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Indeed. Many women, especially the young ones are desperately trying to atone for their foolish actions (teddybear throwing at the stations, volunteering to help rapefugees etc.) but lack the courage to stand up for the right fearing it will lower their SMV in a liberal and politically correct world.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/17 11:32 AM
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Rapefugees. Those that seek to enrich themselves. Those that get pampered by our political leaders and leftist scum.
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/17 01:57 PM
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First of all it's not like you hit "the wall" at 30 and you get put out to pasture. Even at 50 you should be worthy of your Husbands affection, love and loyalty. Especially when you are a quality woman.
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/17 11:11 AM
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Men are not taught to control themselves anymore, mastering self discipline is no longer valued. Me and my SO raise our sons so that they are able to reign in themselves as necessary. There are consequences for misdemeanor and fucking up.
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/17 11:02 AM
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This might mean our "freedoms" are slightly restricted - maybe we don't wear the worlds shortest skirt (and don't call attention to our sexuality) Just think how far that could go, I mean where do we draw the line? The hijab? Long dresses? The Burka? No, the only thing is to eliminate the influence of certain books, sending intruders back and have just laws.
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/17 10:59 AM
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Even if someone has a strong moral code they aren't immune from every single negative female trait We are humans with free will. WE decide consciously if we give in to those flaws or not. The choice is ours, giving in and acting mad or resisting. Men should remind themselves that women are capable of bad things As we should remind ourselves that men have terrible flaws as well. Unfortunately that gets minimized by the Red Pill.
/r/RedPillWives27/10/17 10:05 AM
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The TRP sees men as completely without fault. Unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/17 05:48 PM
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Pretty hard nowadays to keep the interest of a man long enough to get into marriage - stage without having sex before the act.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/17 05:46 PM
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Why temptation? There are genuinely People for whom cheating is just not something they do. I would even go so far as to say that AWALT lacks the flexibility needed for us complex, flexible and morally inclined people. To me it is something men say to soothe themselves. They too are massively flawed by nature, looking for the very best, youngest and most beautiful, destroying families just as much as women do!
/r/RedPillWives26/10/17 05:30 PM
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He expressed his disrespect and ire well. He does not sound like he cares about anyone then himself!
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/17 03:49 PM
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He frequently makes insensitive comments and jokes at my expense that really hurt my feelings. Not ok. That needs to change ASAP! Tell him whenever he does it, go away, show him you are hurt if talking does not help. He makes light of things that are serious problems for me. Be direct, subtlety got you nowhere. He doesn't think I'm a smart person and makes it very clear at times when he's frustrated or in a bad mood. Without words. That would sent me to the divorce attorney.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/17 03:47 PM
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Men too have a narrow view of the world - if they decide to. Just as we can decide.
/r/RedPillWives26/10/17 03:43 PM
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Why beat yourself up over that? The best defense against hypergamy is the decision not to be! We DO NOT have to be - if we choose not to!!!!!
/r/RedPillWives26/10/17 03:42 PM
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I only recently started wearing things I actually feel good in, sexy, smart, and just myself. Well, It certainly was a journey, but so well worth the time SO loves a dress that has a nice, full wine red as color. I feel so so sexy in it. But it is actually a dress I can also wear to work or to the theater. Another favorite is a marlene pants (deep navy/ night sky blue) and cashmere combo. SO has been joking about me looking like a graßhopper but I know that he loves the pullover with its lush gr…
/r/RedPillWives22/10/17 08:30 PM
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Since my SO will probably work night shift in the night to his birthday (Friday to Saturday) I will use the time while he sleeps to bake a cake for the cake and coffee in the late afternoon. Then we will most likely go either to the cinema or we will eat out.
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/17 08:22 PM
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I found the flyer of a singer who gave lessons in speak development and singing. I signed up and spent many weeks mastering my voice.
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/17 07:29 PM
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Then you are miles ahead of the crowd voice wise. I have a naturally clear, strong voice in the higher register. But with training and diligence I was able to tone it down and deepen it. It is now strong, clear but just a bit lower.
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/17 07:29 PM
