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During 6 ideally
/r/seduction15/08/19 06:31 AM
0

now I have news for you lmao. Also your moral high horse B's isn't welcome in my inbox so go preach somewhere else
/r/seduction20/06/19 01:12 PM
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Tbh when I lost my virginity (I don't count the first 3 times) it did have an effect on me just because it made me a lot more comfortable around women. I definitely changed a bit afterwards and became more sociable and have an easier time around other people.
/r/seduction16/06/19 11:39 PM
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Idk man drugs are pretty fun and cheap lol. Acid is like $10 for me and lasts 12 hrs, that's a lot diff than spending $100 at a strip club for a lap dance. Depends what you're into.
/r/seduction11/06/19 02:11 PM
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There's a bar near me with good, cheap (for the area) drinks with an intimate setting. Sometimes has live music that isn't too loud so we can still talk. It's kinda hidden away but inside is very chiq. I'm friends with one of the bartenders so he always makes sure we're taken care of. Close to a park if we wanna walk around a bit before going somewhere. Pretty much ideal first date spot imo. Worst first date is movie date. Never go for the movie date. I can list off many reasons for it but I fee…
/r/seduction08/06/19 03:01 PM
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https://imgur.com/CAJmE2T.jpg
/r/seduction24/05/19 01:52 PM
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"Just be yourself" is only partial credit, ",just be the best version of yourself" is full marks. Always strive to improve and focus on yourself. Women will follow! Agree with your comment btw just adding onto it.
/r/seduction17/05/19 06:26 AM
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3D chess So... regular chess? Anyways, I agree with you that my dates where I split usually go better. Idk maybe it's something about having invested something into the date herself makes her think that it's more worth pursuing whereas if you pay for it she loses nothing and gains a free meal if she never sees you again? Just some speculation, I'm not sure I buy your logic of "too many women" because a successful guy won't have a problem with buying 2 coffees a day instead of one.
/r/seduction06/05/19 12:18 AM
8

It works well in college towns. I've dated several attractive girls off of Tinder while in uni.
/r/seduction05/05/19 07:23 AM
1

Mate I am a college student and we do not have expensive wine lol. Women can't tell the difference between expensive and $7 bottles. I'm not trying to act like some boojie doucher lol I'm just being me. Keep it casual, you're bringing her over to fuck of course but if you're baiting her in with $100 bottles then that's way more pressure. You're letting on that you're just grabbing some casual drinks nothing more. If you're some Boomer then sure but that's not how I do things.
/r/seduction17/04/19 02:25 AM
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Sounds like a shit test. Get some coffee, get to know her for a while, ask if she drinks, then say "hey, I've got some cheap wine back at my place. You want to split some with me?" Do it in a high point in the convo. If she is interested in you she will say yes. If not, cool you saved yourself some time by getting her out of the way.
/r/seduction17/04/19 01:01 AM
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Bruh you ask her to coffee or food THEN back to your place, you don't go straight to your place because you could be a serial killer. Meet somewhere public, move to private after getting to know each other for a bit, like an hour or so.
/r/seduction17/04/19 12:40 AM
8

This is true. I wear a suit to all of my Netflix and chill sessions, pocket square and tie included.
/r/seduction17/04/19 12:38 AM
5

Gratz but don't drink too much coffee you don't want the second girl of the day thinking you're a meth addict with the shakes lol
/r/seduction17/04/19 12:38 AM
10

Bro LOL don't put down my mans like that
/r/seduction17/04/19 12:36 AM
1

Game is the fun part so miss me with that to be honest. Cash isn't an issue for me at all and I still game women
/r/seduction13/04/19 11:51 PM
24

I disagree, all you need is a hammer
/r/seduction13/04/19 11:48 PM
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Know that this is a very much lower number than it could be. I still get about 1-3 dates a month from tinder (no gold) and I don't think I get even 400 matches/year. I'm picky on tinder though.
/r/seduction10/04/19 05:26 PM
2

Mate lol she wasn't the one who created drama here YOU were. If you wanted to, you could have just fucked her and ignored her bf drama completely. She's using you for a rough patch? Cool, been there, whatever just don't ask whats going on with her bf. That drama is between her and her bf not you and her. If you didn't want to get with her because she had a bf then you should have just grown a spine and said "look, you have a bf and I'm not cool with cheating so I'm not going to have sex with you…
/r/seduction08/04/19 08:52 PM
1

Lmao bro if you are putting this much thought into each and every tinder match you should be prepared to be disappointed. If you are thirsty enough to drive 80 miles for a CHANCE at a hookup then go for it but unless you live in the middle of a desert just find someone else.
/r/seduction04/04/19 07:27 PM
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If she has a boyfriend then keep it in your pants
/r/seduction02/04/19 05:10 AM
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"Do you like water" is a Chad opener LOL. Good on ya dude.
/r/seduction02/04/19 05:04 AM
1

