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You know how certain women dig you and others don’t? That’s how it always is, take care of yourself and progress in life and it won’t be a problem. I’m just about 32, still date lots of girls in 20s.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 07:05 AM
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Read the book Influence, best book i've ever read on persuasion
/r/askTRP09/07/20 06:09 PM
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just live your life and ignore her. Be nice and cordial, but it's not your job to make her be nice to you.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 06:08 PM
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3 meals a day plus lifting, then protein shake after lifting. You'll be a beast in no time
/r/askTRP04/07/20 06:10 PM
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'Love' is a special thing that doesn't come around very often and you should be happy you found a girl you want to be with. Now that we got that out of the way here's where your focus must be. She always has to wonder about how you feel. Don't start spouting off about how much you love her yadadad, you can say you love her and everything, but never say it more than her ever. Once she stops wondering about how you feel then she starts analyzing you and once she starts analyzing she starts to noti…
/r/askTRP04/07/20 06:03 PM
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I've been there brother, never works out. NEXT
/r/askTRP26/04/20 02:03 AM
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You need to have some self respect, cut her loose. Have an abundance mentality because you can do better. I would recommend no more sex with her and blocking her. You aren’t a king if you keep a cheating whore around, she crossed a red line.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 09:08 AM
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Too much of anything is damaging, I think it’s better to go no fap then be controlled and obsessed with pork and yanking it. But does no fap turn you into a super hero? No.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 05:02 PM
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Go talk to her, don’t over think.
/r/askTRP25/01/20 12:25 PM
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Imho you need to lift and stop dressing like a dork. You look like a stiff teachers pet or something.
/r/askTRP25/01/20 12:19 PM
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I started bartending on the weekend to ‘go out’ and be social and not be getting drunk because I’m technically working. Highly recommend it!
/r/askTRP25/01/20 12:17 PM
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go bartend.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 05:44 PM
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So she’s 28, was banging in restrooms and you think she’s only been with 10 guys?? Most 20 year olds have been with more guys. Regardless if she is boring as shit then next, it’ll only get worse.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 05:42 PM
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Yes, but it’s all about their perception. If they perceive you as the prize then you win! Improve yourself and your life so you don’t see perceive yourself as a ‘regular’dude.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 10:54 PM
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Focusing on your mission is great advice
/r/askTRP23/12/19 11:52 PM
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I recommend you stay away from liquor. Just do beer and you won’t get as drunk, hopefully.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 06:29 PM
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Every woman is going to push your boundaries.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 03:26 AM
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It's a balance for sure, but the thing is that when you are putting up a front and not being natural you are actually being needy and weak. Honesty and Vulnerability with yourself and others shows that you aren't needy because you are comfortable with the outcomes when people perceive you for who you actually are. That doesn't mean to be a beta or not work out, or whatever. It just means that over compensating is a form of 'weakness' or neediness that women can smell out a mile away.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 10:25 PM
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Eh nothing wrong with a little dye.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 05:24 PM
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I second this book
/r/askTRP11/12/19 05:23 PM
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okay, write this again in a readable manner.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 05:22 PM
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You need to be honest and vulnerable with women. Women can see through the mask pretty quickly. Read Models by Mark Manson
/r/askTRP11/12/19 05:19 PM
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Maybe don't worry about it? I mean unless she wants you to cum all over her face, just feel it and enjoy it and sooner or later it'll cum.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 04:11 AM
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Let her go do whatever with the guy. You should be doing whatever you want in the meantime, including hanging/banging other girls. If she finds out, she founds out and you say "I thought we were free to do what we wanted since you did that date with whats-his-name" Just casually say, "I wouldn't be in a relationship with a girl that spends time alone with other guys." If she goes to the guys house at 12 AM to study, you gotta drop her. If it's at a coffee shop or library then, meh okay. Only you…
/r/askTRP11/12/19 03:58 AM
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You should read/listen to Models by Mark Manson and No More Mr. Nice Guy by whoever. Getting the knowledge of these books at your young age will give you a great advantage in life and save you a lot of heartache.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 03:53 AM
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You need to set a boundary here. Don't overtly set the boundary, but make it clear that it's not acceptable. If you let this slide she will continue to push the envelope, but don't set the boundary unless you are prepared to walk. Could not set boundary but dread/ghost to show disapproval as well.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 08:09 PM
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move? Where do you live ?