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I stink you hit the nail on the head, But at the moment my SO and I are getting to rebuilding our Relationship in a more healthy and fulfilling way. I hope it will work out ok.
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/17 07:27 PM
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Fakt is that high voices, especially soft ones are rarely taken seriously. In my job I need to reign in people, give ordered and organize. So I trained my voice to sound strong, clear and a lower. Women are taught to be outspoken and speak up so much these days that a lot have falsely developed a shrill and challenging tone. Untrained voices often sound like this.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/17 04:29 PM
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I tried my best during vetting. Apparently it was not thorough enough. I fully own that. Men are capable of hiding their true nature as well.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/17 04:14 PM
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As ill as I was a simple no was all I am able to do. A more appropriate way would be to softly hold his hand, look into his eyes, tell him how much you love and desire him but that you're really not feeling well now so you aren't up for sex. Seeing how the last months went I think I will not be able to act like this at the moment. There is just too much bitterness and resentment, I kept our family from the worst of his addiction that made us bankrupt. It should have been hin who postponed sex se…
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/17 10:31 AM
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He is currently blaming his brother who accompanied him. He also knows that he and about 4000 Men are going to loose their jobs in 2018/2019. That is a huge burden on his mind as well. He is not really doing anything future related.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/17 05:59 PM
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Well, my sex is minimum every other day, way more on non working days. I cook Monday - Sunday. I took over the majority of the finances after discovering the debts that I wrangled down from 25.000 Euro to 10.000 Euro since then. His betting problem is still not addressed by a counselor or 12 - step group though. I took up a second job but that is slowly doing me in. His betting came suddenly, his financial history was clear well into our marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/17 09:47 AM
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Yes, along with some other things that are currently going wrong.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/17 09:31 AM
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I think this kind of grumpy, inconsiderate etc. began after he started getting into the betting. Rescheduling was never a problem, It happens about 2-3 times a year at most.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/17 06:20 PM
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That is the beauty of it.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/17 06:16 PM
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on a wide range of topics, science, art, literature, politics, nothing is beyond her reach. That is exactly why I made sure to use two evenings in the week to attend public lectures, talks or podium discussions on topics that interest me. I am currently hoping to do a "Town Guide Certificate". It will bring in a extra Euro or two and give me bait more flexibility should my husband not find a new job after 2019 when he will be unemployed.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/17 05:59 PM
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That being said overall do you feel appreciated? At the moment our relationship is a bit rough. His financial decisions will be corrected early next march if all goes well, if he truly stops betting on stock market events. (Betting on it going up or down, he never took part in the dealing) So there is enough going on. I work my are of, took a second job and sacrificed a seminary giving me additional qualifications to get money for the Kaution of the new, cheaper flat. I feel unappreciated and ta…
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/17 05:52 PM
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We are pretty evenly matched, I get sick maybe twice a winter but not like this. he should help with food and housework if you’re sick. He just needs to use the oven or microwave, we have enough food in the fridge to feed an army. Food I made for just this kind of "emergency". The house is clean but unruly, the children are yet learning how to tidy up after themselves.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/17 05:41 PM
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Every second day is minimum. But twice a non working day absolutely not unheard of. mouth, hand, boobs... I was so tired, unwell and just generally not up to it. But I have always held my word when it came to rescheduling.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/17 05:40 PM
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In your shoes I might not handle it gracefully (am a terrible sick person). I asked my sister who lived with me for two years if I am a bad patient. Her answer was no. I am one to suffer silently and try to get up as soon as possible.;) The fridge is full of food, several soups, a piece of meat and bags of vegetables from our garden. A Pantry stocked with preserved apples, zucchinis, nectarines, peaches etc. is also aviable. I will most likely hit rock bottom tomorrow. It is always two days onse…
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/17 05:38 PM
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I did spiral bound calendars for my Mother and my Sister. This way I was able to tailor it to their needs.
/r/RedPillWives13/10/17 09:48 AM
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I got my hands on some nice cloth cut offs. They will become strap on back packs. Ready made christmas presents or secret santa packages.