I wear avoid graphic t's. I go for textured solid color sweatshirt, button down with undershirt, jeans, chinos, etc. Standard r/malefashionadvice uniform, I would recommend checking that place out. Specifically the WAYWT threads.
/r/seduction02/04/19 05:02 AM
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Only thing I repeat is instead of asking where she's from I guess. It's fun to make a game out of it and say "you look like you're x and grew up in y," I'm actually pretty good at it too so this is partly for my own entertainment lol. Not as an opener just more for when I can't think of something to say that's something fun to bring up.
/r/seduction02/04/19 04:58 AM
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God I hate people like you. First off, women are people. Stop putting them on a pedestal by saying they're a pot of gold, it's pathetic. Second, imagine you're that girl. You're working on your paper that's due at midnight, you're behind so you decide to go to the library to really focus. Then some dick walks up to you trying to get your number and he might be attractive, he might be cool but it just tells me that you genuinely don't care about whatever she's studying. She's trying to work hard …
/r/seduction01/04/19 04:54 PM
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As much as I would like to upvote and move on the truth is: 1) guys who will cheat will cheat. Saying "cheating bad!" Is doing nothing to stop anyone. 2) girls who will cheat will cheat. Women are capable of making their own decisions. If she decides to cheat on her bf then she will. Same goes for my own girl, so treat yours right and she likely won't. Also, there's not really much drama attached to being the side dude for a chick either. Basically just show up, dick her down, cuddle, leave. It'…
/r/seduction01/04/19 04:43 PM
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How hard is it to understand that women will be more attracted to successful guys who have positive things going on in their life than some DYEL loser who spends all day skirt chasing and failing? Go work out, go get some interesting hobbies, talk to women and be honest and straightforward. If they ask what you do you have plenty of interesting things to talk about always because you'd be an interesting person. My hobbies are lifting, programming, reading, soccer. I do well with women because wi…
/r/seduction01/04/19 04:05 PM
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This is the most pathetic reply I've ever read in my life. No wonder you get no women, you're far too desperate. Work on yourself so you can become a guy that women are attracted to. Women aren't attracted to you now because you have nothing positive going on in your life. Become the guy you wish you were and women will flock to you.
/r/seduction01/04/19 03:45 PM
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I just say something like "I wanna fuck you babe" or "I've got condoms on me, let's fuck" then judge her reaction. A night with everything besides fucking her is a pretty good one though so don't get too hung up on it. If you make her cum using your fingers then get her number and you'll see her again. Girls will always go back to a guy who can get them off.
/r/seduction01/04/19 03:34 PM
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I go to the gym every day not to pick up women or look good for them but to look good for myself. Stop putting women on an unreachable pedastool, work on yourself for YOU. Get productive hobbies, cuz out the unhealthy bullshit and women will find you because they're attracted to a guy who has stuff going on in his life.
/r/seduction01/04/19 03:20 PM
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Oh yeah totally. I thought this post was funny because I've got a buddy who'd get PISSED when you said he sucked at driving, he is a fucking awful driver. This post reminds me of him lmao.
/r/seduction01/04/19 03:17 PM
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Okay first off most your friends are probably lying. Most high school guys like about that stuff so they don't seem behind. For a high schooler I'd just start with two parts: inside and outside class. Outside class, join a club, sport or get more productive hobbies. Gym, biking, etc. Inside class, talk to the people around you. Doesn't have to be just women, just be friendly and people will be friendly back. Just talking to more women is a great place for a beginner to start to get rid of those …
/r/seduction01/04/19 03:15 PM
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Haha his or mine? Because everyone has a point where they instantly dump someone. Mine is cheating. His is... getting his driving skills criticized. Lmfao dude's really sensitive about it.
/r/seduction01/04/19 03:04 PM
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Not to be too presumptuous as I don't know your relationship with him but it sounds like he's just mooching off of you. Doesn't have sex with you, doesn't work, jerks off all day, treats you poorly... sounds like you're more his mom than his wife. Even moreso because you have low self-esteem, seems like he's totally taking advantage of you.
/r/seduction01/04/19 03:02 PM
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Tell a friend to mug you with a knife after your date. Tell him it's fake and to play along but when he gets there just stab him in the chest to show your girl you are a man who will protect her. Princess carry her onto a horse and ride to your place, rip her clothes off and impregnate her. Pretty much guaranteed to work I've done this 4 times but running out of people to mug me. Serious response: just escalate in the standard way throughout your date (arms, lower back, legs, then face). Kiss he…
/r/seduction01/04/19 02:48 PM
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Maybe throw on your blinkers for once and stop cutting people off lol
/r/seduction01/04/19 02:43 PM
2

Near the end of ice cream: "I've got some wine back at my place, want to come over for some drinks and a movie?"
/r/seduction01/04/19 02:30 PM
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I'm not that much of a douchebag so no I have not. Imagine being so insecure of your masculinity that you have to take a picture of every girl you sleep with as proof that you got with them. Lol.
/r/seduction01/04/19 01:47 PM
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Sarcasm helps if you're really clear with it. I moved where I lived from far away and instead of saying "for uni" I say that I was chased by the police and I stole someone's student ID, I'm pretending to be him. Or that I got a little lost driving to somewhere an hour away and just ended up here, 30 hours from where I live. Stuff like that girls love and it lightens the mood.
/r/seduction31/03/19 02:39 AM
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I mean that's pretty basic/boring but you do you
/r/seduction30/03/19 10:53 PM
2

