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WB2E/r/TheRedPill26/12/19 10:47 PM
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She did not think "maybe ill fuck him" tho because the date was cut short beforehand. I don't think a woman with serious intentions does that, unless anyone can intelligently prove me wrong Lol. Women rarely will consciously and logically plan to sleep with a guy or cheat on their husband. It always "just happens". She just so happened to be in his apartment to meet his cats but that was all it was supposed to be. She just so happened to shave her legs, armpits and pussy because that was around …
/r/askMRP19/02/24 06:33 PM
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I've met many girls with boyfriends/husbands in public, and gone out with them for coffee/drinks/meals under some plausibly deniable guise, normally getting to know each other platonically. In every situation it's the same - the girl and I are in on it. It's called secret society. She knows her role and I mine. I've fucked a bunch of these girls, and friend-zoned the rest. Don't be naive - all these girls whether we fucked or are friends now, came out because they were attracted to me and their …
/r/askMRP19/02/24 03:35 PM
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It's not about good or bad. I used OP's word of "offended" but you can substitute "held accountable" so you don't miss the point. OP should feel personally accountable for his daughter disrespecting his wife. If he's just teaching her respect so she "fits in with society" or whatever he said then he doesn't really care about what respect means which is why he hasn't earned it
/r/askMRP15/08/23 06:14 PM
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Huh? You aren't personally offended by her disrespectful behavior to her mother? That's the problem then, you don't actually care. Your 8 yo daughter sees through your BS.
/r/askMRP15/08/23 03:37 PM
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She shouldn't be saying them if she truly respected you and you truly had frame. But if she does test your frame by joking about something you're sensitive about, you have to maintain frame, correct her, and set a boundary. If you don't mind, tell us what exactly are the jokes she says. I'm curious if it's actually good shit testing, if she's just being a bitch, or if you're just being a bitch.
/r/askMRP27/04/22 03:39 AM
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Sounds like you're in a decent headspace. +1 for everyone who's said she's either cheated already or has met someone she's considering cheating with. All that stuff about moving to a different state, missed out on fun, meeting new people means it's over of course. Once that speckle of curiosity enters her mind, it can never be removed. Stark reality is that your life in the future will not include her at all. Tough to stomach but the sooner you accept this, the sooner you can make the best decis…
/r/askMRP11/12/21 04:32 PM
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I'm reluctant to help you. Any advice will just be a band-aid on a deep puncture wound requiring stitches. For starters, how about providing some more context. come crawling back how should I punish her You wrote that. Read it again, and then again. Does that sound healthy? You want to be in that kind of relationship? And now she's making me answer questions, which I assume is to establish her frame over mine. Pics below. What to respond back with the most frame? No one can make you do anything.…
/r/askMRP21/11/21 03:36 AM
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Agree w the part about attraction without making a move is not a good strategy. Guys don't realize if you only go for girls who approach you, you're going for girls that a) are 99% of the time gonna be less hot than you want since girls will only approach guys they're super attracted to which means they will by nature less attractive, and these girls will also be more needy since hot girls never need to approach guys and don't bc they're constantly getting approached and b) girls who are prob mo…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/21 01:30 PM
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You've been reading and internalizing. You've been lifting. You've been STFU. You've been working and providing. But, where are you going in life? What's your mission in life, the reason you were given life and put on this earth? It can't just be to raise your child and be a good father. You need a purpose outside of your basic biological duties.
/r/askMRP14/09/21 11:56 PM
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Also where does the line get drawn between being a leader and pretending your wife is dead. Whatever this means, it's too drastic. You can be a good leader, focusing on the mission first and holding people around you accountable, while still being compassionate, especially to your first lady co-captain. I stopped caring about her so much and will get laser focused on work or something I’m doing and she will say I seem upset. Again, saying you stopped caring about her "so much" is too drastic. Ma…
/r/askMRP10/08/21 11:57 PM
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Right now I've just been going with "it worked didn't it" This is a stupid response. You're telling her that what you're doing is not really you, just an outside ploy you're using that "worked" and then rubbing it in her face by saying "didn't it" like that. Dread, at its core, is simply improving yourself into a strong, masculine, sexual, physical, stoic, purposeful, attractive, high-value, non-needy guy. Your wife discovered that you are on the path of self-improvement, that's all that happene…
/r/askMRP22/07/21 04:09 PM
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what the
/r/askMRP09/07/21 08:07 PM
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Agree. Girls will be even more starved for in-person interaction and physical touch. World is in a state of uncertainty and who feels that the most? Females, especially young, single females. They'll look for high value bold guys to lead them and provide reassurance during this time.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/20 08:28 PM
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It's better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all
/r/seduction24/12/20 01:47 PM
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3 weeks? That's quite a short amount of time to become exclusive with a girl you're sleeping with imo
/r/seduction21/12/20 04:20 AM
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I wrote a post about this on another private forum - this is sexualizing in general but you'll see what's subtle and what's overt. I'll just bullet point a lot of it: Insinuate sexual stuff. Misinterpret things she says or does as being sexual. If she looks at your shoes and compliments them, "Hey, my eyes are up here" with a smile. Or if she touches you "You just can't keep your hands off me huh?" with a smile. Physical attractiveness. Workout, have a nice body, wear fitted clothing to show off…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/20 05:24 PM
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Great post. Lots of great points to take away. Well done
/r/TheRedPill04/11/20 02:55 PM
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No offense but some of you guys are idiots. Never reveal your intentions with a girl. Don't ask or force her to take a fucking pregnancy test. Convince her to want to take one on her own so she fucking knows if she's going to be walking around for the next 9 months creating a human life inside of her. And then convince her having a fucking baby at _ age is irresponsible and immature. Never tell her you are worried she's pregnant and you really want her to take the test. Come on fellas.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 01:17 PM
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Good post. Exposing yourself to the realities of female nature from her point of view definitely helps with desensitization. As you get more experience, the realities that made you insecure in the beginning become less important and you see the matrix as it is. Plus you learn that guys are the ones in control and look at it from your own perspective (girls like fucking me, attraction is non-negotiable, plausible deniability, etc.) rather than the female's perspective (she fucks guys quickly, she…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/20 01:48 PM
