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You’re That is all you really need to have read.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/06/21 11:01 PM
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I agree with this. Some people can do this, or more accurately are likely adapted to it. I only need 6-7, but everyone’s different.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/20 09:34 PM
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I’ve had some really great times with less attractive women. Nothing wrong with charity. Everybody gets something out of it.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 12:38 AM
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I recently went through a situation similar to this, but without the different father twist. I have known who my father was my whole life but never met him. I was curious but honestly never reached out to him because I was fearful of rejection. Over the years I googled him, but just to see where he is. This past may, he died. I was pretty surprised how emotional I was. I learned he had stepkids and there were many people sad to see him go. Honestly I have mixed emotions. I reached out to the fam…
/r/askTRP30/08/20 11:04 PM
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Jesus Christ she was flirting Response: What are you willing to do to stop me from leaving? Mic drop
/r/askTRP24/08/20 12:12 PM
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I can relate to some of this. While life isn’t as dramatic, the challenges of growing up without decent direction or role models is real. Keep working on yourself and remember that knowing yourself and relying on yourself is the most important thing. Thanks for sharing
/r/TheRedPill07/08/20 11:24 PM
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They’re simply living out their programming. The goal is to get you and use you for resources, while focusing their sex (the only tool they have) into the securing other resources. All of the rest of this is just mental nonsense to justify their base instinctual programming. We’re all animals.
/r/ThankTRP18/01/20 03:07 PM
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Most 89 year olds look dead
/r/MGTOW30/12/19 04:17 AM
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Women tend to think that they are proving some value by banging a new guy. This is obviously ridiculous, since almost any woman can go to a bar and find some dude willing to stick them. She’s a petty loathsome troll and she only told you to hurt you and make herself feel better than you. In reality, she just told you everything you needed to know about how much she cares about you or any other man for that matter. Like most women today, men are just there to serve her ego and fulfill her needs.
/r/MGTOW28/12/19 02:59 PM
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First, you need to talk to someone about your problems. A real human in the real world. If you’re truly thinking suicidal then call the suicide hotline. They are people who can help you. I’m not sure what country you’re in but every country has one https://ibpf.org/resource/list-international-suicide-hotlines Second, get some confidence by hitting the gym. Do weights first and aerobics second. That will help how you feel and what you can control looks wise. Make sure you eat right. Avoid sugar, …
/r/askTRP22/12/19 01:44 PM
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Just go to about 2:30 and watch to the end. Hella WOKE!!!
/r/TheRedPill03/12/19 02:44 PM
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This sounds like my first wife, without the tiny dick part. She basically flipped out one day and started giving me the cold shoulder. The next day she told me she was leaving. I came home from working my second shift job and she had cleaned out the apartment took my son and left. No real warning. She went to her parents and essentially, outside of the divorce hearing and parental issues, we never spoke again. She never told me why she left. Turned out later I found out through a mutual acquaint…
/r/MGTOW13/11/19 02:11 AM
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Still fuck her with one eye
/r/MGTOW20/10/19 04:56 AM
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I figured she was just a single mom
/r/MGTOW03/10/19 02:27 PM
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Golden Age of YouTube is over. They’ve destroyed the open forum. Plus you’re right, most of what is left is just bro’s before hoes nonsense.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 07:44 PM
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Tell her you’ve sworn off fucking passive aggressive bitches. There is no response. If she wanted you, she wouldn’t make up fake rules.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 12:33 PM
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We’re out here, just not as chatty as the younger men. Same advice for everyone. Read the material. Lift and maintain frame. I’m terrible at this so far, but better off than I’d be without TRP.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 11:47 AM
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Everything in life is temporary. You’ll have a better path now.
/r/MGTOW28/08/19 12:17 AM
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If she was really into you, she would’ve thought it was amazing and cool and sexy. This makes me think that she wasn’t really that much into you and to give her an excuse to walk. This is no different then the saying that women make rules for betas and break rules for alphas.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 09:11 PM
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If I was writing this story I would’ve banged Christi in the Gajira costume and left her ravaged and satisfied before any reveal.
/r/MGTOW03/08/19 01:20 PM
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How did you do it? Asking for a friend...
