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So on point man. Your first point in particular really hit home for me and provided the final link for why I've failed with the last two women. I just didn't escalate. I didn't provide that sexual tension. Fuck. ALAMO. Thanks man. I needed this so badly.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 10:13 PM
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Thanks for your feedback. Agree with the "action over words" that you're suggesting. I could've just not responded or gone with a "K".
/r/askTRP25/12/15 05:41 AM
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On point with your feedback man. Yea I was careful not to go the obvious route with the "bone" thing... I also thought overall it was kinda "odd" like you say but it was the best I could come up with at the time. I definitely failed with getting serious because as you say all of a sudden now I've placed immense importance on it. Ugh. Can't take it back now. Your suggested response is certainly much simpler and effective. Really appreciate your thorough feedback. It's helping me learn.
/r/askTRP24/12/15 03:03 AM
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Damn... you hit it on the nail. I'm at the same point as you... I've at least developed the instinct not to be a complete bitch (which is why I said no to her request to watch her drink), but I've still got a lot more to internalize. I agree me getting serious at the end was a fail. I'll probably see her again cause we're in the same circle of friends that go dancing. Not sure how I'll play it the next time I see her but I guess I'll just try to keep it playful. Thanks for your thoughts. Let me …
/r/askTRP24/12/15 02:30 AM
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Thanks man. I see what you're saying.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 06:14 PM
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Definitely agree with this. Thankfully I've gotten to the point in my TRP journey that I can not take personal offense to every single rejection I get. It was more a curiosity because I had never encountered this kind of response.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 01:21 AM
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Thanks for the feedback. I've seen that suggested many times before on TRP but it seems like a gimmick. Like if the only way I can get her number is to force my phone into her hand then yea sure, she might give me her number from peer pressure alone but then I'll text her later and not get a response. [Serious] do you really think that the form in which the request is made is going to decide for the girl what kind of man I am and whether she's attracted to me enough to give me her number?
/r/askTRP11/11/15 01:20 AM
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got it, thanks. I've gotten other forms of rejection before, just never one like this. I'm also curious how much the "form" of my request matters. i.e. if I had said it differently as /u/EvolvedA suggests (and I see this on TRP all the time). I tend to think it doesn't really matter that much. If a girl is into you it doesn't really matter whether you ask, suggest, or command. Thoughts?
/r/askTRP11/11/15 01:18 AM
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I don't remember. I've never thought about in this much detail until now. For the last 15 years I've had a high success rate but I think most of that was due to only asking girls who were showing obvious IOIs. Now I'm pushing myself beyond my comfort zone. Do you have examples of good vs bad?
/r/askTRP11/11/15 01:14 AM
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Bro... thank you. There are so, so many men suffering hugely, silently with PE. I am one of them. And everything you said made so much sense (especially regarding the variability in my performance over time). Thanks again man, I'll be stopping porn (I had already started watching less often) and working in these other techniques.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 03:12 AM
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Yea I thought so... unless you're Brad fucking Pitt it ain't gonna work like that. If she is definitely LTR-material (and how do you define this?) and you want that then just stick with it. You can still get your balls back without downgrading her to a plate. Why do you need to downgrade her to a plate in order to "have more time and think about it"? Just do that anyway.
/r/askTRP03/11/15 02:43 AM
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It's fine and even encouraged for you to tell her you don't want to be committed (assuming you really don't want that) but what do you want afterward? Are you trying to downgrade her back to a plate? (good luck with that) Or just ending it?
/r/askTRP03/11/15 02:37 AM
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Yes that is key (not acting butt hurt). It's just cold, matter of fact.