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Don't use girls to fill your loneliness gap. Be comfortable being by yourself. Find a purpose and focus on that. Whenever anything relating to girls stresses me out, I divert my focus to my purpose and everything is better.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 03:51 AM
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Goes to his shows, NBD. Has his number and talks to him? How do you think she got his number? Talks about him infrequently.. she's fucking him, or is already open to the idea of it
/r/askTRP11/06/20 11:36 AM
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I'm not Indian. You say you're tired of Indian people self loathing, wanting to move out, etc. But then say European and American girls are better looking than them. Think about that for a second.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 02:56 PM
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Have you heard of kegels? If you perform those during sex in a certain manner with breathing and relaxation, you can control your urge to ejaculate.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/20 04:11 AM
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Breathing, physical exercises, and meditative relaxation.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/20 04:05 AM
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Plan B must be taken within 5 days of raw sex. And I believe she can't be on the pill when taking it too, double check that.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 11:33 AM
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Yes I feel the same way every guy who gets married feels, but every guy who gets married isn't red pilled, in fact 95% of men who get married are some form of low-value, beta, unattractive, weak, or unintelligent. Makes sense only 5% of marriages are rewarding.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/20 11:30 AM
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If you were to get married, do you think you'd be one of the 50% eventually divorced, or the 25% married but unhappy, or perhaps the 1 in 20 that has a rewarding marriage? I think it's safe to say that you're smart, high value, and will make a very good decision on who you marry. You'll also continue to be high value after marriage, always pumping dread, and befriending girls just in case. In other words, it's safe to say you'd have a phenomenal wife who is kept in check and hence a rewarding ma…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/20 02:51 AM
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I'm happy for you that you had this experience and are better for it. You're obviously a young dude, so here is the cold hard truth. You knew this girl for 2 weeks. 2 fucking weeks. She hurt you, yes. But the emotional scar she left on you was from a 2 week relationship. Imagine if you had dated her for 2 months and she did this to you. How much more would the pain be? Or if she was your girlfriend for 2 years or 5 years and she betrayed you. Imagine how devestated you would be. Have you changed…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/20 01:49 PM
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Honestly, based on what you wrote - your current success and where you're at right now - you have a lot more success in front of you. Keep up the good work.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/20 02:33 PM
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No, it's possible to regain her respect and attraction but would take something extraordinary. Like focusing on work and founding a million dollar business or becoming a minor celebrity advocating a social cause or some impressive physical, financial, social change. Then you'd regain her respect and attraction. But at that point you'd also be able to attract like 99% of girls you once thought were unattainable. Hot girls who don't know your past and have never cheated on you. So the bottom line …
/r/TheRedPill02/05/20 04:54 AM
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He's so BP beta I don't think he'll ever leave her. And he's so valuable I don't think she'll ever leave him. I can see her cheating and having affairs and him staying with her. She's so average looking, it's unbelievable. Without a doubt a CC veteran.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 11:27 AM
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Yes, girls can taste good
/r/askTRP29/04/20 01:33 PM
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Best things to get over a breakup or realization with girls: Focus on your purpose. This is the #1 best thing to do if your girl breaks up with you, cheats on you, or any other emotional trauma. You realize how trivial this problem is in your life. Instead of getting emotional, you have a fucking mission to do. Lift, exercise and run. Nothing like physical hard work to destress and clear your mind. Plus, realize you're making yourself sexier and higher value to for yourself and the next girls yo…
/r/askTRP27/04/20 04:16 AM
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And never tell them they're hot unless they're sucking your dick, then "you're so hot with my cock in your mouth"
/r/askTRP23/04/20 10:57 PM
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Beta bucks are not the prize. Alpha fucks are not the prize. The prize is a combination of AF/BB specific to each girl. A guy who's 80% AF and 20% BB with the right combination of traits will be the prize more than a 100% AF and 0% BB, or in your argument 0% AF and 100% BB which is just wrong and contradictory to RP. I'm not sure I follow you on the Madonna/Whore topic. We want to only fuck whores but seek/settle for virgins for provisioning for marriage? I'd rather fuck hot low-count girls, tur…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/20 05:57 PM
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Lol. Forget sex tape. If your manager doesn't like you, he can find other "reasons" to fire you. Happens all the time. Don't be the idiot who thinks he knows everything and is bulletproof. But it sounds like you'll need a dose of real life experience to humble you.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 07:29 PM
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This is extremely true. If you're fucking good looking girls at bars that give you eye contact then you're fucking a lot of sluts. If you're an attractive guy day gaming girls on the street that never look at you, there's a much better chance she won't be a whore.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/20 01:01 PM
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All women are emotional. If you allow them to get out of hand, then any girl will be an "emotional rollercoaster". Control and manage your relationships better and be the stoic rock of a man you should be, and it will keep your girl in her place. All girls will have the occasional emotional outburst, sure, but that's just women. Remain calm, stoic, and steer the ship. If you're doing all this and she's still giving you an "emotional rollercoaster" then why not drop her? None of us should tolerat…
/r/askTRP21/04/20 12:44 PM
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You're correct, Red Pill learned and especially natural, is more rare in conservative countries and continents such as Asia. We can't tell you how to internalize RP. Swallowing the RP is probably the hardest part of the journey and one every RP man has made on his own. To answer your question, once you've decided to swallow the RP, it doesn't matter what your environment or friends think about it. It's just part of your identity. Girls will universally respond to RP regardless of culture or coun…
/r/askTRP20/04/20 03:01 PM
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A lot of responses are saying, continue with what you're doing, if she leaves whatever... And I definitely agree. However when you have such strong frame and high value, you do have to provide more comfort to girls. You have to let them know you are including them in your high value life. You're allowing them to tag along on this fun, exclusive ride. You're not giving up power in any way. You're establishing your role as the strong captain and her as a passenger/cocaptain. A lot of girls like th…
