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I'm really cynical about orbiters because I have had very negative experiences with them before. I think young girls are too afraid to just say look 'leave me alone, I'm never going to have sex with you' because they are afraid of appearing rude. What these guys do is what I call trying to 'nice guy' their way into your pants. They don't care about you, as a friend, they want sex. They are not nice, they are acting nice because they think that's how they will get into your pants. The guy who sle…
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/16 11:29 PM
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It's not fat logic, it's true. Your body needs nutrition, you can eat crap and still be starving your body. It's how I eat and my BMI is 20.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/15 07:19 PM
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This is gonna sound harsh but it comes from a good place in my heart. He's said he doesn't want to put up with disordered eating his whole life, don't say to him that it will improve and you will recover - show him. Before marrying him, before finding a new guy, before anything THIS should be your priority, recovery. I've had bipolar disorder since I was a teenager and obviously that's incurable, but if you manage it well it can be almost symptomless. It would be selfish of me to expect a man to…
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/15 10:04 AM
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That sounds right up my alley.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/15 01:40 AM
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Yeah I speak it but I'm not so good at writing at all and reading and listening is easier for me. I sometimes struggle with pronunciation. It's not really an easy language to learn. The good thing is it has far less words than English. They tend to use the same words for many different situations.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/15 01:40 AM
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Dutch towns are so cute though. You'll love it. I got really home sick when I lived abroad so try and make new friends as soon as you get there.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/15 12:04 AM
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I used to live there :D where abouts? I lived in Arnhem.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/15 11:51 PM
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Where are you moving to?
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/15 11:36 PM
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I'm a house wife mostly so I'm not so good at advising how to make a man feel good on a tight schedule, but it takes me less than half an hour to prepare a roast dinner and fresh baked bread and then half an hour each to bake. He loves coming home to hot food and has no idea how quickly I do it. All you do is rub chicken/fish/whatever in some fresh herbs, lemon juice and rock salt chop up some veg and throw them all in a pan and roast them for 30 min or stick them under the grill. You can add wh…
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/15 11:34 PM
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If you're already thin women bigger than you will get offended if you go on a diet. I get the concerned looks too. By the by I find it's not how many calories I eat but what I eat. If you only eat fruit and vegetables and eat 2000 calories that's better than having a can of Coke, a sandwich and a chocolate bar that's only 1,500 calories. Nuts etc are high in fat and calories but good for you and dont make you produce fat like some carbs will. The documentary on Netflix 'fed up' is pretty good to…
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/15 11:20 PM
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They've grown up so privileged and bored that they see victim hood as exotic.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 09:03 AM
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Trying to speak out against feminism as an 'oppressed woman' is close to impossible. Whatever I say, they think I am a victim who is SO victimised that I have some kind of stock holm syndrome against men. Whenever the media talks about RPW it's 'poor them, they're so brainwashed and abused.' If I speak out against any kind of sjw related issue I get 'you've been brainwashed by right wing media/the patriarchy/your husband, you can't possibly have that opinion for yourself.' Ironically feminists a…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 11:46 PM
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I'm not a huge dress person anymore. I wear them when we go on a night out but rarely in the day time nowadays. What I try and avoid is jeans and tshirts. There is a modern uniform of jeans and t shirts and everyone ends up looking the same. Just try making a rule of no jeans, and if you do get jeans, not blue jeans and see what happens. Coco Chanel is my style inspiration and she was the person who got women into more comfy, male style clothes. But she still looks feminine and sexy. Instead of …
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/15 09:25 AM
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I have a male orientated hobby and I don't think you should quit music. Whilst there are more men in my hobby than women, I do think that the women who excel at my hobby are excellent. I think I add different qualities to my work that a man couldn't add and they add things that I can't add. I also feel like it is harder to be taken seriously on the technical side of things and I often get men who are new starters to the hobby giving me unwanted advice and assuming I know nothing. My work is view…
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/15 08:59 PM
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It sounds like you were so worried about talking too much about what you do that you changed the subject too quickly and it looked suspicious. I am giggling a little bit that they felt suspicious about it, maybe they thought you were a criminal mastermind or tax evader. If people are genuinely interested in what you do, then talk about it. I think the red pill advice is generally not to use your job to impress people and think it will make up for your other failings. Men are naturally going to b…
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/15 08:54 PM
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My husband has a bad temper, once he starts getting mad it ramps up until he ends up saying things he doesn't mean and being quite mean in general. He always is incredibly remorseful afterwards, but I just try and avoid him when he's like that. I go to my mothers! He usually calms down on his own. We never argue or bicker, our fights are usually alcohol induced.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/15 08:51 PM
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Discipline only really works when you have authority over someone. When I discipline my employees, they grow resentful of me but ultimately I am in charge of them and they need to change their behaviour to please me. If I try and discipline my boss or co workers it does not have the same effect, it only creates tension. At least you've realised your mistake. As my dad says, 'you catch more flies with honey than with vinegar.'