/r/askTRP03/11/15 02:31 AM
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You hit it on the nail, bro. Physical attention (i.e. physical attraction) is not negotiable. Talking about it will just dry her up. Stay strong and do not ask those questions that you already know are cringy. They are cringy for a reason. Women talk about things. Men act. Also, don't assume so many things about her. You can think about what might be the case but for all you know she's a raging slut who just doesn't want to give it up to you because "this time she's trying to be an adult". Proba…
/r/askTRP01/11/15 08:29 PM
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I agree with TRPdating. Her being much younger than you, she might very well be intimidated, or not understand how things are supposed to happen, or she might want a relationship right away, or any number of other things. I don't think you're her orbiter - yet - or she wouldn't even kiss you. Another thing to keep in mind is that when you're kissing her and she breaks it off and then you just keep talking as if you're totally OK with what happened then you're showing her that it's ok. Which it's…
/r/askTRP01/11/15 06:16 PM
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I've found that some light bantering over text before a date can get things warmed up but I certainly don't always do it or rely on it. The reason TRP is so against texting for anything besides logistics is because it's so easy for us to fuck it up and fall into orbit. But when you're setting up a meeting, you take the fucking lead. You decide when and where. She either accepts or says no and provides an alternate time/day. If she doesn't do that then she's "hmming and hawing" as was mentioned. …
/r/askTRP11/09/15 04:08 AM
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Yea I thought about that line actually but went with "Ok". If she brings it up again in person I might use that.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 12:30 PM
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Sent her "Ok" and went to a happy hour. Met a chick there and might meet up with her this weekend.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 12:30 PM
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Yep. That's what I did - "Ok"
/r/askTRP10/09/15 12:29 PM
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Classic. It's not that she doesn't want you to change it's that she doesn't want you to increase your SMV and otherwise improve yourself. Obviously you should keep doing whatever you're doing. If she keeps telling you shit like this, then you're doing exactly the right thing.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 12:36 PM
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You've made great strides, not sure why you think a frat is the answer. Find hobbies or clubs that interest you. You'll automatically make friends with people there because you already share a common passion. Join a fucking co-ed frisbee club. Seriously.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 04:01 AM
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Congrats man. I go to the bar alone all the time. Sometimes I make an effort to talk to everyone. Sometimes I make no effort at all. Sometimes people come talk to me sometimes they don't. Point is, when I go out alone, it's simply because I want to. It's good for you. Builds character. And look how easy it is to meet people and have fun. Keep on.
/r/askTRP27/06/15 04:31 PM
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Lol... yea I do, it has gotten quite lengthy. Coming across as butthurt is equivalent to admitting it with words. If she's pulling a counter ignore I would ignore the shit out of that. If you give in and approach her first then she wins and you lose big time. But this is where context is important and I have very little of it by nature of being a relatively complete stranger. Regarding your request for A&A or AM... I need more context... in what is this a response to?
/r/askTRP27/06/15 03:57 PM
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keeping the frame is the best thing I can do Never lose frame with your woman, especially with something this massive. When she asks you how is it possible that you aren't distraught, or haven't cried, or <insert emotion that she would feel as a woman>, you tell her anything except give into those emotions. You may have those emotions and that's ok, but those are not to be shared with women, especially your woman. Keep on.
/r/askTRP27/06/15 03:53 PM
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Hey there man. I appreciate your response. I read the whole thing and look at the end of the day, TRP has made my life infinitely better. I'd rather die a free man than live another day as a slave [to women, to my emotions, to the world around me]. I too drop hints from time to time but I never use TRP terminology because then they just shut down. I've seen it happen before. But most guys intuitively know, deep down inside, the things that we have labeled with terms. Especially AWALT and how the…
/r/askTRP27/06/15 03:51 PM
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I'm a little confused with the "Middle of the night..." paragraph - I can't figure out if she woke you up to have sex or if you woke her up so try to edit that paragraph a bit if you can - I'll answer a few things though. First off, her asking you if you're mad is definitely a shit test. The easiest response is the simplest one. "No." Especially if you've got shit to do. Which you do. Or you can ignore. Or you can Agree & Amplify but that takes work. Just ask yourself what you would do if you we…
/r/askTRP26/06/15 03:12 AM
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I will never show him anything RP, per se, but that's mostly because of who he is. He's hard-headed and would never take me seriously if I showed him something like that. I tried once many years ago (way before official RP stuff) and it took a long time to recover my reputation with him... because anytime I did anything manly or tried to stand up for myself he would just say something like "hey man fuck you and that shit you learned about how to be a man, don't think that you can just..." So be …
/r/askTRP26/06/15 02:35 AM
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Interesting thoughts, especially about your twice a month rule. Any more than that and I agree, it's absolutely inevitable they'll catch feelings.
