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I don't really pay attention to the mainstream media, I am hearing from friends of what is going on in their countries and states, As well as watching videos of thousands of people marching for basic human freedoms across the world. I haven't left my house to have fun since last summer and from what I see, there is no point since you need to have a card to show everywhere you go. Security are checking cards at food courts in malls..This is pure insanity and I don't want to be part of it.
/r/seduction09/01/22 02:41 AM
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Truth. I've learned all that the hard way. I do feel like an idiot thinking true love exists..Girls are definitely all bullshit artists. I know never to take a girl seriously..It's tough when you just want to let your guard down and feel genuinely liked by a girl.
/r/seduction09/01/22 12:31 AM
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I've always been the fat funny guy and I've been the fit good-looking funny guy and there wasn't much of a success rate even with girls that were interested lol. I always sabotaged myself. I would never go down that hoodrat rabbit hole..Never again. hoodrats these days make hoorats back in the day look classy lol. I haven't been out since summer 2020. Only the occasional family gatherings..I don't go anywhere I could meet chicks and because of mandates, it's impossible.
/r/seduction09/01/22 12:06 AM
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Yeah I'm from Chicago so things have just started getting bad here with mandates..Most people seem to be against it, But I'm not seeing much push-back.The whole thing is a shit-show that makes no sense at all. I am trying my best to get back to my old routine and ease the stress on my mind..Not easy at all. But I am determined to not give up and give into fear.
/r/seduction08/01/22 11:56 PM
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Lmao. Danny Mcbride from This is the end vibes.
/r/seduction08/01/22 11:51 PM
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💯🙏
/r/seduction08/01/22 11:48 PM
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Many people are severally depressed and worried now. Depression doesn't inhibit my ability to observe the world i live in. what world are you living in? I would like to visit lol.
/r/seduction08/01/22 11:44 PM
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My worldview is definitely different from everyone else's. You can say i never really lived a life considered normal...being a state-less person. Which is basically a person who is a living Ghost..unable to be part of society. Not being able to drive, work, travel among other things people take for granted..is very dehumanizing. So yes..I have my own version of normalcy and even that is being torn away from me. I don't like bringing up my life circumstance, because most people have no clue or ju…
/r/seduction08/01/22 11:40 PM
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True 👍
/r/seduction08/01/22 10:59 PM
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I know the feeling..you aren't the only one. I pretty much have given up on having a fulfilling life..Since I believe that we are living in the freaking apocalypse, things just keep getting worse globally. The last thing on my mind is trying to build up my confidence and date someone.
/r/seduction08/01/22 11:39 AM
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Just pretend she'd dead, have a funeral for her in your brain 💯. I did that for the last couple years and I made thr mistake of visiting her grave because I was curious about what she's up to..turns out she got married....
/r/seduction08/01/22 11:35 AM
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Exactly. I was friends with a girl I had a crush on and she's been pulling me along, making me think she felt the same..it was a long distance thing, so I had no high hopes..But I just felt that connection with her, Like she was the one & i never felt that way before. One day she posted something on her Instagram story on Valentine's Day..How she was on a date and posting texts from a dude I assume she was dating and trying to make jealous. When I seen that I felt a stab in my gut, Had that feel…
/r/seduction08/01/22 11:31 AM
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Talk to more then one girl..guys make the mistake of only talking to one chick for a long time, then being completely devastated and broken when she leaves..happened to me. Girls move on so easily because they have a full line-up of dudes waiting to be picked. I really thought this girl was the one, a year later and I'm still messed up and find it hard to move on.
/r/seduction08/06/20 08:35 AM
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That is truee but it's less common imo
/r/seduction04/06/20 10:25 PM
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Yeah I try to make more guy friends but I dunno..they always fizzle out. I had a couple of shitty wingmen..we would go out almost every weekend and most of the time they forced me to go out with them. Once, we get a couple of girls approaching us after the club and they seemed really down to do whatever..these morons were creeping them out and driving for two hours instead of just getting a room or going to a house..they lost interest and they got pissed off. The best wingmen I had were complete…
/r/seduction04/06/20 11:12 AM
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Yeah I try to make more guy friends but I dunno..they always fizzle out. I had a couple of shitty wingmen..we would go out almost every weekend and most of the time they forced me to go out with them. Once, we get a couple of girls approaching us after the club and they seemed really down to do whatever..these morons were creeping them out and driving for two hours instead of just getting a room or going to a house..they lost interest and they got pissed off. The best wingmen I had were complete…
/r/seduction04/06/20 11:12 AM
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Yeah because the bouncers are douchebag cockblocks too
/r/seduction04/06/20 09:36 AM
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True that man. I get along more with chicks then dudes and I like it that way. I hate the competing and all that shit. I get along with very few dudes. Girls are much more fun to be around. I have so much more of a good time partying with chicks then dudes. When I went on vacation to south Florida a few years back I went out with my Aunt to a party strip and we cut in front of the lines and invited to party in VIP it was an amazing feeling to experience that...that NEVER happens with guy friends…
/r/seduction04/06/20 06:57 AM
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Yeah chick friends are so much more valuable then guy friends. When you walk in a bar or club with girls, all other girls notice you and become intrigued. The barriers are also not there when you are out with chicks and try talking to other girls. Usually your chick friends bring in the other girl you are talking to and make things really easy. Girls are the best wingman. Unlike dudes, who get jealous and cockblock you.
/r/seduction04/06/20 01:56 AM
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About 8yrs ago. Thanks
/r/seduction12/02/20 11:20 AM
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I keep it zohan..all about thee bush
/r/seduction12/02/20 09:47 AM
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I usually just start at 7 and work my way down cause I'm an alpha like that
/r/seduction12/02/20 09:45 AM
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This is my make it or break it year..last year I went out every weekend in the summer and zero luck.
/r/seduction12/02/20 08:40 AM
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I thought I would bloom after losing 160lbs and girls would find me attractive..turns out shit is much more complicated then I thought it was going to be. I haven't been on a date in a very long time..I'm 32 now.
/r/seduction12/02/20 08:34 AM
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This might as well be ancient greek
/r/seduction12/02/20 08:32 AM
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Lol I witness shit like that myself, my brother is one of these fat dudes that "got lucky" with a hot gf. Being someone that is decent looking and GFless witnessing fat/average dudes with hot gfs really stings.
/r/seduction03/02/20 12:57 AM
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Dating just seems harder then ever for guys. I haven't been on a date in years and girls think I'm "handsome"...might as well be quasimodo lol. My social circle really sucks.
/r/seduction28/01/20 08:10 AM
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Alot of inexperienced guys think that doing something sweet for a girl we like and being vulnerable..sounds like something a girl would like alot, but it's the opposite. Girls view guys like that as being desperate, with no options and it turns them off. It also puts alot of pressure on them to reciprocate feelings and girls don't know what the hell they want, so they usually hit you with the "I'm not ready for a relationship, sorry. I just want to get my life together." But, they are talking to…
/r/seduction26/01/20 10:46 AM
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Easier said then done..
/r/seduction26/01/20 10:32 AM
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I've been on dating apps for years and I just got a few almost dates, one weird date, which was just the girl driving me around and buying me chocolate and one really awkward date off whisper years ago. I met this one girl off facebook and we've been talking for a really long time but it was long distance and she was actively speaking with many others and I cut her off completely. So yes, meeting girls off online was a huge waste of time for me. You are constantly competing with a bunch of other…
/r/seduction02/01/20 08:29 PM
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Best advice is to talk to more then a couple of girls or end up being like me, still thinking about a girl I stopped talking to months ago. I'm struggling to get over the feeling of being uninterested in being open and to try again with other girls.
/r/seduction12/12/19 07:48 AM
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I've been avoiding anything that has to do with girls for months now. Got my heart broken a day before Valentine's day..still think about her. Tried my best to move on and distract myself by going to the gym and going out every weekend..trying to meet girls. No luck. Haven't been out in months and I'm back at that downward spiral of hopelessness and depression. I am beyond tired. I feel so emotionally closed off, I don't want to be near anyone. I don't want to open up to anyone anymore.
/r/seduction15/11/19 07:28 AM
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The key to a fulfilling life for a man isn't all about getting laid. It's having a social circle, a brotherhood. I never really belonged to one. My social life pretty much sucks. I stopped dealing with a few of the only guy friends i had, so now I'm on my own. I haven't been to the gym in two weeks and i feel more depressed. Trying to get back to my routine. I haven't been on a single date this entire year. I gave up on online dating. I have little interest in meeting women in real life. Suffere…
/r/seduction04/11/19 06:55 PM
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Damn sounds like a night to remember. That's awesome.
/r/seduction15/10/19 05:58 AM
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How did it happen?
/r/seduction15/10/19 12:10 AM
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Yes I have been suffering from depression and anxiety since I was a kid. There's nothing much I can do about it. I used to take CBD for it, which helped..I need to start on it again soon. Wish it was that easy to make friends. What's changed? My younger brother moved out. He got his own place with his girlfriend. I am no longer dealing with a girl I thought genuinely liked me earlier this year and I still think about it and it really upsets me. I just feel like I'm all out of opportunities in li…
/r/seduction14/10/19 06:34 PM
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I don't need a doctor. I'm not interested in taking SSRIs again.
/r/seduction14/10/19 06:27 PM
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Wow, nice one congrats kid!
/r/seduction14/10/19 06:14 PM
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Lucky that i am good at running away
/r/seduction14/10/19 07:19 AM
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We need an update 🤞
/r/seduction14/10/19 07:06 AM
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Heard this bitch does voodoo on her exes too..I'm out lmao
/r/seduction14/10/19 07:02 AM
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On a first date, the first words that came out of this girl's mouth were "my grandma just died" and it felt so fucken awkward, she insisted to stay the entire date since she drove a half hour to see me.
/r/seduction14/10/19 06:42 AM
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I am u.s. based, i been here since i was 2. Statelessness isn't the same as being an illegal alien. Most ppl are ignorant to the term and do not know what it means and that is why it's a growing issue that isn't getting solved. It's a extreme form of crime against humanity. My country of birth doesn't recognize me as a citizen and the way this whole stateless thing usually works is that no country ever accepts stateless people. America has no laws or protections in place for people like me, so w…
/r/seduction23/08/19 07:43 AM
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I do get that life can be very unfair. I know that more then anyone i feel like. I am stateless so i was never able to get an education or real job and there is no real way for me to fix this beyond depressing circumstance. I guess i sabotage myself with girls because of it. I'm not in the same shitty life circumstances every other guy has gone through, I'm on a whole other league that i feel like nobody can ever relate to. I can't go to school, drive, work or travel. I feel handicapped. I was t…
/r/seduction22/08/19 06:03 PM
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I agree lol...it isn't.
/r/seduction22/08/19 05:00 PM
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I am already moved on from her lol she's the one bugging me. I'm not that attracted to her in the first place. I dunno i am sick of games girls play..I'm ready to give up trying with girls. I'm really annoyed and pissed off right now.
/r/seduction15/07/19 05:57 AM
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Yeah I'm not..i don't even like her like that.
/r/seduction15/07/19 05:55 AM
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Nah lmao I don't even know where she's at I'm just gonna call her and ask if she wants to chill tonight
/r/seduction15/07/19 04:10 AM
