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Tell her to hit the bricks, you got your kids for life, this shouldn't even be a question in your head. I don't even have kids I got dogs but if the new person didn't like them well tough cookies
/r/Divorce_Men28/03/25 01:26 AM
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Honestly just looking over the guy's profile he seems like a douche with a lot of money who thinks he's better than everybody with his f****** Tesla model y, I'm also going to assume that he's a chauvinistic piece of s*** who didn't listen to his ex and now likes to preach to other people about f*** this f*** her you'll get over her bro when you look back not even 3 months ago he had post saying I hate her and she reminds me of all my failures tell you this much enough youth get f*****
/r/Divorce_Men23/03/25 03:29 PM
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Also I'm a six time amputee who was left in a hospital while having an amputation performed, while she had started a relationship on a work trip out of state and left, leaving 2 out of three dogs and a cat locked inside of the house with no access to food, water, or access to outside. I've been in therapy twice a week and doing the gym as much as my body can handle and every day at the end I struggle not to put the mag in the glock and pull the trigger. Try and tell me I haven't done the work I …
/r/Divorce_Men23/03/25 02:10 PM
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Everyone's experience is different, I see and understand what you are trying to do but man up is extremely toxic advice, people take time and go at their own pace. I'm broken and I don't see a way out. That doesn't make me less than. It means you have worked through something I can't process. Happy to debate anyone who feels otherwise
/r/Divorce_Men23/03/25 02:05 PM
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Whats a support system? Friends? Don't have any. Family? Not really in contact anymore. Honestly a large part is I don't let people get close to me anymore, I have very very big trust issues, I understand what you mean by the Stephen Hawking thing LOL but the amputation thing has more to do with confidence. I've seen the way people look at my feet when I take off my socks at my doctor's offices and stuff like that and you know the look on their face when they see I only have one toe on one foot …
/r/Divorce_Men19/03/25 06:53 PM
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No we didn't have kids thankfully we had three dogs and a cat but once I got out of the hospital and went home I had found that she took one of the three dogs and left the other two in the cat inside the house, she basically dumped like a big bag of food on the floor looked like she filled up one giant bowl and then left the lids of the toilets up but she left them inside with no access to outdoors so that was fun to come home from the hospital too
/r/Divorce_Men19/03/25 06:22 PM
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I've mentioned that to my therapist and honestly I think it helps with anger management, it lets me be open about things, but to a degree yes it feeds the beast a little at the same time
/r/Divorce_Men19/03/25 12:24 AM
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I've been trying man but it's hard to see a future when the light I see it in a tunnel I feel like it's train coming to run me over not only did she abandon me but she left behind two out of three dogs and a cat the moment she left I made them a promise that I would not abandon them and I haven't but even though they're great company that's always lonely because my walls are up and I feel like I can't ever let anybody get close to me again to avoid this pain
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/25 04:57 PM
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I appreciate the sentiment, I've just gone so long not being anyone's first choice from relationships be it romantic, friends, or family that I can't share in that feeling. My family ( mainly my father) pointed out how I'm a disgusting human growing up, and the first person I had any romantic relationship with threw me away like trash. I just believe it now and accept that life is shit, people are shit, I was born to suffer and that's honestly all I will ever have in life. I'm just waiting for d…
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/25 07:44 PM
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I still get scared going to the hospital and leaving my animals for more than a day sends me into a crippling panic attack, my ex left while I was in the hospital having an amputation performed. She took one of our three dogs when she left, leaving the other two trapped in the house we shared at the time. No access to food or water except the toilets and a bag of food she dumped on the floor. Finding out she had started an affair four months earlier on a work trip out of state didn't help either…
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/25 05:53 PM
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Nothing brings joy anymore just fleeting moments of momentary distractions, I was also wrong it's been 3 years. I got left because I'm a diabetic and she didn't want to be with someone who was diabetic and having amputations performed ( literally was in the hospital when she said she was done) I haven't been able to move on or let anyone in since, I don't trust anyone anymore. I tried therapy but because of the trust issues I never felt like it was doing anything. It's one of those things where …
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/25 09:59 PM
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2 years and completely gave up on everyone and everything after my divorce and still don't have any reason to live, it's more like just waiting around to die at this point, all hopes and aspirations died with my marriage
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/25 07:15 PM
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Dude you've had a date post divorce what's that like? It'll be three years in January since I've been divorced and I've gotten no matches or romantic interactions from anyone. Been on zero dates. And I've used all the apps and tips about talking to people. Nothing has worked.
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/24 11:32 PM
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Two hours after my divorce was finalized I started a 9 hour tattoo on my ribs, 6 hours after we started I finally tapped and had to come back 3 weeks later to finish up the rest
/r/Divorce_Men15/06/24 06:54 PM
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Can't afford it. Life is fucked and it doesn't get better, no point in trying to fix it, I'm to far gone and to broken.
