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Yeah , wasn’t sure what I was thinking . I probably look confused trying to work out if it was a scam or not .
/r/seduction16/10/19 01:18 AM
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All depends on how you act /look . I am 23 and still get ID for energy drinks (16) . But it’s mainly down to how you act , just never complain or you will sound like a parent . However did get a girl say , are you not looking to get married and have kids lol , which I just laughed and smiled at her .
/r/seduction04/10/19 10:31 AM
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Do it ASAP , it makes sense to meet for coffee ,catch up . She has meet you before and responded positively , if she had a bad impression she would have just ignored your message ! remember ABC ( always be closing ), make progress and try and push the interaction forward every message .
/r/seduction03/10/19 01:04 PM
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Honestly number closing is a win really . night game in the UK is weird . Any girl who is like 8+ are not going out looking to be pulled . You basically have to befriend , and become part of the group they came with . Then as the night goes on slowly game the girl you like . Yeah nightlife basically is like tinder , low / no interest will get you a okay , i have boyfriend . interested / high interest - basically having a conversation and asking you questions . its tough ! I find it way easier to…
/r/seduction02/10/19 10:16 PM
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yeah i meant you actually done well up in till you , once she said i have our next discussion than you should of said well tell me over drinks / food . worst cause she would of said i cant this week i am busy , then you could of left it and then saw her again at the group. Use the phone to organise meeting up , you all ready built comfort at the meeting.
/r/seduction02/10/19 07:09 PM
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Why didn’t you just ask her out for drinks /food when you dm’d her you basically went backwards after meeting with her . Just speak to her in person and ask if she wants to get food /drinks after or another time .
/r/seduction02/10/19 04:59 PM
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up to you my man , i went out with a tinder date , who said she would wanted to come to the party but would have to stay at my house (share my bed ) lol , before we have even meet . so sometimes normal rules do not apply , maybe do rounds might be the easiest way to avoid the issue
/r/seduction27/09/19 05:11 PM
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Nah you done well , she probably already decided she liked you before you opened your mouth. You just got to the point - plus is is working are you supposed to have a full 15 conversation. Woman make it easy when they like you , you just walk through the door .
/r/seduction27/09/19 11:48 AM
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honestly it completely normal to feel like this after spending the night with someone , sex and the connection you feel is a great feeling . Firstly I think you are misinterpreting oneitis , its okay to want to have a relationship with this girl ,however what tends to happen is you express all your feelings for this girl to her and begin to chase and become needy . This is the quickest way to lose her. ! just take your time , let her know you would like to see her when she is back home and then …
/r/seduction26/09/19 06:34 PM
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i know it tough , honestly i usually know when a girl likes me , she is from Lebanon , not sure if its a culture difference we in the uk . just i notice she never shows skin always long tops , long dresses . will try and organise something for the weekend .
/r/seduction24/09/19 09:58 PM
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Replied but is a comment
/r/seduction22/09/19 03:14 PM
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The behaviour matches the environment . The bar sets the premise of your attention . As was out last week at a bar was talking to this girl was nothing over sexual , but we were both sharing her drink using the same straw lol . That’s not happening within meeting a girl 5 minutes in Starbucks.
/r/seduction22/09/19 03:13 PM
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your approach has already given away you think she is cute , just say hi , or say a observation about her. Being at a bar it is a lot more clear when a girl is in to you are not . The politeness you receive in a day approach is kind of forgot in a bar . it like a yes or no , with the first few sentences.
/r/seduction22/09/19 12:15 PM
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Newcastle , UK
/r/seduction22/09/19 11:06 AM
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She moved on , wanted something more serious . She tried to get serious with you it didn’t work . So she moved on . Not to sure what you want her to do , have a BF but still see you lol ? . FWB are always short term . Should of said I am happy for you and i hope it works out . Then move on with your life . If she pops up again then continue the FWB .
/r/seduction22/09/19 11:02 AM
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nah , you did okay . she probably glad you didn't bounce over and make a big deal upfront of her friends .
/r/seduction21/09/19 11:02 PM
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Yeah that’s probably low interest or a test . Just say have a good night and leave it 3/4 days than hit her back with “ I am free after this time on this date . Want to grab coffee ? Just withdraw and don’t text until you ask her out again
/r/seduction21/09/19 07:30 PM
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No man , just stop messaging her , the only way you get what you want is if she message you . The more contact you make the less attractive you become to her . I know it’s difficult , we all been there , but Just leave it !