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/15 07:47 PM
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My dad was the same, but with my femininity. I think he wanted me to be a boy. Nice try stopping biology Dad :D
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/15 04:20 PM
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I don't see why not.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/15 01:42 PM
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I hear guys say quite a lot that they like the idea of girls having male hobbies and find the idea of a girl skateboarder, girl boxer or whatever sexy. But that in reality they're always very masculine. I have 'guy' hobbies I guess. I think you should keep your hobbies because they're a big part of what gives you character and passion. They aren't making you masculine. There are plenty of feminine hunters. (Hunting personally makes me feel sad :( so I won't Google any pictures to try prove my po…
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/15 07:46 AM
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Here I am being a terrible moral example again.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/15 12:43 AM
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I send my husband pics or voicemails to keep him company at work.
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/15 09:13 PM
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Good theory.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/15 08:49 PM
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I can't think of anything I would send that's not rude.
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/15 11:15 AM
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She gets her child support, that's all she's getting. Your husband has no further obligation to her outside of that. She'll be expecting more money, more hours from him etc because she is entitled and expects him to support her. She is willing to degrade herself by cleaning her exes new girlfriends toilet, she has no pride and will have no problem asking for money.
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/15 11:14 AM
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It's a vicious cycle. Masculinised women don't make men feel like men, so they start acting more feminine, when men act more feminine women have to step up and be the man. There will always need to be a male/female balance in relationships - even homosexual ones. That's why we see girls here in the red pill asking for help because their boyfriends are too feminine, when they've given them no space to be a man. Women want to be the man in the relationship but then get mad when their boyfriend bec…
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/15 11:11 AM
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Kids play is basically refining the skills they'll need as an adult. Pre-civilisation men would have spent most of their time hunting and fighting off other men. Women would be pregnant almost constantly. So men practice fighting as a kid and girls practice giving birth and breast feeding which is equally weird. It's also normal for little girls to practice the odd but of fighting. They love covertly attacking their dad. Give a 3 year old girl a baby doll and she'll put it up her top and start n…
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/15 11:03 AM
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I was in this situation with my usually successful and driven husband 6 months ago. The way I see it I am his cheer leader. I support him with what he needs to accomplish his goals, encourage him when he's down and I praise him when he's up. When he was doing badly I'd ask him 'so how was your day, apply for any cool jobs?' And if he hadn't I'd just react normally, 'oh well keep trying I'm sure you'll find something.' Now he's doing better he gets a lot of praise from me, physical and everything…
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/15 10:54 PM
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My husband appears to beat the crap out of his sons when they're playing, but they love it for some reason! Boys huh?
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/15 10:39 PM
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It's quite recognised on the 'trying to conceive' circuit that female orgasm encourages pregnancy (but is not essential) you're right. The contractions supposedly sort of suck up semen into the womb. There isn't a difference between whether the orgasm is caused by vaginal or clitoral stimulation.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/15 10:37 PM
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You need to give boys a lot of space from an early age to do their thing. They're gonna get dirty, there will be fist fights, there will be broken arms. Let them confront their own bullies, tidy their own rooms and build their own dangerously constructed dens.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/15 10:49 AM
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Funnily enough I have read this this same week. I have always considered my IQ to be quite low as I have 'specific learning difficulties' - -120. If anyone is dumber than me then god damn :/
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 11:27 PM
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One of the biggest flaws in humanity is that we seek an echo chamber of an opinion. We only read things that strengthen our own opinions. The fact that you have seeked an alternative opinion deserves an enormous respect in my eyes. You are welcome to contact me anytime, from a feminist perspective or anything else.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/15 11:25 PM
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I'll have to read it, thanks.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/15 09:50 PM
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If they're bitching about other people they pretend to like when they're not around there is a high risk they'll be bitching about you when you're not around.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/15 08:52 PM
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I don't have any advice for your relationship. I just wanted to say that it's normal for your political and ideological beliefs to radically change when you're in your twenties. Going from mid to late twenties is one of the most radical transformations you could make. I was incredibly liberal in my early twenties while I was at university. Then I started working for a global company and felt very disillusioned when I walked to get lunch on my lunch break and saw people protesting 'the 99%' thing…
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/15 08:09 PM
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Light bulbs is what I'm here for :D
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/15 04:53 PM
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There have been curfews in my city since I was about 15. In my particular area there are no curfews since its 2 minutes out of the city centre. I love my city and I'm proud of where I live, I just wish people who have no experience of the area would stop speaking on our behalf and make decisions for us. Rich college students claim to be in touch with working class cities and minorities but they have no idea. They 'don't know they're born' as we say here. The older men where I live are so tough, …
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 04:46 PM
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Genius.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/15 07:20 PM
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When I was about 23 I was hell bent on success because I felt like people were watching me. I worked harder than I needed to or wanted to because of it. They aren't watching or looking in on me, they don't care. They have their own lives to live and people from ten years ago absolutely don't give a crap what I'm doing now. They probably don't even know if I'm dead or alive. Live your life for yourself and not your perceived onlookers. Do what makes you happy, not what makes you look happy.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/15 07:17 PM
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I am married to someone who has kids that aren't mine. He had his kids very very young and they were 'unexpected'. Yeah he was stupid, but very young people sometimes are. I don't have much to do with his kids mum. She doesn't like me at all. I don't often deal with her. My husbands financial obligations to her are minor and end in February. I personally wouldn't date someone who had a child younger than 7 or had recently gotten out of a relationship with his kids mum. My husband had been split …
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/15 07:12 PM
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I did great at my career, but now I'm retired to have babies. I think when If start to get bored and un satisfied, maybe when my kids are in school I will go back to working. But probably part time. Working is fun!