/r/Divorce_Men14/06/24 12:48 AM
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No I'm not I've been divorced for two years now and still wake up wishing I had died in my sleep everyday. I have no enjoyment in life, I have no friends, the family I had I lost because of the depression from the divorce. I wake up, drive an hour, go to work for 9 hours, drive an hour home, to sit in a travel trailer alone. I have two dogs and a cat that I made a promise to, that I would never abandon them like my ex did and that's the only reason I haven't killed myself
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/24 06:22 PM
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Bro I lived with my brother and his family for a year after my divorce, then moved into an RV that I bought with some of my share from the selling of the house we shared
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/24 09:31 PM
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I'm sorry bro. You are not alone. Eventually, hopefully we will all heal and recover, and hopefully we'll all be able to receive the things we deserve in this life. I'm slowly trying to work my way out of a two year depression of not giving a shit about myself, not taking any of my medication and drinking a fifth or more of Jack d everyday and smoking more weed than I thought possible. Unfortunately I didn't take my meds and drank to the point of fuckin up my diabetes and losing all but one toe …
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/24 12:38 PM
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Just remember she might of been your everything, but you were her right now. My ex took the truck I was driving and sold it to CarMax while I was in hospital ( I was stupid and put it in her name to build her credit) took the dog she entered the relationship with, but left the other 2 dogs and cat in the house we had with no access to food or water, all while telling me she was taking care of them and the house. I got out of hospital a week later, had to Uber home where I found out about the tru…
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/24 12:18 PM
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I'm not trying to be harsh and I really hope people will see that, but my ex fucked up my world and when I do miss her this is the kind of shit I tell myself and yeah nope no longer want or need her around. I do not want to hurt op but I want him to open his eyes 👀👀. My my ex left when I was in the hospital having my left big toe amputated and her excuse was she no longer wanted to be with somebody that was diabetic come to find out after looking through some phone records and yeah I did a littl…
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/24 11:50 AM
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So I'm gonna be up front with you, for the first year all I wanted was for her to come back, I still have moments where I think fondly of the time we spent together. But then I remember that all of her attempts at working on things were not working, but it was her trying to make me fit and change me to fit into the cookie cutter mold her and her family wanted. I wasn't and can never be that person. I remember back thinking that this relationship always felt one sided but to be fair I married the…
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/24 10:53 AM
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Send that to your ex, if you really want someone to read it, but don't expect a response. Posting it here seems like you want a pat on the back for admitting you hurt someone to a bunch of strangers, but hey everyone's situation is different. Mine dipped while I was in the hospital having an amputation performed because she " didn't want to be with someone who was diabetic anymore", Truth be told she hooked up with a guy on an out of state work trip, started talking and started a relationship wi…
/r/Divorce_Men02/06/24 11:38 AM
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I did and didn't help. Same shit different day, seek help, go to the gym, none of it helped, talking to psych docs, switching meds, it's all bullshit just like society, it's easier to be a hermit and shut everyone out
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/24 12:15 PM
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I was in the exact position two years ago when my ex left. I don't see any future relationships with anyone being a possibility for me. I have reverted to being a hermit. I cut out friends, most family, and the closest I've let anyone get to being a " friend" or someone who matters in my life is a "co-worker" someone they literally have to pay me to be around. The world is cruel and people are bullshit.
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/24 12:11 PM
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I gave up on dating. I no longer view people the same after my divorce, the closest I'll ever let someone get to me again is being a co-worker, not a friend, not a relationship. Point blank someone I am paid to be around.
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/24 02:19 AM
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As a kid I was into a lot of hobbies, as a married man I was really into drawing and toy collecting but it was also something that I started to do with my ex and can't bring myself to do it anymore and I don't get any enjoyment out of it anymore. To be honest nothing makes me happy anymore, just fleeting moments of joy that leave me empty in the end
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/24 01:31 PM
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Plus having three toes on one foot and two on the other I'll be honest I don't feel human and like a bit of a freak
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/24 01:20 PM
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I'm down to just 5 toes on both of my feet. Everyone says hit the gym but I go to physical therapy 5 times a week to help me relearn to walk and feel defeated every time
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/24 01:18 PM
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Diabetic ulcer was having my second toe amputation when that happened
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/24 01:05 PM
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I'm in the emergency room trying to talk to someone
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/24 11:21 PM
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I'm in the emergency room trying to talk to someone
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/24 11:21 PM
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Currently in the emergency room trying to talk to someone
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/24 11:21 PM
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Currently in the emergency room trying to talk to someone
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/24 11:20 PM
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I am currently in the emergency room at the local hospital. Trying to talk to someone.
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/24 11:20 PM
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I appreciate it man, I haven't been able to draw in two years, I try every once in a while but just can't focus, had to sell off most of the toy collection when I had to move into the RV with my dogs. Last tattoo I got isn't even posted, started it 2 hours after my divorce was finalized 9 hours black and grey side piece as far as fortnite never played but a Taylor Swift skin would be cool
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/24 04:47 AM
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I've got no fight left, I've called hotlines, I've gotten therapy, I've tried counseling and medications. I'm at a point of acceptance and peace with my decision. Just a few things I have to get in place first. There's really no talking me out of it.
