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What?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/03/22 11:20 PM
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Looks like your decision has been made. Are you looking for us to hold your hand and validate that you made the right decision?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/22 08:47 PM
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I’m in. Been debating jumping back in here. Things are good, but of course there’s always areas to improve.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/21 01:45 PM
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Usually when there’s a long wait, I pull an audible for me- not because I want to impress my wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/21 03:54 AM
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I think we get caught up in trying to be fun/ funny/ playful that it transitions into gaming our wife that way. Humor can be a way to protect the ego in many situations. Own your emotions. Solid reminder for myself. Good post.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/21 10:39 PM
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Are you planning on working the same fucking job for the rest of your life? How does that earning development look? Lol if he likes his job, is making what he wants, and as he said, he doesn’t have any debt- what the fuck does it matter to him what you think?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/21 01:05 PM
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Always serves as a good reminder to check in with myself. Thanks for these- I do a lot but forgot about some as well. Like tickling, why the fuck did I stop that!
/r/MarriedRedPill25/12/20 01:32 PM
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OYS 33 Me: 30. Wife: 34. Together 5, married 3. Stepson:11. My son: 5 months. Physical: Squat 225x5, DL: 315x5, Bench: 225x5. 6’1 198. ~12% bf. Back has been fucked up for a few weeks now. Been adding yoga back in as my second workout of the day. I need to realize not every workout needs to be balls to the wall. Reading: NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, MAP, MMSLP, side bar. Finished a 600 page book last week. Currently readying “Why we want you to be rich.” By Donald Trump and Robert Kyosaki. Will finish…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/20 02:01 PM
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What ever happened to that dude? He always rubbed me the wrong way for some reason. However I did do his 30 challenge thing back in the day, and he would sometime post decent stuff on Twitter, but I dropped him when he stated his special pay $$ forum.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/20 09:05 PM
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Solid post. Lately my wife will shit test me the day after fucking her. It’s cute. She just wants to test my frame and make sure she made the right decision. Handle it accordingly.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/20 05:42 PM
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why do I feel as if there’s been some liability lifted off my shoulders? Cause mommy finally gave you permission.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/20 01:06 PM
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Yeah with you getting a new lease on life, I don’t understand why you would willingly put yourself in the “step” situation. It’s a fucked up situation that I wouldn’t wish on anyone.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/20 03:18 PM
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OYS 32 Me: 30. Wife: 34. Together 5, married 3. Stepson:11. My son: 5 months. Physical: Squat 225x5, DL: 315x5, Bench: 225x5. 6’1 198. ~12% bf. Back has been fucked up for a few weeks now. Been adding yoga back in as my second workout of the day. I need to realize not every workout needs to be balls to the wall. ** Reading:** NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, MAP, MMSLP, side bar. Finished a 500 page book last week. Currently readying “Why we want you to be rich.” By Donald Trump and Robert Kyosaki. Work: …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/20 01:13 PM
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Bio dad isn’t in the picture at all. Only way I would’ve ever dated a woman with a child. I think you’re completely right. I think the previous generation tried to provide and protect their children so much that they turned out privileged, lazy, entitled, etc children who only resent their parents for not letting them do their own thing. I can speak because I am that generation. So thank you for bringing up that point- that’s the last thing I would want to do for my step son. I think it’s like a…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/20 01:05 PM
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I took yesterday to read through your post and digest it. Also out of nowhere my parents called me with some advice on the situation this morning. enabling his ownership avoidance and passive-aggressive resistance. You've made your family a beta-male factory! Dang, just cause I’ve swallowed the pill, doesn’t mean I’m safe from passing on my former beta ways. You’re right, I am completely taking away any ownership and growth opportunities- all to make myself feel good. And yes it’s also causing h…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/20 07:52 PM
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But am I playing captain save a ho because I lack abundance? Only I can answer that. But maybe.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/20 12:43 AM
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Because she has proven that she’s not able to get the results on her own, so I want to step in and help. Why? Because I do love the woman, I do want to see her happy and succeed— and I want to help lead her there. I see where you are going and that I shouldn’t give a fuck, but if someone on your team is struggling, and they have potential and bring value, you step in and help, right? (Not a rhetorical question, as a move into a supervisory position at work, I’m legit trying to work through how a…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/20 04:55 PM
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Try more of a mentor, or caring uncle/teacher/coach, approach? That’s a solid idea. If I just shift my thinking a little, my attitude might come across better and he’ll better receive the advice/ guidance. Do stuff with him; invite him along to the gym. Anytime we do stuff together, we have a solid hour or so until it turns sour, so I need to do things that limit it to that. Allow him the autonomy to choose his own path and own his own shit ... including failing grades on homework. So I allow hi…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/20 04:53 PM
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OYS 31 Me: 30. Wife: 34. Together 5, married 3. Stepson:11. My son: 5 months. Physical: Squat 225x5, DL: 315x5, Bench: 225x5. 6’1 198. ~12% bf. I am putting on solid muscle right now, and it’s translating to my strength- gotta test maxes here soon. It’s hard to keep putting weight on after that initial jump 1.5 months ago. I need to add on another snack. ** Reading:**NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, MAP, MMSLP, side bar. Currently reading “Tools of Titans” by Tim Ferris. Day 44 of 75 hard (no drinking/ ch…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/20 01:18 PM
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OYS 30 Me: 30. Wife: 34. Together 5, married 3. Stepson:11. My son: 5 months. Physical: Squat 225x5, DL: 315x5, Bench: 225x5. 6’1 198. ~12% bf. I am putting on solid muscle right now, and it’s translating to my strength- gotta test maxes here soon. ** Reading:**NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, MAP, MMSLP, side bar. 37 days of no alcohol, working out twice per day, reading and drinking a gallon of water everyday. Day 5 no porn, no dip. The mental clarity and focus has been great- however I’ve gotten to a p…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/20 06:05 PM
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The fact that they realized that they didn’t STFU when they should’ve is a win right there.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/20 01:37 PM
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I'll leave this here. This is exactly how I live and what I’m trying to teach my sons. The oldest is in middle school now with more homework, a hard ass teacher, didn’t get the class he wanted- good.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/20 01:36 PM
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Side note: he’s on the autism spectrum slightly and is exactly like my older step brother. I saw how much my parents struggled with him, which isn’t inspiring in my relationship and future with my stepson.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/20 12:03 PM
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Basically it comes down to we do not get along, almost at all. I started dating his mom when he was 6. His dad left before he was 2 and was completely out of the picture- so I stepped in thinking I would become that father for him. I went all in dad mode, did everything for him, joked around, had fun, disciplined when needed, etc. But as he’s developed his own personality and interests, we just do not get along at all. He isn’t into any sports or any physical activity. He is 11 going on 15 with …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/20 12:02 PM
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Rona already has me 15 lbs heavier than I was a year ago. I’m in the best shape of my life and my lifts are up. Should I blame “the Rona” too or take come credit for it?
/r/askMRP13/10/20 05:41 PM
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OYS 29 Me: 30. Wife: 34. Together 5, married 3. Stepson:11. My son: 5 months. Physical: Squat 225x5, DL: 315x5, Bench: 225x5. 6’1 198. ~12% bf. I am putting on solid muscle right now, and it’s translating to my strength- gotta test maxes here soon. Reading: NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, MAP, MMSLP, side bar. Finances: threw this one in here first because it’s at the top of my mind. Finally owned my shit and applied to refinance our home. We will be saving $360 a month, which I will use to pay 2 loans. …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/20 12:13 PM
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I’m sure it’s obvious and I’m just overlooking something, but why do you say especially now?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/20 10:59 PM
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OYS 28 Me: 30. Wife: 34. Together 5, married 3. Stepson:11. My son: 4 months. Physical: Squat 225x5, DL: 315x5, Bench: 215x5. 6’1 198. ~12% bf. Figured I’d be dropping weight after cutting out alcohol for a month, so it’s good to see the scale continue to go up. Reading: NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, MAP, MMSLP, side bar. Still struggling with a good vs a great life. Everything is over all pretty good but I’m holding myself back from great. Part of it is limiting beliefs that I don’t deserve it, and ot…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/20 10:53 PM
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It's not next level, it's first level - then you realize you're in some chick's bloody frame and you stop doing it. Bloody? Are you British? But good point, I have more important things to do. If you are only initiating in bed at night your boring and predictable. If you wanna fuck at 11am don't wait until nighttime. It's easier to face rejection there because you can just roll over and pretend not to be butthurt about your lack of imagination and just go to sleep. When was the last time you fuc…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/20 11:52 AM
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OYS 27 Me: 30. Wife: 34. Together 5, married 3. Stepson:11. My son: 4 months. Physical: Squat 225x5, DL: 315x5, Bench: 215x5. 6’1 198. ~12% bf. Still gaining solid weight, not gaining any. Reading: NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, MAP, MMSLP, side bar. I feel as if I need to re-read some of the basics, not because I’m losing it but because it’s been over a year. Couldn’t hurt. I have drank 1 day in the past 21 days. I got sick of binge drinking on the weekends. I got sick of lying to myself that I’m not a…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/20 12:11 PM
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Definitely. I’m reminded of football/ basketball when I was younger. We always got yelled at for saying my bad. “No shit you missed that block, we all know it was your fault. No need to say my bad- just do better.”
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/20 04:15 PM
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“My bad” can be seen as owning up to something, without being weak and apologizing for it unnecessarily.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/20 02:20 PM
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I’m teaching my step son this right now. Did you hurt someone’s feelings or hurt them physically? No? Then don’t say you’re sorry.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/20 02:19 PM
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OYS 26 Me: 30. Wife: 34. Together 5, married 3. Stepson:11. My son: 4 months. Physical: Squat 225x5, DL: 315x5, Bench: 215x5. 6’1 196. ~12% bf. Still gaining solid weight, not gaining much bf. Reading: NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, MAP, MMSLP, side bar. Been sick of reading self help lately, felt like I’m in a state of doing and fixing, instead of just reading about it. So I’ve switched to researching about gut health, a passion of mine. Coming up on our 3 year anniversary next week and I can honestly …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/20 12:12 PM
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Fuck karma. You chose this. Great point. I don’t believe in the karma bullshit, but when it comes to my marriage you’re right, I made the decision. I chose what I got.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/20 12:03 PM
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Once you get to a point where you’re comfortable handling shit tests, then they become fun. And the tests that aren’t fun, they will become annoying and red flags- like you said, a sign of someone you don’t want in your life.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/20 12:12 PM
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OYS 25 Me: 30. Wife: 34. Together 5, married 3. Stepson:11. My son: 3 months. Physical: Squat 225x5, DL: 315x5, Bench: 215x5. 6’1 196. ~12% bf. Still gaining solid weight, not gaining much bf. Reading: NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, MAP, MMSLP, side bar. Been sick of reading self help lately, felt like I’m in a state of doing and fixing, instead of just reading about it. So I’ve switched to researching about gut health, a passion of mine. I am continuing to build on the comfort tests skill. I’d grade my…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/20 12:06 PM
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Uh have your read the sidebar? This is addressed there.
/r/askMRP26/08/20 02:40 AM
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I’m bothered by the fact that I don’t understand, at all, what’s changed and why I’m no longer focused on sex with her as I used to be. The attraction’s just not there, but I don’t know how long this will last. Fine, great. Take advantage of the moment, turn my focus inward, and fill the time and effort with a mission I really care about. Reading through your past few OYS posts, and we are very similar to what’s going on above. I’m very frustrated and confused as to why I’d rather spend a whole …
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/20 08:37 PM
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OYS 24 Me: 30. Wife: 34. Together 5, married 3. Stepson:11. My son: 3 months. Physical: Squat 225x5, DL: 315x5, Bench: 215x5. 6’1 196. ~12% bf. Still gaining solid weight, not gaining much bf. Reading: NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, MAP, MMSLP, side bar. Been sick of reading self help lately, felt like I’m in a state of doing and fixing, instead of just reading about it. So I’ve switched to researching about gut health, a passion of mine. This past week I was able to sell all of the desks I made- and ha…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/20 12:46 PM