/r/seduction21/09/19 07:26 PM
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Then yeah probably
/r/seduction21/09/19 05:55 PM
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its not ideal , but as long as she is free after and you have a place to take her , then no
/r/seduction21/09/19 05:27 PM
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firstly she didn't rejected you. she ask you a question . you can say " no , lets meet for coffee your are interesting i want to know more etc .or say yes " and ask her more questions . probably would try the first one bro
/r/seduction21/09/19 05:13 PM
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if you know she is interested why are you chasing her , she rejected you 4 times , back off a little / a lot . give it a week let her think you have moved on
/r/seduction21/09/19 05:10 PM
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she either just wanted the ONS , or she wants to control the interaction and get you to chase and apologise . probably wouldn't have sent the last text , basically says i am thinking of you , are you still interested . normal to avoid them texts i just saying i am hanging out here at this date and time , come along then can judge interest with that. either get radio silence , sorry i am busy / yeah thats sounds like fun
/r/seduction21/09/19 05:06 PM
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depends , as long as you escalate right then you should be fine . just play it cool between dates and don't over text
/r/seduction21/09/19 04:59 PM
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honestly you might need to be clearer with your intentions when getting the socials/ numbers . if you never mention getting drinks / food then spring it no them , maybe suggest a date , the get contact information
/r/seduction21/09/19 04:34 PM
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Just back off , and let her come to you . But you probably blow it the chance of anything serious .
/r/seduction21/09/19 11:54 AM
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You can’t you caught feelings , it happens . Either accept the situation or tell her how you feel . There is a reason why people are BF/GF . Or walk away and try and forgot about her . But it will likely happen again . Jealous / becoming attached is not uncommon .
/r/seduction21/09/19 11:44 AM
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When you picked up the phone and rang her , she literally told you she wants nothing serious and you basically forced her to cut you off . Wanting to know where you stand with a girl is a form of neediness . I know it’s sucks but as Corey Wayne says - let the girl focus on labels , you just turn up , have fun and hook up .
/r/seduction21/09/19 11:37 AM
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You are not , I said don’t let it , by coming across as needy and controlling. If you can’t cope with her seeing other guys than don’t be with her , it’s not her fault .
/r/seduction21/09/19 11:34 AM
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Bro don’t let your ego , ruined something that’s sounds good . Either accepted it or tell her you want to be exclusive .
/r/seduction21/09/19 10:57 AM
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well just approach with low exceptions , treat them as practice until you get back to where you were . like hitting the driving range before you get back on the course
/r/seduction20/09/19 11:57 PM
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get back in the gym, it will help you mentally and physical brother
/r/seduction20/09/19 11:54 PM
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honestly the right time is the right time , not a time you have pre decided. but others will suggest not kissing untill you can escalated to sex from the kiss . for example kissing it the restaurant you can not have sex there . so you build up sexual tension and only kiss her when she is at yours or in the hotel room . but theres no real perfect way . GL
/r/seduction20/09/19 11:50 PM
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she might have change her mind , just ask her , A test would have be more like rejecting the date or canceling date to gauge how you react.
/r/seduction20/09/19 11:29 PM
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ask her like the day off , or night before ,
/r/seduction20/09/19 11:18 PM
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i think she is interested but you are like 5th on her list of priorities. maybe just cut back on the conversation during the day , move it to 2/3 days . Just say hope you doing well , are you free x - or when are you free next week . It sounds like you have already built the comfort up just don't rekt your progress by being needy .
/r/seduction20/09/19 10:25 PM
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honestly when the feeling of not approaching , is worst than the AA . AS a 23 year old male you are supposed to talk to , hit on , chase woman , its in your DNA bro. It social acceptable, you are the only barrier , because you only hurting yourself . stop reading this , open up your phone go on tinder or IG and message 5 girls . The world will not end , you might even get a reply .... lol . Then tomorrow go approach 5 girls at the mail , coffee shop etc .
/r/seduction20/09/19 06:37 PM
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Universal advice seems to be wait 2-3 days . I suspect you have done the [ i got home safe , had a good time , nice to meet you texts ) after the date ? Then just leave it for a couple of days . Maybe message her Sunday night and work out something for during next week
/r/seduction20/09/19 03:01 PM
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Just invite her to something you are already doing , low interest . Plus shows you have value and you are not just sat at home waiting for her to reply . GL
/r/seduction20/09/19 02:45 PM
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yeah , just honestly normally pretty good at ready girls , just she from a different culture and country . Plan is to ask her out again next week , had kind of written her off as the date was good just friendly. have other options just trying to learn and understand for next time
/r/seduction20/09/19 11:59 AM
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Honestly google /watch vids on how to approach , then practice and approach .