/r/askTRP10/12/19 08:05 PM
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You get what you believe you deserve. I definitely bang chicks that I would never in a million years want to be seen with at times, but for anything serious have standards.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 12:08 AM
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Fat chicks typically aren't that feminine. Being fat is gross and shows low self-esteem and value. RP men raise their SMV and in turn expect women with higher SMV. I can't even get hard for fatties.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 11:21 PM
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Make sure to always prioritize your life no matter what your women situation is. Focus on your career #1, as you get older money becomes more important in relationships with women.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 11:06 PM
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Do you just want to fuck? Push for Thursday. Are you looking for a potential relationship? Go with Friday and relax on banging her on the first date. Definitely escalate if the chemistry is there though.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 09:37 PM
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1)I wouldn't depend or ask for a woman to boost your confidence or motivation, because you never know. Motivate yourself for yourself. 2) I also value women with good social skills, great thing to have in a partner. Having preferences is human, not much to do with RP. Realize that the more you expect in a mate the more she is also going to expect out of you. Think money, looks, status.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 09:35 PM
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She is banging another guy LDR never work, especially internationally Give her space and let her (maybe) come back to you. This stupid chick I was talking to totally cut me out of her life like 3 years ago and just started hitting me up again because she saw me and saw all the bad bitches i've been with since.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 09:32 PM
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Honestly not sure how or if you should focus to much on reconciling with your parents, but this I do know: You must come to terms with the way you were raised and how it effects you and the way you will have relationships as an adult. At some point you're going to want to be in a healthy relationship and you don't want to be a damaged person. Write down, think about, discuss, all of those horrible events in your childhood that scared you. Think about how they made you feel and how the effect you…
/r/askTRP09/12/19 09:27 PM
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ou are available and responding to her all day and night it will decrease her attraction to you Here's the thing: It's unlikely because you don't really want to spend all day texting her. If she beats you down and you actually start to want to text her as much as she wants to text you the dynamic can flip.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 08:45 PM
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Dude, scarcity builds value. If you are available and responding to her all day and night it will decrease her attraction to you
/r/askTRP09/12/19 08:25 PM
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Instagram is just a side thing, not going to really effect your social life one way or the other.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 08:23 PM
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Your best bet is to end things and cut her off. She may come back to you, but if you wait for her to do it then you're for sure screwed.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 06:08 PM
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It's a great question though, so many fat, disgusting, non feminine women out there I can't even look at.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/19 12:19 AM
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guess I hear you, everyone's body type is different, but if you aren't getting the results you want then you need to make a change. Even if you just went to the gym for 45 minutes 4 days a week that could be enough. 180 at 6'0 is pretty solid regardless.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 05:36 PM
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you should be lifting 5 days a week and doing some cardio at least 3 times a week until you get this under control. If you decide you can't work out that much then lower your calorie intake. I'm 5'11 173 and have no fat, but would love to be 180. You aren't working out hard enough.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 04:58 PM
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Easy way to come across as jealous/needy and lose her. If you're a prize, you shouldn't be worried about competition. Look a pic here or there whatever, but don't do some photo session with her.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 02:34 AM
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Don't be her fucking photographer so she can blow up her DMs on instagram. Start spinning plates and having options, this bitch is thirsty for attention.
/r/askTRP30/11/19 08:22 PM
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5 years is a long time, she'll be thinking about you for years to come.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 07:38 PM
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Move brotha, playing it safe if and when you have a family.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 05:20 PM
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LOL, WRAP IT UP
/r/askTRP21/11/19 05:18 PM
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You know what you need to do, just do it.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 04:24 PM
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A girl can sense the difference between you acting like you don't care and you actually not caring.
/r/askTRP17/11/19 09:55 PM
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Recognize that this chick is a ‘buffer’ and the longer you waste your time and energy on her the longer until you find a chick you’re actually into. Spend too much time on a buffer and you’ll start to trick your mind into thinking that’s what you actually like.