6'4" European with blonde hair, blue eyes and an accent I assume? You'll fucking kill it dude just make some friends and meet women through them, when classes start talk to all the people near you and just say hi, just make the most of your time and spend it having fun while you're in the states.
/r/seduction30/03/19 10:35 PM
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Idk just walk up. The longer you wait the more nerves will build up. I just say hi.
/r/seduction30/03/19 10:32 PM
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If you are of average to slightly above average looks you are still easily able to make yourself into one of those small amount of guys. This will sound cheesy too but if you be the best version of yourself women will follow. Work out, get interesting hobbies, learn to interact with women (both romantically and platonically), present yourself well and be an interesting person in general. I don't think I'm any kind of model but I do well for myself despite my genetic limitations (I would say I am…
/r/seduction30/03/19 05:52 PM
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Men are just becoming less desirable. More social media interactions and less live social interactions are cranking out men who don't know how to properly socialize 100% this. I was getting 1 date a year just because I was so fucking addicted to video games. Awful social skills since I would never talk to anyone IRL. Since last August I started getting into self-improvement and I'm currently 2 weeks "cold turkey" of my video game addiction which was about 6-8 hours of playing per day. Since Augu…
/r/seduction30/03/19 05:45 PM
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If you invite someone over for netflix and some drinks she must be raised under a rock to not know what that means. It's an excuse for her to come over and not feel like a slut. Just because she wants to have sex doesn't mean she wants to be treated like some replaceable sex toy who's only use for you is to get you off. Establishing a connection, having fun, escalating from there is literally what dating is all about. Have some class.
/r/seduction29/03/19 01:48 AM
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Saw a hot girl with 2 of her friends while on vacation so walked up to her, said "Scuse me, I just wanted to let you know you're very pretty and I hope you have a nice day." Walked away and like 15 seconds later her friend taps my shoulder and says "hey, my friend thought that was super hot and wants to talk to you." Totally works, I didn't even mean for anything to come of it to be honest, was just practicing.
/r/seduction28/03/19 07:36 AM
1

"Hey can I see something for a sec?" then lean in and kiss her. If she's rambling and won't stop that probably means she's panicking, you can just lean in without saying anything in that case too in the middle of her talking. Follow up with "sorry, just had to" If she's not looking at you and you're sitting side by side, you can change your position to move your opposite leg on top of the leg closest to her and shift your body to be pointing at her directly. She will likely reciprocate as it's a…
/r/seduction28/03/19 06:47 AM
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Exactly man, just remember the abundance mindsight. Plenty of women out there. Don't get hung up on just 1.
/r/seduction28/03/19 06:26 AM
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Literally just wait for a response, if she doesn't then move on but don't double text her. If she wants to meet you then she'll pick a day. There's nothing you can really do much now besides maybe meeting in person through your friends like you did before but there's no point going after a girl who's not interested.
/r/seduction28/03/19 06:02 AM
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Having a wingman sucks. I only do solo game and feel a lot more confident as I know nobody I know's watching and I can focus on the convo 1 on 1 instead of having to worry about other people at the same time. Even approaching solo to a group of girls and chatting up 1 is easier for me than doing it with a buddy. I don't think I would easily be able to find a dude I mesh well with and can hit on girls with. Most guys have shit game.
/r/seduction28/03/19 05:47 AM
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I mostly really cold approach when the girl's waiting for something. Phones are boring so if you approach you're already putting her in a good mood by being friendly and taking her away from it. I approach girls waiting for the bus, class to start, friend to come, food to arrive, etc. Gives a good short time window so I can leave pretty naturally and get a # with just with "hey, I've gotta go but I would love to grab some coffee/food/drinks/your tits tonight/tomorrow and 'pick up where we left o…
/r/seduction28/03/19 05:36 AM
2

It's really just a mix of: Confidence (approaching and not getting nervous when talking) Looks (dress, body, face) Personality (having game and being an interesting person, not being needy or rude) Luck (people you approach being single, you being their type)
/r/seduction27/03/19 06:29 PM
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Personally haven't found one, broke up with my last girl because I got way too complacent. Stopped working out as much, stopped improving social skills, just got too comfortable with where I was at and hated it. I think the only way to stay on top of your game is to basically cheat on her as awful as that sounds (I'm not recommending it). I guess you could approach girls and give them a fake # but that'd be kinda fucked.
/r/seduction27/03/19 03:07 PM
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Depends on the dude but my lizard brain gets greatly turned on by cheesy porn lines irl. I think I like it more because I'm doing a good enough job to make the girl say that rather than the lines themselves though.
/r/seduction27/03/19 03:01 PM
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semi nsfw
/r/seduction27/03/19 04:40 AM
2

reminds me of that /fit/ post of why you lift, the tree trunk story
/r/seduction27/03/19 04:11 AM
1

we all have our strengths and weaknesses
/r/seduction27/03/19 04:10 AM
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Missed ur shot, beta
/r/seduction27/03/19 12:09 AM
2

Wow man thanks so much! Very clear and lines up with my own experiences. Your reply coulda been it's own text post.
/r/seduction26/03/19 09:52 PM
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I struggle with push & pull besides just teasing her and disagreeing with her. Teasing is usually not even "push" it's just lighthearted banter. Can you give an example of how I could use push & pull in a 5 min convo with a girl I met on the street/at a bar/etc with cold approach?
/r/seduction26/03/19 08:14 PM
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I read "don't chat through text, do it in person" and "only text logistics" very often here but what I've found is that's not the case. Girls who are interested want to get to know you and they will text first if you have set up a date. It's annoying because it limits my conversation topics on the date but I guess nowadays girls just have to figure out if guys are worth the time before putting in 2 hours in person. Not interesting and fun to talk to in text = no date. The tinder dates I've had t…
/r/seduction26/03/19 08:00 PM
1

Well first off, buy your buddy a beer for being a homie. Second, I would ask if he can hang out with you both for a bit to show you're good friends before saying that he's gotta go, leaving you two alone. Then just ask her if she is busy at all and if she is in the mood to chill at a coffee shop. Escalate from there pretty standardly.
/r/seduction26/03/19 03:48 PM
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Really just confident and progress in conversation. Easy for me to tell just by how comfortable I am with cold approaching. It helps that when I have a success I usually roll with it and string along more attempts/successes later that same day or the following day. The confidence boost of getting a number or hooking up makes it easier to do so again but with a totally different girl. The only dry streaks I have with pickup is on weeks where I just don't have the time, shaking the rust off doesn'…
/r/seduction26/03/19 03:40 PM
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You'd think so but fuck lol I've openly hit on girls, gotten good IOI and when I go in for a kiss or a number they pull the boyfriend card. Some just love the attention and will string you along unless you directly ask, which is somewhat hard to do smoothly without breaking the vibe you have going.
/r/seduction26/03/19 03:37 PM
1