/r/seduction20/09/19 11:25 AM
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Would have gone from IG to phone number , no real point of getting another social media point , side ways more , no progression . Should like you have to build up comfort, so just continue to make statements and ask questions . Travel , work , school , life , family . Only sending 2/3 text a day that should last you a week . Just don’t mention going out for a few days then slowing build up to it , ask her , her schedule over the next few days . Then proceed to say I going her fancy joining me .
/r/seduction20/09/19 10:40 AM
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Groups are weird for me , you basically have to get both girls numbers than message the girl you like , which might cause jealous in the other girl when she finds out . Or you have to text/ invite both girls to event . Then work out to move in the girl you like . Only success I had with groups is when one of the girls offered her number . I normally just ask similar question but use an opener like you girls look life fun / interesting depending on their vibe/ location
/r/seduction20/09/19 10:36 AM
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Depends how small , as long as everyone doesn’t know everyone and there like less than 30 girls . I would proceed actually the same way as with a big uni .
/r/seduction20/09/19 10:24 AM
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mate as male you peak at 28 -35 sh!t you got plenty of time. In terms of the learning game , experience and approaching is the best way to learn game , approach , analyses , learn , then reapply that knowledge to new approaches . In terms of the other girl - I would say back off but its easier said then done . She basically sounds like a jealous GF , without any of the benefits of a GF . You have been Freindszone for been too timid and then you continue to entertain her and bullsh!t . Maybe a fr…
/r/seduction19/09/19 10:06 PM
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I wouldn't worry about doing it the "ALPHA" - The stuff you read about because you have done lots of work on yourself , that woman will notice you and run up you and drag you home with them , its stupid. Mainly it doesn't matter how much work you do on yourself , it will never change the mindset and the issues girls have with approaching men . A- they do not have too because other men will approach and yeah you might be their type but you probably not the only guy she is attracted to in the bar.…
/r/seduction19/09/19 09:31 PM
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yes and no , are you happy with your current sex life ? . if yes than , no you don't have to do anything . However i guess you are here and have taken time to write a post , so I would guess you want to improve your success rate with woman . If having conversations with random people sounds awful then you probably going to struggle, unless you going to flip a switch and be super sociable and friendly when talking to hot girls then revert back to the "Grinch" ( unfriendly , no offence) to people …
/r/seduction19/09/19 09:23 PM
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no worries , we are all on the same grind .
/r/seduction19/09/19 09:01 PM
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honestly i would just simplify your aims of the night. It sounds like you are just looking for a causal thing with girls. Also you say hitting on girls when the music is good , you mean dance with them get close ..... ? , if you just approached them at the bar , when they not dancing and talk . that could solve that problem . A lso is the need to SX greater than finding a girl that ticks multiple boxes for you . sounds like you are disqualifying girls so you don't feel bad for not approaching. a…
/r/seduction19/09/19 09:00 PM
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Might be worth adding more detail about how you opened and what you and she said , if you can remember. So you can self analyise and the sub can comment of things to improve on .
/r/seduction19/09/19 08:49 PM
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I am pretty sure your GF has seen a handsome guy before , and has decided to date you ! . Your self doubt and lack of confident will do 100 x more damage to your relationship , than MR.CHAD , smiliing at her as she walks through the corridor.
/r/seduction19/09/19 08:44 PM
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try and make it soon , so the momentum is continued . if your date is a like 4-7 days away , you are going to have to text her more and thats tricky to get right. GL
/r/seduction19/09/19 08:40 PM
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Yeah mate , honestly only a 3rd of the uni was back this week and you see that many girls who are hot , that you can’t actually approach all Of them
/r/seduction19/09/19 08:15 PM
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Yeah worth trying
/r/seduction19/09/19 08:14 PM
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Honestly if tinder is not working for you , then not sure IG will work great . But they send away , maybe a few will get back to you !
/r/seduction19/09/19 06:41 PM
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Just stand / sit in either the campus cafe / coffee shops or library . honestly make a move now . not going to get another chance to have access to this many girls in the same location in your life!