/r/askTRP19/04/20 02:23 PM
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You'll know you have true purpose as a man if you can honestly say: "I'd rather successfully achieve my life's purpose than have sex again in my life." When you can honestly say the above, your life is directed at a goal greater than fucking the hottest, highest value girls in the world. It's the most powerful IDGAF frame and mindset that can't be faked.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 02:17 PM
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I think the majority of guys here don't want commitment but there's a growing faction on RP that does. A true RP guy looking for commitment is rare. You have to imagine 95% of guys are BP, 5% RP. Out of those 5%, prob 4% don't want commitment, 1% do. Yet, basically, all girls - sluts, good girls, young, old, inherently want family, love and commitment. Combine the percentages with the RP guy's physical traits, sense of identity and purpose, strong frame, etc. etc. and you have most girl's ideal …
/r/askTRP17/04/20 06:51 PM
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"Truly RP" means maximizing your wealth in addition to all SMV related factors, so yes you're right.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 06:38 PM
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Yep
/r/askTRP17/04/20 11:06 AM
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I wanted to make a post about this soon: if you're truly RP and you want an LTR or preferably marriage, you're in the top dating game position
/r/askTRP17/04/20 11:01 AM
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Should i just keep my frame Always keep your frame with girls. should i say something about these doubts like joke and amplify like it would be a shit test or make a real statement about it? If you have a strong frame, then you can say anything and it will be congruent. I personally don't like to say "I miss you". That's like saying "I miss everything about you, the entire package, 100% of your presence" and there's a lot of things I don't miss like the inability to have alone time, sharing the …
/r/askTRP06/04/20 08:30 PM
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Something has to change. Either your expectation of girlfriend material changes to fit your reality or you change the girl to fit your girlfriend expectations. Keep in mind, it's your reality. I don't believe you have to accept that your girlfriend will have a promiscuous past. There are an infinite number of attractive, smart, high value girls that don't have a "promiscuous" past if that's the reality you want. You'll figure out your ideal girlfriend expectations over time.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 02:44 PM
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It's easy. In your mind, your girlfriend should be proper and not have a promiscuous past. You view this girl as girlfriend material but she has a promiscuous past which is creating cognitive dissonance. The easy answer is don't consider her girlfriend material and you'll feel better. Simply think of her as a lover, and you as a king with many lovers. That should ease the pain a bit.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 03:25 PM
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I'm unsure of the specifics of their relationships. However, don't think so much in terms of reasons or rules. Live in your own reality. That's the point. One fundamental flaw thinking that "girls will hate me for committing to her" is that it gives too much value to what she thinks and feels. Frame. Frame control. If you have a strong frame, it doesn't matter what she thinks or feels. The thought "he can do better than me" or "am I fooling this idiot" is null. Your reality becomes her reality. …
/r/TheRedPill19/03/20 03:56 PM
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Last paragraph and last sentence of second to last paragraph are intriguing. French president Macron is powerful and attractive and can get any girl but he chooses a wife 25 years older than him. Does she think lowly of him and hate him for it? Jason Momoa (Aquaman) is celebrity Chad, but he marries a woman 12 years older than him, past wall, past prime. Does she think that she's tricked him and he can't see her flaws and faults, and despises him? Do these women hate their guys for committing to…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/20 11:40 AM
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Performance anciety happens because you want her to see you as a great lover. So whenever you have performance anxiety, a simple trick is to focus on pleasing her in other ways. Finger her and go down on her and give her an orgasm. She'll be very satisfied, so you'll feel great and successful and your anxiety will diminish. Good stuff
/r/askTRP05/03/20 04:45 PM
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The big 3 plus a bonus: Don't watch porn or masturbate Exercise, lift weights and do cardio Get sleep Bonus: Generic viagra for the 1st time if you need a confidence boost
/r/askTRP27/02/20 04:46 PM
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I appreciate the easy to follow mathematical equation
/r/askTRP21/02/20 07:21 PM
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Grabbing the ankle and dragging across bed... love it, can see it already and will try it this weekend.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 02:21 PM
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Thanks for the comment, glad it shed some light for you. I wrote this up exactly as you say - while I've been recently vetting girls for LTRs. At the time, I may not have known the techniques I was using, but thinking back on how I extracted information allowed me to write this out.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/19 10:08 PM
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My checklist for LTR would include more than sexual prowess and clean of STDS, but to each his own. Thanks I wanted to make it as easy to read as possible.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/19 10:01 PM
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AWALT. A girl you want to LTR may not be a slut or have a slutty past, but she has a slutty side. They all do. It's your job to own this slutty side of her before someone else brings it out of her. It's just your turn. It sounds like you're fearful that by calling her a slut, she's either going to be "exposed" and want to experience it, or revert back to a previous slutty period. There's nothing you can do about either of these things if she decides to sleep with another guy. Sheltering and shie…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/19 09:57 PM
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I'd advise against lying. Where did I write to lie about sexual history? 2. Your Sexual History Must Be Crazier Than Hers Or if it’s not, she’ll have to think it is. When I wrote she'll have to think it is, I don't suggest lying. Withhold some details of a story and let her mind fill in the details. What if I don’t have crazy experiences to compare to hers? Build your sexual history then. Create some crazy experiences. Or this? I didn't mean create like "make up" crazy experiences. I meant go ou…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/19 09:46 PM
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This is great. For someone who's relatively new to RP, why do you think relationships last until death? Is it 1) The girl essentially chooses to turn into a "non-woman" as you've coined above, thereby deciding that she won't entertain other offers, regardless of her guy's SMV, whoever she meets, etc. 2) Your turn was temporary but just happened to last until death 3) Your SMV and frame was continually improving and changing enough to keep her highly attracted and invested, and any other potentia…
/r/askTRP02/12/19 11:37 PM
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You can not care (about the outcome) and still "know when branch swing is occurring". You can 100% "DGAF" (about the outcome) and still recognize 100% when "you're getting played".