/r/askTRP26/06/15 02:29 AM
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Hell yea man. He'll be lucky to have you as a brother. Sadly, most men in this world do not have a brother (literally or figuratively) to be there for them like this.
/r/askTRP26/06/15 02:27 AM
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You definitely have some one-itis here, which given your history is quite understandable. But it's also not that bad, I've heard far worse. You have your head screwed on very well and are able to analyze this situation very coldly, which is good. You actually have several questions but I'll start with the bolded one. First, do not burn any bridges. I don't even know what that means. If what you mean is you never want to see/talk to her again, then just ignore her. No need to tell her ANYTHING. T…
/r/askTRP26/06/15 02:24 AM
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Hah, I'm the older brother as well. He's always been a heavy drinker. Doesn't do it often but when he does he sometimes goes all out. My mom and dad never approved and constantly chided him and so do a lot of other people. At first I did too. But eventually I realized that the most dangerous thing for him is to have no one to talk to. No one man that he can go to and talk about the things that make him vulnerable. So these days, I don't ever judge him. If I disagree with him about something he's…
/r/askTRP26/06/15 02:11 AM
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Are you dead yet? No? Then you're not fucked. I had cancer two years ago, which had everything to do with genetics (in my case). I did chemo, radiation, the whole 9 yards. Am I genetically fucked? Maybe. Should I even think about producing offspring that might also get cancer? Don't know. I think about it often. But ultimately I don't really give a fuck because it doesn't stop me from fucking women. And it doesn't stop them from wanting it and looking at me like they want to, all the fucking tim…
/r/askTRP26/06/15 02:05 AM
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That fucking sucks dude... but as long as it doesn't change your overall plan of becoming a doctor (I assume?) then I must agree... it's "just a setback." A terrible one, yes. One that will define you, absolutely. The setback itself will not make your girl leave you. HOW YOU HANDLE IT will be the sole determining factor in whether she stays or leaves. If anything, this is actually an opportunity to show your girl (and everyone else for that matter) how well you handle hardships. If you don't kno…
/r/askTRP26/06/15 01:53 AM
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Next time he tells you "you're lucky" tell him, "fuck you, I'm not lucky I just work my ass off," and leave it at that. No need to get into an elaborate explanation of any kind. In fact, the less you say the better. But don't just let him tell you you're lucky. Respond like the fucking man you are and let him figure the rest out. I have a brother so I can relate somewhat, except that he's fairly RP himself already and I was the one who was always bluepill up until recently. He would always try t…
/r/askTRP26/06/15 01:47 AM
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No it wouldn't have. It still shows you were butthurt and were thinking about her for the past 4 days?! She said she was free that day, yea like the other 10,000 days she'll be free for the next 30 years. You didn't make plans. She's absolutely right and her having to tell you this in the manner in which she did (without emotion, good punctuation, etc.) shows that you already put the nail in the coffin and she now understands that you don't know shit. You need to read more of the TRP side-bar so…
/r/askTRP25/06/15 10:56 PM
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You end things by going radio silent. You do NOT end things by having a hissy fit like you did with your last text.
/r/askTRP25/06/15 10:53 PM
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If it was university I'd say it's optional, and even big companies like Google are taking people who didn't go to uni. But you high school is a different story. You will have a very hard time finding any job with a high school degree. Study over the summer. Yes, it sucks, but it'll be a good experience. And it'll be good practice doing something you don't want to do but have to. Life is full of shit like this. Besides, there'll probably be some hot bitches in there you can practice your game wit…
/r/askTRP25/06/15 12:17 PM
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Worked for me. Strange thing was I was getting this error message for TheRedPill and AskTRP but once I did the un-subscribe and re-subscribe for just TheRedPill it fixed the problem for both.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 12:13 PM
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As long as you are 100% honest with yourself, and she's providing a legitimate value to you (in the form of critiquing your writing), then I see no problem with that. I have female friends that provide non-sexual value to me, but I do not game them. I make it 100% clear through my actions that I have no sexual interest in them whatsoever. The moment you start gaming her, you have betrayed your own intentions. Honestly it sounds like you have a little one-itis with this chick. Beware.
/r/askTRP24/06/15 10:39 PM
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Precisely.
