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| 3 | Girl on tinderIt was an open invite you missed. | /r/seduction | 30/04/18 12:37 AM |
| 2 | Things I wish I knew earlier in my dating experiences - The most important points I've picked up over the years (Part 1)Yeah. I'm here on occasion just out of mild curiosity. There are certain things that you can pull off any dating site that give you better advice than some of the toxic "here's what not to do" type of bad advice that only serves to get into your head. I used to think I could come to these places for gospel and that was a fing huge mistake. I programmed myself to think with a lot of absurd-ass assumptions that were never necessarily the case, and in retrospect I see how it screwed up my chances m… | /r/seduction | 30/04/18 12:24 AM |
| 2 | I hate to submit twice in 24 hours but on my flight home I was seated next to an attractive woman and got her number. Story inside.The way that reads it seems like it would have been awkward. Glad it wasn't. Way to go for the gusto. The girl is attracted to you. Don't go and fuck it up with low expectations or whatever. If she liked you, and she did, you should hope for the best for both parties. | /r/seduction | 30/04/18 12:07 AM |
| 4 | Girl on tinderShe sent you pics of her in her underwear, and instead of complimenting her or responding in kind you asked her to send more. What were you thinking? Underwear isn't enough of a come on? Even if it was transactional what did you give back for her efforts? The second she sent you pics of her in her underwear was pretty much confirmation that she's available for you now. | /r/seduction | 30/04/18 12:00 AM |
| 4 | Girl on tinderIt's pretty obvious she sent you a pic of her in her underwear and you didn't fuck her. My gosh. You mean to say you were literally waiting to see if she sent nudes before acting on that? | /r/seduction | 29/04/18 09:43 PM |
| 5 | If you feel inadequate because of luck of success with womenThat was well written. | /r/seduction | 06/01/18 07:12 PM |
| 0 | Acting like a pussy will get you laidI owe none of you anything | /r/seduction | 13/11/17 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Guys Who Drown in P***Y Think Like This: The Inner Game to Have Women Chasing You NOWSimilar situation. Some girl and her friend wanted to go back to their place, but they wanted to go to another club. Red flag #1. So then she took way too long to introduce herself to me and it was in a very assuming way. I just threw down the gauntlet and returned it in kind. Sat and ignored her and then her friend felt compelled to come over and tell me she wasn't interested as if at that point I even cared. I talked to the other guy the next night and they just dragged him around one club to … | /r/seduction | 23/10/17 12:46 AM |
| 2 | The dangers of alpha vs beta male thinkingLove you man | /r/seduction | 17/10/17 05:42 PM |
| 2 | The dangers of alpha vs beta male thinkingIt is toxic | /r/seduction | 17/10/17 05:41 PM |
| 2 | The dangers of alpha vs beta male thinking100% | /r/seduction | 17/10/17 05:36 PM |
| 1 | How to arrange 3someFirst question. Are you two together? | /r/seduction | 17/10/17 05:32 PM |
| 4 | When you like a girl but she thinks you're gay but in all reality you're slightly bi (male)Bro this is not all a barrier. I know straight guys who use this as a line and get laid all the time | /r/seduction | 14/10/17 05:21 PM |
| 2 | How to NOT be a fuckboyGood stuff. | /r/seduction | 14/10/17 05:18 PM |
| 2 | Can a 17 yo pull 18-23 yo chicks?Anyone can pull anyone. Chuck your limiting beleifs | /r/seduction | 19/06/17 10:06 AM |
| 1 | For GODS SAKE just WAIT. Be PATIENT.He gets the bigger point and that is to be able to take your mind off of it for a while. Waiting alone is only serving to amplify your neediness. You have to take your mind elsewhere and make sure you're doing something other than waiting on her reply | /r/seduction | 19/06/17 10:02 AM |
| 1 | Don't look downBad robotic pick up advice applied with broad strokes are over prescribed nonsense | /r/seduction | 14/06/17 11:06 PM |
| 0 | Can anybody explain / breakdown various weak approach invitations and WTF women imagine what guys will do when they really do?Then I guess I won't take you seriously since your ass is random too. Also I never said I feel beneath anyone chuckelfuck. I said that's the way the tone is set. Excellent | /r/seduction | 03/06/17 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Can anybody explain / breakdown various weak approach invitations and WTF women imagine what guys will do when they really do?Funny story. I've thought of actually mirroring girls who do this to me all night. After they approach approach advance me, just follow them around the club and stand next to them all night and act like you expect them to do the same thing. That's good shit | /r/seduction | 03/06/17 02:03 AM |