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/15 07:06 PM
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I hope so :) hopefully it will be the house where I have my first baby.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/15 06:59 PM
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Lead by example. My parents have taught me a lot growing up and now I am also teaching them. People only learn from experiences of themselves or others. Also your parents relationship is none of your concern. They are both adults. My mom earns a lot more money than my dad and my dad feels like shit about it. I don't do anything or say anything I just listen to my mom when she wants to talk about it.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/15 06:57 PM
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Call me old fashioned, but I think love is a huge component in a relationship. I've been in relationships with men who are more than suitable, but I didn't love them and I became very unhappy. I think you should go for the guy you have strong feelings for. It's not just in your mind, it's part of your biochemistry and what your body is telling you.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/15 05:55 PM
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Kinda liking all white https://www.pinterest.com/pin/189291990565926580/ https://www.pinterest.com/pin/189291990565818932/
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/15 05:27 PM
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I don't think I'll be planning anything too fancy other than recipes for my house warming party and colour schemes. I don't know how the bloggers on Pinterest manage to keep such a beautiful family and still have the ability to do perfect craft projects. I can sew and knit, that's about it!
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/15 04:55 PM
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Oh I so will! My landlord is painting the whole thing for me whatever colours I want. I'm going mad on Pinterest. My husband can't seem to understand why this is exciting.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/15 03:55 PM
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I read everything there is to read about abusers and their mentality. I learnt that I was a target for the people who hurt me and that they spotted me out in a crowd and began a process of slowly escalating mind tricks to control me. I learnt it was always going to be me that it happened to. Now I am designed to spot these people as soon as I meet them, I can assess their character quickly and I know how to respond as soon as they bring on their shit. I don't know if there is something inside me…
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/15 03:48 PM
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You wouldn't believe how many guys on my Facebook (I'm a female in the UK) have written posts basically apologising for Islam and saying 'not all Muslims were like that' or 'the Syrian passport was probably planted on him' or my personal fave 'this is our fault, we have caused this and have no right to be upset when thousands of Syrian children are dead.' I was really shocked that before the bodies had even gone cold liberals were posting 'but Muslims are the real victims in this, they are going…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/15 02:29 PM
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Guys need man time with their buddies. If my husband is going out with his friends, I don't go because there is nothing worse than the guy who takes his girl everywhere. Men act very differently when they're alone, they fart in front of each other and all kinds of gross stuff. If he doesn't have time away from you your relationship will not work. Plan your own thing with your female friends. Then, organise a night out with mixed genders and other couples and devise a set plan for the night so th…
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/15 01:58 PM
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If it were me I'd move on, I couldn't respect a guy who knew that I'd slept with other guys and was still with me. I'd make a promise with myself to never ever do it again and remind myself every time I felt tempted how much it has screwed up a perfectly good relationship before. But you're not me, you're you.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/15 01:53 PM
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Just want to show off that I'm having my first Christmas in my brand new house! :D so excited to make it special.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/15 01:51 PM
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I find talking about our previous love affairs to be a hilarious topic. Boy does he have some funny stories. If you're in love you'll probably both have the same mentality that they just 'hadn't found you' yet. It's normal to talk about, just never, ever mention other men's penis'.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/15 01:50 PM
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I'll never understand why feminists don't realise that women already have power over men, maybe they just don't know how to use it. You have power over your man, it just doesn't look like power because it isn't wearing the same suit and boots as male power. I think my husband would do anything I asked him to do, he will go wherever I want to go and support me in any of my dreams. He always listens to my opinions, no matter how radical and stupid they may be. Everything he does is to make me happ…
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/15 01:48 PM
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You are not hitting the wall you are still a baby. I'm 29 and I still have no grey hairs or wrinkles, I'm still in shape. Not everyone ages fast. I didn't get married until I was 28 and I wouldn't have it any other way because I personally, didn't grow to know what I truly wanted from a relationship until I was more mature. It's best to settle down as soon as you can, but if you rush it you'll end up settling for someone you don't really love and will end up getting divorced when you're 40. Work…
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/15 01:39 PM
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Yes a big step of losing your victim mentality is accepting accountability. It's hard for most because if you apply it to the little things 'Yes my hair dresser did a terrible job, but I was rushing her' you have to apply it to the big things too 'I could have left my abusive relationship whenever I wanted, but I chose to stay and put my life in danger.' While people are burying away the big things they haven't dealt with they will lose accountability for all things, no matter how small.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/15 01:35 PM
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It's normal to think any kind of abuse was your fault. It's a survival mechanism. Even in earthquakes and hurricanes people blame themselves. It's because it's hard to accept you were vulnerable and what happened could have happened to any body. If you don't blame yourself the world suddenly becomes a very unfair and hostile place. You will get past this in time.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/15 01:32 PM
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I grew up with the victim mentality to end all victim mentalities. I grew up with actual problems and my life was very difficult. I have a victim story that would probably go down pretty well on twoxchromasomes. It's been really hard for me to recover and I feel like the biggest part of recovery for me was getting rid of my victim complex. When I felt like I was a victim I felt like the world was totally out of control and I had no say in how my life went. Now, a lot of the things that have happ…
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/15 01:30 PM
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Sorry to be a planner nerd here but there are really cute planner tutorials on YouTube.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/15 01:17 PM