/r/askTRP24/06/15 10:35 PM
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Stop taking what women say in a literal sense. Go read the TRP side-bar regarding "Power talk". This is what /u/dr_warlock is getting at. She's shit-testing you to see if you're a bitch and also protecting her innocent angel reputation (i.e. LMR/ASD).
/r/askTRP24/06/15 10:32 PM
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Well it could end that particular conversation, which wouldn't be a bad thing. No need to take it anywhere else. You are after all, texting. It should be for logistics only or good banter. Not her telling you how gross she is. She's treating you like an orbiter and you're acting like one. If you're happy with that then fine, but don't call it anything else. You could also agree & amplify. For example, "Definitely one of the top 10 most disgusting things said by a woman." - But personally I'd jus…
/r/askTRP24/06/15 10:27 PM
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This is the answer. All that happened is that since you've started taking in the red pill great things are beginning to happen to you that never used to. This will continue happening the more you learn and put into practice.
/r/askTRP23/06/15 11:14 PM
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"Yes you are." Continue escalation. "That's right. You're not a girl. You're a woman." Continue escalation. Ignore. Continue escalation. Be more aggressive (of course you have to stop if she tells you to "stop" or says "no"). Continue escalation. To answer your question: All she's doing is shit-testing you; probably subconsciously by the sound of it (I've had similar things). She's just being the silly little non-sensical girl that she is. So treat her like one. Laugh at her. Tell her "that's cu…
/r/askTRP23/06/15 11:08 PM
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Am I a little beta orbiter in her eyes she can confess stuff like this to cause it doesnt matter? Just a guy she sees in class who is nothing now than a friend? Yes. Yes. Do you think she'd tell Chad Thundercock all these disgusting things? Also, Wtf do I say back to a text telling me how she threw up and how terrible it was? Without any smiley faces, or just kidding, or anything you write exactly what you were thinking: "That's disgusting." This will probably shock her. She might even think you…
/r/askTRP23/06/15 11:02 PM
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LOL indeed, especially with the foursome. I would definitely use the mt fuji one though... agree & amplify.
/r/askTRP23/06/15 10:55 PM
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On my weekends I try to make some time to read a book, even if just for a half hour or an hour. I also like to go out and have coffee (yes, by myself) and just chill. It's nice going to a place without having a deadline; you get to take in your environment, you're more willing to chat with random people and you get to relax. At night I spend time with friends or family, or if I'm going out, I'll go salsa dancing. I usually don't drink (at most I'll have one drink). I don't smoke either. Sometime…
/r/askTRP23/06/15 03:02 AM
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Yep, walking away was the right option. Do not message her first. At this point it's not gonna happen. If after a full-on make out session she still doesn't wanna fuck then that's that. Just accept it and move on. Spend your time fucking bitches that want to fuck you, not mess with you.
/r/askTRP22/06/15 11:40 AM
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What would you have done before TRP existed? Most of us had to figure it out on our own when we were your age. You are very lucky to be here learning the truth about the world at such a young age. Know that the more you read here and the more you put it into action the greater you will be. By the time you get to college you'll be slaying bitches left and right. But to answer your question... just go do other shit. If I told you there'll be another girl who's even better you wouldn't believe me. …
/r/askTRP22/06/15 11:37 AM
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Is what a problem? Thanking people? Not necessarily but I certainly have lessened how much I say it. That way when I do say it, it's more meaningful and powerful. As for the other things I listed, YES they are problems. Stop doing that shit. The only reason we say "I'm sorry" all the time is because it became ingrained in us as kids. But there are very few instances where you legitimately need to apologize for something. Just start with that the "I'm sorry", it's definitely the easiest one to st…
/r/askTRP22/06/15 02:40 AM
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perfect! Fuck the club. Learn the shit out of that martial art. What kind of dancing? I'm a latin dancer myself... salsa, bachata. And football, great. So... why the fuck would you spend 6 hours at a club when you could be spending that time doing these other things that are FAR more valuable. DON'T LET other people bring you down. They WANT you to think it's cool to spend 6 hours at a club because they don't want you to become better than they are. They're saying that because they're self-consc…
/r/askTRP22/06/15 02:37 AM
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Overall it went well, but it's left its mark. One thing for sure is to take it a step at a time, figure out what works and what doesn't. Have you tried a rowing machine? It doesn't require fine motor skills and is a hell of a workout. Can you do things like a bench press? If so, you could do low weight, high repetition to work on your cardio. Maybe kayaking? Definitely a good cardio and strength workout. Boxing of any kind? That's mostly upper body and is a REALLY good cardio workout. But ultima…
/r/askTRP22/06/15 01:43 AM
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Do you have other interests or things you want to learn besides this?