| 0 | Can anybody explain / breakdown various weak approach invitations and WTF women imagine what guys will do when they really do?Quite frankly approach invites are insulting rather than inviting. I'll tell you why right now. The the prevailing mindset and message it communicates is "I'm just going to stand here. Better hustle. Offer ends soon. Get it while it's hot. Here boy. Whistle whistle." Instead of "I find you attractive and I want to let you know that I'm open to your advances". So yeah dude. I actually do find it insulting. It immediately sets the tone that you're the one that has to tap dance. Literally no effort… | /r/seduction | 03/06/17 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Girl confirmed to come as my plus one for an event, but hasn't responded to my text in a day?You double checked if she was going to go with you. So it looked like you were worried about her flaking on you and she thought you were worried and desperate by asking her twice more than likely. If you did it in a fun casual way then then her actions were overly sketched and unwarranted. If you did it out of some real actual fear that she would flake out on you at any time and kept having to re-ask her then she had every reason to get out of that date with you. | /r/seduction | 02/06/17 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Can anybody explain / breakdown various extremely weak approach invitations and WTF women imagine is going to happen when they do them?More examples: Just barely getting within your visual range at a dance club. They'll dance and of course you have to haul your obvious-ass a quarter way across the dance floor just to get next to them. So you look like sargent-douchebag-mc-run-up-and-bump and smash your crotch on some group of women who were ostensibly just chilling minding their own business or "just having fun", as it were. | /r/seduction | 02/06/17 01:11 PM |
| 2 | How to actually retain all this informationYou can't. There is a study that the mind can only retain 3 or 4 things. If you're running game the best course of action is to read and identify 3 4 rock solid items you feel right about using and go out and apply them. Do this every new time you go out and up your game increasingly. Otherwise you will be shooting yourself in the foot getting too far in your head not properly getting to apply | /r/seduction | 13/04/17 09:10 PM |
| -1 | Getting shit tested by girls you haven't even noticed.Haha what | /r/seduction | 12/04/17 10:37 AM |
| 1 | Approached 4 girls today first time in my lifeNot true at all. | /r/seduction | 12/04/17 10:34 AM |
| 1 | Exercise for gettng over Approach AnxietyAlot of people confuse approach anxiety with gauging weather the girl is even worth approaching. Maybe if you're fist starting out think about weather it's your anxiety or if it's because it's wasting time rather spent on approaching the right girls. Some guys approach every girl. | /r/seduction | 12/04/17 10:31 AM |
| 1 | Any of you guys manage to go out regularly without alcohol?Yeah. If you're at a dance club and you order water girls will approach you and ask you if you're rolling. This happens way too often. I didn't even catch this girl the other night. She kept asking me if I had "connects". I'm like what the fuck is a connect? I eventually realized she meant "connections" and missed a chance to get the number but oh well. fuck it | /r/seduction | 12/04/17 10:25 AM |
| 3 | NEED HELP: About to go to a dance with a ton of people and want to pull just one girl, what are your tips and procedures?Definitely be bold. | /r/seduction | 12/04/17 10:14 AM |
| 1 | I'd like to offer free, no bullshit dating coach servicesRight on man. Good luck with your endeavor. | /r/seduction | 12/04/17 09:39 AM |
| 1 | Nobody here ever talks about this. What are some red flags that makes you walk away from a girl you are interested.You might want to consider that some girls do weird things when they like a guy. Don't take strange behavior as a hit against you. That bitch who hit on your friend though. You should have offered to buy her a drink and then walked off and forgot and just ended up talking to other people and then totally forgot. | /r/seduction | 12/04/17 09:30 AM |
| 2 | Nobody here ever talks about this. What are some red flags that makes you walk away from a girl you are interested.The problem with texting is that it's now become a dumbass game that too may people are playing. It's sucky and unfortunate because it becomes more of a barrier. Too many people think there are all these rules they have to follow and it kills the chemisrty | /r/seduction | 12/04/17 09:22 AM |
| 1 | I'd like to offer free, no bullshit dating coach servicesHow good is your texting "game" a lot of guys here get caught up in that. Personally I've come to the realazation that magic texts are marginal at best if the woman didn't already like them to start. Here's my challenge. Let guys come on here. Give a quick description of their interaction. How they got the number. And you give them what to text back. Challenge accepted? | /r/seduction | 09/04/17 06:18 PM |