/r/askTRP15/07/19 02:40 AM
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You don’t have an agreement to live there, even the apartment is month to month, so you haven’t any real obligations to give her a lot of notice. Tell her she needs to leave and pack her bags ahead. Go live with mom. There are only two risks I can see. First, you point out she could claim something to cops (abuse, rape, etc). You’re already at risk for that, not much I can think of to do about that. Second, I don’t know the law where you live and you could have some kind of tenants rights issue.…
/r/askTRP29/06/19 11:00 AM
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He almost turned the tables on them. Like them seeing him up isn't any worse than him dropping that girl? There's a reason why police steamy allowed to entrap you. That host guy was a real douche
/r/TheRedPill26/05/19 03:57 AM
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This is brilliant. I had some drunk chick at a party, who I didn’t even know, try something similar about 30 years ago (I’m old). She was fighting with some other girl and kicking the shit out of her, and I told her to stop because she’d had enough. She decided I was now the enemy and she tried to do a roundhouse kick at me. She wasn’t very good and I managed to step away and she fell to the ground. My six months of karate saved me - LOL Immediately some fucking white knight comes running up and…
/r/PussyPassDenied25/05/19 03:06 PM
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I did this. My ex owned the house we lived in and I used the approximate equity to help offset her claims on my 401K. Basically, I'll do this if you sell the house and give me the equity. I managed to get away with far more money in my 401K.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/19 01:52 PM
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If he helped her make payments and made improvements, he's entitled to the increased equity from the time of their marriage.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/19 01:12 PM
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Maybe some people just have bad teeth. Seriously, you’re being ridiculous. I’ve seen open mouthed pics called the incel face. Everyone on these subs are seeing things they want to see and calling it revelation.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/19 12:37 PM
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Cool story bro
/r/altTRP15/05/19 12:30 PM
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I just want to give a quick bit of advice. You have to not focus on her or her actions, focus on your life and what you want. Your brain, dick and emotions will fuck you up, if you let it. I know. I had my wife of 5 years walk out on me and take our kid with virtually no warning. She told me in the morning and when I came home from work, she and her brother had taken all of her stuff from our place and my kid. It fucked me up for years. Don't focus on why she did it, it will destroy your soul. ​…
/r/askTRP30/03/19 03:50 PM
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I have been on this date. Late 1990’s. Broke up with LTR and her friend had emailed me. Her friend was kinda quiet and mousy. We emailed and she obviously wanted to know why I dumped her friend and I told her we should meet. I too was in a phase of trying to f close everything. We meet at a restaurant and she’s quiet and doesn’t say much. Literally barely said ten words the whole time. I ended up talking to the waitress and flirting with the waitress. I never asked this girl if she was ok or pis…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/19 03:53 PM
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What do you really want? You want your happiness and sanity tied to something and someone you can’t control halfway around the world? That’s what you’re signing up for with this situation. You’re obviously uncomfortable and on some level you don’t trust her or you wouldn’t be here writing about it. If you can’t bring yourself to break up with her or demote her, then be very direct. I’m not comfortable in a long distance relationship where I’m wondering what’s going on and not having my needs met…
/r/askTRP18/02/19 02:28 AM
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This is a great story. Amazing job.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/19 02:01 AM
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Sure it is.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 02:29 AM
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This was an interesting shit test. What she did was see whether you were the kind of guy who would accommodate her potential neurotic behavior. Everyone is focusing on her calling 30 minutes ahead and how she had a better deal, got cold feet or stood you up. Not a chance, because she gave a GIANT RED FLAG excuse. She’s stressed out from her day. If you’re the kind of guy who accepts that as an excuse, then you are prolly a beta who will tend to her fee-fees all of the time. Either that or she’s …
/r/askTRP14/01/19 01:18 AM
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Literally every woman I’ve ever been with has cheated on me or on someone else. All of the women in my family are cheaters. A few of the women I’ve worked with are known to have cheated. Some of them serial cheaters. Do yourself a favor and start with zero expectations.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 02:50 AM
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I’m seeing all of these comments about the exclusivity rules. Whatever. It’s true that the social contract in the 21st is that you have to agree to be exclusive. It is what it is. Although I would also suggest that it’s reasonable for people engaged in an ongoing sexual relationship to advise that they are actively seeing other people. It’s just normal and safe in a world with STD’s. I think your feelings are hurt. Not only are all women like that, but men are like this too and feel things they …
/r/askTRP06/12/18 10:47 AM