/r/askTRP22/06/15 01:37 AM
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Yea... agreed with other post here. Don't become penpals! I've made this mistake so many times (pre-TRP) and it never worked out. If she really, really is hitting you up hard on text just tell her something like "hey I've been really busy at work but we'll catch up in a few days" (do not reference her coming back, this is about you, not her).
/r/askTRP22/06/15 01:21 AM
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There are so many other things to do with your life then learn to enjoy clubs for 6 hours straight. If you don't enjoy this one thing... then so what? You're not missing out on much. I love house music but I've never been in a club for more than maybe 3 hours and these days I'd rather do a million other things. Do you have other interests or things you want to learn besides this?
/r/askTRP22/06/15 01:18 AM
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Start with small things. For example... stop apologizing. I say sorry about once a week these days as opposed to most people who say sorry many times a day. stop saying "but I'm just kidding" when saying a joke. Assuming your delivery was even half-decent, chances are people understand it's a joke, especially if other people are laughing or saying "ohhhh burrrn". Saying you're joking at the end makes you a nice guy. It's unnecessary. stop filling in awkward silences. Let the other person(s) feel…
/r/askTRP22/06/15 01:16 AM
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I struggle with the same thing due to having had cancer and done chemotherapy and radiation. I sometimes struggle on a daily basis. But when I've been working out I start getting more energy again and overall feeling better (this is why TRP tells us to lift of course). Why exactly can't you do a "typical" workout routine? I'm only asking so I can try to suggest alternatives that are more suited to you. For example, rock climbing is great way to work out but not sure if you can do that. You could…
/r/askTRP22/06/15 01:11 AM
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In general, yes you can be "at risk" of developing one-itis... but when you're referring to a specific girl in a specific situation, then the risk has already presented itself. At that point, you either have it or you don't. Trust me... I have walked in your shoes. For years. Before finally learning how shit works. This shit takes time man. We're talking months at the very least for things to start really clicking. How fast you learn really depends on how often you expose yourself to new situati…
/r/askTRP21/06/15 10:41 PM
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Not sure what you mean by losing most of the control. Control of what? If she's still having sex with you then not all is lost. Start spending a lot more time on yourself. Lifting, reading, whatever. Next time she calls to hang out or asks why you haven't called her just tell you've been busy, but only if you fucking have been. Go do more shit. Spend time with old friends. Read about soft dread. And go read more TRP... you have a lot to learn.
/r/askTRP21/06/15 01:52 PM
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You're never at risk of developing oneitis. You either have it already or you don't. You sound like you do. You're not nexting her because there is nothing to next. You need to read and internalize the red pill more because then you would have your answer. Just forget about her. You are doing well by recognizing your mistakes. Think about specific things you would've done differently in the various situations that happened throughout the night. E.g. exactly how would you have escalated during th…
/r/askTRP21/06/15 01:48 PM
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She should be talking more than you in general. But be curious of course, because if you're genuinely interested in someone they will think of you as interesting. I've started doing this over the past year with everyone. Guys, girls, family, friends, strangers, bartenders, cashiers... I get the same enthusiastic response. Obviously there are exceptions to the rule but in general people respond well when you're genuinely interested in learning more about something they are passionate about. If th…
/r/askTRP20/06/15 03:00 AM
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I don't see any need to say "I'm kidding". The point is to show you're kidding (and even then, give her some doubt) by the actions you take, for example Agree & Amplify. If she's not responding to a "ballsy" comment I just made, then I DEFINITELY do not follow up by saying I'm kidding. All that's doing is telling her how scared I am that maybe I just fucked up, etc. etc. Women want men to have conviction... to stand by what they say, even if it's just a joke. And if she does respond, and continu…
/r/askTRP17/06/15 02:17 AM
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Yes it gets better with practice. So put yourself out there more. Even if it's just saying whatever is on the top of your mind to a cashier. Every interaction is practice. Then, if after the interaction, you have that gut feeling that something didn't go the way you expected, then you can think about how you might have done things differently. That's what I do and it has worked very well to the point where nowadays I hardly think about it and just maintain the fuck outta that frame. It's become …
