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ApdoSenpai/r/askTRP19/02/20 06:07 PM
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1

Get both. When you can go to the first one then always go there if it’s too late or you need a quick work out, go to planet fitness. It’s only $5 a month, and you get the best of both worlds.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 04:19 PM
2

First of all what the fuck. This is the dumbest shit you could do. Clearly you enjoy digging in the trash. Anyways, just say I’m sorry I tried to kiss you wasn’t thinking, and only talk about your kids with her from now on. It’s about them now, don’t be the creep still trying to fuck his ex wife.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 08:54 PM
1

It’s her business, if you don’t fuck her someone else will. It’s really up to you, for some it’s too much drama and for others they don’t give a fuck. Personally, if it’s a friend of mine I wouldn’t. If it’s some guy I don’t know then it’s fair game.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 08:51 PM
7

Oneitis for a girl you probably didn’t even fuck...who cares focus on the business and grow it. Other women will come, this is their nature don’t act surprised
/r/askTRP28/10/20 08:49 PM
1

Don’t know because I deleted all personal social media. You should too unless it’s for a business. She’s a woman, she’ll find anything to be pissed off about.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 08:47 PM
2

Don’t you have other better things to focus on in your life other than this weird urge for revenge on your ex girlfriend? Clearly you don’t and care so much about every little thing she does. Move on. I think you’re just mad you didn’t vet her well and when she turned out to be trash you were enraged. Oh well, lesson learned. Move the fuck on.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 08:45 PM
11

Why even post this? Go no contact, move on, succeed in whatever you want to pursue, do awesome things, and enjoy your life without her
/r/askTRP27/10/20 09:38 PM
2

Accept her as a plate but never take her seriously, she’ll do the same thing to you
/r/askTRP27/10/20 09:36 PM
1

Standard answer here is both. If you had to pick one, quantity because it teaches you how to find the kind of quality girl you’re looking for. After you experience quantity, most women really aren’t worth more than a few fucks. So have a harem of 2-4 high quality girls and you’ll be satisfied
/r/askTRP27/10/20 07:50 PM
1

Move the fuck on. Are you that desperate? Also her liking your profile isn’t reaching out, it’s her seeking validation
/r/askTRP27/10/20 07:46 PM
11

Mix it up if you want, but it adds social clout if the people and bartenders know you. It helps with attraction, so keep going there with you like it
/r/askTRP27/10/20 07:44 PM
7

Don’t fuck her, worst thing you could do. I understand lowering expenses but pick literally anybody else, this won’t end well since you already have a crush. No 33 year old divorcee is a HB9. Hang out with her for drinks and meet ups, fuck her hot friends in her social circle.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 07:42 PM
4

Might feel like you lost now, but trust me man if you take this time to reflect and improve...you’ll be the real winner. 4 months isn’t that long, I remember my first one that “broke my heart” it took me probably a year and a half to get over that one, granted I was 19-20. Read, lift, study, find something that pays well, and find better girls. Good luck
/r/askTRP05/09/20 02:04 AM
2

Usually I do, sometimes I’ve got a lot going on and forget too. Doesn’t really matter, do what you want.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 07:45 PM
23

Seems like your getting feelings for this girl. It’s only normal after 5 months of fucking and spending a lot of time together. I think her fucking her ex while she’s been fucking your during these months is a huge RED flag that you’ve been ignoring because you really want to promote a girl who doesn’t really deserve it. It’s ultimately up to you, but I would keep spinning her and find other girls to fuck since it seems like oneitis.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 07:44 PM
2

Usually I’ll get a text saying they had a good time, sometimes I don’t and I send it. It really doesn’t matter tbh and girls play the game too of course. Do what you want, just be aware of the trp
/r/askTRP02/09/20 05:03 PM
3

Your only job here is to set dates and fuck her each date. Congrats champ, this is what dreams are made of. Now get to it
/r/askTRP02/09/20 04:59 PM
9

Yeah if you want, stop over thinking this shit. If you liked the date say that and try to set up another date.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 04:57 PM
33

You have 0 self control and it shows. She was right to leave you. Stop drinking, get your shit together, and then move on to someone else.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 02:28 PM
4

Leave her and spin plates. This is one is done
/r/askTRP01/09/20 11:35 PM
14

Sounds like a train wreck, but then again most woman are. Move on from this one since you don’t drink and won’t fuck her while she’s drunk.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 11:33 PM
8

“It’s called an audophile” Man... you’re just weird. Keep it simple with shit like oh you like bowe? He’s decent, but I’m more of a queen guy. Her: hahah nooo bowe is so good You: We’ll see about that, Let’s talk more about this over drinks tomorrow night at 8
/r/askTRP01/09/20 11:30 PM
11

“Meet me at Lucy‘s bar downtown, heard it’s really good.” Repeat your first date with the drinks, game her a little and then be like alright let’s get out of here. Low effort, fun, and she won’t feel like a cheap slut
/r/askTRP01/09/20 01:12 AM
3

You’re young so you get a pass on this one. She’s not special, they’ll all play games. Most likely she had another dude she was talking to and fucking you was a novelty. Soft next and acquire more options
/r/askTRP29/08/20 02:25 PM
2

Sounds like a real joy of a woman to be around. You’re the guy who didn’t vet and married her, congrats. You’re a combination of an idiot and physically abusive no wonder she doesn’t respect you. Take care of your daughter, ignore your bitchy wife, and improve your SMV so when your daughter grows up she can look up to dad and not think he’s abusive asshole who beats her mom.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 02:22 PM
2

Don’t believe in tens either. I agree that whenever someone here says “HB9” it’s really a hb6 or 7. Can’t really give a non celeb answer for a HB 9 or 10 but think of Margot Robbie in wolf of street, Megan fox in transformers, young Scarlett johannson, early twenties Mila kunis. Fat ass, pretty face, small waist, bigger than average tits, low level of make up needed to go out —usually in that order.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 09:15 PM
2

She just got out of a relationship and wanted some random dick...stop overthinking this.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 11:41 PM
1

Marry her sounds like a keeper
/r/askTRP25/08/20 11:28 PM
1

Spin and don’t take seriously or go next since it’s fucking with your head a lot.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 11:25 PM
5

Hard next this cum dumpster and vet better next time. Good thing you found this out now or else it would have sucked when little junior is running around and she’s nagging you about the dishes.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 11:25 PM
24

Respond with logistics if you want continue spinning the plate. Ignore her if you don’t.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 11:24 PM
4

Best thing I’ve read all day and will definitely work.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 11:15 PM
5

“Today was the 7th day since she ignored my dinner offer, I’m thinking about texting her again even though she’s ghosted me” If you’re not affected by her you wouldn’t be making this post over a girl you went out with once who clearly isn’t interested.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 03:43 PM
3

You care way to much about this girl that you went on one date with. She senses your desperation. Why would she want to go on a second date with someone who is hung up on how long its been since she hasn’t responded?
/r/askTRP09/07/20 03:33 PM
2

Anger phase. It’ll pass, for some it’s longer.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 02:24 PM
1

Yes to all of this, except physical real estate. While real estate is slow, it is also flexible and easily liquid.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 09:15 PM
4

Yes absolutely. Pay off all CC debt and then invest. At a conservative average of 8% return per year in the US stock market, you’re CCs are crippling you financially. Right now you have no flexibility until you pay them off.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 09:14 PM
11

Enjoy your turn. When it’s over, move on. Spin plates for a while or do your own thing and improve. Seems to be a decent relationship so far, why sabotage it?
/r/askTRP13/06/20 02:34 AM
2

Throw in a little comfort to keep her spinning longer, sounds like she’s going to break soon. “I really like spending time with you, just been super busy” After you fuck her get some ice cream, just small shit to keep her hamster going
/r/askTRP08/06/20 05:17 PM
5

No she’s not attracted, she thinks you’re a joke of a man. Work on that
/r/askTRP08/06/20 05:12 PM
5

“Haha yeah, call me Casper. Come over tonight at 7” Or move on she’s not that interested
/r/askTRP08/06/20 05:12 PM
9

Why the fuck did you screenshot a random girl from IG? Yeah stop doing that, it does nothing for you other than mentally masturbate
/r/askTRP08/06/20 05:10 PM
7

Build comfort in person, escalate, and fuck. It really is that simple, text game doesn’t exist
/r/askTRP08/06/20 05:08 PM
17

It’s almost as if she used you for attention and has no intention of fucking you from the beginning. Set up the meet and then escalate from there, stop entertaining these girls without putting your dick in them first.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 02:32 PM
2

Don’t be afraid to lose her. You’re the prize, act like it
/r/askTRP28/05/20 04:34 PM
1

Yes don’t chase, it will push her away. If she wants to talk to you, she’ll find a way.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 04:29 PM
14

Post a real field report when you actually fuck them. They’re not driving 140 miles to fuck you and if they are...low quality women. Tinder is also a shit show don’t take it seriously at all.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 04:29 PM
8

Nah don’t run Into her at Petco, get a job there. Slowly work your way up to GM and only then can you solidify yourself has her alpha fucks. She’ll be begging to swallow your load every night when you guys are closing up shop
/r/askTRP20/05/20 04:59 PM
19

Imagine caring this much about the guy who hit it raw for three months whose load she swallowed every night. Gl and I hope you know shes probably fucked him a couple times since then
/r/askTRP13/05/20 06:44 PM
8

All this for a girl you didn’t even fuck, go spend some more time with your plates who will actually fuck you and talk less
/r/askTRP13/05/20 03:52 PM
3

5 weeks and and this was 1.5 years ago...get a fucking grip
/r/askTRP10/05/20 05:51 AM
4

Assume attraction and don’t be afraid of your sexuality. Takes some practice at first since we’ve been taught that touching a woman might as well be rape
/r/askTRP07/05/20 05:19 PM
1

Find another woman, not one you live with. Why are you living with a girl anyways, read the sidebar
/r/askTRP07/05/20 05:16 PM
0

Great another oneitis post, the fuck is happening to this sub
/r/askTRP07/05/20 05:15 PM
17

Wrong sub for you bud, move the fuck on
/r/askTRP07/05/20 05:14 PM
2

Don’t ask her and keep fucking her. Seems like she’s enjoying it, keep it cool big guy
/r/askTRP15/04/20 02:33 AM
1