/r/RedPillWives13/10/17 09:45 AM
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Being a SAHM does not have to mean wasting education. I made sure to use any spare time to attend seminaries and workshops, making sure to keep myself a valuable asset. My SO was glad I did it the way I did - always mindful of both home and myself. I sent my children to kindergarten when they were 3. For 4 hours at first, later from 7:00 - 13:00. I also found myself intellectually starved and sought out open to the public auditoriums on topics that interested me.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/17 07:16 PM
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Safe 100 Euros this month. Get the harvest of the garden patch in Use lots of apples > cheap cause homegrown Update my wardrobe in thrifty ways
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/17 08:49 AM
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I am currently assembling a recipe book for my sons. Easy, cheap but healthy meals that can be whipped up fast.They will be glad when they leave home.... My SO enjoys watching me teach them how to help with the cooking. He unfortunately lacks both patience and nerves, both boys are a handful on their own. I still have the one my mother did for me. Including all my favorites.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/17 05:50 PM
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I wanted to become a goldsmith but my parents were adamant that at least I do something with my Abitur. (The required degree for going to university) I will probably attend evening courses to learn it though. My Sons Waldorf school also has a workshop on lyre making, my SO and I will do this one for each child. Otherwise we would have to buy two.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/17 05:46 PM
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Seconded. Same goes for pottery. Most likely women work.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/17 01:32 PM
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Not my monkey not my circus. I tried to guide her she never listend.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/17 12:14 PM
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My SO is very good in popping seams or buttons.;) One thing that makes me glad to have Waldorf education under my belt. My Son´s are at a Waldorf school as well, but mostly so they do not suffer from Angela Merkels rash decisions, there are many things wrong in the Waldorf system and it is not a good fit for everyone. But I love their home economics/Handy Craft focus. Knitting and sewing is not unmanly, provided it is thought right and engaging. But I digress, In my feminist days, I would have d…
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/17 12:11 PM
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Thats great. My Sister was just so so foolish. She gave her dream job up and is now in the HartzIV system. She keeps asking me and my SO for money but we are just not in a position to help.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/17 12:03 PM
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Do not kid yourself, you are doomed if he cheats or leaves. Your qualifications are outdated or completely obsolete, you are older then your competition and new. What have you done to insure you are financially secure? I was never saying these things to my sister. she was foolish and is now paying the price a thousand times over. She has three beautiful children and is on Hartz IV. She has to go to the food bank, otherwise she would not survive. Her EX is now happily married to a harpy and rejoi…
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/17 09:28 AM
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Cool. My SO will get this for lunch tomorrow. Thanks.
/r/RedPillWives29/09/17 09:50 AM
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My SO and I are both done with the christianity. I see myself as a non religious person but with me being a "Waldorfmutti" I do agree with lots of the things my SO as a norse heathen believes in. Makes accepting christian authors challenging;) One of the things I do for my SO that go beyond my comfort zone is being an active support for his political endeavors. I agree with his views but I am not really a person who is made for politics. I do lots of behind the scenes stuff and established a str…
/r/RedPillWives28/09/17 10:40 AM
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The text is too christian/preachy for my taste - although she does make some good points.
/r/RedPillWives27/09/17 03:33 PM
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My SO and I planned to get married in December. But after the reveal of his gambling addiction (He bets on stock market changes - apparently the new betting thing) I decided to consider it put off unless we get our finances in order. Permanently. Congratulations to you, I am no military wive but live in a settlement where military families recently moved in. My Twins have several friends whose fathers serve. We often host the boys when their parents attend functions. I think it would be wise to …
/r/RedPillWives27/09/17 02:55 PM
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Tell him that you consider this room his.
/r/RedPillWives27/09/17 02:52 PM
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Birds are like broken records. Rarely do they say things how they heard and learned them....
/r/askMRP26/09/17 01:00 PM
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Do you respect your wives time with the kids?
/r/askMRP26/09/17 12:59 PM
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That goes against the red pill and is therefore forbidden!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 12:51 PM
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A partner who cheats. Never forget that men are very prone to chucking the women once they hit the wall!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 12:50 PM