/r/askMRP18/11/19 05:39 PM
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The entire time she would reject my kino attempts, for example to put my arm around her. This is your problem. You will find little success if you start with such direct kino attempts. Kino needs to be built up. Read up on Physical Escalation Ladder.
/r/seduction13/11/19 08:29 PM
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Even decreasing porn usage will have benefits across the board, not as rewarding as removing it entirely, but it's not like if you slip up once, you're back to 0.
/r/askTRP13/11/19 05:13 PM
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Agree and disagree. AWALT, they all have the potential to cheat. Girls with high potential to cheat will cheat eventually no matter what. Girls with low potential cheat probably won't cheat unless given the opportunity. Trips like that provide opportunity. Girls night out provides that opportunity. And girls who cheat during this once per year opportunity are not even sluts, but just happened to be at the right place at the right time.
/r/askTRP13/11/19 05:01 PM
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Bro, you honestly think she will pay you $140 at the expense of her cell phone bill? Or her apartment? Or food to live? You're delusional my man. Fool you twice, shame on you. Either take her to court or let it go. Don't let her pay you $140 on her own conscience for 18 weeks, which will never happen.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 03:05 PM
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Throwing another behavior out there: how would you handle if a girl you're seeing checks out other guys when you're with her?
/r/askTRP08/11/19 04:22 AM
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Definitely agree you get greater abundance mentality and stronger frame from sleeping with hot girls. With everything equal, you have stronger frame losing semen from banging hot girl vs losing semen from jerking off. I'd argue voice is more physiological/physical. From my personal experience I can't control how my body physiologically and physically responds to loss of semen but my voice is weaker, less conviction, less depth. I'm sure everyone's experience differs.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 01:10 AM
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If you don't jerk off, but you bang a lot of girls and bust, then it will still have the same negative effect as jerking off.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 11:12 PM
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Wait until you've slept with her to invite her directly to your place to "watch a movie." As she said, she knows what's implied. Invite her to a bar/lounge close to your place, get a drink, escalate, and pull to your apt. She needs some plausible deniability bro. She'll tell her friends, she's meeting you at a lounge for drinks instead of going directly over to a guy's apt.
/r/askTRP25/10/19 07:47 PM
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Looks are a factor in everything from picking up girls to business.
/r/seduction21/10/19 07:19 PM
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Girls are very attracted to guys who take action. The only difference between you and a guy who's better looking than you is, the guy who takes more action will get more results.
/r/seduction21/10/19 05:28 PM
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Yea, turning a cold approach into a warm approach helps a lot. You can do it via "social circle" or "social approach" which is what you've mentioned. Also do it via non-verbal aspects: fashion, fitness, confidence, energy, frame, presence.
/r/seduction16/10/19 07:28 PM
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Sometimes you have to shed a layer you've invested a lot, in order to reach a new greater layer. It's normal to feel a bit lost and depressed during this transition. Embrace it, process it, and then grow from it like a man.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 08:13 PM
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Doesn't appear like he's playing games based on what you've written. What I see is normal courting of guy and girl. His response time might be slower, simply because the novelty has worn off, he is less interested in you, or perhaps he's trying to match your response speed to balance the dynamic.
/r/seduction14/10/19 07:54 PM
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"PH" ;)
/r/askTRP12/10/19 01:39 PM
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Reality check dude: you're freelancing every day in a cafe writing on your laptop. I would think she and other girls would have better reason to judge you. But open her by saying "Hey, I've been noticing you checking me out, and I wanted to make it easy for you and just come introduce myself" with a flirty tone
/r/seduction07/10/19 10:10 PM
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It would appear she is not entirely sold on you. But you have her number. Work some text game and see if her interest increases.
