| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 81 | Alright Queens, I need some advice/support | SEEKING ADVICE | WesternGarlic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 07:59 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 11 | Pick me is a thing on Tik tok! Interesting. Also, please someone pick her please ...🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 04:26 AM |
| 42 | Pick me is a thing on Tik tok! Interesting. Also, please someone pick her please ...Don’t forget her swearing and white girl dreads! Sooo edgy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 02:37 AM |
| 24 | SAHM’s husband takes 15k out of their shared account that was meant to correct her torn muscles. He claims he thought she no longer wanted the surgery and wanted to reward himself for being a great father with a computer.SAME! You don’t need anyone’s permission or consent for divorce! Seriously, I wanna go on a lecture circuit around the cpu try and clear up this misconception! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 01:28 PM |
| 2 | You're all so lovely! I hope you ladies find someone who will actually care about all the tiny things about you and will respect and adore you.That’s a sweet sentiment, and I thank you for the kind wishes, but FUCK that. I need no god-dang man for any of that, any neither do any of you! YOU are that person already, for yourself! You need to fall in love with yourself, and then if someone who comes along that loves you more, then you can allow him to stay! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 04:01 AM |
| 4 | So many queens here 😻😻Join us when you’re ready and we’ll share this love with you too, sis! (J/k, we already love you! ❤️) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 02:19 AM |
| 13 | Are they even trying to get laid at this pointCongratulations!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 03:38 PM |
| 7 | Is it just me or do older men (35+) on apps really make no effort.As someone just getting back into dating...that’s terrifying! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 05:37 AM |
| 2 | Alright Queens, I need some advice/supportI’m getting socially involved so I’ve got more to worry about and live for. You’re so right that there’s so much else besides those things. It feels so wonderful to be part of a strong, independent community of women! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 12:59 AM |
| 2 | Alright Queens, I need some advice/supportI have, haven’t I?! I feel absolutely overwhelmed with the amount of love and support from this sub. It’s a balm for my heart and I’m CRAVING it right now! I hadn’t considered that at all! I’m going to look into it, though I’ve heard it can be a little costly. That’s a great idea though, thank you!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 12:53 AM |
| 2 | Alright Queens, I need some advice/supportWell, if this tread is teaching me anything, it’s that I need to keep dating younger men without remorse! But I couldn’t agree more, dating is the WORST. I’ll be taking a break, as I’ve gathered is the best course of action based on group consensus. I keep deleting and re-downloading OLD apps and that’s a good sign that I need to lay off for a while. You’re right about having to sift through a whole bunch of BS, though! I can’t believe how many guys I swipe left on who have any combination of th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Alright Queens, I need some advice/supportAlas, that I only have one upvote to give! Your post move me, and gave me a lot of food for thought. Know that you’ve inspired me and helped me set some much-needed goals for myself. You’re totally, completely right. This isn’t a goal that I really, truly need a man for, that’s a farce perpetuated by society, I just a caring community and some decent sperm. Thanks for helping me separate the concepts of motherhood and finding a HVM, this is truly some revolutionary stuff for me. Having said that… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 12:41 AM |
| 2 | Alright Queens, I need some advice/supportIsn’t it comforting to know that there seems to be women going through this very same point in life? As lonely as I often feel, it warms my soul to know to know I’m not alone, that I have kindred spirits floating around in the wider world. I find myself smiling at random women, just in case. They probably need it either way. I think you’re taking your time and I applaud you, and I’m just probably trying to rush through to get to the next stage, because Lord knows I crave new love as a balm for m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 12:19 AM |
| 8 | Alright Queens, I need some advice/supportI hope one of you brought a mop and bucket or a shop vac or something, because y’all been spilling T all over the goddamn floor and it’s some of the most beautiful, eloquent, bittersweet, and painful stuff I’ve read in a while. And I thank you for that, because I needed that. You honor me with sharing your life experiences with me, and helping me make the necessary growth I need as a person. hugs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 02:32 AM |
| 3 | Alright Queens, I need some advice/supportWow, so I FEEL this! It’s a strong wavelength, sister! I’ve also found that if I like their personality and we get along, I start to find people attractive that I would’ve never noticed before. I didn’t want to seem insensitive and mention all of the emotion baggage the ones I DO meet hand me at the door. I’ve worked hard to learn how to regulate my emotions and become more logical (mostly as a result of criticism from men that I was too emotional, but I digress). Attraction is definitely fluid,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 01:42 AM |
| 19 | Alright Queens, I need some advice/supportThere’s a reason you have the “FDS Disciple” flair, this is such good advice and exactly what I needed to hear/read. I AM trying to force it, and it’s no wonder it’s not working as a result. You’re right, this is probably life’s way of trying to force me to recalibrate and figure out what’s really, truly right for me. Thank you :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 11:24 PM |
| 4 | Alright Queens, I need some advice/supportThat’s such a good point! I don’t put much stock into “The Secret” or that kinda jazz, but I do think there’s something about the energy you put off and what you attract as a result. Thanks for the advice and support :) good luck to you as you work through the process, too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 11:14 PM |
| 15 | Alright Queens, I need some advice/supportSERIOUSLY! I spend the first ten minutes trying to figure out if there pictures were taken from a specific angle, really ancient, or actually them! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 08:58 PM |
| 5 | Alright Queens, I need some advice/supportOh my goodness, are you me? Sometimes Reddit really amazes me with its ability to bring similar people together. I just tried a new skincare routine this morning to literally brighten my day (side note: if you have a Grocery Outlet Bargain Market near you, they’ve got a deal right now on the Olay Vit. C AHA peel for $7.99). Thank you for the commiseration, it’s really comforting to hear I’m doing thing right and I honestly teared up a bit. The boat doesn’t feel as lonely anymore. I think you’re … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 08:50 PM |
