| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 20 | I’m a lesbian and this sub is a breath of fresh airWelcome, grab a beer from the fridge, take a seat on the couch... | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/05/26 01:01 PM |
| 5 | Let me get you UP to speed on the dating scene.They pegging out here | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/05/26 07:44 PM |
| 1 | What Are These GamesDread game | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/05/26 08:10 PM |
| 8 | Just got home ~1230 and made my way upstairs ~1250Accountability is kryptonite to them | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/04/26 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Pain into strengthAs Shakespeare said in Macbeth, “Dispute it like a man” | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/03/26 12:55 AM |
| 4 | It’s better…Cannot wait. In the last two days she told me "I Cannot fucking stand you" and "I cannot fucking wait to be done with you". She also told me to go non-contact with her 16 YO bio daughter; mind you I have known this girl since she was three and she's lived with me (and my kids) the last six years. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/03/26 06:24 PM |
| 7 | Anyone else have a STBX that has people fooled?Oh I have videoed her rants and attacks and have so many ugly texts and emails. And she’s freaking out (in her calmer moments) now that she knows I’m keeping them despite her requests to delete them. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/03/26 06:04 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else have a STBX that has people fooled?It’s not even that she’s fake…she just saves all her anger and frustration for ME | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/03/26 03:50 PM |
| 7 | Forget about affair, I’m now worried about my kids safety.Many such cases. Stay strong bro, you’re doing the right thing for your kids | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/03/26 11:38 AM |
| 10 | What were the signs you wished you paid more attention to?When you are relived she’s not at home | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/03/26 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Are they all the same?Many such cases | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/03/26 10:39 AM |
| 1 | The Worst Story I Ever HeardThinking about the dance mom who did a murder / suicide with her daughter at the Rio in Vegas last month. Was going through a toxic custody battle and did that shit | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/03/26 06:00 PM |
| 2 | The Worst Story I Ever HeardHappened to me a couple years ago with my ex wife and we had been divorced 10 years. It was quickly dismissed after an investigation Current but STBX wife (who I was married to when this happened) brought it up in a bad argument about a month ago…”maybe she was right about you”. Pure evil. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/03/26 05:58 PM |
| 2 | The Worst Story I Ever HeardRight? Imagine a man posting something like that in a “women’s divorce” sub. If it didn’t immediately get nuked, it would be a pile on like you wouldn’t believe | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/03/26 04:58 PM |
| 2 | The Worst Story I Ever HeardWhy are you in this sub? It’s for men going through divorces. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/03/26 03:30 PM |
| 23 | The Worst Story I Ever HeardThis is why we don't tell women our darkest fears and secrets. They will weaponize them if they have to and will not think twice about it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/03/26 04:54 PM |
| 6 | STBX posting inspirational quotes - why is this a thing?And create a million simping, orbiting dudes who will go to her like moths to a flame | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/03/26 07:15 PM |
| 3 | When you fail the test when they try to act like they want to come backShe just wanted to see if she still had power. Lack of attention is absolute kryptonite to most women | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/03/26 09:29 PM |
| 3 | Just found out my 38f wife is having an emotional affair….37 for me (to start) | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/03/26 05:14 PM |
| 16 | Just found out my 38f wife is having an emotional affair….Her age absolutely checks out. And, I hate to tell you, they didn’t just “make out” | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/03/26 03:41 PM |
| 3 | I think divorce reveals how many enemies you haveYep...STBX: "I know you're going to get all 'the friends' but they don't know the REAL story" Me: "Go ahead and tell them what you want. Doesn't bother me." STBX: "They won't understand" | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/02/26 11:33 AM |
| 5 | Lack of accountabilityYou said a mouthful here. Can’t count the number of times she’s like “you dismiss what I say or don’t listen to me” and I’m like “I can tell you, with great detail, every viewpoint you have on the issue. Just because I may choose not to do it YOUR WAY doesn’t mean I’m not listening” | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/02/26 10:17 PM |
| 9 | Lack of accountabilityYeah I think I can agree with that for sure. It seems that it’s a common trait that is in divorcing couples, male or female. I just happen to be posting in a male-centric sub | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/02/26 03:02 PM |
| 6 | Lack of accountabilityNah man I appreciate this. And yes I’ve wondered why I seem to attract / be attracted to certain types. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/02/26 01:00 PM |
| 3 | Lack of accountabilityThis is a very fair post. I try and check myself all the time that part of this is on me for sure and not just dump it on her. But, as I’ve told her, we all are the heroes in our own story. As long as I can lay my head down at night knowing I gave it all a good go I’ll be ok with myself | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/02/26 12:06 PM |
| 15 | [UPDATE] Alimony goes poofThink about the constant earful her new guy is gonna get about it too. Just a bonus. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/02/26 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Help. Need to get divorced. No idea where to start.This sounds like a case that’s not complicated where you might could do mediation which is much less expensive | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/02/26 08:33 PM |
| 2 | The part no one talks about… support fatigueGo see a therapist. They get paid to sit and listen to your shit. Also, may be controversial, you can unload on a LLM and sometimes that helps me without burdening a friend | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/02/26 02:14 AM |
| 6 | There's hope.53 year old in GA , just sending a “hell yeah” in solidarity | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/02/26 01:44 AM |