You’re making this more complicated than it really is. Find women and fuck them, maybe date them and the most important part is you VET them for something more. In my experience, most aren’t worth moving past plate. Some are and that’s what you are vetting for. Keep fucking them and maybe you’ll eventually find a girl you think is worthy of a LTR with you. As always, work on yourself and career...the women will come.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 02:44 AM
2

Hahahahahaha damn bro this is rough. I think this one is fucked here in a little bit
/r/askTRP11/04/20 10:07 PM
1

You’re a fucking idiot. She’s not being irrational. Cut them both off and spin new plates.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 07:10 PM
56

She’s 29 and has hit the wall. She went back to someone she knew would commit to her now and that’s what she’s doing. Read the sidebar all this magic information is in there.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 05:27 PM
2

Waste of time. She’ll lie and you’ll be more vulnerable to manipulation. Just make sure to wrap it up
/r/askTRP09/04/20 02:52 AM
4

Honestly only way to get over it is to spin 3 plates.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 05:03 AM
1

Yes...the blue pill runs deep in some.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 02:51 AM
2

Hahahahaha, damn too real.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 02:46 AM
11

How do you train a dog? Reward good behavior. Might take some time and it will be a slow process. Eventually, it’ll be better for both of you. If she’s not getting it, don’t give her attention.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 02:45 AM
0

Lie. Tell her you aren’t taking the job and want to make it work. She’ll be happy and there will be no drama. Act like you still want her and that you made a mistake by ever wanting to leave. When the three months is up get the fuck out and never speak to her again. Enjoy the new job and spinning plates. Good luck
/r/askTRP06/04/20 02:43 AM
8

There’s no sidebar post for a Pandemic, just focus on yourself and if you fail a few shit tests life goes on. It’ll get better once this is all over so take it easy and keep doing your thing
/r/askTRP04/04/20 10:51 PM
1

She’s going to do the same thing to you one day. Also, you’re a shitty friend but he sounds like a beta anyways. Keep fucking until it breaks don’t think about an LTR with this slut
/r/askTRP04/04/20 10:49 PM
4

You posted it because you tried to make her jealous. Oneitis it is. Care less and go do something else with your time
/r/askTRP24/03/20 11:42 PM
5

It’s a pandemic man, don’t overthink it too much. Text and call her here and there. Not much you can really do. She’s your girlfriend so you have to talk to her non sexually sometimes, yeah I know it Sucks. You’ll see her soon, if you’re sick of her shit after a week maybe drop her. Good luck
/r/askTRP20/03/20 06:16 PM
8

Im not going to sugar coat this for you. It’s hard. No one will come and save you if you fail. You have to work harder than everyone and it still might not be enough. On the flip side, it is very rewarding. Nothing like being your own boss and making things happen on your time (for the most part..). Don’t give up and make it work. You will fuck up. Things will not go your way a lot. Be prepared and always think it will work out in the end. I’ve been at it for 7 months now and it’s still the hard…
/r/askTRP20/03/20 06:14 PM
0

Lmao never talk to her again. If you don’t like her ghost or tell her you’re not into it. If you like her, set up another date
/r/askTRP19/03/20 03:35 AM
1

Been there bro, sluts trick you early and then when you find out it’s too late and you’re attached. Nice job nexting her, it takes balls. Don’t go running back to her, she already fucked two guys and swallowed their loads. Keep no contact and focus on yourself for the next couple of months.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 03:13 AM
2

I have no fucking clue man. This virus came out of no where and everything is shutting down. Just test some shit out and see if it sticks. I’ll probably fuck up a few times before I figure out what works. Keep moving forward boys
/r/askTRP18/03/20 02:03 AM
2

Hard no. Find more plates
/r/askTRP17/03/20 11:17 PM
88

?? I know gyms are closed but do 100 push ups and then think about what the fuck you just posted
/r/askTRP17/03/20 03:19 AM
1

Good. Keep working on finding higher quality women to your rotation and see less of her eventually.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 12:51 AM
5

Keep fucking her until she finds someone else or breaks for whatever reason. Find other woman and start fucking them too. She’s not a plate if she’s the only girl you’re fucking. She’s your girlfriend
/r/askTRP17/03/20 12:47 AM
2

Sidebar. Also, your positives are pathetic. Start lifting heavy for the next year while finding a real job. Women shouldn’t even be on your mind right now
/r/askTRP16/03/20 04:31 PM
27

They make them sign NDAs
/r/askTRP14/03/20 03:16 PM
1

No one said it was an easy pill to swallow. Core concepts are important, time to re read the sidebar
/r/askTRP13/03/20 06:53 PM
1

Next
/r/askTRP12/03/20 11:00 PM
4

Ghost her waste of time
/r/askTRP12/03/20 05:26 AM
1

Just keep fucking her and other girls? What is the problem here? She’s not your girlfriend why are you acting like she is
/r/askTRP12/03/20 04:54 AM
1

Hello orbiter. Read the sidebar or continue to orbit girls for the rest of your life. What the fuck is wrong with you? Text them for logistics
/r/askTRP11/03/20 11:17 PM
2

Break it off
/r/askTRP11/03/20 11:13 PM
3

Work harder and you won’t focus on this shit
/r/askTRP11/03/20 02:59 PM
2

Oneitis setting in early since she’s hot, it happens. Just ignore the delays and set up meets to fuck
/r/askTRP10/03/20 11:46 PM
1

That sucks. Move on...her turn is over
/r/askTRP10/03/20 11:23 PM
1

Random ass question but valid. Say you’re 6”3 I’ll always shoot up an inch
/r/askTRP10/03/20 11:15 PM
1

Next
/r/askTRP10/03/20 10:46 PM
10

Sometimes you really connect with someone and then they disappear or other things get in the way. That’s life and you’re still young so you’ll learn with experience. Keep going no contact since I can tell this is a strong oneitis and you’ll prevent yourself from moving on the more you talk to her. Find others girls, go out more, keep lifting. It’ll get better man. Good luck
/r/askTRP10/03/20 10:46 PM
5

Great post, but I’m afraid the people posting these questions won’t read it since they can’t even read the sidebar before posting dumb questions.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 08:14 PM
5

You could cheat on her and fuck new girls on weekdays if you want her and plates. If that’s not you or against your sexual moral code, then break up with her and let her come back if she wants while plating new women
/r/askTRP10/03/20 07:35 PM
266

Woman are weird man, don’t look into this too much but that’s funny
/r/askTRP10/03/20 07:22 PM
1

Tinder girls reach FWB max, lesson learned there pal. Good luck in the future and keep vetting.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 06:51 PM
2

Drop Her Way too much drama for a plate
/r/askTRP10/03/20 06:50 PM
2

Don’t stress this until she actually files for it, which she won’t.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 06:49 PM
13

Just match her energy, she’ll either start changing her behavior or fuck off. Either way, keep doing you. Remember if she’s not a fuck yes, I’m a fuck no. Good luck
/r/askTRP10/03/20 06:48 PM
13

Hahahahahaha do whatever the fuck you want, but before that read the sidebar bud
/r/askTRP10/03/20 05:26 PM
2

If she pulls back, you pull back harder. Why waste time with a girl who isn’t down for you no matter what happens.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 06:32 PM
100

You’re doing great, maybe a sprinkle a little bit of comfort if she’s really feeling like you’re going to leave her. Keep it up champ
/r/askTRP08/03/20 06:31 PM
1

You’re still young so I’m just going to say read the sidebar first
/r/askTRP08/03/20 12:39 AM
1

They think they’ll have a shot eventually and have no other options so they stick around for the slight chance of fucking the girl. Don’t waste your time thinking about them, they can’t get laid
/r/askTRP07/03/20 07:13 PM
9

Why dig in the trash for a girl who wasn’t 100% down for you
/r/askTRP07/03/20 07:11 PM
2

Do this and then get as far away as you can from the situation
/r/askTRP07/03/20 06:48 PM
1

Take her out for a couple drinks then ask her what she’s been watching on Netflix. “Oh I heard that’s good too, come over and let’s watch it at my place” It’s a textbook close
/r/askTRP06/03/20 07:58 PM
2

Yes don’t expect much though
/r/askTRP06/03/20 07:56 PM
18

“Sounds good. Let’s meet at Pete’s diner at 7 pm on west 20th”
/r/askTRP06/03/20 07:55 PM
4

Ignore fatties their life sucks anyways
/r/askTRP29/02/20 11:44 PM
4

This is why we spin plates until we find one with minimal red flags to try a LTR with instead of jumping into a relationship. You’re 34, tall, and in good shape you’ll be alright
/r/askTRP29/02/20 11:04 PM
10

You put yourself in this situation when you fucked a girl at your gym.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 01:25 PM
9

Since she goes to your gym id go with this route, “that’s cool with me” The key here is just be normal but don’t give her any attention. A quick hey if you guys make eye contact or run into each other and just move on with life.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 01:16 PM
29

Willing to bet it wasn’t just a kiss and she ended up fooling around with him. 8 years sorry man. I wouldn’t respond for a couple days to clear my head. I might not even respond for life. Good luck.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 01:07 PM
1

Go actually do something with that money first and then your success will show. What exactly are you bragging about that your gf is so great? No one cares
/r/askTRP29/02/20 01:04 PM
6

Maybe she’s just not that into you? Maybe she has a boyfriend Maybe she’s a lesbian now Who knows and who cares. Spin more plates
/r/askTRP29/02/20 01:02 PM
1

Read The Sidebar Stop being so stupid my god
/r/askTRP29/02/20 12:33 PM
4

Trust your gut and ghost her. I’m sorry you had to find out this way and I know It hurts man. Good luck but if you stay in this relationship it’s only going to get worse.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 12:32 PM
3

Rather be fucking dead than be paying a bitches bills for her, tell her to walk down to target and get a job that starts at $13 an hour She’s stressed? Doing what? Get out of here with this sob story and dump her ass
/r/askTRP29/02/20 12:31 PM
6

Sometimes I forget these and don’t drop plates as fast as I should, thanks for the refresher. If they aren’t making your life better or happier why even be with them?
/r/askTRP29/02/20 11:39 AM
2