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She told me she's out across the street from her place. So i have a feeling she wants me to go there. I know she's really keen and the only fuck buddy she has is like 2hrs away and i live not far from her, so I'm guessing she wants it and doesn't want to go 2hrs away to fuck.
/r/seduction15/07/19 04:02 AM
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I dunno man. In all areas. I just have to stop giving a shit about what ppl will think of me and go for it. People do not understand how much I am dealing with in life and how hard it is to go about each day, trying to just exist in this world, despite the shitty cards I've been dealt with. It's easy to give advice, but it is nearly impossible to understand. For example, I am a stateless person. I'm pretty tired of explaining my entire story, but you can probably find it in my history.
/r/seduction13/07/19 07:36 AM
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Take risks. Very big ones.
/r/seduction12/07/19 11:43 PM
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Yes..I realize that lol. It's a habit of mine and I sabotage myself all the time. I do try to break out of it, but I am surrounded by toxic people that put me down and kill any optimism I have, as well as bad life circumstances. It's not easy to break out of and I have no support outside in the real world. When I left for a few months, distancing myself from all of this, I felt hopeful and alive for once. I remembered what enthusiasm felt like. I experienced things I never did before..it was ama…
/r/seduction12/07/19 01:15 AM
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Yeah you're right..I guess I can't let her go either..I blocked her for a month and then unblocked her. I just think about it and it makes me really angry and I want her to feel miserable too. I love to workout..I focus on the gym mostly. I do want to get into other shit too, because life is very dull and unexciting I need something new in my life and I don't know what that is. I was hoping to move to another state to start over, but it's impossible right now.
/r/seduction12/07/19 12:07 AM
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She makes fake profiles on Instagram and sends me messages and she shared a few of my posts
/r/seduction12/07/19 12:02 AM
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It's great advice thanks man. My fear of rejection can get so overwhelming that I just avoid social situations all together. It makes me feel unworthy and I just want to give up. It's tough.
/r/seduction11/07/19 10:48 PM
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I have alot of trouble escalating because of this..and I never end up getting anywhere
/r/seduction11/07/19 10:41 PM
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That is true. It's not just my parents, but my aunts and uncles..grandparents, they always ask when I'm going to find someone. It's already enough, having to deal with it in my own, but having to be reminded constantly on how alone and depressed I am, doesn't improve the situation. They grew up in a completely different world. It was much easier to date someone back then and get married, so they think that in this messed up generation, it should be easy for me. They don't understand how toxic th…
/r/seduction28/06/19 08:20 PM
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Yeah man..it still hurts when I think about it. Especially when she is messaging me from fake profiles and shit. I just regret wasting my time on her. You're right. The more you obsess over something, the more likely it won't happen. Have to just go with the flow and take it easy. Having high expectations can kill you. Hopes high, expectations low. I'm trying to figure out my life now, I feel lost without direction. I have a goal in mind, but no way to get there right now. I just wish I wasn't s…
/r/seduction28/06/19 07:32 AM
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What an awesome post. Everything you pointed out is the truth. I find that men in general, are more open to a commitment, then girls. On a scale of 1-10, I was at an 11, but all the girls I've come across with were at a 1-3. There are some toxic girls out there, that make you believe they want to be with you, just to get what they want and once they do, they leave. Most girls want is a friend with benefits, they do not want to commit to anyone. I was with a girl for about a year and a half and I…
/r/seduction27/06/19 11:09 PM
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I'm not sure she is the type to write me something sweet lol. I need to take her out when she sober to get a real feel of what she is like. But, she comes off as shy, distant and rude af, then sometimes she is nice, very touchy and into me. Girls are fucking confusing creatures. It's frustrating.
/r/seduction26/06/19 04:24 AM
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You're right, I won't invite her..but I wanna smash.
/r/seduction26/06/19 01:30 AM
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Thanks man. You're absolutely right. I need to leave the door open for someone else, who would be actually worth it. In the end, I guess the good didn't outweigh the bad. She just seen me as an option she could fall back on, when it didn't work out with someone else. I appreciate it alot..thank you.
/r/seduction26/06/19 12:33 AM
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Yeah you're right. It's just going to be really hard for me to open up to a girl again. I feel drained.
/r/seduction24/06/19 08:34 PM
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Yeah man..it's really hard for me. I'm still trying to adjust to being without her. Part of me feels relieved though, because I don't have to worry about her fucking me over again and then the other part is like maybe I'm also to blame? And maybe I should reach out. It's taking alot of strength, not to give in. I hope I am able to reach that level you are on and move on completely.
/r/seduction24/06/19 05:56 AM
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Truth. Thanks man.
/r/seduction24/06/19 05:49 AM
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Damn lol. Yeahh man, it's like the more innocent the girl seems, the worse she actually is. Total freaks. It would be nice to find a genuine nice girl that isn't a bigtime hoe, but that is too rare these days. I'm sure this girl i was with was like some sort of escort for older men. She's only 24, but she's been around. Whenever her parents are out of town, she meets up these men, she finds off Instagram. It really turned me off when I found out. She is a sex addict. She pops pills and drinks al…
/r/seduction24/06/19 05:16 AM
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Thanks man
/r/seduction23/06/19 10:05 PM
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Yeah man..the red flags were all there I just ignored them because I liked her so much. She made herself seem so innocent.
/r/seduction23/06/19 10:05 PM
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Yes, it's very tough and I can't talk about it with friends, because they don't understand why it's tough for me to move on. The story actually gets weirder. She was unknowingly communicating with my anon Instagram account, with her fake profile. I eventually figured it was her and she told me a story about how she is married and has two kids, but I was really confused, since she she said she never married or had kids and lives at home still. One thing I noticed about her, is that she loves to s…
/r/seduction23/06/19 08:26 PM
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I've fell for a girl hard and we been talking for the last couple of years, on and off..everytime we stopped talking, she would initiate. She made me feel like she really wanted to be with me and that she cared, she kept me on a leash and being stupid I opened my heart for her. I usually keep my distance, I never allow myself to open up to anyone. So the entire time, she was dating around and had fuck buddies. I found out because she had posted on Instagram a series of texts from a man. So that …
/r/seduction23/06/19 07:40 PM
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A little awkward yes, desperate no. Her own friend took my side and told me she's always like that and she has 4 different personalities. Which makes sense, because she kept switching from hot to cold..from nice to bitchy the whole night. I talked to a few other girls and they were really cool with me, so I'm not the issue. It's not easy to hold unto an abundance mindset 24/7. I do try to maintain it..but I'm not the most experienced guy out there and confidence comes from experience.
/r/seduction23/06/19 03:31 AM
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Yeah but I got no other options
/r/seduction23/06/19 12:40 AM
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You cared enough to read all of it breh
/r/seduction23/06/19 12:40 AM
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Thanks man. I just wish i could move elsewhere.
/r/seduction05/06/19 06:21 PM
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A girl strung me along for over a year and it ended a few months back. I'm happy it ended, but i feel like shit about it still. I had a decent girl i met a month back give me iois and everything..but i guess i came off desperate and wasn't bold enough. I live in a city where girls respond mostly to really bold dudes and I've always been timid and quiet..so i never had any luck, squandered alot of good opportunities and friends are always baffled about it. I'm trying to get my mindset right cause…
/r/seduction05/06/19 04:03 AM
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You're trying and actually putting in the effort and that's awesome. It took me a long ass time to get my mindset right to lose weight, and when i did..i had lost 160lbs. It is life-changing, girls notice me way more..but still so hard to get dates, because of the whole social media BS that gives all these girls huge egos. Lifting weights is so much better then cardio. It burns more fat. So focus more on the lifting. What i do is lift for a couple of hours and then do 20min of cardio. I mostly d…
/r/seduction05/06/19 02:08 AM
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That's awesome man! You're right..people at these festivals are really chill to be around. I think that I will go.
/r/seduction03/06/19 08:24 PM
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Yeah, I'll talk to my gym buddy about it when I see him..hopefully things will work out. Lol yeah that's my fear, being the creepy guy hitting on chicks..I usually can hit it off well with people when I overcome my timidness though, so hopefully I can make some new friends.
/r/seduction03/06/19 08:22 PM
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Most girls are like this girl, so it's pointless to cut her off..just don't develop any feelings for her and use her for sex and experience like any other guy would do.
/r/seduction30/05/19 01:10 AM
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I wasted my teens feeling unworthy and in my mid 20s I lost a ton of weight and started trying to date..I only went out on dates a few times. When i went out I am social and I can make girls laugh and they would think I'm cute, but never closed. Now, my younger brother, who is basically a hermit and is overweight..is going out with this girl he met online almost everyday, while I am stuck feeling like shit. Life just really baffles me. I worked my ass off losing weight and I am putting in effort…
/r/seduction30/05/19 01:04 AM
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That's what I really want to do but I'm too stuck in my shitty circumstances to do that right now.
/r/seduction27/05/19 12:56 AM
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I seee. I will look into it. I'm trying to lose the extra weight I gained. I will try the incline out thank you. Yes, I'm sure it is one of the major reasons I feel like shit.
/r/seduction26/05/19 08:45 PM
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Yeah I know..I'm trying to switch to green tea. Doctors said I have to wear a oxygen mask when I sleep, but it's way too uncomfortable for me. I'm not sure what other options are available, I have to look into it. Yeah no doubt haha. I would need to make friends with some hipsters to get ahold of mushrooms..All my friends are lame. Ketamine sounds too intense lol. Thanks.
/r/seduction26/05/19 08:20 PM
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Shrooms? That sounds interesting but I have no clue where to find any. I never heard of ket nose. I've been on SSRIs in the past and never again. The side-effects aren't worth it to me. I've been taking CBD and that has been helping..I've been off it about a few months though, I ran out of CBD oil. I have sleep apnea, so sleeping pattern really sucks. I feel like I can't function during the day without coffee or kratom. I don't like depending on anything to keep me going though. I have no car so…
/r/seduction26/05/19 07:40 PM
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I'm going through the same thing buddy. I thought I made so much progress and things seemed to slowly be coming around, but then the girl I thought I would end up with, stopped talking to me. I started going out more and had great times, I met another girl that seemed to really like me, but now lost interest. It's really shitty. It seems impossible to find a girl to get to know and spend time with. I guess all we can do is take things one step at a time and pursue things we are passionate about,…
/r/seduction19/05/19 10:20 PM
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Thank you. Great video
/r/seduction19/05/19 08:17 AM
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What do you mean? My system for picking up women?? Don't really have one. I don't approach often and I don't go out that often, I just make small talk & make them laugh, sometimes grab their social media handles. I'm not that great at escalating, never brought a girl home from a night out. Never got lucky off a dating app either.
/r/seduction19/05/19 06:16 AM
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Yeah my abundance mindset is real shit lately..I have nothing to draw positivity from. I'm trying to have a good mindset but it disappears as soon as I have it. Things never seem to work out for me.
/r/seduction19/05/19 05:15 AM
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Nah..all they do is prescribe meds and too expensive.
/r/seduction19/05/19 03:52 AM
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I chose to be a celebite virgin my teenage years because I thought girls don't date/fuck fat guys lmao
/r/seduction17/05/19 07:41 AM
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Nope..pretty
/r/seduction15/05/19 09:36 PM
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Nope lol she don't
/r/seduction15/05/19 08:32 PM
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Thanks. Yeah I'm trying but my depressing thoughts and negative environment getting the best of me
/r/seduction15/05/19 08:26 PM
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Yeahh I'm trying to figure out what i can do to improve my life but i feel too hopeless
/r/seduction15/05/19 08:25 PM
1