/r/askTRP17/06/15 02:14 AM
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Fantastic answer... I hope more people see it. One of the key things you did was set up this dynamic at the beginning (well, beginning of it getting serious). That lets her know right then and there that if she doesn't like it she can leave... and furthermore that if she stays then she can expect you to maintain this boundary for the rest of the relationship. This... as opposed to not setting up this boundary at the beginning and then some months/years down the road you notice she's getting fat …
/r/askTRP15/06/15 10:07 PM
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Not over thinking per se. You're just analyzing something that crossed your mind, nothing wrong with that. I don't see anything blue pill with what you're doing only because you're complimenting her from a position of POWER (i.e. in the middle of you fucking her brains out). If you're getting her crazy wet then keep fucking doing it. I would caution you though not to rely on it every time. Just like every other reward you give her, do it randomly and at some frequency that's not every time. Othe…
/r/askTRP14/06/15 04:28 PM
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/u/Bogartukus, I know what you're going through because I wore your shoes about two years ago and am now on the other side of it, kicking some serious fucking ass. But the ride was not without its perils. I'm 30 right now. I was diagnosed with Stage 2 Hodgkin's lymphoma two years ago completely out of the blue. I had not yet discovered TRP but the first thing I did was tell no one. For three days I just let myself chill. I went to work. No one suspected a thing. I asked myself one question: "Hav…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 12:54 PM
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Tell her to text you. Get her number. But honestly I wouldn't put too much thought to it. Sounds like she just wasn't feeling it. If a woman wants to fuck you, she will let you know. And she will certainly not let her friend cock-block her unless she's really shy (in which case, get her number).
/r/askTRP30/05/15 02:40 AM
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Who cares... who cares what she thinks who cares what her friends think and most importantly, who cares what people in a public domain think. I wouldn't give a fuck. Absolutely none. I certainly would not respond to her insults, or try to defend my reputation in any way. If you don't react to her, people will think she's a whacko. That's it. Do not engage.
/r/askTRP30/05/15 02:36 AM
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Agree 100%. My dog-owning friends know that I will and do discipline their dogs. No dog will be humping my leg I don't care who the fuck the owner is. I never say hello to the dog when first entering the home either. I pretend it doesn't exist, until it's completely calmed down, and then I'll maybe say hello in a calm, relaxed way.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 09:27 PM
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When I first read one of Cesar Millan's books I was amazed at how many parallels there are to interacting with humans, especially women. Great post man. And on the topic of small dogs, every single friend of mine who has a small dog has these problems. It really is unhealthy for the dog. It has been my experience that small breed dogs are often lavished with affection, food and treats for no other reason except that they are small and cute. Dogs do not understand this. In fact it makes them ment…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 03:56 AM
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Wow. I will be using this the next time a woman brings up this "burning car" scenario. Can't wait to see how she tries to hamster that away.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 12:46 PM
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Couldn't agree more. This post is one I'm saving for all my friends that get married. It will help me dig them out of the hole they will inevitably fall into.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 03:31 AM
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Roger that. Thank you for elaborating. It makes sense and I definitely agree that the familial unit should come before a child. The inverse will inevitably break the tribe.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 03:11 AM
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What about in a "burning car" scenario. She only has time to rescue you or your child. Who should she rescue?
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 02:41 AM
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Precisely. That's why they say a man cannot expect his woman to love him like his mother does.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 02:40 AM
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Sickening. But thanks for the analysis. Well written despite it being very long. I read every word of it. My mom always said the same thing growing up, about choosing us over my dad. It explains so many things...
