I am currently in uni with strong grades and pretty fit. I have have been close friends with this girl since HS. Had a crush on her during first year but later then found trp and moved on, started talking to more girls, lifting and saw good results. Still kept contact cause she was my friend. But during second year, we started talking again, I started to catch feelings. Even around this time I was sleeping with different girls she would occasionally be on my mind. I decided to ask her out but she shut me down telling me I didn't look like I could commit due to the changes I had. This morning I learned that a guy who I thought was close to me was going to ask her out on v-day and has been talking shit about me recently. He's a nice, nerdy, and rich guy but hearing this and knowing she will probably say yes hurt me on the inside. been trying my best to not think about it and doing what I can like talking to more girls and lifting but still find it very hard. What can I do for myself?