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You should not do what some people are suggesting, which is dread mode her. I would only do that if she’s getting cocky. I would actually be concerned. A woman should look up to you and not look down on you. If she is freaking out about this, instead of reveling in it, then she’s looking at you and your relationship in a way that I would find disturbing. This is borderline next, if she keeps it up. If she’s misbehaving in other ways, bounce.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 06:15 PM
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This is the answer
/r/askTRP03/12/18 06:10 PM
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After reading the responses to not believing this story or that this guy was showing weakness all along, it’s important to consider some additional thoughts. First, losing a mother at that age is traumatic. You’re still transitioning from a boy and it was probably shocking. Eventually when you lose someone close to you, it’s not about grieving over them as much as what you have lost. All that said, if he’s crying over his mothers death and thinking about it every day 16 years on, I think this is…
/r/askTRP23/11/18 04:58 PM
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You wait 10 minutes. She doesn’t show up or respond to message then you either ghost or hang at the bar. If she shows up and you’re at the bar, you tell her to GTFO. In so many words
/r/MGTOW14/10/18 07:12 PM
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This is the truth. Kids won’t be there for most parents in this day and age. Family is no longer important.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 03:21 AM
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This is a tragedy We need free fair open forums in the internet.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 09:53 PM
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This is correct. She’s obviously interested, which is why she’s giving you kino and kissing you. You need to reciprocate that shit. TBH you’ve seen her three times and not closed anything. Now things are just getting awkward. She tried to get you to orbit her on Facebook, don’t do that. Something is holding her back or she already would’ve fucked you, maybe it’s the drink and social atmosphere. I agree with 123_Meatsauce. Don’t ask, just tell her where you will be. If she bring up the age thing …
/r/askTRP18/08/18 12:49 PM
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We all create our own meaning in life or we accept what society tells us is meaningful. Living for a legacy is some really screwed up thinking. We are here for an instant. Literally, it’s gone in a moment. No one really cares when you’re gone. Example, I have an ancestor that was a badass civil war vet. Fought at Gettysburg and did all kinds a shit. Had two different wives and families after the war. He was very successful. I’m literally the only person in my family who cares about this. When I’…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 01:57 PM
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Orbiters are red flags. Any woman who is a 5 or higher is likely going to have at least one or two orbiters, that’s just reality. More than one or two and if the orbiter is her “best friend” is a red flag. Gay orbiters count.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 02:58 PM
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I have a friend who's 5'4" and I'm only 5'9". I never really realized how much people shit on short people. Great guy and mostly has his shit together. Most women wouldn't give him the time of day. Also, I didn't realize how much it made a difference for me until I was more brazen about talking to women. A lot of women won't consider me because I'm not over 6 foot. I'm taller than 90% of women, but many want the tall man. I just laugh at it now. Women get away with a lot of bullshit that they cr…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 03:46 PM
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Depends on how long it took to get my hands on it ((-(-_-)-))
/r/askTRP23/04/18 01:40 AM
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You’re just going through a phase. I’ve been through several: ass phase, Asian phase, boob phase, redhead phase, etc. It’ll pass
/r/askTRP21/04/18 01:18 PM
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You spent your money in yourself and not her. She’s butt hurt. You should explain to her that it’s your money and you decide how it’s spent. Here’s the thing though, every time you make a large purchase that isn’t about her, you can expect this reaction. Ask yourself if that’s how you want to live.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 02:08 AM
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Females cannot really understand TRP. They are literally incapable of understanding their own behaviour. There are some who understand some aspects of what females do and some of what behavior between females and males interacting will entail. They are really incapable of absorbing the reasons why. Look, I'm not one of the people who say "olllll wamyn are huuuaarrrz". All male and female behavior is understandable within the context of genetics and societal structures. Outside of what is crimina…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/18 10:05 PM
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There isn't enough that can be said about being a child of a single mother, especially the only male child. It's a very challenging experience. Even a mother who has some sense of the gap that it leaves the boy cannot fathom her inability to provide him with a positive example of male behavior. First, let's dispense with the people who will say that fathers are not always good examples. We all know that parents are a luck of the draw (just like children) and it's completely possibly you can end …
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 02:17 AM