| 10 | Zen and the Art of PickupBro. So much respect. You have locked it down with pinpoint precison. Nothing need more be said past this. | /r/seduction | 07/04/17 08:33 AM |
| -1 | Zen and the Art of PickupIt's absolute fact. Yet there is still a mixed message. Get bitches to be better but better yourself. Well which is it you motherfucking Svengali? Chicken egg crap | /r/seduction | 07/04/17 08:29 AM |
| 13 | Zen and the Art of PickupFuck Bitches, Acquire Deep Inner-Fulfillment <3 <3 <3 love | /r/seduction | 07/04/17 08:25 AM |
| 1 | The Truth About Cold Approaching (The PUA industry doesn't want you to know)Here I go. I dare contradict a moderator but this is a logical breakdown of why what he's saying is specious, and not an evidentiary one. Picking apart weather he's making "sense" is also an ad hominem attack and not a valid argument against the message. Cold approaching is canned and exactly as described, making cold calls, being a door-to-door salesman for meeting women. He's right. The problem is that all of this is too cut and dry. Talking to women doesn't have to be cheese "excuse me can I … | /r/seduction | 07/04/17 08:16 AM |
| 3 | The importance of shutting the fuck up and sleeping with front page modelsHow do you get in touch with them? On here? | /r/seduction | 06/04/17 05:30 PM |
| 2 | The importance of shutting the fuck up and sleeping with front page modelsWord. How do you get up with them? PMs? TIA | /r/seduction | 06/04/17 05:29 PM |
| 0 | The importance of shutting the fuck up and sleeping with front page modelsNice. What's the "front page"? | /r/seduction | 06/04/17 05:26 PM |
| 1 | How To Ease The Pressure Off The Girl - NO Judgement NO Expectations + Daygame InfieldGreat. Nice insights | /r/seduction | 04/04/17 02:15 PM |
| 3 | 7 Jedi Moves That Make Women Chase YouNo prob. It's the big spacing between the paragraphs basically. I'm having to scroll every few sentences. Is it a Wordpress blog? Go out and find a nice easy to read better template maybe. | /r/seduction | 04/04/17 01:02 PM |
| 1 | [FR] The girl I was trying to game for a week was throwing herself to my 6'3 tall, robust buddy.Na dude. That girl sucks. It's her world. Everybody else just lives in it | /r/seduction | 04/04/17 12:56 PM |
| 3 | 7 Jedi Moves That Make Women Chase YouI wish you'd make the formatting of your blog a little easier to read. | /r/seduction | 04/04/17 12:55 PM |
| 3 | [FR] The girl I was trying to game for a week was throwing herself to my 6'3 tall, robust buddy.Yeah not receptive enough bro. Not even close. | /r/seduction | 01/04/17 01:17 AM |
| 3 | [FR] The girl I was trying to game for a week was throwing herself to my 6'3 tall, robust buddy.If a girl you're interested in and talked to shows interest in another guy in front of you like that you instantly next her. The only way to show you're of any value is to instantly move along. | /r/seduction | 01/04/17 01:15 AM |
| 2 | Long eye contact during conversationThere's actually a rule that you can follow. Eye contact that lasts more than 3/4 of the time is considered confrontational. You don't want to maintain eye contact for prolonged periods unless you're heavily in seduction phase and it's second nature. The exception to this rule is if you feel like maintaining eye contact. | /r/seduction | 01/04/17 12:59 AM |
| 1 | I have no interesting stories to tell. What should I do about it?https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=50EAxzY559k&feature=youtu.be&t=65 | /r/seduction | 31/03/17 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Girl in public notices you and fixes her hair. A sign of interest or not?FUCK IOIs Man-Boy waits for IOIs IOIs are a fully integral part of any flirtation process. One dimensional blanket advice like this is not good advice. You're preaching just going out and approaching all women (sure), but that shouldn't to exclude looking for IOIs at any particular time. Because the two are not mutually exclusive. What I'm saying is "dont wait for IOIs to make a move and don't wait for the perfect signal, just go already." If that's all you're saying great then. | /r/seduction | 31/03/17 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Gentlemen, Learn To DanceActually I lived in a smaller area, but I had the luxury of my friend running the dance studio. I ran across plenty of girls in their 20s and 30s. So sounds like timing and availability was just as much of a problem. | /r/seduction | 31/03/17 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Girl in public notices you and fixes her hair. A sign of interest or not?All of this assumes you're even paying attention to her at all, or that you're actively seeking or looking for it. I get IOIs from women who I've never noticed. Your perspective seems to come from one who is always paying attention to women. Also, women give IOIs to tell you they're interested. If you're comment is any indication of the right thing to do, you might think that a woman has already rejected you when she's giving you signs that she actually wants you. The idea is that you shouldn't … | /r/seduction | 31/03/17 06:13 PM |