/r/askTRP17/11/19 08:05 PM
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how old are you? If over 20+ move out
/r/askTRP15/11/19 10:35 PM
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AWALT
/r/askTRP15/11/19 10:33 PM
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Yep
/r/askTRP15/11/19 08:40 PM
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For example, I was at a bar a couple weeks ago and I was introduced to a cute girl by mutual friends. I went up to her and said something like, 'let's go get a drink at the bar'. She said no and that she already had one and I 'pushed pass' by saying something like your friend can have that drink and I reached out my hand for her and she relented and we went and got a drink and ended up making out. You have to read the situation, but sometimes they are shit testing you and sometimes they really a…
/r/askTRP15/11/19 08:30 PM
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Be real, do you really think your little sister would lie about this? I'm as redpilled as shit, but little girls love and look up to their fathers, it's the last person she would probably make this accusation of. You need to have a talk with your pops and try to feel him out, but regardless you probably need to report this to the authorities and the court can make the decision. It's more common than you think unfortunately, sorry you have to go through this.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 06:32 PM
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I just got out of LTR with a model/beauty queen and I struggled with this for a while so here are my honest suggestions after some reflection. Never show that you are threatened by these DMs or other attention males are giving her. It makes you look small if you are threatened by a DM. No whining ever. Conversely set boundaries and stick to them. For example no going out on girls night out, no DMing with other men on Instagram, and no dating apps. Just say it like 'I won't date a women who's goi…
/r/askTRP14/11/19 06:17 PM
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Usually I will push pass the first time they say no, it can be a shit test.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 06:06 PM
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If you can get it up lol
/r/askTRP12/11/19 05:28 AM
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If you weren't getting hard then you probably weren't that attracted to her. That doesn't mean you don't like women or don't want to fuck them, not every women is going to do it for you. Listen to you dick.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 07:38 PM
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Just go into to it realizing that what goes around comes around. AWALT
/r/askTRP10/11/19 01:56 AM
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And for fuck sakes have a drink.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 01:55 AM
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It's fun when you're spitting mad game and the bitches are eating it up. The problem is your game. You need to be laid back, confident, and set boundaries all in a fun way.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 01:54 AM
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From the book of Pook: "It is not so much that the truth of women hurts (the shock is recovered with success)." "No, the lies we have all believed- they leave the scar."
/r/askTRP10/11/19 01:08 AM
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Trips, shopping, dinners, etc. I've probably spent most of my extra money on women and while fun, it was/is a mistake.
/r/askTRP07/11/19 06:06 PM
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Man up and take care of your kid. How would you feel if your father did this to you?
/r/askTRP30/10/19 09:29 PM
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Yeah, I'm not dropping any new 'truths' because it's all been said before. But as Sebastian said there are A LOT of guys that have never taken the red pill or even have had exposure to it so I think providing more content is valuable for someone.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/19 09:08 PM
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g with your comment with the analysis, and then PM me so I can make sure automod didn't drop it. You want some text analysis with the post?
/r/TheRedPill30/10/19 09:05 PM
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DREAD< creating distance right now and focus on you. That bitch should never say shit like that.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 05:33 PM
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Be attractive, don't be unattractive.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/19 05:05 PM
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Awesome man, good luck.
/r/askTRP26/10/19 09:33 PM
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Everyone seeks validation from others, that's life and you just have to manage it in a productive way. You need to be satisfied and happy enough with yourself that any outcome from approaching a women won't be taken as a reflection of your value. You don't know these bitches, you shouldn't let there judgement be a reflection of your worth.
/r/askTRP26/10/19 09:14 PM
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If you do say anything to your mother or father you need to keep the mindset of outcome independence. At the end of the day it's their marriage and if they stay together it is entirely up to them. Talk to them if you want, you might regret it if you don't. Just remember you can't control the outcome.
/r/askTRP26/10/19 09:04 PM
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I hear ya, I definitely get the same feels. I think as plates or LTR we do need women in our lives.
