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Handmade, they are just cartoony type cards but he enjoys them.
/r/RedPillWives15/04/16 06:03 AM
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Thats a lovely painting. What a beautiful spot.
/r/RedPillWives15/04/16 04:58 AM
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All my babies are older now, but i love making little booties for my friends and family when they are expecting. :D
/r/RedPillWives15/04/16 04:57 AM
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Those cards are adorable, I make my husband StarTrek theme cards every Valentines Day. I'll have to work out how to link pictures here one day blush
/r/RedPillWives15/04/16 04:56 AM
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I like you.
/r/RedPillWives15/04/16 04:53 AM
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Well, I'm post wall now and i've been "prancing" since I was a teen... So I'm just going to keep on prancing. But I just call it being a woman.. Maybe I'm a bit old-fashioned but i'm ok with that.
/r/RedPillWives15/04/16 04:52 AM
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Fat whiney bitches Trigger me..
/r/RedPillWives14/04/16 01:31 PM
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Well I am grateful.We moved to a new town and now my husbands working away (4 months now) and I have been very lonely, but it was starting to feel....like more then just loneliness, if that makes sense. My children has all started school this year as well , So at home I am well and truely alone. But I think i've been so used to my kids and husband filling my time that i'm just not sure what to do with myself. I'm going to find out my paints and maybe sign up for a couple DIY classes at the local…
/r/RedPillWives11/04/16 02:30 AM
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Exactly, I've moved to a new town and my husband is working away with 3 children and no family here its very hard to get out and meet people with similar values.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 02:20 AM
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Honestly - I'd kind of love it, if he implemented a dress code or something for me... But he doesn't give much thought to my clothing, or maybe he just approves of my style... He had put his foot down about 1 thing, Onesies, he hates them :(
/r/RedPillWives11/04/16 02:05 AM
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I used to have chin length hair, but my husband prefers long. So now my hair is just bellow my chest, i'm aiming for hip length, but worry about falling into the religious/churchy/culty look some long haired women get. I removed my piercings, lost the Fluro pink hair. Toned down the makeup. The only thing I think I wouldn't do would be please him would be to purposely gain weight, (But you are much lighter then me :), )
/r/RedPillWives11/04/16 02:03 AM
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Yes, and I have to say I really did enjoy it. Ive actually re-read it a few times now.
/r/RedPillWives11/04/16 01:55 AM
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Thank you... I really needed this today x
/r/RedPillWives11/04/16 01:53 AM
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Breastfeeding as birth control doesn't work for everyone. Says the mother of two sons very close in age :)
/r/RedPillWives08/04/16 01:55 PM
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Sums up my single friends pretty well..
/r/RedPillWives08/04/16 02:17 AM
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The power of wife googles is unbelievable. I met my husband when I was 19, now (almost 33 :O ) when he randomly tells my I'm beautiful or look pretty today ect.. Of course I smile, and say thank you. But inside I'm thinking , I really need to get his eyes tested.... Or do I..?
/r/RedPillWives08/04/16 02:15 AM
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It seems like its the birth control that is the issue. I imagine it would be really hard for him to relax and let himself go when he has the fear of getting you pregnant hanging over him. There are no chemical methods, sponge, diaphragm, if condoms are a issue for you maybe try non latex, .. ? I really think this is the issue here..
/r/RedPillWives08/04/16 02:08 AM
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We're awesome ;)
/r/RedPillWives08/04/16 01:58 AM
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Sorry, that should be wire coat hangers.
/r/RedPillWives08/04/16 01:58 AM
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Well thats good, but I certainly wouldn't survive in the dating world. It seems pretty brutal. Social media and dating sites have really make the "hook up" culture more accessible and accepted. I can imagine if I was single now, i'd be sitting home knitting with cats or something like that.
/r/RedPillWives07/04/16 09:37 AM
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Especially because its so blatantly obvious that its not as accidental as we claim. I think i'm lucky tp have a husband who enjoys or at least humours my silly side.