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At least the bot does not honor the one....
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 12:45 PM
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Basically a mans worth is his resources. If he cheats he has no resources for the first women. Bad deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 11:11 AM
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Accountability. He needs to be very open and honest now. First step - No contact. Period. He needs to show you that he is still worthy.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/17 11:05 AM
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What leader abandons his men? what leader leaves those he leads? You owe him nothing. I would urge you to be open and honest - he decided t cheat, to blow up his marriage. There is something deeply wrong for him to justify his bad decisions.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/17 11:04 AM
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Many people are cranky patients. My SO can be cranky too and then I normally put medicine, drink and food on a table. IF he wants it he gets it otherwise I will eat it later and put the rest in the fridge.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/17 11:37 AM
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Sorry, it is nowhere to be found;)
/r/RedPillWives23/09/17 11:30 AM
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Ok, that sounds bad.
/r/RedPillWives23/09/17 11:28 AM
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I have given lots to the society, I may not produce steel in mill but I work as a teacher, teaching the future generation. Before that I served my country by offering time, labour and love to the elderly. I will raise children and hope they will make the right decisions. I think someone like me does deserve a voice.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/17 11:28 AM
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My Motivations are to gather wisdom and in turn provide my own. I am a proud queen of the home, in a strong and loving relationship. I see the good and bad in both males and females.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/17 11:24 AM
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They are not just backwards, they are monstrous. The Quran is no peaceful book telling tales - it is a political manifesto. But there is no doubt that the west has benefitted greatly from women voting rights. It makes it necessary to focus on more topics, wich enables more parties to form. It makes democracy come alive in whole new ways.
/r/RedPillWives23/09/17 11:22 AM
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But that is against RPW. Do not get me wrong, I am very much right wing, but not so much antifeminist.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/17 04:58 PM
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Maybe these women would benefit from academic input.
/r/RedPillWives22/09/17 04:58 PM
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I served the Bundesfreiwilligendienst. It was not military service but benefitted the society and my country. I know many many women here do it.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/17 04:57 PM
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Would men vote in the interest of women? NO! Humans are selfish by nature. Soft power is largely an illusion. Show me where women managed to influence politic. I see each day how backwards societies who see women as nothing more then cattle influence a modern society. No woman is save, mass rapes get downplayed and hidden. Not a day goes by without muslim men raping and killing.
/r/RedPillWives22/09/17 04:56 PM
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I am fiercely democratic, in the german sense. I am of the opinion that a strong opposition is always essential. Males vote a certain way as collective, not the same party but the general direction of their way.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/17 04:54 PM
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Harsh prison sentences for those monsters who abuse their spouses! Men that hurt their women are scum!
/r/RedPillWives22/09/17 11:15 AM
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Freeing up time is what most women do right now!
/r/RedPillWives22/09/17 11:14 AM
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Women voting was necessary. We Women are of equal worth and we too should have a voice! The more social minded Women are enabling democracy! They enable a opposition. Men are not without faults and Women are able to balance it out.
/r/RedPillWives22/09/17 11:13 AM
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Heiligabend means "holy eve", freely translated. So you are right. It is potluck so everyone contributes a bit. It will be a feast for sure;)
/r/RedPillWives20/09/17 04:49 PM
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Good. I remember when we first brought my boys "home", I "nested" in the garden of my Grandaunts house under a tree. It was about 30C and I was so thankful for both my and my SO´s mothers who suggested this. Our own flat was under the roof and the temperatures ranged between 35C - 36C. Way too uncomfortable. My Grandaunt was in way better shape then. She loved having us there.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/17 04:48 PM
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Slow the horses, slapping the label depression on any kind of recurring sadness has never helped. I think it is important to identify what makes you sad, what triggers it and how you can deal with it. If you are on hormonal BC I urge you to talk about your bouts of sadness with your doc. hormonal BC truly does a number on the body! My Sister got depressed, had massive chest pain and hair loss. I had hairless and mood swings and a good friend of mine got water in the legs.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/17 03:19 PM
