 07:36 AM
1

Improve your self-esteem and confidence in yourself, make sure to read again Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi and internalize the concept of hypergamy, also read any posts about Outcome independence and you are the prize posts. Make sure you have abundance and try to see her less. Hard next until you find disrespect or things don’t go as you lead.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 07:29 AM
17

Yes! It is called Plate Spinning, go read the sidebar or at least Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 07:25 AM
1

Thank you bro! I really needed to hear this, it could be beta me resisting dark triad behavior.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 05:08 AM
1

Yes, beta me feeling the womenz feeeeeelzz
/r/askTRP06/10/19 05:07 AM
2

Thank you man! You are right!
/r/askTRP06/10/19 05:06 AM
2

Dude, you gotta read mystery method, if you want a girlfriend, looks like it went fine, but second or third date and you don’t kiss, please next her. Wait for 3 days to send her an interesting message and setup logistics, do not create rapport throught text.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 02:49 AM
28

TRP.Red is the website created for this
/r/TheRedPill01/10/19 04:23 PM
4

Great classic! Thanks for bring it up again.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/19 03:13 AM
1

I think it is very good overall but you are lacking specificity like “let’s do x. Pick you up at y time. Hope you bring a pen.” That will make you lead and spike her curiosity.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 09:15 PM
3

Yes, you are right, it is also mentioned in the book of pook. I think I’ll stick to that.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 10:43 PM
1

Thanks man! I really appreciate it.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 08:15 PM
1

This is what I always do haha for self-amusement purposes, I’m always talkative and enjoying myself, the thing is it looks like I should get out of my head and not give a fuck about them when things don’t go as I have envisioned
/r/askTRP25/09/19 07:23 PM
1

What if she screams? /s
/r/askTRP25/09/19 06:02 PM
2

Yeah, you’re right, I have come accross a couple like that. In these cases, they let me touch them but they are not close or leaning on to me. I think the main issue as I have read in other comments is that I give a fuck about what they are thinking so that could’ve lead into some obnoxious behavior on my end, killing the mood.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 03:51 PM
2

Nice! Thank you man!
/r/askTRP25/09/19 03:17 PM
1

Thanks man, however I think even if she is an introvert, I am the prize so she might as well show something that makes me want to stay in any way.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 02:57 PM
2

That is a great point, but as I described she is not engaged in the interaction, to let me continue with escalation. I have interacted with women you describe but at least they are moving forward with me in the interaction(body language, IOI,kino), but these type of cases are different, hence my question. However you make a great point in I should not give a fuck and if she doesn’t want to engage in any way I can gtfo.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 02:52 PM
1

For a first date, it’s not worth it
/r/askTRP25/09/19 02:20 PM
-2

Well, I was thinking about that on the lines of: “hey, it’s been nice and all but it seems like you are not interested at all in this, so I will pay and leave.”
/r/askTRP25/09/19 02:19 PM
2

Ghettos is only an example of places where violence is key to survive, that involves war over drugs, locations, power. So if you’re a woman that lives in these kind of places with your children, you need protection. Women on proximity might get affected but not necessarily. So in this case, even if women don’t live in these places, the traits exhibited by a psychopath guarantees protection, leadership and manipulation which will be inherited by their offspring
/r/TheRedPill23/09/19 07:13 AM
1

I think I can help because I was dependent on this some time ago. The trick here is to ask yourself prior any decision 4 questions: 1. Who am I?: this will help you see yourself in this specific moment, your emotions and dreams. 2. What do I want? 3. What do I need? 4. What do I deserve? It’s tough because sometimes external validation disguises as a need or want, but using meditation you might recognize when this happens. Have a nice journey my friend.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 05:35 PM
28

Yes! Or also “The psychopath inside: A neuroscientist’s personal journey to the dark side of the brain”. So OP, I would like to break down how a psychopath becomes a serial killer, it’s because of 3 factors: 1) Doesn’t have the neural network turned on to feel empathy like we do. 2) Warrior gene: A gene that allows combat with no remorse 3) Environmental stress So, what is the evolutionary advantage for nature to create this people? The answer is war. We have been fighting each other since ancie…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/19 01:07 PM
7

Amen brother, I can give testament to that.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 04:17 AM
63

This. It’s a covert way of communication that they are/were riding the cock carousel. I now see them as used items, you can pump and dump them at your own risk.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 09:32 PM
1

Nah bro, I hope I get millionaire and better at my life. That’s it.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 07:52 PM
19