/r/RedPillWives07/04/16 08:11 AM
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he will hold me down a little while I 'happen' to be rubbing my butt against him Hahaha... Smooth moves. I do that, I'll snuggle into him and wiggle my bottom against him while i'm "trying to get comfortable"
/r/RedPillWives07/04/16 06:05 AM
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Sometimes, I'll give him a little fake yawn "Oh, but Honey i'm so tired" and then a giggle,.. He knows I'm just playing though.
/r/RedPillWives07/04/16 06:03 AM
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Laura Doyles "First , Kill all the marriage counsellors" . Was ok, I don't love her, Honestly she comes across a little smug and condescending. But she makes some very valid points. I've been listening to Jurassic Park and The Lost world and the gym. I love audio books, I get my reading in while doing the "chores".
/r/RedPillWives07/04/16 05:52 AM
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I would never consider having children with a man I was not married too. I've always wanted children. I would respect his opinion and I can certainly understand why marriage isn't for everyone. But it is for me, so he'd be a next (I've actually done this, and very glad I didn't settle).
/r/RedPillWives07/04/16 05:44 AM
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Plates just make me sad, RP take on marriage makes me sad. All I ever wanted was to find a good man, settle down and start a family. I cant imagine what it must be like for single RPW looking for a partner now Its like the whole world went mad in the last couple decades. But even with that being said, I still would never lower my personal standards to that level.(Of being a plate) I strive to be the best woman, wife and mother I can be. I adore my husband and make sure he knows every day how muc…
/r/RedPillWives07/04/16 05:39 AM
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I really like that through the issues of the last week or so you ladies have acted with dignity and class. No story telling no blaming, but gracefully moving onto better things.. Hi, I'm Whats er'name I live in Australia, I'll be 33 in a few months, I've been with my husband now for 13years. We have 3 children a not so bright dog and a turtle. I'm a homemaker and my Husbands assistant (self employed). I read way to much, love gardening, cooking, sewing , knitting, rock climbing, wrestling, yoga …
/r/RedPillWives07/04/16 05:25 AM
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I our 13 year relationship we have only had one serious fight, and it was about wire coat hangers... Now some might say, its wasn't really about the coat hangers. But My partner and I both have very strong feelings about coat hangers. They are no longer welcome in our home.
/r/RedPillWives07/04/16 12:30 AM
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I opened this thinking , "What type of idiot would say sorry, rather then Thankyou"... Apparently this type of idiot, Me :/ .. "I'm sorry for taking up your time, I know how busy you are" will now be "Thankyou for making time for me". Although does that sound a little passive aggressive?, Open to suggestions here..
/r/RedPillWives06/04/16 11:30 PM
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"you can be right or you can be happy". I'm pretty sure It was DR Phil :)
/r/RedPillWives06/04/16 09:27 AM
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You WILL Be Assimilated...
/r/RedPillWives06/04/16 09:17 AM
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The thimble ritual is lovely, But the Lovespoon, That really speaks to me, ... I should add I have a rather extensive wooden spoon collection so I may be biased. But I do love a practical man. Maybe its those Welsh Genes.
/r/RedPillWives05/04/16 02:58 AM
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Thanks. I figure since he is away most the year :( I could implement operation Hot wife (Looks wise, i'm a little average so I know I can do better, and with all the kids at school now I have ample time to focus on self improvement). Hopefully when he gets back he won't know what hit him.
/r/RedPillWives04/04/16 11:43 PM
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Keeping score is a killer.
/r/RedPillWives04/04/16 04:37 AM
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Yes! I updated my home wardrobe last week. I'm loosing weight and I didn't want to spend a lot on more clothes before I reach my "final form", But my house dresses were looking super sloppy. I just picked up a little pair of shorts and a couple floral singlets and navy maxi dress. Just enough to get me through this phase without looking like a total slob. Happy to report the shorts were a win with Husband.. ;)
/r/RedPillWives04/04/16 04:35 AM
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Thank you. I just had a weekend with him home. This year he is working overseas so I haven't been able to see him much over the last 4 months. He left Yesterday morning and since I have had the most stupid grin on my face. It even stayed on at the gym. Just thinking about him right now I have a huge smile... I love that man.