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Do you behave like a shrew or does your SO tell you? I would suggest you find out what helps you feel wonderful. If we feel good, confident and sexy we are less likely to be wroth. Also, please find out the cause of your sadness. He also tends to have problems trusting me His cup of tea. Yet the amount of time he spends on his phone bothers me. Me and my SO leave our phones on a desk near the entrance. Out of sight out of mind. We are not paid to be aviable 24/7 by our bosses and friends and fam…
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/17 03:12 PM
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Music! - Yes!
/r/RedPillWives20/09/17 03:03 PM
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This year me and SO will host a big get together. My whole family, aunts, uncles and their kids, his family + aunts, uncles and their kids and a few of his ex workmates. I am not crazy about him inviting his workmates for the Heiligabend (24.12) as it is normally family day. Friends and much less coworkers are for New Years Eve. (I hope we will be able to get our children to adopt this tradition) It will be potluck, one uncle always does delicious deer, I will do the vegetables and the dessert. …
/r/RedPillWives20/09/17 02:36 PM
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I want to make sure that our intimacy and private time together are still prioritized whenever possible. Why does sexy time need to be in the evening?;) Seriously, I would stack up on frozen meals, one or two frozen cakes (for the day guests are finally allowed to see the mama and the baby), water, books and one or two movies. Post Part is mama and baby time, if guests are pushy it falls on Daddy to keep them out.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/17 02:26 PM
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Pity and laughter indeed!
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/17 02:24 PM
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Ok, what did you smoke? This is the reason women are conspicuous of the traditional and red pill movement. You are too blinded by your hatred to see the millions of good women who truly love their husbands, respect and adore them. who stand by them through the storms life brings. You disgust me!
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/17 10:25 AM
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yup there's 2 in there Congratulations! You should also point out that he can't expect things to just go back to normal once the baby is born, and you have the added stress of caring for an infant and sleep deprivation, so this is an issue he will need to address now. I second this as well. Do you have a game plan in place? I mean o plan survives enemy contact but it is beneficial to at least consider it.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/17 09:03 AM
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There is more then penetrative love making! I second your idea of getting the midwife in the loop. When I had the twins she was able to explain to my husband why going directly for PIV after 6 weeks was A very bad idea. We waited another 6 weeks until we resumed PIV but we had lots of satisfaction still;)
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/17 09:00 AM
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Maybe one of the greatest gifts we give is time. We save our husbands time they can put into things they love.
/r/RedPillWives18/09/17 11:46 AM
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I have a get out plan if nothing improves by 2018.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/17 11:42 AM
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It does sound crazy. apparently the IUD was inserted by someone who never did this kind of IUD before. I never had problems before, 3 years of all clear. Was supposed to last 5. apparently it was loose and fell down but was not ejected. The condom was either too old or stored too hot
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/17 11:41 AM
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Out families are unable to give, even if he would accept it. I use public transport, he teams up with his brother to get to work. I sold a bit of my old furniture. I am currently searching for a cheaper flat, apparently some landlords partner up with his employer to offer lower cautions to the workers.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/17 11:37 AM
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It would at least help with renting a new flat. We need to find a better flat, the current one is way too pricy. The heating bill is too high.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/17 05:25 PM
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He gets paid enough to set aside a bit of money if we live very very frugal. It is just not quick enough.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/17 05:24 PM
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I do agree with a lot of what she writes, but some things are just not applicable to addict situations. Fact is, it is highly unlikely that I will surrender finances to him her again. Once an addict always an addict. He might be inactive some day but it is still in there. The anad group I went to yesterday gave me lots of info in regards to minimizing and rug sweeping behavior and good versus bad books.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/17 08:10 AM
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He is a wonderful father. Ds´s love him and he is so proud of them. Our Relationship was good, Bedroom alive and well.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/17 08:05 AM
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He is still in denial, unwilling to own his %/&%(/&!. but promises it will all work out. The second job is probably not going to make a big difference, but every little bit helps.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/17 08:02 AM