/r/seduction07/10/19 10:05 PM
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However long it lasts. In hotter showers my mind tends to wander and ruminate, while in cold showers I'm focused and efficient on completing the shower... because it's cold. Good mindset to start your day.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 11:23 AM
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"Keep flirting with me like that you're gonna get us both in trouble"
/r/askTRP20/09/19 06:26 PM
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"xo"
/r/askTRP05/09/19 05:57 PM
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Here are some additional speaking tips: You covered deeper voice, slower speed. Someone else covered saying less. Speak loudly and clearly, don't be afraid to project. Speak from your stomach - or if you can from your groin area. You'll have more conviction and be more grounded. Eliminate filler words. Don't be in a rush to respond right away to a girl or anyone. After she asks you a question, feel free to take a deep breath to think about your response and then blow her away. Similar to above, …
/r/askTRP05/09/19 05:54 PM
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Great response. Your breath is one of your life forces. We breathe to inhale oxygen which powers our body. Shallow breathing = less oxygen, life force and power. Deep breathing = stronger life force and more powerful. Girls can absolutely feel it. Everyone can feel it.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 05:40 PM
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Try these 3 tips: Tease. Very broad but disqualify yourself, push-pull, etc. Kino. Physically escalate, start by touching her arms, elbows in normal conversation and gradually increase to hands, legs, shoulders. Isolate. Tell her to grab a water at the bar or get some fresh air. Leading to a new location will make her feel closer to you ("experienced" more with you) and she'll be more comfortable to do intimate things in privacy.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 01:06 PM
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Sounds like an awesome time. How do you think it can work against you? As long as you don't get too fucked up, you're the only guy with 3 girls. Work normal game, kino your target, seed early about a movie or some shit to watch in her room, and you guys will at some point pull together to her room.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 10:44 PM
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Can't believe I just read all that. Girls talk about their crushes all the time. Stop being a snooping, insecure bitch. You're completely in her frame. Her world has become your reality. It's sad and pathetic. If you stay on your current path, she will cheat on you. Work on yourself and increase your value. Sure, if this helps, to have higher value than that other dude, but in actuality, to be a more valuable guy in life, for your life. Calling her out in front of friends by showing your insecur…
/r/askTRP02/08/19 03:13 PM
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She cut you off already. Right now you're just an orbiter. You could actively pursue her and maybe get with her again, but you'd be doing it from a position of weakness. Snap some educational / school / work stuff to show you're a guy going places. Don't look at her story or contact her for at least a few weeks. Game other girls during this time, expand your world. If you want to re-initiate a month later, it'll be from a better position to succeed.
/r/seduction02/08/19 01:20 PM
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Yes, she's trying to make you jealous. If you want her to chase you, maintain your frame. What does that mean exactly? It means you are the prize. Your value is higher than hers, you are better than her, you can attract and date hotter girls than her. Should I not even look at her story? Correct, you should not look at her story. Is she testing me? Always. When you look at her story you validate her. Should I contact her? You should play it cool. This girl is hot/great personality etc. How would…
/r/seduction02/08/19 01:01 PM
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The dude sounds like an uncalibrated creepy loner. Imagine if there was some 6'6" ugly, muscular gay guy that always checked you out at the gym. He thinks he's being discreet checking you out, but you're not an idiot - you see the obvious IOIs like his feet pointing at you, proximity effect, line of sight, etc. He starts getting bolder - trying to use the machine right next to you, crossing paths, incidental contact. You're thinking in your head WTF dude I'm not into you (and guys), get the hell…
/r/seduction01/08/19 11:39 PM
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Flip the situation on its head. 1) When I visit a new country, I look forward to learning language basics (greetings, directions, restaurants, etc.) and practicing with locals. If you're moderately intelligent and socially aware this is not hard to do and adds tremendous social value for the people you're with, even if or especially if they're native speakers. 2) Similarly, I look up all the geography of a city before I visit. I want to know locations of attractions, transportation, and especial…
/r/askTRP28/07/19 02:10 PM
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Important lesson: Befriend the bartenders/bouncers. Especially true if it's a bar you frequent often. Not only will they not try to fuck you over, they'll give you social proof, allow you to cut the line, etc.
/r/askTRP28/07/19 02:01 PM
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Even the best written FRs are impossible to verify so if you banged a 10 then congrats. Shoulders and lats are great for creating a larger physical presence. Equally important to working out is eating a lot of good, healthy food... large portioned meals of healthy foods. Proceeded to move things along by grabbing drinks at the bar, then to a seating area where we began kissing. At that point I knew it was on so I introduced the idea of leaving. Her friends had already left so it made the pull pr…
/r/seduction25/07/19 09:17 PM
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Post is fishy, but 1 key point I want to make: Use being a minority to your advantage by polarizing. For example, a common stereotype is black guys are known for their physical attributes as opposed to mental ones. How to polarize? Connect with the girl on an emotional and intellectual level, and in addition to the common stereotypes, you'll polarize her and she'll be very attracted to you. A common stereotype is Asian guys are known for their intelligence and effeminate sides as opposed to manl…
/r/seduction25/07/19 01:51 PM
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Something that always stuck with me from Arnold Schwarzenegger was his first rule to life which is to have a vision. Once you have a vision you can lay out exactly what you need to do to and the steps you need to take to achieve your goal. I think Arnold's first vision was to become a movie star. His plan was: Bodybuilder > Mr. Olympia > Gigantic Man Movie Roles > Leading Male Movie Star. Once achieved, he moved on to his next vision to be governor of California. My point is, very few people can…
/r/askTRP20/06/19 08:04 PM
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I'd say 2 other strategies would be to go very direct and dominant, which it appears you have tried, or start talking about yourself after the opener and bring her into your world instead of learning about her world. What direct openers have you done?