/r/RedPillWives04/04/16 12:22 AM
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People change and grow, you need to be ready and willing to change and grow along with your partner too. A good marriage doesn't just happen. Every year my marriage gets better, thats not to say we don't have ups and down, but we learn from them and grow together and closer. I think i'm more stupidly in love with my husband now then I was when we first married.
/r/RedPillWives04/04/16 12:10 AM
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DRINK BLEACH, YOU AWFUL WOLFKIN-ATTACKING, SMALLFAT-ELITIST RADSCUM
/r/RedPillWives03/04/16 08:18 AM
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Anytime I start to feel a bit blah , I re-read this post. The saying ,"There are no Ugly women, only Lazy ones" is also very true. . My Grandmother always used to say "You have to suffer to be beautiful".. Good one to remember at the gym when the pain starts to set in.
/r/RedPillWives03/04/16 07:35 AM
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This sounds fun :)
/r/RedPillWives03/04/16 06:21 AM
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Looks good, Thankyou Ladies.
/r/RedPillWives03/04/16 06:19 AM
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I really like that idea, Thankyou.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/16 12:08 PM
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I'll be 33 this year, and I'm okay with that. My mother used to lie about her age all the time. Saying she was in he late 20's even when I was 19, I can tell you it was a lie no-one was buying. Actually now I think about it, if anything I say i'm older then I am., I tend to round up.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/16 12:04 PM
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Congrats! Enjoy your pregnancy. Don't believe the "Eating for 2" lie.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/16 11:58 AM
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Well... In the case surely they will have no problem giving him partial custody and visitation to "his" child, right?
/r/TheRedPill29/03/16 05:39 AM
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Thank you. My husbands been working away for 4 months now, and i've just realised how clingy some of my text about missing him have probably been. I'll send him some a couple of flirty selfies instead :)
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/16 04:38 AM
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Thanks, I don't have a daughter but none of my boys are in gangs or sleeping around, I'll take it as a victory thus far.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 04:27 AM
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We have 3, my husband calls them the heir and 2 spares.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 03:49 AM
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Hmmm... I'm going to go with option 3 and send her off to a convent.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 03:48 AM
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I have a copy of "How to help your husband get ahead" by Mrs Dale Carnegie. Also a very interesting read.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/16 06:54 AM
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I've always preferred older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/16 12:12 AM
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Do you believe that marriage is "until death do you part?" Yes I do, My husband jokes that i'll be the first one to snap and smother him in his sleep, we've been together 12 years and neither of use have killed the other yet. A marriage won't be great all the time, when these times come, you work on them and fix it. We live in a throw away society , marriage shouldn't be one of those things that are just thrown away.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/16 12:09 AM
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Tax and legal benefits are the only actual, tangible benefits to marriage. Its really saddens me that this is what the idea of marriage has become.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/16 12:05 AM
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After 30 fertility becomes a issue, 34 there are more chances of complications and disability. If family is important to a woman spending the majority of your 20's with a man who doesn't know if he wants to marry and have a family with you is a foolish move (If having a family is a high priority for you and you don't want to spend years on the IVF rollercoaster which seems to be becoming the new norm, for those who left things to late).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 11:52 PM
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I'm not going to waste my prime on someone apparently seeking to string me along Agreed. If its going to take him almost 10 years to decided what he wants. Or wether or not I'm worthy of wife material he's not Husband material.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 11:48 PM
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We can acknowledge that someone is attractive, without being attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 01:31 PM
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Please don't think i'm insinuating i'm a high quality woman, It was just important for me to keep intimacy for a serious relationship only. Surprisingly after a conversation in RPW I discovered most women were not overly concerned about their partners "count", So while personally it would bother me at first (really we'd get over it- it may cause insecurity but thats our issue), many of the other women i've spoken to wouldn't be concerned at all. So I wouldn't worry about trying to hide it. Good …
/r/askTRP27/03/16 03:29 AM
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Depends how if he actually wants her to cook for him because it would save time while he's doing shit or whether he's doing it because he read it on here and thinks that's how all relationships should be. I can't imagine having a guest and not feeding them. My grandmother would be horrified.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/16 03:23 AM
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Just be pleasant to everyone and do your job. People will either like you or not like you. There isn't much you can do about it, so just be kind and pleasant. People are drawn to that.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/16 10:36 PM
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See, thats where it gets tricky. I'd keep the "i'm not sure, if ever" marriage part to yourself at first. I was very selective when looking for a partner and very open from the start that I was looking with the intention or marriage and family. Casual sex was not a option for me. That was just my opinion, but I felt It would be disrespectful to my (future) husband and children, if i'd slept with 1/2 the town. No man wants a whore raising his children. I'm not religious, but I do hold traditional…
/r/askTRP26/03/16 10:29 PM
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I met my husband when he was 21 (I was 19) we've been married nearly 11 years now. We have a very traditional marriage and that suits us both. If you can find someone with the same values as you that helps.
