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WhoTheHellKnows/r/seduction17/06/10 05:10 PM
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WhoTheHellKnows/r/seduction26/04/15 07:09 AM
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That seems like more work than just talking. If you can do a trick that requires no intro, maybe. Most magic tricks require attention and or setup. This doesn't work if you haven't started talking to them. If you have to wave to get their attention, then start doing a trick, it's gonna be kind of pathetic. If you walk up and pull a rabbit out of a hat, and hand it to her, it might work. Basically something that is obvious, and requires her to respond. I think magic works better after a conversat…
/r/seduction14/09/17 05:12 AM
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You sound like you are massively overthinking things. It's college, go out, do fun things with people, flirt with girls. The rest will follow. Oh, and don't wait a few weeks. Maybe one, max.
/r/seduction06/02/16 09:01 PM
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It's not all girls. It's all the girls you are choosing to talk to. If you are seeing a pattern, it may be selection bias. Try girls that aren't the type you usually go for, see if there is a change.
/r/seduction04/01/16 07:02 AM
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Find groups that do the things you like doing. There are dozens of hiking groups in my area, there are probably some near you. Training groups for anything (marathon, triathalon, etc) would help you find a girl that would go on a 20 mile hike. Try a run-or-dye, lots of ladies.
/r/seduction31/10/15 05:46 PM
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Probably will help your dating life. And, assuming you want to live with someone romantically someday, it will help with that, too.
/r/seduction15/05/15 11:38 AM
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Any time is good. It's for form of the compliment that puts her on a pedestal. Bad: "You are so pretty". Pretty much anything with the word "so" in it is right out. "you are amazingly beautiful". Not unless you are already undressing her. Then, fine. Anything that just says "you are really attractive", with no other content, puts her up there. Anything that implies she's too good for you is the very definition of putting her on a pedestal. Good: Things specific to her: "You have a beautiful voic…
/r/seduction13/05/15 11:02 PM
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"First: be attractive"
/r/seduction10/05/15 08:08 PM
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I find the opposite. If I look at them, they are aware on some level, and never look back. (this applies to men and women). I get more eye contact if I look near them, then they look up, and I can meet their eyes. I also find I get more eye contact if I'm smiling before I get close enough for eye contact.
/r/seduction10/05/15 08:07 PM
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Have a good time. Your frame will set hers. Don't know how to dance? Don't care! Hold her close and smile. Everything is fantastic, she is fascinating. The whole night is set up to make you win. Just enjoy.
/r/seduction30/04/15 06:35 AM
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Jump start it with something physical. That helps me get in state. Hit the gym, go for a run, swing dance, etc.
/r/seduction30/04/15 06:29 AM
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Talk the the group. You probably aren't going to be able to isolate and get a number cold in this setting. It's going to be painfully obvious, and turn them all off. It's college, you'll see them again. Talk the them all, get to know them all, invite them all to a party in your dorm, etc. Then you can get to know one better.
/r/seduction30/04/15 06:28 AM
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I guess I just want to have an idea of where I'm at with women. Stop caring. It's paralyzing you. Interested? Ask them to do something with you. Coffee, music, dancing, movie, walk across campus. If they are interested, they'll say yes. If not, move on. Normal guy in college? Your odds are actually pretty good. You are getting nowhere, because you are paralyzed by worrying about "where you are at". Stop thinking about it. Take a first step.
/r/seduction30/04/15 06:20 AM
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Start a study group. Invite people. Might even help your grades as a side effect.
/r/seduction26/04/15 07:13 AM
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Generally, if they don't respond, you're done. If she starts the conversation up again, run with it, she's interested.
/r/seduction12/04/15 12:22 AM
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You've read enough. Time to do. Unless your goal is to read.
/r/seduction12/04/15 12:21 AM
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Kiss them where? When? A kiss at the end of an evening might be nothing but go away. (my favorite book title: "get your tongue out of my mouth, I'm kissing you goodbye") If you are on your couch, you may not be escalating well. It's probably not your kissing.
/r/seduction12/04/15 12:20 AM
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Forget everything else but inner game. Everything in this post is dripping with insecurity. Chasing younger girls a) won't fix this, and b) won't ever happen while you have this shit going on inside your head. Hit a gym, stop worrying about who you are, and make your life interesting, and people will be interested in you. And never again ask people how old you look.
/r/seduction12/04/15 12:16 AM
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I'd be interested in more details on this. I'm not familiar with the concept.
/r/seduction12/04/15 12:00 AM
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it sounds like you are suggesting I go for more introverted girls No, I was suggesting that you go for girls that like introverted guys IF you are presenting as extroverted, and they leave when they see an introverted side that is you, then I was suggesting that your prequalification needed adjustment.
/r/seduction27/03/15 04:54 AM
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Sorry, figured I was safe making Star Wars references on reddit. The quote I was referencing was https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wgpytjlW5wU "Only a Sith deals in absolutes" I find absolutes unhelpful in relationships. "Black and white rules" are usually just an excuse to fail. It's like saying "I won't play basketball if I can't play in the NBA.". You can't get to the NBA that way.