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OYS 23 Me: 30. Wife: 34. Together 5, married 3. Stepson:11. My son: 3 months. Physical: Squat 225x5, DL: 315x5, Bench: 215x5. 6’1 194. ~12% bf. Still gaining solid weight, not gaining much bf. Reading: NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, MAP, MMSLP, side bar. In general last week was solid- but solid isn’t good enough, I want great. I made some couch laptop desks for at home work or school and posted them on Facebook marketplace and social media’s. 12 people placed orders, but only 3 showed up. That’s the be…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/20 01:24 PM
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Do the post. I think many guys need to rethink this concept of dead. I like how you put it here: You're simply being authentic which ups the SMV which will lead to attraction and sex with some woman out there.
/r/askMRP18/08/20 03:45 AM
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Good realization and good to read someone talk it out. I sometimes find myself envying guys with hotter women., but like you said, I don’t envy their careers, their hobbies, their personality, etc. and she’s probably a cunt anyways.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/20 09:36 PM
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Damn that was a solid post.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/20 09:19 PM
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OYS 23 Me: 30. Wife: 34. Together 5, married 3. Stepson:11. My son: 3 months. Physical: Squat 225x5, DL: 315x5, Bench: 215x5. 6’1 194. ~12% bf. Still gaining solid weight, not gaining much bf. Reading: NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, MAP, side bar. Last week was the first full week since the beginning of quarantine that I’ve been home alone, as son went to work with my wife. I watched a little too much porn and dicked around, but I got a lot of shit done as well. No balance- balls to the wall it both dir…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/20 04:03 PM
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You see "these are my goals for this week," but don't list any goals. Last paragraph. They weren’t listed out- recognize comfort tests and handle accordingly. Get caught up on small business goals. Daily journaling. I’m pretty sure I read your launching a business post, but I’ll for sure read again now that I’m making that goal a reality. I’m looking to sell the woodworking pieces that I’ve been giving to friends and family as gifts the past few years
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/20 02:27 AM
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OYS 22 Me: 30. Wife: 34. Together 5, married 3. Stepson:11. My son: 2 months. Physical: Squat 225x5, DL: 315x5, Bench: 215x5. 6’1 194. ~12% bf. Still gaining solid weight, not gaining much bf. Reading: NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, MAP, side bar. At a point where I’m sick of reading. I feel like most self help books are just regurgitating the same advice. I need less reading and more doing. So continuing on my roll of completely owning my shit, I have been working on my woodworking projects every day a…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/20 12:19 PM
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Also I’m afraid giving her extra grace/patience will lull her into thinking that her current level of fitness/interaction/genuine desire/flirtation is acceptable. You can’t change what she does. Either she realizes she needs to up her level in those things, or she doesn’t. Only focus on yourself
/r/askMRP30/07/20 06:14 PM
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Yeah right. She means "let me get some of that betabucks and I'll doll out a little sucky suck to you". Good point. Got to get to a point where she wants new tits for me, not because I’m going to pay for them. I've had sex with a lot of women who were self-conscious about their bodies. Some of them had reason to be, most didn't. Mostly they want to make sure you're attracted to them and they can please you. Initiate hard, that'll teach her to STFU about this bullshit. You’re right. I’ve banged s…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/20 10:43 PM
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Instead, I feel like being able to shift into the now, consciously is the best we might be able to do. I think that’s it. Like you said, there’s so much shit to handle as men daily, that it’s hard to stay in the moment, but when you get there, you know. Just like you described below. I think it’s important to be able to balance staying present, while continuing to work through other responsibilities. But every once in a while it’s important to me completely immersed in the moment. Mine is when I…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/20 12:14 PM
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OYS 21 Me: 30. Wife: 34. Together 5, married 3. Stepson:11. My son: 2 months. Physical: Squat 225x5, DL: 315x5, Bench: 215x5. 6’1 192. ~12% bf. Reading: NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, MAP, side bar. Need to start reading something. So after some time off OYS, I took a good hard look in the mirror last week. Posting an OYS again was the kick in the butt that I needed. In short, I kicked ass last week. I owned my shit and was just an overall happier and more fun person. Huh, go figure (sarcasm.). I starte…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/20 12:07 PM
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Of course she is. Would I fuck me?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/20 12:08 PM
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Oh definitely. I’m being both a butt hurt faggot and a dancing monkey. It’s funny how quick this is to forget if you let it. I’m going to read some side bar on this again and work on internalizing it. Yeah I think being 30 now it wouldn’t hurt to get it checked. And by shitty cut I mean half assed. I was eating under maintenance during the week, then eating whatever Friday and Saturday. I saw results but they were slow.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/20 12:07 PM
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When I got home, I also was in a mind to overshare to prove that I wasn’t doing anything suspicious. I do this shit too. In hindsight it’s so gay and weak. I’m working on this as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/20 04:15 PM
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OYS 20 Me: 30. Wife: 34. Together 5, married 3. Stepson:11. My son: 2 months. Physical: Squat 225x5, DL: 315x5, Bench: 215x5. 6’1 192. ~12% bf. I was on a shitty year long cut that got me no where but flat and weak. Reading: NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, MAP, side bar. I took some time off from OYS as I was in a good place. Note: I said good, not great. I was leading my family through pregnancy, my wife was the fun little girl that she used to be, and I was being the oak and leading her through the var…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/20 11:39 AM
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I think your last point is good. They made themselves vulnerable by complimenting you, don’t make them regret it.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/20 03:27 AM
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supported her emotionally, whatever that means. I think it’s like being a tampon.
/r/askMRP12/05/20 09:38 PM
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Imagine considering yourself a man, yet making a post to whine online and using a cartoon video to try and make your point. Or maybe I’m just a dick
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/20 05:56 PM
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OYS 30 Background: 30 yrs old. Wife 33. Married 2.5 years. Stepson 11. Baby on the way, due in 2 weeks. Physical: 6’1 187. Probably around 11%. I have actually put on muscle this quarantine- about 4 lbs. Thank God I have a DB set up to 50s, barbell and some solid bands. Previous stats: DL: 375 S: 285 BP: 275. Last max attempts were in December. Took a break from OYS posts because I’ve been busy owing my shit. Honestly had a little fall out the first few weeks of working from home. Watched too mu…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/20 02:21 PM
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Great concise post breaking down various examples. This helps to be a quick reminder for those of us who have been at this for a little while. Always good to have a refresh and to reflect on current actions. This shit is so engrained into us. I see it in my 11 yr old step son. We feel the need to justify our desires and minimize them. To teachers, to bosses, to coworkers and even to parents.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/20 04:23 PM
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Also trim it at the end of the day, that way your trimming it as it lays naturally. Like the guy above said, just take your time and trim off a little at a time, working one side then the other then back again.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/20 10:09 PM
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100%. I’m more prepared for this corona virus and lockdown shit than the average man in each of the above categories now because of my efforts and MRP. But I also know these events have cause me to double down and see where I can do better. I’m fucking thriving right now.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/20 02:00 AM
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I/we have always preached how easy it is to become a top 5-10% male. Shit just got so much easier. Men are either going to come out of this stronger in all aspects of life, or weaker. My guess is that most will come out weaker.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/20 01:47 PM
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Might be a dumb question (don’t care), but where is the best place online to get ammo and is it too late? I have enough to last me a comfortable amount of time- but if shit absolutely hits the fan, where is a good place to stock up now? I have everything else in order. My family is set.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/20 09:21 PM
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You’re definitely correct. Frame is the most important thing and I’m losing the battle. Fucking eye opener. Man up
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/20 12:51 PM
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Of course my wife shit tests me less- I’m bettering myself, handling shit around the house and work, getting shredded, all while still being a little beta boy. Fuck. This was an eye opener for sure.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/20 11:55 AM
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OYS 29 Background: started RP Oct 2018. Definitely have been pussy footing around applying what all I’ve read, had my anger stages, had my Rambo stages, had my bitter STFU stages. Decided I was going to bring up divorce, found out I has having a kid. Stay plan is the go plan but right now focusing on building the best environment for future my boy. Me: 30 yrs, wife: 33. Step son: 10. My son: due in May. Physical: 6’1 181.7. BF monitor says 11%. DL: 375 S: 285 BP: 275. Haven’t touched a barbell s…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/20 12:19 PM
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Your fight started exactly like the one I had last week- but it basically came down to my lack of comfort. It shouldn’t be a problem for me to get beers with a co-worker and leave my pregnant wife at home, but it is when I haven’t done anything fun with her in a while and haven’t provided comfort. This weekend we have a fun weekend planned, and it’s no problem I’m getting beers again with that co-worker tonight.
/r/askMRP06/03/20 05:46 PM
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This reminds me of my cheesy high school days of dating girls and using the 21 questions game to get to know each other. She inevitably would ask “what’s more important, looks or personality?” I would answer “looks are what gets me attracted, personality is what keeps me there” Haha so cheesy at the time.
/r/seduction06/03/20 04:18 PM
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Don’t skip these two books if favor of the cooler or more appealing ones. NMMNG and WISNIFG are often the foundations on which we build our thoughts and actions in marriage.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/20 01:27 PM
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No, your post is “hard” enough as it is. It’s easier for most people to lay in bed and read about pick up.
/r/seduction06/03/20 03:17 AM
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Literally it’s that simple. Amazing post.
/r/seduction06/03/20 03:07 AM
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Fear is fake.
/r/seduction06/03/20 12:33 AM
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Steering this back to OP’s point, I think it’s easier to be confident when you’re genuine. Even the best liars deep down are afraid to be found out. But yes, it all comes down to confidence.
/r/seduction05/03/20 12:52 AM
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This post is some garbage askTRP crap.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/20 08:49 PM
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Reading “Day Bang” has been life changing for me. After getting married, I curled up and stopped being that outgoing social guy. I literally forgot how to talk to strangers. Day Bang has changed that. You’re right in saying that if you initiate with everyone, I’ll feel the same once you initiate the hot girl- it’s just what you do! Great post.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/20 03:48 AM
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So you can either complain about it on the internet or move.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/20 12:40 PM
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Your last sentence sums it up. It’s so easy to be a top 20% male these days. Shit, depending on where you live, it’s easy to crack top 10%.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/20 03:32 PM
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While you’re right, how does your post add any more value than those others?
/r/seduction27/02/20 03:07 AM
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OYS 29 Background: started RP Oct 2018. Definitely have been pussy footing around applying what all I’ve read, had my anger stages, had my Rambo stages (more to come), had my bitter STFU stages. Decided I was going to bring up divorce, found out I has having a kid, so that’s on hold. Kid is due in May. Me: 30 yrs, wife: 33. Step son: 10. My son: due in May. Physical: 6’1 187.9 post drinking binger weekend. BF monitor says 11%. DL: 375 S: 285 BP: 275. Haven’t maxed in a long time. Body is a littl…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/20 01:16 PM
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Comment on an item of clothing, or mention something about the environment that you both are in.
/r/seduction17/02/20 12:58 PM
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I think you took a decent concept and tried to go way too deep with it. I agree that most women live boring lives, especially in my state. So when an interesting man approaches them, it’s a breath of fresh air. But this is just a mindset to help you get rid of approach anxiety.
/r/seduction17/02/20 02:48 AM
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I have a very hard time with celebrating wins. I was always the average dude in school and sports growing up- nothing to celebrate. When I started to become successful in the gym and with my career after college, I just figured it was what you were supposed to do. Lastly, after finding MRP I handle my shit daily. Everything I accomplish is just what a man is supposed to do. So it’s good for me to look back on my week and celebrate some wins. It’s a way for me to tell myself “hey look at this thi…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/20 02:23 PM
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I think this was just a poor example. I feel fucking amazing after leaving the gym. Even if I miss a PR attempt, or can’t lift the same weight for as many reps as last week, I have a process that I’m sticking to or I look at my diet and sleep as the problem- no use in dwelling over something that I have control over.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/20 02:18 PM
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Fear is fake. Just do it
/r/seduction15/02/20 02:11 PM
2