/r/askTRP26/10/19 03:15 AM
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Brother, you need to have a list of things you stop doing and a list of things you start doing. First off relax, you're relatively young so don't feel like there's no hope. First thing is grow a pair and start lifting and eating right. Maybe lay off squat and deadlifting for a bit but just go. I promise you if you go to the gym and work out hard 5-6 days a week you will start to feel better and it will improve your overall life. 2nd thing is go get a side job serving at a restaurant where there …
/r/askTRP26/10/19 03:10 AM
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100% agree, but at least you are going in with your eyes wide open.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/19 02:55 AM
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I'll say this, I just turned 30 and have had a few LTR and I feel much more prepared and ready for a family in the next few years because of my experience and exposure to the red pill. Getting married with kids without the red pill is clearly setting people up for a huge failure down the line.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/19 07:48 PM
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Do what is right for you. This company would drop you with no hesitation if they needed to so don't think you owe anyone some false sense of loyalty. Look out for you and yours first.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 11:13 PM
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Amazing post brother, we need to constantly remind ourselves that we are our only hope and to get up and work for it.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/19 09:47 PM
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I'm a 30[M] and my 21 year old model girlfriend of one and a half years broke up with me on Friday. Saturday I banged an older chick, Sunday I brought home a mid 30s mom, and today some girl at a work function chats me up and gives me her cell and tells me to text her. College is fun, but I've never had the capability to slay like I do now and even after college you can still fuck hot college chicks easily.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 12:03 AM
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"I am better than you" Patrice O'neil is the best! It's funny, when I was listening to Patrice O'neal a lot that bitch loved me. She would constantly complain about my behavior, but her actions spoke louder than her words.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/19 02:32 AM
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What he means is that you aren't sitting around thinking about how you can make her happy. You need to be living your life like a balling high SMV guy that you are and she will just love you because of that. When you focus on the woman and her life you then become unattractive to her.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/19 12:41 AM
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This is money, you can't 'try' to make your woman like you. The more you try the more needy and beta you look. You need to be on your mission and she can ride with you, but your life should never be about her.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/19 12:03 AM
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Honestly who cares how to respond, if she's gross you need to move on.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 11:14 PM
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This chick sounds very immature and close minded. Doesn't sound like your missing out on much bud, I would just next this.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 11:05 PM
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This is right, always escalate or women will think your a bitch.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 10:56 PM
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Key to a happy life is staying focus on having highest possible SMV you can at all times. So easy when you hit peak SMV and life is good to take your feet off the gas and before you know it your shit again. Stay focused and reap the rewards of your efforts.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 09:28 PM
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You did pretty well, one confirmation text is good though.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 09:20 PM
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I make it simple, very little carbs and sugar and you should be alright.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 09:18 PM
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Women definitely understand what's going on, sometimes they like to pretend that they don't but they do. It took me until my mid 20s to realize that being a woman's 'friend' is a complete waste of time. If a women is in my life I'm fucking her or I don't need to waste the time. Men are the ones who let themselves become beta bitches. We've all been there, but guys need to wake up and stop being beta bitches.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 09:17 PM
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You may have lost weight, but you are clearly still not happy and valuing yourself. Have you read about M-A-P or male action plan? It sounds like something you need to look into. Focus on yourself first here. Does your work satisfy you? Do you have any hobbies that are social, fun, and cool? Is your home clean? How are you dressing? Can you cook? Take stock of everything and start improving your life. You need a mission for your life apart from women that will give you validation. Even when you …
/r/askTRP14/10/19 08:41 PM
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The reality is that your value to women is directly correlated to how much you value yourself. You need to take care of yourself, have your shit together and you will be inherently worth more and maxing your SMV. For what I need in a woman: HOT/Sexy Must satisfy me in bed Have 'girl game' Cook TRUST Be very socially adapt, need a girl that is good with my friends and family
/r/askTRP14/10/19 08:13 PM
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I just turned 30 and unfortunately regardless of your age this is something you have to constantly remind yourself of.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/19 06:07 PM
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This is great, wish i would of read it yesterday.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/19 08:26 PM
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I wish
/r/askTRP27/05/19 08:20 PM
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???
/r/askTRP27/05/19 08:20 PM
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yes, very obvious
/r/askTRP27/05/19 08:19 PM
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true dat
/r/askTRP27/05/19 05:46 AM
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It's on pornhub and probably all over the internet
/r/askTRP26/05/19 07:54 PM
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