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Yeah, my problem is (as I stated) the fact that sure, she probably feels and will not ever feel sexual attraction to any of her male friends, she can say that, mean it, but I still will never know for sure. I will, however, always know for sure what's in my heart and mind because, well, they're MY heart and mind. The other way around doesn't work.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/23 01:26 PM
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Nothing in my personal history created this insecurity. My friends are some of the best people I know, I have yet to experience a romantic relationship, my parents' marriage is fine and they get along well and they have also given me plenty of love and support, and, at least as far as I'm aware of, I know only two people who have been cheated on, although I am close to both (one guy and one girl). The guy also ignored a FUCKTON of red flags and the girl was cheated on when everyone involved was …
/r/ExRedPill27/05/23 06:56 AM
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Truth be told, I have no trouble trusting friends and family. However, my feelings change when it comes to romantic relationships, and I find it almost impossible to even imagine trusting someone so much. Basically handing them my heart on a silver platter in one hand, and a knife in the other and expecting them not to stab it somewhere down the line.
/r/ExRedPill26/05/23 06:52 PM
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I’m betting your college probably offers free therapy for students. It's a losing bet. They don't. I looked it up a while ago. You aren’t weak because you’re in therapy. In fact, it’s quite the opposite. You are correct here. However, things like this progress a little slower here in the East than in the West. Tell someone from here that you went to therapy, you get side-eyed. Sad but true.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 08:52 PM
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a lot of your self-doubt is still based in wanting to own and control women I don't see how the two correlate, at least in my case. If a female friend of mine ever said that they can't do something or wear something or hang out with someone because her man told her not to (unless it's a stupidly obvious thing like not letting her do drugs or something dangerous like that), I would immediately point out how big of a red flag that is, the fact that he is a controlling and dangerous asshole and she…
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 08:46 PM
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Where I come from therapy is seen as something one only does if they have some very bad stuff going on (actually crippling mental illnesses or suicidal tendencies), not relationship anxiety. I'm also currently a broke college student, so no money for that (the situation should change this summer, should things go the way I hope they do).
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 08:24 PM
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One of my best mates' girlfriend is a very dear friend of mine since before she was together with him. We used to be classmates and our benches were right next to each other, and we used to be very close (platonically) until they got together. After they got together, we drifted apart but just a little, to make enough space for their relationship. I never once thought of her in a sexual way. We have been friends for almost 7 years btw, and our friendship started after we entered high school, so …
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 08:20 PM
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I have female friends whom I get along well with. Most of them are in relationships with other friends of mine though. One of them isn't in a relationship though, and I also don't hang out with her for the possibility of sex and I don't see her that way, even though she is objectively attractive. She's like a little sister to me.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 07:24 PM
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I'm not one for casual stuff, so the fact that women around 21 are not serious isn't really comforting, haha I mean it's not like I want to get married and have kids too soon (or sooner than 28-30 years old as a matter of fact) but I'd rather have something serious and secure than a bunch of flings.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 05:21 PM
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I have a pretty good lead for an internship this summer that leads to a full time position after I finish my degree, other than that I just keep applying to any compatible job I see.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 03:00 PM
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That's pretty damn cool!
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 01:21 PM
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I don't know about therapy. The reason for my going to therapy would be kind of silly, because I don't experience anxiety in any other area. The subject of relationships is literally the only thing that induces this kind anxiety in me. Not even final exams cause me this much anxiety, and I am not really a brainy student who has it easy, lol. And it's not like I have relationships experience, because if I had and if it were terrible and traumatic (like emotional abuse and/or cheating) then yeah, …
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 12:55 PM
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Mainly frontend in Angular as of now, but I know bits of C/C++ and Java. I am still early in my career so I'm really flexible for now, but becoming full stack is what I am thinking of.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 12:46 PM
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I am 100% on board with the idea that dating a mentally healthy person has no downsides, the problem is finding that mentally healthy person and being mutually attracted to each other and compatible, haha.
/r/ExRedPill04/01/23 09:21 PM
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I am aware of these truths, it just takes longer to re-accept them once it has been almost ingrained in your mind by TRP content that these are lies. I am working on it, and I am planning on starting therapy as soon as I start making some cash. Thank you for taking the time to write this. Sometimes, I guess I just need a little reminder that life ain't so black and white.
/r/ExRedPill04/01/23 09:13 PM
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I hope you're right.
/r/ExRedPill04/01/23 09:07 PM
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