When I was in college I brought a stack of Valentine’s Day cards(you know the cheesy cartoon ones kids give out at school) to the bar with my that night. I either used it as a conversation opener or simply slipped one to a girl and walked away. I had great success that night. However we all know women who are single on Valentine’s Day are sad and just want to be validated, so it’s like shooting fish in a barrel.
/r/seduction14/02/20 01:14 PM
1

This is a great way to get started and motivated in a market like this. I can’t speak on a down market... yet lol.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/20 04:03 AM
2

Simple, straight forward, but often a great reminder as to why you might be getting hung up in other aspects of your life such as women, work, relationships, etc.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/20 03:52 AM
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OYS 28 Background: started RP Oct 2018. Definitely have been pussy footing around applying what all I’ve read, had my anger stages, had my Rambo stages (more to come), had my bitter STFU stages. Decided I was going to bring up divorce, found out I has having a kid, so that’s on hold. Kid is due in May. Me: 30 yrs, wife: 33. Step son: 10. My son: due in May. Physical: 6’1 181.5 BF monitor says 11%. DL: 375 S: 285 BP: 275. Weight has been staying the same. Weights in the gym have been going up. Sl…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/20 01:20 PM
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OYS 27 Background: started RP Oct 2018. Definitely have been pussy footing around applying what all I’ve read, had my anger stages, had my Rambo stages (more to come), had my bitter STFU stages. Decided I was going to bring up divorce, found out I has having a kid, so that’s on hold. Kid is due in May. Me: 30 yrs, wife: 33. Step son: 10. My son: due in May. *Physical: * 6’1 181.5 BF monitor says 11%. DL: 375 S: 285 BP: 275. Back in Planet Fagness last week, so didn’t hit the big three. Had a sol…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/20 01:20 PM
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So you say this is a follow up to your last post, so I took the time to read that. However I didn’t waste my time with the comments or your responses because I immediately wanted to see what you have learned by reading this current post. So your wife has most likely cheated on you. Due to your Christian upbringing, you both have a messed up view of sex (I know cause it’s me too). You should be preparing for the possibility of divorce, if that’s what you want if she did in fact cheat. Regardless,…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/20 05:56 AM
3

Damnit. Still so much to learn.
/r/askMRP31/01/20 08:12 PM
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If she cheats on you, suck his dick to re-establish dominance in the relationship.
/r/askMRP31/01/20 03:48 PM
2

Spent 2018 season on the couch every Sunday chilling and drinking beer. My wife said that she loved when I did that because it reminded her of her dad. Thank fucking god for MRP. I only watched the Cowboys this season and limited my beer drinking, as Sunday’s are my days to get shit done. Let me just tell you, watch what she does, not what she says.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/20 11:04 PM
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Truth is, you are scared of broaching this subject for your wife because you are afraid of her reaction. This is true and I think it comes back to pedestalization. I already have a preconceived idea of how she would react. However in reality, I shouldn’t give a fuck how she’s going to react. You mention how this can be liberating for both of us, and I know for a fact that all this shit that I have imposed on our sex life has caused her to close up and shut down. It all has come down to me and th…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/20 01:06 PM
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That’s a great point. I don’t know why I tried to connect the two. I should be able to fuck my wife and fuck strangers. I should be able to have steak or hamburgers and know that they bring completely different things to the table and make my life better in different ways. I think it just leads back to the past shame in keeping things secret. I need to unfuck myself and do whatever I want.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/20 03:15 PM
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OYS 27 Background: started RP Oct 2018. Definitely have been pussy footing around applying what all I’ve read, had my anger stages, had my Rambo stages (more to come), had my bitter STFU stages. Decided I was going to bring up divorce, found out I has having a kid, so that’s on hold. Kid is due in May. Me: 30 yrs, wife: 33. Step son: 10. My son: due in May. Physical: 6’1 181.5 BF monitor says 11%. DL: 375 S: 285 BP: 275. I’ve upped my calories after being in a caloric deficit during the week for…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/20 01:09 PM
2

Came in to post this.
/r/askMRP25/01/20 01:49 PM
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Give this shit to the teenagers on r/theredpill
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/20 01:23 AM
1

Yes wife is 5mo pregnant. Yes she got what she wanted. Still, she hasn’t provided hard no’s besides when she wasn’t feeling good. However I still need to do better at game and feels with her. Can’t just try and put on the moves when we get into bed. My buddy got the number, not sure what happened. This is all mental masturbation though. Either I get the number or it’s a fail. No stroking my dick over talking to a stranger. Whoopdy do. Time to man up and start getting real results with other wome…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/20 03:23 AM
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OYS 27 Background:started RP Oct 2018. Definitely have been pussy footing around applying what all I’ve read, had my anger stages, had my Rambo stages (more to come), had my bitter STFU stages. Decided I was going to bring up divorce, found out I has having a kid, so that’s on hold. Kid is due in May. Me: 30 yrs, wife: 33. Step son: 10. Physical: 6’1 185. BF monitor says 11%. DL: 375 S: 285 BP: 275. Gym felt great last week. Still staying the same weight, but ate a lot more. Can’t wait to see st…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/20 01:18 PM
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Delete this and post it on the actual OYS thread tomorrow.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/20 03:49 AM
1

Honestly I failed this. I treated it more as a comfort test rather than an opportunity to help her grow. I know only I can tell myself what I want out of my wife, but after swallowing the pill and following my map, I have become very self sufficient I don’t know how to answer that question.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/20 04:44 PM
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OYS 27 Background:started RP Oct 2018. Definitely have been pussy footing around applying what all I’ve read, had my anger stages, had my Rambo stages (more to come), had my bitter STFU stages. Decided I was going to bring up divorce, found out I has having a kid, so that’s on hold. Kid is due in May. Me: 30 yrs, wife: 33. Step son: 10. Physical:6’1 185. BF monitor says 11%. DL: 375 S: 285 BP: 275. First full week at the gym and first time at a gym with a barbell since October. Surprisingly have…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/20 01:13 PM
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Ok so then why the fuck are you posting a replying so much? You tell me she’s great and no red flags? This is 100% your insecurities. Get over it or move on and don’t date until you can be secure with yourself.
/r/askMRP12/01/20 02:10 AM
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Outcome independent. Creeping through your girl’s phone(without having prior suspicion or evidence of her cheating) Pick one. You’re basing your decision on whether or not she’s a suitable partner on her views of you. Shouldn’t matter. Trying to follow a woman’s thought process is like trying to follow the wind. Base your decisions and opinions on your views of her. That’s it.
/r/askMRP11/01/20 07:12 PM
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The most basic advice I can give is “it’s your turn.” Once you completely take this on, you become completely outcome independent. So what if she loves you to death and stays with you forever because you provide the feels and comfort in and outside of the bedroom. So what if she cheats on you in 6 months. Regardless of the outcome, you’re a man on a mission and you deal with shit as it comes. Source: my wife dated a roided out competitive body builder before me. At first, and before finding MRP …
/r/askMRP11/01/20 06:48 PM
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Cause I’m a pussy. Also only been training legs for a year. No excuses. Started 5x5
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/20 04:00 AM
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OYS 26 *Background: *started RP Oct 2018. Definitely have been pussy footing around applying what all I’ve read, had my anger stages, had my Rambo stages (more to come), had my bitter STFU stages. Decided I was going to bring up divorce, found out I has having a kid, so that’s on hold. Kid is due in May. Me: 30 yrs, wife: 33. Step son: 10. *Physical: *6’1 185. BF monitor says 11%. DL: 375 S: 285 BP: 275. Out sick from the flu for 2-3 weeks. Finally able to get back in the gym. Got a solid plan t…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/20 12:23 AM
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Yeah she’s cheating too. She’s not attracted to him so she’s not mad at some other woman doing her job. She’s cheating too, is glad that OP is now cheating and she no longer has to bear the burden of sleeping with him. The only reason she banged OP a few times lately is because it’s her natural reaction to mate guard, even if she doesn’t really give a fuck.
/r/askMRP07/01/20 05:56 PM
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This. He died because he was a dumbass
/r/TheRedPill22/12/19 02:57 AM
1

