WarpedHeadspace Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	The only reason women are happier while single than men is because they get validation and sex much easier "we don't have further information on this" It wouldn't be speculation if I had data. But you proceeded to call your speculation statistics	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/21 02:01 PM
2	The phrase “you’re not entitled to sex” How? Is saying "you can't force women to sleep with you?" also putting the blame on women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/21 10:46 AM
3	New Data from the Telegraph indicate that levels of sexlessness among young men are still steadily increasing, just 34% of male University students report being sexually active while studying at University and 43% report never having had sex. I actually think the sexlessness is a good thing, considering I'm more trad in my views (i.e. no to premarital sex). But as for the data. I disagree with you, but the rest of the study might make you happy. https://www.hepi.ac.uk/wp-content/uploads/2021/04/Sex-and-Relationships-Among-Students-Summary-Report.pdf It states only a third of students watch porn (31% all, 43% men, 22% women), one in ten are voluntarily abstaining from sex (11% all, 10% men, 12% women), and around a third has never kis…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/21 12:44 AM
7	Having sex is a mutual benefit for the man and the woman, not just for the man. You don't need to be "top %" to have standards	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/21 10:36 PM
6	Why are men in denial that feminine men do well with women? Aside from OP's point, rappers are hardly the figure of traditional masculinity. They're either fat dudes in baggy clothes, average dudes in baggy clothes, or super colorful and up to their teeth in jewelry. And I'm not even trying to say that Killer Mike or Chance or Tyler the Creator or The Weeknd or Post Malone don't look good, just that they're not the squared jawed ripped demigods people here seem to think is the model of masculinity	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/21 03:32 PM
4	Women of this sub, would you be okay with your bf not finding you pretty but being attracted to your personality and character? Prob reverse of blackpill where everyone's a downer all the time	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/21 11:10 PM
6	The main criterias women use when it comes to selecting a partner for casual sex vs. relationship opposite happens for guys. They have sex with normal girls but only get commitment with sexually appealing girls?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/21 05:12 AM
2	If most men would rather be fuckboys than have LTR, does that mean most men in LTRs are "settling", are not genuinely attracted to their partner, and would leave her instantly if he got ample casual sex opportunities? Pfft, that's a noob speedrun	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/21 01:28 PM
2	The men who had harems were rich and powerful, not merely hot and charming (or AT ALL). Brock Samson. Men send him love letters, women name their vibrators after him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/21 09:14 PM
3	Would women consider a man with a low N-Count more desirable? Did you not read the previous sentence? She said it's the second lowest because of the chance of resentment against women, if that qualifier wasn't there it wouldn't, be so low.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/21 03:50 PM
5	Do you regret "settling" for a man you never truly loved? why would I settle for a shitty job Some people like having food on the table and a roof above their heads, oddly enough	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/21 11:15 PM
1	Highly educated women are more likely to be promiscuous than less educated women, OP's post does have a graph on comparing IQ	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/21 11:49 AM
1	Highly educated women are more likely to be promiscuous than less educated women, To add, from OP's study, it doesn't appear to make a difference on marriage happiness for women, but then again the only options were "Very Happy" and "Not Very Happy" so there's not much nuance to be examined. Top 1% vs 99% Both sit at 61% Very Happy. Top 5% vs 95% A meager difference of 62% vs 64% Very Happy, respectively.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/21 11:41 AM
2	Highly educated women are more likely to be promiscuous than less educated women, The other interesting part is that, among the educated categories, the only education level where men are more promiscuous than women are less then high school education. Sorry, but it is not really fair to say women are more promiscuous than men in these categories given it is comparing women with 16+ partners and men with 50+ partners (top 5 percentile for each). What's interesting to me is table 1, where the only time number of lifetime sexual partners is higher for women than men is in the b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/21 11:34 AM
7	Prenups are completely reasonable I don't get why it's laughable tho. Even if its not all that, losing housing can be just as devastating to a lower income person as losing their business or inheritance to someone better off, so why should that not be as acceptable?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/21 10:42 PM
4	Are women attracted to more feminine men? If so, why? No hard and fast rules. Will always depend on ehat's the culture around you. Look at the beauty standards for Asians: they prefer sleek, cute, more androgynous men, with a flashier fashion. Think K-Pop and J-Pop stars, those anime-looking boys, etc. Even with the different tropes they have for looks, they're all "more feminine" compared to American standards, for example.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/20 02:36 AM
3	Are women less visually attracted to men? From what I can tell from hearing people on hrt, yes, that's true and a hormonal trait. Obviously there'll be variance on any population, but in general men have more testosterone, which in sexual attraction is associated with visual stimulus. Women will have varying levels of estrogens, testosterone and progesterone, which will affect how much, how intense and how the sexual desire is expressed (not respectively), and while individuals taking e for hormonal treatment report that it changes thei…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/20 08:00 PM
5	Do you think misandry is rising in our society? Do you think that a lot of the hate out there makes a great deal of men feel ashamed of their masculinity? How do you teach someone something out of their control? That's just teaching to ignore and play along with a problem if you see it	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/20 01:55 PM
1	Do you think misandry is rising in our society? Do you think that a lot of the hate out there makes a great deal of men feel ashamed of their masculinity? But then it's not should, it's expected. There's a difference, if you express that's what should be, then you are also taking part in setting that the idealized expectation is actually true, in "telling this to others".	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/20 01:45 PM