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/24 02:05 AM
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It's not about hurting anyone it's the fact that I can't move on and have no more fight or will or even desire to keep going
/r/Divorce_Men01/02/24 04:56 PM
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I've finally come to the realization that in 2 years it hasn't gotten better, but more confusing, there is no moving past this and I'm tired of trying. Decided to end it all this week so just buying time till I pull the trigger and end this shit existence
/r/Divorce_Men01/02/24 02:57 PM
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Yes the Christmas before she left, her parents bought us dishes and silverware, considering that we were trying to start a family at the time I thought it was weird that it was a set of two plates, two bowls, two coffee cups, and a pair of forks, a pair of spoons and a pair of knives. I thought it was weird but didn't say anything she left me 16 days later and it destroyed me, still has
/r/Divorce_Men31/01/24 04:30 PM
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I cut contact completely, as did she. Friends fuck em who needs them never really had any my entire life, her family never liked me so no love loss there. About three weeks after our divorce was finalized she reached out and told me her dad was in the hospital had a heart attack but was going to be ok. Out of respect for the man I called her Mom and told her they were in my thoughts and I hoped everything came out all right and was glad her dad was doing better. Lost contact with her family. Los…
/r/Divorce_Men31/01/24 12:55 PM
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Not a couple tattoo but the same day my divorce was finalized two hours later I started a 9 hour side piece that had to be broken up in two sessions because of it being on my ribs
/r/Divorce_Men20/12/23 02:22 AM
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Here's the thing in January it'll be 2 years and everyone says it'll get better, it doesn't. I have made peace with the fact that I am one of those people who will always be alone and are undeserving of love and acceptance from other people. Life is shit and has and always be shit at least I will only disappoint myself this way
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/23 10:20 PM
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Just goes to show you can't un mountain dew what's already been mountain done. Serves her right
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/23 11:57 AM
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Been a year and a half and officially a year since it was finalized tomorrow. I tried online dating but never got hardly any matches, the few I did would just randomly disappear before even meeting. The longer I've been divorced I've realized that dating is not something I want to do. People nowadays are too self centered and focused on themselves to love someone else and are always looking for the better option. I refuse to ever let anyone get that close to me again. I trusted very few before m…
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/23 11:38 PM
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It would be a huge weight off of my shoulders if she'd just acknowledge the facts I already know
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/23 05:29 PM
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I unfortunately used my grandmother's wedding ring to propose, luckily my ex wife left it and I gave it back to my mom, I never wore mine, it's sitting in a box somewhere.I always wore one of the plastic ones and tossed those the day she left. I let her pick out the wedding bands and she chose some off of Etsy. They were only like $450 for both of ours so resell isn't really worth it.
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/23 02:14 PM
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I don't know if this was posted to make people laugh or actually get inspired but for the first time in a long time I don't feel like ending it
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/23 02:44 PM
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I won't let anyone else get close enough to me so I guess we both have ways of dealing with them
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/23 03:32 PM
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I've basically been a corpse walking for the last year and a half. Don't worry about her? Easier said than done. When the love of your life leaves while you're in the hospital having an amputation done it's not something that you just get over. Sorry I was born diabetic, sorry that I couldn't afford insurance and meds for 10 years when I was younger but mostly I'm sorry I ever met her and knew what happiness was.
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/23 03:24 PM
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Not sure what red pilled means, only pills I want to take are the ones that fuck me up. I'm 35 and tired not trying to understand them anymore. Not even interested in fuckin them. My ex wife was the only partner I've ever had and showed me how women are. I haven't met let alone seen one I'm even remotely interested in.If women are allowed to hate men why am I not allowed to hate women?
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/23 03:08 PM
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Honestly sex isn't that big of a deal for me, I can count on both my hands how many times me and my ex wife had sex through out our entire 7 years together, I've never really seen the big deal about it. Now that I've given up hopefully the end is quick
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/23 02:58 PM
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I'm kinda in the same boat minus the kids, been on one date and they lived 100 miles away, other than that I don't have any luck on the apps or in real life. But like I said I just don't find people very appealing or attractive anymore if that makes sense. I kinda feel like everyone is just a piece of shit anymore, myself included
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/23 08:30 PM
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I don't, I drink whiskey and smoke more weed than I ever have. Hopefully the alcohol kills me
/r/Divorce_Men01/06/23 10:06 PM
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In Florida they offer a simple dissolution of marriage, as long as you both agree to it and have settled everything i.e property,debt, that kind of thing and have no children. You show up in front of the judge he asks if everything has been settled, are there any kids, and do you both agree to this. After that he signs the paperwork and it was done and filed on Monday before they closed for the day
/r/Divorce_Men30/07/22 11:37 AM
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