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| 543 | 20M, my first "date" ever. | Field Report | Weird-ass_DIYproject | /r/seduction | 24/02/20 06:31 AM |
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| 3 | How are you guys coping with not meeting new girls?jesus, FUCK I hope so. | /r/seduction | 24/03/20 02:54 AM |
| – | What are some sexual things you can say to a woman during a cold approach that are not directly explicit but are suggestive and could have a sexual meaning?nope | /r/seduction | 16/03/20 11:35 PM |
| – | What are some sexual things you can say to a woman during a cold approach that are not directly explicit but are suggestive and could have a sexual meaning?Copied from earlier: I'm not really the expert on this but I think it's just a goofy/flirty way to say "hey". I'd guess you're supposed to respond in spirit rather than monologuing about jazz preferences. I don't think there's a specific answer to it. | /r/seduction | 16/03/20 10:06 AM |
| – | What are some sexual things you can say to a woman during a cold approach that are not directly explicit but are suggestive and could have a sexual meaning?I'm not really the expert on this but I think it's just a goofy/flirty way to say "hey". I'd guess you're supposed to respond in spirit rather than monologuing about jazz preferences. | /r/seduction | 16/03/20 09:47 AM |
| – | What are some sexual things you can say to a woman during a cold approach that are not directly explicit but are suggestive and could have a sexual meaning?Yeah. She took it so well that I didn't even notice until reading that comment above, that I had misinterpreted it. | /r/seduction | 16/03/20 09:09 AM |
| – | What are some sexual things you can say to a woman during a cold approach that are not directly explicit but are suggestive and could have a sexual meaning?Oh shit, a girl opened with that on bumble and, I shit you not, I responded with: "Not unconditionally. I like Miles Davis and the Dave Brubeck Quartet quite a lot though. Bitches Brew is one of my favorite albums. How about you?" AHAHAHA | /r/seduction | 16/03/20 08:29 AM |
| 1 | Are you guys gaming during Corona season?Any tips? How are you making it work for you? | /r/seduction | 14/03/20 08:02 PM |
| – | Are you guys gaming during Corona season?I was gonna start practicing on campus at college but classes are cancelled. So it's a ghost town, and for good reason. Now that this virus is spreading like a pandemic, the answer is a resounding FUCK no. Nevermind that young healthy people like me and you will survive the virus no problem... that's irrelevant. If you come into contact with an older and less healthy individual you could pass on the virus and inadvertently fucking kill them. It's not worth it. | /r/seduction | 13/03/20 08:34 PM |
| – | I'm Looking For A Way To Increase Horniness To Extreme Levels (willing to pay for help)I already told you it doesn't exist. Why do you want this? | /r/seduction | 10/03/20 11:08 AM |
| – | I'm Looking For A Way To Increase Horniness To Extreme Levels (willing to pay for help)A) Why? B) This doesn't exist. You can do abstinence from porn and masturbation for as long as you want, it won't accomplish this. What you're looking for is some kind of artificial hormone cocktail. | /r/seduction | 10/03/20 10:39 AM |
| – | Alternatives to stop jerking off so much?Don't take it so literally. Once you stop your entire perspective and approach to women will change so much. You just have to abstain for a couple of months and see how different it feels. | /r/seduction | 10/03/20 02:56 AM |
| – | Is being too loving/affectionate sexually hurting my game?This is a "you" question. Of course, certain behaviors will be more effective than others if you're going for mass numbers, but... In your shoes, I wouldn't change a damn thing. Actually, the one thing I'd change is to stop justifying yourself. Your interactions seem very wholesome. If a girl is turned off by affection, well damn I don't know what to tell her, maybe see a therapist. | /r/seduction | 07/03/20 06:51 PM |
| – | I (m) cum way too fastTbh I don't think it really matters. The clenching issue is purely a mechanical thing | /r/seduction | 07/03/20 02:03 AM |
| – | I (m) cum way too fastThat's the exact opposite of what you're supposed to do. You're suggesting to abuse the system until it's desensitized. Instead you should be improving your sexual health by doing kegels and avoiding unhealthy habits like chronic clenching. | /r/seduction | 07/03/20 01:59 AM |
| 5 | I'm international student and I don't have any luck with American girls. Even girls that approach me lose all their interest after talking to me.Can't really answer to the rest of your post, but where I'm from (Los Angeles), EVERYONE tries to make friends with the international students. The "ewww" comment is one of the most bizarre things I've ever heard. They don't sound like nice people. | /r/seduction | 01/03/20 08:46 AM |
| 1 | 20M, my first "date" ever.You were right, there are always more. And my tinder profile isn't even that good yet, it's only going to get better. cheers | /r/seduction | 27/02/20 11:29 PM |
| – | [Technique] I should probably share some of this finesse that works 100% of the time for me, and why I always carry a pack of gum.Ok... so then you have admit to being a manipulative liar before you can kiss her. Well done lol | /r/seduction | 27/02/20 04:29 AM |
| 2 | How does maintaining and keeping a FWB situation differ from a relationship? What rules and tactics change?Understood, thanks for the explanation | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 05:28 PM |
| 18 | One Approach Every Day Challenge - Day 2️⃣Dude, total beginner over here so take this idea with a grain of salt: maybe it's better to not straight up admit that you lied to her. You could instead say, "well before I head that way, I just wanted to say I think you're really cute. Are you down to grab a coffee?" | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 05:27 PM |
