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I don’t know why you’re gendering them. I’ve met plenty of women who were just looking for an fwb sitch. And I don’t know why you’re calling it misogyny to disagree either. It seems like you’re just putting strawman arguments out there. Everybody deserves the right to pursue the relationship they want and if two people have different visions you can either compromise or leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:53 PM
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Be prepared. Think about questions they may ask you, especially technical questions unique to the field, and have answers prepared. Nothing beats good ol’ fashioned practice. When I was last preparing about three years ago, I set up a chair facing a body mirror so I could watch my delivery and body language.
/r/askTRP10/02/21 04:14 AM
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You better have lots of patience. She doesn’t seem to be worth it though. Just have your fun with the situation and don’t get too attached emotionally.
/r/askTRP25/01/21 02:27 AM
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First recognize that there’s nothing wrong with yourself. This feeling is natural. Just delete all her contacts, block her from social media, do what you have to do to get her out of your min and it will pass. But don’t feel ashamed or angered by it.
/r/askTRP25/01/21 02:25 AM
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Yes. Just don’t make the mistake a lot of people make and fall in love with your first.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 11:41 AM
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Aside from “telling her off”, what are you trying to accomplish? I understand the point of closure, but there are more constructive ways to do it. One is to write a letter with all those things you would say, and then just put that letter in your drawer and not send it. Think of it like a job: you may hate your boss with every last fiber of your being. But just give your two weeks notice in a professional way and when you leave you never have to speak to them again. Because you never know when y…
/r/askTRP07/11/17 11:39 AM
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I don't know anything about you. I wish you well in whatever decision you make but I will say that if she sees a "sex for relationship" exchange and you just want the sex, don't lead her on as that is cruel. Let her down gently of course as it doesn't seem like she's trying to hurt you (so no point in being mean) but if she wants a relationship and you just want sex, there's nothing wrong with that. I would just take that as my cue to find someone else who is more congruent in what I am looking …
/r/askTRP07/10/17 04:14 AM
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Ok so first things first: if you can afford to go to therapy, you should do it. In posting your issues on this board, you're going to get a fair amount of armchair psychologists who will tell you this and that. At the end of the day though you have serious issues to work through and I don't say that disparagingly. A therapist will help you understand and come to terms with your underlying emotions, if you let them that is. So I would recommend that. Here's an article about what to do if you don'…
/r/askTRP07/10/17 04:10 AM
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Again, if she says she doesn't want anything intimate, I would take her at her word. Anything else, I feel like you are reading too much into things. Now maybe she isn't appropriate with boundaries either because you two are both kids. I agree, it's not right for her to continue to try to pursue emotional intimacy without any sort of physical intimacy if she expressly knows you are interested in physically intimacy, because then she really is leading you on. I want to be clear that this is diffe…
/r/askTRP25/09/17 01:47 PM
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When you say, "She just doesn't want to be tied down", does that mean she doesn't want anything intimate, or doesn't want to be in a long term thing? At the end of the day, you have to ask yourself this: if she says she wants a purely platonic friendship with you, would you be fine with that? Or would you say you'd be fine, and then try to angle for a sexual or romantic relationship? Because if you honestly would be fine with a purely platonic relationship, then that's fine and you guys could pu…
/r/askTRP25/09/17 12:24 PM
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Seems clear you should move on from her. If you're having as much success as you claim to be having, it shouldn't be difficult to put her in the rear view mirror. One of the most difficult things about relationships is accepting when the other party wants to leave you.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 10:36 AM
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I think you're creating a false equivalence. Without knowing exactly what was said, its hard to conclude either way. That being said, if an applicant wrote "Kill all white men, Kill all white men" over and over, they would be candidates to get their applications rejected as well.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 03:44 PM
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It depends on what the comments were, frankly. Harvard, Yale, etc have images to uphold; images that don't include racism, sexism, etc. The way they uphold those images is by not accepting people who have those viewpoints. If you don't like that, its fine. You don't have to go to Harvard. A bunch of racist and sexist people can form their own college. And I never much cared for the whole "anonymous over the internet" argument. Anything that you say anonymously, you should have the courage to att…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 02:02 PM
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It's not a matter of free speech. Nobody's speech is being infringed upon. Anybody is free to say the most vile things they want and not go to jail. That's what freedom of speech is. And just as anybody is free to say whatever vile things they want, so too are schools allowed to accept and permit whichever students they want (not counting discrimination against protected groups). It's like you think freedom only applies to you and the people you agree with
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 10:21 AM
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None of that text was even necessary. Sounds like you want to be with this girl. Either tell her that or move on because it seems like she doesn't just want a FWB relationship
/r/askTRP22/03/17 02:34 AM
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Given the content of your post am I correct in assuming you're under 21? If so, you're young. Now is the time to make mistakes, even though everything feels so important. You'll look back a couple years from now and laugh at these apprehensions. Onto the matter at hand: nothing worth having comes without a price. You're afraid of your reputation if this girl rejects you. Everybody gets rejected in their life. Everyone experiences failure. Maturity is learning how to deal with it. Even if she rej…
/r/askTRP22/03/17 02:25 AM
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Never in the history of mankind has a relationship been put it in a stronger position after both parties disclose their N counts. Stay silent on yours, have her stay silent and you'll be alright
/r/askTRP09/03/17 11:26 AM
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Join clubs. They already have well established groups centered around something you presumably have an interest in. Meetup.com has a good listing or you can type in your desired activity and location and see if any clubs pop up on google
/r/askTRP09/03/17 11:25 AM
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No I am a guy. And the fears of the protesters weren't exactly unfounded. Shortly after becoming president, he signed a directive limiting funding to worldwide agencies that perform abortions: http://www.usatoday.com/story/news/politics/2017/01/23/trump-wields-his-presidential-pen-signing-orders-trade-hiring-abortion/96945308/ I understand that the directive doesn't directly affect the protesting women, but it does signal to them that the administration is likely to restrict access and funding f…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/17 07:10 PM
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Spoon fed them what? That they should fight for what they perceive as their rights?