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Different perspective here but I have a step son who is 18, I'm 29. Been his step mother since he was 15 and I was 26. So it's a little different. But I see myself as a mother figure to him and I treat him like how I would my own kids. I don't tolerate any disrespectful behaviour or swearing from him. I push him quite heavily in his education as he has motivation problems. I am trying to get him to understand why he shouldn't smoke weed. I am definitely not a sister or friend figure to him. I am…
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/15 12:28 PM
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I live in a family of gypsy origin and my family are crazy about finding stuff in thrift stores, or in skips, or dumpsters. I have no idea how they find this stuff but it's always worth hundreds of pounds. Some of my fave gifts from them; - every issue of 'the face' magazine - soft feather Pom poms on a stick that women used to use as a powder brush before plastic was invented. - maybel lucie atwell hand painted teapot - the first plastic cutlery set released in the UK - a Mercury barometer - wo…
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/15 10:07 AM
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I don't have any recommendations - pretty much ANY subliminal messaging works on me :') I usually just search for them on YouTube and see what I like. You can find all sorts. Some encourage lucid dreaming which is pretty amazing! There is only one brand of Epsom salts where I live, you buy it from this old lady shop for cheap. I saw in a chain vitamin store that you can buy magnesium in a spray. Sometimes when I'm having a stressy or anxious day all I need to do is eat some oily fish or take an …
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/15 09:59 AM
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Bath in Epsom salts. It has magnesium in it which you can absorb through your skin which is good for anxiety. You can also use it in a foot bath. I like to read at night, or listen to meditation tapes. If you fall asleep listening to them, the message still gets through. I cured myself of anxiety by listening to hypnosis tapes, even though I had had anxiety and ocd from being a child.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/15 12:53 AM
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Being a mother will not automatically make you less selfish either. There are plenty of selfish mothers around.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/15 07:13 PM
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I'm english too
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/15 09:24 PM
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Whilst I've always been very social and my husband and I still go out for a meal and then partying afterwards, I do have hobbies. I don't come across many women who are as INTO their hobbies to such an extreme level, but they do exist! Guys growing up in the UK are usually into football, skating, bmx, bands etc and the girls don't do much. When I was a young girl I didn't really do much. It took a long time for me to find something I was passionate about. A lot of women I know seem to have soap …
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/15 11:18 PM
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Following all you ladies
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/15 06:02 PM
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Just wanted to say that joining a mans pre-existing family gets easier. When I first met my husband, his kids were a priority over me. Now I'm his wife, we have a relationship just like any other husband and wife with kids. Our relationship is number 1, the kids come second. You cannot raise kids well in an unstable relationship. We're trying to conceive our own kid now and I intend to always put him first. Just accept that he will still put his kids before you until you are an integrated member…
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/15 05:57 PM
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Yeah it's possible to stay confident after the wall. The women in my family are very confident and dress well, look good well into their 60's. I find the older I get, the more whole I get. I also feel like I am more attractive at 29 than I was at 19. Mostly because I was completely crazy when I was 19. I just feel more relaxed every year and every year I feel like my looks matter to me less. Being the hot girl in the club isn't a priority to me anymore and the only persons opinion I care about i…
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/15 05:13 PM
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I have never experienced this type of isolation, but it sounds very worrying and I hope that you are safe and not under too much stress from fear of being kicked out. I would hate for you to be made homeless, are there steps you can take to prevent this? Maybe someone at your college you can talk to? I'm unsure of what is available in your country. Yes masturbation, arousal and desire are normal. Id say when you first discover masturbation, once a day is perfectly normal. You may find you get bo…
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/15 11:20 PM
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I think you can be a recovered drug addict/ ex dealer but you can't be a recovered promiscuous woman. People just don't see it that way. Once people know how many people you've slept with, that's how they see you. I would see my husband differently if he had slept with something like 50+ women. I asked him if my sexual history matters to him and he said 'no'. I said 'but what if I'd slept with dozens of men?' And he said 'yeah that would be gross.' So my sexual history only doesn't matter if it'…
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/15 10:34 PM
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I'm glad you found happiness. Congratulations.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/15 10:13 PM
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In my experience the only girls who write 'full time mummy' on their facebooks are the girls who never got a job after leaving school and went directly onto the benefit system/single mother hood. I intend to be a stay at home mum, but I don't think I would describe it at a job. I see being a mother as something I want to do and my husband wants me to do but isn't something society should give me a pat on the back for.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/15 10:10 PM
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I am a very spoilt lucky girl at the moment getting everything I want. The chain I'm in to move house is moving TWO MONTHS faster than expected. Yet I am still totally impatient that I'm not already there! Me and my husband are also going to start planning for baby this month, but again, I am worrying about things going wrong before they've even started. I have also been quite resentful about my husband getting drunk and aggressive with me. His mother has died recently and he has been getting qu…
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/15 10:01 PM
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I am also a step mom. I find that because my husband only gets allocated dad time and does not get to see his kid all that often as he would like he tends to go soft on his kid if it is a little issue. It's very important to him that his kid does not hate spending time with him because of a bitchy step mother. My husband has horrible memories of his step mother and is very grateful that his sons loves me. However, when there is discipline needed to be done I help out. I have a weed smoking teena…
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/15 09:47 PM
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My husband also has a dangerous hobby. I spend way more time worrying about him dying than him cheating on me. He came home the other day with a broken rib and now I have to make him promise not to break anything when he goes out. I thought I was the only one with this!
