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Opperkech69/r/askTRP16/12/19 07:29 PM
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Doesn't matter if she's your enemy. Her imagination will always triumph what you say. She can reshape her imagination to whatever mood she is in. It will fit her mood better at any time. If she knows the truth, she can't adjust it anymore. I'm not telling you to lie to her but it's always better to keep it vague . But of course, do what you want. It's your life, if you enjoy saying the truth. Go for it.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 02:51 PM
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Have you changed? Did you become complacent? Did you act differently in the beginning? You're trying to search for a solution in the wrong place.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 02:47 PM
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They are smart but lack emotional awareness and courage. Both of which are needed to thrive in a social environments. Being smart isn't a disadvantage.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 06:27 PM
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"Cya in 2 months then, or hit me up if you wanna come by :)" Butthurt and neediness all in one sentence. You need to grasp the mindset of the sidebar and not just use the lines as a quick cheat. You're using it in the wrong manner.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 10:08 AM
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saying guys don’t get what sex really is Those are the ones that cheat. Sex ain't special they say, sex is just something you do for fun. At the same time they say that you should commit to them. It's literally them telling you: "Hey if I'm drunk, I will cheat, I can't do anything about it, it's in my genes. But you should never flirt or even talk to another girl!"
/r/askTRP27/03/20 12:00 PM
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You didn't fuck her cause you fear losing your virginity. Not because it was "too much". Don't text that. It sounds needy and you sound like a girl in that text. Always assume attraction! You're a man, you should be busy doing other stuff and not get distracted by that.
/r/askTRP26/03/20 10:18 PM
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You did alright. Could use her as a back-up fuck but no more dating, just fucking. Anyway, I wouldn't see her anymore. I find that I am able to keep just fucking girls who disrespected me and still enjoy the fucking but it lowers my motivation to get new plates, so now I just cut em off completely.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 01:31 PM
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Your world is made by your own choices. You seem to have recognized a mismatch in what you want and what you do. So choose.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 01:49 PM
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Can people of my type still get laid or is loneliness something I have to accept? Do you get laid? There's your answer to the question. Again, the whole point is that I want to attract women through my personality That's what lazy people say. You're lazy.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 10:00 AM
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Stop asking and find out.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 09:53 AM
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?I am in a very stable mental state so i dont think the problem is in me Yeah we can see that. You clearly are.
/r/askTRP21/03/20 04:42 PM
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I used to try to impress them during dates cause I taught they were better. They ain't better. I'm the one with a university degree, I'm the one who's 1m90, I'm the one who's stronger and I'm the one who knows what to do in life. All they search for is for a guy who knows what to do and has fun along the way. She's applying for a place in MY world cause she knows her world is empty and nothing to see there.
/r/askTRP21/03/20 11:58 AM
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Once I started thinking: "She's an absolute slut" during my dates but still treat them with respect and joy, that's when my results started to increase rapidly.
/r/askTRP21/03/20 09:50 AM
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Sidebar. But remember. You want her to WANT to please you, not out of fear or duty. You want her to WANT to fuck you, not out of fear or obligation cause you're manipulating her. It's a very thin line.
/r/askTRP21/03/20 09:45 AM
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There was a girl that wanted to fuck me. I only seen her 4 evenings out, 4 of which she was hitting on me hard. I didn't reciprocate but cause i was drunk somehow ended in her house during the last night out. She desperately wanted to fuck but I didn't. I figured the fuck would not have worth all the talking from my friends afterwards. Anyway, 3 days later she sets me up with her best friend (who was also hot in my eyes.) Why?? I don't have a single clue. But I gave up on understanding girls lon…
/r/askTRP21/03/20 09:43 AM
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I had a friend who started his own business. He had a girlfriend when he started but was just so passionate about his company that he didn't have time for his GF. He just didn't care anymore. His GF dumped him, he didn't fuck any girl for the next 8 months but he was one of the happiest people I'd ever seen. Always on the grind to find the next thing for his company. He sure could get laid anytime in those 8 months but he was just so focused with only one goal in mind. Now he got a great company…
/r/askTRP20/03/20 08:48 PM
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Same here when I started reading TRP but in a different way. Whenever a girl came over I had to have sex with her. I was so focused on sex sex sex, all was about the sex. Even when I wasn't in the mood for sex, I had to have sex with her.... Now I'm a lot more peaceful. It ain't all about the sex. It's okey to not have sex for once and just have fun with the girl.
/r/askTRP20/03/20 08:41 PM
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Compliments coming from a place to just please her cause you fear losing her, want to manipulate her into fucking you is a no-no. Complements coming from a place cause you just want to make her happy cause that's what you want is a Yes yes. It's a thin line but those who get it will understand.
/r/askTRP20/03/20 08:10 PM
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You already know how to get your life in order. Stop bitching and whining about it.
/r/askTRP20/03/20 10:32 AM
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I’m a fan of open and honest communication And I am too but you don't get it. You are going to whine, and bitch about past occurrences thinking you're demanding respect but all you're doing is being needy because you want her to confirm that she cares about you. That ain't communication. she clearly exhibiting signs of avoidant attachment. No that's your emotions talking.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 11:40 AM
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Act like nothings wrong.There's no point in discussing what happened? Think, what would you achieve by bringing it up?
/r/askTRP18/03/20 10:31 PM
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You're baised. You can't claim #1.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 10:24 PM
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She'll be back within a week for sure.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 10:17 PM
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Exposure does fix social anxiety. Exposure does also fix the way you think. When you experience reality is totally different than you thought it was, your mindset will adjust.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 09:06 PM
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Exposure.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 07:43 PM
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In the part where they say to take action instead of doing mental masturbation.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 07:30 PM
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If I wanted a job and asked for an interview multiple times and all they do is keep responding in a friendly way but never make a commitment to a specific date, then i'd stop texting that company too and go to the next....
/r/askTRP14/03/20 07:17 PM
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Left with nothing? I got an awesome evening talking to some random chicks and random dude. Sure a bang at the end of the night would be awesome but I still had an awesome night out... If it's a date and you're not having fun, leave.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 09:19 PM
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Sad but true.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 09:17 PM
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Don't engage. You can't win fights like that. Just ignore her and if she takes your laptop or whatever, you tell her in a friendly but form manner that you don't put up with that shit and that you don't like it. You don't raise your voice, you don't act annoyed, you give her absolutly zero emotion. You say your thing and you disengage! If she goes screaming at you you tell her something in the form of: "Hey, I love you but you're not acting in a loving way and I'm not going to communicate with y…
/r/askTRP11/03/20 07:10 PM
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I usually reply in a ridiculous way, then change the subject slightly by returning another question.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 05:21 PM
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People get mad when you take away something from them what they already have. Next time you acquire a new plate, don't reply during the day and only reply during the evening but keep it friendly.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 04:47 PM
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She's a plate, who cares what she says....
/r/askTRP11/03/20 04:43 PM
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What do you expect? You're beating around the bush and wasting your and her time with boring stupid conversation. If a girl would be texting such a stupid shit to me, I wouldn't reply either.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 01:45 PM
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Wtf is beta about giving a compliment?
/r/askTRP10/03/20 12:43 PM
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Yeah, not all the time but I've done it multiple times. Just grab your coat, tell her to get hers and start walking in the direction of your home.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 06:58 PM
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I get a invite much later than everyone else would (which I always decline bc I ain’t no bitch and won’t accept a last minute invite) The ego is big on this one. Beggars can't be choosers. Also, how many times have you invited or organized something yourself?
/r/askTRP07/03/20 04:48 PM
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Don't kiss at clubs. Talk to them, then bounce venues, then bounce to your dorm/house without saying you're going there. That's how I do it.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 09:34 AM
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You'll be in better shape. That's the only thing that will change if all you do is lift and hope. All the rest will be exactly the same.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 08:32 PM
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Walk up & say hi.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 03:43 PM
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Then why didn't you hang out with your buddies?
/r/askTRP04/03/20 06:51 PM
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Why do all these newbies go on dates as if it's you vs her. It is you with her having fun, not you against her! All she did was ask a simple question about social media and you took it as if you had to proof something...
/r/askTRP04/03/20 06:40 PM
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Any girl who wants to be exclusive but not your girlfriend is using you as a placeholder. I learnt that the hard way.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 02:21 PM
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How is this directed at you? You didn't ask her out. You just said you were gonna hit up a local bar.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 10:08 PM
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Cause you allow her too. Next time she does it tell her you don't like to play that game and if she doesnt want to fuck thzt she can leave. You're not gonna put up with something like that. All in a calm and respectful tone.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 06:08 PM
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I've had plates tell me: "My stomache hurts. I still wanna come but we probably won't have sex due to it.". I always reply something like: "Okey, we'll see. See you tonight!" We always had sex. I guess most of them just use it as a form of: "Seeeeee I still get to come even when I say we're not having sex so he's not just using me for sex." We always end up having sex. Unless you got a better plate for that night, invite that one over and wish her well and tell her you don't want to catch the fl…
/r/askTRP26/02/20 03:46 PM
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You have a wrong mindset. Talking to girls is fun. It ain't a task, it's fun. Texting a girl is fun, trying out your chances is fun. It's all fun! If we could get them at a snap of a finger, what's the fun in that? Stop whining like a little bitch. Nobody says you have to start talking to girls, nobody says you have to text them. So if you don't want to, just don't and leave us alone.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 07:45 PM
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If you have to soft next so much then I hate to break it to you buddy. She either has other values than you and you aren't a great fit or she isn't that into you.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 07:39 PM
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You sure TRP isn't rising to your head? She's actually trying really hard and all you are is annoyed. It seems like you're the one with the problem, not her.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 02:47 PM
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Own it.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 11:15 AM
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Depends on the situation. Mostly that is the right move.
/r/askTRP23/02/20 07:36 PM
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Nope. That is just a show of skills. She has to see another girl investing attention in you.
/r/askTRP23/02/20 02:23 PM
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Only yesterday i realized - it's not a fear of rejection or me finding an excuses - I can approach without a problem, but i am lazy to talk to them after. I don't wanna maintain the conversation. So that's what hold me off from approaching. You sure it's this and not just the fact that your scared of what you would do when you actually were successful? It's like the virgin who would love to fuck a girl, but if then a hot girl tries to pull him to her home, he's too scared.
/r/askTRP23/02/20 02:21 PM
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Flirt/Talk/Have fun with other girls while in public. She has to see with her own eyes that other girls find you attractive, fun. Works wonders.
/r/askTRP23/02/20 02:14 PM
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One of your plates or your only plate? Soft next. Let her initiate and then setup a meetup. You got enough plates to fuck and this doesn't even seem into you. Why don't you fuck the other ones and acquire a new one who's into you?
/r/askTRP22/02/20 04:52 PM
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There are multiple ways build a road. Same counts for getting girl. THe fact that one way works, doesn't mean the other won't.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 01:31 PM
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And I would like to request to win the lottery. Kid, the world ain't work that way.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 10:26 PM
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If they wanna meet, schedule them to come to your place on a night that if they don't show up, you don't lose anything. If you don't have evenings like that, just ignore.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 05:34 PM
1