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I feel massive resentment and my trust is nonexistent. I will NOT trust my SO with my money for a very very long time if ever. I will also look into joining a support group to keep me from enabling his behavior and becoming a bitter shrew. (That is why I find those books unhelpful too much enabling the addict)
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/17 07:39 PM
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Not yet married. His family was against the federal marriage (They are "Reichsbürger") and I was too naive. How did you find out? The bank called to tell me they would be freezing our account unless it was set straight ASAP. His brother told me about the bets. Where you harsh with your reaction? I separaten our finances and got full access to the family account. I was surprisingly calm, very detached. I spent a week at my Sisters to sort myself out.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/17 07:09 PM
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I am not yet clear on what exactly was going wrong. At the moment it looks like he placed bets on certain stock market changes. Like, sports bet but on stock market changes. Men often don't like to be told directly what is wrong with them, it causes them to dig their heels in more, resent the person and damages their ego. If this was a problem he admitted I would most likely have reacted more gentle. But as he lied to me for years I am too full of resentment to not let him hear his faults direct…
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/17 06:51 PM
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I am scared of being a single mom. I regret not having an abortion. But I know it was almost too late for that since my cycle was so messed up.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/17 06:41 PM
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If he does the Debt Counseling it will positively affect his financial reputation, meaning we will be able to rent another more suitable flat. Otherwise it will be a nightmare. Unless he owns his decisions he will not be able to heal.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/17 06:40 PM
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Yes, I do have twins. They are 5 years old. We were together for 2 years when the combination IUD and condom failed. (Condom was probably too old and got ripped open by the control of the IUD) so amidst the vetting phase. We planned to get married this December. Will not happen until the issue is dealt with though. Probably never.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/17 06:35 PM
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As I understand it he bet on those. As in putting money on the likelihood of this or that happening with those stockmarket things.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/17 06:29 PM
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I have not yet sussed out if he was truly addicted to gambling on stock market or if he was investing badly and thus gambling. I will ask his "buddy" for clarification.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/17 06:28 PM
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Yes.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/17 11:42 AM
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I screened, unfortunately he took his problems way underground. Not a trace to be found. The debts are his to own. He decided time and time again to make these poor decisions, to endanger his family and the marriage. Not I! I will need to live with the knowledge that I was unable to vett as deeply as he took his shit. But I will not make the same mistake twice. All accounts are in my name now, financial decisions are made by me and me alone. I consult him but it is me who gets it done.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/17 10:32 AM
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Well, it went reasonably well when there was enough pressure.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/17 06:05 PM
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Ok, I would change the title if I knew how to do it.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/17 06:04 PM
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To be honest, if my SO would pull this stunt we would have been divorced now. If he starts to look for an affair I am out. I am worth more then being cheated on.
/r/askMRP12/09/17 09:26 AM
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Since my SO never learned how to be frugal when it comes to household matters our electrical bill is about twice as much. But we also live in a insanely overpriced town. Again it is SO who decided.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/17 09:15 AM
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Any Man would need to provide me with proof of his health e. g. full panel STD test. Other then this I tolerate a medium high N - Count. .
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/17 03:07 PM
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She stated nothing but the truth. Also, would you truly have appreciated her support?
/r/askMRP11/09/17 01:52 PM
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Our costs are insane. Kindergeld would barely cover our power bill.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/17 02:20 PM
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It is disrespectful, condescending and selfish. It also shows either greed or laziness. I mean there is Divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/17 02:18 PM
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I do think my FH is capable of cheating, but I do hope that given enough incentive he will not do it. It would cost him plenty.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/17 02:16 PM
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If my FH is so weak that he rather cheats then I am glad to be rid of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/17 11:52 AM
4