/r/TheRedPill24/01/17 06:13 PM
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No they didn't. I had a number of friends go to them. Some wrote declarations in Facebook. That's the general jist of it
/r/TheRedPill24/01/17 11:47 AM
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Again, these are just semantics based arguments. "Pushing it to the states" is hardly comforting considering many states would outlaw abortion. Yes, you are technically correct that overturning Roe v Wade wouldn't outlaw it but that doesn't mean that it wouldn't lead to an outlawing of abortion throughout the country.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 04:27 PM
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I think we are starting to get into an argument of semantics. You are saying, "The Constitution doesn't give us rights, it protects them by limiting how the government can infringe on them." At the end of the day, the Constitution is the document by which the government abides by. In the most basic sense, I am arguing that it is the government. More to the point, if there was no Constitution or any other sort of overarching document limiting the powers of government, the powers of government wou…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 04:16 PM
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That's all fine and good but who holds them accountable? My point is it's nice to think about rights being intrinsic but ultimately it's up to government to enforce that. There are governments around the world that regularly trample on human rights. The women participating in the rallies do not want to see that happen here
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 12:24 PM
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So what of China, a country whose government regularly passes and enforces laws that violate rights you consider intrinsic, rights like freedom of speech and freedom of information?
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 11:46 AM
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The constitution explicitly states the rights of the people as granted by the government. It was the government that created it. I love how you are using a government created document to prove that the government doesn't grant rights onto the people
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 11:10 AM
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What would it be? No rights are intrinsic. All rights are granted by the government (but admittedly we're starting to veer into political philosophy)
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 04:26 AM
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What? You either have a right to an abortion or not. They want that right
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 03:22 AM
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In fairness here, the women that protested did so because they fear that the newly installed government will take measures to rollback certain advancements for women, such as as abortion rights and initiatives for women's and girl's leadership.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 10:42 PM
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Do you not want her buying the shoes and earrings for financial concerns or because you think she is getting put together for other guys? I think it's the latter, in which case: from her perspective, starting a new job is exciting, especially if she had been staying home most days previously. I don't understand why you don't encourage her to look nice, that way it'll be all the more fun to "unwrap" her at night. What you instead are doing is the worst possible thing: you're choosing to upset the…
/r/askTRP27/08/16 11:08 AM
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Is your wife making your life a living hell because she started a new job that has other men working in it, the owner of which has more money than you? Mate-guarding is very unattractive and the more you want to control her in this fashion, the more likely it is she's going to want to leave. Whether you like it or not, marriage requires a fair degree of trust; trust in your partner that she's not going to jump ship at the first chance. Or to put it a bit more cynically, if she's going to cheat, …
/r/askTRP27/08/16 10:46 AM
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I have absolutely no idea where you get that idea from. Weiner was caught sending a picture of his bulge to a woman online. I guess the equivalent for a woman would be sending a picture of cleavage or of her in just lingerie. If a mid-40's dynamic female senator was caught doing that, her body would be judged 24/7 by the news cycle. I don't get how you can't see that. I'm not a supporter of Sarah Palin, but the news cycle didn't shy from commenting on her physique and she never even did anything…
/r/MensRights23/08/16 11:46 PM
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The double standard in body shaming has nothing to do with the sympathetic-ness of the target of the ridicule. See, that's where I would disagree. If Donald Trump keeps making mean comments about other people, I don't understand why making a mean statue about him is off limits? Again, what goes around, comes around. Plain and simple. I understand two wrongs don't make a right, but in my mind, you either defend both or defend neither. I don't get the idea of condemning the statue but allowing Tru…
/r/MensRights23/08/16 12:37 PM
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Yes, but one of the MRA's complaints against feminism is that it seeks to advance the rights/privileges of women to the exclusion of men. Are you not doing the same here?