/r/seduction19/09/19 06:38 PM
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first people (not just girls) will throw out 10 or 15 follows and then unfollow , and hope people just stay followed to them . boost their ego and (popularity) as they have a better following/followers ratio. You are also not clear on what your actual goal is , if its just to get followers then i wouldn't bother doing anything . If its to get numbers/dates then find either ask them about a post or just DM a question Like -hey do you study at ....... ) Then you can judge interest of that . GL
/r/seduction19/09/19 06:31 PM
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Yeah , just learn to relax . Good way to extend conversation is just to just ask relevant questions . Let the other person be 80 % of the talking . Practice with this and look at good body language videos . Then hopefully after some time they will return the question back to you . It’s pretty simple just requires practice. GL
/r/seduction19/09/19 12:45 PM
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Honestly meeting woman though day game to date is like one layer of a cake which has 10 layers . It helps your confidence , social skills , reading body language, reacting to situations quickly . Alter approach and been able to befriend somebody in 5/10 minutes . On tinder the APP can only link the two people together and set up a date . If you have learnt zero of the qualities above, as all you do is swipe and never socialise , you are going to struggle to get past the first date . period .
/r/seduction19/09/19 11:28 AM
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Sounds like the problem is you give off a vibe of a 21 year old v . Who has never kissed a girl . Honestly might be worth watching vids on how successful men carry themselves ex James Bond / Dom draper etc . First step - talk to more people in general . Work out if people want to talk to you or just give you a simple yes and leave . Then build up to approaching woman , the more comfortable you are the easier it will be to approach and easier for them to stay around and talk. Being more comfortab…
/r/seduction19/09/19 11:22 AM
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Life is fun when you you don’t give a foock and live it ! . Be brave 👊
/r/seduction19/09/19 11:14 AM
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Are you friendly with the any other staff members at the gym . A safer approach might be to get some information from them on her like does she have a BF , hint you like her and see what comes from it . It’s not great approach , but saves you making it awkward if she is happy with a BF . Or just go will ba!!s to the wall and straight up ask her for a number . But do something quickly just for peace of mind
/r/seduction19/09/19 10:40 AM
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Where you based In the UK
/r/seduction18/09/19 04:56 PM
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Have you got any work colleges that you can go out with ? . Also if girls is the number one reason you are going out , Day game actually works best alone IMO . Makes it simpler .
/r/seduction18/09/19 04:11 PM
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Yeah it’s bad . First you basically told all the girls that the girl you got with is “slutty and annoying “ so forgot about seeing her again lol . Secondly you just told them you can’t be discreet and if they hook up with you everyone will know ! . Plus you bragged which is hella unattractive , comes across as everyone I got laid - that sh!t never happens to me ! . Just maybe learn from this and just say we talked we chilled . Or just smile and change subject
/r/seduction18/09/19 01:17 PM
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Just withdraw your sexual energy and requests Treat them as friends , food / coffee /Drinks / events . They will probably notice you have back off, which is when you hope they try and get you reinvested sexually . But only really works if they haven’t meet somebody else .
/r/seduction18/09/19 01:12 PM
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Yeah , the same way when you first meet you didn’t say , hi how are you , let’s f0ck . Can’t really say okay bye , but let’s still fOck. Just doesn’t work ! . Be causal and friendly , treat her like a friend .
/r/seduction17/09/19 12:14 PM
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If you are trying to turn a ex into a FWB , which is very difficult . You have to be a waaaaay more discreet . Maybe ask to hang out , or go for food , as friends . Let it happen natural , you need to show her the benefits of the no strings relationship , with you .
/r/seduction17/09/19 11:39 AM
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yeah it tough these days , honestly having more success when she rejects the first time i offer meeting up . I pull back , just go back to chatting , but have her on a social media and post you having fun . Then give it a few days , and build back up to asking her out . i always say whats your schedule looking like, hope she leaves a day open . if she says i am really busy or makes it clear she has no time . then don't bother , either leave it or pull back and repeat .
/r/seduction16/09/19 08:46 PM
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she likes the attention , but she probably doesn't see you as long term , so doesn't want to either get more attached or waste her time
/r/seduction16/09/19 07:46 PM
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is there a age difference ? , it sounds like she likes you and the attention you give . but has no real investment other than that . You make her feel better , not too sure how OkCupid works but has she changed her bio / added more photos , usually a sign she not the interested on going much further with you .