Yeah they go on dates
/r/seduction15/05/19 08:24 PM
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It's a mean world 🤷‍♂️
/r/seduction05/05/19 05:19 PM
0

Tbh I wouldn't care that much.
/r/seduction05/05/19 05:19 PM
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Yeah these city girls are really picky and stuck up. 5s act like 10s and 10s want attention and new Instagram followers. That's the biggest reason why it never works out.
/r/seduction05/05/19 05:18 PM
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I live in a huge city. My pics and profile are fine. I have way more luck irl with women and I get approached as well.
/r/seduction05/05/19 10:12 AM
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It's upvotes but nah I'm just trying to show how shitty tinder is. Like y'all niggas don't judge girls on their looks lmao fuck off..girls do it to men all the damn time.
/r/seduction05/05/19 10:10 AM
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Awesome man. I went out last Saturday and got introduced to some cute Spanish chick. I just started saying some stupid, funny shit for my own amusement and she was laughing alot. She kept holding my hand and gave me her number. First time in a long time i felt confident and it's because i didn't care about pulling a girl.
/r/seduction01/05/19 09:32 AM
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Yup. I regret paying for tinder gold. Still zero matches lmao. I feel so dumb.
/r/seduction01/05/19 09:26 AM
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Great post. This past weekend was the first time in a long time i felt confident talking to this girl i met through a friend. It went pretty good i guess. Right now, I'm really struggling trying to find myself and build a future, while also trying to find someone to date at the same time. I feel overwhelmed, like time is working against me and I'm coming off too desperate.
/r/seduction01/05/19 09:22 AM
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That sounds like a great time. I wish I had the opportunity to bond and meet new friends like that. I am in desperate need of them lol. I want to surround myself with giants that can teach me new things and inspire me. I'm tired of being around losers that always complain. I want to grow as a person and I want to experience new things, places and people. It can be very tough to befriend guys without getting into sports or meetup. I managed to meet a few cool dudes at my gym, but I'm not that clo…
/r/seduction30/04/19 10:55 PM
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Thanks man! Yeah I do feel proud of myself. That night made me realize alot of shit, like how all these times I was going out with my friends and nothing good ever happening was because they are huge imbeciles and always made me hold myself back. Keeping me locked in my shell. But, when I'm around cool people I feel I can really let loose and have a great time..I'm myself. Yeah I think I will text her by the end of the day. I think it was a shit test actually. If she does bring up the boyfriend …
/r/seduction29/04/19 09:16 PM
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I need advice. My one chick friend introduced me to her cute friend, my friend was being my wingwoman and kept telling her good things about me and leaving us alone together. This girl seems to really like me..she kept grabbing my hand and holding it. She rarely left me alone last night. She was asking me where do I live and she said, she lives pretty close and we should hangout. I teased her alot and made her laugh and blush. She thought I was funny. But I am confused..when she went out to smok…
/r/seduction28/04/19 11:26 PM
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Well it seems like she is more into you then her boyfriend. If you like her, make a move on her. Girls like that are terrible though..that's why I'm so reluctant to be in relationships.
/r/seduction28/04/19 11:18 PM
1