No, use ur head and steer clear of politics. If she approaches it just yes man her. That's one of the few times I wouldn't try the whole push-pull flirty conversation method. The topic is just too toxic nowadays for discussion.
/r/seduction26/03/19 06:26 AM
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I got pretty sloshed when I started cold approaching and realized how easy it was when my inhibitions were down. Since then, gaming sober I feel nothing when I get rejected.
/r/seduction26/03/19 06:23 AM
1

I would say tall, dirty blonde, blue eyes, somewhat but not overly muscular build, taper on sides and straight back at the top, probably wears vineyard vines/patagonia is the typical "ideal hot guy" for younger white women.
/r/seduction26/03/19 06:16 AM
1

solo game >>>> wing
/r/seduction26/03/19 06:13 AM
1

What are you wearing?
/r/seduction26/03/19 06:13 AM
3

Oh man I just went from apathetic to full on ear to ear grin while reading this. I fukn hate Reddit bots but damn this one is great haha.
/r/seduction26/03/19 06:12 AM
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Enough with the oneitis. Go to the gym, get some real and interesting hobbies, go out and approach. You'll never get better at meeting people by venting on Reddit. Not trying to be rude but you need a wake-up call. Life isn't easy enough for things to magically just work out.
/r/seduction26/03/19 04:25 AM
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His advice isn't sarcastic, this is what you do. Show your confidence and ask in front of everyone if you have no other options. Just gotta say fuck it sometimes and if she rejects you then oh well, everyone there will respect that shit tho.
/r/seduction26/03/19 03:33 AM
1

Might be an unpopular opinion but just because the girl makes the first move does not make the guy a beta. A dominant woman also does not mean the guy is a beta either. A beta would be someone who never makes a move but a woman who is interested in a guy can simply give the guy good hints or even approach him, push the conversation in a good direction and make her intentions clear enough to where she doesn't have to state it directly but simply give the guy enough of a lead to go off of so that …
/r/seduction21/03/19 02:33 AM
1

Lmao sounds like you're doing fine with a username like that
/r/seduction21/03/19 02:20 AM
1

My University is pretty spread out to where you have to take busses to get from classes or to dorms. I've met a lot of women while just killing time for the bus to show up and have had successes ranging from a number to planning a date to heading straight to my room and hooking up like 15 minutes after meeting. Good spot because both of you are bored, nobody likes waiting for the bus lol so I just talk to everyone while I wait.
/r/seduction21/03/19 02:17 AM
3

Say she's your sister then kiss her on the lips in front of your friend
/r/seduction21/03/19 02:00 AM
2

You went to her house, watched an entire movie without making a move, then went home. It's pretty clear to me where you screwed up here. Make a move next time. You screwed up, learn from it and move on.
/r/seduction21/03/19 01:58 AM
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Find a new (positive) hobby to absorb yourself in. Lifting, biking, running, etc. Lets you just focus on what's in front of you. I'm heading to the gym right now, before I finish lifting I want you to leave a reply saying that you're going to go do something productive too. Self improvement is the best cure for things that are getting you down because for me it's hard to feel down when I'm actively improving myself. Best of luck buddy! You'll get through it.
/r/seduction19/03/19 05:53 PM
1

This, I call my buddies any of the following: coward, loser, NEET, retard, nerd, autist, dumbass, etc. If you aren't straight up insulting your mates you probably aren't really mates. Coward is my favorite honestly, that shit hurts LOL.
/r/seduction19/03/19 05:40 PM
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No worries is the best reply to so many things. I use it so often, often get told I am really laid back and that's part of it I think.
/r/seduction19/03/19 01:49 AM
2

Don't ask her for permission, don't ask if she's out of your league, just present yourself confidently. You can tell her you think she's cute but that's implied being that you're approaching her out of the blue like that. Just let her know in your own way that you want to get to know her.
/r/seduction19/03/19 01:47 AM
2

Rather than cooking English food I think it would help you seem more interesting by just playing to your strengths. If you cook good Asian food then do just that, English food can be gotten anywhere (assuming you're living in England).
/r/seduction18/03/19 09:58 PM
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This might be a little messed up but for a while I would date pretty much whoever - whether I was attracted to them or not - simply to get a feel for how to treat a woman and how to play out a date. No one ugly but just average women I am not really interested in. A practice girlfriend. I have no issues with approach anxiety or nervousness on dates with the very attractive women I go for now just because I've been on quite a few. Experience is key. Now, I'm not sure if it would bother you much t…
/r/seduction17/03/19 05:45 PM
2

Very much agree with this. If you just weigh your choices in your head it's either possibly getting a great girlfriend or save yourself some slight embarrassment in case of rejection that you'll forget soon after (and end up wondering "what if" for much longer than you'd feel the sting of rejection). Always go for it! You lose nothing.
/r/seduction17/03/19 05:37 PM
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Getting rejected sucks sure but what sucks more is thinking "damn I should have at least tried to talk to her." You'll probably never see her again if she rejects you unless you're asking out someone you already know. Might as well go for it and if you make a fool out of yourself that's just called gaining experience and you'll know what not to do next time.
/r/seduction05/03/19 08:52 PM
1