| 8 | How does maintaining and keeping a FWB situation differ from a relationship? What rules and tactics change?I guess I've had the wrong impression of FWB then. What you described just now sounds to me like just the benefits part, without the friend part. | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 05:23 PM |
| 1 | TODD VThe community thinks this is okay? | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 07:24 AM |
| – | TODD VIs that legal? | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 06:51 AM |
| 1 | 20M, my first "date" ever.Preface: I only started up my dating profiles less than a week ago. Getting matches with 8-9 attractiveness has not been terribly uncommon and I've even matched with 2 or 3 10s, but even with the most interesting texts I send to these girls, I usually don't get a response. They are absolutely flooded with tons of guys to choose from, many of which will be more attractive than me in various ways. | /r/seduction | 25/02/20 10:57 PM |
| 1 | 20M, my first "date" ever.I probably would have left if it was any other kind of date. Since I had driven all the way there to play tennis, which is something I LOVE to do, I stayed and played tennis anyway. If this was a coffee date, I probably would've gone home if I'm being honest. | /r/seduction | 25/02/20 10:52 PM |
| 1 | 20M, my first "date" ever.Kind words, thank you | /r/seduction | 25/02/20 10:50 PM |
| 1 | 20M, my first "date" ever.That's a really good idea, I'll keep that in mind. | /r/seduction | 24/02/20 10:18 PM |
| 1 | I did 27 approaches in 367 minutes of daygame infield. Here are my resultsExtrapolating from data doesn't indicate an expectation that collecting said data IN AND OF ITSELF improves skill in seduction. | /r/seduction | 24/02/20 09:28 PM |
| 2 | How To Be Good In Bed (4 Key Tips)Yeah, nails are dirty most of the time when you're going about your day. If you have a date though, you can use the pointy end of the file to remove all the gunk from under your nails, then wash thoroughly with soap. My nails always look almost exactly like this. It's because I clean constantly and I use a Czech crystal nail file for smoothing. You can also use 600 grit sandpaper for finishing touches but you might think that's overkill. Try it once though, see how smooth your nails are. Edit: I… | /r/seduction | 24/02/20 09:17 PM |
| – | How To Be Good In Bed (4 Key Tips)I'm saying if you failed the tongue test maybe the nails are a problem. That was the point of the tongue test, wasn't it? | /r/seduction | 24/02/20 09:07 PM |
| – | How To Be Good In Bed (4 Key Tips)Well then you know your problem, lol | /r/seduction | 24/02/20 09:01 PM |
| -2 | I did 27 approaches in 367 minutes of daygame infield. Here are my resultsYou've completely missed the purpose of the post. Observational data is good for tracking progress and comparing to others for an objective idea of relative success. | /r/seduction | 24/02/20 08:38 PM |
| 0 | I did 27 approaches in 367 minutes of daygame infield. Here are my resultsEveryone's acting like OP thinks collecting data is the key to improving his game, even though that's clearly not the case. Observational data is good for tracking progress. | /r/seduction | 24/02/20 08:37 PM |
| 2 | 20M, my first "date" ever.This one's pretty easy to explain, I do the same thing to women. I swipe right on all girls who might be my type based on appearance so that I don't have to spend hours reading bios. I only bother to do that once matching. I used to closely inspect every aspect of a profile before swiping right, but it ended up taking too much time. | /r/seduction | 24/02/20 07:02 PM |
| 2 | 20M, my first "date" ever.A couple I was interested in, but the (first) response times from girls is generally pretty slow so no back-and-forth yet. | /r/seduction | 24/02/20 06:47 PM |
| 3 | 20M, my first "date" ever.I don't take it personally, I don't know her and she doesn't know me. Definitely tells me something about her though when her excuse is that she's too drunk to wake up. | /r/seduction | 24/02/20 05:42 PM |
| 2 | 20M, my first "date" ever.Ohhhh okay I get it. No she doesn't go to the school I was playing at. Just bad luck | /r/seduction | 24/02/20 05:21 PM |
| 1 | 20M, my first "date" ever.Hmm? Not sure I understand your comment | /r/seduction | 24/02/20 05:04 PM |
| 2 | 20M, my first "date" ever.not on tinder, I sent the message through snapchat (I didn't specify in the post). I read online that the message can still be read, maybe I'm wrong. I unmatched and unfriended her. | /r/seduction | 24/02/20 05:02 PM |
| 33 | 20M, my first "date" ever.It's so easy to become attached to certain girls as an absolute newbie to the scene of dating in general. Abundance mentality has not been internalized yet. | /r/seduction | 24/02/20 07:41 AM |
| 3 | 20M, my first "date" ever.Thanks. I didn't want to be too harsh but I had to be firm with my boundary. | /r/seduction | 24/02/20 07:24 AM |
| 46 | 20M, my first "date" ever.Thanks. Only real shitty part of the day was coming home to find that the hottest girl I'd matched with so far had unmatched. This was after a very flirty back-and-forth a couple of days earlier in which she had agreed with no hesitation to go on a date to an amazing ice cream shop. Fuck | /r/seduction | 24/02/20 07:23 AM |
| 12 | 20M, my first "date" ever.That's why you always send a confirmation texts the morning of the date. No answer means no date. Right on, lesson learned. It's also important to stress when you meet that you are a very busy guy and you value people who value your time implicitly and explicitly. One implicit way I express that is how I set up date. It's a good way to avoid flakes. What I do is to not set a date up if they seem unsure. Again my time/your time is valuable. In this scenario, the girl asked me out on the date, so … | /r/seduction | 24/02/20 07:18 AM |
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