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Not to brag, but I consider myself an 8/8,5. Maybe have any tips on comfort building rather than just joking around with her?
/r/seduction27/11/19 07:13 AM
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Well for context, I hardly ever see her at the gym, once in couple of weeks, so I saw no other option tbh.
/r/seduction27/11/19 06:49 AM
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Play it cool as in forgetting about the idea and just keep having a good time with small talk etc?
/r/seduction28/05/19 01:07 PM
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Well she already does this, so then it will be alright, only hoping not to fuck up the kissing part whahaha
/r/seduction28/05/19 01:02 PM
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How do I know she reciprocates the eye contact? Just looking deeply into my eyes?
/r/seduction28/05/19 12:59 PM
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Thanks, I will only have couple of seconds for this tension I think, so will try my best haha
/r/seduction28/05/19 12:54 PM
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Patience whahaha, maybe find some other activities to pass the time faster xD
/r/seduction17/05/19 08:22 PM
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I would advice you, if you have not yet done so, to talk to her 1 on 1 and simply ask her out. It seems that you only have spend time with her in group activities. BTW she might actually be studying, but you never know for sure haha. Good luck ;)
/r/seduction17/05/19 01:04 PM
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Just in time, I have a date planned tomorrow. Just not the best flirter haha, any tips?
/r/seduction15/05/19 05:54 AM
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Mate: Become... How to be 3% man
/r/seduction19/03/19 02:25 PM
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Sometimes use statements instead of questions.
/r/seduction03/02/19 09:39 AM
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I really liked How to be a 3% Man, and I have read a lot of them.
/r/seduction24/01/19 04:30 PM
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Find advice at mates who did already do what you want to do. If you don't know them, try to find them. Else you can read some books, that has helped me with confidence.
/r/seduction22/09/18 04:20 AM
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9/10 times the girls have earpods in so the asking if the seat's taken would be a good way to get their attention away from the music. Thanks ;)
/r/seduction19/09/18 07:01 PM
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Thanks, will check them out.
/r/seduction06/09/18 07:05 AM
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If I need to recommend 1 out of the list it would be the last one "the 50th Law". Mix with confidence and business which I personally liked very much.
/r/seduction05/09/18 12:28 PM
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I also just finished The 50th Law by Robert Greene, highly recommended for confidence.
/r/seduction05/09/18 07:41 AM
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Finished the six pillars yesterday, for me personally didn't bring anything new to the table, might be useful for someone else.
/r/seduction03/09/18 12:52 PM
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Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion, Robert B. Cialdini When I Stop Talking, You'll Know I'm Dead: Useful Stories from a Persuasive Man, Jerry Weintraub, Rich Cohen How to Have Confidence and Power in Dealing with People, Leslie Giblin (I personally prefer this one over How to make Friends & Influence People) The subtle art of not giving a f*ck, Mark Manson Managing Oneself (Harvard Business Review Classics), Peter F. Drucker Think & Grow Rich, Napoleon Hill The Power of Habit: Why We Do Wha…
/r/seduction03/09/18 12:50 PM
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Will get back to you later today with them ;)
/r/seduction03/09/18 11:11 AM
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I became confident through working out for almost 3 years and reading a lot of self help books (not only on the topic of seduction) which gave me confidence in knowledge. I am currently working on the practical side of my knowledge, since my confidence can change due to my surroundings at the moment.
/r/seduction03/09/18 06:39 AM
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In the context of the quote it means that you need also need to have a genuine opinion of yourself in order to have a genuine opinion of other people, right?
/r/seduction18/07/18 07:26 AM
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Same here man, the stories would be very helpful ;)
/r/seduction22/06/18 02:01 PM
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The leaving notes and emails/texts sound kind of needy. Maybe she has some personal problems which she doesn't want to speak to you about. I suggest to move on and maybe text her one time in about 6 months or so. How about her friends? What is your bond with them? PS: This might help: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/8p96fw/my_seduction_affirmations/
/r/seduction12/06/18 10:45 AM
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I don't find it more difficult, as of yet I don't have any suggestions sorry haha
/r/seduction12/06/18 06:19 AM
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Not really imo
/r/seduction11/06/18 09:19 PM
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I agree, well said
/r/seduction09/06/18 11:22 AM
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I put this one in more metaphorically speaking, do you maybe have a suggestion to adjust it to make it more realistic?
/r/seduction08/06/18 02:13 PM
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I think you will learn that skill over time, I am still figuring out how to use this since not all girls do this in my experience.
/r/seduction08/06/18 06:52 AM
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Good question, for example "My friend went to this amazing restaurant lately" (She wants you to go with her there) or something about a kind of outfit. Up until now I haven't really paid attention to it, I could be wrong, but this is what is told in some of the books. Hope this helped clearing it up.
/r/seduction08/06/18 06:15 AM
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I am neutral on it, I prefer his last book more about not giving a f*ck haha
/r/seduction08/06/18 06:06 AM
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It's truly amazing to see the impact of the post and the helping comments even for me. Hope it helps ;)
/r/seduction07/06/18 09:04 PM
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Impressive, good to hear I inspired you to do so. Keep it up ;)
/r/seduction07/06/18 08:49 PM
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Good to hear, I just updated it so you might need to check out the second EDIT. I am also kind of curious which others you have read and if they are a recommended read?
/r/seduction07/06/18 05:07 PM
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No problem, keep in mind I might update them in the future ;)
/r/seduction07/06/18 03:53 PM
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Thanks for the advice, mind helping me with the positive formulation, find it very hard. If you want you can send me a DM ;)
/r/seduction07/06/18 03:53 PM
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Good to hear
/r/seduction07/06/18 03:52 PM
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Haha no problem, feel free to steal them, else I wouldn't have posted them ;P
/r/seduction07/06/18 02:14 PM
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Thanks for the comment man, I will refrace the negative ones asap
/r/seduction07/06/18 01:20 PM
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I don't tell this in the mirror though, only while sitting in toilet haha Thanks for the head tilt addition ;)
/r/seduction07/06/18 12:23 PM
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Maybe I can add to always smile, because if you look without smiling it's staring haha
/r/seduction07/06/18 12:22 PM
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