Late to the party but I have one, my ex-wife. We got divorced because she started going out with a guy at her job. Few months later, already divorced, we started seeing each other again. After paying a whole vacation weekend, next week she dumped me (TRP me knows now why), so I sent her this butthurt message stating that she tricked me into it (smh). 2 days later she started a relationship with the same guy we broke our marriage. Nice days.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 02:32 AM
1

The hopes of my enemies with milk. Joking aside, intermittent fasting is the way to go.
/r/askTRP01/09/19 06:38 PM
4

I am with you on this, that’s how you build frame, it is to your own amusement, The resilience you get out of it will maximize any other encounters in the vicinity, it teaches you outcome independence, being secure if yourself as well as not being butthurt. Have fun. The only exception to this is don’t shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 04:58 AM
38

Totally with you on this. This happened to me a few weeks ago. Feminist: “I believe men do not resolve anything, they rely too much on their moms and women in their life to resolve things “ Me: I might need to differ with you there. What about Elon Musk, Tesla, Newton? Feminist: “What do you know about this if you are a man “ Everyone on the table including her friends looked at her like “wtf dude”. Feminist (realizing what a motherfucking sexist comment that was) : okay, it might be true what y…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/19 01:27 PM
1

I wish this was fake, but I know it isn’t because I was banging a girl whose boyfriend asked her to “brush her teeth” after she met with me. We even had sex one time and her boyfriend knock our door telling her he was leaving. The cuckoldry is real and this generation is fucked.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/19 02:49 PM
1

I thought about this, but what would you do if this situation happens around friends? Would you be quiet? Command respect?
/r/TheRedPill29/07/19 07:21 PM
1

This.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 07:52 PM
3

Have my upvote
/r/askMRP22/07/19 09:12 PM
1

Thanks, I will read it.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 04:39 PM
1

How come?
/r/askTRP03/07/19 04:39 PM
1

This is a very good point, thanks. I will try this.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 01:52 AM
1

Sounds like she really just wants your girlfriend you may be right, however we've had some party nights where both are drunk and her friend refuses, so I'm not sure.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 08:12 PM
7

I didn't know we were angry...
/r/TheRedPill01/07/19 09:39 PM
3

“Much to learn, you still have.”
/r/askTRP23/06/19 04:53 PM
1

I really really like your analisys, thanks man! I will go lift now.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 05:47 PM
1

Of course, theory without practice is futile, but practice without theory is entropy.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 05:18 PM
3

You’re right brother.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 04:51 PM
-1

I have, just this behavior makes me question certain things about the theory, and reinforce Rollo’s theories even more.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 04:40 PM
1

I like this reponse, it may be due to her insecurities and epiphany that she needed to grant the commitment, I wouldn’t be surprised if he gets cuckolded.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 04:34 PM
0

She posted it on her insta
/r/askTRP20/06/19 04:06 PM
6

I think I can help here. I am a musician and have been in different choirs. I started as a baritone. I wanted to be a Bass, so my director told me about the exercises explained in the post along with taking Zinc(which I don’t recommend), doing these mongolian voice techniques (which are intended to be done really little ‘cause they can hurt your voice) and speaking consciously in a bass register. Lo and behold after 1 year he just transferred me to Bass. Also, as a musician pointed out, projecti…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/19 12:24 PM
12

This is actually worrisome, while feminism is on the rise and men are submitted not only by their partners but also by the law, female libido is going down. If this keeps going we will have more suicide amongst men, females unhappy and sexless and will be a no children land, our species will be in danger. Good thing we have the redpill, we are the resistance, we love women, but we also love positive masculinity, that is the right balance for our next generations, keep it up guys!
/r/TheRedPill05/05/19 05:23 PM
2

Oh man I lol’d at this one. Have your upvote.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 12:54 AM
1

Yes, you are right. You put it in better words that I could.
/r/askMRP28/04/19 10:15 PM
0

Please post to r/askmrp, you will have more chance with your marriage there, since the whole theme is to regain frame with your spouse.
/r/askMRP25/04/19 01:13 PM
24

Yeah, we really need to take care of ourselves.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/19 03:37 PM
1

Got it captain, thank you!
/r/askTRP17/04/19 05:00 AM
2

You’re definitely right, but here it is where I’m not well calibrated: if I show them signs of attraction and they don’t act on them because they only see me as a friend, should I abandon ship? Or maybe they see me I’m kinda joking when I show it? Should I push more then, show more intent if we were friends at the beggining?
/r/askTRP17/04/19 04:55 AM
4