Dude.... ever heard of Google?
/r/askTRP18/02/20 06:32 PM
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Group of girls looking at me like I am a creep, telling me to go away, getting their friend to shush me away. Not once has a girl seriously yelled at me or hit me after all those cringe approaches I made.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 05:30 PM
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You decide and tough it out.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 11:28 AM
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. I'VE NEVER seen a cold approach in all the years ive been out If you're in a big town, nobody will notice. Not even my friends do if I get rejected 10+ times in a night. All I hear from them after a while of cold approaching was: "Opperkech69 is always talking to girls, he's good with girls" but I still suck balls and get rejected most of the time. I just know how to gauge if the girl is into me after all these approaches than just straight up verbal rejection. But I still get rejected in hars…
/r/askTRP18/02/20 10:33 AM
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It's cause you are. What did you expect? That you were gonna be a pro in it after 6 approaches? Tough it out. Fail, adjust, fail adjust. When you've been rejected a LOT, rejection doesn't hurt much anymore.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 10:11 AM
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Just a way for her hamster to justify fucking you later that night. If she fucks a player, she's a slut. If she fucks a good person, she's just a good girl giving an honest person a chance. Doesn't matter what your response was. She already decided she liked you.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 01:21 PM
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A buddy of mine is married to a beautiful wife. Sex on demand and they have only had 2 fights in 20 years. The fact that you need drama to keep them attracted is bullshit.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 01:00 PM
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Help! I improve myself a lot but never talk nor interact with girls. How come I can't get girls???
/r/askTRP16/02/20 12:59 PM
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Stop trying to make people laugh. It doesn't work. Make yourself laugh. Do they laugh with you? No? Adjust and find another method to make yourself laugh that isn't retarded until you found a way which works. And most off all, if they don't like your joke. Own it, don't be ashamed by it.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 03:59 PM
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Stop trying to make them laugh. Make yourself laugh. I have this friend who gives zero fucks about others but is always laughing and it makes me laugh even if his jokes are stupid.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 03:52 PM
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Get loads of attentions from other girls would be the best way. I doubt she'd let you fuck her though that night. Although if she sees other hot girls want to fuck you, she'll come up and talk to you and most likely initiate contact in the following days. Anyway, you got oneitis. Focus on other girls.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 10:32 PM
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Stop whining and stop being a little bitch. That's what you can do for yourself.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 08:03 PM
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I just feel like telling her I don't think it's appropriate behavior and if she wants to continue doing this then she should just be single. Does it matter what she thinks? Tell her and is she doesn't comply, dump her. Or don't tell her and be unhappy.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 02:55 PM
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She's your FWB. She has the right to fuck whoever she wants whenever she wants. You're just a placeholder for her while she's looking for a better dude.
/r/askTRP01/02/20 05:34 PM
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You don't decide SMV, they do. I was once fucking a girl who thought the only virgin of our group was the biggest player she ever met and would fuck loads of girls. The reason she thought that was cause this dude was always happy, chill and relaxed.
/r/askTRP01/02/20 12:16 PM
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Can you get your dick hard when masturbating? Then it's a psychological issue that you need to perform. Stop trying to perform for the girl. Use her, the only reason I make her cum is cause I enjoy them moan, it turns me on. And if I make them cum, they're more horny which results in better sex for me.
/r/askTRP01/02/20 09:10 AM
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The bushes seemed to work fine for me from time to time.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 07:39 PM
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You're to fat now, we get it. Then you solved that issue and then you're too busy for work, and then you got this other thing going on.... It's always gonna be something. Approach now. Monk Mode is for at home, at work when you're busy but when you're at the mall, at a work event, approaching ain't gonna damage your Monk Mode in anyway. You got nothing better to do anyway in those moments.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 07:37 PM
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Lots and lots of exposure and practice. Ooh you say, but I want a step-by-step guide? Here it is my friend: Step 1. Try to talk/seduce a girl into having sex with you Step 2: Fail miserably? Go to step 3. Got laid? Go back to step 1. Step 3: Adjust using the new gained reference experience. Step 4: Return to Step 1.
/r/askTRP29/01/20 10:56 PM
1