Great point. It’s nice to know I’m able to connect to her feels, desires and emotions. I think I often get too caught up in my head and knowing what actions I should take, rather than playing off her and giving her what she wants when she’s placing these subtle cues.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/19 02:32 PM
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OYS 25 Background: started RP Oct 2018. Definitely have been pussy footing around applying what all I’ve read, had my anger stages, had my Rambo stages (more to come), had my bitter STFU stages. Decided I was going to bring up divorce, found out I has having a kid, so that’s on hold. Kid is due in May. Me: 30 yrs, wife: 33. Step son: 10. Physical: 6’1 185. BF monitor says 11%. DL: 375 S: 285 BP: 275. Be adding cardio and more super sets to my workout to try and combat the extra cookies and cheat…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/19 01:06 PM
2

It’s a great place to be where you can say whatever you want, and become entertained by other’s reactions.
/r/seduction14/12/19 04:13 PM
1

Great ideas. Our department as a whole doesn’t celebrate wins, so I would help to be changing the culture, which would be huge to show management. But yes it all comes down to give less fucks.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/19 10:03 PM
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OYS 24 Background:started RP Oct 2018. Definitely have been pussy footing around applying what all I’ve read, had my anger stages, had my Rambo stages (more to come), had my bitter STFU stages. Decided I was going to bring up divorce, found out I has having a kid, so that’s on hold. Me: 30 yrs, wife: 33. Step son: 10. Physical: 6’1 185. BF monitor says 11%. I feel closer to 15%. DL: 375 S: 285 BP: 275. Been feeling good at Planet Fitness because it’s causing me to switch it up. I’m clearly one o…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/19 03:22 AM
1

A lot of great points, nothing new, but always a good reminder.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/19 03:11 PM
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Interesting point. I’d also add that you should just hold the hand instead of shake it. Allows you to linger there for a moment longer as you transition the conversation.
/r/seduction05/12/19 01:32 PM
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OYS 23 Background: started RP Oct 2018. Definitely have been pussy footing around applying what all I’ve read, had my anger stages, had my Rambo stages (more to come), had my bitter STFU stages. Decided I was going to bring up divorce, found out I has having a kid, so that’s on hold. Me: 30 yrs, wife: 33. Step son: 10. Physical: 6’1 185. BF monitor says 11%. I feel closer to 15%. DL: 375 S: 285 BP: 275. Due to baby on the way, I had to downgrade gyms to planet fagness. In January I’ll have free …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/19 01:33 PM
1

If you’re counting the restaurant I worked at in college where I fucked atleast 10 co-workers, then yes.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/19 11:56 AM
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This helps put into perspective that it will get better. You may hold back on saying shit like this because you know it will cause a fight. You make slip up and make a joke and your wife rips you a new one then goes silent on you. But eventually you’ll be able to say whatever the fuck you want and laugh at it.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/19 02:39 AM
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OYS 22 Background: age 29, married 2 years, together 4. Wife 33. Stepson 10 (dad not in picture). Discovered RP July 18. Only actually dove in about Oct. 18. NMMNGx2 WISNIFG, MAP, MMSLP, Book of Pook, sidebar. Physical: 6’1 186 (down 2) Squat 285 Bench 265 DL 375. Felt great to get under some heavy weight after last week’s hotel workouts. I feel good. Very fucking good. Still cutting weight, still getting stronger. Relationship: I hate the place I am in. There are no ups but no downs in our rela…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/19 01:03 AM
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Damn, I’m right there with you on a lot of things. I just don’t care what she says anymore because in my mind, we are already divorced. This is a great mindset to have because I will achieve better OI and DNGAF. I would say yes and no. I mean you still live with the gal and have kids together. Me and me wife are getting to a scary place where we don’t even fight, cause there’s nothing to fight about, cause we both don’t give a fuck. I handle my shit, she handles hers, and we’re roommates besides…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/19 06:10 PM
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OYS 21 Background: age 29, married 2 years, together 4. Wife 33. Stepson 10 (dad not in picture). Discovered RP July 18. Only actually dove in about Oct. 18. NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, MMSLP, Book of Pook, sidebar. Currently re- reading MMMNG. Haven’t had much time for reading this week, but fogging has been at the forefront of my mind all week. Probably because it’s becoming natural. Physical: 6’1 186 (down 2) Squat 285 Bench 265 DL 375. Out of town for work last week and this week, so doing what I c…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/19 12:06 PM
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Oh 100% having a stable household with me at the helm would be better for the kids. No doubt about that. The growth I’ve seen in my step son in the past 2 years since taking over has been phenomenal. He needs me to be the oak, just like my wife does. The priorities choice is what I struggle with. Of course I want the best life for my kids, but if I’m not at my best, how can I fully provide for them?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/19 01:38 PM
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Wife’s first husband moved out 6mo to a year after the kid was born. So I imagine the whole pregnancy was riddled with stress. The kid is an anxious mess. Definitely makes sense. But do I stick it out and then leave in a few years when the kid can remember it, or leave now and there will be at least one stable house for the kid after it’s born? Lose lose, but I think the kid would be better off on his dad’s yacht 50% of the time.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/19 12:45 PM
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OYS 20 Background: age 29, married 2 years, together 4. Wife 33. Stepson 10 (dad not in picture). Discovered RP July 18. Only actually dove in about Oct. 18. NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, MMSLP, Book of Pook, sidebar. Currently re- reading MMMNG. Sickening to see how much of a nice guy I am, and was. Also frightening to know that how I raise my kid will directly effect his future(duh) and possibly turn him into a nice guy if I don’t instill RP principals from the start. Physical: 6’1 188 Squat 285 Bench …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/19 12:05 PM
1

This is great perspective. I think part of me would be made because “no man should take my wife” Hollywood tough guy b.s., but most of me would be glad that I would have an easy out now.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/19 12:15 PM
1

I have a lot of shit to man up on. No more fucking around and calling it progress. Need to hold myself accountable
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/19 12:13 AM
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OYS 19 Background: age 29, married 2 years, together 4. Wife 33. Stepson 10 (dad not in picture). Discovered RP July 18. Only actually dove in about Oct. 18. NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, MMSLP, Book of Pook, sidebar Physical: Squat 285 Bench 265 DL 375. Felt good to take the weekend off from the gym. Relationship: for those that haven’t read my AskMRP post, I found out last week that my wife is pregnant. TL:DR I’m a pussy who is bad at making decisions in my own life. Now I’m at a point where I need to …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/19 12:36 PM
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So many good points in this comment. Definitely an eye opener. instead of bailing water to model submissiveness, live on your own yacht and model happiness and success. Putting myself #1 and making a better life for my kid in the process. deal with it now so when you kid has a memory it’ll be good. Great point. Why fuck up a kid’s life when he can remember it. In 5 years I could be working on a shitty marriage just trying to stay afloat, or in 5 years I could be crushing life, having my kid begg…
/r/askMRP22/09/19 12:55 PM
1

Who's the most important person in your life? What are you willing to do to ensure that person's long-term happiness? Are you capable and willing to nuke it all for them if that's what it takes? Saved this to look at daily.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/19 11:54 AM
1

Deep rooted Christian values. Definitely not an option.
/r/askMRP20/09/19 11:33 PM
2

I’ll be there.
/r/askMRP20/09/19 10:33 PM
1

Don’t want anyone to fix it but myself. But yes, I got to cocky with my success and didn’t think I needed to post weekly. Now my life has leveled up and I need to man the fuck up and handle this level.
/r/askMRP20/09/19 10:23 PM
1

Unfortunately not an option to her.
/r/askMRP20/09/19 10:21 PM
1

Meh.
/r/askMRP20/09/19 10:21 PM
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You’re right, I’m not one to run from hard work, but seems easier to stay in it and make it work, than to deal with divorce, an upcoming kid, child support, etc.
/r/askMRP20/09/19 10:21 PM
1

Saved. Seems super easy.
/r/askMRP20/09/19 10:20 PM
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I’m ok with it, she’s 100% against it. Abortion seems like a cop out. But so does divorce and I was contemplating that. Honestly do not think I could convince her. Way too strong Christian values in her
/r/askMRP20/09/19 10:19 PM
1

Why before birth? What benefits does this have?
/r/askMRP20/09/19 10:17 PM
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You’re completely right. Anytime I saw progress in my relationship, I stopped posting in OYS. Sex increased, everything is going great because sex isn’t the goal. Sex was the goal. Sex is not longer the goal. Hasn’t been for a while. focusing on myself on owning my shit became the goal, with fucking other chicks as a eventual side benefit after the marriage. Definitely have fuckarounditis in the gym, so you’re probably right, I have it elsewhere in life too. Not much else to say, no need to DEER…
/r/askMRP20/09/19 10:15 PM
2