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 01:33 AM
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I went through exactly what you're going through when I was... fuck, I think the same age. It was my third year of college. She dumped me. I cried my heart out, wrote her a long love letter. Still nothing. Fucking ice cold. 6 months later she wanted to get back together but by that time I had seen the light and realized she wasn't for me. Now she was crying her heart out and did so for many months. Even years later she was still hitting me up. But I have 0 regrets. Not getting back together with…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 03:36 AM
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I'm as red as any pill gets, but you are misquoting the article and putting things out of order. She said "no" many, many times. If a woman is telling you "no", repeatedly, then you have to stop. It doesn't get any clearer than that. Read the whole article and some of the comments. She is very consistent in what she's saying and is being very reasonable. Also she never used the word rape. Again, stop misquoting her. Find a better example of a hamster, this is not one.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 03:29 AM
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Fair enough. I'll put the Mens rights flair. But it was refreshing to see a woman of such "fame" stand up for men when most of what I see in TRP (and in the media) is the opposite.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 11:25 PM
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Very similar thing happened to me about 5 years ago, just as cringe-worthy. With her it was all unconscious (she wasn't a dark triad or anything like that). She was actually the most RP woman I've ever met, she just didn't know it. She was trying to figure out why she "fell out of love" with me - well, having swallowed the red pill recently, the answer is obvious. The sick thing about feminism is that most women "fall for it" too... they think to themselves they should want a nice guy, and so th…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 04:14 AM
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I don't understand all the hate on here. You're a grown ass man and decide when and what you want to do (re: condom). Personally, I don't give a fuck. You posted this video to provide us some insight. I certainly got some and I appreciate that and hope you post more in the future. Also, I liked her tits.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 02:52 PM
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I think we're saying the same thing then. It wasn't you getting sick, it was: She already wanted to be done because she has a primary. Also, why are you putting so much weight into her words being "TOTALLY INTO IT" when you say yourself that you always believe behavior over words. What I'm trying to say is that it sounds like she was NOT totally into it just before you got sick. She was already ready to bounce, as you yourself said. She already wanted to be done because she has a primary. She ju…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 10:37 PM
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So what happens when you live with a girl, say in an LTR. What do you do then? You say it was just that, but then you say it was already waning. So again, I fail to see how you getting sick was the only thing that made the sexual aspect of your relationship end. It sounds like that aspect was already ending, and was going to end, regardless of whether you had gotten sick. I do agree though that AWALT, regardless of how consciously RP-aware they are.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 09:52 PM
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I agree with most everything you're saying (certainly your takeaways), but I'm curious about an implication you seem to be making. Are you saying that you should've refused her from visiting you for the entire month that you were sick and "weak"? Was it that you got sick, or how you dealt with being sick, that made her lose interest? Or was it perhaps some other underlying trait of yours and this was just the last straw? I just don't understand how a 2-year relationship could've just gone up in …
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 09:39 PM
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Interesting thoughts. I've certainly been thinking about the family aspect of things the more I read TRP. Trust between the sexes here in the US is already shit. Society doesn't trust men with women or children. But I wonder if we're beginning to see a turning point. At least in the last few months there have been several high-profile cases of rape that turned out to be false. And the false accusation itself got just as much media coverage as the initial accusation.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 03:26 AM
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I suppose it could. Even before it bursts though, the speaker points out the problems in women taking advantage of this law. It's the same problem we have in the US as of late with all these high-profile rape accusations that end up being false. These false accusations (of rape, or adultery, or dowry abuse) make it much harder for women who are actually victims of these crimes to be taken seriously. It's fucked up... but women are doing it to themselves. They'll complain that men are oppressing …
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 02:37 AM
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No I think she was pointing out what society thinks. Remember, she is legitimately defending men. Her point was that she has to provide lots MORE evidence, purely because she's talking about men. She's just pointing out how fucked up the double standard is. She's not trying to enforce it.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 11:15 PM
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Everyone needs to watch this... I'm not even half-way through but here's this gem where the [pro-TRP] female speaker acknowledges the truth about the [feminized, anti-men Western] world we live in: "... I'll have to give a lot of evidence ... because I'm talking about men. When we talk about women we don't really need to give evidence." Here's another gem: "... you can be accused of domestic violence if you shout at your wife, but if she shouts at you there is nothing you can do." Just finished.…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 10:50 PM