Spin her if you don’t take her seriously or next her if you are thinking of LTRing her
/r/askTRP29/02/20 03:28 AM
9

Miami. Cheaper cost of living, hot women and weather. LA and NYC are great, but Miami would be my choice.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 05:53 PM
2

Sometimes you can’t change people and have to accept that. If it’s a dealbreaker for you, then look for other girls while you emotionally detach from this one
/r/askTRP27/02/20 05:45 PM
2

She’s 29 and still attached to mommy and daddy? That’s a red flag, but also means she’s loyal. You could next her because this sounds like a hassle. If you think it’s worth it, slowly ease her into getting her own place or letting her move in (do not recommend).
/r/askTRP27/02/20 05:33 PM
9

I’ve been lifting for almost two years now and you’ll always feel small even when you’re big unless you take PEDs
/r/askTRP26/02/20 08:57 PM
5

Lmao I know man I don’t even believe anything they say anymore, just watch their actions. All they do is lie
/r/askTRP26/02/20 08:56 PM
1

You’re this invested in one plate? Go spin some more and then this wouldn’t matter at all.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 05:49 PM
5

Plates friends are people you say hi to casually and that’s it. Be polite but do not hang out with them or entertain them.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 05:49 PM
1

Wow she unfollowed you, it’s the end of the world. Go lift or work harder. Who the fuck has time to think about these things? Someone who is not the prize
/r/askTRP26/02/20 05:47 PM
2

The chase is over, you already fucked her. This is the third girl In a row who ghosted you after sex, something is wrong. Keep your texts strictly for the next meet up. Snapchat? Really? It’s orbiter central. Sometimes they don’t respond and that’s OK too, but three times In a row isn’t normal.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 05:46 PM
2

Don’t replate this girl. Don’t even talk to her anymore. This is for your own mental health. Spend more time with your plates to forget about her. Lift harder
/r/askTRP25/02/20 09:37 PM
5

Yeah my advice is move the fuck on. She’s not special and this is messing with you mentally too much. Block her number and delete her off everything so you never talk to her again. You showed up to her house and she had to call the cops? What the fuck is wrong with you. Grow up
/r/askTRP25/02/20 09:29 PM
2

Hit her up at night for a booty call one of these days and see what happens. Anything but a yes is a next
/r/askTRP24/02/20 04:50 PM
2

She’s a women, there is no logic to the shit they do. You’ll be thinking about it this and the million different reasons she stopped, while she’s onto the next dick. Spin more plates and you wouldn’t even post this shit
/r/askTRP23/02/20 11:14 PM
6

Yes most girls tend to not care if you use protection or not, but always be in control of the birth.
/r/askTRP23/02/20 11:04 PM
1

After all that travel and partying, you’ll get tired of it or just turn into a bum who wants to drink all day. That’s not a life. When you get that out of your system you’ll find what you really want to do with life. Good luck.
/r/askTRP23/02/20 11:02 PM
1

It takes time. Once you find something you are passionate about or a mission that makes you want to get out of bed every morning, you will slowly fill the void. If you were rich as fuck and never had to work another day in your life, how would you spend your days?
/r/askTRP23/02/20 10:57 PM
1

“Having sex more than 10 miles away doesn’t count” 😂😂😂 I swear I’ve heard this shit before. The hamster is strong. Good advice. Yes they all lie about this shit. That one time she had anal in the club bathroom doesn’t count because she was on molly. The another time she blew some coke and had two guys fucking her doesn’t count since it was a Monday. Demote this club slut
/r/askTRP23/02/20 10:54 PM
1

Why are you taking viagra? Stop or you will be reliant on it every time you have sex. It’s all mental, stop using drugs to “fix” the problem.
/r/askTRP23/02/20 10:51 PM
3

How many times do I have to say women are a nice addition to an already fulfilled life. They will not bring you happiness. They will not fill the void you feel. Only you can do that. Congratulations on learning pussy is not that valuable though, most guys never learn that.
/r/askTRP23/02/20 10:49 PM
1

So many other girls. If she’s an 8 or above it’s worth it if not, too much drama
/r/askTRP23/02/20 07:18 PM
0

You did fine she sounds really flaky
/r/askTRP23/02/20 06:49 PM
2

She is coming to mind because you are not spinning plates. You’ll forget about her real soon once you start spinning
/r/askTRP22/02/20 07:28 PM
6

If a fat chick lost weight and looked good I’d want to fuck her more than when she was fat. How is that hard to understand? It’s goes both ways, men and women want a fit attractive partner
/r/askTRP22/02/20 07:15 PM
1

Plates are flaky sometimes that’s why they are plates...find more or drop them if you don’t like it
/r/askTRP22/02/20 06:43 PM
1

Fix your work ethic or else you will not succeed in life no matter what degree or career you choose. I’m going to guess you don’t lift and haven’t read the sidebar. Do those two things for the next 6 months and see how much you improved
/r/askTRP22/02/20 06:38 PM
3

There’s always one we like more. A little bit of distance away helps, spending more time with other plates, fucking someone new, focusing more on work/purpose. It’s normal to like some more than others, as long as it doesn’t cloud your judgment
/r/askTRP20/02/20 05:30 PM
3

Ignore/soft next is always the go to. Although I’ve burned a couple bridges back in my day, never really worth it though
/r/askTRP20/02/20 05:08 PM
8

“Yeah just busy with work, you’ll see me Friday”
/r/askTRP19/02/20 07:19 PM
1

Great advice. There is no black and white, always adapt to the situation. Each one will be different, so use it to manipulate it to favor yourself
/r/askTRP18/02/20 05:28 PM
1

Soft next seemed to have worked. Go for it if you want to plate her again, if not go on to the next one
/r/askTRP18/02/20 02:56 AM
2

She belongs to the streets, send her back like the stray dog she is. Oh and try to take off those rose colored glasses next time, it’s just pussy she gave you.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 12:22 AM
1

I know it hurts now, but this experience will be great for your growth in future relationships. Hang in there and you’ll come out happier in the end
/r/askTRP18/02/20 12:21 AM
-1

Hit her up or don’t. Do it whenever you want, if she’s down cool. If not, that’s cool too.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 05:20 PM
4

A 30 yr old 9? Seems suspect bud. She’s flaky fuck that
/r/askTRP17/02/20 05:19 PM
23

You won’t ever meet this girl and are giving her free attention. Keep wondering about your pen pals titty scar while she’s getting fucked by other tinder dudes
/r/askTRP17/02/20 04:45 PM
0

Demote to plate if you want or just keep her as FWB. People fuck and it was his turn. Now its yours. Enjoy while it lasts
/r/askTRP16/02/20 07:25 PM
1

She’s not a plate of you keep posting three threads about her a week. Hope the mods give you a long vacation so you can read the fucking sidebar
/r/askTRP16/02/20 03:56 PM
1

“Hey Emily, come over at 8 pm”
/r/askTRP14/02/20 02:17 AM
1

Get on tinder and start approaching in real life.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 02:17 AM
2

Wow that really sucks, must be hard. Ex plate? She’s gone forever who cares
/r/askTRP14/02/20 01:58 AM
6

Hit her up with a I’ll be a few minutes late,
/r/askTRP14/02/20 01:56 AM
4

So many things wrong with this post Go and read the sidebar to recognize what a shit test is and manage your LTRs better
/r/askTRP14/02/20 01:55 AM
1

DiCarlo escalation latter in the sidebar
/r/askTRP13/02/20 06:13 PM
2

Plates break, she’s trying out new dicks right now. Move on
/r/askTRP13/02/20 05:27 PM
1

Sounds like a great idea, go for it
/r/askTRP13/02/20 10:44 AM
6

This is the first time she was in a bad mood in over 4 months. Maybe just maybe she was having a bad day and isn’t BPD? Sometimes this sub spergs the fuck out over the dumbest shit. You don’t want to be her around when she’s like that? Cool kick her out or give a little comfort if she’s been good to you.
/r/askTRP13/02/20 10:38 AM
-1

“Nah, why are you” Pressure flip this shit test and she starts qualifying herself
/r/askTRP12/02/20 11:33 PM
14

This whole post is full of excuses. Hit the gym, download tinder, approach some college sluts, and go get laid.
/r/askTRP12/02/20 07:02 PM
1

Hahahahahaha read the sidebar then start posting here you dump
/r/askTRP12/02/20 12:37 AM
1

archive.is/ENAtL You seem like you have your shit together and are smart enough to realize that you have to move on. Closure is bullshit, time will heal this.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 04:30 AM
1

Underrated song. As for the post...oneitis and sidebar reread is my prescription
/r/askTRP11/02/20 01:48 AM
37

Yeah, your probably too old. I’ll see you at 7. Just see what she says, if nothing...move on. She might be down though so worth a shot
/r/askTRP11/02/20 01:46 AM
2

Monk mode for a year and your future self will thank you. Or cut down to 40 hours, make some money and have more time to pursue other goals, like women in your case. Decide what is more important right now and then go from there.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 01:45 AM
2

Hahahahaha I have to try this one
/r/askTRP08/02/20 02:46 AM
2

Not necessarily better, just shiny and new
/r/askTRP07/02/20 05:27 PM
1

Who cares what ash and bec want? Do whatever the fuck your want
/r/askTRP06/02/20 04:04 PM
1

Men don’t shit test. They banter and make jokes. Learn the difference
/r/askTRP06/02/20 12:39 AM
8

Only way to get over oneitis to fuck more women. So go do that
/r/askTRP05/02/20 09:29 PM
10

Congrats you made a new friend!
/r/askTRP05/02/20 07:28 PM
1

You’re in her frame already since you give a shit about what she thinks. Fuck her again or don’t, it’s that simple
/r/askTRP05/02/20 06:44 PM
0

Happens sometimes. Could be validation or could be back in rotation. Hit her up with some details
/r/askTRP05/02/20 07:25 AM
1

Stop trying to “fix” things. It’s never worth the trouble. Move on to another girl and you’ll be so much happier.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 07:24 AM
13

Eh it happens sometimes. Usually I’ll give it another shot but sometimes the chemistry just isn’t there. Don’t take it personally, you won’t click with everyone and that’s normal.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 07:22 AM
38

