How To Get Detached

redhorndog · 2019-12-17T17:31:28+00:00

we're in a relationship

Yeah seems difficult if you've caught feelings for her.

For non relationship oneitis no contact generally works wonders. Or think of the negatives about her if its a plate. I know there will be some.

RPNorvell · 2019-12-17T17:57:55+00:00

The number "one" is your issue.

Fuck other girls. If you are just seeing one girl but want more then you are depriving yourself of what you want. Why?

MattyAnon · 2019-12-17T20:15:51+00:00

How can I get detached from a girl if I have caught some feelings for her?

It's not about detaching from one girl, it's about the abundance so you don't have to care too much.

Noone is saying don't enjoy a sandwich .... we're saying not to be dependent on THIS ONE SUPERSPECIAL SNOWFLAKE SANDWICH, because there are plenty of other great sandwiches out there.

we're in a relationship

You are not emotionally ready for a relationship.

What can I do to detach myself and stop caring as much about what she's doing and sh*t like that?

You're in a relationship, of course you care what she's doing.

You're in an impossible position.

Always have other options lined up. Consider if this or any LTR is really for you, as you are not ready to handle it.

Title	How To Get Detached
Author	AttractiveMofo
Upvotes	0
Comments	6
Date	December 17, 2019 5:25 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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