| 9 | Told my wife I wanted a divorceTL; DR gist of why? | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/02/26 07:47 PM |
| 12 | There's no incentive to being a good man anymore.They can have all the creature comforts of modern life and still find something to be unhappy about. It's pretty incredible, honestly | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/02/26 12:29 AM |
| 4 | Fuck this hurts so badI see it more through the lens of abundance mentality, but I can understand your interpretation too. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/19 03:52 PM |
| 155 | Fuck this hurts so badOne RP comment that changed forever the way I see women: “She’s not yours; it’s just your turn” | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/19 02:06 PM |
| 5 | Bridge I almost jumped off of after my fiance left me for my best friend. I m graduating in a few days chemical engineering from San Jose State. I grew up in SF area. I wanted to go into the military I still do but I have lattice degeneration in my left eye so they denied me on that. I'm better nowBro hugs. Bring it in. | /r/MGTOW | 15/12/18 12:41 AM |
| 3 | GYOW: Snowdog MkIVSNOW-dog...is VICTOR-ious | /r/MGTOW | 04/12/18 12:01 PM |
| 3 | An attractive woman's abundance mentalityAw man! Why was this removed? I had it saved because I really liked it. Any idea where I can find it? | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/17 11:06 PM |
| 3 | Feminist article: Stop calling women nags, emotional labor is the unpaid job men still don't understandWhen I saw this article on twitter this sub was the first thing I thought of. If it wasn't here I was going to post it myself. Her poor husband. Edit: Hey whatta know. She's "depressed" too! And bravely is not keeping it secret anymore! http://www.ravishly.com/depression-dirty-secret | /r/MGTOW | 28/09/17 11:43 PM |
| 4 | Women don't love the same as menAs I've learned from other subs: Men love women > women love children > children love puppies That's it in a nutshell, really | /r/MGTOW | 10/07/17 07:33 PM |
| 15 | Why women deal with break ups better than menI've come to realize (at 45, waaaay too late) that women value the relationship, not the person. Guys, the true romantics, do the opposite. I'm super struggling right now with a bad oneitis breakup (which brought me here, actually) and when she broke it off with me I couldn't believe it when I heard her say, THAT NIGHT, "I want to be in another relationship with someone one day and I know I will". I couldn't believe that she was generalizing about a theoretical relationship at that moment. I wan… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/17 12:28 PM |
| 2 | What shocked you most about women?Christ, my Ex Wife to a fucking "T" | /r/MGTOW | 23/06/17 07:36 PM |
| 2 | Looks like Monk Mode may be only cure for my OneitisWell, sure there's a bit of beta in there. I just found trp four months ago, mainly because of the Oneitis. It's going well, but not all there yet. It will come; just not sure of the tactics I need to take right now. Thought it was GFTOW, but that ain't working. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/17 09:44 PM |
| 2 | Selection, Rejection, and Ejection: Women Are Not Your Enemy Part IIThanks for response...looks like a bad link though. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/17 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Selection, Rejection, and Ejection: Women Are Not Your Enemy Part IIWhat I'm saying , though, is there's been no emotional break up. It's still a break up, so I don't know if it even fucking matters But, if there never is an emotional breakup, what's the frame there? | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/17 12:19 AM |
| 2 | Selection, Rejection, and Ejection: Women Are Not Your Enemy Part III read this in an archived post on TRP: The woman has broken up with you, she has verbalised the break-up. There might be tears involved, but that woman has already decided – you are not good enough anymore and she will move on. At this point I want to note the following. If a woman has not emotionally broken up with you and she has done so because you have cheated on her, or done something that she deems unforgivable and she simply has to move on, she will be emotionally tied with you forever. … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/17 02:47 PM |
| 0 | Seems to me TRP has a lot of middle-aged converts like myself (45)You should hope you look like me at 45 youngin | /r/askTRP | 27/05/17 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Seems to me TRP has a lot of middle-aged converts like myself (45)Does anyone else think this could be a valid theory? | /r/askTRP | 27/05/17 02:21 PM |
| 1 | How should I stand?Thanks for that. Interesting reading. Still, the only "standing" I saw in that link was standing in a bar with a drink. It's easy when I have my coffee mug, but what about when my hands are free? | /r/askTRP | 24/05/17 01:00 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts on a possible epiphany I had this week?Absolutely. I've already got three plates going and am working on a 4th. It's astonishing when you see this all for yourself | /r/askTRP | 06/05/17 04:45 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts on a possible epiphany I had this week?Yes, I mention I've read about it here; it's just the first time it's really hit me from my own experience. It's changed everything , and helped a TON with this Breakup / Oneitis shitshow | /r/askTRP | 06/05/17 04:17 PM |
| 1 | TBH, I (44) am going through an awful breakup (36) and feel like shitLol right? Let the record show it was during our first break (about 4 months). I NEVER cheated on the oneitis. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/17 01:46 AM |
| 2 | TBH, I (44) am going through an awful breakup (36) and feel like shitEpictetus. Looked it up and bought it. Free on Kindle Thanks for tip | /r/askTRP | 16/03/17 01:45 AM |
| 2 | TBH, I (44) am going through an awful breakup (36) and feel like shitTough, but fair. Thanks for the thoughts. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/17 01:16 PM |
| 2 | TBH, I (44) am going through an awful breakup (36) and feel like shitGreat stuff. Thanks. I am already doing No Contact which makes it easier. I am journaling, working out (running), and taking up hobbies. I did quickly find a girl (43) and got laid. She got very into me very quickly so I'm having to brush her off some. Ironically I thought that would help, but it only made me miss the ex more, goddammit. The "oneitis" article suggests that only sleeping with girls you perceive as higher value than your ex will help. Thanks for all the tips man. Not sure getting … | /r/askTRP | 15/03/17 12:18 PM |
| 1 | TBH, I (44) am going through an awful breakup (36) and feel like shitThanks. Any specific ones to start with? | /r/askTRP | 15/03/17 11:52 AM |
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