Stop putting these hoes on a pedestal, they all pee sitting down
/r/askTRP05/02/20 04:09 AM
1

No unless she’s a FWB
/r/askTRP05/02/20 01:40 AM
5

Dumbest question I’ve seen in a while. You are weak minded and not strong willed. WORK HARDER. Not for your parents, not for women, but for yourself. Make it count and build yourself up. You’re only 20...keep going.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 06:14 PM
3

Fuck her and worry less about her feelings or drop her since this will be all drama at the end
/r/askTRP04/02/20 05:10 PM
4

You can definitely salvage plate number 2. She sent you a wall of text, she clearly cares. Also, what are you doing telling this girl another plate is pushing for commitment? This is a women’s game and will blow up in your face...which it did. You lost frame with plate 2 so she’ll keep pounding those shit tests, keep that in mind
/r/askTRP03/02/20 06:59 PM
9

Let her worry about commitment and keep fucking her. Seems like you’re overthinking this one
/r/askTRP03/02/20 05:08 AM
1

Keep ignoring her, all you can really do here. Nice job hard nexting her when you started to catch feels
/r/askTRP03/02/20 01:41 AM
3

I plated a girl who always went on her phone and texted all her orbiters after I blew a load in her. These women are ruthless, have fun and don’t LTR sluts
/r/askTRP01/02/20 08:39 PM
1

N e x t Holy fuck just move on
/r/askTRP31/01/20 12:39 AM
1

I still have trouble with the most attractive girls, it takes time and experience. Just ghost for a little for your own sanity
/r/askTRP30/01/20 06:36 PM
3

Expect this one to break soon. She’ll either keep being a plate in your frame or fade away to find some other guy. Either way, it’s fine for you.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 04:44 PM
1

“More verbal” Congrats keep texting them and wasting your time chatting it up
/r/askTRP30/01/20 05:48 AM
2

Find another plate and you’ll lose the oneitis. Pull back a little bit to clear your head. If you keep vetting and you want to be committed, go for it. She will break if you don’t commit and always be willing to walk away if she does. Good luck
/r/askTRP30/01/20 05:45 AM
16

Back to the sidebar you go. Don’t respond and talk to more women
/r/askTRP30/01/20 05:43 AM
1

Tinderellas are a lot of fun. Don’t catch feelings for them because they are doing this will EVERY guy. Learn from this, oneitis happens when you least expect it sometimes. Read the sidebar again and keep lifting
/r/askTRP29/01/20 12:28 AM
1

She’s a plate. If you want to fuck her set something up and go do it. If you’ve had enough of her shit, don’t and go next. Up to you, I’ve done the first one in the same situation. After she pulled it again, it was a next.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 06:25 PM
2

5 plate dates a week? Max I can do is 3 without compromising work and life. Try to space them out more. Let the lower quality ones drop, etc
/r/askTRP27/01/20 08:25 PM
2

I know exactly what you should do. Read the sidebar. As for the girl, ignore she’ll get over it
/r/askTRP27/01/20 12:58 AM
1

She’s your girlfriend. Try it out for a while and be exclusive. If it’s not for you go back to spinning plates. It really is red pill on hard mode so keep that In mind.
/r/askTRP26/01/20 08:25 PM
1

Ok so commit to her then if she’s being bitchy? Do you really want to commit to a girl who is being a bitch because you’re dating around
/r/askTRP26/01/20 07:15 PM
3

“You’ll see for yourself on Friday at PJs grill, be there at 8” Stop trying to be funny and get to the logistics, be funny in person
/r/askTRP26/01/20 07:13 PM
1

I think so, was she in college and had a black cat?
/r/askTRP26/01/20 06:49 PM
1

Do your own thing and if it’s working keep doing it. When she starts making power moves and if she’s not in your frame...pull back. She’ll either fall in line or fuck off, either way it’s a win.
/r/askTRP26/01/20 06:46 PM
1

Yeah I do, usually it’s a bust but who cares? They’re going to break in the future anyways. When they come through it makes it worth it
/r/askTRP25/01/20 07:58 AM
13

Where are you from? I had the same type of experience in October too with an eerily similar outcome
/r/askTRP24/01/20 06:07 PM
44

She’s a girl. They’re fickle by nature, treat every relationship as temporary
/r/askTRP24/01/20 05:19 PM
3

It’s tinder. She’s not interested, next
/r/askTRP24/01/20 05:17 PM
17

Lmao this
/r/askTRP24/01/20 05:13 PM
1

You could play games and keep spinning her since she seems very invested in you Plate seems to cracking though, so expect it to break within the next month or two even if you decide to play games
/r/askTRP24/01/20 11:25 AM
1

Lmao this is good
/r/askTRP23/01/20 11:50 PM
7

You don’t have to every time, but its been a while so you have to game her a little bit. I’m talking like an hour at a bar where you flirt and shoot the shit. Then head back to someone’s place and fuck her brains out. From there just hit her up to come over whenever you’re down to fuck her. Maybe take her out sometimes if she’s earned it if you really want.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 11:49 PM
10

“Let’s grab drinks at x bar on y day”. Kino, escalate, close. It’s kinda of assumed you’re looking to fuck but you have to game her a little again or else she won’t be into it. Good luck and report back
/r/askTRP23/01/20 11:23 PM
1

Find other girls and learn from the experience with her. You broke up for a reason
/r/askTRP23/01/20 06:51 PM
1

Seems like you give a fuck what your plates think which is the opposite of what plating girls is. Do your own thing, fuck other girls, they’ll catch on. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes
/r/askTRP23/01/20 06:47 PM
3

If this is the shit you think about you have zero plates
/r/askTRP23/01/20 06:19 PM
1

Yeah next her and read the sidebar
/r/askTRP23/01/20 06:02 PM
3

You had sex with her for a while with no commitment. Plate broke due to to distance with no drama. You won here. Move on, I guarantee she has. Don’t be a simp and send her a gift, you’ll be a beta orbiter forever after that
/r/askTRP23/01/20 03:43 PM
19

They offer sex and companionship, everything else we build on our own. I’ll keep saying it, women are a nice addition to a well balanced life. Putting your self worth into women will only make you depressed. Good post, it really is just sex.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 03:40 PM
1

I dated a “shy girl” once and I was one of her three plates. I was fucking her a month before she got a boyfriend. AWALT and watch what that they do. She could stay home every weekend...getting dick from multiple guys.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 03:15 PM
2

Type it just like this because that’s how you sound right now
/r/askTRP23/01/20 01:36 AM
1

Thanks for this, always good to be reminded.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 01:16 AM
4

She’s a plate, sometimes they boomerang back. Get back in there chief
/r/askTRP22/01/20 05:42 PM
8

You got boring and her tingles went away. Could Hail Mary with “nothing a couple drinks Friday can’t fix” if she’s no, next
/r/askTRP22/01/20 04:48 PM
1

You started this off with saying your 5”4? Glad that’s relevant, next this girl you’re pathetic
/r/askTRP22/01/20 04:34 PM
1

Two dates and she’s relationship material already? Keep vetting bud
/r/askTRP21/01/20 05:10 PM
411

“My guy didnt come through this week, should be good next week” say that after you fuck her on Friday If the sex is good she’ll forget about the drugs, but if she persists just say “he hasn’t responded to anything lately, might be in trouble”
/r/askTRP21/01/20 04:09 PM
6

Stop mentioning a girls looks in conversation. It’s weird and you come across as being beneath her since you’re so obsessed about her “features”
/r/askTRP21/01/20 06:23 AM
1

It doesn’t matter how you end it, since you’ll never see or talk to her again. Although I stick with not explaining why or how it went wrong. “This isn’t working for me anymore, good luck with everything”.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 06:12 AM
1

I know brother, that’s life. She’s not yours, it’s just your turn. They always come and go
/r/askTRP21/01/20 06:02 AM
1

Girls will ghost you because they hopped on another dick and wouldn’t care if you died. Text her and end it, she wouldn’t hesitate to drop you in a second
/r/askTRP21/01/20 05:58 AM
14

Who gives a fuck? Spin more plates, sounds like oneitis
/r/askTRP21/01/20 05:54 AM
1

Not worth it, start fresh. It’ll be drama and never the same
/r/askTRP20/01/20 07:48 PM
1

Sidebar covers this. Make sure it’s yours and then go from there.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 05:15 PM
4

It’s a dating app, polarize right away and see if she down to meet.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 05:15 PM
4

The real takeaway here. He saved her life and she left because he lost frame a couple times? The tingles are always number one
/r/askTRP20/01/20 03:13 PM
2

I’ve tried this before with varied degrees of success. About half hit me up and the other half didn’t. Guess that’s why they are plates. I prefer setting it to my terms but it was an experiment to see how interested they were too. Can’t hurt trying it out, seems like you got it figured it.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 04:29 AM
1

Feels like you’re both mentally checking out. Don’t think this relationship will last that much longer and you should start seeing other people. She’ll get over it really quick, so make sure you stay strong and try spinning plates for a while.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 04:24 AM
1

Plate is cracked if not fully broken. You can hit her up again in a week if you really want, but she seems to be checking out. Good luck
/r/askTRP19/01/20 11:58 PM
8

She’s a FWB if you’re going on dates and she’s the only girl you’re fucking
/r/askTRP19/01/20 06:44 PM
6

As soon as oneitis hits, you start to lose them. Always be willing to walk away. Pull back or it’ll get worse when this tinderella inevitably breaks off
/r/askTRP19/01/20 03:40 PM
5

Shut up and talk when necessary. Women love to talk and you’re more mysterious in their eyes.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 12:27 AM
5

Lmao do you not want to fuck? If you don’t, then get your test checked
/r/askTRP19/01/20 12:26 AM
1

She’s a plate, as long as she’s putting out who gives a fuck if she forgets your address. I had a plate once who texted me her address every week when I told her I was coming over. I knew where she lived, she’s sending that text out a lot because she has plates too.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 12:22 AM
4

Hahahahaha too real
/r/askTRP19/01/20 12:11 AM
2

She’s kidding around with you, just tease her back. Social skills 101
/r/askTRP18/01/20 04:19 PM
3

