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It’s not that there’s actually love involved. It just sounds better than “intercourse pal” or “sex buddy” or “person I’m cheating on my spouse with.” I think “lover” is more of a euphemism than an actual descriptor of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 03:38 PM
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Yikes. Peak PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 06:42 PM
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Word. ITT people are forgetting there’s a difference between being alone and feeling lonely. Many people are happy being alone and aren’t codependent on others. Other people want more social interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 06:49 PM
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If bodily perfection means long distance runner build, then yea, lol. Hunter-gatherers were just healthier in general. Really interesting changes in nutrition happened when people began changing from hunter-gatherer lifestyles to farming. You would think people would become healthier due to better food security, but this was most true for the wealthy (class disparity began developing during this period, as opposed to tribal societies where sexual and social equality was better). The poor peasant…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 06:54 PM
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The other thing would be that men would stop expecting sexual gratification every time they saw a naked woman This is a thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 03:09 PM
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By women? Got an offer outright once from somebody I knew. By men? One messaged me outright one day and asked if I was gay and interested in "trying things." I was acquainted with him but didn't know him well. Many other gay men have been a little more subtle, but I appreciated the directness with this one. Makes me wonder why I get approached by gay men more often, lol (which isn't really a surprise because men generally do the approaching and are more direct about it).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 01:58 PM
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Last time I checked there weren’t teeth inside a vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 03:42 AM
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I just got started on it. I may post a thread on it after I’ve read more of it. Humans are unique among apes (and most mammals) in several sexual traits. For some reason, human penises are bigger than any other ape’s, probably just large as a way to signal your masculinity to other males (but probably not females). We’re also unique in that females have concealed ovulation - neither females or males know when conception is possible, so having frequent sex is the best way to guarantee conception.…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 08:46 PM
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I’m reading The Third Chimpanzee by Jared Diamond. The first bit of the book is about the evolution of human sexuality and how it differs from that of other apes. Really interesting stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 11:10 AM
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Is it a preference thing or just who happens to approach you? I know it's a small sample size, but how did the 22 year old differ from the older ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 01:47 PM
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>accidentally Embrace it, bro! It's 5 o'clock all the time during the age of corona.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 09:56 PM
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“Everything in the world is about sex, except sex. Sex is about power.” Uh, what? Sex is fun. That's why people do it. Full stop. There are some fringe cases where people get off on Jeffrey Dahmer-type shit because the power play makes it "fun" (sadism). There are totally people who are not into sadism/masochism. And to the masochists it's certainly not about power. Y'all read too much into things.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 09:14 PM
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For sure. There’s a difference between historical racism, which causes class disparity, and actual acts of racism. The former of which is the main explaining factor. Other things are colinearities that can explain for some consequences but certainly not in general. That’s the issue I have with intersectionality as a model. Income I think can explain a lot more of it than people realize.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 03:42 AM
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Idk, I think the reason is that the Venn diagram of MRAs and people who say "no, ackchually, All Lives Matter" is a circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 02:56 AM
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The Daniel Shaver video was infuriating and disturbing. There was a thread on it here a while back (you may have posted in it). That dude seemed blood-hungry as hell
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 02:53 AM
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Yeah I don't get why the focus is on the black people and not a brutality as a systemic issue Because the victims who are black make up a higher proportion relative to whites (whites are around 60% (depending on whether you consider hispanic whites white), blacks are around 12 or 13%, so you'd expect a lower ratio of black deaths:white deaths if races had equal socioeconomic status, but that's not been the case). The extent to which this is based on outright racism (i.e., their skin is black) co…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 02:51 AM
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Are we just talking about SMV or other types of value like contribution to society, etc.?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 08:32 PM
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And? Gender expectations have been around since the dawn of humanity, so you can't blame modern and socially progressive men for issues that really started 200,000 years ago (and in the cases of rape and murder, a fringe population of bad men). You also can't use "X group caused it" as a reason to justify harm done to that group. The same reason you shouldn't use some ISIS nut to justify hatred towards Muslims, or the Crusades to justify hatred towards Christians.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 07:30 PM
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Lol I’m taking about irritating the skin between the buttocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 03:51 PM
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Wouldn't the stubble cause issues when it grows back?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 03:43 PM
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Interesting take. Idk. Just because you’re effeminate doesn’t mean you should get a sex change. I enjoy baking and I’m very non-confrontational. Doesn’t mean I should start taking estrogen. I was only half-paying attention to the movie, but murder isn’t exactly a feminine hobby. Unless I’m deeply misunderstanding transgenderism.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 07:03 PM
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What is so fundamentally “manly” about taking someone’s last name?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 02:27 PM
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You can tell who really thinks highly of themselves by whether they choose to say “corona,” “coronavirus,” or “COVID_NSaRS-91_vid_nCoV_noVELC-CoViDD19”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 01:37 PM
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> implying TRPers don't turn it around when women answer a question and the TRPer ignores everything she wrote and replies "no, you're lying, this response on a Q4W thread is a shit test"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 02:50 AM
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goods are not odd Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 02:44 AM
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The Republican or Democratic platforms don’t really correspond with conservative or progressive the same 50 years ago as they do today. Hell, they don’t even have the same views as they did 10-15 years ago; the Republican Party has begun to appeal more to libertarians especially following the legalization of gay marriage, and I expect this to happen even more as their voter base gets more young people. Their voter base has changed significantly (shifted from north to south) since the civil war a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 10:39 PM
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No surprises here, in the states and Europe, at least. Thanks to the latex messiah, sex outside of wedlock is less of a big deal (people are also becoming less religious). Birth rates dropping is a normal thing that happens when countries develop. Ultimately it's all good. Fewer people = less energy demand and less pollution. An inadequate population is not an issue in the states yet; there are still plenty of migrants and births happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 01:54 PM
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It's a choice. How is this? Dated a girl once who said she would "destroy" her romantic feelings of me when we split, as if having feelings was some choice. Couldn't wrap my mind around it - I always felt that feelings were an involuntary response to what you think you perceive in another person, not something you could choose to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 12:43 AM
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Not an argument, just a statement, since we argue about opinions a lot on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 10:14 PM
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your biological reason for existence Why should fulfilling your biological reason for existence be something to strive for? You should do what you want. If you find babies repulsive, the correct response is not to have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 06:19 PM
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> Men fuck goats and apple pies > Women fuck zucchinis and avocados You two are both cooked.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 06:17 PM
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correct opinions Y'all are so convinced that your feelings are facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 06:12 PM
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Usually it's TRPers and anti-feminists posting since they're making affirmative claims. The position of Blue Pill is basically "lol no" so there aren't many claims they can make. It's also purge week.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 05:59 PM
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Yea sure quit projecting. I weigh 125 lbs and I’m currently not making cash because of what was just a shitty Mexican lager a year ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 03:07 AM
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They could even make one for "nice guys" which would be a slot to insert cash until it's full, at which point the robot says "I like you as a brother" and shuts down. My sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 02:34 AM