/r/askTRP26/03/16 09:58 PM
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Really, I hear it all the time. But i'm older 32 , which seems the be the age most women these days start to consider children/families... and it doesn't leave them much time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/16 09:44 PM
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That is just bad manners and being a terrible hostess. If she refuses to make you breakfast i'd step out to a coffee shop (without her) grab some breakfast and coffee and take my sweet time eating it, maybe read the newspaper too. It will really piss her off though...
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 09:37 PM
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Exactly, and really its not hard to get your partner in the mood. If it is, maybe you need to take a look at yourself and ask why?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/16 10:16 AM
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Why are you assuming I don't take the initiative..? Why do you assume think my only currency is sex? He doesn't have to barter or plead... Kissing/touching, is all part of foreplay. If your partner isn't in the mood you can help them get there. You're making a lot of assumptions. Although I'd still disagreeing with you, I do think i'm entitled to expect sex from my husband and vice versa. Eta - I wasn't saying that I withhold sex as a means of control, But I know many who do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/16 10:06 AM
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Really? Because I certainly think i'm entitle to sex with my husband. Women use sex as control. Thats the reason most withhold. But lets try this... What up? *I'm tired * Its been a tough week at work * The kids have been driving me crazy * I'm not in the mood * I have a headache... There are hundreds of excuses, Look in Dead Bedrooms. Those men and women has heard them all. A open relationship... Can you imagine the uproar on here if a wife who kept tuning her husband down for sex (with reasons…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/16 09:44 AM
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Some day my Gaston will come...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/16 09:21 AM
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Then its okay if he sleeps with someones else right? Because being married is pretty much committing to be with one person for the rest of your life. If He or She isn't putting out its going to be pretty miserable marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/16 08:36 AM
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ETA- Sorry. I had you confused with another poster.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/16 03:59 AM
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Tess is not just overweight, she's the size of a small car. And she doesn't have smooth features all that cottage cheese lumpiness is just photoshopped out. Have a google, one of her old friends who used to do her photography posted before and afters, its horrific. She's a manatee.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/16 04:27 AM
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If his turning down and invitation like that it might be time for you to move on.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/16 05:38 AM
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I used to think men and women could be friends. Until a guy I considered a very good (Platonic) friend 10+years. Tired to take advantage after I had a few drinks while out with friends, I guess he thought I was more drunk then I was. I got out of there quick smart, but I don't trust any male friends now, I just assume they'd all have altera motives.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/16 12:37 AM
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Ok, I kind of went off on a tangent after the first few sentences. But i'm going to post it anyway.. Imagine this book... A man leaves his wife (In her mid-late 30's) of many years because even though they had agreed to have children, he changes him mind. He sets off around the world,Flirting with beautiful women, indulging in fine foods, self discovery and over course a few holiday romances... The book is a sell out. Men everywhere love it, its in every bookclub, Guys can stop talking about how…
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/16 12:33 AM
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I'd just say " ..... Well.. there is one thing I'd like for my birthday, Why don't you come over Thursday night and i'll show you what that is." Then obviously have your wicked way with him.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/16 06:14 AM
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I love this! I hope you don't mind me stealing it x
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/16 08:15 AM
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Heaven forbid a woman cook her man a decent meal and blow him once in awhile, right?
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/16 08:13 AM
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Lets be honest though, they probably won't notice the difference. ;) When they have been working away for awhile once they get home its catchup time.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/16 08:10 AM
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Mine either, I'm going to have to move it to Friday.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/16 12:41 AM
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