I was hooking up with a 6 once and she showed me her phone. She had 9 different dudes messaging her in the moment. It was ridiculous, she wasn’t worth more than a pump and dump
/r/askTRP18/01/20 01:23 AM
13

Guessing why women act the the way do will only drive you insane. There could be a million different reasons. Maybe she has a boyfriend Maybe she’s really a lesbian Maybe she just wanted dick Maybe she thought you were boring Does it really matter? She sounds like a typical girl nowadays, always on their phones
/r/askTRP18/01/20 01:16 AM
4

Set your boundaries now or she’ll walk all over you
/r/askTRP17/01/20 08:31 PM
2

Who cares focus on yourself
/r/askTRP17/01/20 08:30 PM
3

None of his business. Deflect
/r/askTRP17/01/20 07:04 PM
2

She’ll hit you up in a couple weeks if the sex was good
/r/askTRP17/01/20 06:17 PM
1

You held hands and kissed her goodbye after two dates, she does this with all her girlfriends. Be more polarizing and escalate next time.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 05:04 PM
1

She’s clearly delusional. Don’t fuck her again and VET BETTER NEXT TIME
/r/askTRP16/01/20 08:06 PM
2

She’ll fall in love with you guaranteed
/r/askTRP16/01/20 06:58 PM
5

It’s a tinderella, let it drop
/r/askTRP16/01/20 06:57 PM
4

Watch what they do, not what they say. I had a girl tell me she loved me and then ghosted me a week later lmao
/r/askTRP16/01/20 06:40 PM
5

These situations suck. You did lead her on for two months and you both caught feelings. You either have to commit to her or let the plate break, she will not want to become a plate again due to your promotion of exclusivity. I learned this the hard way, and had her drop because she really was a FWB and then I started treating her like a plate. Her hitting you up is the only to re plate her and have her in your frame again. Oh and she will most definitely be fucking other guys abroad.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 06:31 PM
1

Women are great additions to your life, but put yourself over any women.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 06:29 PM
4

Don’t explain your actions next time, it won’t help you. It will help her hamster. Plates break but you live and learn from it. She sounds like drama anyways, not worth it
/r/askTRP16/01/20 06:27 PM
3

Some girls just aren’t going to be into you man, just like how you aren’t interested in some girls. Don’t take it personally, it could be any reason.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 06:26 PM
3

You can re plate her for sure but expect it to break rather quickly due to constant shit tests and drama.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 06:25 PM
2

LTRs are hard mode because of their constant shit tests and your emotional attachment to them. If a plate pulled this shit I’d withdraw attention until she either fell back into line or fucked off. Either way, I’m happy
/r/askTRP16/01/20 05:19 AM
1

Raise your SMV and worry less about women and how they act. It really is just how they are, don’t take it personally. If you attract low value women then you are low value
/r/askTRP16/01/20 05:17 AM
2

Try it out and report back Seems like a waste of time though
/r/askTRP16/01/20 05:16 AM
1

Sometimes I hit them up after a week, sometimes after a day. It really depends how you’re feeling about it. If they’re interested it shouldn’t matter, but I’d hit them up sooner rather than later if it’s a tinderella
/r/askTRP16/01/20 05:15 AM
-3

Usually means low T. Start lifting heavy and eating a lot more, it’ll get better. Get 8-10 hours of sleep and make sure you stay active. Speak slower and in control
/r/askTRP15/01/20 05:58 PM
15

I stopped at HB 5. Sidebar and lift until you hit SMV 8 at least then you’ll find someone better. Be glad you took her youth and still have time as a man to improve yourself.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 05:30 PM
4

Ah I see, it happens. There will be more and I know this can be hard. I lost a great plate after a couple months and she boomeranged back only to disappear again. Women come and go, focus on yourself and keep moving forward. Good luck
/r/askTRP15/01/20 05:13 AM
11

She’ll be back in a few months
/r/askTRP15/01/20 04:54 AM
1

It’s not worth it that’s for sure
/r/askTRP14/01/20 08:35 PM
6

First, I recommend you read the sidebar. Second, I recommend you end this relationship if you are not happy. Work on improving yourself and your business right now. Women will always come and go while you are working towards something. Most women will halt your growth as they require your two most valuable resources: time and attention
/r/askTRP14/01/20 08:09 PM
32

Yes why waste time texting/talking to girls you aren’t fucking?
/r/askTRP14/01/20 04:41 PM
1

Too many sleep overs and oneitis will creep in. Keep fucking her and stop doing cutesy shit, then we leave in two months you’ll be fine. Find more plates during this time so you have abundance
/r/askTRP13/01/20 08:08 PM
2

Find a normal one?
/r/askTRP12/01/20 07:27 PM
1

What advice do you want? Go up to her and say hi. Its been two months, she knows you’re a pussy already. Next time you see a girl you want to talk to..make a joke and introduce yourself
/r/askTRP11/01/20 08:37 PM
6

Logistics only you can only fuck up over text trust me
/r/askTRP11/01/20 07:57 PM
0

Oneitis for a girl you saw at the gym lmao. What has this sub become? She probably thinks you’re a sperg
/r/askTRP11/01/20 07:56 PM
7

It’s a plate, who gives a fuck
/r/askTRP11/01/20 04:38 PM
3

Sounds like you got it figured out. Good luck.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 08:47 PM
1

Quality post. When’s the EC tag coming in?
/r/askTRP10/01/20 06:00 PM
3

I feel like more girls are going for cunt game nowadays and they wonder why we don’t commit 😂 Keep her as a plate she doesn’t deserve more OP. She’s showing her true colors
/r/askTRP10/01/20 05:47 PM
3

Go to the gym and lift that might help you get your balls back. Why are you posting a dairy entry? There is no question here, you just caught oneitis for a girl who friend zoned you.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 05:56 AM
10

Girls are masters at this. Use amused mastery and laugh it off. Anything else and they are validated + confirming you aren’t what you act like. She wants to make you into a beta, and once it happens...she’s onto the next guy.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 04:44 AM
6

Yes this does happen. Had a plate that was very submissive and liked me a lot. Was considering an LTR with her and a week later went super cold. Girls are weird, but it was fun while it lasted!
/r/askTRP10/01/20 04:35 AM
20

Lmfao what the fuck is this question? Go find someone else
/r/askTRP09/01/20 08:22 PM
43

All this for a girl you didn’t even fuck? Go find some other girls and you’ll forget about her real quick
/r/askTRP09/01/20 08:20 PM
1

She’s gone for ever. Accept that and move on
/r/askTRP09/01/20 05:40 PM
6

Dread game or it’s lost
/r/askTRP09/01/20 06:09 AM
6

You’re just as delusional as her, maybe you both deserve each other. As for my real advice, never talk to her again and block from all platforms. So much drama for what? Some good sex? Get your shit together already, this is pathetic
/r/askTRP09/01/20 05:49 AM
2

Been there. Was sure the soft next would work...and never heard from her again. Plates wobbling. Don’t chase them, replace them.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 10:51 PM
2

Yup def a BPD girl. Buy the test and be sweet and considerate towards while forcing her to take it. Be supportive the whole time and act like you care about her. Once you get those results back, cya bitch
/r/askTRP08/01/20 10:36 PM
7

I’m dead Hahahaha. Pistol whip her to show her who the alpha is or you’re a beta bux for life
/r/askTRP08/01/20 08:10 PM
27

Are you fucking her? Not an orbiter Are you not fucking her? Orbiter
/r/askTRP08/01/20 04:34 PM
40

Sounds like she wants your attention again and is using the nuclear option. I’ve been there, my ex girlfriend in my BP days pulled it a couple times. She was never pregnant but it scared me shitless every time. Confirm she is not pregnant and GHOST FOR LIFE
/r/askTRP08/01/20 04:34 PM
2

You haven’t slept with this girl yet and are considering an LTR with her. This is stupid. If you reread the sidebar, you’ll know that when a girl makes you wait for sex, it is never worth the wait. She is currently fucking that guy in the mirror picture and you’ll be eating the scraps if you are seriously considering an LTR with this girl.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 04:54 AM
1

“A relationship” Lmfao read the side bar and don’t post any more questions like this
/r/askTRP08/01/20 04:38 AM
3

Congrats on your chip, seriously it’s hard work. Do not let this one dumb girl have any influence on you. You are improving and are taking responsibility for yourself. She doesn’t deserve you. Don’t worry she’ll get pumped and dumped at least 10 more times as a punishment, forget about her.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 04:26 AM
7

Classic girl fishing for attention and isn’t over her ex, maybe she’s an alpha widow. Be more distant and see how she reacts
/r/askTRP08/01/20 04:09 AM
7

I will never understand why guys think they owe their plates or FWB things. They are casual sex partners, not your LTR. Spin other plates until she reaches out and if she doesn’t, that’s cool too because it was just your turn.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 04:02 AM
2

One of the first red pill lessons I learned the hard way, good advice. Usually they’re the hottest and the sex is the best so you want to spend more time with them.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 03:58 AM
11

I mean plates break and this one was fucked up by you telling her you want to be exclusive. How do you think she reacted when two days later you were like nah, I’m good? Learning experience, but she seems into you so you can continue plating her if you want or just go next and learn from it.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 03:23 AM
5

It’s been 6 hours, you’ll be alright bud
/r/askTRP08/01/20 02:19 AM
4

Not your problem, block her.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 02:18 AM
7

This is the hardest part to accept for most guys. Great post
/r/TheRedPill08/01/20 12:02 AM
5

Hard oneitis vibes. I would soft next this one until you get more options and then try again. Don’t be surprised if it breaks soon. You’re the prize, right? Maybe this plate breaking is the best thing for you to clear your head
/r/askTRP07/01/20 07:20 PM
9

“It doesn’t matter, it’s all in the past” Broken record
/r/askTRP07/01/20 06:29 PM
5

Good job. Hit her up with some logistics in a couple hours and keep leading/maintaining frame
/r/askTRP07/01/20 05:56 PM
2

Facts. Can’t believe this question is getting asked about a 6/10 plate
/r/askTRP07/01/20 05:29 PM
1

Ignore them
/r/askTRP07/01/20 05:26 PM
1

It’s a comfort test. You’ve been with her for one year now, if you love her tell her. If you don’t then don’t
/r/askTRP07/01/20 04:46 PM
2