| 1 | How should I go about cold approaching on my college campus?Maybe you should check out Angrypicknick on Youtube. | /r/seduction | 30/03/17 05:55 AM |
| 2 | If you're using Tinder/Bumble for dating here are some red flags to look out forThat's great. Really it is. Also remember that girls with little-to-nothing on their profiles are either 1) not interested in relationship things and / or 2) Only looking for hookups. I used to kid chicks with nothing on their profiles by saying "I can tell by your profile we'd get along great". It's a win / win because either way they've got to concede they have 0 for a profile | /r/seduction | 30/03/17 01:36 AM |
| 2 | Get The Girl To CHASE YOU- My Text Game!Yes. It's basically like this. If you're busy with important things you have to take out time to respond. Never forget women play these games too. Just know that it's a playful fun thing to do and don't hate. | /r/seduction | 26/03/17 09:38 PM |
| 1 | How early do you give up on a girl?I'll shorten this up a bit. If she's acting like that with you in person, that's how she actually feels. How she acts in public is most likely actually not the better indicator for you. I had a girl like that. She would sit next to me in class and rubbed her leg and rested it against mine and sat next to me. But when we were out of class she would do the "ew" "I'm not talking to you" or "I'm grossed out" things. I later figured out that she had it out hard for me (dumbass she was rubbing her ful… | /r/seduction | 26/03/17 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Any general tips for picking up the waitress?That's kind of a crappy world-view. "You're scraping the bottom of the barrel with wait staff." Some of those people will go on to have reputable jobs, but that's really kind of beyond the point though. Isn't it? I get your hypothetical. If said person is milking the fact that they're being nice to him because they have to, then I buy into your socially inept premise. Somehow that's not what I gathered from the question myself. Also, somehow some kind of harm is going to come to him if he even t… | /r/seduction | 26/03/17 02:18 AM |
| 3 | How can you tell the difference between passing eye contact and staring from a girl?There's a newsletter article I just received in my inbox just before reading this post from this pickup site: http://www.girlschase.com/ The title of that article is How To Tell If She Thinks You’re Cute (While Walking Down The Street) Here are some excepts from that newsletter article: How To Tell If Any Girl On The Street Wants To Meet You WHAT'S INSIDE: why don't more guys approach girls on the street? Usually because they don't know which ones to talk to. In this email, I give you the signs.… | /r/seduction | 26/03/17 12:05 AM |
| 6 | Any general tips for picking up the waitress?Bro I am getting really fed up with the extreme level of poor advice on this piss-poor excuse for a sub tbqh | /r/seduction | 25/03/17 11:33 PM |
| 3 | Any general tips for picking up the waitress?You should. Please do. Do it for me. | /r/seduction | 25/03/17 11:31 PM |
| 2 | Any general tips for picking up the waitress?Do. That's a cynical self-defeating thought. There's no reason why you can't pick up or be friends with anybody you meet. NONSENSE. | /r/seduction | 25/03/17 11:28 PM |
| 2 | Imagine her insecuritiesSeriously. Truer words could have never been spoken. My experience is even the hottest women have insecurities sometimes. Hotter women often have more insecurities. They might be able to cover it better because they're playing their looks card but you are absolutely correct though. Get over it. Stand tall be proud and quit thinking every girl you walk up to is going to run you into the ground. Be a human being about it. | /r/seduction | 25/03/17 11:17 PM |
| 50 | Get The Girl To CHASE YOU- My Text Game!I don't know about all this science behind how to text but honestly I'll tell you that if you're examining what you're texting at this level, then you lose all sense of what you're actually doing in favor of running techniques. Honestly texting is not rocket science. Wait a few hours or a while to reply and reply back with something semi-legit. The more methodological you get about it, the more clinical the whole thing becomes thus ruining the entire experience for you and the girl who was once … | /r/seduction | 25/03/17 11:08 PM |