Nicee
/r/seduction13/04/19 07:14 PM
1

*Playa
/r/seduction11/04/19 12:04 AM
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I seen this quote "breathe if you think I'm cute" i thought it would make a hilarious shirt, so i got one made and went out. I got complimented by a couple of hot girls. One of them looked at it and took a deep breath and said "I'm breathing, I'm breathing!" Then another one that looked like the middle-eastern version of Kylie Jenner came up to me and took a couple of deep breaths and we just started talking for a bit. I think it's a great ice breaker, gave me a good confidence boost.
/r/seduction10/04/19 11:13 PM
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Yeah i need to get back to studying PUA..it's not hard to find a decent girl to like me, it's just the escalating part that trips me up. I was natural and myself with this girl, that's why she keeps on coming back to me..she knows I'm not trying to game her, she knows I'm real, but she wasn't being 100% real with me..no matter how hard i try to get the truth out of her.
/r/seduction06/04/19 08:40 PM
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True
/r/seduction06/04/19 06:34 PM
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I was feeling really shitty and i came across your post and found we have many things in common. I am feeling the exact same way, but I did a really stupid thing, which is fall for a girl in another state. I thought i would marry her too one day, i never clicked that way with a girl before. I hate game, i hate the idea of game and tinder and this whole toxic dating culture, where you can't be your genuine self, you have to play a role to every girl you come across. I'm at a loss of what to do. T…
/r/seduction06/04/19 07:39 AM
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Yeah man. That's what i am trying to do. It's just really hard not to get attached to someone i feel i really connect with..that shit rarely ever happens to me. I'm not as motivated as i used to be before..i just have too much stress on my mind. The gym isn't helping much anymore.
/r/seduction04/04/19 06:23 PM
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Yes, i figured that out. I always try to lose these dudes when we head out but they always text and blow my phone up, i don't like that. Yeppp. That's true..the moment we all got in the car with them, it was doomed. I didn't realize they were that dumb and aimless, but now i know better. I won't put myself or any other girls in any situation like that again. It was so cringe and frustrating, being stuck in that car and witnessing everything falling apart. I been out with other guys partying, and…
/r/seduction03/04/19 01:44 AM
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Lol they always blamed the girl, they wld never question themselves, they always come up with excuses like yeah that girl was a bitch anyways. Dude, we first tried getting a room at a motel, it was booked..i said fine, there are some others around here, let's go..but my friends ignored me, i said dude let's just go by one of my friend's house instead, we get there..friend changes his mind and says we are all driving like 45min away to a hotel..meanwhile the sun is coming up and we finally get at…
/r/seduction29/03/19 05:01 AM
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True. Thanks man. I think I will go out alone this Saturday..see what's up. I'm sick of going out with idiots.
/r/seduction28/03/19 09:42 AM
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There have been instances where chicks would approach me and these guys would take over and weird the girls the hell out, acting so desperate & they would run away. They also ruined a great opportunity for a 3sum a month ago, met two chicks who wanted to hitch a ride with us and kept hinting how dtf they are..but these guys had no plan, no idea where to bring them..whenever i suggested something, they ignored me..they were pretty much driving in circles until the girls got pissed off and wanted …
/r/seduction28/03/19 09:39 AM
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100% agree lol. So hard finding a good wingman, I went out with girls, whom were great wingmen then my own friends. I just need to get the motivation to go out alone again and test my luck.
/r/seduction28/03/19 09:34 AM
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You're right. I used to go out alone all the time and I would have a pretty good time. I work better alone, but it's gonna take getting used to doing that again.
/r/seduction28/03/19 09:32 AM
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Don't care what they think..that's the key..also do stuff that will raise your self-esteem.
/r/seduction28/03/19 03:15 AM
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I recently found out that a girl that was always showing me affection was never really into me, she was just looking for attention, while she was sleeping with multiple men, that she played too. I never let myself get caught up over a girl, but I did it for her and she took advantage of it. I felt so used. My friends think I'm an idiot for not having other options, and I agree with them. I just connected with her in a way, I never was able to connect with another girl. I learned a valuable lesso…
/r/seduction28/03/19 01:17 AM
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Good points. I agree..I am pretty good with game, but my problem is I have idiots as wingmen that ruin good opportunities. Right now, I have nobody cool to go out with..I'm thinking of going out alone again, but I doubt girls will think I'm a fun person when I'm going out, partying solo.
/r/seduction28/03/19 01:01 AM
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Truth. I was too caught up with what turned out to be the worst girl imaginable, now I feel like absolute shit with zero options. I know that I have to get out there and talk to multiple girls, I just feel too drained to begin.
/r/seduction28/03/19 12:54 AM
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Abundance mindset is so fucken hard for me to gain right now. I'm back at zero.., with no prospects. I wld say an abundance mindset is so much easier for women to gain. There are countless options for them.
/r/seduction28/03/19 12:49 AM
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To game during the week? Yeah possibly. I usually go out on the weekends.
/r/seduction22/03/19 03:34 AM
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Pretty much. I sabotage myself in every which was possible. I don't really get friendzoned that often, I tend to be the one friendzoning I would say..I had girls that were desperate, but I just wasn't feeling them. I do cold approach here and there, but the only time I really enjoy it and do it more frequently is on vacation. I just really dislike the quality of chicks in my city.
/r/seduction21/03/19 09:56 AM
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Yeahh true. I rarely come across chicks that are my type..when I do, they are usually taken or i am too intimidated. But, finding a girl I find atleast somewhat attractive would be good.
/r/seduction20/03/19 10:39 PM
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It's so damn difficult to not be bitter when a woman does you wrong. A girl made me believe for the past year or so that i was the one..but I was just one of many..just an option. I ignored and avoided her for a month and she kept asking what's wrong, so I couldn't take it anymore and I confronted her about it. She made up some really dumb story how it was all an act with the other guy, he was just her friend..which made me even more mad, because she lied to me and thinks I'm a fool. She doesn't…
/r/seduction20/03/19 10:31 AM
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I have good style, well-groomed, hit the gym, funny af..but bad at nonverbal communication and I need to get my teeth whitened..coffee and carbonated drinks ruined my teeth.
/r/seduction16/03/19 04:25 AM
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I never play but when I do, I never lose. This girl is slow, but I can sense the tension from her question..she's wondering. I haven't responded back.
/r/seduction13/03/19 09:34 PM
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Yeah that's what I was thinking lol..best response is to see the question and not respond to it.
/r/seduction13/03/19 07:20 AM
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Why
/r/seduction13/03/19 06:44 AM
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Long story short. I started ghosting that chick..I made a comment on a post about ghosting a girl that deserves it. She knows it's about her..she made me believe she really liked me, but turns out she had a bf and sleeping around with other guys. I never confronted her about it.
/r/seduction13/03/19 06:03 AM
1