That's reading the situation coming from a mindset that this girl isn't attracted to you.
/r/askTRP29/01/20 05:13 PM
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Situation can go both ways. She's your placeholder.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 05:00 PM
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Who gives a fuck if a plate replies late? Stop being butthurt, just lower her priority in your life.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:30 PM
2

Yup. She's using you to not be lonely till she finds a replacement. You're indeed a placeholder. Take advantage of the position or cap it off. That's up to you.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:25 PM
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If you don't want to kill yourself, then why don't you start living your OWN life instead of bitching about it ending it? Nobody says you have to keep living the way you're living your life now. You're not directionless, you already know which way not to go, so take another route. Nobody is stopping you but yourself...
/r/askTRP27/01/20 12:28 PM
-5

So then why haven't you already done it? Commiting suicide? Nobody is/was keeping you prisoner in your own life. You're a free man.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 12:18 PM
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You already analyzed it. She either has low interest, something else was on her mind or that's how she "games". Stop overthinking and pondering about it. You already know what's up and it will clarify itself on the second date. Thinking more about it now will do nothing.
/r/askTRP26/01/20 06:44 PM
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Stop hamstering. Go on a second date and escalate. Maybe she something important to do that had to be done before X o'clock or she was gonna be in big trouble, maybe she had to pick her mom up from the police station cause she got arrested. Or maybe she got low interested. Does it matter? No
/r/askTRP26/01/20 06:35 PM
2

This is basic sidebar shit.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 09:04 PM
2

Do what you want.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 08:18 PM
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You don't decide your SMV, girls do.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 08:16 PM
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Who's fucking her? You or him? Case closed.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 10:25 AM
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How do you expect her to text first when you initiate text three fucking times a day? You're trying to find your own happiness in the form of a woman. That doesn't exist. Find your own happiness, then share it with a woman so you're even more happy. That's how it works, not the other way around. You're a needy ass bitch and it's turning her off.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 09:02 PM
0

None. Books are mental masturbation and should only be read when you're already doing it.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 05:33 PM
1

Then be/become respectable.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 05:30 PM
2

If there's no point in anything than you might as well do what you want huh?
/r/askTRP22/01/20 11:53 AM
5

Sunken costs. Stop whining like a little bitch and stop imagining situations that don't happen. STFU and act.
/r/askTRP22/01/20 11:49 AM
3

People are attracted to what they can't have. Eating ice cream every single day will make it dull.. Getting it shoved in your face everyday will make you start getting a disgust for ice cream.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 11:34 PM
1

So you fucked up and gained a valuable experience. Never invite random dudes back to your home which means you got 1 step closer to knowing how to achieve what you want. It sucks to say but the only way to get there is exposing and fucking up many times and big of those times.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 09:39 PM
2

Exposure. The more you fuck up, the better you get at it.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 09:21 PM
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Had the same issue. It's because you have the wrong mindset and trying to entertain them while you should focus on having fun yourself. I experienced that if I enjoy myself, they mostly enjoy it too. I say the most ridiculous and stupid stuff to people and it's awesome.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 09:03 PM
3