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/15 09:41 PM
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I write down everything! I write down every day what I am grateful for but also what is bugging me. Usually what is making me really mad today I will have forgotten about in two weeks. I have only learnt this from writing stuff down, re-reading it a month later and realising not only have I totally forgotten about what I was mad about, I am no longer angry about it. Now when I get angry about something I think to myself 'will I still be angry about this next week?' If the answer is no, I just sh…
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/15 09:38 PM
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Agreed blow jobs and snacks when he gets home.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/15 09:33 PM
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I have also been in your situation of having a difficult past. Last year I got therapy, which helped a lot. I get it for free though because health care in my country is free. More helpful than the therapy for me was reading books about over coming difficult child hoods and journalling a lot. When I was ready I told my husband what I had been through and was working on and it was very cathartic to tell him and have his support. I am here if you'd like further advice or someone to talk to. I have…
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/15 09:31 PM
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Girl, I've also felt like I would be alone forever. When I was 26 I had completely given up on my dream of being a wife and mother. It just didn't seem realistic. I had gotten into relationships with a guy who wouldn't propose (he has proposed to his new gf) a secret drug dealer (I didn't find out until 6 months in!!!) and someone I plain didn't love. I had settled on the fact that I would be living alone in my tiny flat for the rest of my life, my career was going excellently even though I have…
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/15 09:20 PM
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Maybe I'm boring but I really just like to cook for my friends. I sometimes get other people to bring stuff too, my friend is Mexican which is super rare here so I love trying her home cooked tacos!
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/15 08:52 PM
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Here in the UK we tend to travel quite widely (Europe is close and easy accessible and our country can fit into Texas ten times). It's even quite common to work or study abroad. I worked as a fashion designer abroad fora year when I was 19 and it was a good opportunity to grow up and learn another language. I lived with my dutch family so between that and work there was no time for boys! However, in my country 'girls holidays' are also common and tend to be to destinations like Magaluf (aka shag…
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/15 08:50 PM
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I'm not experienced enough in marriage to give advice, I just wanted to say I am sorry this has happened and I hope you get it worked out.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/15 08:25 PM
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I went on a massage course, so now I can give my husband a full body massage or reflexology when he is stressed (which is all the time). I even have a massage table to do it on and invested in nice essential oils (which are also very relaxing. Giving him a hot bath with Epsom salts in is good for stress too, magnesium helps make people feel relaxed.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/15 08:57 PM
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Girl, don't let him mess you around like this, he probably hasn't even left his wife. Whilst the fertility advice given here is inaccurate and a bit severe, 26 is the time in your life to really think about getting serious with someone (if you're going to do it at all). Met my boyfriend at 26, got proposed to a year later, married a year after that. Now we're moving into our first house together in January and planning kids in 2016. I'm 29 on Wednesday, this has taken 3 years and that's with a f…
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/15 07:30 PM
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Sounds like my parents, although my parents are alcoholics. My dad will get the face on over nothing as well. It totally screwed me up being around it, my first relationship was incredibly abusive as that's what I thought was 'normal'. I have had to work 10x harder than a regular person just to be a relatively functional member of society. I have done a lot of work on myself to fix my parents mistakes. I am hoping to start a family in the next few months. I am an only daughter and I am close to …
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/15 07:22 PM
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I'm confused as OP claims to be a guy in a post he made in TRP.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/15 05:05 PM
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How do you feel entitled? What do you feel entitled to?
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/15 11:34 AM
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It's also a big detractor from improving on yourself. Using your mental illness as an excuse is a slippery slope! Finding someone to look up to who has your mental illness is a good start to being the best version of yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/15 11:33 AM
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Depending on your mans taste, Thai food is super quick and easy to cook.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/15 11:08 AM
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Jealousy is the most toxic and un attractive emotion. I have no advice for you unfortunately but I can say that your fears of your man flirting or having a female friend are worse in your head than they are in reality. My husband has 2 female friends, they have both been extremely helpful in his career. They are supportive and will tirelessly try and help him find new jobs (he's freelance). I know that one of his female friends used to have a BIG crush on him. So what? She still watched me walk …
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/15 11:06 AM
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I'm in exactly the same situation. My step son is exactly the same age as yours. Our baby momma has consistently neglected my stepson and spent all her child allowance on herself (on drugs and alcohol). She makes him buy groceries with the money he earns working in a bar. He comes to me for home cooked food and support and advice on his life. She is forcing him into full time education (he is not academic at all, he failed all his GCSEs, he wants to work out doors as a groundskeeper like his gra…
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/15 10:53 AM
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This reminds me of http://youtu.be/qy8LuAOtGC0
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/15 12:36 PM
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It's never a good idea to put a guy through too many tests. If a man was making me jump through hoops and vetting me to see if I'm good enough for him I would wave bub bye
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/15 12:26 PM
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I'm not sure because there are entitled women who have a very low SMV. Entitlement doesn't just stop at sex, there are entitled people who feel like they deserve more money at work, or more benefits, for doing nothing. They tend to be the same people who feel like they 'deserve' a man who's going to put up with their bullshit, raise their kids, financially support them and be super hot.