| -3 | How can you tell the difference between passing eye contact and staring from a girl?I don't know if this is link baiting or what but there's a newsletter article I just got in the mail titled this. How To Tell If She Thinks You’re Cute (While Walking Down The Street) How To Tell If Any Girl On The Street Wants To Meet You WHAT'S INSIDE: why don't more guys approach girls on the street? Usually because they don't know which ones to talk to. In this email, I give you the signs. http://www.girlschase.com/ subscribe to the newsletter and you'll get this article. Is that what you're… | /r/seduction | 25/03/17 11:02 PM |
| 1 | What cars are women most impressed by?Think about how often you'll be seen in your car that's so impressive. If you're not in school, then almost never. Compare that amount of time to the rest of the time you have to make any other impression and compare how big of an expenditure you're making to get seen in it such comparatively to such a small fraction of that time, and how little it has to do with your complete ability to attract women. | /r/seduction | 20/03/17 11:43 PM |
| 1 | What cars are women most impressed by?The one that you don't have to drive to fuck her. | /r/seduction | 20/03/17 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Older guys, how did you actually find opportunities to meet women as you got older? How do older guys create a target rich environment for themselves?Activities but even more so is positioning. Positioning yourself in the right place to run in to eligible women. Depending on how much money you have this can be relatively easy. | /r/seduction | 20/03/17 11:23 PM |
| 1 | I just don't know how to make a girl feel interested in me.Rephrase your thinking to say - I don't know how to make a girl be interested in me | /r/seduction | 16/03/17 11:36 PM |
| 1 | How to mysterious around noisy people?Ignore them show disinterest and just lean down and ask "want to get out of here?" Don't say this but what you really want to be effectively communicating to her is this a no ultimatum way of saying "yeah.. do you really want get out of here with me now or...?" | /r/seduction | 16/03/17 10:58 PM |
| – | Snapchat streaks?Any time a girl sends you nudes your only response is nothing past "Be right there" "BRT". ONLY and NEVER ever accept such as anything other than a DTF right on the spot invitation. "Your place or mine?" | /r/seduction | 16/03/17 10:48 PM |
| 5 | F24 How do i stop attracting guys who walk all over me and eventually dump me?The story sounds a little off. You've had multiple guys ask to lend them money? How does it happen? | /r/seduction | 16/03/17 10:38 PM |
| 0 | Why Too Much Theory In Pickup Can Be Bad For Your GamePimp dog. That explanation didn't much address any part the of the topic in question. Did it? | /r/seduction | 16/03/17 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Awkward situation with a girlJust ask her out | /r/seduction | 16/03/17 10:18 PM |
| 1 | How I deal With RejectionI belive you | /r/seduction | 16/03/17 10:17 PM |
| -1 | My personal growth in 1 year: Went from losing my virginity to getting an HB10 girlfriendPeople here are so gullible. This isn't a Cinderella story. This is just some dude who was good looking who got his first lay. | /r/seduction | 15/03/17 11:59 AM |
| 0 | Charisma Life HackProvide resources to help them grow personally and professionally, and share your personal journey with them. | /r/seduction | 14/03/17 09:06 PM |
| 1 | FidgetingThen it doesn't sound like much of a problem. | /r/seduction | 14/03/17 07:51 PM |
| 2 | Older guys: Do you even try, why / what's your attitude?edit: too much brag. Age is really easy to play if you know how to do it right | /r/seduction | 14/03/17 07:40 PM |
| 5 | How do I get laid ASAPThere's no shame in your game. Just go out and hit on women. If a girl isn't responsive you can easily chuck it up to something other than you "not being attractive" | /r/seduction | 14/03/17 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Women want you to look at their breastsNo negative. Did you read just the headline? | /r/seduction | 14/03/17 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Whats Holding You Back From Consistent Results With Women"Consistency is kind of an illusion." Great. | /r/seduction | 14/03/17 05:21 PM |
| -2 | Charisma Life HackThis is good. I have a gay buddy who was once a life coach and is also my best wingman. Our synergy is unstoppable. We generally wreck it wherever we go. | /r/seduction | 14/03/17 05:15 PM |
| 2 | Women want you to look at their breastsThis is just an example of something you should be doing. Doing this alone won't get you laid, but it's fine start. | /r/seduction | 14/03/17 05:03 PM |
| 1 | She keeps roasting me...?I maybe think the better title of this would be "She keeps roasting me... And I keep accepting it | /r/seduction | 14/03/17 12:36 AM |