The more skilled you become at anything, the more confident you get at it. Pratice makes perfect. Starting out is always hard. The only way I to achieve that is practice and exposure. Over time you'll get better at it and be more confident. Or find new friends everytime your old friends don't go out anymore.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 08:37 PM
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You weren't the same in all settings. You're lying to yourself. Sure your body is still the same but you said it yourself alone .... Competition is a lot fiercer Your body language probably spoke volumes about your confidence. Your confidence with your friends was a lot higher than alone in that other club. It's easy to spot and changes everything. And stop being dependent on IOI's. Just go talk to woman as if they are normal people. IOI's will come then.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 07:37 PM
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Dude all you are is blablablapediebla and then some more blablablubedieplabiebla. STFU and take action.Theory is useless without implementation. Stop reading and start doing. All you're doing right now is trying to convince other people of some theory that you yourself, don't even know if it is the truth. You just based it on some subs, articles you read online. Get your own experience and then come back. Until then STFU.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 02:59 PM
1

Everybody does that up to some point.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 10:23 PM
172

*4 beta orbiters, not 3.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 03:36 PM
11

"Oh just basic stuff. What's up with that there over there though?" "Wouldn't you like to know, wouldn't you?" "I ate some delicious dessert. Take your jacket, I wanna go to McDo" ​ She ain't interested at all in what you did. All she cares is starting a conversation with you. You don't have to share your full day. Either deflect with AA, or share a tiny little detail from the day and change subject to another topic or onto her.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 11:38 AM
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Guy's mind: Guy likes girl. Guy sees girl looking at me. Hmm she must like me. I got to act cool. Girls sits next to me. Hmmm this must mean something. She's playing with her hair. She definetly likes me. Next day they meet again in class. Guy gets fed up cause girl isn't sitting next to her. Guy thinks he fucked up. The stupid bitch. How dare she be so friendly, acting all that she likes me and now not sit next to me. Damn I still like her though. What did I do to fuck up. Oooh wait, she just l…
/r/askTRP19/01/20 10:21 AM
5

They laughed at me, they embarrassed me, they made a fool of me, I made a fool of me, I embarrassed myself, I fucked up. I fucked up a LOT. Yet here I am now, with a girl by my side. Now who's laughing? Now who's the fool? You, my friend, bitching about not having a girl or me?
/r/askTRP18/01/20 08:44 PM
1

You sure? My college is full of skinny fat people.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 08:38 PM
2

Your mindset is completely wrong. Why don't you take the: "LMAO I was drunk" as a: "Sorry I was so annoying last night. I was drunk" instead of "I was drunk. I don't have interest in you"
/r/askTRP18/01/20 08:34 PM
2

Start dating other woman. Shit vanishes instantly from your mind when you're fucking multiple woman at the same time.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 09:37 PM
26

Why isn't she the one afraid losing you while talking to her ex?
/r/askTRP17/01/20 09:33 PM
1

Do you get rock solid morning wood? Can you get it up just masturbating and does it get rock solid? If so, it's all mental. Stop overthinking shit. Invite her over and if it's limb so be it, you're gonna have fun anyway. Who gives a fuck if it's limb? You don't, you're here to have fun.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 09:31 PM
1

Shit test? This ain't a shit test. She was just telling this showing you that she's loyal to you (and to indirectly increase her value in your eyes.) Stop overthinking stupid shit like that and go have a life.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 09:28 PM
1

You're not nice. You're having fun. While all these other guys try to extract fun, in other words fucking, from these girls, you are just there to have fun. And having fun with a girl naturally escalates to fucking. With or without the girl, you're gonna have fun. It's her choice to take it or leave it. When they're with you it's the girl who thinks she has captured you, while your friends directly hitting on them makes them think the guy is choosing them. Big difference. What's fun about someth…
/r/askTRP16/01/20 10:07 AM
1

Google exists you know. It will present you the answer in your preference. Compact in a few lines or as a whole essay of 20+ pages long. If you would have Googled this shit, you would have known the answer within a minute or a few minutes if you're a little slow.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 11:29 PM
1

I never post or snap on snapchat. I reply to snaps with short chat messages about once a week. I do it for two reasons: I like receiving those snaps. Like to keep a little easy contact with friends. Works wonders when you receive a snapchats from other girls you barely hang out with while laying in bed with another girl.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 08:31 PM
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This guy knows what's up. Girls who are attracted to you and exclusive towards you will be happy to invite you to any event they go to. And they'll surely not make up reasons for you to not go with her. Once I had this girl for about 8 months in plate, then FWB status. I decided to try a relationship with her. Two months in, I told her in a conversation I was going out on Saturday. Her reaction was an astonished and very little annoyed: "You go out two days in the weekend?" She had never replied…
/r/askTRP13/01/20 05:38 PM
3

Bro's before hoes. It's a healthy competition. It's mostly pretty clear what's acceptable and which girls are off limits or not. I'm surely not gonna cry if a girl rejects me during the night and then later that night one of my friends is kissing/fucking her. I would be happy for him. I sure sometimes want to fuck a girl one of my mates is fucking but our friendship is worth so much more that hitting on those girls doesn't even come to my mind. I'd rather hit on a new girl in the club.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 11:47 AM
6

My three best friends and I always snap insults at eachother. "You're fat, go to the gym fat retard!' "Dude that shirts ugly as hell, where the fuck did you get that?" Sometimes they'll tell me something that stings really hard deep down and I'll be ashamed. But damn, I needed that. They see right through the masks I put up to hide my shit. They're the ones that keep pointing on my shit so I fix it instead of pushing it aside. And I do the same for them cause that's what real friends do.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 10:22 AM
1

The game's unfair... but that's what makes the game so goddamn enjoyable.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 09:57 AM
3

Are you sure you're really feeling guilt? Or do you deep down know that's just another excuse because you fear getting rejected?
/r/askTRP12/01/20 08:40 PM
3

https://bookofpook.com/perfect-is-boring/
/r/askTRP12/01/20 03:54 PM
7

Does it really matter? Maybe they just click... Maybe he's just funny when together and they vibe really well... who knows.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 03:49 PM
11

Perfect is boring. Nothing is fun about a perfect dude who has all of his time scheduled doing boring shit keeping his image perfect.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 03:42 PM
1