Good luck and report back with an update in a few months.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 02:30 AM
4

Sometimes. I burn out and focus on me then jump back in, rinse and repeat. Spinning plates has its benefits, LTRs do as well. Try out both and see how it goes, just always remember to look out for yourself first.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 01:53 AM
20

This is it lmfao
/r/askTRP07/01/20 01:39 AM
1

This is such a waste of time. You’re still blue, go no contact with exes. Oh and what’s the question again? Congrats you fucked an ex and made her cook for you, it’s not that hard to do.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 11:51 PM
3

Dude what? Read the sidebar and don’t ever text her again
/r/askTRP06/01/20 10:42 PM
5

I always go with one because it’s less butt hurt and you’ll probably fuck her on the next date anyways. If I don’t like their attitude, I’ve done number 2 but it is kinda of nuclear.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 10:21 PM
5

STFU and don’t respond at all. Cover your ass but I don’t believe she’s going to report this. Get the fuck out and next time when a girl says stop to light choking, don’t keep doing it.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 03:24 PM
3

Are you stupid? Don’t talk about sex, it should be natural. Nothing dries up a girl than talking how you are going to fuck her over text. If you’re posting here about this girl you haven’t even fucked yet, you are already in her frame.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 07:16 PM
6

I used to tell them and it’s fucking stupid. I learned my lesson. “Yeah I’m seeing someone” “I’m dating around” “I go out sometimes” Just keep it vague, your friends will get it. Details are for women
/r/askTRP05/01/20 06:48 PM
7

“This isn’t working for me anymore, good luck.”
/r/askTRP05/01/20 06:32 PM
2

You: “What do you like to watch on tv?” Her: “blah blah” You: “oh I’ve heard of that, looks good, let’s go watch it at my place!” Make some drinks at your place and escalate during the show/movie. Don’t mention going to your place for a movie or drinks just go with a in the moment conversation like the one above. Plausible deniability. Good luck and report back!
/r/askTRP04/01/20 07:09 PM
5

Hard next she’s in your head too much.
/r/askTRP04/01/20 06:27 PM
4

Nothing to lose, go for it but don’t expect much
/r/askTRP04/01/20 06:27 PM
1

Sidebar bud
/r/askTRP04/01/20 03:28 AM
3

Forget to bring her earrings and when dinner is done...tell her to come grab them. This is your plausible denability. Good luck
/r/askTRP03/01/20 05:18 AM
1

Maybe it’s better to let this one break if she’s in your head that much!
/r/askTRP03/01/20 04:25 AM
2

This situation just happened to me and My FWB dropped due to her friend matching with me on tinder. Got ghosted a few days after the match, be careful with this shit
/r/askTRP02/01/20 12:21 AM
5

This. Don’t let these girls get in your head with their games, they’re very persistent.
/r/askTRP01/01/20 04:14 PM
8

It’s a plate. If you are free on Friday and it doesn’t interfere with any other plans it’s ok to say yes. If you actually had plans which you should on these weekend days (you’re a busy guy, right?) then tell her you can’t. Don’t overthink this
/r/askTRP01/01/20 04:08 PM
3

Oneitis? Hard next and read the sidebar again. STOP DIGGING THROUGH THE TRASH
/r/askTRP01/01/20 11:11 AM
1

Cool. There’s a billion other girls that aren’t her who haven’t flaked on you and fucked other dudes instead of you. You’re the prize right? Move on
/r/askTRP01/01/20 01:12 AM
114

Happy New Years bud congrats. Really though: Make sure it’s yours and then go for there.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 05:25 PM
7

This long of a post for one girl? Hard next before she breaks you down even more.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 03:17 PM
11

This is your good friends wife. Sure you can probably get a few fucks out of her, but it is really worth the potential drama and betrayal of a friend? Do what you want, but there’s more women out there with less strings. I say stop hanging around them for a while and get rid of her number to lose the temptation.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 08:07 AM
1

You didn’t pump and dump this girl. You have oneitis for her and are hamstering this whole situation. Stop lying to yourself and really think if this is what you want to do
/r/askTRP31/12/19 07:58 AM
3

Mind your own business. They’ll learn in time, on their own accord.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 07:48 AM
1

Sidebar
/r/askTRP31/12/19 07:00 AM
9

Next. Don’t beat yourself up about this one, you got to fuck a stripper for free for a week. You won. She’s a stripper who gets railed by 5 different guys a week, you didn’t fuck up. Chalk it up as a learning experience.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 06:52 AM
1

I was thinking the same question. He definitely didn’t
/r/askTRP31/12/19 04:45 AM
2

Hard next
/r/askTRP31/12/19 04:31 AM
3

Do this. If you know she isn’t worth being more than a plate and you start catching oneitis, just rip off the band aid early. If you let it linger, it will get infected and you’ll be worse off in the long run. There is nothing wrong with having a favorite plate, just remember she is still a plate.
/r/askTRP30/12/19 09:43 PM
2

Lmfao that’s a great response
/r/askTRP30/12/19 09:41 PM
1

She can max be a plate. Enjoy the ride and when she leaves again make sure you have more plates to replace her.
/r/askTRP30/12/19 09:35 PM
1

This is all you need. Great post!
/r/askTRP30/12/19 09:33 PM
2

Seems like a horrible idea, not sure why a hard next and no contact wouldn’t be the trick. Stop giving these girls validation and this might make the oneitis worse by contacting them. If they respond well, then you’re back in the same shitty situation you were in last time.
/r/askTRP30/12/19 07:16 PM
2

It’s happened to me before and it sucks. I’m going through a mild case of oneitis right now as well. Time will heal it and in the future you’ll beat yourself up for how stupid you were to be hung up one this one girl. This is what she wants. She wants to have free rent in your head. Remember all the bullshit that happened and make sure you don’t make the same mistakes with the next girl. This girl doesn’t mean much in the grand scheme of your life, keep on going. You’ll get better. Good luck
/r/askTRP30/12/19 05:41 PM
1

Always have to watch this in the back of your mind or it will creep up on you. Do whatever you want, it’s just your turn. Some last longer, some shorter. Don’t fall for this shit though, that’s how oneitis happens.
/r/askTRP30/12/19 04:29 PM
2

Find your purpose, sleep with hotter women, and start focusing on building your future. Are you making money? What drives you? Women will not complete you, they are just a nice addition to a well rounded life.
/r/askTRP30/12/19 04:25 PM
1

Yes it’s fine
/r/askTRP30/12/19 05:26 AM
1

Sounds about right. Thanks!
/r/askTRP30/12/19 03:43 AM
4

Don’t take tinder seriously at all
/r/askTRP30/12/19 03:41 AM
2

Who is we and why do you give a shit? If you don’t like his posts, don’t read them.
/r/askTRP30/12/19 03:39 AM
3

NEXT
/r/askTRP30/12/19 03:39 AM
5

What’s the question? Who gives a fuck
/r/askTRP30/12/19 01:08 AM
1

Try to forget about it and ghost him.
/r/askTRP30/12/19 12:34 AM
5

If she was a plate, you wish her well. Since this is an LTR, this varies. If she needs a lot of attention and you can’t provide, let her go. If you do genuinely like this girl, tell her you’ve been busy with work and she is a priority or else you wouldn’t be seeing her. She needs more comfort, or spin plates if you can’t commit.
/r/askTRP30/12/19 12:13 AM
2

I used to leave marks and bruises on plates sometimes and I’ve seen them with marks I didn’t leave. They are plates, not your girlfriend. Who cares? If you do you are developing oneitis for this “one girl”
/r/askTRP29/12/19 09:30 PM
1

Sluts are a lot of fun that’s why we grow fond of them. It’s a horrible idea to LTR one, so either keep trying to make it work with a known slut or hard next. Move on with life and focus on fixing the bad things you did in the relationship. Plates break, life goes on.
/r/askTRP29/12/19 06:57 PM
1

All the girls in the world and this is what you want to do? Get a grip and choose another girl
/r/askTRP29/12/19 03:40 PM
3

Good advice. I’ve always been more of a non vocal type when it comes to promotions and demotions. In your experience which is better actually talking to these girls or showing it through actions?
/r/askTRP29/12/19 03:32 PM
5

Dump her and live your life like normal, who cares about the lease?
/r/askTRP29/12/19 12:08 AM
13

You’re 18. Do whatever the fuck you want for the next ten years with women, just don’t settle. Focus on building up yourself. Women are like cats, always coming and going.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 08:23 PM
1

I didn’t have social media for a while then decided to build up an instagram. I did OK and made a decent following. It wasn’t worth it and I wish I spent my time on something else. Get off social media, it doesn’t accomplish anything unless you have a business you are promoting.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 08:22 PM
2

Like 2-3 months
/r/askTRP28/12/19 03:03 AM
1

Seems like you have to chase to get this one, and it usually isn’t worth the effort. Up to you if you think she’s worth hitting up a couple times.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 05:00 AM
3

Yeah bud, give it a shot and come report back in a couple months. She’s definitely not been worn out by 300+ cocks in the past few years. She is incapable of pair bonding.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 04:59 AM
2

No. It doesn’t accomplish anything, withdraw attention. Never promote her past plate/FWB, she’s clearly plating you and isn’t taking it that seriously
/r/askTRP27/12/19 04:58 AM
1

Text for logistics. You fucked it up by texting too much. Next
/r/askTRP25/12/19 04:35 PM
1

She’ll probably end up fucking one of the orbiters, but spin another plate that day. Not worth the potential drama for a concert
/r/askTRP24/12/19 07:58 PM
5

Numbers game. Text other girls who are more interested
/r/askTRP24/12/19 04:53 AM
1

Yes women love taking pictures and yours seems to really enjoy it. So what? If this really bothers you that much then tell her to enjoy the moment or find a girl who doesn’t
/r/askTRP24/12/19 04:52 AM
3

Of course she was, AWALT. He actually wanted to settle with a slut though. Move on OP. The guy will eventually find out she’s cc rider in due time
/r/askTRP23/12/19 06:42 PM
5

He’s her beta bux after getting pumped and dumped on the cc for the past two years
/r/askTRP23/12/19 06:13 PM
2