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did I just have a stroke?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 02:28 AM
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Nobody comes up with anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 05:09 PM
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When the only contact you have with other people is via the trash known as Twitter, Reddit, and Tumblr, being hostile towards people with different perspectives becomes a pastime.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 11:29 PM
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Pretty sure this person just copies and pastes paragraphs from Wikipedia articles. You can tell by the way references are bracketed but usually not linked.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 05:41 PM
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There's a really good Netflix original series about exactly that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:06 PM
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https://www.census.gov/quickfacts/fact/table/US/PST045218 People who call themselves white are at around 76.5%. If you don’t count Hispanic whites, it’s around 60%.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:25 PM
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That’s all true, but I’m referring to the notion that there’s an intentional conspiracy to eliminate the white race through forced diversity, encouraged immigration, etc. The changing demographic is certainly not due to racism towards whites. Whites just have fewer children and aren’t immigrating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:22 PM
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Yea, try telling that to them, lmao, as they try to uphold their white genocide narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:04 PM
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t_d and its affiliated subs are absolute trash in that respect. I got banned on /r/askthe_donald for correcting somebody when they said that America was roughly 50% white.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:27 PM
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Easily 90% of posts on this sub are strawmen, lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:05 PM
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Not providing safety =/= threatening
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 11:30 PM
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Honestly you guys are honestly sick. Wait are you being honest? Or are you saying that our sickness is honest? Or are you saying that we are being honest about being sick, since sickness being honest would be humanizing sickness? Why do you need to clarify whether you're being honest when you're just stating something you think is a fact? Honestly, it must be really important to clarify that you're being honest about our honesty regarding the honesty of our honest sickness.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 08:26 PM
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Hot men pity ugly women and occasionally go home with them when the night has gone horribly wrong Forgive me for not going to many frat parties, but that happens?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 01:58 PM
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Even if you two seem compatible now, you won't be several years from now as your brains develop, you gain new experiences, etc. This is one of the reasons (in addition to financial instability, poor planning that comes from being young, & other collinear factors) that couples who get married younger are more likely to divorce. Even if you two didn't know that at the time, your compatibility very well could've changed in the time you were together. Unfortunately, people aren't smart and sometimes…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 01:33 PM
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Not a TRPer, but it's not a controversial opinion that people shouldn't be getting married as teenagers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 01:21 PM
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>shitfuckistan My sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 02:09 AM
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The same thing actually happened to me a while back, so I'll give my field report. When I started working there she actually had a boyfriend she was engaged to. She was actually "engaged" for 2 or 3 years prior to when I started, but it seems like their relationship was just stagnant for a long time. Their engagement really started to go downhill one night during a mandatory party. Our HR department scheduled a casino night as a fundraiser for some children's charity IIRC (gambling for a childre…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 01:41 AM
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I just downvoted your post. FAQ What does this mean? The amount of karma (points) on your post and Reddit account has decreased by one. Why did you do this? There are several reasons I may deem a post to be unworthy of positive or neutral karma. These include, but are not limited to: • ⁠Rudeness towards other Redditors, • ⁠Spreading incorrect information, • ⁠Sarcasm not correctly flagged with a /s. Am I banned from the Reddit? No - not yet. But you should refrain from making comments like this i…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 01:17 AM
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conservative snowflakes Lol that's a combination of words you don't hear much
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 01:16 AM
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Dude's got strong principles and balls of steel and holds his ground in debates even when every other Democrat is against him. Donald is also a massive beta bux. He doesn't look like a guy who lifts or spins plates (unless he's spinning underage plates with his buddy Jeffrey Epstein on his island). Every politician is a joke. Vote for the funniest one - Vermin Supreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 08:34 PM
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Wow, I didn't know it was purge week, lol. Here we grow.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 08:30 PM
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At least use bullet points to make that wall of text a little bit more readable, lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 11:28 PM
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That should be a flair to tag posts with
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 03:30 AM
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Wait, you’re telling me you don’t go around with your friends saying “aye, I do say, there is a quaint little pub on the street corner owned by my colleague Ebenezer - that establishment serves the most beautiful lager, as if it were served by Providence itself - the perfect location for discussing the sociological issues that try our society to practice our wit! - why, I do say, that Ebenezer surely is a Humbug, by Jove!”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 03:29 AM
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I refuse to believe this is a real post. I didn’t think anybody could be this tone-deaf.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 02:47 AM
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Not all genes. There are 22 other pairs of chromosomes full of genetic material, other than the sex pair.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 11:17 PM
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I guess he has some points, but he's biased I mean, everybody is biased, especially in a field as nebulous as the social sciences.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 08:41 PM
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“Women get paid less than man, and it’s good that that’s the case. This is because men are inferior to women, and therefore we should make more money based on our superior intellect. In fact, I don’t think women should even work at all. They should stay home and make babies" Can someone actually find in his interview w/ Cathy Newman where he says the above quote? He's said some questionable things, like the "progressive" stance being being pro-Islam because of women's subconscious "brutal desire…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 08:38 PM
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I gotcha. Yea, I think I know who you're talking about - the American guy is desperately out of touch with reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 06:55 PM
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I was watching 90 day fiance, and the American guy kept accusing the Brazilian girlfriend of cheating because she was talking to men on social media. Oh dear. Are you talking about Karine and Paul? I know it's reality TV, but the characters come off as especially shortsighted and impulsive (like Paul) and entitled (like the girl who went to meet that guy who judges fashion in Spain). I can only watch that show with at least two beers in me. It's horrendous. Karine and Paul are especially hard to…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 06:52 PM
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Maybe it’s neither, maybe it’s just free market economies 🤷‍♂️ Or maybe it’s the patriarchies in shithole countries in the Middle East that make those countries so great. Wait, hold up...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 03:16 AM
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In my country of origin, men who don't act like men are called homosexuals This has been a thing in the states for a long time. Calling a man "gay," "fag," etc. is another way to imply he's not conforming to some masculine standard. I hear these two words used less often now than I did 5-10 years ago, but I still hear "pussy" occasionally. There's a similar intent behind the word, but "pussy" is usually used specifically when a man expresses fear or weakness, while "gay" or "fag" are more used w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 08:39 PM
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Lmfao where do you get your impressions of liberals? Ben Shapiro compilations?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 06:27 PM
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I watched The Red Pill (the documentary w/ Cassie Jaye). I didn't agree with everything it had to say, but it made me rethink the assumptions people make about their place in society and the downright bad misrepresentations people make about other groups for the sake of staying true to their tribal -isms. I don't remember how I got from /r/theredpill to here. Now I stay because 1) sometimes I learn something and 2) it's fun to see people bicker over their belief systems.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 02:17 PM
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Word. If you find yourself aligning with every opinion that one of these talking heads has (whether it’s right or auth/center-left), that’s a hint that you’re not actually forming your own opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 08:29 PM