No, if you're trying to get back with her just have a normal conversation for a bit before trying to make any moves. Her saying "just got into this school" and you replying "cool we should get back together" on your first message comes off as needy af. Just send some messages first at least before trying to move it to another location. Get to know what she's been up to. Maybe end the convo if things are going well then propose to continue the conversation over some drinks or whatever your date i…
/r/seduction05/03/19 08:45 PM
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I wouldn't do that at all. Mostly not in your first message lol that's just showing that you're still super needy... which is why she dumped you.
/r/seduction05/03/19 08:38 PM
1

Personally I'd say congrats on her getting in but not pursue it at all romantically. I'm not sure how you two broke up but if it was on somewhat friendly terms (ie neither of you cheated) then there's nothing wrong with treating her in a friendly way. I only don't respond when I don't want the girl to get her hopes up and she is begging to get back with me or she did something bad during the relationship and I don't want to relate myself with her at all anymore.
/r/seduction05/03/19 08:31 PM
1

Try it yourself, it's exactly how it works. I've done it many times already.
/r/seduction05/03/19 08:24 PM
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Is this proven? I always get a surge of matches whenever I delete and remake my profile, always from attractive women because no point swiping on uggos if I'm top of the stack.
/r/seduction05/03/19 08:22 PM
2

he also called her a thought..so she cheated on him I actually laughed out loud when I read this
/r/seduction27/02/19 02:13 AM
11

That would be totally weird tbh imagine if someone you've never seen before walks up to you and asks you to come with them while you're chilling with your friends
/r/seduction26/02/19 12:25 AM
6

Soft neck kisses are honestly so stupid how successful they are. No one can stand against soft neck kisses.
/r/seduction02/12/18 06:49 AM
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Subaru mini van
/r/seduction30/11/18 04:32 PM
12

I mean it's really not clear here because you obviously know more about your relationship with her than me, but if you hook a girl up with weed it gives you a situation where you're both alone talking for a long time with a very personal/intimate atmosphere. You can easily progress that to hooking up with her. I would probably just shoot my shot and if it doesn't work then just say you're out of weed and leave.
/r/seduction28/11/18 07:59 PM
12

Girls never buy weed. You're probably saved in her phone as "free weed" so if you smoke with her make a move because if you don't she is just straight up using you.
/r/seduction28/11/18 07:13 PM
3

Entertainers fuck groupies. Famous people have a pretty easy time.
/r/seduction27/11/18 08:53 AM
2

I laughed and this was funny but don't want to propagate low effort memes on this sub, torn abt upvoting lol
/r/seduction14/11/18 11:36 PM
2

I'll be honest a month and a half you is gonna seem random asf no matter what you do probs either wait for another opportunity to see her in person or bite the bullet of it being awkward and go for it anyways.
/r/seduction07/11/18 07:22 AM
3

she told me she just went through a break up not sure if she's ready to see someone else she just told you to fuck off so fuck off, you were rejected
/r/seduction30/10/18 04:21 AM
0

am I mentally healthy? Are you kidding? Of course not LOL good joke bud.
/r/seduction17/10/18 06:45 PM
9

Not really, she makes you look pretty LMFAO bold move cotton
/r/seduction06/10/18 04:07 AM
1

my focus became on having fun instead gaming girls is fun i am the pickup god, all women who meet me shall spread their legs
/r/seduction21/09/18 12:09 AM
2

I'd say tinder but you should try real life! It's sad that it's underrated in this day and age.
/r/seduction19/09/18 06:07 AM
8

I'm like 75% sure we made out at a frat party last year but I can't remember for sure That means nothing. You were both drunk and girls make out with anyone when they're drunk. Means even less since you don't even remember for sure.
/r/seduction18/09/18 07:16 PM
4

You rushed it way too quick. Try actually having a conversation first. Topics being the things around you, what she's doing, etc. You don't try to close with a date as soon as you talk. For real don't worry much though, the hardest part is approaching :) rest you learn as you go
/r/seduction18/09/18 07:15 PM
1

You rushed it way too quick. Try actually having a conversation first. Topics being the things around you, what she's doing, etc. You don't try to close with a date as soon as you talk. For real don't worry much though, the hardest part is approaching :) rest you learn as you go
/r/seduction18/09/18 07:11 PM
5

I'd say hit her up just because it's not like you're losing anything besides 5 mins of your time. I wouldn't have super high hopes though honestly, to be real w you I think she may have just been using you to get to your roommate. The likelihood of that increases if she agreed to go to your place after she knew who your roommate was.
/r/seduction18/09/18 07:23 AM
16

Maybe she just wanted to make him jealous and half way through pussied out. Don't sweat it dude, girls are weird.
/r/seduction18/09/18 06:33 AM
2

I use Gucci Guilty along with Dove men+care cool fresh for deodorant and girls I talk to say I smell good so I'd recommend that.
/r/seduction18/09/18 02:51 AM
1

Send her a selfie with some random text at the bottom (ie: logistics) and she'll send one back not that complicated
/r/seduction17/09/18 06:20 PM
1

Nobody uses snapchat to facetime buddy. I'm not gonna get into a childish argument of who is or is not more experienced but if the only times you have gotten a girls snap you blew your chance with her and chalked it up to her being an attention whore than sure. Also just lol at the bolded text.
/r/seduction17/09/18 05:26 PM
2

This is literally how it works in college I'm not sure what you're talking about. It seems like you're just out of touch.
/r/seduction17/09/18 04:39 PM
0