If my FH cheats I am done. The price will be high but worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/17 11:51 AM
22

Men that are feeling emasculated by the way women dress are not truly masculine at their core.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/17 11:06 AM
8

One thing I will not budge on is faithfulness. If my SO decided he wanted fresh flesh when he gets older it will be divorce ASAP! No second chances nothing. I will always be worth more then this. Always! Other then that no, I will not settle.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/17 10:03 AM
1

Stipend for all. About 150 - 190 Euro monthly until the kids are grown.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/17 09:59 AM
5

Normally I would agree. I mean I did chose it as a job cause I thought it would be low stress. But with the flood of muslim children who are very very high maintenance, full of uncontrolled aggression and unwilling to respect females as teachers and equal before the law it gets very very stressful. The parents do not allow them to speak german at home and most likely do not speak the language themselves. (4/5th generation in Germany!) And those german children we have come with their own problem…
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/17 09:57 AM
5

I gave birth when he did night shift. Calling him directly was not possible so it was a big surprise when he was informed that I had just given birth to my two boys after the shift. He and about 5 workmates including his brother rushed to the hospital still covered in coal dust. We are trying for a third (Please, no twins) but I will most likely try to not have him there. He does not have the most robust stomach and would most likely cause massive stress for all involved. My SIL will be there ag…
/r/RedPillWives08/09/17 03:25 PM
3

I did sacrifice retirement points for my children but most of all for my SO! That is one reason I set marriage as a non negotiable condition for having children. At least this way my interests are somewhat protected. The Kindergeld of about 100Euro per month goes straight to my retirement account.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/17 03:13 PM
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I live in Germany, yes. As a teacher in adult education I worked mostly in the evening. So my SO was able to enjoy time with his children. Now, with the beginning of a new school year, I will start at a vocational school where I will teach Home Economies and WiGeSO (Economics, History, Politics and Social Studies as a combined subject. Sounds worse then it is.) 25,5 hours a week of normal lessons and the rest is administration, communication with the apprentice´s and their bosses, preparation, e…
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/17 10:29 AM
5

Please define what you regard as a career. I hold a normal 3/4 job wich allows me to put the children into kindergarten. When Kindergarten ends at 13:30 I am there to fetch them. As they will be in school this autumn I will be able to work full time. Thanks "Gebundener Ganztag". (Mandatory whole day schooling with homework supervision (8:00 - 16:00).
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/17 08:46 AM
1

Red Tents. Google them. Helps.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/17 08:41 AM
1

In many cases homes for the elderly invite people to visit the clients and read, craft or talk with them.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/17 08:38 AM
2

The wonderful thing is that we can grow as humans throughout our whole life.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/17 04:35 PM
1

I do not the life experience of a mere 28 year old. I mean the Wisdom that can be gained from the 60+. Honestly, those women can be amazing guides and confidantes. I am grateful to have the support of an elderly neighbor who is an amazing lady and keep me on my toes in regards to frugality, common sense and wisdom. This Lady is 80! She showed me pictures, she aged in a very aesthetically pleasing manner and her actions and thoughts are inspiring.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/17 04:34 PM
3

To me the Wall is a concept that does NOT define my Life. I am as a person worth so much that SMV is NOT the only deciding factor and NEVER an excuse for cheating. Cheating is a decision made by the cheater - out of brokenness and weakness. (There are ALWAYS legal, safe and less hurtful ways of getting more, better or otherwise sex, intimacy or a quiet life). The third part of life, the Autumn and Winter is as valuable to a woman as it is to a man. It does not make a woman inferior or worthless.…
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/17 02:33 PM
2