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There's a difference between an actual crime and a fictional scenario. It's also no controversy that degrading porn is popular among women, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 04:49 PM
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I wrote: I’m mainly referring to his critiques on feminism - that women and men are intrinsically different and will always want different things, and that no amount of social reconditioning will change that I'm not making the claim that men and women are/aren't different, Peterson is. I'm paraphrasing his belief for reference in the thread above. You said you thought I was misrepresenting his view, so this isn't about me having an opinion - it's about what JP's opinion is. He doesn't say that m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 08:36 PM
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Of course men and women aren't so different as if you were comparing a jellyfish to an aardvark. They're both human beings. But the differences are really apparent if you do work to parse them out. Here's what he wrote in his blog immediately after the excerpt you pulled: Here’s a paper, for example, indicating that more gender-equal countries produce comparatively fewer women in the STEM fields. Here’s another, showing that at least some of the much-vaunted gender gap in pay, which is caused by…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 07:58 PM
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I never said he was. I’m mainly referring to his critiques on feminism - that women and men are intrinsically different and will always want different things, and that no amount of social reconditioning will change that. It’s really not that controversial.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 05:14 PM
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Yea, I know. He says what a lot of moderates here in the states are afraid to say out of fear of being called bigoted, misogynistic, whatever. The stuff he says is routinely misrepresented.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 04:53 PM
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I think men who feel disenfranchised or like they were lied to about gender dynamics can fall deep into the Jordan Peterson rabbit hole. And the Venn diagram of Jordan Peterson fanboys and those who listen to popular lib-right/center-right voices is nearly a circle. In other words, it’s not struggles with dating or gender dynamics that make someone pro-2A, pro-life, or for minimizing public spending; it’s just the way that political opinions happened to have lined up. Like, dating and feminism h…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 03:26 PM
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I've had this same argument with other people on here before. I'm convinced people just don't like the name "toxic masculinity" because it has "masculinity" in it, because we ended up agreeing on what good and bad emotional handling looks like, yet he still referred to whatever I was saying as "gender studies bullshit." It would be much easier to convince people if it wasn't a gendered term, and it could encompass traditionally feminine traits that are harmful as well; feminist forums don't like…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 01:27 PM
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Firstly, correlation is not causation I don't recall anybody claiming that tattoos cause promiscuity. There's a reasonable link, and "correlation ≠ causation" shouldn't be used to dismiss links where one thing can predict the other. Plus, how much is that "greater," if you can't even quantify the correlation your post has 0 value That info is probably in the paper, but it's behind a paywall.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 01:04 PM
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Yes, that’s what I’m saying. No man would say that outright unless he actually meant it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 11:37 AM
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small, cute, effeminate Cue TRPers having a collective aneurism and INB4 “nice try, SIMP magnet”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 07:28 PM
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“Your higher income makes me feel like less of a man” is a hell of an excuse, and something I can’t picture anybody saying unless they actually meant it. If he was looking for an excuse, he could’ve easily said “I don’t feel like we’re compatible” or something simple like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 07:24 PM
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women like good looking men You've seriously never heard this? Even if nobody has said it outright, it's an obvious reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 12:19 AM
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>they're popular bc its funny to feel the thrill of being scared...not bc they're safe
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 05:32 PM
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Asking "how much sex are you having" in a Reddit thread is like asking "how many of you are drinking chocolate milk" at a beer garden.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 01:26 AM
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Dude, every girl I've brought back to my gaming cave fell head-over-heels for me when they saw my katana collection and medals from local Super Smash Bros tournaments.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 04:18 PM
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the dems never figured out that Trump got elected cuz no one wanted to go further left, nobody likes Trump, but the Dems never listened to the message and went further left on emotion instead of common sense That's not why Trump got elected. That could be the case if he were up against Bernie Sanders and people on the fence wanted someone more moderate. He got elected over Hillary because of Hillary's emails and Benghazi and shit. People on the fence opted for "not the criminal."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 02:07 AM
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as Chinese scientists concluded. Lmao. How do you conclude that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 11:11 PM
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General women's beauty standards are heavily driven by what men find attractive, but going off the deep end with plastic surgery and insisting your face looks in real life like it would with an Instagram filter isn't, IMO. Jia makes it clear that a lot of girls that are already pretty are doing this stuff. That's the thing. I think people who feel inadequate compared to Kardashians who have an unrealistic $12,000 laying around for injectables should blame the feedback loops of Instagram and othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 05:05 PM
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Somehow I get the feeling men are to be blamed for this. Idk. I don't really get the sense that men are the ones engaged the most in selfie-culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 04:44 PM
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I agree. Views like those expressed in the OP equate appeal to cute things (which has been around since the dawn of man) with some closeted desire for children. You’re allowed to find puppies cute but not find babies cute. If it was solely about human children, why not put a human baby in baby Yoda’s place?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 02:21 PM
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Okay, great, I too can name a red fish. You misread Dora Bowl’s comment and didn’t seem to know that you did.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 10:35 PM
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it means that for this particular guy sex is not an intimate act You're entitled to your opinion about escort work being gross, but I disagree with this quoted bit. Why can't sex be both physical (the reason he'd use an escort) and intimate (the way he may approach sex with his partner) for him?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 01:18 AM
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I think people want out of these in general, even if they do not really explicitly say it. "people" is a gender-neutral word. If /u/Dora_Bowl meant women, they would've written "I think women want out of these."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 01:07 AM
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Some of his lectures on Youtube are good, but he never really says anything groundbreaking. Basic shit that everyone agrees with like how self-improvement can make you happy, men and women are different, different people like and are capable different things. I do feel like things he says are routinely misrepresented. Like, you can quibble with a few different views of his, but he's not by any means a right-winger.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 09:52 PM
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You all have a really low standard of what constitutes "alien."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 08:26 PM
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Because it wasn’t, lol. Straight married couples are still the norm and I think they’ll always be. It depends on what you mean by “family unit” and how you want to shift the goalposts around to say something good was “destroyed” by an -ism.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 07:56 PM
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The hormone for sexual drive (which the names escapes me) is made with testosterone, and its rates vary but the average female at her highest peak testosterone is still 1/13th of a males testosterone, so... Yeah. **Men have at least many times the desire of women.** I don't think this holds up with your line of reasoning. I've seen this claim on this sub before. While testosterone is mostly responsible for libido in men, women produce estrogen, which is their primary sex hormone that helps regul…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 04:46 PM
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I have never heard of this. But I guess everybody needs a damn hashtag to put on their Twitter page, even if it’s as boring and un-unique as “I don’t rape people.”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 03:37 AM
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What we’re talking about is culture and how people behave. This absolutely changes. In the developed world, we pretty unanimously see slavery as wrong. This wasn’t the case 300 years ago. Many things don’t change, though. Hot water will always act as a more aggressive solvent of solids than cold, all else the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 08:06 PM
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Gross hyperbole, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 11:04 PM
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Verbatim, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 11:02 PM
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Yes, regarding whether there are any women who say “I hate men.”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 10:40 PM
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Maybe if you could earn more swipes by running more miles per week, it would get sedentary incels off their asses, lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 10:14 PM