Shit.
/r/askMRP20/09/19 10:12 PM
2

Lol great point. Wouldn’t change much.
/r/askMRP20/09/19 10:10 PM
1

great point.
/r/askMRP20/09/19 10:09 PM
2

You’re right. Completely. I am the mission and focus. My marriage is just a small part of that. I would say I’m at about 50% with her. In attraction, enjoying time spend and getting turned on.
/r/askMRP20/09/19 10:08 PM
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Anyone have experience with doing this?
/r/askMRP20/09/19 02:01 PM
3

The first dude didn’t even stay around, and she didn’t go after child support. I can’t leave now. Maybe in a few years, but this is part of my life and I need to own it.
/r/askMRP20/09/19 02:00 PM
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I have no choose but to turn my marriage into the best it can be. For the sake of myself and my future child. Welcome to the newest MRP sitcom
/r/askMRP20/09/19 01:59 PM
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Can’t wait to navigate the waters of a paternity test.
/r/askMRP20/09/19 01:58 PM
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No. Yes, but not with her. Yes I did want to leave.
/r/askMRP20/09/19 01:57 PM
1

Guess you don’t know what dread and female preselection does for a marriage.
/r/askMRP17/09/19 02:45 AM
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She’s giving you a free pass to eject out of the marriage. Take it.
/r/askMRP17/09/19 02:43 AM
12

Dear diary,
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/19 12:18 PM
1

Definitely. I have been half assing all of this up until April 20 when I manned the fuck up.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/19 06:16 PM
2

Update: wife told me she’s going to start going to counseling because “family is falling apart.”
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/19 02:06 PM
2

OYS 18 Background: age 29, married almost 2 years, together 4. Wife 33. Stepson 10 (dad not in picture). Discovered RP July 18. Only actually dove in about Oct. 18. NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, currently reading MMSLP and Book of Pook which I am oddly enjoying. Crushed sidebar top posts and check into MRP/TRP daily. Physical: 6’1. Staying stagnant at 188. I’ve added more fats through a morning smoothie to see how I feel. I also took the week off from the gym and just crushed HIIT/crossfit/running workou…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/19 12:38 PM
2

Back in college I had a girl take me into the girl’s bathroom. After we were done, she talked the other girls who were in there to let me sneak out. In hindsight, I definitely shouldn’t have done that as the bouncers at that bar were known to take dudes out back and beat the shit out of them for doing a lot less.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/19 01:54 AM
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OYS 17 Background: age 29, married almost 2 years, together 4. Wife 33. Stepson 10 (dad not in picture). Discovered RP July 18. Only actually dove in about Oct. 18. NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, currently reading MMSLP and went through all side bar posts. Physical: 6’1, 186 down 13 since February. Squat 285 Bench 265 DL 375. Finally back to these numbers- but now with strict pain free form. lets get right into it Struggling with the 1000 ft rope. Not sure if I want what’s at the end of the rope anymore. …
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/19 12:40 PM
2

I’m not even sure where to address that garbage response. But based on your argument, go to any gym and what percentage of people look like they actually lift? Same goes for a crossfit gym. Most people look like shit, so that argument is invalid. But atleast at a crossfit box, Susan from accounting can deadlift 225. I just never understood the hate for crossfit. Do whatever works for you. I did bodybuilding type lifting for 8 years and never looked like Arnold.
/r/askMRP28/07/19 01:45 PM
2

Lol this couldn’t be further from the truth. Most gyms program heavy sets of squats, deadlifts, cleans, snatches or front squats to start the workout. Then after working those, you do a couple WODs which usually include the main lift of the day, but at a lighter weight. Ideally these are programmed for you to work at various percentages and test maxes every once in a while. It’s only those that half ass them that don’t put on muscle.
/r/askMRP27/07/19 11:25 PM
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Being able to “set” your shoulder blades into position is key to any lift and everyday life. Retract those shoulder blades and pretend like you’re trying to tuck them into your back pockets. It gets way more complicated and you should have a lot more control over them than this, but that simple cue will get you started.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/19 12:18 AM
2

I feel this post. 3 months ago I really started breaking down my squat and deadlift form, which means I couldn’t lift near the weight as before. It’s been a slow process but things are finally clicking with the DL and coming along in squat. Funny thing is, that’s about the same time I ripped off the validation bandaid and started doing everything purely for me. Which has been a stripped down process as well
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/19 03:02 AM
2

Build the chest, fuck the rest
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/19 03:40 PM
1

Still trying to nail down my vision, but she knows the steps I want to take to get there and what the process looks like. In her defense, she has been all on board with this. She started a new business and has helped me with my side gig. That is a huge step towards my vision.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/19 12:30 PM
1

Still trying to nail down my vision, but she knows the steps I want to take to get there and what the process looks like. In her defense, she has been all on board with this. She started a new business and has helped me with my side gig. That is a huge step towards my vision.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/19 12:29 PM
2

“Can’t” is the summarization of her actions towards these things. I still do them, which creates more fights/ shit tests/ silent treatments.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/19 03:34 AM
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This was probably 100% directed at me, whether you know it or not. I’m sick of the 1000 foot rope tightening and her constantly pulling back. I dream of being single and starting a new relationship fresh with my new frame I have established. No uphill road. Will seriously spend some time thinking about exactly what I want, how to get there and how to man up. Thanks for this post.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/19 03:12 AM
2

Start t-therapy in couple weeks. I turn 30 this year and want to get my T levels checked. I’m scared to do it cause I feel fine, but it would be a mind fuck if I came back low, and not low enough for insurance to cover TRT. I can't shave more than twice a week as it burns like fuck. Do you shave after the shower? This smooths the skin, opens pores and softens hairs before you shave. I used to have this problem, but now I shave with $.99 Barbasol cream and $.99 bic razors. No problem shaving ever…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/19 12:31 PM
2

OYS 16 Background: age 29, married 1.5 years, together 3. Wife 32. Stepson 9 (dad not in picture). Discovered RP July 18. Only actually dove in about Oct. 18. NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, currently reading MMSLP and went through all side bar posts. Physical: 6’1, 186 down 13 since February. Squat 285 Bench 265 DL 375. Starting to get that Christmas tree in the lower back. Abs are coming in nice. Jumping straight to the point Think the 1000 ft rope has finally tightened. Past month has been a constant sh…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/19 12:25 PM
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Was really wondering where the hell this was going and if it was just another lame attempt at a metaphor. But this spoke very true to me today- I needed to hear this. Solid post.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/19 12:12 PM
1

Don’t feed the troll. Look at his post history
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/19 10:19 PM
2

By following the side bar, I am now the best and most convenient option. I’m like getting your favorite restaurant delivered by Uber eats: amazing and convenient.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/19 02:05 AM
4

You learn to enjoy the hard- that’s when you win.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/19 03:55 PM
20

It’s almost as if shit was easier before MRP. But fuck that. We’re men and we have shit to do.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/19 02:48 AM
2

OYS 15 **Background:* age 29, married 1.5 years, together 3. Wife 32. Stepson 9 (dad not in picture). Discovered RP July 18. Only actually dove in about Oct. 18. NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, currently reading MMSLP and went through all side bar posts. Physical: 6’1, 186 down 13 since February. Squat 285 Bench 265 DL 375. Creatine has me feeling full and hard as a rock. Abs are coming in nicely. Eventful weekend After an issue with trying to get my 10 year old step son to climb up the ladder to check out…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/19 12:29 PM
1

Cannot wait to read this. I remember reading part one and it hit me hard. Everything rang so true and my wife’s attitude and bouts of deperession have lasted exponentially shorter now that I’ve taken responsibility for this. Or determined when it is something that deserves to be ignored
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/19 02:36 AM
1

Great point. Foot on the gas. Get in or get left behind. Doesn’t matter to me either way.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/19 11:51 PM
1

Dang man I’m at the same point in my journey. I find it best to just sit down and think about where you were and how far you have come. We can’t expect to rebuild Rome in a day, and we can’t expect our wives to get on board when we’ve been a shitty captain for so long.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/19 09:25 PM
1

I’m struggling unpacking all of the same things in my life right now. It’s an interesting struggle.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/19 12:51 PM
1

Hmm good distinction between the two. So she’s just shit texting me cause I’m applying dread and she’s uncomfortable. Thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/19 02:17 PM
3

Haha shit you’re so right about this. Who the fuck cares. I’ve masturbated to the thought of my slutty ex, so who am I to judge. Thanks for the eye opener. Keep living my life.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/19 02:15 PM
1

OYS 14 *Background: * age 29, married 1.5 years, together 3. Wife 32. Stepson 9 (dad not in picture). Discovered RP July 18. Only actually dove in about Oct. 18. NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, currently reading MMSLP and went through all side bar posts. Physical: 6’1, 186 down 13 since February. Squat 285 Bench 265 DL 375. Squats have felt amazing since I’ve broken down my form and weight and been slowly building back up. Deadlifts are another story, as everything over 315 just feels heavy as fuck. Wins l…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/19 12:30 PM
1

OYS 13 *Background: * age 29, married 1.25 years, together 3. Wife 32. Stepson 9 (dad not in picture). Discovered RP July 18. Only actually dove in about Oct. 18. NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, currently reading MMSLP and went through all side bar posts. Physical: 6’1, 186 down 13 since February. Squat 285 Bench 265 DL 375. These numbers have stalled as I’ve been working on my squat technique. Dead’s have been feeling better as I’ve been Sticking with the program, including lots of warmup and mobility. Be…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/19 12:14 AM
3

Super interesting point about the IRL application of energy and dialing it up. Shit used to come naturally to me, and this opened my eyes a little as to when my wife is in a low energy state and I say “fuck that I’m gonna come in so high energy to change her state and be an overall fun guy” that it not always works cause I come in too high. Good post, will check out the book too.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/19 05:12 PM
1

That’s really how I’m starting to feel, especially as I haven’t even hit my prime yet- and I have the opportunity to bang women in their prime.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/19 11:54 AM
2

OYS #12. First since March Been getting complacent, happy with minimal results, but a month ago after a main event, I’ve been back to the RP grind. *Background: * age 29, married 1.25 years, together 3. Wife 32. Stepson 9 (dad not in picture). Discovered RP July 18. Only actually dove in about Oct. 18. *Physical: *6’1, 191.8 down 8 since February. Squat 285 Bench 265 DL 375. These numbers have stalled as I’ve been working on my squat technique. Dead’s have been feeling better as I’ve been Sticki…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/19 04:23 PM
1