/r/seduction27/03/15 04:50 AM
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Another general comment: I refuse to go for... I would never Sith don't get a lot of second dates. :-)
/r/seduction27/03/15 02:47 AM
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I was giving common reasons for sticking points like this: "I get to X, and then it suddenly stops working". Your mileage may vary. Best thing to do would be post more detailed descriptions/field reports of where the problem occurred, and we can give more relevant suggestions/critique. What specifically did you say? Where were you? What was the lead up?
/r/seduction27/03/15 02:44 AM
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"I get led on a lot Probably not. This is an excuse that people who aren't reading a situation well use to blame it on the girl. People that blame it on the girl don't get better. People who don't get better don't get laid. I attract teases. More "it's not me, it's them". No. Let me make this very clear. It's you. And you WANT it to be you, because "you" are the only person you can change. It being "you" gives you control, it being "them" makes you passive. Taking responsibility is liberating. T…
/r/seduction27/03/15 12:18 AM
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Troll. Stop responding.
/r/seduction24/03/15 01:53 AM
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How does this have up-votes? Sounds like someone is astroturfing.
/r/seduction24/03/15 01:41 AM
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You do understand there is automatic down-voting going on, as part of spam prevention, right? http://www.reddit.com/wiki/faq#wiki_how_is_a_submission.27s_score_determined.3F
/r/seduction22/03/15 03:43 AM
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If you don't make them feel uncomfortable when you try, then you can try again without penalty. The key is to not make it a big deal. If you get all butt-hurt (or even the slightest bit butt hurt), they won't want you to ever try again. They don't want (bad) drama, they don't want to feel responsible for making you feel bad. But if you keep it light and happy, and if they have fun flirting with you, they'll flirt with you again. And if you get to keep trying, your odds are good.
/r/seduction20/03/15 05:04 AM
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Just to take a different approach, consider just working on social skills, and friendships first. I think way to many people try to go in one leap from "forever alone" to "pua". There aren't many skills where you try to go from complete beginner to master in on leap by trying and failing hard. Go to group activities: bar trivia, classes of any sort, groups, clubs; anything where people congregate for reasons other than getting laid. Get the fundamentals of social interaction down, in a situation…
/r/seduction20/03/15 04:59 AM
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Read the comment above again, until it sinks in.
/r/seduction20/03/15 04:47 AM
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Why would you send her your number? That put the next action in her court, and she's not going to call you. You get her number, then you call her. And don't follow up a message with another message. (at least not for days). That looks very needy, and is probably going to block a return message, even if she had been interested.
/r/seduction20/01/15 06:13 AM
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I've been watching this a few times lately. I find it motivational: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m4DsjEYo9Hk
/r/seduction05/01/15 03:13 AM
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Well, that problem isn't seduction, so perhaps some other subreddit can help. :-) But take that intensity that you applied to counter strike, and the time your are spending on facebook and apply it to the problem of finding a job, getting a girl, or whatever, and I guarantee you'll make progress than if you just stay in the rut.
/r/seduction05/01/15 03:13 AM
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SMACK That's for the pity party. Just let that shit go. You're 26, fit, good looking and have a job? Fuck you, half they guys here would kill to change places with you. You can be the fucking king. Here's the secret you need: "Counter-Strike: Uninstalled World of Warcraft: Uninstalled". Why are you behind? Because of the way you allocate your time. Other people spent more time on career and relationships, they are better at that. You spent time online, and are better at that. If that's not what …
/r/seduction05/01/15 02:58 AM
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Thoughts that got me through an earlier break-up: Only way to get her back: Get up, go out, meet new people (men and women) and have fun without her. Only way to get over her: Get up, go out, meet new people (men and women) and have fun without her. Pick one :-)
/r/seduction29/12/14 07:02 AM
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Group exercise classes are about the only place that women are open to conversations in a gym. Show up to a class regularly, and people will be open to talking to you.
/r/seduction06/12/14 03:43 AM
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Most of the places around here (bars) do one night lessons. One or two hours. You won't learn nearly as much as an ongoing class, but it's a fun way to get started.
/r/seduction06/12/14 03:33 AM
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"She's getting my messages/snaps"? How many have you sent? Move on, she'll respond if interested. Nothing kills attraction faster than needy texting.
/r/seduction07/11/14 02:20 AM
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"she basically said she was attracted to me blah blah blah". Green light. Don't act like her brother.
/r/seduction06/11/14 07:12 AM
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Talk to women without an agenda. You don't go from zero to hero in one step. If you are just talking about the weather, it's not nearly as stressful as wondering how to get laid. Talk to everyone (male, female, cute, ugly, ...) until you can be as relaxed talking to women as men. Then you can work on taking things further.
/r/seduction03/09/14 04:29 AM
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All those things that get you friend-zoned? Do them.
/r/seduction01/04/14 04:35 AM
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"They can't keep up".
/r/seduction27/02/14 05:29 AM
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Damn. Sorry. That's the problem linking to a copy of things on imgur, instead of linking to the source. It's easier for dups to get through. I did tineye it to try to check, but no hits.
/r/seduction17/06/10 05:20 PM
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Don't confuse DEMONSTRATING higher value with talking about it. Talking makes you look like a chump. Driving is a demonstration. It worked. Play the piano. Don't tell. Do.
/r/seduction19/05/10 07:26 AM
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Could you go into more detail on what you mean by "all day-game venues"? Examples?
/r/seduction19/05/10 06:31 AM
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