/r/seduction25/03/19 10:31 PM
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More experience. Time. If your ex recently broke up with you, then it's completely normal what you're going through right now. Most of us in the community have gone through it. Sometimes you need a rebound girl to get you over the hump of feeling loved, some companionship, the thought that there are other chicks out there you can connect with regardless of better/worse than your ex, regular sex, personal validation. How to find yourself after being in a relationship - I think especially as men w…
/r/seduction18/03/19 09:46 PM
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Physically tickling to make her laugh
/r/seduction07/03/19 03:07 PM
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Every girl has certain spots that make her die laughing, and it shows physical dominance over her body. But that implies you've already physically explored her body.. If you mean laughing/humor for attraction, just try to exaggerate things that she says. Misinterpret things she says, tease her, sexualize her comments, or try tickling her if you've escalated physically enough.
/r/seduction06/03/19 09:53 PM
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How can I have lots of sex with hot college aged women? There are some things you should work on. Lots of sex is a weird thing to say if you're a virgin. It's like a homeless guy saying, how can I become a multi-billionaire? It's like, well dude, I admire your ambition but first get an education, job, or some skills. Then maybe try to save a few thousand dollars, and go from there. In other words, take baby steps. You would only sleep with "hot" women? Once again, beggars can't be choosers. Imag…
/r/seduction27/02/19 04:47 PM
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Thus, we are taught to stare until the woman breaks eye contact. Stare is not the right term. If you're trying to stare, that might be why it comes off as creepy. What is a good middle ground for not staring too long, but also not looking like you are shy? Flirtatious, direct, sexual eye contact that has strong non-verbal communication is something you'll get better at with experience. One thing that helps me in all aspects of game and especially things like this is... taking a big full deep bre…
/r/seduction27/02/19 04:36 PM
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My friend, as the man you are the leader. Don't expect her to invite you over. You have to make it happen. Be the man and take charge. Suggest a bar 5 minutes walking distance from her place and tell her to meet you there at X time. While there, seed the idea of a new Netflix show you've been wanting to check out. Tell her you guys should grab some beers from the deli, head back to her place, and watch it together.
/r/seduction22/02/19 09:15 PM
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It sounds like you want to see her again but are a bit insecure that she doesn't feel the same way. Remember as men, we are the pursuers. We know how awesome we are, but the girl doesn't know it - how would she? The only way for her to know how awesome you are and to love hanging out with you, is for you to pursue her and spend time with her to show her. Don't be discouraged because she's not pursuing you. If you two made out, there's clearly a romantic connection. After you've slept with her a …
/r/seduction22/02/19 09:11 PM
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The best way to flirt with women is also the hardest. Go direct. Tell her you think she's cute. I mean that's the reason you approached her right? She's not an idiot, she knows that. The fact that you're tip-toeing around that is unnatural and a turn-off. After you tell her you think she's cute, the conversation will be naturally flirty. "I'm quite attracted to you, how are you doing this to me?" "I like you're ring, it's almost sexy" "We should check out the new art exhibit for our 4th date" Yo…
/r/seduction12/02/19 09:31 PM
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I'm not in the same situation or circumstances, but this advice still hits home for me.
/r/seduction04/01/19 02:24 AM
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If it's within reason, perhaps move back to the other city. Sounds like you were living the life you wanted there.
/r/seduction03/01/19 02:04 AM
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"Yo. How's it going. Enjoy the show the other night?" This is weak text game. "Don't let me go backstage alone again.." "You're lucky I didn't invite you backstage w me.. I can never unsee those things" "Yo, you should've ran backstage and pretended you're with me, they would've let you come up! But not sure if you'd be able to handle it haha" Some of these suck. Point is, leave her guessing wtf you're talking about.
/r/seduction03/01/19 01:52 AM
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Higher = more feminine. So if you're very masculine and dominant, if her voice changes to a higher pitch through tone, laughing, etc., it means she is sort of complementing you sexually, which means you're attracting her.
/r/seduction27/12/18 09:33 PM
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Life is tough. Just know that it gets better. Everyone experiences suffering, pain, loss, failure, death. All of that is literally part of life. However, it's your choice how you want to deal with it. The Buddhist way is to not want or desire or fear certain things. Specifically, don't desire sex or a relationship or success with women. If you don't desire it, then you won't feel the suffering of not getting it. Oddly enough if you know anything about the game, you'll know much of it is contradi…
/r/seduction16/12/18 04:15 AM
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This answer is mean, but you need to have a cooler life then. That or not be as easily impressed.
/r/seduction14/12/18 08:13 PM
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Is it worth waiting? What should I do to appear less needy as a female? Or to actually gain his long-term interest? I don't think you should put your dating life on hold for 6-7 months if that's what you're asking. Be an attractive female and flirt with him in a feminine way. Make sure you look good around him, wear perfume (I personally always remember how girls smell more than what they look like). Once a guy knows he "has you", even if he doesn't "want you", he may still be possessive and kee…
/r/seduction13/12/18 09:59 PM
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Here are some thoughts based on what you wrote: often times the women I speak to will ghost the moment I suggest a meet You must be communicating unattractive traits. The meetup should be a mutual, natural next step in your interaction. Check how quickly you respond to a girl's texts, the tone of your message, how much you write. If you want to copy/paste a few back/forths, I'll check it. I keep online dating conversations minimal. I always disqualify her before meeting her, because I honestly d…
/r/seduction13/12/18 09:44 PM
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When a girl says something, and you nod, you're accepting or approving what she's said. In her mind, she's correct. Her mind can relax and feel comfortable. If you don't nod, the opposite occurs on a conscious and unconscious level. She's uncomfortable, she's not sure if you two are on the same page, are you smarter than her, is she wrong, are you not enjoying the conversation, etc. She has to work for your attention and approval. You're not an easy guy and you've dated enough women to have high…
/r/seduction13/12/18 09:26 PM
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Wow yea thanks. Lots of truths to the OP.