| 1 | She keeps roasting me...?Yeah try some agree and amplify and avoid letting her constantly undercut you. Pull back on the "Damn" and "Wow" responses especially if they're not sarcastic. This really isn't a whole lot to go on generally though. | /r/seduction | 14/03/17 12:27 AM |
| -4 | The Five Triggers for Sexual AttractionAgreed. Get your reddit markdown formatting down first. I couldn't read it because it's taking too long to get to the point made and not giving the fundamental takeaway analysis. Your format is this: Point Some discussion This is the format you should be using: Point Core reason Further discussion | /r/seduction | 13/03/17 09:18 PM |
| 2 | Why Frame Control Is The Most Important Part of Your Pick Up JourneyFrame control is an OK way of phrasing that. 'Maintaining frame' is the way I prefer to communicate the effectiveness of it. | /r/seduction | 13/03/17 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Conflict between Mystery's method and other seduction approaches. Some clarity neededYou should remember that all PUA is somewhat opinionated sets of techniques. You should treat them this way and formulate your own strategy. | /r/seduction | 13/03/17 08:41 PM |
| 3 | Told girl I like how I feltI've been giving you advice this whole time. | /r/seduction | 13/03/17 08:28 PM |
| 0 | Characteristics of an ideal wingmanThis isn't rocket science. | /r/seduction | 13/03/17 08:08 PM |
| 3 | Told girl I like how I feltI've had one girl that would come over and sleep in my bed that I never fucked. She was really hot and knew I had it out for her. I can't remember the exact conditions of it or why she couldn't sleep on my couch. I do know in retrospect that the best route taken in that particular situation would have been to not shown any level of interest or care one way or the other with her. She was a smart cookie and the only way I could outsmart her was by not playing her game. Your situation sounds somewh… | /r/seduction | 13/03/17 07:57 PM |
| 5 | Told girl I like how I feltSo you were in bed with her and didn't fuck? Oh. | /r/seduction | 13/03/17 07:43 PM |
| 4 | Told girl I like how I feltIf she's responding after that, it means she's feeling a connection with you. Drop whatever you're doing and make a beeline path to just having sex. | /r/seduction | 13/03/17 07:34 PM |
| 1 | She keeps roasting me...?Why don't you give some examples and let us take them apart and give you some replies to them instead? | /r/seduction | 13/03/17 07:26 PM |
| 13 | Told girl I like how I feltIf she's responding after that, your ass is in pretty good shape. I generally don't recommend serious relationship talks. Emotional unloading is bad voodoo man. | /r/seduction | 13/03/17 07:21 PM |
| 1 | How do I start snapchatting somebody?Yep. Pretty much this advice. For you at least. | /r/seduction | 13/03/17 07:13 PM |
| 2 | Some girl shouted she wants your number to me whilst pointing at her hot friend...I don't agree it says that you weren't confident, especially if you weren't. Which I don't see how you could be there. The only real problem I could take from that is that you said "If you still want it" but even that's iffy in my playbook. First of all I can see why you probably didn't respond the first time, because if you come running over to her like a little needy boy and give her your numbers, it means she can just summon you or call you from anywhere and anything and you play right into i… | /r/seduction | 13/03/17 05:22 PM |
| 2 | Always assume attraction, and have high self-worthActually I read the headline to mean assume attraction period. Not the one you're dating. But yeah. It applies to there too. I just always assume attraction with everything. Since I'm always assuming it, nothing phases me (generally). And I just assume any negatives are a natural occurrence of being in that frame. It's not a mindset its just a perspective. It's not always easy to change your mindset (mind set) on something whereas a shift in perspective (look in a different direction) is simply … | /r/seduction | 11/03/17 12:44 AM |
| 1 | How to tell if she has a BF?Because dancing around the fact won't change weather it's true or not. Better to operate in a mode that is always showing her why you are better. And just because she's with a guy doesn't mean that you're not the main catch to begin with. | /r/seduction | 10/03/17 10:59 PM |
| 2 | Should i send her?Not to mention you had stale reception with her then followed it up with a FB stalk and then a friend request. | /r/seduction | 10/03/17 10:25 PM |
| 2 | Should i send her?Don't ever rando-friend-request people especially women on Facebook. You give all of your power away immediately when you do such. | /r/seduction | 10/03/17 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Always assume attraction, and have high self-worthIf I had to ask, then it probably wasn't. But ty. | /r/seduction | 10/03/17 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Always assume attraction, and have high self-worthIs this a joke?... | /r/seduction | 10/03/17 09:09 PM |