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There was a thread about this on /r/askfeminists the other day that got a good bit of traffic. People say "I hate men" with a similar intent to "I hate my boss" - nobody (I hope) actually wishes harm upon a whole sex, but they're just frustrated with something that happened to them. Context matters, and with the advent of Twitter woke-ness, there are plenty of tweets including some flavor of "I hate men" or "Men are trash." Personally, I feel that saying "I hate ______" is not an acceptable thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 10:13 PM
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Running is the shit. Masturbating nobody will admit to. I have contemplated ways to combine them into one activity that is a) not illegal and b) not dangerous, and drew a blank. Closest I can think of is running w/ a Tinder date. Maybe if anyone here is handy with C (or whatever iPhone apps are coded in), we could create a platform for connecting your online dating profiles to Strava.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 10:01 PM
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Either that or a conservative household where everything involving sexuality outside of marriage is gross or immoral, so by the time they reach a marriage, they’ve spent no time discovering what they like, figuring out what it’s like to be physically compatible with a partner, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 03:39 AM
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I don't think anybody actually believes in it 100%, totally rejecting how biology drives us. But some sense of blank slate is the premise for claims like gender expression being purely a social construct, when it's really a mix of social and biological. Or the idea that in an ideal world we'd have equal 50/50 gender representation in every field. This may be more of a discussion for /r/askfeminists, /r/menslib, /r/mensrights, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 08:56 PM
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Lmao. I just want to get some chips, salsa, margaritas, and have a PPD watch party of impeachment vote coverage.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 04:05 PM
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Thx 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 05:34 AM
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they have some way of preventing the male chimpanzees sperm from fertilizing her eggs, Source? Interesting facts - male chimps are quite horrible and violent to one another when they compete for mates. They’re also violent towards females. This may show that physical aggression in men is a thing from evolutionary history, not just learned behaviors. When people grow up in good environments, they’re generally less shitty to each other (compared to chimps, that is). Yea. I’m no sociologist or psyc…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 05:32 AM
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Outside of /r/tumblrinaction, the only times I hear about “manspreading” are when people are trying to pick shit and make some SJW highlight reel. I’m not convinced it’s a prevalent issue discussed in feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 03:38 PM
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Cheating is cheating Yes, and quetzals are quetzals. What is cheating? Is it emotional infidelity? Because flirting could constitute that. Is it sleeping with someone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 01:18 AM
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Further: "rules" are also what people with a poor ability to read social cues need to make sense of social and romantic dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 05:41 PM
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Lmao @ this "in the old days" stuff. You say this stuff like there's no/little desire among young men to shower, shave, get their hair cut & styled, and make some beer money. I think if you get your ideas of what young men act like today off of Reddit, it's a really narrow sample (and more likely to favor the basement dweller type over what you'd see if you went literally anywhere that wasn't an online forum) I'm not convinced that there are more basement neckbeards now than there were in the pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 09:30 PM
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Are we talking about abortion? Or marital rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 05:49 AM
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Yea, that’s also important. Regardless of whether you’d pick sex or kids, agency over your own body is a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 05:46 AM
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The Politically Incorrect board on 4chan
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 05:45 AM
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Personally, nothing. I don’t want kids. I’d prioritize sexual intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 05:43 AM
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Probably. Sex as a bonding activity between two people is an important aspect of what most romantic relationships are. I think sex/sexual drive between two people is what separates a close platonic relationship from a romantic one. Some people may feel differently about this. If there’s no sexual desire between two people, they might as well be close friends instead. Nothing wrong with that. I just don’t get the sense it’s what people want in a romantic relationship (why /r/deadbedrooms exists)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 05:18 AM
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The latter. The planet has enough people right now, and raising a child is not my idea of a fun time. A kid and a sexless marriage? Wow. That’s the worst of both worlds.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 05:07 AM
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Idk if that’s a soyboy. I think that’s just a guy who never outgrew his Youtube Markiplier Yogscast Online Gaming phase
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 02:27 AM
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If by manosphere you mean the MGTOW, /pol/, or volcel crowd, then sure. They say some pretty atrocious things about women and how feminism was a disaster. I think people in this thread are confusing “manosphere” with “men.” If you mean men in general, I think y’all spend too much time on the Internet. A couple of dipshits on Tumblr or /r/MGTOW don’t speak for the population as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 12:01 AM
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In America at-least, the education system is more for babysitting children than educating them. Yea, it depends. That's definitely how it seems in elementary and to a lesser extent middle school. It also really depends on what type of classes you're around and what that area is like (a low-income area with sketchy parenting will probably have more issues, but I'm speculating). In addition to the class size they no longer Separate students by ability level so in between trying to corral unruly ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 03:35 AM
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My eyes just rolled so far back that they fell out and rolled down the street, making me crawl half a mile (or 0.8 km for those of you across the pond) to pick them back up. K-12 teachers and anthropology/sociology professors are not the same thing, nor does the latter constitute "most."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 03:24 AM
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If Donald Trump were a psychopathic power obsessed leader (with lots of money to boot) could he be attractive to women? I think women place less emphasis on looks than men do. I don’t think Donald is physically attractive or has attractive mannerisms, but the wealth and influence he has may be attractive to some people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 02:36 AM
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high paying jobs, generally speaking, are more demanding In what sense? Physically? Emotionally? The time commitment?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 02:55 PM
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Spotty Girl You got Holsteins?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 02:51 PM
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Plans for their career or own interests. Want to travel? Start a business? Have hobbies? Without children, you can have the disposable income and time to do those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 03:31 AM
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**STEM is starting to root out the truly intellectual** and industrial. Curious as to what you mean by this. Most women get shitty majors that cant contribute to the world in great degree Ah yes, nursing, psych, business, and biology, majors that don't contribute to the world in a great degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 09:12 PM
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Is the platform to blame for it? Or the people who post and use it the way they do? I don’t know whether Validation by Selfie™ was the original intent of the creators.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 05:31 PM
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I mean, it’s what you make of it. You can tailor your feed to things you actually want to see, not people looking for validation by posting their thousandth selfie. That portion of Instagram is kind of trash IMO. As a platform it’s good, as a site it was better before it became a Facebook for millennials and gen z-ers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 05:29 PM
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Introversion is different from ASDs. I do think a neurotypical man would have an easier time dealing with a neuro-atypical woman than the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 02:50 PM
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Some people expand the simple definition of rape to include deception, such as saying you’re someone you’re not, saying you’re clean if you actually have an STD, or saying you’re using protection when you’re not. This is included under one of the Merriam-Webster definitions. Not sure of its legal status though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 01:32 AM
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I have one. He's a white guy with awful, dusty, crater-filled skin with the body shape of a golfball. It's too bad because I'm straight. It's also too bad because I'm 4.6 billion years old, weigh 6 x 1024 kg, and am made mostly of iron, oxygen, and silicon.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 05:40 PM
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This week without censorhip (that leftists like to call "moderation") Leftists? You know /r/the_donald and /r/AskThe_Donald mute and ban people for fact checking something that reflects poorly on the president. Censorship isn't just a "leftist" thing. Virtually every sub is moderated with varying degrees of censorship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 01:09 AM
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If meat is murder, and roast beef flaps are.....