I'm high off life nigha get on my level
/r/seduction01/03/19 03:36 AM
1

I have the same issue with no car and news flash, most girls don't really give a fuxk if you got a car, they'll pick your ass up, if they really like you. The ones that do care, aren't worth your time anyways. Stop caring about what a girl thinks. When you put effort into changing your life, your funds will eventually increase and girls will pick up on that. I've seen low-lifes, with nothing but their charisma get girls into bed. So trust me, you got a shot..we all do.
/r/seduction28/02/19 10:59 AM
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Truth. I need ways to grow my self-esteem cause shit is too low. I miss too many opportunities because of that.
/r/seduction27/02/19 02:11 AM
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😂 yeahh shows how clueless I am!
/r/seduction27/02/19 02:07 AM
2

For sure
/r/seduction23/02/19 02:52 AM
1

That's great advice man, thank you. I will for sure do that next time..gonna work on getting better wingmen and wingwomen as well. These guys are straight up clowns.
/r/seduction22/02/19 11:56 PM
1

What do you do about wingmen that always screw things up for you?? I was so close to screwing these two girls last weekend, they kept saying how dtf they were, but, my friends weirded them out and cock-blocked me. I don't really have other dudes to go out with, so this situation sucks.
/r/seduction22/02/19 07:56 AM
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Reading this made me want to go out later. I been through a really tough week..caught mad feelings for a girl that had a bf and sleeps around. I've been talking to this girl for almost 2yrs, so I feel messed up..ignoring her, but she keeps bothering me.
/r/seduction22/02/19 07:53 AM
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Thanks man..I will
/r/seduction21/02/19 07:57 AM
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I never seeded shit and wonder why I can never close..I guess I will start doing this
/r/seduction21/02/19 02:21 AM
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I will be getting one of the procedures done in a few months. It's tough because I can't look at myself in the mirror and i feel embarrassed when changing in the locker room. It's a tough thing to accept for me. I know a other dude with the same issue, but he doesn't seem to be embarrassed by it. I don't know how he can do it. He told me to just not to give a fuck about what other people think. It's easier said then done. I'm sure there are really accepting girls out there. But you are right, I …
/r/seduction14/02/19 10:32 PM
1

Yeahh I've been working out for about 6yrs now. I used to be morbidly obese. I know I have a big issue with self-esteem and mentality. It used to come from being fat and bullied, but now most of it comes from great lack of experience and having large amounts of excess skin from the weightloss, so I'm not in a rush to get out there and get naked with a girl. My biggest fear is finding the perfect girl and her being disgusted by me. I recently went to a consultation and the doctor's assistant was …
/r/seduction14/02/19 10:44 AM
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Really cool. I used to feel that way..trying to regain some of that confidence. Ain't easy when you are down in the dumps..but oh well.
/r/seduction14/02/19 02:12 AM
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She does say I love you. Um..I don't really care anymore..that was just a drunk rant. But, I cannot stand the girls in my city, feels like a waste of time dealing with stuck up, flakey girls with a million options. Maybe when I get a chance to move and regain some enthusiasm for life, is when I'll put effort into girls.
/r/seduction14/02/19 01:30 AM
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Yeahh..really don't have an urge to talk to any girls and going through the process of trying/hoping that someone will like me and getting my hopes up again. I figure these city girls are a complete waste of time. I keep myself preoccupied with the gym. I am trying to figure out a way so I can move and start fresh, but that shit looking abysmal.
/r/seduction14/02/19 01:25 AM
2

I've had girls approach me and gave me hints, but I wasn't feeling them so I fucked off lol I do kinda regret it now since it's been over a year since I last had sex.
/r/seduction07/02/19 02:30 AM
2

Tinder is such a joke..it's where horny average dudes meet horny fugly bitches that think they are the shit because those desperate dudes keep telling them how amazing and beautiful they are smh
/r/seduction27/01/19 09:17 AM
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YES! There are rarely any fun events to go to like other cities, compared to NY, Los Angeles or Miami, very dead. Me and my friends talk about it all the time, we live in a huge city, yet very little to do. We joke that it's becoming like Detroit lol. The nightlife here is also bad, my favorite spots to go to, have all closed down or in the process of being shut down. The quality of life is not so good here anymore.
/r/seduction24/01/19 05:31 AM
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Chicago. I actually might have some sort of therapist that's working with an organization I am with. I guess I could try that out. It might help me out, along with CBD if I can get it. I feel like I might have to take a risk and move though..I am really unhappy here. My friends don't seem to understand depression or my inability to want to try hooking up with chicks. It's getting very annoying. Thanks for the advice.
/r/seduction23/01/19 08:46 AM
1

I do realize I have clinical depression and anxiety..I was taking CBD for it, it was helping me, but too expensive. Again, therapy is also expensive. Depression is life circumstantial.
/r/seduction23/01/19 03:27 AM
1

Well another reason is I feel dead af in this boring city I live in and I'm not sure whether I should take the risk and move to a different city
/r/seduction23/01/19 03:24 AM
0

No habla englis
/r/seduction23/01/19 03:22 AM
1

I don't have a solution 😒
/r/seduction23/01/19 01:55 AM
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I would have such a nice time out, when I would go out alone. Had my first kiss at Lollapalooza solo..some cool moments for sure..but lately, I feel out of touch with myself, I don't feel like heading out alone anymore. But, i want/need to get back to it. Most of my friends are flakes and tend to just ruin the mood on a night out. If I just had a cool wingwoman to go out with, I would be golden. So much easier to meet people and girls would pay you more attention and be more open towards you.
/r/seduction23/01/19 12:51 AM
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Awesome man. I used to always go alone, but stopped. You motivated me to keep at it solo.
/r/seduction10/12/18 07:58 AM
3

I always assume if girls are judging me based on my hairy balls and whether I powder them or not. Am I the only one?
/r/seduction15/11/18 06:46 AM
0

I had sex with a Brazilian stripper back in January and I am perfectly fine!
/r/seduction23/09/18 02:51 AM
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Sad to see so many dudes with mental blocks that keep them from having a relationship. For me, it's all of those excuses. It feels impossible to keep a girl interested with conversation, but I guess that's because I never use touch to further my advances. Being so long without affection and intimacy, feels hella awkward to try being intimate with girls I barely know.
/r/seduction20/09/18 07:27 AM
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That's awesome. My issue has always been not showing proper interest when a girl shows me interest. I guess I'm afraid of escalating and coming off as a creep when I try to kino
/r/seduction29/08/18 12:41 AM
3

Yeah, sure. That would be cool.
/r/seduction02/07/18 05:49 AM
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I would hate the be the annoying dude that tells you to change your style and workout but it really ups your chances. Would you be willing to post any pics?
/r/seduction02/07/18 04:08 AM
1

Go back and tell her that she blown you away with her knowledge and you think she's cute and ask for her number
/r/seduction01/07/18 05:34 PM
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I'm pretty sure all girls automatically assume you are into them if you approach. It's better to go straight to the point instead of beating around the bush
/r/seduction28/06/18 12:32 AM
2

😭✊💦
/r/seduction25/06/18 12:07 AM
2

😭
/r/seduction24/06/18 01:15 PM
2

Thank you for the advice bro. You are so right. I don't want to go back home with any regrets.
/r/seduction23/06/18 06:13 PM
2

Yes truee. I do want to go out and have fun on my last day here.
/r/seduction23/06/18 06:09 PM
1

I agree but lately I've been feeling the complete opposite of lively haha. I'm trying to push myself to go out..it's going to take a lot.
/r/seduction23/06/18 08:09 AM
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Kind of like the 5 second rule. It sucks because everytime i push myself, i feel like I'm still not getting anywhere. I have all these goals in my mind and i can't even get one of them done. Now since i lost my Dog , it feels like hell trying to get back to feeling ok enough to keep going. He was like the only one that kept me happy and at ease in a place i hate so much and now he's gone and i can't just get up and move out of here with no job or money.
/r/seduction20/05/18 07:18 PM
2

This is true. I went on vacation for a month and it was the most luck i had with girls then my entire life back at home.
/r/seduction29/03/18 09:09 AM
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21 isn't a late bloomer by any means. When you come to realize that everyone lives on a different time frame, then you won't feel as bad anymore. I know where you are coming from about the whole friend issue. It can be very hard to find your tribe, but they exist and they are out there somewhere. I found mine on vacation..and it's so depressing having to leave them behind, but i am glad i got to experience that bond. The best advice i can give you is to travel and put yourself out there. What ev…
/r/seduction21/03/18 02:13 AM
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I lost 160lbs but still have excess skin despite working out and i just feel so bad about it. I'm just waiting on the day where i have enough money to get rid of it, so i can be like every other guy. I haven't really met any girls in my city that i like or would want to date me..and i just have one boring friend to hang with. Life is too miserable for me here. I feel stuck.
/r/seduction19/03/18 09:13 PM
2