Read Day Bang by Roosh. Sidebar material.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 02:13 PM
1

Link to jackten’s article?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/19 08:28 PM
2

I have read this comment like 100 times. Thank you for your words kind sir, may a squadron of beautiful vaginas find their way to your crotch by day’s end
/r/askMRP04/03/19 07:22 PM
1

My faggotry will seek its way out, have a good day kind sir.
/r/askMRP04/03/19 01:29 PM
1

Didn’t see it this way, this adds a new perspective
/r/askMRP04/03/19 01:26 PM
1

I am bulking right now, goal is 70kg at 10% bodyfat using leangains method.
/r/askMRP04/03/19 04:24 AM
3

Thank you. I will STFU now.
/r/askMRP02/03/19 03:02 PM
3

Thank you!
/r/askMRP02/03/19 02:46 PM
5

You are right, eventhough I have been on my mission everyday I haven’t been focused on it, mindful about it. I am overthinking her reactions, moves, body language to a point it is exhausting. That is why I write these posts. They are enlighting, I need to bring my attention to me. And that is why I will always thank you kind stranger.
/r/askMRP02/03/19 02:44 PM
1

Continue with the next dread level, from 12 levels of dread thread
/r/askMRP02/03/19 02:37 PM
5

This is true application of the theory. I have so much to learn.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 06:00 PM
3

This is fucking gold
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/19 07:11 PM
1

Yeah, that is what happening, grinds my gears everytime I forget something even if it is something minimal and she points it out, but thanks for the advice.
/r/askMRP05/02/19 05:37 PM
2

Well this has been a challenge and an improvement for me. If everything goes south, so be it. What I’m looking for is improvement and it looks like I need too much. Would like her to stay to keep improving.
/r/askMRP04/02/19 08:08 PM
2

Thanks man! That example really opened my eyes on what I should be doing.
/r/askMRP04/02/19 08:06 PM
2

Eventhough most comments are on point, I like this one since it helps me with vision, and plan a roadmap. Thanks brother!
/r/askMRP04/02/19 02:37 PM
2

Thanks man, I certainly will. Thank you for so much wisdom.
/r/askMRP04/02/19 01:31 AM
4

Thanks! I really needed this! I will not defend myself on this. I will take these bullets as a man and own it. However, not all of this applies so I will take what works for me. This redpill relationship is new for me, and I am glad I have this community as a support.
/r/askMRP03/02/19 11:23 PM
1

Thanks man, hearing this, instills more security in me that this is a shit test and I should do what I want. I will be more into leadership but not the way she wants.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 09:33 PM
2

Hahaha yes! That is why I need this sub, I need to learn to read between the lines.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 09:11 PM
1

Thanks man! And yeah I am what I want to be now, I just want to get better. I might engage in more leading groups on my next LTR.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 05:54 PM
1

Not pouting. I have applied dread before. What do you consider to be the first point to work on me as a man?
/r/askTRP03/02/19 05:43 PM
3

Yes, that could be the case. If it ends, it ends. The reason I would like to stay is that an LTR has never challenged me this far and deep. I want to get better at being a leader.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 04:02 PM
1

IS NEVER OKAY. Please read this: https://therationalmale.com/2012/05/07/ultimatum/ Just Ghost her.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 03:23 PM
1

Yeah, that could be the case, however, FWB and plates have never complained about this, as a matter of fact they have always told me I am very good at it, since I am the one planning trips and everything. First time I lay back and got this from her. Maybe I need to be more focused or maybe I should brush it off and do my thing and don’t comply to her since I am not going to please her in everything that she feels. I am calibrating myself, first LTR after finding the redpill. Thanks for the advic…
/r/askTRP02/02/19 01:01 AM
1

Already read, any other material?
/r/askTRP01/02/19 10:09 PM
1

yeah, thanks, this is it.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 06:31 PM
2

I don't know or what do you want to do? It is not something I do after reading the sidebar, I normally do the decisions. I think it is only the initiative and the planning that I am lacking like what to bring to the beach or what kind of activities we will do, to bring a towel. I don't know, talking about this here I see is more bitchiness from her than anything, I have my faults and I have Owned MY SHIT when it is needed. Always procuring the image of a good captain. According to Roissy I need …
/r/askTRP01/02/19 06:27 PM
3