/r/askTRP29/09/15 12:17 PM
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I take on interns in my business so maybe I can help a little. When I receive an internship from a college student I can always tell because their language is so formal and composed in a way that high school teachers advise. If I receive an email from anyone else, a colleague, a recruiter or a client it's worded in a much more relaxed and informal manner. Speak to your future boss as an equal and they are more inclined to treat you like one. In my industry, buying people a coffee or lunch is a g…
/r/askTRP29/09/15 12:11 PM
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Why would you want to 'handle' someone when you could just enjoy their company? Sounds like she is a nightmare and knows it.
/r/askTRP29/09/15 11:56 AM
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I read for whoever wants me to read, sometimes I do it at parties, or for charity. I am pretty specific so people tend to get a bit spooked! I can't really explain how it works either, but people seem to get stuff out of it!
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/15 11:50 AM
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I actually found it to be not a big deal at all that he has a kid, especially as it's an older kid and he hasn't been with his mum for 15 years. I enjoy being a parent of sorts to my stepson, you're right it is easier taking on other peoples kids as a woman. Being a step parent is a unique role, he can talk to me about things he can't talk to his parents about. He has relationship issues at the moment (he is dating a girl who is basically his mother). I'm sure you will have no problems in your o…
/r/askTRP29/09/15 11:48 AM
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I do photography and drawing. I even have exhibitions etc I do journalling and scrapbooking, my husband takes no notice but I like to do it for our future kids to look at. I'm not sure if it's a hobby but I enjoy holistic therapy. I like doing massage, reiki etc for my family and friends. I also read tarot cards (!) gypsy heritage I'm afraid.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/15 06:11 PM
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Behind every successful man is a strong woman! My husband is also out of work, but has started picking up excellent freelance jobs. At first he was depressed/drinking but I started asking him how his job hunt went each day instead of pressuring him. It gave him some motivation but he didn't feel nagged (I don't think). I got super excited and happy each time he applied for something/got good feedback. I am a cheer leader for my husband, not his boss. Glad it worked for you.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/15 12:40 PM
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This is cute. I recommend Pinterest for researching easy recipes. They have some amazing stuff on there and just because something is easy does not make it no good.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/15 12:34 PM
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True, my husband is a natural alpha. Ive been out with a beta guy in the past and I have absolutely no idea how I would make him more dominant.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/15 12:19 PM
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If you find a solution, I'd be really interested to know it. My stepson is 17 I'm 28f and my husband is 37m. He had the kid when he was about 18, got totally trapped into it. Single/teen mothers have a tendency to victimise and martyr themselves for having a baby. His mother thinks she deserves certain things that she's missed out on, like holidays and partying. Who's paying for that? Not her, she earns 5k a year which the government pay heavy contributions towards to match it up to living wage.…
/r/askTRP25/09/15 11:48 AM
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I can't speak for everybody's husband but being friends with my husbands friends wives and girlfriends has definitely brought their group together. If anything, it keeps the ladies occupied while their boyfriends go out. Otherwise he gets the excuse 'oh me and my girlfriend are staying in tonight' read: 'I'm not allowed to go out tonight'. My husband is really terrible at keeping in touch with people so I am basically his social PA. People have recommended him for great jobs and stuff and he for…
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/15 09:39 PM
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I personally incorporate my sex life with my spirituality. Understanding the powerful energy you get from sex and the way it changes everything about you is a good incentive to do it. I read a lot of books that teach me how honour and preserve myself as my husbands sexual partner (can't explain the right word for it) which includes treating my body like a temple and also indulging myself. I also do exercises that involve nudity and affection without leading up to sex. Mixing spirituality with se…
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/15 05:00 PM
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When we all lived in tribes women would all spend the day together looking after babies and picking berries or whatever. To keep predators away and to make sure no one had got plucked off, it was essential for survival to make sure everyone was constantly chatting (loud and scary) and keeping an eye on what everyone was doing. Don't feel bad about wanting to talk all the time, it's in your nature. The worst thing a woman can do to another woman is to stop talking to her, and get the group to sto…
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/15 11:25 AM
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In England, women are afraid to date Asian men (imo) because they think they're going to be too domineering or force their culture and religion onto their woman. Sometimes girls get worried they are going to get trapped into an abusive and backwards relationship that they aren't happy with. Or they worry that the guy is messing around with 'white slags' until they settle down with a nice Indian/Pakistani girl that their mum approves of. Ive dated an Asian guy and he was very hot. I was attracted…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/15 12:15 AM
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I like big arms, big chest and tall men. I like men who are kind of alternative style. I like them to have a passion in life and a career, someone who is interested in things and is artistic. I get turned on my men who I feel can protect me when I'm out in public with him. It's such a turn off if a guy can't defend himself when someone is blatantly hitting on you in front of him. I look for men who are respected by other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/15 12:02 AM
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I have bipolar and it certainly doesn't make me be casually disrespectful to everyone around me. My husband and I tease each other heavily, but it's more flirtation than anything else. I agree with the ladies who have said your mum sounds like she is narcissistic, a lot of people are nowadays. A narcissist thinks they are superior to everyone around them. The big clue in this is how she reacts when YOU casually put down HER. Narcissists like to put everybody down but react hyper sensitively when…
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/15 10:48 PM