Well, even the most uncivilized of species, the islamists have women that behave in a manner that could be classes as morally sound. On the surface, mind you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/17 11:26 AM
2

to me depends on the general identity of the perpetrators. Muslims or Islamists as they should be rightfully called, are like beasts, monsters without moral compass or any inkling of mercy. Islamists both male and female are inferior and do not belong into civilized countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/17 11:22 AM
3

If you Reconcile he truly needs to fight for you. Show you that he is staying cause you are awesome! Do not settle.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/17 09:24 AM
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My Grandfather asked me to live completely alone for a year. Not even a girls WG. In Germany buying a house is mostly done in a stable marriage. Renting my first flat was wonderful.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/17 09:23 AM
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Apparently I come across as very organized and able to plan. I know I am doing fine there, but never knew it would be so attractive! My FH is also over the moon with my ability to public speaking deescalation. Both things valuable to him.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/17 09:21 AM
3

persuasive skills + (bartering skills! you will ALWAYS find them useful!) Flea Market/Antique Dealer!
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/17 09:18 AM
1

There are TONs of ways to improve your financial situation. I work as a Home Economist Teacher in Vocational School and do a lot of nutrition counseling on the side. Lately I also give remedial lessons for those who need them in history.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/17 09:16 AM
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Well, Muslims do not manage to accomplish anything at all. Only Rape and violence are "abilities".
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 02:27 PM
1

Be direct. Tell him that in the future flowers are the thing to give.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/17 10:52 AM
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Muslim´s no, islamist a are inferior in any and every way. Show me the nobel prize holders, the functioning states, prosperous businesses and then ask why you will not find them. They are stuck in the stone age. There is nothing civilized about them, nothing to counteract the monstrous mass rape attacks wich get downplayed by political correct folks who love them. My DH is trying to rouse the masses to vote for the only party in Germany that will do something about the Invaders. And trust me, wi…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 10:35 AM
1

Your Wife has handled this for all these years and suddenly you want to "lead" her? Well, you better ace it. Otherwise she will do what worked for all those years.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/17 07:25 PM
5

Just cause your H. said something does not necessarily make it true. He could have been angry about not getting his way in this instance! A few days ago, we were cuddling and watching TV and he asked if we wanted to go upstairs, I said yes. As I got up, he said he'll follow me. No big deal. He played some video games and came upstairs. He asked if I'm awake and I said yes. He turned away from me and didn't cuddle me. From my side, it felt like he sent me away and actively avoided me after he cam…
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/17 04:17 PM
1

Why do you negate the fact that there are lots of wise old women? Why does it ruffle your feather so much? Is it beciuae you do not want to see the worth of the elderly?
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/17 09:40 AM
1

Well, that sounds like a lot of hamstring on the topic of being young and foolish. Fact is that time is key in learning and gaining experience.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/17 09:39 AM
2

Wear something nice but modest. Black dress with some statement pieces. Or a red dress or nice pants...
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/17 03:30 PM
1

Experience is somethin that grows with time.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/17 03:14 PM
2

Wisdom is the gift of age. Even if all of you will not accept this as it would be a positive aspect of aging. why do you hate women who age gracefully and still love themselves? Should elderly women kill themselves to make room for the young ones? You are trash talking your ancestors.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/17 03:13 PM
1

Why is it wrong what they said? It is the elderly who teach the young. Not the 25- 30 year olds. Wisdom is the gift of age. Why do you shame these women for dealing with their age in a positive manner? Should they sit around mopey? denigrates younger people You lot basically say women over the age of say 40 are completely worthless? That is denigrating the elderly.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/17 03:07 PM
-2

Stop blaming your mother for things you could have learned from different sources!
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/17 03:04 PM
13

Stop blaming your mother for things you could have learned from different sources!
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/17 03:04 PM
2

I will go after the job I wanted once my kids are in school. (Mandatory from 8:00- 16:00 + Homework AG) It is purely for my own financial security. I got the money state gives as "Kindergeld" as a nest egg for the time I retire. I expect my SO to support me during the time I get the qualifications - as I did it for him.
/r/RedPillWives24/08/17 04:16 PM
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