I've been doing good until a week ago. I found out this girl was breaking up with her bf and was trying to qualify me by asking these random questions..some of them were "do you have abs?" "What size clothes you wear?" "How much you bench and squat?" "Do you like girls that wear jogging pants?" "How big is your dick?" I answered all of these just thinking she was curious.

I thought we were already an "item" so I had no idea she had a boyfriend. I've known her for awhile now..but haven't met. They way I found out was she posted text messages of her breaking up with her bf, and her bf begging her to stop ignoring him. He also called her a thot..so she cheated on him.

I felt really fucked up at first. I ignored her for about a week and she seemed upset, asked me if I was mad at her..I played it off that I was seeing someone else. She seemed relieved that I wasn't pissed off..girls can be so stupid and clueless.

I really liked this girl, but turned out she's a big slut. My confidence feels shot. I've been on tinder for the past 3 days and no matches yet. I wish dating wasn't so fucken difficult.