None of what your saying applies to this stuff. She's clearly trying to see if she can toy him around to see if his time is valuable. He should nip this shit in the bud immediately. A valuable man would not keep a timeslot in the weekend open for a maybe. Tell her: "Ooh well, we'll do it another time. Hit me up when you have your schedule figured out. Love to meet ya."
/r/askTRP12/01/20 03:28 PM
1

okey okey, I got ya. You're stuck.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 02:53 PM
1

Let's meet Friday. Come meet me 9PM at X.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 01:51 PM
2

Just go out... like who knows? Maybe she's soo freaking amazing you will want to marry her in 6 months. Maybe she's such a twat you don't even want to fuck her when you meet her in real life. Those are her plans, not yours. Does she fit in your plan of meeting up with her in the next couple of days is the only question you need to ask yourself right now.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 01:46 PM
1

I used to be in a university with only 5 girls on 200 dudes. I'd used to go out, befriend psychology chicks, fuck them and go out with them. Read the sidebar twice and stop reading! Go out, talk to girls, cuss at them, embarrass yourself. And stop saying your stuck. You're not stuck, you almost got zero responsibilities except for going to school. Wait till you are 40, got kids, a wife, bills to pay. Talk again then, if this is your mindset already in your 20's, trust me, you're not gonna get pr…
/r/askTRP11/01/20 01:42 PM
9

Then get more extreme exposure so this seems like peanuts.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 01:41 PM
5

Exposure.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 01:12 PM
5

Dude, stop overthinking shit like this. Change your mindset, stop searching for little cheatcodes and rules to follow. Change your mindset or your never gonna get there. ​ To answer your question: Depends on the context
/r/askTRP09/01/20 09:38 PM
8

That's not what NC is for. NC is for you, to get better and happier without her
/r/askTRP09/01/20 11:26 AM
2

Seems like she's down to fuck another time. Chance is that she had already planned the night with another dude. Who knows, doesn't matter.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 09:56 AM
7

Have some respect for your mum. She worked and still works her ass off to support your lazy ass. She doesn't grow money on her back. You lazy fuck. You drink, you smoke and only got 24, only 24 fucking hours of uni and you're here complaining. Holy fuck. You literally only have to sit 24 hours out of the 168 hours on your lazy dumb ass. Grow the fuck up, you got it waaaaaayyyy better than 99% of people in the world.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 09:34 PM
3

That's why he said sneak them in. or fuck them outside, fuck them in the mall, fuck her at her house... so many places you can fuck.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 09:20 PM
11

Choosing is losing my friend, but remember that not choosing is worse. Make up your mind.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 09:19 PM
3

Don't choose your university based on woman. You're gonna regret it. Fuck woman from parties, invite them over again to fuck, then befriend them, invite them for pre-drinks and meet all their friends and fuck them too. I'm an engineer myself where about 2% of students is female.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 07:59 PM
2

If she ain't asking for an official exclusive relationship, she ain't planning on being exclusive. Even if she is telling you guys to be exclusive fwb's.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 07:46 PM
2

You're too available. You guys already see each other enough so why would she commit when there are so many other options out there that she can take advantage off in her young years? She knows she got you wrapped around her finger and that she's your number #1 already. Stop seeing her multiple times a week, be busy, tell her your busy sometimes when she tries to initiate a meetup. Once she notices you're slipping away, she'll start chasing pretty damn hard and ask for your commitment.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 07:40 PM
2

Approach, escalate and find out or keep being a pussy. Whatever you like most.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 08:12 PM
3

Nice statistics but that are just statistics. You should look at: behavior of her closest friends. opinions of her closest friends. (Are they all relationshipy or sluts, etc) her mother her father opinions of her mother opinions of her father how she acts around her friends when you are there. how she acts when you show up unexpectedly when she's with friends. her viewpoints, and I don't mean the ones she consciously announces to you but the ones that slip into her words unconsciously. etc.
/r/askTRP04/01/20 06:57 PM
17

She just wants to have fun with no responsibilit!ies but she's getting the boyfriend vibes from you and you're investing too much in this girl. -
/r/askTRP04/01/20 06:11 PM
3

My best bet to do that would be to break her confidence down, make her dependent on you in as many aspects of life, then tell her.
/r/askTRP04/01/20 05:55 PM
13

Grass is always greener on the other side. That's why rich kids say they were too spoiled and poor kids say the opposite. Take a decision and stop pondering about it all the time: Accept it and love her with all your heart. Give it your all. And I mean mentally accept it that she's the best and awesome. Ditch her and try to go for one with better tits. Don't be a wuss that keeps flying around cause eventually you're gonna run out of fuel and crash. Better decide where you're going and if it isn'…
/r/askTRP04/01/20 05:42 PM
13

Pfff. Isn't this always that guy meets girl. Guy thinks girl is way out of his league and decides to become friends. Then a few years in, girls gets more touchy feely with guy cause that's just what happens with friendships and then guy suddenly thinks: "Hey wait, I might have a shot" and his mind starts masturbating itself. Dude.... chances of this happening, very low. I'd say take the shot. Although you're not in an ideal position, taking the shot is still the best move for you to take.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 04:09 PM
1

You location is not the problem. You are. Either move locations or change your mindset.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 04:04 PM
7

"Yeah, your tab is kinda running high."
/r/askTRP02/01/20 09:16 AM
3

Don't. These manipulative girls know their shit. Somehow when I used to get into a discussion with them, I end up being the one comforting them while they're crying when I should be the one being mad. I don't know how they do it, but they do. So now I just STFU and take decisions on my own, I don't give them the change anymore to try and manipulate me.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 11:17 AM
8

What's going to come out of asking to see her texts? This only gives her one more opportunity to try to manipulate you even more and you will gain nothing from it. This girl either cheated or was open to cheating, whether she did or not is irrelevant. Now STFU to her and take a decision. Lack of imagination in men about the lack of morality in women is why you have a hard time understanding her actions.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 10:28 AM
6

She basically announced to you via text she was planning on cheating that night. Whether she did or not depends on if the guy she had her eyes on wanted to fuck or not.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 10:14 AM
3

