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WearEfficient1160/r/Divorce_Men14/07/25 03:05 AM
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WearEfficient1160/r/Divorce_Men25/05/25 06:56 PM
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Nearing the end of the divorce proceedings on a 18yr marriage and I can tell you it’s expensive and costly emotionally even with older kids. In my state 20+ years equals maintenance for life…so glad I’m dodging that But I agree with the advice to 1) work on yourself - rediscover who are and invest in that guy 2) be kind, but create boundaries that you enforce if you haven’t already. 3) get informed - go talk to an attorney/divorce financial advisor and get a clear picture of what it looks like i…
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/25 12:24 PM
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I am going thru the same thing - a house I love, views of the mountains, everything I always wanted but it’s best financially to sell and move on. For me it has helped to go look at places to rent, and begin envisioning my life elsewhere. I’ve found great places that, while smaller, will also help me downsize / simplify my life. One less adult in the house makes a big difference! If by selling the house you have a little extra liquidity it may be OK to pay a bit more for this first transitory ye…
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/25 05:23 PM
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Im planning a long bike ride for that first weekend where I don’t have the kids. Follow that with a massage and barbecuing on the grill. Hopefully, just breathing easier
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/25 04:58 PM
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Telling my son was the worst, hardest thing I had to do - and I still can’t share that moment with others without tearing up. Let that moment be what it was - heartbreaking. Your daughter saw how much you care and that matters. I’m 6 weeks ahead of you on this journey. Check in with your daughter, check in with yourself, friends, get a therapist, family - and let her know that it’s going to be hard, but everything will be OK. It will get easier at times then hard again…just the trial we are faci…
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/25 12:46 PM
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Thanks Gents - appreciate the recommendations. Looking them up now
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/25 12:36 PM
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