/r/MensRights22/08/16 12:29 PM
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I guess my question then is: where is the article on this subreddit that condemns trump when he says mean things about others?
/r/MensRights22/08/16 11:36 AM
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Ok, then what's the point, because apparently I don't understand it
/r/MensRights22/08/16 10:44 AM
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I get the point if the article. My point is Trump had a history of saying mean things about women so he is inherently an unsympathetic figure in this situation. If this were a run of the mill politician like Ryan, McConnell, Sessions, Reid, Obama, Video ot literally anyone else, I would agree with you.
/r/MensRights21/08/16 09:21 PM
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No, the rule is what goes around, comes around. If you're a jerk to other people, I dont understand how you can be offended when people are jerks to you.
/r/MensRights21/08/16 04:55 PM
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Eh. Donald Trump has made plenty of lewd comments about women over the years. This just seems like comeuppance. It's not like he's a "regular" candidate that the artist is insinuating has a small penis
/r/MensRights21/08/16 11:57 AM
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What are you even asking? If you want to have sex with a girl, go for it. If you don't, then don't. Only you know what these girls are looking for. We're not with you on these dates
/r/askTRP19/07/16 10:08 AM
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Nah dude. Don't over think it. Just try to meet her in the next couple days. Remember, at any given time, a girl is juggling like a dozen or so matches, so you need to actively try to stay at the forefront. Set a date for sometime this week and take her out
/r/askTRP18/07/16 10:58 AM
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Yeah, keep telling yourself that...
/r/askTRP12/07/16 06:00 PM
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Men do the same thing. What do you think all those field reports are
/r/askTRP12/07/16 10:26 AM
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What are you even angry at her for? You had feelings for her and she didn't reciprocate. If you don't want to see her again, that's fine. And if you want your watch back, text her asking to pick it up or have her meet you somewhere, make a joke about the awkwardness and continue never seeing/talking to her again afterwards. If you really are unconcerned for this friendship, it doesn't make a difference what she thinks of you on a go-forward basis.
/r/askTRP12/07/16 10:24 AM
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Also, now that I think about it, your current policy may be a whole life policy, which has an annuity investment component to it, which would substantially increase the premium cost
/r/askTRP09/10/15 12:54 AM
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No way your life insurance bill should be 900/year. $10K of life insurance for a young adult should be approx $50-75. Life insurance is more important if you have dependents so that if you die, there is something to take care of them. Until you have dependents, 10k worth of insurance to cover funeral and cremation should be fine.
/r/askTRP09/10/15 12:53 AM
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Kittens, prepare for the eventuality that a lot of teachers tell kids they are special to inspire them to reach their potential
/r/askTRP09/10/15 12:49 AM
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I've been in exactly zero fights in my life. Never even put myself in a situation to fight someone, so I'll take Adonis. I'm 29 y/o btw. Avoiding fights is pretty easy if you're not actually looking to fight someone
/r/askTRP06/10/15 10:33 AM
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Its impossible to guess what she truly meant. Maybe she thought it was fun. Maybe she thought it would turn you on. Maybe she didn't wanna come off like a prude. Who knows. However, it seems the larger issue is you seemed by your story to snatch defeat from the jaws of victory. She gave you numerous opportunities to either have sex or escalate into a more serious relationship. Why didn't you do either? It seemed like you lacked an objective. You always need an objective. For example, when the ba…
/r/askTRP29/09/15 02:35 AM
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I think if I caught my partner cheating red handed, I would have 'jealousy issues' too. Look, nobody else in this thread knows the totality of the relationship like you do. Sometimes you just have to tip your cap and admit you were wrong and learn from it, and just speaking of your thread specifically, this is a real learning opportunity for you. If for no other reason so you learn to hide your other phone better.
/r/askTRP29/09/15 12:48 AM
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2nd phone just to reddit? That's the lamest reason to ever have a second phone. A second phone is prima facie evidence that something seriously shady (cheating, drug dealing) is happening. I mean, if you found your gf's 2nd phone and posted that here, everyone would tell you to dump her and hit the gym. Live and learn.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 10:50 AM
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Ask her out. When asking girls out I don't know very well, I like to give a range of days. Instead of saying "Are you free Monday" for example, ask "Are you free Monday or Tuesday". This way a girl is less likely to give you an "I'm busy" excuse, or at the very least, its less believable. Basically, you want her to give you a firm yes or no. Ideally yes, but at least you get closure with no.
/r/askTRP23/09/15 11:41 AM
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It only counts if you actually have sex with her
/r/askTRP31/08/15 12:25 AM
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First off, congrats on the first kiss and what would ostensibly be your first intimate experience with a woman. Now onto business: if you do wish to attempt to further things with this girl, shoot her some texts. Have subtle flirting (but nothing so incriminating that its obvious you are attempting to seduce her) and try to either meet up with her again for drinks one on one, or if she is in your social circle, find out the next group hang out As you're inexperienced, you'll prolly stumble a lit…
/r/askTRP28/06/15 12:37 PM
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