/r/seduction16/09/19 07:34 PM
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Think she is waiting for you to set a time and place . Easier for her to accept , than ask you out and get rejected . GL dude
/r/seduction16/09/19 06:51 PM
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Yoga classes are great , would just make sure it at weekend / after 5pm . Or you just doing it with new mums / old ladies . Supermarket / mails . Kind of cold approaching but easier conversation topic on “ oh I seen you picked that up is that better than this “ Type of question . Just be natural about it
/r/seduction16/09/19 02:00 PM
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Follow / requested to follow - if rejected or she accepts but doesn’t follow back - don’t make a move . If she follows back - either comment a question about her story or post on the post or in her DM’s . Then if she gives you a yes /no answer than probably no interested . If it’s more detail , then continue to ask questions and find common topics . - Than after a 5 /6 back and fourth questions ask for her number . Then try and work towards meetings . But honestly unless she is really interested…
/r/seduction16/09/19 11:40 AM
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hahha , this is through , 'you are cool ,we should hang out some time . whats your instragrm handle" lool , see it is super easy
/r/seduction15/09/19 10:20 PM
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lol , this defiantly doesn't count as an approach , keep me updated though
/r/seduction15/09/19 10:10 PM
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yeah , i see if you can track your approaches and maybe post after 50 or after a week . I am a , fairly attractive man 23 Uk , 6'2 and in good shape , but i would certainly think you going to have a lot more success than me , if we approached 100 people . GL
/r/seduction15/09/19 09:59 PM
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honestly if thats the case , just approach , ask them a few questions and just end with we should hang out some time , so lets swap numbers . Would be interested in your success rate lol , be pretty high i suspect .
/r/seduction15/09/19 08:31 PM
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Think A guy will amuse you are into him just by actually talking to him , which is rare ,especially if you and him are strangers . Only slight issue you probably going to have is working out what type of relationship he wants ,is the issue that you are giving out visual hints yet no one is approaching or you just want to try approaching guys
/r/seduction15/09/19 07:55 PM
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Think you can take most of the advise about approaching thats has been given to men and apply it to woman . Just say hi and take it from there , that will covers the approach part just fine . Are you taking about approaching one particular guy or a number of different guys .? But speaking on behalf of all men in the world , being approached by a woman is fine , go for it !
/r/seduction15/09/19 07:45 PM
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Probably ask her what her schedule next week looks like , I messed up a bit this week , I was messaging a girl from IG , ask her out for coffee the same day as her birthday ! Lol . So maybe best feeling out what her weeks looks like . She might even make it easier for you and say “ i am busy the next few days but Thursday is quieter “ . She seems keen on you , so just play it cool !
/r/seduction15/09/19 01:32 PM
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Probably find more useful advise on R/Tinder
/r/seduction15/09/19 01:25 PM
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Yeah sorry Just Wasn’t clear , just if you meet her through online dating/ social media or in person she would know what you look like .
/r/seduction15/09/19 01:08 PM
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How did you get her number , sounds like it was friendship thing to her which you tried to turn in to a dating thing and she wasn’t that keen .
/r/seduction15/09/19 12:38 PM
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Approach woman when you see a cute girl ,and treat them like you treat new people at work. if you feel like its going well ask for her number. do this about 100 times a month and you will start to get into the romantic/sexual experience Approaching Anxiety is something you have to over come on your own . honestly is being told by a girl she has a boyfriend or is not interested more or less embarrassing / depressing than been a virgin a 32 . not meaning to be harsh just i doubt the rejection is w…
/r/seduction15/09/19 12:18 AM
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yep , the issue is you rarely going to find out unless you talk to the girl , ask her a simple question then judge interest of her answer and body language.
/r/seduction14/09/19 11:54 PM
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why don't you try calling her ,. be honest about how you feel and then let her decide what she wants to do. no point in starting to play games now , it will just look insincere and childish .
/r/seduction14/09/19 11:48 PM
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Experience > Theoretical Game . PERIOD
/r/seduction14/09/19 09:05 PM
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i am curious why , if the BF was an issue for you , then you wouldn't have continue to flirt and drink with her . Sounds like now the challenge has gone , you not interested ? or i miss understood
/r/seduction13/09/19 11:39 PM
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having a similar issue with a girl over on IG , she is from Lebanon (possible muslin too) . message a few times back and fourth , invited her out , she said that would be nice but the day i suggest was her birthday . didn't give alternative day . but she keep asking questions and responding so assuming she needs more time to feel comfortbale. Also with apps like tinder , people think its normally to send three or four messages than meet up for sex , think this is rare , not the norm
/r/seduction13/09/19 11:21 PM
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she offered firday or monday , did you actually set a date ? also suggest she needed to get you know better untill she commits to meeting . Honestly the rule only text to set up dates , isn't really that effective , with social media and people posting and messaging 24/7 .no contact for 3/4 days comes across as "ghosting" . Think a balance of a few back and fourth texts each day is okay before you meet
/r/seduction13/09/19 11:07 PM
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*Always follow first , or request to follow * hi , then a question which is relevant . I normal say "hi do you study at ( UNI\Collage ) ? . Either get no response or a yes/No , which is kind of the same or Yes/No then either the course they study or what job they do , great sign is if they ask what you do (study/work) But honestly if you follow a girl and she doesn't follow you back , then probably no worth attempting .