/r/seduction12/12/18 11:26 AM
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You just summed up a fun, attractive conversation: regular conversation about everyday topics, with polarizing teasing and flirting mixed in.
/r/seduction07/12/18 05:34 PM
2

Hugging to say hello or goodbye is quite normal. Hugging on a date can be a lot more intimate. Clearly to this girl it was. View kino as a ladder. You can't go from the 1st rung to the 8th rung just like that. It sounds like a lot of rungs were skipped on your way to the hug.
/r/seduction30/11/18 01:34 PM
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Have a good fucking time and when you open, project like crazy and don't lean in too much
/r/seduction30/11/18 04:45 AM
2

Rave pick up is 99% body language and non verbal communication.
/r/seduction30/11/18 04:42 AM
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Was the hug the first kino you tried? If you did other touching before hug which you should be then she's not averse to kino. And if you didn't then you should have.
/r/seduction30/11/18 04:40 AM
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Sounds like you both were very drunk. Maybe something like this would give you the best shot: "Fun time at the bar last week! My friends and I are gonna check out ____ this weekend, hit me up if you and your girls are down"
/r/seduction27/11/18 06:42 PM
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My advice: #1, stop smoking pot - It clouds your mind and numbs reality. #2, embrace failure and pain - the best way to get good at something you're unfamiliar with is to know what not to do through failure. Pain can be turned from negative to positive if it pushes you to evolve and improve. At the end of the day no one gives a shit about you. You're the only person who can act in your life. You can choose to do something with it or to sit back and waste it.
/r/seduction25/11/18 02:00 PM
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What happens when you kiss a girl? There's 0 gap between your lips and hers, duh. In conversation, there's whatever 2-3 feet of distance between your lips. So basically, you're trying to bridge the gap. Literally decreasing the distance between your lips and hers. So that when a kiss is about to occur, she's comfortable with the distance between your faces decreasing. "What perfume do you wear?" (Prada) "It smells nice, let me see..." Brush her hair behind her head, lean in, and slowly smell her…
/r/seduction30/10/18 09:19 PM
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Possibly can try other variations of same disqualifying, frame switch that are less direct. "when will girls stop looking at me like I'm just a piece of meat" - general statement "keep your eyes where I can see them miss" - suggestive but funny "don't look at me like that" - vague Keep in mind your original line "Stop looking at me like that i'm not a piece of meat" is more aggressive/direct/logical.
/r/seduction29/10/18 09:45 PM
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Has happened to me also, I think easiest solution is to not even let her respond: "Stop looking at me like that i'm not a piece of meat" add in "I have feelings too haha, yea what's up with..."
/r/seduction29/10/18 06:51 PM
2

Always add value before taking value. If you have nothing to add, then do not plan to take.
/r/seduction26/10/18 02:30 PM
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Never tell a girl you want more than just a friendship. It has to happen through action. In other words, you go from meeting her and your relationship as "undefined" to more than friends through hooking up. Or from "undefined" to friends by not hooking up/her casting you into the friend zone. That decision is pretty binary for girls. The fact that she has directly stated or indirectly alluded that she doesn't want anything with you, is not a good sign.
/r/seduction26/10/18 01:47 PM
1

After some more exchanged words she told me that there might be a misunderstanding and while she might be single, she is currently not looking for a relationship at the moment because of bad experiences in the past. But she would not have anything against a meetup just as friends. Sounds like you might be headed toward the friend zone. I'm totally in the camp of keep on pursuing, etc. However, you are coming off as needy. Only way to kill neediness is to meet and game other girls while continuin…
/r/seduction26/10/18 01:18 PM
1

If this is your first experience then good job so far. You have a date scheduled, you're on the right path. It seems like you're coming off as gamey, blatant pushing after seeing her. Be mindful it should feel natural. Secondly, try to avoid labels and everything. If a girl says she's not looking for something, never say ok that's fine it might happen later. Not good. Just say "date me? Maaayybe if you become rich one day." Keep it light, everything sounds serious. Most likely you will fail with…
/r/seduction26/10/18 09:58 AM
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Start with you. That's the truth. Forget dating, no girls will want to be your friend if you're not cool and fun. When you stop looking for something is when you normally find it.
/r/seduction19/10/18 09:25 PM
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and to add, even if you're interested in more than a hookup, it should still be a hookup first to set your frame. Then from there it'll be easier to date her.
/r/seduction19/10/18 09:23 PM
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You're a confident guy, don't try to fit in. Create your own vibe. Calibrate and introduce your own flare into the group. It doesn't have to be Alpha and Beta. It can be fun guy and interesting guy, or cool guy and confident guy, or any combination. Find your unique vibe and lead with it.
