Basically I have this fwb who was almost up for promotion to ltr. Always keen for dates I suggest and meet when I want. She's attempted the talk on me twice. However she is on a trip to argentina for a few weeks with her family.

Think we've had a bit of a wobble. She knows I went out at the weekend with the crew and I may have failed a comfort test some point. It's not the same as it once was. She added to her story a video at a street party at night trying to dread me. I'm like ok cool, I'm just going to do my own thing. No point dreading her more when shes hundreds of miles away. She was trying to say how much of a good girl she was going to be on this trip and how it would be so long without sex. Which could be bs or whatever.

She says she wants to continue seeing me when shes back. I know we are only fwb but she was on the verge of ltr so I shouldn't expect anything.

I'm just kinda sad rn not even angry, i know I need more abundance which I've been trying to work on. I much prefer having an emotional connection than fucking a hole. The sex is way better. She was such a good fwb and was in running for a promotion but this has put a dampener on things. Can't see me upgrading her now regardless of what she's done. Don't wanna be a cuck. Don't want to play Schrödingers did she hookup or not and I'll never know if she did. Just in a weird spot right now.

Think I will just leave this as fwb until it eventually breaks.

Radio silence until she hits me up is what to do?

What would you do in my position?

Tell me what I need to hear