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 09:24 PM
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nothing you said is legally true /u/madandunabashed said "shoving your hand down someone's pants when you have not been invited to do so is sexual assault." The US DOJ defines sexual assault as "any type of sexual contact or behavior that occurs without the explicit consent of the recipient." Shoving your hand down someone's pants without their permission falls under this umbrella. What constitutes assault vs. battery vs. rape may vary from state to state, but the general spirit stays the same. …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 07:27 PM
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Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 06:08 PM
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PPD is in my thoughts this week because it’s PURRRRRGE WEEK, and there’s a lot of funny shit, but otherwise, no, convincing myself I’m an intellectual by discussing gender dynamics is not an everyday pastime. intellectual hand motions
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 05:24 PM
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With a flair like “yeetus that feetus,” I wouldn’t put it past Atlas to have aborted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 05:22 PM
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Sith like to deal in absolutes. Except instead of Sith, it’s STEM-cels with no sense of social intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 01:10 PM
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Way above SMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 01:52 AM
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Gamers rise up!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 01:21 AM
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Wouldn’t it help your case to have some sense of probable cause? Fighting fire with fire because “I can do it too” doesn’t help when the majority of people on this website don’t agree with your claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 09:26 PM
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I need one of those Staples “that was easy” buttons, except instead of saying “that was easy” it should say “citation needed.”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 09:09 PM
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He reproduced asexually. It's the ultimate in MGTOW activism.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 09:03 PM
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These are both factual statements. Pwn'd, libtrad!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 08:51 PM
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Lol. Hold up. Did you build society? Were you a king? Were you one of the American presidents? Did you write the constitution of any country? I don't think you did any of those things. Nobody owes you anything because somebody who happened to be the same sex as you did something important. This is absurd and akin to saying I'm a bad person because I'm a white guy and some of my ancestors may have been slave owners.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 08:48 PM
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I swear the words “maybe” and “sometimes” don’t exist in some of these people’s vocabularies.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 08:17 PM
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That doesn’t mean personality doesn’t matter. That means personality matters in some situations more than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 08:14 PM
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MGTOWKapow?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 05:42 PM
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Bingo. I don't believe for a second these amateur internet dieticians can actually go, "yep, this grill has a height of 5'8", a weight of 135 lbs, and a BMI of 20.5."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 04:38 PM
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Ideally women should be between 100-125 lbs typically I hate to break it to you, but Barbie Dolls don't exist in real life. And if they did, they'd have a BMI of 16 and weigh 110 lbs. Why is being overweight (but not really) a big deal, but being underweight isn't? As if your BMI is the only factor in your health?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 04:33 PM
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Probably not on reddit!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 04:30 PM
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The whole idea behind MBTI is that your type doesn’t change throughout your lifetime, and with each type each different skill set develops in a certain order. My problem with it is that people absolutely do change, and so will your “honest” answers to a questionnaire.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 01:56 PM
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You should go on a ghost tour or two when you're in Savannah. Super old city (as far as the US is concerned), lots of hauntings. Great places to grab food/coffee/beer in Savannah and Nashville, too. Both very fun cities!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 10:54 PM
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Pink Lady is good. Honeycrisp is also a favorite. Will typically only buy these two cultivars. I've had bad experiences with others.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 10:48 PM
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Idk. Being self conscious maybe? Or not being familiar enough with their bodies?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 12:29 PM
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Something in me says that being hooked up to a brain imaging machine and being watched by a researcher isn't the most arousing environment. But I haven't read the methods so idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 12:21 PM
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I feel you. It's crazy how the magic of Reddit makes everything seem way worse than it actually is. If I solely lived on PPD, I'd think there was some massive ideological battle of the sexes happening in real life, where men hate women and women hate men. But when I go outside and talk to people other than amateur internet sociologists, I realize that people care a whole lot less.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 12:16 PM
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Way to nitpick such a small and inconsequential part of the OP and call them a “dumbass” for accidentally leaving it out. I agree with you that the idea of women needing to separate themselves from men is regressive, but “you just literally said ALL men” is kind of petty.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 05:13 PM
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Yea, welcome to the sub where I mentioned emotional intelligence and someone went off on me about how it doesn’t exist and how emotional maturity is “gender studies bullshit.” Some people...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 02:22 PM
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It's funny because people are accusing me of leaving out the detail about the gun (he didn't actually have a gun, some people just thought he did) He didn't have the pellet gun on his person when he crawled out of his room and was shot. He did have the pellet gun in the room, however, which was what was mistaken for a rifle earlier when he held it near the window/pointed it out/whatever happened. The problem is that leaving out that detail in the OP and just leaving it at "some woman thought he …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 04:42 PM
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Tbh I don't know. I was just going off of what I saw in the OP and what I already knew about the case. But some sheltered, privileged woman decided he looked "suspicious" and called the cops on him. With the way the OP misrepresented the story, I don't think they really know what they're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 03:06 PM
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The woman saw him pointing a pellet gun out a window. That’s a reasonable thing to be suspicious of. OP left that bit out, and that’s a huge misrepresentation. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shooting_of_Daniel_Shaver
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 02:05 PM
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this guy was an exterminator at a hotel killing bugs ... some woman thought he looked suspicious Are you talking about Daniel Shaver? He got the cops called on him because he was allegedly pointing a pellet gun out a window, which is totally reasonable. The cop was entirely too trigger-happy IMO, and he faced criminal charges IIRC. If you watch the full body cam footage, the cop makes him do all shades of stupid shit and practically play Twister when Daniel is very obviously drunk. The cop was i…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 02:05 PM
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The abstract is the point. Abstracts usually include a background and some summary statistics and the conclusions the authors reached (or didn't) based on those results. It's useful if you're doing academic research and need to skim past 60 different papers before you can find one you can use as a reference. If the paper was titled "Effects of cover crops on soil water infiltration," the abstract would tell which cover crops they used, probably some rainfall and local climatic info, and the soil…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 05:06 PM
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I think it’s strange to so vehemently call a thing bullshit when we can’t agree on what that thing is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 02:27 PM
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We don’t disagree as much as you think we do. Stoic people don’t have tantrums. Emotionally intelligent people don’t have tantrums. Emotional intelligence is an understanding of how to express your emotions. You can choose to fully suppress them or express them, and knowing healthy ways to express them (or not) is emotional intelligence. I just don’t think we agree on what emotional intelligence is, since you’re calling it “bullshit.”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 02:19 PM
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It’s both. Stoicism as a principle is about not expressing your emotions at all (“men don’t cry”) but people often use the word “stoic” to mean keeping cool and accepting reality without much complaint.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 01:58 PM
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What is straight up harmful is throwing tantrums, being a drama queen, thinking irrationally, being an emotional spastic, being neurotic, and having meltdowns Exactly. These are the result of a lack of understanding of how to handle and healthily express your emotions. That's why children throw tantrums and have meltdowns when they don't get what they want - they don't think rationally and don't know how to handle their feelings in a reasonable way. Children haven't developed enough mentally to …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 01:41 PM
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I don’t think you understand what I mean by emotional intelligence. Emotional suppression causes harm. It’s unhealthy. It hurts yourself and others. Straight up. That’s a fact and a logical connection between a cause and effect. I don’t know how else to articulate this than “facts don’t care about your feelings.”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 04:31 AM