Set up a budget almost exactly like this about 2 months ago. But I really like the idea of planning it out for 6 months, instead of just 1, like I’ve been doing.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/19 01:37 PM
1

Boom!
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/19 01:28 PM
1

Forget about “working on your relationship” or the idea that “the relationship is the problem.” It doesn’t work. When you change, the relationship changes. Get what you want out of yourself, and you will either like your relationship more…or be able to do something constructive about it. I literally need to post this on the wall of my new man cave/ garage. Fucking truth right here. Needs to be hammered into my brain. Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/19 01:12 PM
1

In.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/19 01:52 PM
4

Damn. Needed to hear this. Ending it because things didn’t magically go back to when we were first dating is just a weak way out of not facing myself. Thanks for prompting me to take ownership and start the process of ending this resentment.
/r/askMRP19/03/19 11:51 AM
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OYS #11 *Background: * age 29, married 1.25 years, together 3. Wife 32. Stepson 9 (dad not in picture). Discovered RP July 18. Only actually dove in about Oct. 18. *Physical: *6’1, 191.8 down 8 since February. Squat 285x2. Testing max today. Bench 265 DL 375. These numbers have stalled as I’ve been working on my squat technique. Dead’s have been feeling better as I’ve been Sticking with the program, including lots of warmup and mobility. Relationship: still in the anger phase. Still relapsing on…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/19 12:34 PM
1

I hate this argument. While I agree, most jobs start around 8:00. Also, ancestors used to go to bed at dark, i.e. 8pm. Not feasible either.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/19 01:43 PM
2

I definitely struggle with this the most, as once my wife truely revealed herself as a “home body”, I stopped going out with friends as well. I know that the gym is my best opportunity is the gym, but she doesn’t know if I’m there chatting up an old man or an Instagram fitness chick.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/19 01:34 PM
1

What has worked for me is to express my desires through the mom. She needs to be your advocate to her son, not you Good point here, things used to be much better when it worked like this and I didn’t take over. You need to take the kid off a pedestal. If he is lazy, doesn't do sports, etc - that is on HER, not you Definitely her fault, as she spent the first years of his life parenting like the oldest teenager in the house. She still does. Its not your job to manage him, but it was your responsi…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/19 02:45 AM
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While I agree with most of what you said, I am the one who chose him and his mom. Knowing he never knew his dad, I chose to be the one to step in. So doesn’t that mean I need to man up and deal with my choices, rather than saying “fuck it” give up and not spend any time, energy and resources on him? Also, you think it would be beneficial for my relationship with my wife if I start ignoring her kid until he comes around? Trust me, if he’s a teenager and tries to pull the same shit, I’ll certainly…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/19 04:49 PM
2

You’re right. Few days ago we played a board game, but I was aware enough to realize when both of us were over it, so I let him leave and go do his own thing. Baby steps I guess.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/19 04:44 PM
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OYS #10 *Background: *age 29, married 1.25 years, together 3. Wife 32. Stepson 9 (dad not in picture). Discovered RP July 18. Only actually dove in about Oct. 18. *Physical: *6’1, 193.2 (down 6 pounds this month since getting called out for being a fat fuck by some dudes here) Squat 285. Bench 265 DL 375. These numbers have stalled as I’ve been working on my squat technique. Dead’s have felt so shitty. Sticking with the program tho. Reading: NMMNG, WISNIFG and MAP done. Currently reading MMSLP. …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/19 01:36 PM
2

Looked up neversate and his free daily programs are similar to the Comptrain I mentioned. These are written by the dude who trains the top crossfitters, not just some coach with a box. It prioritizes strength, then has a few WOD’s focused around the big lift of the day. I don’t bullshit with trying to learn handstand walks and kipping pull ups. I definitely appreciate your advice and taking the time to reach out. Maybe I can figure out how to send PMs and you can look over the program I’m doing.…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/19 01:29 PM
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OYS#9: huge realization Background: age 29, married 1.25 years, together 3. Wife 32. Stepson 9 (dad not in picture). Discovered RP July 18. Only actually dove in about Oct. 18. Physical: 6’1, 199.4 15.6% bf. Squat 285. Bench 265 DL 375. No more fuckarounditis. This will be addressed below. Realization: I’ve always lived my life with the thinking “good enough, better than most.” Shit has always been easy for me. Went to one of the best private HS in the nation. Only tried hard enough to make low …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/19 12:20 PM
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Damn you’re right. No more “but I can see arm veins I must be 12%bf” while there is a layer of fat over my abs. Think I’m going to get back on a big three/crossfit program I did earlier in 2018. Saw huge body changes and my conditioning was pretty good. It’s absolute shit now. I also need to track a little better. I often don’t track those extra snacks, and I definitely know better. Also I don’t track my weekend cheats, so those probably definitely are throwing my diet of ALOT Your last section …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/19 03:27 AM
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You’re right, I’m probably more towards 15% and definitely not where I should be after 10 years. I lift 6 days a week, and my diet is perfect Sunday-Friday afternoon. Still pretty good on the weekends besides eating out and having a few beers(2-6 per weekend). My excuse for my body and my life in general has always been “I’m good enough, and better than most.” This needs to change ASAP. What lifting program are you on right now? And lastly, I would love to know how you know.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/19 01:30 PM
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Had a date night light night and tried to keep laughter in mind. I was making all of the jokes I used to, she was calling me an asshole and loving every minute of it. Passed a few shit tests, escalated in bed and smashed. Great overall night.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/19 02:03 PM
1

I find that we have a lot of the same issues man. Good to read your OYS and feedback from others. I need to post a better OYS like you.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/19 02:24 PM
1

Amazing. All of this feedback is what I’ve been looking for too. Great links.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/19 02:23 PM
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Realized a fuck up from a few weeks ago. Been trying to make some changes such as working outside in the garage or yard more, grabbing drinks with friends, etc. Had a conversation with the wife in which I told her “I know I’ve been doing things and making changes. I’m just trying to better myself as a man and in turn create a better life for our family.” Here is where I messed up: I admitted I don’t know where I’m trying to lead us/myself, so to bare with me. Fuck. Read a lot of great posts toda…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/19 03:46 PM
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Half assed bullshit post. Will address this.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/19 01:37 AM
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OYS 8: Background: age 29, married 1.25 years, together 3. Wife 32. Stepson 9 (dad not in picture). Discovered RP July 18. Only actually dove in about Oct. 18. Physical: 6’1, 197.5 13% bf. Squat 265. Bench 265 DL 375. Need to stop using my workout programming experience as an excuse for fuck arounditis. Always do better when I’m on a strict program written by someone else. Relationship: has sex twice since last week. Need to keep initiating more. Kind of got butt hurt that she never initiates ev…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/19 01:34 AM
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It’s amazing how many “men” have told me that since I got married 1.5 years ago. Thanks for the “advice”
/r/askMRP20/01/19 04:08 PM
1

I was going to hit up the local Nordstrom rack this weekend. Been there before I know it can be a shit show, but you can find some gems in there for sure.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/19 04:23 PM
1

I’m already on JCF mailing list, but haven’t ever pulled the trigger. What’s your go to shirt style there?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/19 04:23 PM
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I know for a fact that when it comes to clothes, you get what you pay for. But at this point in life I can’t afford to pay $100 per dress shirt. Any cheaper brands you suggest, and how much does and average button up tailor cost?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/19 03:53 AM
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Being in the top 10-20% of men has never been easier. There’s literally no excuse.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/19 03:46 PM
1

Definitely sounds do-able. Been looking for a little more to add to my workouts. Thanks!
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/19 07:02 PM
1

Didn’t mean it as do more for her, but rather do more for yourself cause apparently the efforts aren’t working.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/19 06:49 PM
1

Shouldn’t she see you improving and making efforts in doing so? There’s no question that I’ve been making efforts towards improvement in the past 4 months. If she’s not seeing that, then do more.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/19 03:02 PM
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Thanks man I’ll definitely watch those videos. I feel like an awkward baby deer when squatting, but it’s gotten better. 225 still feels heavy, which is embarrassing for a guy my size
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/19 10:26 PM
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Yeah I was always a pussy and just did upper body, with some leg press, leg curls, etc. Finnally realizing how good it feels to get under a bar. Still working through pain and a mental block. I’ll be squatting 315 in no time.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/19 07:07 PM
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OYS 7 Background: age 29, married 1.25 years, together 3. Wife 32. Stepson 9 (dad not in picture). Discovered RP July 18. Only actually dove in about Oct. 18. Physical: 6’1, 197(-2) 13% bf. Squat 265. Bench 265 DL 365. Clean bulking is so hard, guess I’m just going to have to add another meal/ snack. Quit bitching. Just do. Relationship: things have been going great. No shit tests lately (period week). Been trying to have a baby but still need to pump the sex numbers up. I not initiating enough …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/19 01:03 PM
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Needed this point.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/19 02:12 AM
1

Good point. Still trying to find balance with these OYS. I don’t want to do a word vomit that no one will ready, but I want to give enough info to get feedback on. I should edit my post tonight to include what you have mentioned. These are things I think about and work towards, but I need to hold myself better accountable towards these changes. Will pick up MMSLP next
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/19 07:46 PM
1

Every video is a form check video. Chest curls are one thing, but posting DL/Squat vids, leave your ego at the damn door.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/19 07:42 PM
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Background: age 29, married 1.25 years, together 3. Wife 32. Stepson 9 (dad not in picture). Discovered RP July 18. Only actually dove in about Oct. 18. Physical: 6’1, 199. Can’t be much more than 13% bf. My abs and arm veins are about the same conditioning as when I started my bulk from 190. Currently clean bulking to 205 using bodybuilding, no cardio. Began relationship at 182 13%bf. I’m in the best shape of my relationship and of my life. Squat 265. Bench 265 DL 365. Did reps of 3 last week a…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/19 01:32 PM
1

Great pointer, something I sometimes forget to do when I’m too hyped trying to get the lift
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/19 02:32 AM
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This makes me sick.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/19 02:20 AM
3

Great way to view it! You’re not approaching the land whale at the grocery counter, you’re not approaching the hairy old man hogging the bench press, you’re just making conversation.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/19 12:50 AM
1