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Most people will not like something as true because they don't like the sound of it. A fact, to some people, is something that makes them feel nice and fuzzy. The red pill is not an easy pill to swallow, it's not validating. It asks for self improvement. Most people don't want to self improve, they want to just magically feel better about themselves. I don't talk about my view points hugely, I do find myself keeping quiet. Today I was eating cake and coffee with a distant aunty. She began to say…
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/15 10:41 PM
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Wait a bit longer and see if he acts committed not talks committed. Guys will really jump through hoops and say anything to get sex if they really want it. A guy used to take me out for meals a few times a week and stay over and not have sex with me, just kiss. I thought wow he really wants a relationship with me - NOPE, he was two timing me with my cousin (God knows how many other girls) and the whole time he was just taking a time out from a girl he wanted to LTR. He just wanted sex and was wi…
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/15 10:19 PM
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They sound delicious. I love american smelling stuff, the body sprays and moisturisers here are pretty tame :/ I really like that they sell Victoria secret body spray in the UK now. My fave perfume is origins ginger spray. It smells like fresh ginger, it's goooood.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/15 10:12 PM
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I had Taylor swift style hair when I met my husband which I loved. I feel like it really suited my and my bone structure. My husband always gets anxious when I go to the hair dresser, he says 'don't let them cut it too short'. Now it's down to my lower back and he loves it. I have no idea why he prefers it longer he just does.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/15 08:22 PM
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It's ok if you don't enjoy planning your wedding. I am a really laid back person and had a relatively low key wedding. However, things got mad. The day before my wedding I had to start my day with a glass of wine. Two days before I had a break down and started crying in the beauty salon because my mom had booked me in for the wrong type of manicure. I had to write a facebook status telling everybody not to contact me with anything that had a '?' on the end. I found a lot of women in my family an…
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/15 08:19 PM
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Nobody is perfect. I myself am very sensitive to stress. While it's tempting to dump my problems on my husband in hope that he fixes them for me, that never works. I'm in therapy for child hood trauma, I journal a lot and I keep avid 'to do' lists. My journal and to do lists are for writing about stuff that's worrying me in the past or future, that I don't need to bug my husband with every 5 minutes. After my therapy I give my husband an update over a glass of wine about how things went and what…
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/15 04:51 PM
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My confidence has only come from experience. I know what I'm good at, because I've done it many times before. I also know what I'm bad at and I don't give myself grief for the stuff that I suck at. If it's something I really need to improve at, then I work at it. It it's not a big deal I just let it go. Other people aren't only focusing on my bad qualities, so why should I? Confidence is not something you can just magically create by thinking yourself there. It's always best to think positively …
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/15 09:19 PM
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My husband is older than me. I'm 28 he is 37. I personally prefer older men, but I was only attracted to people my own age until I was about 25. I find older men know what they want in life, which is very appealing to me as someone who is very directed.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/15 12:12 AM
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I am 5'10 too! I find men who are shorter than me are VERY confident. A lot of them really like the idea of going out with someone who is model tall. Rod Stewart has always been with women who are taller than him! Of course some men, even tall men prefer petite women, you can't win them all. I do keep an eye on my weight as being 'big' is a huge fear of mine. However, I find that tall people generally have a pretty high metabolism and tend to be naturally thin. I've put on about 30 pounds since …
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/15 11:32 PM
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I also love games, I never really associated it as a 'guy' thing. I'm also kind of a jeans and hoodies kind of girl, I do wear dresses when I go out. I try and make my whole wardrobe match, so at least if I'm wearing something like pants, a t shirt and a jacket I'll look smart. I try and wear stuff that fits me nicely and is tight. On a typical day I'd wear skinny black jeans, a tight black top and like a throw or shrug. shrugs or kimonos are a lot more feminine than hoodies. Ive ditched stuff w…
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/15 01:02 AM
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I agree with the other ladies, don't brood, go to your man for support. You're not being a child not getting a job you really wanted is quite upsetting. As long as you can be honest with yourself about why you didn't get it and learn for next time, then you're being an adult. However, it could be for the smallest reason you didn't get it, sometimes the other person wins by a hair.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/15 11:48 PM
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Thanks, although it's probably only a matter of time before he falls down another hole!
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/15 11:45 PM
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If he's feeling insecure and needy then maybe look at why that is. If my husband was as unhappy with me as you are with your partner it would make me feel needy and insecure too. Especially if he had been checking out other women. Bringing up someone else's kids is not easy, my husband has kids from a teenage relationship he had but I don't live with them, so although it is a big commitment for me being a supportive mother figure for my step sons, I don't live with them or have to care for them …
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/15 11:35 PM
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From living with someone before when I was younger and from cohabiting with my husband before we were married (I didn't want to because my place is so tiny, but alas...) here are my tips. keep the mystery. Men don't need to see you shaving/peeing. Do the laundry yourself, it's not a good idea for men to be going through your smelly socks and dirty underwear. He certainly doesn't need to see your waste products, even stuff like used dental floss or ear buds can gross them out. At the same time - …
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/15 11:07 PM
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If only I could go back in time and teach my 14 yo self skin care!
