Vrijesak Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
52	What’s your best FDS quote? "It is only fair and natural that the females are the ones who choose who is worthy to mate with them. In many ways that are already posted in the handbook, women are the ones who have the most to lose in a relationship, even in a modern times. So always remember, you are interviewing him, and he has to prove he wants the job" - /u/SkiesEclipse	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/08/21 09:04 AM
8	Reigning in the extreme pick me horror tales - this is not a place to just vent, get sympathy points for tolerating extreme clownery, remain clueless and go back back to being a complete pushover. Thank you. I left this sub for a while after I was being downvoted for telling OP that crying won't do her no good and she has a whole life ahead of her after leaving a LVM. Those posts are just pickmes in recovery still seeking for validation, only this time from other women, instead of men.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/07/21 06:06 PM
22	The 4 Horsemen of the Relationship/Divorce Yes. I still feel devastated at the moments at thought how someone who "loved" me could be so harsh and full of hate and go after my character instead of my actions during the arguments. He was so mean in the name of being honest, leaving me emotionally drained that the only thing I could do was to stonewall him.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/06/21 08:28 AM
2	Weekly FDS Check-In What do you think about HVM having IG? I don't have an IG acc, so I might be biased, but from what I've witnessed, for guys IG primarily serves for stalking and looking at thirst traps. I might be too strict(even if am I don't care) but what's FDS stance on it?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/05/21 10:08 AM
-5	My heart is getting really heavy as I'm preparing to leave my boyfriend. Any support appreciated. Omg please just read your title: my heart is getting heavy as I prepare yada yada... Much melodramatic, ha? This pity party is no fun. C'mon OP (and rest of you newbies wasting your time writing about some LVM from the past) if you read the Handbook you would be pissed atm for your time and vulnerability were exploited, not crying in a fucking parking lot. Brace yourself, pick up your crown, pack your shit - you're starting an adventure!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/03/21 10:43 PM
7	Back to the FDS Basics for anyone new here Agreed! u/SuitablePerformance3 I often come upon your comments on FDS and your opinions are always spot on :)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/01/21 09:40 AM
101	Pay attention to men with abusive patterns of behaviour, they may just be intentionality trying to to induce a Stockholm Syndrome response in their target. No need to pay attention looking for patterns because for a pattern that would mean repeated occurrences. A mere possibility of a potentially abusive behavior should be taken as a early warning signal while an actual (first) manifestation of it must result in a termination of the relationship. Effective immediately.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/12/20 02:08 PM
14	Building your self-esteem back up after a LVM Hi, I'm sorry for what are you going through right now and I wish you healthy and speedy recovery in being a HVW. Because right now you are not. You are angry, which is understandable, but you entire post is focused on bashing other women when it's your ex LVM to be blamed. From your post it is quite clear that you define your value by comparing to others. Self-esteem is not derived from the external environment. It comes from within you. In knowing who you are, what value do you (and can) bring…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/11/20 12:41 PM
11	Quick Survey - How Did You All Find FDS? I was typing 'femalefashionadvice' in the search bar when the autofill suggested this. So I checked the sub, expecting to find some women related PUA content... Lo and behold, how surprised was I to find that there are other women who share my views on relationships. It's been a year now and I am so happy to see this community grow.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/11/20 09:02 PM
15	Just saw this- literally proving we are responsible for changing men’s (poor) grooming habits? I 've been coming back to re-read this comment for the giggles.😂😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/11/20 06:05 PM
16	Dating gets a lot easier when Same. Wasting my time/life in an unfulfilling relationship has become my biggest fear to the point where even thought of being in a relationship makes me anxious.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/11/20 09:15 AM
3	Inspired by a post earlier today, I took myself on the date I didn’t have for 3 years. Finally left an abusive relationship a few days ago, FDS was the push I needed. Thank you all. I just looove seeing women this supportive of each other!! FDS is a wonderful sisterhood community 💕🥂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/11/20 08:45 AM
54	My boyfriend destroyed my 7 year old Bonsai tree You are the epitome of what FDS stands for. Your boundaries were crossed and you acted accordingly.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/10/20 04:49 PM
1	Guy treats his GF like shit because he thought she’d never leave. She leaves him and is gone for good. THIS IS A DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN! Plus, not to exclude the possibility that his ex-girlfriend might be a redditor and see his post. Perhaps he is calculating that she might feel sorry for him and once again try to save him, now that he's "aware" of what he was doing to her. Pity the fool	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/09/20 08:22 PM