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Thanks for this post. I thought I was the only one who disagreed with the other post. Her feeling "betrayed" when you come out and profess your love is just her hamster talking... it's a way to place the blame on you (the man) for wanting sex with her. Of course you shouldn't be professing your love like a bumbling beta in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 02:54 AM
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Agreed... the more I look back on past relationships the more I see simple shit-tests that I was failing left and right. But they were definitely not intentional. They had absolutely no idea they were doing it. They were just being themselves.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 03:25 AM
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I hear ya... I'm just sayin I wouldn't give this bitch the time of day. I mean... this is gonna be a lot of drama sounds like. Lol @ dying fish... hear ya on that too. But try this next time... direct her. Could be with words or just moving her but tell her what you want her to do - doens't have to be 50 shades of bullshit. Could be as simple as, "get on top, put your hands on my chest and ease yourself onto me". Win-win because you'll have better sex, AND because she'll be way more into it and …
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 12:32 AM
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Fuck yea man. And if she pushes you to raw dog her and you don't want to, just say something like "I always use a condom on the first date" or some other playful thing, but stand your ground. I'm sure every girl out there has had at least one partner that couldn't cum with a condom on. And the funny thing is they've probably had several partners that used that as an excuse to just not use a condom haha. So yea they're used to it. And if they aren't/she acts surprised/makes you feel bad in even t…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 11:34 PM
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Why go through so much work for a 6? If I were to put any effort into it, it would be framing her for the bullshit she's pulling but who fucking cares. She's a slut. I'm with Asoka... just tell your bud and forget about this whore. You'll probably catch something from her anyway. Or worse, you'll get her pregnant. Bitches be schemin' yo.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 11:09 PM
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re: not cumming... first things first, you do not want her pregnant so good job on keeping your priorities straight. And an STD would be bad too. Personally I always wrap it with ONS or any woman who doesn't have enough of her own career to worry about that she wouldn't want to get pregnant. There's nothing worse than thinking you may have cummed inside of her and gotten her pregnant and dreading the next 30 days until her next period. Second... it's really not that big a deal if you don't cum w…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 11:05 PM
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Hmm well we were in a Prius so that would've been nearly impossible hah. Nonetheless I could've giver her a look and motioned her into my lap or just said "right here" as I patted my lap.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 10:38 PM
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Hell yea it's my birthright. It's like trying on a new custom-fitted suit. You're not used to how fucking good it feels. Nice suggestion.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 10:37 PM
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I hear ya. I didn't want to make a novel so I tried to just put in a few details. She was indeed flirting with me the whole night. Lots of kino from her, good eye contact, laughing at my jokes, followed my lead, would take my hand when stepping over snow, etc. etc. I certainly don't consider myself an expert. Only when you don't have to think about it can you make that claim. But I definitely agree that I need to start practicing more action-in-the-moment and not over-analyze. Thanks for the fee…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 10:36 PM
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Did you not read the very first sentence? And nothing about this post makes it seem like he's trolling. Trolling for what? He's simply sharing his experiences, where he failed, where he did well so that others can learn from his mistakes.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 08:02 PM
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Holy shit dude... thank you. I understand exactly what you're saying. The second message in particular really resonates. So when you say she can "give in ... shamelessly" I take that to mean that by making her feel safe making innuendos, she'll be encouraged to do it more and more. In a way it's like giving them a platform for them to do their own form of escalation. This will really help put me in a strong, positive mindset for the next time and I'll be able to handle it effortlessly. Thanks ag…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 04:37 AM
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Just followed your link and read. Yes it was me giving up vs. actually failing. But I think it was me giving up because I didn't know what to do. I'm not used to having the opportunity to escalate so quickly. In the past (when I was pure-BP) it took a lot more TIME... I'd be building up the chance to escalate over the course of several meetings, several days, etc. So now that I'm getting into this RP mindset, I'm getting all these new opportunities to escalate with a girl the very same night I m…
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 07:54 PM
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I'm trying to convey the progress I'm making. It helps me when I see other people write about their failures and inaction just as much as it does their triumphs. I'll keep that in mind for future contributions though and focus more on actual results. Thanks for the feedback.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 07:41 PM
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Thanks for the FR. It really helps to hear the details of the dialogue between you and the women. Re: Friday crash-and-burn... I actually chuckled at the "your mom" joke but I'm a man. And yea you were already off on a somewhat bad step with the story about the girls you're seeing because it comes off as trying to get their validation. But still, after their pathetic "small dick" joke I just would've asked them "really? is that all you got? be creative."
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 03:14 AM
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