/r/seduction13/09/19 09:11 PM
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Probably your first mistake is defining between a girl or guy . They are the same ! (people ) . so start with small steps , ask question where things are , what they are doing , basic stuff , judge tier engagement and body language if good positive then either ask more question , if not say thank you and move on. no drama
/r/seduction13/09/19 09:01 PM
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Facts , almost felt live living half a life , like i haven't unlock the rest of the game lol (when not in great shape) Sounds silly but once you feel good and confident the world is a difference place man
/r/seduction13/09/19 08:48 PM
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100 per cent yes - I am 6"2 and went from 227p to 199p and 27% body fat to 16% (still not finished ) over the past 4 months , just eating clean and gym . Honestly best decision i ever made , crazy how much your own self confidence improves . Woman treat you different to , one funny thing i notice is i constantly get mothered if i am in a cafe or food place , they bring over tissues and spoons asking if i need something , just random things , never happened before . its more the little things wit…
/r/seduction13/09/19 08:45 PM
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only small peace of advise i would have is treat the Gym like a work place or some one in the same UNI class . you probably have to see them multiple times. Maybe you could just have a normal converstation and judge from that her interest , without sayings she cute or asking for her number .
/r/seduction12/09/19 11:57 PM
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Game is as simple as you make it , you can go in to great depth about what to say , where \when to touch etc . Think people sometimes misinterpreted game as experience . you could read every book on GAME and be the most knowledgeable , but until you are in sets or come up against LMR in person you won't really be confident in over coming it. You can be successful with no game , but have lots of experience. imagine learning to ride a bike from just reading books and reddit posts and never getting…
/r/seduction12/09/19 10:09 PM
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personally thinking the double text thing isn't really applicable after 3 months( not a reason not to message) , she might have meet someone new or just wanted a fresh start in their new place (when contact ended ) . maybe asking if she is back in town or when , might be the best approach , the worst thing that will happen is she will not respond , which is exactly the same situation you are in now , just continue approaching others and have low expectations of this girl getting back to you - wi…
/r/seduction12/09/19 02:46 PM
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honestly if you live in different counties , whats actually the long term plan? . Sometimes chasing after something where logistically it will never work is just wasting your time and energy.
/r/seduction12/09/19 02:33 PM
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Sounds like the type of girl who likes the attention , kind of treating you like a "fan boy". I would try and move contact offline , if thats possible , just played it like you don't care and even say you forgot to see the photos . Do not offer any photography skills , (just looks so needy) . you have already done the hard part in making first contact , just keep it slow and simple offline IMO.
/r/seduction12/09/19 12:40 PM
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just ask if she is watching anything at the moment (expect some trash show lol , some of the answers you get are wild ) then maybe suggest something you like which you can ask her about , can be no contact for 3-4 days and then ask what she thought or something clever about a character . Also gives you an out for not messaging day to day or hourly
/r/seduction11/09/19 08:49 PM
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she probably not interested at this point , sucks but sh!t happens. only real thing to do is Leave her on read , give it a few days and just respond to the message , short response , just don't ask her out again ! , might as well try fake low interest on your part , but that ship might have already sailed .
/r/seduction11/09/19 08:42 PM
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Pretty sure this is rule one in "how to make a guy jealous rule book" . Its your non comment / non neediness which probably caused this. just keep it up , she probably she you as a challenge , just make super causal plans like ask if she wants to join you somewhere if you are attempting a F close
/r/seduction11/09/19 08:35 PM
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hey , so a friend of mine met a girl on tinder when we were away on a 4 day trip ( Uk - Germany) . They hooked up and he liked her , but had to go back to the UK - but they both Liked GOT and the new season was out at the same time (so he had a valid excuse / reason to keep in touch . plus the conversations were always new as the show offered new talking points. He is flying out to see her next week ( first trip was in May) and is staying at her place. so it can be done ! So you need to find a t…
/r/seduction11/09/19 08:28 PM
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