Being exclusive is the same as having a girlfriend.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 10:12 AM
14

So you're gonna let a bunch of random people on the internet decide your life? Grow up.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 10:06 AM
31

If you nut fast, it's only a problem if it's for you a problem (and do a round 2 of course.)
/r/askTRP30/12/19 06:23 PM
8

Change your mindset.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 08:15 PM
10

Maybe she was looking around to see if nobody was around to slut it up in the bushes. The things we look at change when we change our mindset.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 08:12 PM
6

Flip it around. By asking them you're the one providing value and enriching their lives. It's up to them to take it or leave it.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 07:44 PM
1

Self-esteem doesn't exist. It's a made up term to sell useless books to losers to mentally masturbate. What you should do instead is decide and take action. Stop reading, reading reading and start doing, doing, doing.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 10:27 AM
5

Sounds like she's probably terrified that you're gonna leave her. Maybe she's just very insecure. However watch out with this type of behavior. Sometimes girls who found a better option or cheated will do exactly the same. Sometimes they'll truly be terrified of you leaving them cause you might find out. Anyway, it are mostly subtle differences in how she's saying it and in what context she's saying it.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 09:20 PM
21

Watch her closely and pay attention to her but stop trying to prevent these things. Trying to prevent them will only make her want to do it more. Enjoy the moments with her and if she fucks it up, so be it. You're happiness does not depend on her.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 05:28 PM
2

Dude, the fact that you're already thinking "Relationship relationship relationship" on a date is just wrong. The only thing that you have to do on a date is have fun. All the other shit will (maybe) come later when the chick brings it up.
/r/askTRP25/12/19 09:22 PM
3

Sometimes you gotta take some hits to go to the higher goal. It seems like he's higher rank and you need his respect to evolve at your life/job so not hitting him back was indeed the right move. Just like you don't cuss against teachers to demand respect. If a teacher is against you, you suck it up and give him everything what he wants until you get what you want from him. Defending against a rapist is a totally different scenario. I myself am not a aggressive dude at all, won't hurt a fly. But …
/r/askTRP24/12/19 08:56 PM
2

Stop overthinking every part of your life. You're 18. You're young as fuck and even if you fuck up miserably you still young as fuck and then at least you know what to do with your next GF. Go to the party and enjoy yourself. Stop thinking if you're enteraining other people or your GF and just enjoy yourself. When people see you're enjoying yourself, they'll start walking up too you. All people want part of the fun.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 05:12 PM
6

Dude stop whining and take a decision. Stop wasting your life away with useless hamstering when you already know what it is that you want.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 05:07 PM
4

You gonna live in a relationship fearing everyday you're not good enough and therefore you're putting on a mask which "shows high SMV" according to you. Stop being in her frame and start thinking that she's the one there to proof that she's good enough for you.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 05:06 PM
3

Only two weeks. Stick it out for 2 more weeks. Your body has to adjust to the new active lifestyle. However when you're still feeling like this over two weeks then you're doing something wrong.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 01:14 PM
171

She sees a guy who she likes and wonders what it would be like dating him. She secretly plans a date with him and gets away with it. She thinks: "Dammn this is exciting. I like him and being this secret thing I do it's even more exciting." So she goes on another date and gets away with it again. She gets an ego hit, damn I'm good at this. A few weeks later, her boyfriend tells me he knows. She hamsters it away and her boyfriend lets it slide. Now she's thinking: "Holy fuck, I'm good at manipulat…
/r/askTRP23/12/19 11:35 AM
3

Why would you hard next a FWB cause she's fucking another guy? That's what FWB's do...
/r/TheRedPill22/12/19 10:18 PM
1

Dude, look at you. Hamstering about where she's been instead of living your own life and enjoying your own life. The moment she was a little off, that was the moment you should not have texted her again. This shit is clear as day and every woman does exactly the same shit. Next time know what's up and stop doubting your own sanity. You already knew what's up when she didn't ask for definite plans. She's just a FWB and here you are, "catching her" as you call it while in fact she did nothing wron…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/19 10:13 PM
60

You're like the sandbox version in a game. Nothing to see there yet, nothing to lose but dammnnn sooo much potential. You're at rock bottom which means you've got nothing to worry about. You got nothing to lose in sandbox mode. What do you do in sandbox mode? You imagine all the crazy shit you can do, exciting like fuck you start building. Deleting stupid shit out of your world cause you don't like it but damn, after 20 hours of playtime, shit's crazy as fuck. Now start building or forever live …
/r/askTRP22/12/19 03:54 PM
2

Busy doesn't necessarily mean your day is crammed with very usefull stuff. Busy means you're enjoying yourself in the moment so much that you can't be bothered stopping what you're doing to text somebody.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 02:40 PM
2

Who said anything about chasing? Have fun, go talk them up. Meanwhile your increasing your social skills. Wouldn't be the first time hotter a woman joined the convo when talking up 6...
/r/askTRP21/12/19 10:27 PM
2

Why not talk the 6's up for practice?
/r/askTRP21/12/19 09:14 PM
29

Life is to enjoy kid. If you enjoy the LTR, keep doing it but don't stay in it just cause you fear not getting another girl as good as this one if you tryout the single life.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 08:48 PM
4

You fix by getting rejected, failing miserably and fucking up. The more you know what not to do, the more chance you will do the right thing.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 11:02 AM
3

Hmm seems to work for me. Telling a girl who I just met in the club: "Let's go back to my place" is just going to trigger her ASD. Just shut up and start walking and let her do 90% of the talking.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 10:51 AM
3

Have you ever asked 20 woman out? You're 18 and probably haven't even asked only 20 woman face to face to go on a date with you.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 10:14 AM
5

Authors are just people too. Nobody knows everything so read every book with a grain of salt. Always think about everything first before you believe it. Everybody in this world is as clueless as you. What the author meant in this book (but worded it badly) is that it is okey to have insecurities and fears. But you should speak them out, not avoid them. You should not put them in the back of your mind and never look at them, you should speak them out and act on them. Have fears, have insecurities…
/r/askTRP21/12/19 10:13 AM
12