Your last bullet point is so accurate. Picked up a girl on the street a couple weeks ago and while I'm still seeing previous fwb I haven't bothered to game at all. I feel like I already won the game of game, if that makes sense haha. Fr tho I feel like a king that I got this girl LMFAO I've been with other women but this girl is like my ideal basically
/r/seduction17/09/18 05:24 AM
1

a girl offers her snapchat, unprompted? likely an attention whore I disagree, this is just how a lot of girls communicate nowadays. It's how young people keep in contact. Means she's interested. If she was an attention whore she probably woulda gave him her insta.
/r/seduction17/09/18 12:13 AM
10

Sometimes people just want platonic friends, being of the same or different gender doesn't matter. When you ask them out they aren't interested and it'd be awkward to hang out again when you know he wants to be intimate. Not that strange. Girls and guys can be good friends without fucking. I have girl friends and girl fwbs. If looking for a quick fuck or fwb then make it known on the first or second date/time hanging out.
/r/seduction15/09/18 11:24 PM
1

A girl seduced me the other day because we were casually talking at a bus stop (I engaged but she looked like she wanted to talk which made it easy for me) and when we were going to split up she asked me if I wanted to watch some TV since we both didn't have class until a couple hours. I had already gotten her snapchat and was going to ask to hang out later but she escalated it herself and we fucked as soon as we walked through the door. As a guy who browses this sub and often picks up women I k…
/r/seduction15/09/18 11:14 PM
1

Become so narcissistic like me that nobody else besides your self even registers as someone who could even possibly matter to you
/r/seduction15/09/18 08:38 AM
11

not single mothers
/r/seduction13/09/18 11:41 PM
2

I'm having a good chuckle thinking of you just pulling a few condoms out of your socks when you manage to get with a girl. If I were her I'd probably start laughing on the spot. He doesn't have a sockondom LOL
/r/seduction11/09/18 07:28 AM
3

As soon as you click this link, you'll be overwhelmed by the scent of Axe body spray. Seduction is a subreddit wherein dudes discuss literally the exact opposite of seduction—exchanging pickup lines like "your tits are huge" and "I'd fuck you on the hood of this car if you weren't so ugly." In a sci-fi dystopia, most of these people would be rounded up and preemptively arrested, but haha, they're all going to die regretting most of their lives anyway. Sample Post: Approaching women at college wh…
/r/seduction09/09/18 06:45 AM
16

How about you stop hitting on girls while you're working before you're out of a job?
/r/seduction09/09/18 06:43 AM
2

Fair enough gl
/r/seduction08/09/18 06:09 PM
3

??? LOL. No dude just walk up to her wtf? Hahaha
/r/seduction08/09/18 04:51 PM
1

A light buzz would likely help with the anxiety and confidence
/r/seduction08/09/18 04:33 PM
1

Wtf are your hand gestures lol not sure what you mean
/r/seduction08/09/18 04:31 PM
3

Well your fuckup was saying "let's talk next week" rather than "when are you free?" By saying to talk next week how is she supposed to reply to that? "OK" and then not message you for a week? I find that relying on women to text me a day to go on a date is super unreliable unless she's already really into you and planning a second/third/etc date.
/r/seduction08/09/18 04:27 PM
1

👏 STOP 👏 JERKIN 👏 IT 👏 SO 👏 HARD A girl's pussy is never as tight as the vicegrip you're giving your dick when you jerk it, mostly when you've been doing it for the past 10+ years. Stop jerking off completely, let your dick heal, you'll be fine in like a month. If you do jerk off just be gentle rather than trying to strangle it. I have this problem too, it's pretty common for dudes, I'd say it's a lot better than being a quick shot though haha. It could always be nerves as well!
/r/seduction08/09/18 06:11 AM
1

👏 STOP 👏 JERKIN 👏 IT 👏 SO 👏 HARD A girl's pussy is never as tight as the vicegrip you're giving your dick when you jerk it, mostly when you've been doing it for the past 10+ years. Stop jerking off completely, let your dick heal, you'll be fine in like a month. If you do jerk off just be gentle rather than trying to strangle it. I have this problem too, it's pretty common for dudes, I'd say it's a lot better than being a quick shot though haha. It could always be nerves as well!
/r/seduction08/09/18 05:59 AM
1

👏 STOP 👏 JERKIN 👏 IT 👏 SO 👏 HARD A girl's pussy is never as tight as the vicegrip you're giving your dick when you jerk it, mostly when you've been doing it for the past 10+ years. Stop jerking off completely, let your dick heal, you'll be fine in like a month. If you do jerk off just be gentle rather than trying to strangle it. I have this problem too, it's pretty common for dudes, I'd say it's a lot better than being a quick shot though haha. It could always be nerves as well!
/r/seduction08/09/18 05:58 AM
1

👏 STOP 👏 JERKIN 👏 IT 👏 SO 👏 HARD A girl's pussy is never as tight as the vicegrip you're giving your dick when you jerk it, mostly when you've been doing it for the past 10+ years. Stop jerking off completely, let your dick heal, you'll be fine in like a month. If you do jerk off just be gentle rather than trying to strangle it. I have this problem too, it's pretty common for dudes, I'd say it's a lot better than being a quick shot though haha. It could always be nerves as well!
/r/seduction08/09/18 05:58 AM
1

If you haven't tried to get one then don't complain about your lack of success
/r/seduction08/09/18 05:55 AM
0

I have 3 myself (2 fwb, 1 nsa) but I just try and have some tact rather than be so crude
/r/seduction08/09/18 02:09 AM
1