How do you not get tired of girls that like to play games though?
/r/seduction19/03/18 09:01 PM
1

Lol i don't..but i don't mind alittle chunk in her trunk 😉
/r/seduction17/03/18 02:55 AM
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I was trying to escalate..I asked her if she was hungry and wanted to grab a bite, but she said no. My friend was distracting me with engaging me in a conversation with the chubby girl..and by the time i was done talking with then..the stripper left. I know i could have nailed her for sure. Yeah, she did seem like that type of girl. I should have just ignored my friend and left. I have her snapchat though.
/r/seduction17/03/18 12:56 AM
2

Yeah like i haven't thought of that already 😐😒
/r/seduction16/01/18 04:33 AM
1

Get a sex therapist
/r/seduction30/11/17 03:29 AM
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First you stroke her hair, kiss her on the forehead and then tell her she is the moon and stars..the mother of your future children..that you feel like your souls are connected and then you go for the kiss. Works every time.
/r/seduction29/11/17 10:09 AM
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This advice is very valuable to us guys that find being social & making friends near impossible. I've had many bad experiences with ppl throughout my life, such as being brutally bullied in school, or with girls i had really big crushes on, so, it can be very difficult to open up and be social to people, whom may be capable of causing the same damage as the people in my past. I know that not all people are assholes and i know that i really need new friends, but it's just so hard. I do go out and…
/r/seduction29/11/17 10:04 AM
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I know the feeling..have the potential but clueless on how to use it to your advantage and escalate. My mom's friend is married and tells my mom she thinks I'm hot and that she checks me out at the gym. You don't really have to worry about saying the right things but how you say them. Touch & eye contact is way more important then words.
/r/seduction25/11/17 10:39 AM
4

Pics
/r/seduction25/11/17 10:35 AM
1

But not by much
/r/seduction19/11/17 07:00 AM
30

I just deleted tinder again...
/r/seduction19/11/17 05:41 AM
1

Very matter of fact. Gj
/r/seduction16/11/17 09:02 AM
1

That's a good idea..I need to figure out what kind of team activities there is to do here. I never been a big sports guy though. Improv classes costs a great deal of money. I'm from Chicago.
/r/seduction15/11/17 12:19 AM
1

I think the same thing..I need a big social circle. I just don't know how to make friends with my social anxiety. I've been at my gym for almost 4yrs now and don't have a single gym buddy. I hate it.
/r/seduction14/11/17 10:27 PM
1

Yes that's true
/r/seduction14/11/17 10:22 PM
1

It's fine..I'm used to it. I don't really frequent that subreddit much. It's only when I'm feeling down and want to express how i feel to people that can understand me or to add some positivity. It's hard to feel understood by guys who never had much trouble with girls and life in general. It's also frustrating to see how easy they make it seem to get dates and sex. I am always out and about and i go to events. I am alone most of the time because i do not know how to make friends outside of soci…
/r/seduction14/11/17 10:20 PM
2

I work out regularly for the past 4yrs or so. I started doing cardio about a year ago. I used to weigh 350lbs. I am down to 200lbs now. I don't take any social classes, I've thought about it but i procrastinate too much. I don't really meditate that often. I have a bunch of self-help books that i haven't read or finished. I'm reading "the obstacle is the way" right now. I try watching motivation videos as much as i can. I go out regurlary but alone. I don't have many friends. I actually have jus…
/r/seduction14/11/17 09:55 AM
1

I'm from here. Cool, I stay in the northside area lincoln square/Ravenswood
/r/seduction12/11/17 10:31 PM
1

Ayy. What's up man
/r/seduction12/11/17 05:05 AM
4

I agree with men being at a huge disadvantage because girls think they are celebrities on social media part.
/r/seduction10/11/17 01:55 AM
2

Agreed homie
/r/seduction09/11/17 09:00 PM
2

I do go out and talk to women. I prefer it..i have much better luck and sometimes i get approached. It's just that i do not go out enough because of lack of friends.
/r/seduction09/11/17 08:59 PM
2

^ This
/r/seduction09/11/17 02:04 AM
2

True. I know guys who settled with girls from tinder..It's not cool. I also noticed that many girls are just fishing for more Instagram followers on there. It's just not worth it imo. I don't understand how some guys like it so much. It requires way more effort then just walking up to a cute girl in person.
/r/seduction08/11/17 10:15 PM
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Truth. Relying on only tinder to get dates ruined my confidence. I'm not a bad looking guy but i don't take awesome pictures? Oh well, fuck off. I always have way better luck in real life anyways. I hate Tinder. It's full of superficial girls that you can never take seriously.
/r/seduction08/11/17 07:26 PM
1

So what happened?
/r/seduction06/11/17 09:48 PM
2

Good luck man..don't forget to update
/r/seduction05/11/17 11:27 PM
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I was going to go out last night, but drank too much and ended up staying in and feeling depressed af. Yeah, I always try to go to different places alone, my one friend is only interested in going to the same dead place every weekend. It's not so fun having to go out alone. Dating is just really frustrating..I don't know how guys have the energy to keep trying.
/r/seduction05/11/17 08:38 PM
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Thanks man. I don't usually have trouble coming up with my own lines but been out of this so long, my mind is blank. I am better in real life, the thing is i don't have any wingmen or someone to go out with. Tinder never really worked for me. Last date i was on was over 2yrs ago. I will message you if i need any advice.
/r/seduction05/11/17 02:33 AM
1

Thanks. I ended up using the "are you wifi cause i feel a connection" line
/r/seduction05/11/17 12:41 AM
1

The worst thing you can do is be envious of others and compare yourself. It will dig a hole you won't be able to get out of. 21 is still very young. I have very strict parents as well, but I learned to defy them and make my own choices, I realized that this is my life, not theirs and they can't control me. If you can, travel. I have never felt more alive and free then when I left all the bullshit at home behind. Start taking action.
/r/seduction19/10/17 07:30 AM
1

Can you post the link to the seconds video and article?
/r/seduction17/10/17 05:01 AM
1

Nice one. I used to weigh 350lbs and now I weigh 200lbs. It feels really nice to feel noticed by girls for once, it's weird being attractive, after spending years being fat and ugly. But, I'm still having a ton of trouble, I haven't been on a date in over 2yrs. Tinder isn't really working for me. Now, i just feel as insecure as I was when I was fat..When a girl checks me out, I get nervous and don't know what to do.
/r/seduction17/10/17 04:50 AM
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Haven't had a date in over two years. Tinder is a pretty shitty dating app. I tried a bunch of different pictures, tried being funny..only match with unattractive girls.
/r/seduction17/10/17 04:41 AM
1

It's an anxiety disorder I'm sure. Been to specialists, all they do is prescribe SSRIs..which just make it worse in the end. I'm trying to overcome it naturally, by taking supplements.
/r/seduction13/10/17 06:16 PM
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I do not take it everyday, maybe 1-2 times a week. I don't have an addictive personality. Kratom is one of the only things that make me feel at ease and social, I do not have any issues with it. Sorry to hear about your girlfriend. She clearly abused it.
/r/seduction13/10/17 06:08 PM
1

I am already in the process..back pain holds me back though..I can't go as hard as I want to. You guessed right, I never was a big sports team guy. I can imagine, jocks and getting laid go together like bread and butter. I already go to bars, festivals and concerts. Problem with that is, I go to festivals and concerts solo, my friends aren't interesting in going to events. They just go to the same bars every weekend. They are very boring people. This is why I need new friends.
/r/seduction13/10/17 04:36 AM
1

Thanks. Well it would be a waste if a girl seemed interested in me and I do nothing.
/r/seduction13/10/17 04:28 AM
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Hang around the cafes and places all the college people frequent..If you see a girl you are interested in, just approach and ask her questions such as, "hey I just moved here, do you know a good place to eat?!" After she gives you her answer, ask her what's the best thing there to get and just try and continue the convo, keep asking questions..if she seems interested, then ask if she wants to accompany you one day and get digits. Tip If you are really anxious/nervous like I am, look into kratom.…
/r/seduction15/09/17 04:39 AM
1