I also feel unfair, that (some) women easily agree to have sex with partners they barely know, without any connection and commitment, only to fulfil their sexual desire The only reason you feel this "unfairness" is cause you don't have this kind of succes with woman. It hurts your ego. Stop it! Go to the gym, spin multiple woman and you won't feel this unfairness anymore. All the anger you feel towards woman is just your ego telling you're a loser in the woman field. Your ego can't handle it so …
/r/askTRP21/12/19 10:07 AM
3

Why are you saying "Let's go back to my place?". Just tell them: "Let's go outside for a bit." or "Let's go to a different bar" and then just start walking to your place without telling them. They'll know what you're doing but they'll pretend they don't so they can get that D.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 09:23 AM
3

Dude you're getting this TRP shit wrong. You're not here to get cheat codes. The way TRP works is, you fuck up, fail miserably until you find your own groove, until it all comes natural. So read the sidebar, then think and text what YOU think would be a good message and good time.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 09:58 PM
7

Really? Cause if I was banging two other girls, then I wouldn't have/waste my time for stupid bullshit like that.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/19 09:41 PM
7

Dude, all I see is oneitis and time that could have been invested into another girl that has no stupid baggage like a LTR. You'd already been balls deep multiple times in this other girl yet you choose to waste your time giving free validation away to a girl who is into an LTR. Sure you might be able to bang this one but you could have been banging three other girls with the time you've already wasted on her and truly enjoyed yourself instead of having blue balls.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/19 09:38 PM
3

Dude, just walk into class and go sit to a random person. Talk him up, if he doesn't like it, go sit next to another person next time. Shit's exciting lol. Sometimes you'll sit next to somebody who can't stop talking while the other time you sit next to somebody who pretends you don't exist.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 01:25 PM
15

Look dude. Going out with girls is easy. If she smiles and hangs around you while going out, she wants to go home with you. If she isn't that happy to talk to you during the night, it means she has other plans and is contemplating on how she can possible ditch you for that night without doing to much damage to the relationship between you two so she can keep her options open.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 06:03 PM
6

You stay away by staying making a decision. Life is simple, don't make it more difficult.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 03:58 PM
1

yes.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 10:10 PM
1

Do what you want. Start somewhere, if you fail at least you know which way isn't the one to go and are closer to knowning where to go.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 10:03 PM
1

LMAO. All you had to do was accept the stupid date. Plausible deniability. You could have just told her to come over and you'll do something fun. It was just her needing something for her brain to calm down that she's not a slut and isn't coming over to just fuck while in fact she is. Like they always say: "It just happened". It has to "just happen"
/r/askTRP17/12/19 10:02 PM
3

Sleeping with multiple of them. Shit becomes pretty clear after some experience especially when you've read the sidebar. On day I thought why not go exclusive with this plate of 7 months. I like her, it's fun and she's always available. Three days into exclusivity later I said during a conversation: "I'm going out on Thursday." in which she responded: "You going out on Thursday? Euuh? You go out two days in the week???" with an astonished voice even though she knew I went out mostly twice a week…
/r/askTRP17/12/19 09:34 PM
2

Fair point.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 07:37 PM
2

Seems to me like you would shoot to low though if you go exclusive to her. Shoot high and go for what you want even if that means suffering a little longer.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 07:06 PM
5

Right. He's new... let him crash and then pick up the pieces. And then also... you're friends aren't you? Don't you have a mouth to tell him what's on your mind?
/r/askTRP15/12/19 07:05 PM
0

Dude, it's your life. Do what you want? You gonna let a bunch of randoms decide your life?
/r/askTRP15/12/19 06:59 PM
2

What's your physique?
/r/askTRP15/12/19 06:15 PM
6

You approach her by approaching her. Life is simple, don't make it more difficult.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 10:28 AM
5

Hard one. It's not your situation so not your decision to make. However if I truly think there is quite the possibility this kid isn't his and I got the money, I'd secretly get some DNA from the kid, sent it to the labs and see if it's truly his. It's my brother after all and family comes first. If it isn't his, well.....that's the point where you'll have to make the hardest decision. I'd tell my brother even if it would ruin my relationship with him. I'd rather have him know the truth than live…
/r/askTRP14/12/19 01:34 PM
2

Count your calories, you'll be suprised about how little you actually eat.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 08:34 PM
3

Ultimatums can only occur when a boundary has already been crossed.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 02:17 PM
2

You can't sell to everyone, that's how the market works.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 01:53 PM
4

Sounds like you're trying to extract fun from them. The joy of having a woman around is to share your fun and happiness with them which makes it more fun for you. You don't extract fun from woman, that's not how it works. You use them as a tool for your own fun, just like you can use pool to have more fun.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 11:45 PM
3

I don't remember. Second thing they teach you. ;)
/r/askTRP09/12/19 08:48 PM
3

LMAO. He's combatting his lack of social skills by spending more time behind his computer on Instagram! You must be the smartest guy in your family! Thumbs up!
/r/askTRP09/12/19 07:33 PM
302

"When there is doubt, there is no doubt."
/r/askTRP09/12/19 04:56 PM
1

Life is simple but we insist on making it complicated.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 04:14 PM
3

Fair point.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 05:47 PM
1

How is she pulling you into her frame if you ask it with a big smile on your face and some light humor added with it?
/r/askTRP07/12/19 05:44 PM
1

I don't get why you ignore the elephant in the room when clearly something is wrong. Why not simply ask "What's wrong babe?" instead of having a grumpy girl for the rest of the night. This could have been solved in just 20 seconds if she tells you what's wrong after you ask. If she refuses to tell, you're not gonna let that affect your mood and gonna be happy either way. I mean I get to ignore passive agressive behaviour but why waste a whole ride home with a grumpy girl if all you had to do was…
/r/askTRP07/12/19 05:35 PM
3

She has been throwing small little signs that she would hope to be able to try again one day This is nothing more as her saying; "Hey dude, I gonna go fuck some dudes and most likely I'm gonna find someone better than you but hey, if I don't find anyone better, than I want you back."
/r/askTRP05/12/19 05:22 PM
1

LMAO. I remember when I was 21 and a virgin. Only reason I was a virgin was cause I never tried. First girl I fucked was also the first girl I tried to fuck and asked phone number from (in a sexual context). Me thinking I'm not good enough and stressing out about it while all I had to do was ask and initiate.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 07:53 PM
1