Well in this case, I’m always super last minute and impulsive with my plans. This isn’t something that a captain does. I have been working on this but definitely need to get better. Great ideas about the calendar though!
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/19 01:15 AM
1

SGM is next on my reading list. I glanced at that post you linked today and will give it more of a read tomorrow, thanks for that. Honestly I forgot how to game the wife. Currently working on flirting again throughout the day. Trying to pretend we’re dating again and act accordingly.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/19 05:18 AM
1

The current state of the church is extremely blue pill. Maybe even more so than the outside world. Men are taught to be good little boys, stay in line and tithe. Hopefully find a nice Christian woman, have vanilla sex and never flirt, look at or interact with other females. It’s no wonder men are doing this. And I say this as a devout Christian my whole life.
/r/RPChristians02/01/19 06:38 PM
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OYS #5 Background: age 29, married 1.25 years, together 3. Wife 32. Stepson 9 (dad not in picture). Discovered RP July 18. Only actually dove in about Oct. 18. Physical: 6’1 197, up two pounds over the holidays. Currently clean bulking to 205 using bodybuilding, no cardio. Began relationship at 182 13%bf. I’m in the best shape of my relationship and of my life. Squat 265 (+5) Bench 265 DL 365(+15) Reading: Read NMMNG and WISNIFG. Currently reading MAP. I like the red, yellow, green aspect of it.…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/19 03:48 PM
1

Been working hard on this. Only watched once a week in November and December, but found myself longing for the next week’s session. Left porn in 2018.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/19 05:03 PM
1

I’m working on my 1st quarter mission. After learning and opening my eyes so much this last quarter of 2018, I really want to improve upon and use everything I’ve learned. She used her own money and this is something I said I would like to do in the next couple years. She worked harder on her side business and made it happen. Solid move on her part. However she does lead when it comes to planning vacations. I do need to address this. I definitely need to get better and providing reward/ comfort.…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/12/18 07:09 PM
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Quick OYS. I will make time to edit this at a later time. Just wanted to get something up here. OYS #4 Ever since our big fight last week she has cuddled me every night( hasn’t happened in a few months), sex two times this week, and Christmas went extremely smooth. I’ve noticed that instead of making a big deal about things, she would come to me later and say “I felt this way, but I got over it.” I think she’s catching on that I will no longer give her attention over BS she’s pouting about. I hi…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/12/18 02:29 PM
1

Lol you’re clearly triggered enough to go through my post history. Keep reading the side bar, rookie.
/r/askTRP24/12/18 06:54 PM
1

This is definitely a shit test. Cmon rookie.
/r/askTRP24/12/18 02:40 PM
3

Time would be better spent doing other things
/r/TheRedPill23/12/18 11:21 PM
1

I’m with you on the whole ashamed of sex and how NMMNG opened my eyes to this. Definitely something that I constantly need to work on, even with being married.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/18 12:00 AM
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Completely true. One of my biggest struggles is promoting my accomplishments at work and accepting praise/ compliments
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/18 04:57 PM
1

OYS #3: big fight Background: found TRP and MRP in July ‘18 but never really did anything about it. Married in September ‘17. Me: 29, Wife:32, Stepson 9 years old(dad not in picture). Finally swallowed the pill October ‘18. Physical: 6’1 197 13%bf (omron). Been lifting weights 5x week for 10 years. Cycle between bodybuilding, power lifting, crossfit. Currently clean bulking to 205 using bodybuilding, no cardio. Began relationship at 182 13%bf. I’m in the best shape of my relationship and of my l…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/18 02:36 AM
1

And there you go my friend. Well done.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/18 02:13 AM
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The sky is also blue.
/r/RPChristians16/12/18 06:43 PM
1

I’ll second this. I definitely get more IOIs and arm grabs when I’m closer to 200lbs at 6’1. When I was 185 and 8% yeah I looked better naked, but I wasn’t a fucking beast that I was at 200.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/18 01:04 PM
1

Thanks for the response. Two weeks ago I got called an asshole twice while she was laughing. Last week I was an asshole for the same reasons but this time it was negative. Definitely need to understand how to better handle these. Reading that book now so I’ll definitely try and focus on those techniques.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/18 07:58 PM
1

Going to add more about our talk: man I’m a manipulative asshole. I always end up shifting blame on to her about how she needs to have better attitude and be happier in life like I am. Well no shit. If she was married to Chad I’m sure her attitude would be happier. Must keep improving.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/18 03:28 PM
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OYS#2 Background: found TRP and MRP in July ‘18 but never really did anything about it. Married in September ‘17. Me: 29, Wife:32, Stepson 9 years old(dad not in picture). Finally swallowed the pill October ‘18. Physical: 6’1 197 13%bf (omron). Been lifting weights 5x week for 10 years. Cycle between bodybuilding, power lifting, crossfit. Currently clean bulking to 205 using bodybuilding, no cardio. Began relationship at 182 13%bf. I’m in the best shape of my relationship and of my life. Squat 2…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/18 02:39 PM
1

Definitely, but never really squatted much, and absolutely never DL before 5 months ago.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/18 12:14 AM
1

Ok great. Definitely starting with that. What else did you see in my post?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/18 05:33 AM
1

Yeah agreed, that’s why I’m here.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/18 03:16 PM
5

Came in to post this.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 03:02 AM
1

Background: age 29, married 1.25 years, together 3. Wife 32. Stepson 9 (dad not in picture). Discovered RP July 18. Only actually dove in about Oct. 18. Physical: 6’1 195 13%bf (omron). Been lifting weights 5x week for 10 years. Cycle between bodybuilding, power lifting, crossfit. Currently clean bulking to 205 using bodybuilding, no cardio. Began relationship at 182 13%bf. I’m in the best shape of my relationship and of my life. Squat 260 Bench 265 DL 350 Reading read NNMNG but plan to re-read.…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/18 03:43 PM
1

If you’re 205, you’re eating more than the average person and are fat from starving lol. You could probably stand to lose some body fat, so eating less will help you out there too.
/r/RPChristians01/12/18 03:08 PM
6

But why wouldn’t a man want to constantly better himself?
/r/TheRedPill29/11/18 03:16 AM
2

With that being said, I look way better and am much bigger than the group of “power lifters” at my popular chain gym, but I don’t lift anywhere near their numbers.
/r/askMRP25/11/18 04:57 AM
2

Amazing way to put it.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/18 11:14 AM
50

I am 100% on board with everything you said. I have been on and off porn since my preteens. About day 3 is when I can feel the extra confidence and increased libido, but after day 7 I’m a fucking witty king. Jacking off tricks your brain into thinking you’re reproducing, so you don’t have that same drive to go get your dick wet. I love no fap.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/18 12:39 AM
1

Depends who funded the study.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/18 06:21 PM
2

Loved the part about women loving the status quo just as must as men. Keeps me focused on what these shit tests are really for. (Noob here)
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/18 02:31 PM
1

But what if this “study” is used as a way to subdue men and their internal drive?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/18 02:27 PM
1

What the fuck.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/18 07:01 PM
1

What?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/18 12:40 AM
2

This.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/18 11:19 AM
1

Good plan. I'll bring it up when I see her.
/r/askMRP16/03/17 09:14 PM
1

Good advice. Guess I'll take the time to break it down completely to her, and show her a map on how to get there.
/r/askMRP16/03/17 09:03 PM
1

Of course she feels the pressure. She's there when people tell me "You've lost weight, I can see it!" But yes, women tend to be desperate and go all rambo on things, her sister has gone full rambo and lost alot of weight recently as well. I think she's in a state of inaction because she doesn't know what to do. I have broke it down to her and showed her the basics, but they probably weren't at a good time because she had already been worked up about not being able to lose weight.
/r/askMRP16/03/17 08:58 PM
1

So then I'm right in my wanting her to lose some weight, and not just me being picky over a few pounds? I guess regardless, I still need to maintain my frame of weightloss and getting shredded, and eventually she'll give in and ask for my advice.
/r/askMRP16/03/17 08:47 PM
1

But really though, you're right. Fuck trying to change her mind and micromanage.
/r/askMRP16/03/17 08:22 PM
1

I'm in. Will report back Sunday morning haha.
/r/askMRP16/03/17 08:22 PM
2

You're right. Reddit feels so huge, that I often forget that this is a lot more close knit family and that post history matters. Chalk this post up to "Shit that doesn't matter"
/r/askMRP16/03/17 08:17 PM
2

In the OP?
/r/askMRP16/03/17 08:12 PM
0

Defensive? No. I addressed what was posted above. "So settle for less" is what you're trying to say? Great advice. She's 5'0" so yes, 10-15 pounds is alot for her frame. Good thinking about being some asshole who doesn't understand because its "easy for me." (no, I'm just disciplined.)
/r/askMRP16/03/17 08:08 PM
-1

You're so awesome. Thanks for gracing us with your presence.
/r/askMRP16/03/17 08:06 PM
0

10 Pounds being trivial on a 125 pound female? Try again. Sounds like shutting up about it and instead being a calm I don't ever talk about it unless she brings it up. Then I calmly address what fails in her fad diet, and what I have done and how I can help her. Then I let me results prove that. You think I'm micromanaging and controlling? Oh, so its bad to what the best relationship and best female to spend life with? Hmmm.
/r/askMRP16/03/17 07:37 PM
3

You're 100% she knows it, because she's been there before.
/r/askMRP16/03/17 07:34 PM
3

Yeah I need to get more female attention to motivate her. Good point. She wants to change, but doesn't want to do enough to change. Guess we've gotta go deeper to find that motivation for her.
/r/askMRP16/03/17 07:14 PM
6

What is the point of this thread? I mean good for you for being confident and hitting on women, as that is one of the aspects of being successfully RP. But this thread is extremely worthless, and just an ego stroke for you.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 04:51 PM
2

Releasing your seed into a different woman nightly will give you superpowers.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 02:44 PM
1

This was a great post for day 7, as I found myself letting off the gas a little. Thanks for the kick in the ass.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 04:17 PM
3

I remember being in college like it was yesterday.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 04:00 PM
8

Fuck man, it was that last point which is absolutely gold. I was waiting for you to say "Ok now that you've done X, take your wife up to the bedroom and fuck her brains out." The quality of content in your posts is outstanding. I'm honored to be a #ManofMarch
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 02:30 PM
2