I really wish that I was just like Channing Tatum...
/r/seduction21/07/17 09:12 AM
1

I used to dance pretty well but now I feel too awkward, even a fat girl that approached me, turned me down and I'm kinda cute...dance skills have plummeted. I need to learn how to get my groove back. (Dance class would be the death of me..)
/r/seduction21/07/17 09:09 AM
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Answer this
/r/seduction21/05/17 10:15 PM
2

Unless you are a model, professional shots are so cheesy AND expensive lol. Just taking some good social pictures will do.
/r/seduction03/05/17 07:20 PM
1

It's more like the opposite. The world has closed itself off to me and nobody is willing or able to help me.
/r/seduction12/04/17 08:47 PM
1

Yeah, I do have alot of personal and family issues but it's much more then that. If I would explain it to you, you would understand what I'm talking about. Thank you.
/r/seduction12/04/17 08:38 PM
2

That doesn't sound odd at all. I always thought of trying out boxing but I never got to it and I'm just not in a good financial place right now to afford classes. Thanks for reminding me though.
/r/seduction12/04/17 12:39 AM
1

True. Thanks for the advice.
/r/seduction12/04/17 12:28 AM
1

Yeah, I know I am depressed. Well, severely depressed to be exact and also have bad social anxiety. I do understand that fact about depression, but mine tend to comes from life circumstances that I am stuck in. I can't just trick my depression when I am still surrounded by all this mess. I do try to have a positive routine but my mind is always clouded with negativity..whether it comes from deep inside or from people. It's very hard to try and be positive when you keep being brought down.
/r/seduction11/04/17 10:17 PM
1

True. But, I think that most girls won't want to deal with guys that are just as messed up. They want a guy that can be their rock.
/r/seduction11/04/17 10:12 PM
1

Alright. Well, for example girls would bring up sex first while texting and I don't know how I could escalate the conversation. I start feeling nervous and I try and be funny about it and they just stop responding. I guess I go into desperation mode and act like a weirdo. There were also girls that I turned down because I was just not feeling them at all. One girl came into like 3/4 different times..once I was drunk and kept leaving my zipper open and she would zip it back up for me lol. I remem…
/r/seduction11/04/17 07:08 AM
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It is an awful feeling dude. It sucks that guys like us have to go through this shit. It is our fault, but not entirely. People can cause alot of damage to others and it is very hard to recover and live life on the same timeline everybody else does.
/r/seduction11/04/17 06:57 AM
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Thank you for your advice. I feel like even if I don't compare myself, somebody else always does. It never fails. There are people that like comparing me and putting me down by comparing me to other guys, even ones way younger then me and it kills me. I am self-sabotaging myself, I've done it my whole life and I feel like I can't stop it. I've done things that I really regret and there are many things that I regret not doing.
/r/seduction11/04/17 06:18 AM
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Yeah, I'm trying to but it's really difficult when you have crippling depression. I do eat healthy and workout though. I don't have a job and it's going to be really hard finding one. It's so hard to support myself right now. I just feel so down about the future. I do go out sometimes..it's difficult to go out and enjoy yourself when you don't have the money to do so. I only have like one friend and it sucks. I could talk and be social if I'm in the mood. That's cool though. The whole creating b…
/r/seduction11/04/17 06:11 AM
2

I eat healthy. Well I had two..now I'm down to one, because the other guy was hating and making up lies about me to people.
/r/seduction11/04/17 06:03 AM
3

Hardly drink, never do any drugs(but I feel like I should) I have been exercising for the past 5yrs, can't afford therapy. I wish my life was as easy to fix. I really do.
/r/seduction11/04/17 04:45 AM
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It's not like I have never done anything to try and improve my life. I've lost a ton of weight and I am working out and I do read. But, I do not enjoy it as much anymore. I feel like I've come so far just to fall on my face. As for trying to be social, I do try and talk to people that I do not find intimidating. I've been at my gym for almost 4yrs now and I can't make one gym buddy because I feel intimidated by guys I feel are better then me. Whenever I feel like there would be an opportunity to…
/r/seduction11/04/17 03:34 AM
3

I have the exact same problem! I know that I have a good sense of humor and I know i can be really funny and witty but whenever someone doesn't get it and doesn't even acknowledge a joke i find hilarious, I second guess myself and feel like a weirdo. It's really hard not to, because i wanted these people to like me and if they don't, I think it's all my fault, because something is really messed up about the way I am.
/r/seduction10/04/17 06:00 AM
2

I am going through the same thing. I used to be really huge and I ended up losing all the weight. I thought a girlfriend would come easy, but I did not work on my self-esteem and I not only feel like I've been knocked back some steps, but all the way back to when I was fat. I still have the same mentality and my depression and anxiety feel worse. The feeling of wanting to give up hits me every single day. I am still looked down on and made fun of because I am still inexperienced. I don't know if…
/r/seduction09/04/17 07:32 AM
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All this fuckin bro science to getting laid gives me a huge headache and makes me not even try with women.
/r/seduction01/04/17 07:01 AM
2

Great job. I'm older then you are and going through the same things. I've been on tinder for the past 2/3 years and I've only been on one date. I do get matches but it's from girls I'm not attracted to. I also have bad social pics because I rarely go out and take some good ones. I just grew to really dislike tinder. I find that approaching girls in real life is much better. My biggest problem is anxiety and depression. Life is so full of shit and unfair, I don't even know where to begin. One day…
/r/seduction01/04/17 06:57 AM
1

What is MGTOW? Yeah I don't like visiting RedPill.
/r/seduction05/03/17 09:40 PM
1

Wise words. Thanks.
/r/seduction05/03/17 09:39 PM
1

Thank you for sharing your story with me. I understand that we all are facing our own demons in life and for others, it's easier to manage them. I'm just really struggling with mine right now. I will PM you.
/r/seduction31/12/16 07:49 AM
2

That's great. I guess I'll try my best.
/r/seduction29/12/16 11:22 PM
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I am trying my best but it will take a miracle if I were to be honest. That power is out of my hands. At the moment, I am stuck in quicksand and there is nobody that can pull me out anytime soon.
/r/seduction29/12/16 11:18 PM
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I don't think that depression will cease if I'm going out more and talking to girls. I just know it will help get my mind off things. I do like to workout but lately I just don't have the motivation. I have to force myself. I have tried getting help but doctors just try and turn me into an ssri zombie. Nobody really understands what I have to go through in life, how hard everything is for me. I'm not trying to be overdramatic..its just the truth. My life circumstances are terrible. I cannot do t…
/r/seduction29/12/16 08:13 PM
1

I have been to one and I went through five different medications. I hate SSRIs. The reason I feel like this has to with what's going on in my life, that I cannot change. I don't think meds will do much but turn me into an SSRI zombie.
/r/seduction29/12/16 07:49 PM
2

That will be very difficult but guess I should try
/r/seduction29/12/16 07:44 PM
1

I have lost so many opportunities for sex and relationships because of my anxiety and low self-esteem. I became a 350lb asexual fat boi..eventually I lost the weight. I became attractive for once in my life. Girls were giving me attention, but, being the inexperienced douche I am, I couldn't escalate. I just goof around too much with girls and don't try and make things sexy to open up those opportunities for relationships and sex. I have watched pick up videos and gotten some great advice from R…
/r/seduction06/12/16 12:52 AM
0

Push, pull, teasing the same shit? I notice girls love it when I playfully tease them.
/r/seduction29/11/16 04:33 AM
1

True.
/r/seduction28/11/16 09:46 PM
2

Yeah man. True.
/r/seduction27/11/16 08:39 PM
2

I never know how to properly do this. One moment I think I'm doing great but then feel awkward af and over think everything and look away and lose focus..
/r/seduction27/11/16 11:37 AM
1

Yeah I think you're right
/r/seduction03/11/16 01:56 AM
0

You forgot the most important trait of all...a beard. I consider myself blessed to have a great looking one.
/r/seduction02/11/16 11:44 PM
3

I do that with everyone, not only girls. But yes you are right. I just don't know how to be seductive with texting..
/r/seduction21/10/16 02:52 AM
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Ugh I'm so awkward don't know if I can do that..
/r/seduction29/09/16 04:40 AM
1