Cause solutions to those problems are very obvious. Wrap your willy silly!
/r/askTRP03/12/19 08:00 PM
1

the exact same as how I approached typical college girls You're a virgin. obviously never fucked a girl so using the "same" approach you've always used obviously isn't gonna work. Just go on a date, have fun and try to escalate. If she will want to fuck, it'll flow naturally. And don't be mad at yourself if you fuck up bigtime. I fucked up bigtime in the beginning but I am very happy I did. ​ EDIT: I'm still kinda of inexperienced in comparison to all the other people here so take my advice with…
/r/askTRP02/12/19 07:22 PM
7

I was a virgin before I found TRP. My advice? Just go out and get rejected A LOT. When I found trp, I didn't go into monk mode or whatever to improve my SMV, I just started approaching during going out and got my first result sooner than I expected. Back in the days I used to dread getting rejected, now I find it funny in a way. Once you've approached a lot, rejection doesn't really bother you that much anymore. My first rejections I was too nice to women and didn't escalate, a little later I ad…
/r/askTRP02/12/19 07:12 PM
15

Not that intersted after all huh.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 03:49 PM
2

Blue pill would be my dating choice if I was a woman You can't know that. You've never been a woman and never been on the other side.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 01:19 PM
-1

It mostly has to do with confidence when girls are talking about your looks when you've already talked to them. Once I went to a seminar with this girl and the guy that was going to give in walked in. She said to me: "Woow, that dude is ugly", then because the guy was so confident giving the seminar she changed her mind and said: "Wow, I was wrong, he is hot!".
/r/askTRP29/11/19 09:32 PM
35

Holy fuck. She ain't gonna fuck or not fuck you because you have a backpack. The mentality you have that makes you think like this is gonna make the date fail. Do whatever the fuck you want, you are the man!
/r/askTRP29/11/19 01:19 PM
4

The entire world works on manipulation You know what astonishes me the most, that if you tell this line to people, they don't believe it and call you negative. The world becomes so much more clear once you realize everyone is just trying to manipulate everyone else to get what they want.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 05:20 PM
1

What exactly do you mean with "hiding shit is a symptom, not the disease"?
/r/askTRP28/11/19 05:15 PM
2

Honestly if she doesn't even pick up the first phone call after you've been gone for so long or doesn't call back I wouldn't even consider texting her.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 05:10 PM
5

"Let's find out", then take her hand, walk her outside to your house and fuck the shit out of her.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 10:17 AM
6

What I mean is that if you're a dick to her and she keeps coming back then she wants it that way aswell. Damn soo much wisdom in this simple sentence.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 07:12 PM
2

"Why do I never get invited to places dad?" "How much people have you invited to your place or an event you organized?"
/r/askTRP24/11/19 09:35 AM
4

Once I realized that if I work my ass off, I am a lot more happier overal than if I just party everyday. Like I feel more confident cause I know I'm a responsible smart human being even though it sucks balls sometimes to work my ass off. And girls notice this bigtime which astonishes me a lot cause I'm always laughing when I go out. But if I work my ass of during the day, accomplish my goals of that day and then go out, I have a lot more success with girls in the evening than when I do nothing a…
/r/askTRP22/11/19 12:54 AM
18

I'd be like: "Awesome! Let's have a threesome!"
/r/askTRP21/11/19 07:03 PM
1

Everything clicks except the different language skills/values So... nothing clicks... only the sex does. I want a serious LTR, so I am way more picky. ​ The relationship hasn't even started and you're already complaining: One example I find irritating is movies/tv series, its just MUCH harder to find french translated movies/tv series ​ My advice, find another girl who fits you better.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 08:02 PM
13

Stop texting. Holy fuck. Stop chitchatting. Keep it light, max 3-5 texts back and forth depending on the girl else it just gets boring.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 05:54 PM
4

Look here
/r/askTRP20/11/19 05:41 PM
53

Every second wasted on her is a second you could have been fucking another girl. Stop wasting energy into revenge on girls who did you wrong. It only tells them you care a lot about them and is only gonna make their ego bigger. Move the fuck on and then she'll be the one thinking about you, wasting time on thinking about why you weren't that upset about her instead of the other way around.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 05:24 PM
1

Trying to ignore her will make you even think more off her. Just treat her like a random person in class that you know but don't really talk to much.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 06:36 PM
1

Get an alarmclock that slowly lights up the room. This will make it a lot easier to wake up.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 06:10 PM
1

Why don't you find out by escalating?
/r/askTRP19/11/19 06:09 PM
12

A old fuckbuddy of a plate of mine told the same. She said the current guy she was fucking told her I have bad intentions and only want her for sex. The moment she said that to me I knew I had already won the battle and was above that other guy. He basically dug his own grave by hating me. I told her: "I can understand why he hates me, but besides that he seems like a cool dude to hang out with." then changed the subject.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 12:49 PM
1

Ahaha mijn vrienden noemen mij opperkech omdat ze vinden dat ik een slet ben omdat ik met meerdere meisjes tegelijk slaap.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 12:46 PM
2

Make her friends want to fuck you and she'll want to fuck you for sure. Game their friends as hard as you game her!
/r/askTRP19/11/19 12:02 PM
9

I used to dread getting rejected. Now I love talking to girls when out and don't give much fucks if they reject me. I realized that getting rejected is still more fun than standing there talking to my friends and doing nothing. Now I get indirectly rejected about 10 times at least each time I go out. I don't really care anymore cause 1 meter next to the girl who rejected me is another girl. And all this next girl has seen is me laughing to another hot girl and walking up to her.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 11:55 AM
11

The more an orbiter of a girl dislikes me and makes it known to the girl, the less afraid I am that she'll fuck that orbiter.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 11:39 AM
10

shouldn’t make her upset cause what if she cheats? Dude if she cheats you're better off without her. And you think like that, every single one of your girls is gonna cheat.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 04:32 PM
5

You didn't made someone cheat. They do that themselves, you got nothing to do with that. If it isn't with you, it will be with some other guy.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 01:26 PM
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