You’re doing it right man, keep spinning
/r/askTRP22/12/19 10:33 PM
9

This happens so often that it’s laughable. You’ll find someone better than her, don’t entertain her. Ghost and work on yourself, she’ll set you back
/r/askTRP22/12/19 05:45 AM
5

I get my lift in and go do other shit I have to get done. You can be social but I just don’t have time to for it.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 04:56 AM
18

Responding to women after hard nexting them gives a lot of validation. They don’t deserve it and you should keep moving forward. Good advice
/r/askTRP21/12/19 07:32 PM
2

Hard next and never talk to her again. Act as if she is dead
/r/askTRP21/12/19 04:54 PM
13

It happens. Just make sure it doesn’t happen again and learn from it. Life goes on and people worry about their own shit
/r/askTRP21/12/19 12:01 PM
5

Just us. Honestly, not going to that club helped me get that lay more since the whole interaction was less forced
/r/askTRP21/12/19 10:07 AM
8

I did this once. Girl was 20 and they took her fake ID away lol. Built some rapport in the Uber and we bounced from place to place, kino still applies. Ended up at her place a couple hours later after a lot of failed date ideas since it was so late. Had sex anyways and plated her for 3 months, good luck.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 10:02 AM
3

Yes it is. She can’t be anything more than a plate. As always, don’t get attached and keep spinning
/r/askTRP21/12/19 06:33 AM
7

You have to train them and take the lead. Some girls really are freaks if you strike the right chord
/r/askTRP21/12/19 01:42 AM
1

Hard next this controlling freak
/r/askTRP21/12/19 01:41 AM
3

Your what? Your “ex boo”? Ok. Read the sidebar and ghost this girl. Fuck her friends if you want to get back at her.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 01:41 AM
1

Chris brown and the weekend I’ve got two playlists on Spotify lmao
/r/askTRP21/12/19 01:24 AM
19

Happens. Plates break. She’s into another guy right now or you failed a comfort test when you met her friends. Next.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 07:04 PM
6

Just ghost her
/r/askTRP20/12/19 05:12 PM
45

Girls are retarded. Watch what they do, not what they say
/r/askTRP20/12/19 04:54 PM
3

STFU
/r/askTRP20/12/19 04:53 PM
18

Withdraw attention and with all that free time you have now....read the sidebar
/r/askTRP20/12/19 04:50 PM
2

It depends on the girl, but kino is important. If she’s not receptive to you touching her, what makes you think she wants your dick in her?
/r/askTRP20/12/19 04:02 PM
3

It’s just her turn so start fucking multiple girls at once so if one acts up, you next them and aren’t affected. You know how I know this? The side bar
/r/askTRP20/12/19 04:01 PM
2

You don’t want to give a fuck anymore? Ghost and never look back.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 10:20 AM
2

She’s a plate. Do whatever the fuck you want, it’ll break eventually
/r/askTRP20/12/19 01:11 AM
5

Be careful. She senses your a little attached, so if you pull back a lot she’ll notice. Don’t be as available but keep her interested. Good luck
/r/askTRP20/12/19 01:09 AM
1

It’s just a lack of interest. Girls are glued to their phones 24/7 so get busy working on yourself. It’s all a game.
/r/askTRP19/12/19 08:33 PM
1

Best advice for anyone trying to get their broken plates back.
/r/askTRP19/12/19 06:30 PM
8

I think you belong in a mental asylum and the girl should be putting a restraining order on you. You’re delusional and are a harm to yourself and others. Get some help
/r/askTRP19/12/19 06:29 PM
2

It means you should get rid of her and stop living with girls who you’ve only been dating for 2 months. Prescription is the sidebar
/r/askTRP19/12/19 04:23 PM
6

Just ignore her. Keep spinning and she might break soon so keep fucking her good.
/r/askTRP19/12/19 01:16 AM
16

The whole point of tinder and bumble is to get their number ASAP and get them off an app that has them match with 50 guys a day. This is what you WANT. Now just text a little and set up a date
/r/askTRP18/12/19 11:16 PM
13

Girls are crazy, just ignore and hit her up in a few days when she calms down. If she’s still mental, next. She clearly is up and down
/r/askTRP18/12/19 11:15 PM
3

The fact that you know her ovulating schedule means this is scarcity. Get out of her frame now
/r/askTRP18/12/19 10:41 PM
8

You failed because you responded. Their games don’t warrant a response, just ghost them.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 08:38 PM
23

Plate broke. Focus on others, or keep trying to spin a girl who isn’t that into you
/r/askTRP18/12/19 08:06 PM
7

Man I swear some of these questions don’t even warrant answers.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 07:53 PM
1

If we knew what women were thinking at all times we wouldn’t have the red pill. Who gives a fuck...it could have been a million different reasons. Go game other girls.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 07:01 PM
3

She headed to chads house after her and her gay best friend (you) chatted it up all night. If you didn’t want to escalate because she was “too nice” then so be it. Do what you want to do and stop asking us for validation
/r/askTRP18/12/19 05:44 PM
2

Congrats, you’re the plate. If you had two more you were spinning, she’d probably buy you the gift.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 05:40 PM
6

It’s never easy man, five years is a long time. They start hiding their phones more, push their luck with the shit they say, start asking for more, eventually start withholding sex. Don’t respond to you as quickly as they used too. She has a couple other guys she’s ready to swing to and once she does, you never mattered. Light switch effect. Fuck some hotter women after her and hit the gym, you’ll come out ahead in the end.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 05:35 PM
9

Next this one or else she’ll be cheating you on entire time
/r/askTRP18/12/19 05:24 PM
1

No. They are not the prize, why are you putting these women on a pedestal? AWALT
/r/askTRP18/12/19 05:14 PM
2

Yes it does matter. I’m beginning to think you haven’t read the sidebar, start there.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 06:15 AM
2

Next. Unless you think the juice is worth the squeeze then keep trying, but she’s not it.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 06:13 AM
3

Sidebar, start lifting, block her, and gftow Come back in a year and post about how your life is 10x better because of it
/r/askTRP18/12/19 02:03 AM
1

Been there. Next her. Shes lost interest and is looking for a branch to swing too.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 09:47 PM
2

Makes sense. I guess I have to balance my comfort with some plates. I think that’s how I broke my last plate by providing too much comfort and then trying to correct it by being more distant, even though she wanted a promotion.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 08:56 PM
1

What do you mean by BF mode? And how does it lead to the loss of a FWB if you provide some comfort?
/r/askTRP17/12/19 08:17 PM
10

Raise your SMV and attractive girls will be more submissive
/r/askTRP17/12/19 06:05 PM
3

Always add plausible deniability to avoid any ASD
/r/askTRP17/12/19 05:48 PM
1

Talk to them if you’re interested. Stop overthinking and just go do it
/r/askTRP17/12/19 05:48 PM
6

You didn’t “calmly soft next”, you established boundaries. This is good. Sending that last text was stupid, it showed she can get you to lose frame with her behavior. Fix that and she’ll behave
/r/askTRP17/12/19 05:47 PM
3

Good advice. No contact always will work in the long run, and usually we only miss the sex. Start dreading her if you want to become more detached.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 05:39 PM
6

At least read the sidebar and start lifting for 6 months before posting a question. Get to it and then re read your post.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 04:31 AM
2

Post a picture Chief
/r/askTRP17/12/19 01:42 AM
3

Verdict: oneitis Solution: sidebar and gftow Purge her from your mind
/r/askTRP16/12/19 07:09 PM
2

What the fuck is this? Go to the incel subreddit. News flash, it’s not your height that’s hurting you. It’s you’re Attitude and mindset
/r/askTRP16/12/19 06:57 PM
15

If she’s pulling away or doesn’t show interest, match her energy. I want girls who are excited to see me and go out of their way to do it. You’re the prize, act like it.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 06:55 PM
1

Just fuck with them. Don’t even worry about what they’re thinking or what they are going to say. Lead the conversation to what you want and have fun with it. Talk to them for your own entertainment.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 06:53 PM
1

There will be more. Either switch it up or NEXT
/r/askTRP16/12/19 05:36 PM
2

I think the best solution is to just go no contact and move on. Focus on yourself, focus on new prospects, and just let them go. But if you really want to hit them up, just say “been a while, how’s it going”. Don’t expect much and it shows scarcity. You also have nothing to lose though, so it might be worth a shot
/r/askTRP16/12/19 06:22 AM
9

Lift
/r/askTRP16/12/19 04:40 AM
2

Good advice. We don’t lose sleep over 4s here. Plates about to break soon anyways. Drop her
/r/askTRP16/12/19 12:57 AM
1

Next
/r/askTRP16/12/19 12:14 AM
4

Let her do whatever she wants, it’s her life. If you want to fuck her after they break up, go ahead. Just remember, she can’t be promoted from FWB after.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 08:30 PM
5

We all slip up. Just make sure to not repeat the same mistakes next time
/r/askTRP15/12/19 08:28 PM
4

Are you lifting? What’s your SMV? You should have more success if what you are saying is true
/r/askTRP15/12/19 06:15 PM
1

Isolate and escalate. Go find out for yourself
/r/askTRP15/12/19 04:47 PM
1

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 04:47 PM
10

It’s just sex. Focus on everything else and it will be a nice addition to an already fulfilled life.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 06:28 AM
4

She is not “LTR” material, go spend some time with the side bar
/r/askTRP15/12/19 06:26 AM
0

Rule seven
/r/askTRP15/12/19 06:23 AM
3

Cum dumpsters are great, just don’t LTR them
/r/askTRP15/12/19 12:47 AM
2

This is dumb. If you want to fuck hot girls just spin plates, or keep cheating on her and have both. She’ll eventually find out. Keep that in mind
/r/askTRP15/12/19 12:33 AM
1

Don’t ever tell a women the whole truth, she’ll use it against you. They will grow bored and throw you away
/r/askTRP15/12/19 12:31 AM
5

Focus on things you can change or improve on. Dick size is genetic and doesn’t matter that much unless you have a micro penis
/r/askTRP15/12/19 12:30 AM
1

Stop LTRing girls with glaring red flags. Read the sidebar and VET these girls better.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 07:47 PM
20