| 8 | A thank you to all the ladies on hereWe know you’re gonna make us all proud. Love you ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 02:02 AM |
| 32 | Imaginary sky daddy apparently endorses sloppy three minute jackhammering.They’re just jealous they didn’t get a magic button that only exists to make you feel good and is able to be used multiple times in a row! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 11:55 PM |
| 6 | Concrete example of what being married to a Negative Value man is like: you will lose MONEYYou’re so right! It’s almost astounding how much money I have now that I don’t have a man to support! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 08:01 PM |
| 11 | Bye then.I’m a former CoolGirl, so I’m not sure if I can offer much insight. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 04:07 AM |
| 41 | Bye then.Because he’s just some worthless POS that’s looking for a trophy bangmaid! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 11:32 PM |
| 34 | More of this please! LVM thrive off women competing with other women and tearing each other down.Amen to this! We don’t stand to lose anything by supporting other women, because we are NOT in competition! You’re your own unique, beautiful brand of awesome, and no one can rock it like you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 05:49 PM |
| 9 | I do not owe you a date just because I’m single !A little louder for the ladies in the back! Friends don’t set friends up with scrotes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 04:39 PM |
| 47 | Men🙄🙄This is grave news, sisters. Grave, gross news. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 12:35 AM |
| 18 | I just dropped himI’m so proud of you for both trusting your gut and kicking him to the curb when you found out! It sucks to like someone and find out they aren’t worth your time, but fortunately you found out pretty early! Take NO shit from NO man! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 03:44 PM |
| 42 | Ladies, this is the only appropriate answer to “you’re not like other girls”.It is seriously one of the weirdest and worst "compliments" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 11:40 PM |
| 17 | There’s clownery going on in this relationship. He’s lied to her like 10 times 🙄Seriously! Like dump him already! More than three strikes in any category should be an automatic "Yoouu'rre Out!" (Of my mf-ing life!) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 11:38 PM |
| 53 | Got tired of waiting for him to plan a vacation for us, so I booked an all-inclusive vacation by myselfThat was my first thought! I was like "Oh, he wants to disguise a weed vacation as a romantic couples event. " Lame! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 11:04 PM |
| 4 | I’m tired of this narrative that women live life on “easy mode.” Imagine being so narrow-minded that you think that women getting free drinks and movies means the patriarchy no longer existsBecause they just want sex and it’s really hard to get when you don’t put any work into yourself (instead relying on that very trickery you stated!!) and just expect things to be handed to you. I guess I shouldn’t be surprised it’s been that way for so long. Depressed certainly, but not surprised... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 03:58 PM |
| 7 | Last few months I’ve been going around with an attitude of “well, if a man can do it, it can’t be that hard, I bet I can do it too” and ladies I have yet to be wrongI was just going to say “Oh, that’s was happened to my ex!” 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 03:21 PM |
| 15 | I’m tired of this narrative that women live life on “easy mode.” Imagine being so narrow-minded that you think that women getting free drinks and movies means the patriarchy no longer existsMaybe because they’re just looking for meaningless sex they think women of the same age want the same thing? I’m sure every girl who actually wants a fuckboy could get one shockingly easy. Now as for a HVM you actually want to talk to over coffee the next morning, forget it! That’s some needle in the haystack shit right there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 03:17 PM |
| 6 | New Sub for Posting Those Crude Dating Site MessagesThank you! I’ve been looking for somewhere to post these things! My experience with OLD has been short but it’s just been overrun with these sorts of men/experiences. And making fun of it at least lightens how sad and depressing it is out there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 08:14 PM |
| 63 | Does anyone else have immense frustration towards how rotten this generation is?I feel this weird need to apologize to you as a 33 year old woman. I know this was the case like ten years ago when I was where you are, and as a former CoolGirl I definitely fed into it in a lot of ways. We've got a long way to go collectively, but I'd like to think it's just a matter of ladies finding this sub, of making a lot of little decisions not to waste time on scrotes, block automatically, and laugh at any man that doesn't respect our worth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 04:26 AM |
| 4 | Think I am finally done with men.Oh, yeah, totally. Well, remember that cool diatribe we’ve all been fed where men think with their penises blah blah blah ergo it’s the woman’s fault because this manchild doesn’t know any better. You know, that damn seductress that lured him away (the home wrecker!?!) and broke the queen code by going after the man of another. I feel like women are expected to know better, and I think that’s why the accounts you’ve heard are out there. It’s totally a shitty situation for OP, not only did she ge… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 07:26 PM |
| 10 | Think I am finally done with men.Does that really apply here though? It’s not like she’s be trying to seek some revenge for being dropped, OP didn’t know she was the “other woman”. If you were the wife, wouldn’t you wanna know? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 06:05 PM |
| 10 | Dudes posing like they are the prize 🤣🤣🤣*NSFW and also *NSFL (not safe for life)THANK YOU! I scrolled to the bottom and was like "Oh honey, you skipped leg day. Pass!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 02:02 AM |
| 84 | Why is feminist media so invested in pressuring women into "maintenance sex"? Why, in the era of #MeToo, are we still being told to ignore our internal warning systems and engage in sex we don't want for the sole benefit of men? How about we pressure men into being more fuckable so it's not a chore?This all the way! Can we PLEASE make this baby a two-way street?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 05:40 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone actually believe this is an accident when this happens?Seriously! It’s difficult even with two enthusiastically consenting adults! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 03:48 PM |
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