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I just wanted to add one more thing. I think FGTOW originated with PUA. I'm not anti-PUA, but I don't believe that banging huge quantities of ass makes you realize women are full of shit. One or two disappointing LTR's that rip your heart out are what makes it happen. You want the pain to be over, but IMHO you'll need to understand that you're making yourself miserable, not her. She's gone but this magical Disney princess is floating in your head. At least that's my personal experience. It sucks…
/r/askTRP20/02/17 05:23 PM
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I don't agree with FGTOW, unless that's what you want to do. What's the "magic" of sleeping with these other women? That you'll magically forget the one? That you'll realize every pussy is essentially the same and it's over valued? I honestly don't know. You're scoring with other women and that hasn't helped yet? Examine your own feelings, thoughts and motivations. This isn't lifting or biking, more reps doesn't necessarily increase strength. I think monk mode might help get you out of the fuck …
/r/askTRP20/02/17 05:12 PM
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You need to step off this roller coaster and focus on your life. Stop chasing women and this one in particular. Re read the side bar. Monk mode, exercise, eat right and focus on getting a job and making yourself happy. You're spiraling because you're focused externally and not internally. Look at yourself and not her. She is dead to you.
/r/askTRP19/02/17 03:32 AM
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I began wearing blue everything. Almost any shade of blue goes with another shade (almost). I have some clothes that I'm phasing out that aren't blue. It's pretty interesting that I seem to be getting compliments and lots of clothes are blue. Black is almost always a solid choice for people trying to look cool. I remember the 90s it was black leather jackets. White shirts will be next. I agree.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 03:27 AM
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I've lived this and you are correct. Any woman, no matter what kind of unicorn she may seem to be - can become a problem.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 05:17 PM
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Everyone deserves a shot at redemption, right up until the end. I have to disagree.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 05:12 PM
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The 5 closest people to me or my wife does not include Glenda. That being said, my wife is a bundle of problems. I get your point and you're right. Getting married is one of the biggest mistakes of my life.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 05:11 PM
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I agree with you. I've spent a lot of time and money on an education and worked hard to get experience in my field. You've got to focus on self improvement. Ironically, I was completely into self improvement, was a huge reader and a gym rat. Let that all slide when I got married (pre-red pill) and I'm just getting back to that side of my life. Every man needs to be able to take care of himself. It should be the first rule of our lives. Dependency is for slaves.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 05:07 PM
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Ha! Not a chance. As I've said many times. There will never be another Mrs. Wakeupalreadydude!
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 05:04 PM
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I appreciate the point. I thought about it. I've been on my own red pill journey and I'm struggling. I want to go for him and to see it all for myself.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 05:03 PM
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I won't do that with the kids around and it's really not worth it. Confronting women about hypergamy is like asking why they breathe.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 05:02 PM
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You're probably correct and he was likely not an alpha but definitely Mr Tingles. I'm interpreting that he's alpha based on her fixation with him. She was definitely not a 8-10. She was maybe a solid 7 in her day. Her husband was definitely just a nice guy. I liked him but he probably couldn't compete with Mr Tingles/Alpha
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 12:53 AM
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You are consciously or unconsciously playing a dread game on her. She's threatened by your SMV (not the other women) and you need to repeat this behavior until she accepts it or you will need to demote her. Remember that she's just looking for a way to dominate you or disqualify you from her life. Don't argue about it.
/r/askTRP27/12/16 02:04 PM
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She doesn't have to be good or consistent. Attractive young women will always get this type of attention. You shouldn't let it bother you. Its just part of the matrix. Focus on yourself and what you think. I saw this woman interviewed on louder with Crowder. She was dull and her comments weren't interesting. Also, I'm not saying that women can't be good at commenting on politics of interesting. Look at Ann Coulter. She's smart, fearless and speaks well. She's also well past the wall, but has had…
/r/MGTOW27/11/16 01:59 AM
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Your analysis is essentially correct. My only quibble is that this didn't start with Gen X. The most evil generation in history, the Baby Boomers put off having kids until the 80's and 90's. They are the core pushers of the equality train. Gen X continued a tradition started by their parents, aunts and uncles.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 10:05 AM
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Hi Sandman here... 🔫 He's a good guy and I like most of his videos. Anyone who produces that much content is going run into criticism. His work is positive I don't listen to him everyday anymore
/r/MGTOW29/12/15 12:54 AM
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This seems more like a tale about a mentally ill person that the government won't incarcerate because our society doesn't like to do that anymore.