/r/seduction19/10/18 09:19 PM
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Find a commonality with her that's not laptops or tech. Then talk about that a bit, and tell her she seems cool and you should stay in touch. Connect via social media like Instagram and send her a brief message like "Yo ____ (teasing nickname) nice to meet you"
/r/seduction10/10/18 01:53 PM
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Approach her with her friends and say to her "Hey, how's it going?" Let her respond. Tell her how you're doing. Turn to her friends and say "Hi I'm ____ nice to meet you. Sorry ___ (girls name) is not the best at this whole introduction thing" with a playful smile and tone. Then say to girl "I gotta get going to ____ (something interesting, cool or social) but let's exchange numbers so we can stay in touch" Could also exchange Instagram as that might be less pressure for her. Upon leaving tease …
/r/seduction09/10/18 02:54 PM
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If you're friends on FB of course you have a chance, but not with that message. It comes off super creepy and needy. Come in lighter and not like you have an agenda to "get to know her". Girls like connections that are spontaneous and two-sided, not planned out.
/r/seduction22/08/18 04:51 PM
1

Perhaps you tried to arrange the hookup too early? Maybe try to text her on like Thursday/Friday to build the attraction and momentum again for that night or the next night.
/r/seduction20/08/18 05:57 PM
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The answer is yes. Physical traits are a factor - height, build, face, fashion, grooming, and yes skin color and race. Some people have it easier than others without a doubt. There are short white males with great features that get NEXTED right away because they're 5'3". There are tall, dark, handsome minorities who get NEXTED because of their color. Try to find someone who doesn't NEXT you because of that reason.. and then bang her instead of analyzing why this one didn't next you.
/r/seduction17/08/18 03:12 PM
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Ya, here are some easier beginner mental checks: Get her a glass of wine, a beer, mixed drink and one for you too Keep it active and engaging. Show her around your apartment - you should have cool stuff around with vacations, memorabilia, experiences, stories. You should have some go to items that you know all girls will be impressed with PHYSICAL TOUCH. This is the biggest one. As you're showing her your apt, touch her back to lead her, her arms, her shoulders as you're telling emotional storie…
/r/seduction17/08/18 02:57 PM
1

If the girl is into you, give her a piece of gum too..
/r/seduction17/08/18 02:50 PM
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There are 2 good books that will help you... you can find the PDFs for both on the internet... - No More Mr. Nice Guy - The Way of The Superior Man
/r/seduction17/08/18 02:47 PM
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Compliment something she's wearing. Then follow up with a question. Always be non-needy and non-creepy.
/r/seduction17/08/18 02:42 PM
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Every person emits energy and vibes. If you feel good about your life, your job/career/business/work/direction/purpose, your health, your dating life, and your emotions, it will emanate from your presence! Girls can definitely sense/feel/see it from far away. Even more up close. Even more so when you're up close and talking to her... or talking in her (not literally man!) ... or talking through her. Next time you talk to a girl, feel her as you're talking to her and talk in her and through her. …
/r/seduction17/08/18 02:32 PM
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Hm that's a tough one, she definitely saw you approach another girl and thinks you're a player/womanizer. Do you do anything compassionate like volunteer, help animals, etc.? For example if you did, make sure to snap a picture of you doing something and send it to her. "Whiskers peed all over me lol, but she's just lonely at the shelter and was so overwhelmed with the attention... definitely worth 1 load of laundry."
/r/seduction14/08/18 07:43 PM
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Thinking "I really like you" and looking at her in the eyes is a good mindset to have. An even better one is "WOW You're sexy and I'm reallllly drawn to you" and hold that look. That eye contact will convey strong masculinity, which girls can feel down the back of their spine. I've done that look to girls and they can't look away... sometimes they'll literally almost walk right into me and I'll have to move. Like the post said - don't be first to look away. But when she looks away, just cast you…
/r/seduction13/08/18 06:20 PM
5

"You have abundance or you don't" is the biggest crock of bullshit I've read all day. So right now at this moment in time - guys who don't have abundance will never get it - and guys who have it will never lose it? You can mope around on Reddit all day complaining about a 3 year dry spell, or you can set mini goals for yourself to eventually reach an abundance mindset / lifestyle. For example, you have 0 girls that want to sleep with you, date you, flirt with you, or EVEN TALK TO YOU. Your next …
/r/seduction13/08/18 06:15 PM
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I agree with don't be too clingy, but direct with him that you like him might not be the best move if you're dealing with a cool guy that has many options. In my opinion it's quite similar - flirt with him, tease him a little bit to show that you're a challenge, and if you have the looks, use that to your advantage.
/r/seduction13/08/18 05:48 PM
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"Ok (name), what do you want from me...." As if they're needy "You're such a flirt" Continue playful conversation "Thank you, you're so ____ (sweet, kind, etc.)" If you're already deep with her and want to continue building rapport
/r/seduction08/08/18 12:00 PM
1

"What's your fav animal?" "I love dogs!" "I love dogs too, my family has a cute beagle! I also love cats and have a cat.." "Aw I love cats too" "She's so cute I love her. Ohh wait, but dogs and cats are like mortal enemies! This would never work... it'll take me some time to get over you, but I'll survive (playfully)."
/r/seduction31/08/16 06:14 PM
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You could try to incorporate touch like this: Her: "Let's go Patriots!" You: "Yep! We're gonna win this game!" (Put your hand up high to high five her) Her: "I volunteer at an animal shelter, I love helping dogs..." You: (Touch her lightly on the hand/arm/elbow) Aw that's so sweet, my pit bull Rocky is like a child to me." Also to create tension - she says something goofy, makes a weird noise/laugh, she drops something (gentle light push away)
/r/seduction06/12/15 03:01 PM
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Natural and light. Think about when you were with a buddy and you were telling him about an upcoming trip to Vegas, did you get excited and high five him or put your hand on his shoulder to rejoice in the excitement? That's natural touching between two people.
/r/seduction03/12/15 08:13 PM
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