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/15 10:37 PM
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Lovely. I definitely need a kick up the butt for putting my clothes away properly. I have way too many it gets out of control!
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/15 10:37 PM
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I didn't used to be able to cook until I moved out for myself. It's a really useful skill to have. It's really not all that hard either, just pick a recipe and follow it! I am a small eater too, I like to just snack on little bits throughout the day. But if you're going to have a family you need to adapt. It's been hard for me to adjust to cooking in BULK, my husband has two sons and a huge appetite. Things like moussaka, lasagne, curry and soup (as a starter) are easy ways to fill men up. (I am…
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/15 10:24 PM
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Ugh do they not know women use birth control for other reasons than not to get pregnant?! I use it for my skin, it gets really bad without it.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/15 10:14 PM
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I'm just glad when my husband admits he's ill! Most of the time it's impossible to get him to the doctor, even when his problem may be serious. My dad is the same, will not go to the doctor under any circumstances, he finds it very shameful so I worry about how I'm going to take care of him when he is elderly! Looking after a poorly man is very rewarding because when they DO admit to being sick they are so thankful of being taken care of. It's much more fulfilling than being angry at them and my…
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/15 10:11 PM
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I'm proud that even though we've faced two major bereavements together, we have leant on each other and it has strengthened our trust in each other and the relationship and not torn it apart. And I'm just proud that we're so happy! Everyone remarked on how happy I looked when I walked up the Aisle isn't everyone? :S) whenever I am around this man I cannot stop grinning!
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/15 09:59 PM
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It's totally natural to not want to be dominant! In what way do you feel like he is dependent on you? (Kinda need more information, is it financial or emotional or sexually or what?)
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/15 09:54 PM
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Some female bosses think the only way to get ahead is to adopt traits that they perceive as masculine, which in actual fact are quite sociopathic. If I look at the best male bosses I've had, they've all been very understanding that I am a human being and I've been fortunate enough to work with men who want to get the best out of me (because it makes them more money). I think sometimes women act in a way that they think is masculine, but it just turns them into a bitch and stops them from being t…
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/15 09:49 PM
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I have a career in a male dominated field (well, it is becoming more female every year). I have found that to succeed I do not need to masculinise myself. Having a friendly, soft approach works very well. I dress femininely, which as first I was afraid to do. I work more with young people and women more nowadays, sometimes women who are new to business find 'business men' intimidating and this has also worked in my favour with regards to getting new work. My husband is happy that I have my own b…
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/15 08:29 PM
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I actually do get mistaken for being a lot younger, but I think it's more to do with looking baby faced than looking 'young and hot'. It's not flattering to have people mistake me for my teenage step sons girlfriend instead of my husbands wife >:( I try my best to dress my age because I think the other posters are right - dressing way younger is SO trashy even if you look younger. I don't have any wrinkles and I think it's because I live in a cold county and use sun screen every day. My friends …
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/15 12:10 PM
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That's not even a big age gap really!
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/15 11:29 AM
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People love to talk about themselves! So when I'm stuck for things to talk about I ask my friends about how their boyfriends/family are doing and check up on issues they told me about the last time we met. Such as, 'did you manage to hand your work in on time In the end?' When I was 17 I was a very opinionated young lady - and I still am! There is nothing wrong with having an opinion, as long as you accept it for being just that, an opinion. It's what YOU think and you should be interested to he…
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/15 01:20 AM
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I'm married with two step sons! I am 28. I work for myself and am a business mentor for young people as an extra. My goals are to get a new, beautiful place, have a kid and focus on being a wife and mother. Work can take a break for now! I am a woman of many hobbies - I read, cook, sew, journal and I love nature and am super nerdy about photography (I maybe take it a little too seriously.) I also love my pets and am planning an amazing honeymoon. I discovered WRP from a guy on tumblr who posted …
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/15 01:03 AM
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Congratulations on your marriage, I'm recently married too - too a man slightly older than me. Snap. Ive had female friends question my choices and constantly bring up my weaknesses, but I found that they were doing so because they were insecure about their own lives. It was as simple as that. Don't be angry at all women in general, there are women out there who are strong and won't give you bullshit. Ive found female friendships now that are incredibly supportive and wonderful. I DO understand …
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/15 12:48 AM
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I'm at a stage in my life where I need/want to be focusing on family, which means I am totally dependent on my husband at this time. My husband knows I will do whatever it takes for him to succeed in a career that makes him happy - even moving to a different city or country and even accepting that he may wish to do a lower paid job doing something he enjoys more. Because of this trust I have in him, he respects me and takes my happiness into account also. I know he will always make sure I'm in a…
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/15 12:34 AM
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I'm lucky that my man loves to cook! And he's a really good cook too. He really likes to show off about it! It's my job to make sure he has enough snacks around the house and is generally well fed, whenever I go to the super market he will eat ALL of what I bring home in the same day - no matter what I buy :| he is greedy as hell! So I have to go to the super market every day! A well fed man = a happy man.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/15 11:21 PM
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Really good to read this and have a reminder. My husband has recently been made redundant and is slowly losing his self esteem. Been a brain reset for me that I need to up my ante with support and encouragement!
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/15 11:09 PM
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