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Toxic masculinity, much like "patriarchy", doesn't exist. Toxic masculinity refers to "certain cultural norms that are associated with harm to society and to men themselves." I'd wager it's a real thing. Certain cultural expectations, like men being expected to be stoic and hide their emotions, are harmful to men. Developing emotional intelligence and being able to express how you feel (and, yes, cry) is healthy. Masculinity is only "toxic" when the guy doing it is deemed unattractive by women. …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 03:50 AM
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these guys try to peacock and show off their math skills and shit is so fucked up I'm like are you high right now? That shit's hilarious. Having a photographic memory and being able to win integration jeopardy isn't the definition of intelligence. And it sucks for everyone else, too - people convince themselves they're "not smart" because they can't do calculus or physics or organic chem. Dude, my first year physics class was absolutely full of people who had no idea how to act in public, but ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 03:15 AM
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Well, yeah. Computer programming was the first thing that came to mind. I wasn't going to list literally every STEM field (although I suppose I could go the "everything is just applied math" route). And there's definitely some crossover - Aren't a lot of breakthroughs in technology heavily reliant on understanding human interaction (things like making software and electronical devices intuitive and user-friendly)? For sure. Not to mention things like marketing and other social sciences that requ…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 03:08 AM
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This happened to me a few months ago. I couldn't hear out of my left ear at all. It was just built up wax that kept getting impacted deeper and deeper by some earplugs I was wearing that week. The DIY kits with a formulation like Debrox & a bulb syringe are okay for cleaning and removing loose wax, but not for removing impacted wax. You may need somebody (a doctor) to use some tools and physically dig out the blockage and wash out the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 02:57 AM
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Any sweeping statement like "literally all ___" is ridiculous. I understand that that's usually not the intent behind AWALT and AMALT, but that's how it reads. They're also very insulting. "All Muslims are suicide bombers" "All men are rapists" "All whites are racist" "All blacks shoplift" They're all ridiculous generalizations.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 02:30 AM
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Lol. I guess it's good that they're relegated to computer programming and math instead of therapy, social work, and the arts.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 02:26 AM
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Sure, but whether or not their conclusions are actually logically consistent, they show a very male obsession with logic and systems and order. Trying to "prove" their feelings right with stats and studies and theories just confirms this. This is one of the biggest things that bothers me about some of the RP and STEM-cel types. They just don't often come across as emotionally or socially intelligent. Some of the biggest champions of the facts and logic™ don't care about your feelings crowd, iron…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 01:57 AM
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I like him because he doesn’t sound like one of these morons in the Democratic debates or TPUSA who can’t stop going on irrational tirades about how the “radical socialist democrats” did this and the “fascist nazi republicans” did that. That stuff makes me want to vomit. Forgive me for sounding like an enlightened centrist. Like, finally, a person who behaves and presents himself in an intellectually honest way and doesn’t try to get people riled up. Why can’t we clear house and just elect the t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 03:08 AM
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I think "gaslighting" is one of those terms that people don't understand that has just become a go-to word for "doing a bad thing." Kind of like how the words nazi, fascist, socialist, cuck (lol) etc. have become really cheapened lately.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 04:21 PM
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Since every other thread on this sub devolves into a discussion on feminism, I’m not sure why it’s considered off-topic. I think there’s a very strong correlation between red/blue pillers and anti-feminist/feminists. I will say that the red pill cohort is primarily for relationship/dating and self-improvement advice, but feminists tend to consider some of their premises about how men and women behave to be problematic. Feminism is “off-topic,” but in reality, I don’t think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 07:01 PM
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By working jobs with men, advocating for co-ed institutions, having the support of men while running for political office, etc. A lot of this “cooperation” is as simple as men and women occupying similar roles in society, giving people more agency in areas that they didn’t have before.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 03:51 PM
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How this ties in to "equality" is beyond me. Whether or not men are/were the oppressor class and women the oppressed class, which you could argue either way, it’s pretty clear how it ties into equality. The idea is that men and women must cooperate to gain equal representation and influence over the economy and society.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 03:34 PM
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Men have testosterone, it makes people want to fuck. Women have trace amounts, so they want shoes and money instead Women have estrogen, and estrogens are the primary female sex hormones which regulate libido and sexual characteristics. I'm not arguing with your other points, but this deduction that because women don't have testosterone they don't experience a sex drive doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 03:45 PM
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Not really. The concept of the patriarchy states that especially because of biological differences between men and women, men have historically run the show and women haven’t spent as much time in positions where they can influence society like politics, owning property, voting, and working jobs instead of staying at home. Nothing in this concept says that men are evil. If you post in /r/askfeminists and ask whether that’s true, you’ll get a unanimous no. The only time you’ll ever hear “men are …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 09:39 PM
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Yeah I know, that’s the title of this thread, lol. Do tell what it means to be a man and why feminism (of which there are different schools of thought) holds that these things that make a man are awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 06:50 PM
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That's funny because: "Super nice" guys are the ones I often fantasize about tying up and just straight up going to town on. Innocence and naivety in men I'm attracted to bring out my aggressive side for some reason. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 03:14 AM
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I generally don't like living in a world where being what a man is, is a horrible thing Can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 02:35 AM
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That’s not really a similar thing. With conceptual arguments about social issues and behavior (like how PPD discusses feminism and MRAs and gender issues often), unless we’re talking about a statistic, there’s not a “right” answer. Privilege is not a tangible thing we can look at, for example, but we can look at stats and personal experiences that are evidence for preferential treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 10:08 PM
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this is considered a strength by neocons for some reason. Because it makes liberals look uninformed and ditzy. But, duh, if you, with no prior notice, get into an argument with someone who prepared beforehand with a binder full of info in front of them, you'll make yourself look dumb. It works. Crowder can sell his "socialism is for fags" T-shirts and paint liberals as stupid and uninformed. Win-win!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 09:30 PM
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Why point out single instances of bad behavior instead of patterns? Because pointing out the crazies on the other side feeds their perception of what they think feminism is. About how the central tenant of feminism is man-hating or something ridiculous. I've listened to some MGTOW material recently - podcasts, Youtubers - I got this angsty "I watch Steven Crowder and Milo Yiannopoulos" vibe from it. While the self-improvement and independence aspects of it are hip, the rhetoric about how women a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 04:27 PM
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Beyond and Impossible have gotten really popular lately. I'm impressed. I don't see them taking over Texas barbecues - mainly people who previously ate meat and are dabbling in vegetarianism/veganism. The biggest problem I have is that they're just expensive. A package of 2 Beyond burgers costs $5-6 where I live. And you can never find the Impossible in retail – only in restaurants (like Burger King - really?).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 12:43 PM
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It’s not about the physical sensation. It’s about somebody forcibly or manipulatively violating your personal space when you didn’t want it to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 12:53 AM
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If you haven't impregnated at lest two different females Umm, the correct terminology is femoids.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/19 04:02 AM
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I think many incels say that being fat is just voluntarily being celibate and that you should lose the weight. Interesting. You would think incels would consider weight a genetic thing that involuntarily damns them to celibacy. I see and hear some RP people say stuff like this too. RP is big on self-improvement, but I'm not convinced that a perfect alpha-bod (or whatever the equivalent for *FEEEEEEEMALES\* is) is within practical reach for all people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/19 03:58 AM
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But the acronyms save time. Critical time we could use polishing our Tinder profiles. It also makes me feel like I’m in an in-crowd when I post PPD, SMV, SMP, AWALT, AMALT, OLD, and TRP in an online forum. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 08:31 PM
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Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 07:46 PM