I mean if you're a 10 in looks what you say doesn't really matter, but as that's not realistic I just get to know her first through casual conversation for 15 minutes and say "so what are you doing after this?" and if she's free propose we hang out at mine or hers. The act of going to someone's room is suggestive enough to be saying "let's fuck" but there's a BIG difference between "let's netflix and chill, I don't have netflix though" and "let's hang out at mine." Or there's always "let me walk…
/r/seduction07/09/18 11:05 PM
1

Hahahahaha I'd be pissed if I was the girl omg
/r/seduction07/09/18 07:53 PM
3

Even if it was she was still obviously trying to bone lol nobody says they want the date not to end and to go somewhere more private for any other reason
/r/seduction07/09/18 07:39 PM
2

Lmfao that line is awful. Jesus. I'd be so turned off if I was a girl. You don't just ask girls to fuck you straight up like that
/r/seduction07/09/18 07:31 PM
44

As a Chad I agree /s
/r/seduction07/09/18 07:19 PM
9

LA should be the easiest place on the planet to meet women, shouldn't be hard to think of some places yourself
/r/seduction06/09/18 07:58 PM
11

For you to continue gaming a girl like that for years sounds exhausting. I'd rather be myself and if she leaves me then so be it than to always maintain an alpha frame. Even with my fwbs I slowly become myself more and more as we hang out because being friends but faking who you are to impress her is too tiring. Fwbs and gf to me is the same thing just one is exclusive and more commitment. I would want to be friends with the girl I'm dating even if you took out the intimacy.
/r/seduction06/09/18 06:11 PM
2

If you are making no progress with girl #1 then you lose nothing by asking if girl #2 wants to go instead
/r/seduction06/09/18 05:29 AM
5

Maybe it's your area and age group. I could see this happening if you dated a lot of early college students. There's nothing wrong with wanting someone with more experience, the sex is a lot better imo because virgins are better for relationships due to loyalty but fuck buddies you want to ride your dick till it falls off.
/r/seduction06/09/18 04:27 AM
1

First day using it they rank you with an elo system. You get most your matches then. You can delete your account and create the same one to make yourself get more matches.
/r/seduction06/09/18 03:35 AM
4

Your desire to change yourself has to be higher than the desire to stay in your comfort zone. Only you can decide to go outside, go to the gym, work hard in school and work, etc. Start with making yourself the best person you can be before trying to get girls. I'm not saying to go to the gym, I'm saying you should WANT to go to the gym. Want to improve yourself. If you don't truly want it then you'll never make any meaningful progress and just go back to your old ways.
/r/seduction05/09/18 11:40 PM
2

Witty pickup line, ask what she's doing later, schedule date, acquire number, text number saying you gtg but look forward to meeting her. Expect her to ghost, confirm date earlier in day of date, go to date, hug her when you see her, talk for a bit, offer to take her to your place for drinks/movie/show/hang out, kiss her whenever you get a chance, fuck. Hug her when you see her because it will make her more comfortable with physical contact later on, I feel. A polite hug though, like for your gi…
/r/seduction05/09/18 09:28 PM
6

How do you develop an abundance mentality Few options: A) fuck a lotta girls B) be the man you wish you were and women will flock to you C) stop giving a fuck and have other things to do if you don't have women. If you don't have any, np, if you do, cool. Thinking otherwise makes you seem desperate.
/r/seduction05/09/18 09:20 PM
7

You have to take a bus to the dorm I live at, getting there 10m before the bus comes gives me ample time to start hitting on whoever is there then sit with them on the way back. There's less people around the stop at that time so less social pressure and when people do start showing up we're comfortable enough to where it's not weird. I would recommend implementing this elsewhere ie: before class starts. Also hitting on girls out shopping solo for stuff like school supplies shouldn't be hard eit…
/r/seduction05/09/18 06:10 PM
3

I've been relying on tinder for a while now and the past week I've started doing cold approaches instead. Met a girl at a bus stop yesterday and ended up fucking her then cuddling while watching american horror story before class. Fucking her about 15 minutes after we met was a really satisfying feeling. Before that I had only one other attempt at a cold approach so I guess I got lucky, crazy how much your day can change just by talking to the people around you though. I was much happier with my…
/r/seduction05/09/18 05:50 PM
1

It's only creepy if you're ugly :)
/r/seduction05/09/18 06:26 AM
30

Yeah lol you are. Don't call her out and don't play games.
/r/seduction05/09/18 06:26 AM
1

I always match the average response time of a girl. She sends a few hour gap text I do as well unless it's something she warned me about like "I'm going to class/sorority shit then I wait like 1/2 hour to 45 minutes. I've never had a girl send a text a week later though... I'd look for other women.
/r/seduction04/09/18 08:17 PM
1

Haha you're a funny guy. Trust me, just stick to your age group. I know you're a horny bastard but everyone has their teacher crush. She was being friendly with a student is the reality. Don't try to cost her her job or make things awkward for you in class when you're rejected. My econ teacher in HS was fine as fuck and I always wanted to fuck her but you just gotta think with your brain and not your dick sometimes my guy.
/r/seduction04/09/18 05:57 PM
2

You don't you horny child now put your dick back in your pants and pay attention in class.
/r/seduction04/09/18 05:47 PM
2

You seem to be fishing for a "go for it dude" answer but she just broke up in a painful way and everyone is hitting on her, give her some space. She's a virgin so she won't hook up with you when she comes to get her laptop. I have met girls like this and a lot of the time they just like the attention guys give her because she's flirty but she won't really ever do anything with you and will just string you along. Make yourself unattainable, friendzone her, hook up with her friends and maybe she'l…
/r/seduction04/09/18 05:44 PM
3