This is very well-thought, thanks!
/r/askTRP30/01/19 02:48 AM
2

It’s kinda sad, but look at it this way: Living as a blue pilled man, you received praise. That same people who “admired” you, is not present after your fall. Being blue pilled still made you fall. Do you prefer to grow in the same illusion receiving those fake “congratulations” for adhering to the system? Or do you prefer a “yeah, we did it!” from yourself. Now that you can see with your red pill eyes, confuses you because you are getting out of the system. You are not alone brother, you have y…
/r/askTRP03/01/19 07:56 AM
4

as some redditors have pointed out on this thread, the quote sounds better this way: She's not yours, it's just her turn ​
/r/askTRP12/12/18 04:09 PM
15

And even if she doesn’t regret it, OP will find his mission and get back on life.
/r/askTRP09/12/18 10:14 AM
8

This. It is all about frame, it will come naturally to you once you have a solid frame.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 04:17 PM
1

Thank you brother! I will start that now
/r/askTRP28/11/18 08:03 PM
3

Yeah, protect yourself, nobody’s gonna do it for you. You are entering drama, autism and bipolar disorder. Be wise.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 08:11 AM
19

This guy fucks
/r/askTRP28/10/18 04:07 PM
28

Yeah man, you did the right thing. Always protect yourself, nobody’s gonna do it for you.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 03:20 PM
3

upvote because this is comedy gold
/r/askTRP22/10/18 08:41 PM
1

fuck man, I just burst out laughing at this
/r/askTRP22/10/18 08:31 PM
2

My go to response is always: “When? Today? Mmm...No...”
/r/askTRP15/10/18 10:04 PM
2

Happened to me as well. Going monk mode helps as some of the comments have pointed out. But remember TRP is for men trying to improve. Women are only there in addition to your SMV. So keep going on your mission, you are entering the enlightenment where you see now what is really important for you.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 09:22 PM
4

I left NoFap when I came in like 5 seconds after starting penetration. No more, porn is the problem with dopamine, not masturbating.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 09:47 PM
1

Man, please stop with negativity, you need to focus on yourself because you seek advice but don’t accept any since you are always thinking about the downsides. For cold approach, in your case, I would recommend to talk to girls, just talk to them, not asking her out until you see a clear opportunity and you feel more comfortable in the situation and with yourself, also, talk to guys, make new friends since it looks like your social circle is not helping you. Talk to people about anything, look a…
/r/askTRP09/08/18 02:05 AM
10

According to Rollo Tomassi: “Ultimatums are declarations of powerlessness because you are resorting to a direct threat to get someone to do what you want them to, and in doing so you OVERTLY confess your weak position. If you were in a genuine position of control it wouldn’t be necessary to resort to an ultimatum; you’d simply use that control. There are many ways to effect a change in another person, but ultimatums will never prompt a genuine change. If they change behavior it’s prompted by the…
/r/askTRP20/07/18 08:34 PM
2

I don’t have too much information to see if there are any mistakes, but women will want to be with a High Value Man in an LTR, even if you didn’t do mistakes and you were honest upfront, she still wants to commit, and we, as men, are the guardians of commitment, so it’s nobody’s fault, if you don’t want to be in an LTR, next her.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 04:38 PM
1

e with that for 2 months but suddenly she changed and every date we have she cancels it. Lastly she said i should see my "alternatives" after she canceled. I see this as a "fix yourself on me or I will be gone" kind of thing, if you don't want LTR, you need to replace the plate and learn from mistakes.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 04:31 PM
4

Yeah, my mom’s doctor didn’t know if she was having a baby or just pooping, until I cried...
/r/askTRP15/07/18 06:35 PM
3

Thanks man, you are right. This helps.
/r/askTRP15/07/18 04:12 PM
0

As a matter of fact, we touched each other’s hair prior to that, also her thighs, hands, arms, she responded by touching my arms, shoulders, hair, I think something more but can’t remember, hence my confusion.
/r/askTRP15/07/18 03:46 PM
5

THIS. Do not ever bring up exclusivity before she does it.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 11:39 PM
2

Yeah man, oneitis, I’ve been there, is not easy, you need to stay away because you are her plate, and you developed feelings. Sorry bro but if you don’t want to get hurt and be treated like a fool you need to fuck other girls/focus on yourself. Huge red flags. Clearly this is not mutual.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 11:37 PM
1

I will admit I don’t want her, that is what I know, whether you believe me or not is not my problem.
/r/askTRP12/06/18 12:33 AM
2

Thanks man, you got to the point, one thing is to read the theory and other to implement it
/r/askTRP11/06/18 05:30 PM
1