Can confirm. I had a great conversation with a girl I just met a week ago. It felt amazing to feel like you can connect with a girl and have her like you and want to get to know you. Looking forward to more experiences like that!
/r/seduction21/09/16 03:39 AM
1

I only have a couple of friends and they are just bad wingmen. I don't go to a university or anything so it's really hard to make friends and shit. I used to have a mutual friend from my Sister who is a chick and she had mad friends and connections but my Sister called her a whore in front of her friends and they had a falling out..shit sucks. Wish I had some alpha friends to hangout with.
/r/seduction26/08/16 05:16 AM
1

Yeah I joined some groups but they seem very boring and mostly older ppl are on there.
/r/seduction22/08/16 06:13 AM
1

That's cool. I have tried meditation a few times late at night when I was alone and I did feel more at peace. It does help..but I am too distracted by everything to do it regularly. I will look into it more though..thanks for the advice. About the anxiety, yeah that's exactly how it's like and it can be too much sometimes where I really do think it's too late. I feel like it's become way more frequent. The thing is that I also have people in my life that constantly tell me everyday that I need t…
/r/seduction21/08/16 07:50 PM
3

Here, here 🍻 Good job at finally pushing yoursef out of your comfort zone and getting shit done! All it takes is that 10 seconds of insane courage. I am dealing with those messed up feelings right now and it can feel like the toughest thing in the world to change that mindset. I always dealt with severe anxiety. Always had terrible experiences with girls in school. Never had a girlfriend or experiences so I could say that the weight of anxiety along with the weight of inexperience is holding me …
/r/seduction20/08/16 11:40 PM
1

Exactly. It's a miserable situation to put yourself into and at the end of the day, you just blame yourself, because you think you aren't good enough, when that isn't the case. You see some guys "making it" on these apps and bragging all the time. I know guys that have no trouble using them to find dates and girlfriends. Without these dating apps, they wouldn't have met their gfs. So, I guess some guys are luckier then others with these apps, but most aren't.
/r/seduction14/08/16 07:58 PM
8

I have noticed that I have way more luck in real life then online. Girls sometimes approach me. They are more open to have a conversation with me instead of replying back with only a couple of words. They hardly ever make an effort to message you back. There is a huge competition online between guys. For every girl there can be 10+ guys vying for her attention, even if they are fat and average. Guys are too desperate online cause we just don't have the balls to approach. I see so many girls comp…
/r/seduction11/08/16 08:55 AM
4

Modern Romance by Aziz Ansari is a very popular book on the matter of online dating and text. You should check that book out. It's a page turner.
/r/seduction08/08/16 06:07 PM
1

I always act quiet and push away people because of how I feel about myself. This article is very true. How do you deal with people that have already painted a picture of you though? I always avoid and distance myself from them to avoid the awkwardness.
/r/seduction08/08/16 06:05 PM
1

I wish it was that easy lol. But I live with them. I have no choice but to live in a toxic environment.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/16 11:37 PM
1

How could you do anything to improve yourself when people constantly keep you in a miserable state, where you just want to die, instead of going out and trying to be confident.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/16 07:56 PM
1

Yeah i know..I'm not THAT bad with them, i just joke around and say some naughty jokes here and there and they don't mind. I know. It's just hard for me to get the balls to say something to a girl i don't know. Like at my gym, i see some girls that i would like to talk to but don't want to bother them. My friend goes up to girls all the time though and has no issues and always busts my balls cause i don't approach. My social anxiety is really bad, trying to get it in control. Lol yeahh don't thi…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 11:24 PM
1

Those are some really awesome stories bro. I could only talk like that to girls I'm not attracted to like my sister's friends and they do really like how i tease and make fun of them lol. Pretty jelly that i don't have any good ones like yours haha. Thanks for the cocaine boner tip, I'll be sure to keep that in mind.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 03:38 PM
2

Curious..what are some of the meanest, darkest,.most fuxked up things you have said?
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 06:13 AM
1

Good advice. I feel very down and zombie-like at the moment and i just don't know what i can do to really change. I read and have my little hobbies and i feel better but i am alone still and i don't know how to connect with anyone.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 06:07 AM
1

Dunno. Friends don't care for stripclubs, think it's a waste of time and money..don't drive or have money to go on my own either.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 05:59 PM
-11

"when the girl is into you, you'll talk or act yourself out of pussy instead of in" Yep. 100% me every single time. That's why i stopped trying all together. 😒
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 07:53 AM
2

Like you could of done better 😐 don't be a hater.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 12:22 AM
1

Cool, You really have to start it from the beginning, will make this current season so much more impactful and awesome.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 12:04 AM
2

Jon Starkgaryan will rule them all 😐 fuck outta here.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 11:51 PM
1

I've thought of going to escorts but i fear that I'll end up hating myself more afterwards..only being able to get girls by paying for them feels more self-defeating then being a virgin imo.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 10:00 PM
1

Great recovery. So hard to pull one's head out of their own ass when that's all they know. I hate porn and how lame and defeated i let myself become. A thought came across my mind the other day while i was in that defeated state and it was "every guy's life is full of experiences, good and bad..it was a lesson and helped them grow as a realized human-being..while here i am without these important experiences..Just feel completely inferior to most guys, even teenagers and it's hard to look people…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 09:54 PM
-4

Alot of good advice to follow except quitting tv shows..how the actual FUCK could anyone just quit Game Of Thrones?! that's just so gay...
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 09:40 PM
3

I'm pretty quiet af so I'm a master at this but still no luck with girls..ppl say i need to talk more.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 12:23 AM
1

Thanks will try to do that
/r/TheRedPill03/07/16 09:15 PM
1

That's cool. I had a few chances to be with an escort but didn't have any money. I don't think i would want to anymore at this point. I think I'll end up feeling worse. I don't want to get in trouble either. It's not legal here. If i can't get a girl to willingly have sex with me then i don't want to at all. I do really want to stop watching porn..i deleted all of it off my computer but i still find myself watching it. Whenever i do watch porn i just feel like shit, more angry and depressed then…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/16 08:17 AM
1

I'm taking celexa bt i think it's making my anxiety worse. My sexual drive is pretty high but no motivation because of porn and fap..i need to quit. Don't think my t levels are low. Yeahh it's tough..I've been offered a job at a fast food place but last time i worked at one i had constant anxiety attacks. I do live in a negative environment..nonstop arguing and bickering..hoping to move. I don't tell anyone I'm a virgin but friends assume i am still because i don't know what to say when they tal…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/16 07:23 AM
2

Yeah, you're right..nothing is more worse then doing nothing. I'll try to do something. Thanks for the advice.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/16 04:06 AM
1

I do have someone that lives in Florida that i could live with but she can be a real bitch and i would need a cash paying job and not sure if i would be able to find a good one there. I don't have any credit for rent either.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/16 12:59 AM
1

Everything is stopping me. I would love to leave but i just can't. I wish it was that easy but my life circumstances are pretty shitty right now.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/16 12:19 AM
1

Wish i could post what i want on here but know too many dudes that visit this Reddit..but I'll say that what i desire is the things that everyone takes for granted, everything a human- being should have a right to but i don't.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 03:58 AM
1

Wow that is fucked up..facebook drama with a psycho kunt is like one of the worst things a guy encounters in life. Honestly reading this i feel relieved that i am not sexually active 😥
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 03:54 AM
1

Lol yeahh. That isn't possible for me to do right now. Wish it was that easy. I have gone through a few huge setbacks that are keeping me from really moving forward with my life and that's going to take...awhile. thing is, I'm not going to wait until I'm in my 30s to try and get a gf. I rather not try at all.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 02:57 AM
1

Last date was a long time ago..social dating apps don't help and hardly ever venture out to bars..too much anxiety to cold approah without alcohol. My excuses is i can't drive, i have to share a small room with my brother and i don't have a job right now. I tried getting a couple girls over but they always flaked out..even though they are the ones coming onto me..doesn't make any sense. I've tried getting advice like take art classes, go hiking..etc to meet girls but they are mostly old people o…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 11:24 PM
7

Great read. The positive guy in me wants to pull myself together and somehow start fresh. Become something great but then the negative me right now is what kinda fucken gift is being a virgin in my late 20s, with no motivation or drive for girls..no car..no job..stuck in horrible circumstances that seem inescapable. I've become as antisocial and angsty as i was as a teenager. Everything just feels unbearable right now.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 05:41 AM
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