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Whenever I ask someone(expert or not) about these subjects they give hand-waving answers, personal attacks or in your case just an explanation of a model. I agree, hand-waving and personal attacks aren't useful. The reason I used a model is that in many fields, a model is just the way we explain how things work. Our current understanding of the atom and the mechanisms behind chemical reactions and electricity is made of a collection of models. A big aspect of science, and I think you'll agree wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 02:12 PM
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Electricity is the flow of an electric charge through a medium. Subatomic particles like electrons are the vehicle for the flow of energy this way. Electrons exit the negative side of a battery (because they’re negatively charged and opposite charges repel - try pointing a positive end of a magnet to another positive end, or a negative to a negative), pass through the lightbulb, then back into the positive side of the battery (because opposite charges attract each other). Electricity is one of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 12:30 PM
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Can any other late bloomers here relate? How do you get over those bitter feelings? I dated somebody once for 3 months when I was 17. It was fun sometimes. But the constant having to "be there" for someone wasn't enjoyable, especially when I had (and still have) exactly zero emotional baggage that I needed somebody to confide in about. Haven't had much of an interest in it since then. I have hobbies and interests, but I really can't justify getting attached to someone if I have to move elsewhere…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 02:47 PM
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It seems that the terp STEMlord world just doesn't understand the value of critical thinking in general. I know a few people who are very libertarian/conservative politically and mostly fall under the category of TERP Stemlords. They seem to have a dislike for "soft" sciences and non-STEM fields (as in, a general dislike on the consensuses in sociology and anthropology as well as not taking music or art students seriously). I don't agree with their views much at all, but I think I have a good id…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 01:03 AM
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even _____? Bad people exist. It’s not as if literally every man on the planet will start raping. Wouldn’t ______ try to protect you? Most likely. I’m no sociologist, but I think most people have a moral problem with rape. And the people who aren’t currently getting laid? Well, they weren’t getting any or expecting any anyway. I don’t think many of them will suddenly decide it’s ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 11:05 PM
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And watching videos of Ben Shapiro and Jordan Peterson 🚨Wrekking College Feminists🚨 and thinking they’re doing sociology
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 10:37 PM
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Point out one case where a man needs emotional support. I bet you can't. A couple years ago I was with a big group of people. To make a long story short, a friend of ours died from anaphylaxis. Most of the men there broke down crying. There were a *few* who didn't [immediately], but the majority who did needed the comfort of those around them. Have you met women 🤷‍♂️ Problem solving isn't their bag You sound like you're either a troll, you've met one bad apple and otherwise don't go outside or l…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 06:43 PM
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What does a man get out of a platonic relationship with a woman? What does a woman bring to the table? Similar things that a man can bring to the table. Emotional support (which IMO women tend to be better at), help with problem solving, and maybe networking opportunities if you want to go that route. I understand that men don't want emotional support as much as women do, but platonic relationships still happen. It's not as common as same-sex friendships, but they still exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 06:16 PM
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I think things feel very polarized because we’ve grown/are growing up in the age of social media, which makes polarization and radicalization of young people much stronger.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 01:41 AM
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What you're saying about how the market works is true. But right now there's not much incentive to buy a product that's less effective and more expensive than the alternative. Male condoms are seen more as the standard. If the market grew, then some of those problems might be fixed. I'm no condom economist, but there would need to be a surge in popularity for that to happen. Maybe couples should go halvsies on condom costs. That way the odd bad apple who refuses to use a condom bc it "feels bett…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 08:39 PM
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I really like what you have to say. It’s balanced and nuanced. I used to think this. The sad truth is a lot (if not most) feminists use it for this reason. If you define feminism as “men and women should have equal opportunities and neither should be discriminated against based on their sex,” I think you’ve easily got a bigger portion of the population than you think you do. It can just come across as most feminists because in any social movement, the most vocal tend to be the ones who say more …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 12:56 AM
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he legit felt bad about looking at women or thinking about asking them out in public because it’s basically harassment There was a post (actually, a series of two or three) on /r/AskFeminists the other day from a guy who got caught looking at a woman's chest. He clearly felt bad and embarrassed about it (who wouldn't?), kept convincing himself that he was guilty of sexual harassment(!!), despite every response to his post saying that what he did wasn't harassment and that he's being too hard on …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 04:53 PM
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That there are men who when given the choice between porn and a real person they’d pick porn? I remember reading about this kind of thing happening on /r/nofap and /r/pornfree, but I have a hard time believing that that ^ choice is usual in any way. It happens, absolutely, but that’s in more extreme cases when a man literally can’t get off w/out pulling up porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 02:56 PM
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Oh. I forgot. I was thinking WoW. I guess it’s a good thing to get mixed up? Maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/19 11:13 PM
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On second thought, I’d bunch those all up under a single MMORPG category.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/19 11:11 PM
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70% of reddit is sexless. This is one of those stats I think is close to true even if it sounds made up. I think the most sexless places on the internet are /a/, Runescape*, and Reddit, probably in that order. *MMORPGs
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/19 11:10 PM
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"I am more attracted to/feel more strongly about a woman if I know she doesn't have a lot of sexual partners. It's just how I feel."=fine and dandy. I wholeheartedly agree with you here. We shouldn’t have to justify something about our sexual preferences outside of “that’s just how I feel.” The reason people try to rationalize these views is to try to find the origin of why we feel how we feel, which often has some sort of evolutionary basis or origin in old societal standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 07:26 PM
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Them rationalizing it with “studies” and BS is just sad Why though? If people started rationalizing their positions with "this is how I feel" rather than "this is what the data/clear majority of personal experiences shows," then people not happy with the claims will say that since facts don't care about your feelings, they must be wrong. How to be in-touch with emotions is not something men have traditionally been taught how to do. Men are generally rational people and see "data" and "facts" as …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 05:18 PM
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I may be thinking of the same ones you are. I only listened to one. Maybe I'll sit through the others later. They were... informative at times, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/19 01:39 AM
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I watched Chernobyl Diaries yesterday. It was ok. Did you get chased by any zombies? Did your friends get eaten?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/19 01:35 AM
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Meetups in other subs happen all the time, but they're mostly local subs for a city or subs that are big enough to pull people together in several locations. If meetups are prohibitive, it would be cool if there were a podcast put together via audio call or something. Found a couple episodes on Youtube from a few years back but it looks like it never really got started.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/19 01:30 AM
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But that's the thing. I don't care. I know what you're getting at and I know why you feel that way. From the OP: Saying, I just wanna fuck should be respected but some women get offended when men are honest about just wanting the sex. The small talk is a way of developing trust. Sex is personal – not many people would sleep with somebody they don't trust or don't know well enough. This is why a significant number of people don't have sex on the first date. Similarly, this is why you don't spill …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/19 12:52 AM
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I generally think dinner is too stuffy and formal for a first or even second date anyway, so I agree Word. I feel like it's just stock, old school, uncomfortable, and can get awkward real quick. Especially since there's no easy way out or a "safety" to fall back on when conversation slows down – in contrast if you go to a museum or see a show or something, you can always talk about the show or the art instead of asking, "so, where did you go to school?" for the third time. If you just want to fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 04:35 PM
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...when their next relationship "starts" before the previous one ends. Can range from straight up physical infidelity to withdrawal of emotional commitment from the old partner to the new one. It does kind of make the term "monogamy" in "serial monogamy" sound questionable. Is this the right term?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 10:19 PM
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According to Progressives money is just luck and has nothing to do with work ethic This is just sweeping and exaggerative. Progressives generally believe that luck is an important aspect in how much money you make, such as growing up in a financially well-off family and having the realistic opportunity to attend college, have internet access (which is becoming increasingly important in academia), and not live in an environment that stifles your development. I don’t think you could find a progres…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/19 06:44 PM