Something nobody ever told me was that sex is overrated It really is too bad a pussy isn't as tight as a hand tbh
/r/seduction04/09/18 12:41 AM
15

I ask girls out by the third to fifth message, save small talk for the date. If they aren't interested in meeting in a few messages in then they won't be by 10 messages in.
/r/seduction01/09/18 04:37 AM
11

Is it that you aren't getting matches or aren't progressing to dates? If first, get better pics and bio. If second, stop using cookie cutter intros and "hey"
/r/seduction01/09/18 03:09 AM
42

t i n d e r As a CS student I can vouch, I get a lot of success on there with dates but not much irl because I'm usually inside studying/playing videogames and I don't drink so meeting people is hard.
/r/seduction01/09/18 02:21 AM
3

You might be looking for women in the wrong places. If you're going on tinder or bars on a Wednesday you aren't finding people who are looking for a long term thing most likely. Also college students don't look for long term. Finding someone through your job might be your best bet.
/r/seduction31/08/18 02:58 PM
1

Just because you're a dude doesnt mean you're some sex crazy fiend. Some are some aren't. Don't worry so much. You also kinda sound like you're not over the girl still.
/r/seduction31/08/18 06:55 AM
2

If you're on a date their type is you lol. Don't worry about if you are her ideal type because perfection is impossible. Ask her a question and try and lead into "hows" rather than "whys" if that makes sense. Rather than "why do you like that" ask "how did you get into that" because it prompts them telling a story. and don't make it 20 questions, share a little bit of yourself to her too but not too much. People like to talk about themselves.
/r/seduction31/08/18 06:52 AM
8

This has happened to me just the other day, my response was "If you think texting on an app is a better way to kill an afternoon than getting some drinks and pizza then it probably isn't going to work anyways". It's a test to see if you're desperate or not.
/r/seduction31/08/18 05:24 AM
3

I come up w a different opener for every person but don't spend a lot of effort thinking of it. I'll see the match, close the app, next day I'll be doing something mundane and one will pop into my head. I think making a different opener for every time is a lot better but there are many who disagree citing "its a numbers game," just looks so artificial using a pickup line you find online. My openers -always- get positive responses tbh I think they are decently clever
/r/seduction31/08/18 05:13 AM
1

Seconding this, OP being a little creepy being that he's never actually met her yet.
/r/seduction31/08/18 01:28 AM
1

Snap her you doing something fun
/r/seduction31/08/18 01:24 AM
10

Seems like you already have, gl keep trying
/r/seduction30/08/18 08:23 PM
2

I'd say when you're juggling that many say day after tomorrow and keep your dates to 1 a week. Or you could always double dip a day for morning coffee with 1 and dinner with another.
/r/seduction30/08/18 08:23 PM
1

It's almost irrelevant what you're complimenting unless it's something creepy like "you've got nice tits!" You are just trynna get the convo started
/r/seduction30/08/18 08:20 PM
1

A much more pathetic example is all the helpless dudes who tried to look like Ryan Gosling from Drive and even got his white scorpion jacket. ...I drive
/r/seduction29/08/18 10:59 PM
1

Use texting primarily for scheduling dates, unless you're established bf/gf. Plan date, remind of date day of, nothing more unless she tries to initiate conversation herself.
/r/seduction29/08/18 10:07 PM
1

Tinder works well
/r/seduction29/08/18 04:11 AM
2

Fine. But a college town in which state? Tell me your region at least Fuck off LOL doesn't matter which state, I don't want to tie my personal info to my reddit account. A state. United States. College town. Applies everywhere. No clue why you're so interested.
/r/seduction24/08/18 06:03 AM
6

Then change your pictures retard holy shit, think before you post
/r/seduction24/08/18 05:29 AM
3

"I'll lead you on for 4 months and you won't get any but here's my number in case you want to get my friends and I an address to get drunk at." You could always get with one of her friends though and it's worked for me in the past.
/r/seduction24/08/18 05:27 AM
2

Lol, dude. You don't seem to understand. Rather than sending the same message to every girl I swipe on which they have heard thousands of times, I actually think of a different opener for every person. All of them get replies. Every single one. And not one word replies, either. The point of what I'm saying is rather than taking whatever you see online and copy paste it for the girl to see for the 10,000th time just write something. Doesn't have to be complicated... just a 2-4 lines based on her …
/r/seduction24/08/18 05:26 AM
2

1 a day but I swipe on everyone because I cba putting more than 2 minutes into swiping. I message only half but have a pretty good ratio of getting dates to not just because my openers are great and I'm good at holding a conversation.
/r/seduction24/08/18 04:57 AM
7

Girls don't like ethnics like myself Wrong... they don't like unconfident and negative dudes like yourself. I'm Brazilian you just have no game.
/r/seduction24/08/18 04:55 AM
3

Thats hopeless if you aren't a male model unless you pay through your nose for tinder gold I have two dates planned for this weekend using tinder free and I am not even that attractive. Just gotta get good pics, use good openers besides "hey," be clever, funny, etc.
/r/seduction24/08/18 04:29 AM
1

Maybe it's the setting you're in. I'm in a college town. Lotta girls have boyfriends but not all. Try bars or Tinder.
/r/seduction24/08/18 04:20 AM
15

it seems like 90% of women these days already have boyfriends. But 90% of men i meet seem to be single That's because 1 dude is dating 9 women at a time /s It depends on your demographic. As a college student, most the women I meet are single. I'd say only 25% have a boyfriend. This changes of course when you are in different cities and different environments.
/r/seduction24/08/18 03:35 AM
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