She’s getting fucked raw by him every other week, enjoy. What the fuck is this question? Soft next her and be prepared to walk away. Don’t be surprised to see a monkey branch attempt in the next few weeks.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 03:55 PM
5

Sure man soft next her. And while you do that, direct your free time to the sidebar and FORGET about this girl.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 03:18 PM
8

This is why LTRs are hard mode. Every girl has been filled with cum by 3 different guys a week. Vet better next time.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 03:11 PM
4

You’re an idiot. When you are with your plates be WITH them. This is how plates break sooner than expected, now go get three more.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 03:09 PM
2

Happens. Next
/r/askTRP14/12/19 01:58 AM
7

Always number two. You’ve been doing great, life is fucking fantastic, never been better. Don’t let her see that she’s hurt you it will validate her. As for the situation, if you want to plate her then say, “been doing good, let’s catch up on x day”. If not, next and don’t respond.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 01:57 AM
6

You handled this perfectly. Keep ignoring her and just play it cool. Love reading posts like this
/r/askTRP14/12/19 01:33 AM
1

You’re right. My main point was to make more money in general for yourself, so you aren’t broke all the time.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 09:19 PM
-2

Make more money, get better at saving, get another job, start having her pay a little bit
/r/askTRP13/12/19 05:36 PM
6

I’d be lying if I said it didn’t bother me a little bit, but that’s why they’re plates. If you don’t like it, stop seeing them.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 05:32 PM
1

How clingy?
/r/askTRP13/12/19 05:08 AM
1

Who cares. Worry about yourself
/r/askTRP13/12/19 05:07 AM
1

“I like where this is going, let’s keep doing what we’re doing and see what happens”
/r/askTRP13/12/19 04:56 AM
1

Welcome to the game
/r/askTRP13/12/19 04:24 AM
10

You’re the plate
/r/askTRP13/12/19 03:07 AM
7

I always sleep with my plates, it doesn’t stop them from breaking. I think it helps prolong them
/r/askTRP13/12/19 01:34 AM
2

Keep fucking more girls. AWALT is real
/r/askTRP13/12/19 01:31 AM
2

Read the sidebar and go monk for a while.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 07:04 PM
4

It’s your mom, the only women who will actually love you for you. It’s understandable to freak out when something bad happens to her. As for the LTR, just maintain frame from now on and if she doesn’t help you now then she deserves a next.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 07:02 PM
36

Sorry to hear, oneitis is a bitch. Focus on lifting, hanging out with some friends, and game some new girls when you are out and about. You’ll get better with time.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 06:44 PM
1

Fuck man. You sure it’s yours? Good luck...
/r/askTRP12/12/19 05:49 PM
2

Keep spinning until it breaks, which it will very soon
/r/askTRP12/12/19 04:14 PM
14

Why the fuck did you make this girl your GF without having sex with her and vetting her for at least 6 months? Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 08:56 AM
1

Good call. If she doesn’t, she wasn’t that interested anyways. Keep spinning my man
/r/askTRP12/12/19 08:46 AM
1

She’s with her another guy tonight, your call if you want sloppy seconds tomorrow.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 08:34 AM
7

N suns
/r/askTRP12/12/19 03:00 AM
1

You’re 16. If you actually read this shit and apply it, you’ll be light years ahead of people your age.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 01:23 AM
49

Bring her along to an event or place you were going to go too. Have her involved in your life, she’ll love it. Although, I try not to do this too often as it builds a lot of comfort. Meeting up to hang out and just have sex is ideal.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 01:22 AM
17

Next. She’s a fucking train wreck, not even worth plating.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 12:07 AM
1

This. Well fitted clothes, clean look, nice haircut, and some confidence.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 09:23 PM
1

Sidebar. Oneitis. GFTOW. If you had more plates this wouldn’t cross your mind
/r/askTRP11/12/19 08:56 PM
5

Obviously talk to her and escalate if she’s Responding well to your advances. Tinder girl though so be careful, she might flake. Wrap it up.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 07:46 PM
13

Stop overthinking this. Text her when you want to set up the next meet
/r/askTRP11/12/19 07:16 PM
5

Yes. Always have a plan in the back of your mind of where you want to end up. Who cares about the girl, find your purpose.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 07:02 PM
11

Sounds like a decent relationship and I know this one is going to be hard on you. Find another girl who craves you and you’ll notice a big difference. When the sex dies down, everything else will make you bitter. Good luck
/r/askTRP11/12/19 05:29 PM
2

Nice job dissecting this mess of a post. This is all you need to read OP.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 05:19 PM
3

Are you not fucking these girls?
/r/askTRP11/12/19 04:11 PM
1

What the fuck did I just read? Doesn’t matter anymore, read the sidebar. In your case, start with NMMNG
/r/askTRP11/12/19 03:53 PM
23

Scarcity. When this relationship inevitably fails you’ll be a lot worse off than if it ended now. Stop being a pussy, you know what you have to do.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 03:08 PM
1

With your dick
/r/askTRP11/12/19 05:16 AM
4

She’s not interested. Be normal and proceed with life
/r/askTRP11/12/19 03:24 AM
5

Sounds like a good one. Keep spinning brother, more like her will come. Girls know before we do what they want from us. Hold frame and move forward.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 02:49 AM
2

This is the perfect situation and you’re complaining about it? Go find more plates and you’ll stop thinking about this one. She has at least two more dudes that are fucking her raw every week. Wrap it up
/r/askTRP11/12/19 02:46 AM
3

Stop hamstering you sound like a women.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 02:44 AM
3

Doesn’t sound like a good LTR, but don’t mate guard. Go lift and dread her a little bit by being less available. If she starts showing signs of branch swinging, next her.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 08:39 PM
1

Look up the dicarlo escalation in the sidebar.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 07:07 PM
1

Leave your ego at the door and read the sidebar. Internalize it and you’ll be a new man in a year.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 07:06 PM
1

Never be afraid to lose her. You are the prize. If she starts being distant and moody, you become more distant and stoic. If she leaves, she leaves. Good luck
/r/askTRP10/12/19 07:03 PM
3

That’s we we call it: isolate and escalate. They don’t want to be whores, only behind closed doors.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 07:01 PM
1

Plate is cracking, so start gaming other chicks. She might come around, but most likely not. Hit her up in a few day if you feel like it.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 06:59 PM
1

Maybe she was busy, maybe she was on chads cock, or maybe she really was tired. Get out of her frame and stop waiting for her to respond to you within 5 minutes...go to the gym or something
/r/askTRP10/12/19 04:45 AM
1

Hit her up if you want, or not. I soft nexted a girl and she never hit me up, so it became a permanent next. Sometimes it’s just not worth the trouble but if you like her enough don’t be afraid to set up a meet.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 01:23 AM
9

Don’t mention it and just end it. Vet better next time. Good luck
/r/askTRP09/12/19 06:28 PM
3

When you have to ask this question. Rip off the band aid and move on.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 10:58 AM
1

No, you’ll grow dependent on it. Just fuck her and learn from it.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 01:58 AM
2

Next her and then read the sidebar
/r/askTRP09/12/19 01:57 AM
5

This doesn’t seem worth the time or effort. Give her one more shot if you want, if your escalation attempt fails again...next.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 05:49 AM
2

It always is. You’ll come out ahead in the end if you keep working on yourself.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 01:57 AM
3

It’s done now, so just move forward. Stick with no contact, talking to her never solves anything but let’s her hamster spin. Keep her blocked for your own sanity, but it usually is a beta move.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 01:40 AM
61

Jesus Christ, can someone take your fucking phone away? Just ghost her next time, don’t explain yourself. Oh and read the sidebar 100 times because you clearly haven’t.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 11:22 PM
14

Keep grinding. Work towards your goal and it will all get better in the next few months. Build your future now and you’ll see the rewards. Don’t worry about that girl, it was just her turn. Once you go back and fuck ten other women she’ll be an after thought. You got this bro, stay focused on your mission.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 11:20 PM
2

Women have the attention span of a puppy. Always be closing or they’ll forget about you in a second. Keep moving forward brother
/r/askTRP07/12/19 10:42 PM
2

Tinder girls are attention whores. Your “friend” is dumb as fuck. Don’t bother with responding to her unless it’s an invite to hang out with her
/r/askTRP07/12/19 10:40 PM
5

Stick to the gym and next her
/r/askTRP07/12/19 06:37 AM
2

Just had a girl like this, so strange. One week she’s obsessed and then a week later ghosts...kinda fucked with me. But I guess I can’t take it personally, just wish I saw it coming.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 09:59 PM
2

Honestly man, I’ve been thinking of all the ways I could have fucked it up too. At the end of the day, it could be anything. Maybe you were to available, maybe she met chad, maybe she lost interest. It was just your turn, and she’s not worth the time to think about. I fucked two girls after the soft next, but they weren’t as hot. Fucking a hotter girl is the only solution.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 06:16 AM
1

20%? Whatever man don’t think about it. Fuck these hoes, you do you.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 05:46 AM
4

She nexted you my man. Been there. On to the next!
/r/askTRP06/12/19 03:56 AM
2

Has she texted you at all during this time? Last girl I soft nexted didn’t, so it became a hard next...you might be In a similar situation.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 01:08 AM
2

All your answers are in the sidebar. Read it.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 02:23 AM
5

Don’t be afraid to lose her. Soft nexting is still a next, she could have moved on and lost interest. Seems like you’re in her frame. It happens. Fix that and focus on yourself.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 11:49 PM
5

It’s done. Go with option 1 if you want to have leverage when she comes back, or not. GFTOW
/r/askTRP04/12/19 02:52 AM
1

She’s not your plate, she’s your girlfriend. Either find more or get rid of her because you have oneitis.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 04:00 PM
1

Just say, “yeah...right” in a sarcastic tone. It’s a shit test
/r/askTRP27/11/19 02:33 AM
1

Interesting perspective. Not OP, but thanks for the advice.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 06:42 PM
1

Beginning of the end. Start fresh and next her
/r/askTRP19/11/19 05:18 PM
10

Happens all the time. Ignore
/r/askTRP14/09/19 06:18 PM
-3

Are you trying to plate her, or pump and dump?
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