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He’s a very intelligent and reasonable dude. But for some reason conservatives have adopted him as a saint for the “facts don’t care about your feelings” crowd. I don’t know if it’s the exposure and slant he’s gotten in the media or his own doings that makes him seem much more appealing to radicals now. I do believe that the longer you spend surrounded by people that affirm your worldview, the more radicalized you’ll become. Maybe that’s what’s happened (I’ve seen that happen with some of my fri…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/19 06:33 PM
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It depends on the definition of survival Word. I just don’t think anybody in this thread agrees with what the word “need” means. It’s very quickly becoming a pedantic, Jordan Peterson-esque argument about the definitions of words, rather than the intent behind statements like “sex is a need.” I don’t think we’re getting anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/19 02:22 PM
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I think you'll see people lean more pro-choice if we are talking about instances when the child will come out disfigured, sick, etc. It changes the context immensely when we talk about the health of the mother or the baby. If the baby was never born, or if killed as a newborn, it really doesn't do any harm since the thing is not self aware and never has a shot of a decent life. The disagreement still exists because there is not (and never will be) a clear line that we can look at to determine wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/19 07:26 PM
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Wow, that's a phrase I haven't heard since 2011 Runescape.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 05:43 PM
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Not even that. It's probably a few bad experiences that lead to such sweeping AWALT/AMALT claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 09:25 PM
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The fact that something goes inside or around something else is arbitrary. What’s traumatizing about assault is someone forcing themselves on you sexually. It doesn’t necessarily have to include penetration.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 04:20 AM
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Men and women dislike cheating for different reasons. While men are more distressed by physical infidelity, women are more distressed by emotional infidelity, which, sure, has more of an evolutionary basis than I thought it did. While men are afraid of somebody bearing a child that's not theirs, women are afraid of the task of raising a child on their own if the man abandons them (which is expressed in the paper as "resource withdrawal"). males are less tolerant about cheating If we agree as a c…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 05:12 PM
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I think you're overestimating the role of the fear of somebody else bearing *your* child in why we consider cheating morally wrong. I'd argue it's less about evolutionary instinct and more about cultural and moral standards. People don't like cheating because they don't like the emotional infidelity. Most all romantic relationships, at least in the western world, are understood to be exclusive. This is a cultural thing which may have some base in evolutionary instinct from long past generations,…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 05:56 AM
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"I know one person who does X therefore all people do X." the sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 05:54 PM
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Lol, I think you’re onto something.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 03:40 PM
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If you don't want a kid, don't have unprotected sex that ends with ejaculate inside a fertile woman. A bit late to the party, but I think what /u/cxj could've mentioned to make things clearer is using protection yet having a condom break or some other odd instance that results in an unplanned pregnancy. It happens. Both partners should agree what would actions they would take if this were to occur (Plan B, an abortion, keep it, etc.). If an unplanned pregnancy occurs, it is then the woman's resp…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 03:37 AM
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There's a difference between being manipulatively controlling over something (bad) and being protective (not intrinsically bad). If I understand peterlongc correctly, I think "possess/make his own/have control over" is just a poor choice of words. generally a man will not want to share what he loves most, he will be most jealous of it This is why people like to keep relationships exclusive. They don't want to lose their partner to somebody else, and I think this is pretty universal. men protect …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 03:04 AM
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Chastity As a virtue, I think it's kind of outdated, especially with the advent of safe(r) sex and changing social views. There's still a stigma attached to having an especially high number of sexual partners (which has certain correlations to mental health and personality traits – there was a thread about it on this sub a few weeks ago), and I think it's well based. The rest of the 7 I think still hold reasonably true as nice, common sense ways to conduct yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 02:44 AM
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The name OP is looking for is Chris Watts, which has a striking similarity to your username, C. Watts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 03:31 AM
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It is about rape, at least partially. It's about what is portrayed in porn (sometimes rape) and whether it encourages men to act out those things in real life. Porn taught you that women initiate kinky sex and it’s hot to violate a woman without her wanting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 08:22 PM
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I’m not OP but I think I have a good idea of what he/she is getting at. liberals...prefer fact-based arguments Both liberals and conservatives and everyone in between say they prefer fact-based arguments. In my experience, liberals have been the ones to use feels-based arguments rather than conservatives. Conservatives’ feels-based arguments typically stem from fear - fear of terrorist groups, immigrants taking American jobs, etc. TRPs [conservatives] utilize fear-mongering I agree with you here…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 12:14 PM
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Are you under the impression that men only value looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 12:03 PM
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Both sexes are controlled by animal brain instinct. Hunger? Thirst? Feeling hot or cold? Feeling sleepy? That’s all instinct. If you don’t fulfill what you’re instinctually driven to do, your body will get angry at you. Practically everything we do connects to instinct - don’t pretend you’re not controlled by it either. The difference between us and primitive humans is that we’ve secured a source of food, water, clothing in cold environments, etc., so that fulfilling basic needs is not a priorit…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 11:19 AM
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If I was a woman I definitely wouldn't let every schlubby joe schmoe have his way with me. Wouldn't you say that it makes sense that they are looking out for themselves? I think the issue here is that there are other ways to test compatibility than playing disinterested/hard to get. And it seems like the ways to make this happen are more similar to what you’d see in platonic relationships - nobody “tests” their new friends by playing hard-to-get. Rather, they spend time with them and communicate…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 02:30 AM
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Word. The DUI vs N-count comparison is an example of how, with a little bit of reasoning, you can pretty definitively conclude a causal relationship between a couple variables. Replying “correlation does not mean causation” to data like these I think is a cop-out. It doesn’t take a statistician to reason that summer ice cream sales do not cause shark attacks. A high n count is NOT A DIRECT relation to how somebody handles a monogamous relationship. It’s a valid question to ask what these higher …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 08:27 PM
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You’ve got me thinking here. That homogeneity can probably be associated with how women tend to confide in a greater number of people than men do. But there are still plenty of women I know who don’t come across that way - the way of the proverbial Becky with her counterpart the proverbial Chad. I still feel that saying all women want the same type of men is a stretch, even if women are more homogenous.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 08:17 PM
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That’s really sweepingly generalizing. That’s like saying all men want the same type of women, which is just not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 08:11 PM
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And why do you think laws are "carved in stone" that isn't true In the US, at least, we can discuss why people make such a big deal of making policy “constitutional” and have to justify every new law as being a new “correct” interpretation of a 230 year old document. They’re “carved in stone,” to an extent – there’s a significant sect of people who feel the constitution is infallible and that policy makers must make new rules constitutional. But that’s why we have amendments that aren’t repealed…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 03:43 PM
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That’s in the same vein as having “watching Netflix and hanging out with my frands” as one of your hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 04:16 PM
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Out of curiosity, was 32 the average when you took it? The average probably dropped to 26 from all these Redditors taking it in the past 2 hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 07:15 PM
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No, it's a question of whether a person has or can have agency whilst drunk It generally takes a lot of alcohol to lower someone’s inhibitions and agency to this point. If you’re slurring speech and stumbling around the room, I think it’s safe to say you’re not fit to make any big decisions. The problem is that everyone is affected differently - there can’t practically be a set rule that says after X number drinks you shouldn’t do Y. This is why you see zero tolerance guidelines for consent and …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 07:43 PM
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That would count as sexual assault. But legally, not rape? It's really weird.
/r/seduction12/07/15 01:51 PM
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Then both of you simultaneously rape each other
/r/seduction12/07/15 12:44 PM
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Not my FUCKING tempo
/r/seduction14/05/15 01:01 AM
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