/r/PussyPass12/12/15 02:21 PM
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Perfect example of a woman resurrecting herself affter a failed relationship. She's a new person. She's better. She understands everything now so much better than the person she was before she was reborn. Also, don't believe that fake "my child comes first but I'm ready for a relationship" . Translation: "my child is my main prioriry, I just need someone to pay the bills"
/r/MGTOW16/09/15 06:59 PM
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As a gen x man i can tell you that this is your baby boomer parents and grandparents fault. I struggled with the same issues and took me years to climb up the ladder. They all got great chances coming outta high school (college???? pfffffftttttt). Now they have sttod in the way for over 3 decades.
/r/MGTOW15/08/15 01:38 PM
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There are two things massively wrong here: 1) visitation and support are not correlated. In other words, even if you don't pay support you don't get cut off from seeing your children. Unless your stupid or have a bad lawyer. That is, until you get sent to jail for not paying (in some states). The idea that they would use this as a plot device is sickening. You should blame marvel. IMHO marvel is a bastion of white knightism, but I know I'm alone on that one. 2) the idea that the cop is the bb is…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 04:44 PM
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This woman is a veterinarian and posted a picture of herself with her kill on Facebook. She apparently lost her job but the cops were tripping over themselves finding reasons to not do anything. She just needed to remove the Facebook post and she was okay.
/r/PussyPass26/06/15 09:28 AM
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You just need to hit 'continue' and it will appear. The internet is a magical place.
/r/MGTOW24/06/15 12:43 AM
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The only evidence of motivation is action. Motivation is an idea or a thought. Right now, I'm motivated to get some ice cream, but I'm not getting any at the moment. Motivation is nothing without action. The same goes for discipline. Discipline is a thought or idea, but not anything tangible or actual. Action is evidence of discipline and motivation.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 12:12 AM
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Curious to know how it goes. Expect a FR.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 08:30 PM
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You can be if you wanna be. One of the girls I work with is 30 and just married a 55 yo. Granted that he's a BB and she's smashing into the wall, but it's evidence that age is not impossible to overcome. Until your dead or your parts fail.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 08:07 PM
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Except for the 18-40 component , I shatter this measuring stick. Since when are women restricted to dating men under 41? Yeah right, that's a thing. You could take this back 10-20-30-100 years, and women are always looking for the cream while calling it the milk. One word: Hypergamy.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 02:35 PM
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You went from being slightly out of reach and dangerous because you were married, to boring available middle aged guy. You should have played hard to get. You should tell her that your wife told you it's no longer cool to come out and play anymore. If she still wants to see you, make her work for it. She wants to play! If she doesn't then she was just messing with you anyway, or she lost interest when you made yourself too available.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/15 02:36 PM
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I love this statement: Men are the gatekeepers of commitment. Thank you
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 12:30 PM
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Gah. Link http://gu.com/p/4v3j5
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 11:22 AM
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I wasn't being a smart ass. Seriously, If I thought I could do this and not either 1) end up looking like John McCain after 10 rounds at Hotel Saigon or 2) not miss portions I can't see - I would do this. In reality, this seems like a two person job.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 03:28 PM
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how does one shave their own back effectively?
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 05:32 AM
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Thanks to those who posted comments on TRP - I appreciate all of the feedback. I don't think I'm the only person in this kind of situation
/r/askTRP15/12/14 08:09 PM
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I'm going to take some of my money and move it into something liquid. I'm also going to start the weight lifting thing. I have a nagging injury which has been an excuse, but it wouldn't prevent me from lifting. Thanks for the advice.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 01:28 AM
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I've got a good idea, based on some initial conversations with an attorney, where I am going to end up. A year or two of alimony, or something less if I can get her to negotiate. What I've learned from reading is that BPD can surface in a variety of ways. I would suggest anyone who is seeing a woman who has any indication of BPD should walk away Thanks you for the advice.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 01:26 AM
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