3	Why do sexual fantasies seem to deeply follow gender norms? Not really, it's not an expected rule to be followed, more of a "this can happen too". Expect all kinda of backgrounds for male/female subs/doms, but of course there's the self-selection that the men who can pay foi r a domme will be successful in their careers, and the contrast sticks more in the mind.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/20 02:24 PM
2	Not everything has to be sexy Dude, you're just full-on lying about something that from the sounds of it you never even read, because it's not even a conclusion of the book that "opening up to women is a mistake" (it's not even focused on romantic relationships), and the way you've been describing vulnerability is diametrically opposed to how the author does in the first fucking chapter. Even the name is based on Roosevelt's "Arena Man" speech. In case you didn't catch it, it's the "man in the arena whose face is marred by d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/20 09:52 PM
1	Not everything has to be sexy How it was conducted, the methodology, that'd be a great start. How each term is defined within the study, how attraction and vulnerability were measured, the data that led to the conclusions... because what you're doing is giving a conclusion without any framework, citing work that does not even support you conclusion as evidence. It's just hot air, there's not even anything resembling a discussion. And the work is also misrepresented. It's qualitative research based on Glaser's Grounded Theory…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/20 06:41 PM
1	As many American men report being "forced to penetrate" each year as women report being raped Ah ok, was tryin to make sense of that	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/20 10:12 PM
2	As many American men report being "forced to penetrate" each year as women report being raped Why are you assuming it says anything about women's choices? The definition of "being made to penetrate" in the study is followed by: It also includes female perpetrators attempting to force male victims to penetrate them, though it did not happen. Edit: Later on it reports 79% of "being made to penetrate" reports reporting a female perpetrator. Now this is confusing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/20 09:22 PM
3	Why do men gravitate towards the Red Pill? Can confirm this is how I was exposed to RP many moons ago. Would probably have fell down the rabbithole if it weren't for my circle of friends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/20 12:32 PM
1	"I have a job, a house, and a fine group of friends and family. But I'm willing to throw all of that away if it meant I could be a guy who can get constant endless casual sex on demand." Is this a rational thought? What, do single men work harder than committed men as a rule?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/20 05:44 AM
1	CMV: Men here ought to focus on not being in the bottom 20% before they focus on being in the top 20% 1% is exponentially higher than 0.000001% though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/20 01:56 PM
1	CMV: Men here ought to focus on not being in the bottom 20% before they focus on being in the top 20% I was with you until you mentioned living on your own. It's 2020, most millenials/gen z couldn't afford housing on a single income before covid recession, now it's an even bigger struggle to find new non-gig jobs. I don't live in the US and don't live the situation there, but it doesn't sound immensely better. When I was doing my master's, I had to share a house. I knew post-doc students who shared housing. Fuck, my boss works two jobs making 5 figure total and just recently moved out of his par…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/20 01:53 PM
0	Researchers predict reversion to traditional gender norms, women increasingly sexualizing themselves due to increased economic inequality, and other changes due to impact of pandemic Dude, COYOTE has been around at least two decades before third wave feminism, and has been supported by NOW since the beggining, which is about as classicaly feminist an org as you can get. This is not an older vs newer generation issue, that's not what the debate boils down to. postmodernists (who were all literal paedophiles) Also lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/20 01:04 PM
4	"Evo psych" is badly used by redpillers to rationalize their preexistings beliefs. See, this is a great example of misunderstanding science. Because while it is correct to say that attraction standards change through time and culture, something you're "programmed to" wouldn't, by definition. And neither would innate biology (in such a short span without great external pressure) such as what signals fertility. Which is again misunderstood. This is well documented that across primate species the universal signs of fertility are age, parity, and sexual swellings. We are unique in…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/20 05:13 PM
2	What is the "bluepill" advice on dating for men? I guess this is a key difference then. I'd see acting respectfully as the default with disrespect being earned, rather than the other way around.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/20 01:59 PM
2	Hypocrites all around the shop He'd take them into account when handling whichever outcome	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/20 06:29 PM
1	How do women treat their casual sexual partners better then their bfs? So its been more than a day. Actually had the papers by the time you asked but not really much time for a write-up. Still don't really, but I supposed something is better thannothing. So Mark and Lasslo (2018) has a systematic review of 64 peer-reviewed articles regarding sexual desire in long-term relationships. It summarizes what has and hasn't been researched, general consensus and divergent conclusions, the whole shebang. It sort of spearheads the future of sexual desire, as it is customary …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/20 12:43 AM
1	How do women treat their casual sexual partners better then their bfs? Do you have access to journals? I don't have access with me right now. sci-hub.se, (if its down try .tw or .sw) you can access most articles that have a digital object identifier (doi), which is most papers past the 90s (though some journals have protections nowadays), through copying and pasting that on that site's "search bar". I'll research this a little bit before commenting on the matter, should be about a day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/20 11:30 PM
1	Thoughts? Diminishing outgoing social activity, which leads to less exposition to the opposite sex irl. It's interesting to note that the increasing trend towards youth not having had sex in the last year is general, ie. affected both men and women, but more men. Except for college campuses, in which it doesn't happen. The rise in sexual inactivity was driven primarily by those who did not attend college, and thus missed the hookup culture of many college campuses. However, sexual inactivity among those w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/20 09:18 PM