Thanks man
/r/askTRP11/06/18 04:23 AM
1

Noted, removed, thanks
/r/askTRP11/06/18 02:07 AM
4

Or her dog, that will show her
/r/askTRP11/06/18 02:06 AM
1

Maybe I didn’t explain correctly but I don’t want that chick back, it was meant like a debate starter in order to understand a little bit more about the theory and what happens when you break frame or do something wrong and what should be the method to apply. As a redditor commented above, there is nothing left to do but thinking about “she is not yours, it’s just your turn”
/r/askTRP11/06/18 02:05 AM
2

Great actor, Johnny Sins too
/r/askTRP01/05/18 03:11 AM
7

Nobody has mentioned it: Breaking Bad A blue pill guy transformation into red pill (Heisenberg).
/r/askTRP01/05/18 02:56 AM
1

There is an option 3 though, find an event she might be interested in or something funny, get the event image/screenshot. After you send it, ask if she wants to join, remember you are a busy person and you are letting her be in your world. This works since the activity is in her interest and even if you were ok on the first interaction, she won’t mind spending that time with you.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 05:30 AM
1

Yes, you are right, same method has worked with others
/r/askTRP01/04/18 06:20 PM
2

Nah, I have other jobs to apply to
/r/askTRP28/03/18 06:06 AM
2

Who said I ran? I applied kino and escalated until she was pushed back hence my fucking question
/r/askTRP28/03/18 06:05 AM
-3

How? That is why I’m asking, shit test identified, not sure how to respond to it, I could say like “if it bothers you, it means you have considered it” but not so sure if it impacts. Other forms: “I thought you were decent” “You are such a dog, I couldn’t be with you”
/r/askTRP28/03/18 12:25 AM
6

Ghost, do not invest emotionally
/r/askTRP09/02/18 06:31 PM
1

Well I am fit, I make decent money and I’m a musician, the thing is everything needs to increase and also as you said, getting more social where hb9s congregate. Thanks man.
/r/askTRP23/01/18 05:51 AM
1

What do you mean?
/r/askTRP22/01/18 10:58 PM
3

So, just increase SMV?
/r/askTRP22/01/18 10:42 PM
1

Yes, if you stick to the recommended steps, if you don’t see any progress, you can contact me and I can give you a tip or two
/r/askTRP21/01/18 12:19 AM
1

Just lick that pussy up and make her come 10 times and see who submits
/r/askTRP20/01/18 07:06 PM
1

Jelqing has helped me a lot, rock hard erections r/jelqing My erection is better and harder and my dick wider. That and meditation have helped me to maintain fucking
/r/askTRP20/01/18 07:03 PM
1

Thanks man, I really appreciate it
/r/askTRP20/01/18 06:59 PM
1

Context: when receiving the checkmate with the condom, this is what she actually said: “I don’t know if you are seeing other people, but if you are, please put on a condom with me ‘cause I’m a little bit grossed by it”, I said nothing then she added “because I am only seeing you”
/r/askTRP20/01/18 06:09 PM
1

So in womanese how do I translate: “I am only seeing you” that was another detail I forgot to put up there.
/r/askTRP20/01/18 04:39 PM
2

Yes, I was thinking that ambiguity will feed women’s hamstering rather than being straight, it is better for her to create the story rather revealing everything at once. On the other hand she and I agreed just to fuck, so the one who wants more now is her.
/r/askTRP20/01/18 04:38 PM
2

This. You read it fantastically, first time I cheat but I was not sure why until I realized I was being a crutch for her and I was getting tired. I have been a blue pill crutch, white knight resolving all my girlfriends' lives, I am not like that anymore. I think she and I are going through different phases, it is best to break up because I think she might detain me from becoming a better man
/r/askTRP12/12/17 09:43 PM
1

If I keep fucking her she will be confused and desperate and will get more depressed, better to move on
/r/askTRP12/12/17 09:14 PM
0

I agree with your advice but the dominants want to be submitted it is just that they have high-end shit test, if I get to impose my frame to her she will become one of my plates
/r/askTRP04/11/17 05:25 PM
1

No no, it is not to prove to her, it is the room for action that I can create with her is really narrow, so I need something direct to create a wider space, as I said she is really evasive
/r/askTRP04/11/17 04:51 PM
2

I had this problem in the past, another thing you can do is to look at the eyes of the person and try to determine their eye color. This will give them the attention they need when talking and you will feel focused on their gaze.
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