Your whole post is basically subjective.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 08:45 PM
2

That's subjective Exactly. Don't go making a post recommending what supplements to take and not to take, if its all just going to be subjective.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 08:40 PM
2

Boom.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/17 08:23 PM
4

So you mean overpriced caffeine with alot of extra fluff that does absolutely nothing?
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 08:19 PM
2

I think you mean the kidneys. However, .8g per pound of lean bodyweight is commonly suggested. And fish oil is one of the most widely recommended supplements for overall health.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 08:08 PM
5

You make claims about supplements being a "waste of money" or "marginally helpful" but do not provide sources to back up those claims, and then go on to say preworkout is the best supplement. Hahaha ok.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 08:01 PM
0

Good shit, TFA. My challenge in day 2 just so happens to be one of my goals for march. Time to man up, look that shit in the face and conquer it.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 07:06 PM
2

It's a way to start off the day with a fucking shoulder/chest/ arms pump. Jump in the shower and end it with 30 seconds cold water and you're ready to kick ass today.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 07:05 PM
1

I mean you probably felt like shit and exhausted when you first started working out too, right? Trust the process man.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 04:42 PM
8

I don’t care; you failed and you know it, you don’t deserve the life you see other masculine men living. They worked for what they have and obviously it’s too hard for you. Probably my favorite line. Already planned on quitting porn.masturbation for the month, so thanks for the extra push. Today is chest day, so looking forward to an extra 100 push-ups. Lastly, going to a coffee shop during lunch today to hammer out some goals!
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 04:22 PM
1

Fuckin love you, bro.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/17 09:03 PM
2

The One Truth on the Nature of Man: As a Man, I am not a human being but a human doing. My value rests entirely on what I achieve. So get shit done or be worthless. One of the greatest things I've ever read.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 02:48 PM
1

That's how I see it. Average is getting worse and worse. That makes it all the easier to become the best 20%, and also takes away any excuses from not doing so.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 03:23 PM
2

LOL sounds like you should've left her long before she totalled your car.
/r/MensRights24/02/17 04:41 PM
-19

"Emotional blow"? Men need to man the fuck up.
/r/MensRights24/02/17 04:40 PM
6

There was literally no one at that park....
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 09:01 PM
1

Hahaha nice thread idea, but how is waking up at 7 early?
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 08:55 PM
28

This post started off good, but turned into a complete waste of time. By writing that paragraph of bitching and moaning, you are no better than the people you're complaining about.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 08:33 PM
9

Yeahhh, I saw this too. I'm all for the benefits of nofap, and if anything it frees up time for me to be more productive, but this shit over there is getting out of hand. There's no way to swing that to shed a positive light on it. The dude bitched out.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 09:09 PM
3

For the love of God I just wish these youngins wouldn't take on so much debt. Its a shame but car/student loan made me choose a steady office job income over trying to start my own business.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 02:40 PM
1

Of course, but ACTION is what we preach around here. Trial and error. Learn here, go do, come back and talk about it.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 06:41 PM
7

So you stood by on the sidelines all night? Great post. Thank you for that.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 06:04 PM
1

Nah, overplayed meme now. "Drinks. ____Bar. Tuesday."
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 05:54 PM
2

My soul has been drained in a quick 3 years. But I'm supposed to be "happy to have a job" and work for another 30+ haha.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 04:18 PM
2

Not in the slightest. She never does this, I never do it, was barely worth mentioning, but I did.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 04:17 PM
15

Yup. Could've seen that one coming.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 04:17 PM
71

"I know your wet... dry that shit up, you aren't getting the D" I was debating calling you out on being BP still, but this saved you and gave me a laugh
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 11:19 PM
5

Lmao. Now shower, and head to the local college bar. This is one of the best nights of the year to get some slit, I mean clit.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 11:06 PM
18

Its getting easier and easier to make it into the top 10%. Still makes me sick to my stomach to see though. It also keeps me humble when I picture my grandfather and strive to be like him.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 09:38 PM
4

Since discovering TRP about 4 years ago, I've probably spent 1/3 of what I would usually spend on a LTR, and my relationships are 100 times better. Funny how that works.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/17 09:29 PM
2

Such a shame, isn't it?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/17 09:28 PM
2

I think I'll make another for me, it came out pretty damn cool.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 09:05 PM
12

Made my LTR a blanket ladder out of wood, using my bare fucking hands, like a man would. She was wetter than the pacific ocean. She got me a badass watch (spent more than me lol), got us chocolate covered strawberries, made a post on instagram about me, and said "lets just go to sushi, nothing too fancy." Read the sidebar, be a man and maintain your frame= a nice V-Day.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 08:57 PM
17

I can find a goal and a purpose, but money is also a necessity in life. So until then, I feel stuck in my job.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 03:27 PM
122

There is nothing more true than this. My work life has sucked consistently for the past 6 months or so. Trying to find meaning in life/work, and failing. but this has directly carried over into my relationship, my weekends, etc.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 02:48 PM
37

Climbing is pretty badass. I've been to the gym in my city a few times, just to fuck around, but its always fun to watch the good people do it. And the chicks all have sexy, muscular backs. Sounds like a good, challenging, fitness related hobby to me.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 10:30 PM
2

Just want to "enjoy" it for longer, not that it necessarily takes that long. Fucking waste of my life.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/17 02:29 PM
2

Yeah atleast. Its fucking stupid, I know. Something I definitely struggle hard with, and I know it carries over into other aspects of my life.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/17 10:48 PM
3

Training Training has been going amazing, as well as my diet. I’m down 11 since beginning of December. I’ve also added more running in, as I am training for a Spartan Race in May. Been doing a lot of kettlebell work, using a steel mace for 10 minutes in the morning for a quick sweat, and stretching my back/neck daily. My goal is 10% BF by May. Sex/ LTR I’ve made a lot of excuses lately as to why I haven’t been having as much sex with my girlfriend (her son is around, we’re busy, we’re tired, etc…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/17 09:14 PM
1

You had to have gained muscle.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 08:08 PM
1

I don't believe for a second that you look exactly the same...
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 02:48 PM
2

Or I see his 4:30am post on instagram/ Twitter and I get my ass out of bed!
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 02:43 PM
12

Recently discovered Jocko, and wrote "Discipline equals freedom" on me mirror last week. Definitely putting this book on my "to read" list.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/17 09:06 PM
3

Hahah oh how things change, huh? Great last paragraph.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 05:39 PM
5

Man, I just hope that we all see the light and become the alphas that nature intended us to be. Thanks for posting those.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 11:17 PM
2

In on this!
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 07:39 PM
2

So whats the solution? How do we respond?
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 04:33 PM
2

What is the point of this post? To verify things we've always known and to show us that you are still extremely blue pill?
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 05:18 PM
2

Posts like these are sometimes a good way to get us starting on putting these things into practice.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 06:29 PM
2

Agreed. Workout hard as fuck until you're so tired you pass out when its bed time. Or, bang a chick so good that you just roll over and go to sleep.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 06:29 PM
4

Amazing, simply amazing.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 10:37 PM
3

I've always wanted to coach a youth sports team, and this may be the push that I need! Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 02:38 PM
1

I signed up for a Spartan Race in May. Why? Because I'm a fucking man and need a challenge in life.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 09:05 PM
15

So crush all competition. Always.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/17 02:47 PM
6

Low quality comment providing no insight. Reported as such.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 11:01 PM
6

I love this. I basically found TRP at a point above many that are new here: I workout daily, I have a steady job with decent pay, I have a hot girlfriend, and a few hobbies. However! I was getting fuking complacent. I wasn't making improvements in the gym, I was stagnating at my job, I wasn't treating my girlfriend like an alpha male does, and I was half assing my hobbies and instead wasting time on porn. TRP has opened my mind to waking the fuck up and how you can always better your life, no ma…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 10:29 PM
111

Be a bitch or a man. You choose
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 08:53 PM
5

Props to you for responding to this idiot.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 10:49 PM
19

Yup I agree completely, as I was/is in the same boat. Treat your woman like the teenage girl that she is, fuck her good and you'll be happy for life.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 02:49 PM
76

Nah, men have gone backwards, and reverted to beta ways. Most old dudes were red pill. Worked hard, didn't give a fuck, told their wife how it was going to be, and had some whiskey at night.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/16 09:20 PM
1

Or, lay the foundations to a life of health and a strong active body when you're young, so that when you're 40, shoveling snow will be a piece of cake. be the exception, not the norm
/r/TheRedPill29/12/16 04:27 PM
31

This is nothing new. Regardless, solid post.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/16 02:42 PM
2

This is huge! Yes, having big lofty goals are great. But big change also happens little by little through consistency.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 07:09 PM
11

Looks like you're the BP example....
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 06:46 PM
15

Mother: so sweetheart, any girl entered your radar in college? RP You : Yup, I banged 10 girls last semester. End of story. Why so explanative?
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 06:14 PM
5

right, because you don't buy into the BS that the OP is posting.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 04:07 PM
5

This. Ugly people fuk ugly people all the time. It's life.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 03:36 PM
2

lol no one is reading all of that...
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 03:58 PM
1

Its funny how easy it is to achieve "success" compared to 99% of males. Sometimes this section overcomplicates things. You don't necessarily need to reach heights of godly success, you just need to be better than the guy next to you. Easy. Go do it.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/16 06:17 PM
3

I meant more along the lines of sitting around watching porn all night.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 03:11 PM
3

I usually make gifts for Christmas, instead of buying them. 1. it allows me to release my inner man 2. its cheaper and 3. its more memorable than store bought junk.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 09:09 PM
36

I always think back to men that we admire: Marcus Aurelius, Donald Trump, successful athletes (or movie stars, rappers if that's your thing), or even CEO's of the companies that we work at. I can't picture any of them wasting time fapping away at night. 1. they've got too much important things to do and, 2. they can have their pick of any woman they want. NoFap is legit.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 07:59 PM
15

I actually love that most people don't lift. It gives me a leg up on the competition.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 09:02 PM
5

I currently have "Think and Grow Rich" and "Unlimited Power" by Robbins on my nightstand. Yup, the mind is a powerful thing.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 04:33 PM
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