| 7 | How I gloriously botched a girl trying to pick me up, but learned an invaluable lesson.Dude. All you need to know is that you had a chance and that means you will have the same chances in the future. Not write a theoretical essay about it. The fact that you've gone it such a detailed meta analysis of this kind of represents a disconnect between your analytical mind and your instinctual still. Quit this shit. | /r/seduction | 10/03/17 02:23 PM |
| 3 | Decided to message a cute girl on instagram. This js what she said"OK then we'll have be sure he doesn't find out" | /r/seduction | 08/03/17 08:34 PM |
| -2 | How can a girl ( myself ) seduce another girl ?If you didn't have a BF I'd say PM me. | /r/seduction | 08/03/17 04:07 PM |
| 2 | Horrible Mindset, please helpYou're doing a really good job of talking yourself out of what you want. | /r/seduction | 08/03/17 12:27 PM |
| 6 | How do you keep going after so many rejections?Reduce the effort you're putting into approaches. | /r/seduction | 08/03/17 11:55 AM |
| 1 | How do you respond to nudesBRT | /r/seduction | 08/03/17 11:48 AM |
| 52 | How to pick up girls if you're good lookingBro, that sense of humor more than makes up for any lack of looks. Keep it going. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/17 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Could someone give me the essentials or an ultimate beginners guide for being good with women. I'm trying to improve with women.Yeah. Obviously it never hurts, but if your confidence is already there you can exert the same levels as other guys with lower levels and larger mass, but ultimately it's up to you guy. | /r/seduction | 08/03/17 05:11 AM |
| 0 | Could someone give me the essentials or an ultimate beginners guide for being good with women. I'm trying to improve with women.If you're seeking material or advice. Be very skeptical at the outset to be certain. I'll repost what I've said earlier on most advice and why you have to read with an cautiously guarded bullshit-weary lens as your primary mode of learning filtering information intake. A lot of PUA will seem like good advice but then upon further reading, attempts to undermine your most basic understandings and confidence by overloading their reader with exaggeratedly horrific examples of failure and forcing the… | /r/seduction | 08/03/17 04:58 AM |
| 1 | How to tell between legit tech and clickbait info?Typical routine: Generally it will be a couple of actually solid usable points of advice (hook) followed by a number of bad ones to set in some level of cognitive dissonance (something that works against your known understanding of how things ought to be.) Then they reel in with the e-book. They make frequent blog posts on incredibly self-evident crap, go to great lengths in over-explain concepts you were already aware of to undermine your most basic confidence in what you already knew to be tru… | /r/seduction | 08/03/17 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Need Opinions.You're way out of range first of all. I don't have much advice on fixing any of this but in the future always take "not interested in a relationship" to mean "I'd rather just fuck with no strings attached first". Never take any explanation of a desire for a type of relationship as some type of negative on you. Examples: "I have a boyfriend." "I have a boyfriend but I don't know what to do if I make out with you" "I'm a lesbian." Any time a girl makes her sexual preference known you should know t… | /r/seduction | 07/03/17 11:46 PM |
| 2 | A girl that I was hitting on told me that her boyfriend cheated on her a few days ago. I'm not sure of what to do.Any time a girl asks something like that ask her "What are you going to do about it?" if she expresses more doubt, then she's likely working you. If she expresses some indication that she'd rather be with you, take the initiative. | /r/seduction | 07/03/17 11:28 PM |
| 0 | 0 fucks given (actually)Not one bit | /r/seduction | 07/03/17 09:32 PM |
| 2 | Getting a girl to chase and escalation windowsAttraction does not have an expiration date contrary to what PUA hucksters want you to buy into. | /r/seduction | 07/03/17 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Am an absolute noob (m/ 24) and have no idea where to start.If you're feeling bullish you're g2g. Confidence is your main friend. | /r/seduction | 07/03/17 08:49 PM |
| 2 | Performance oriented guysAnything you say cheif | /r/seduction | 07/03/17 08:47 PM |
| 3 | Is she attracted to me? Or just want a friend. (Need help reading an older women's intentions)She's always attracted to you first. And interested in friends second. | /r/seduction | 07/03/17 01:08 AM |
| 2 | Eye contact/ staring is always a good sign right?If a girl is looking at you you should know she is interested. Second guessing is for pussies. | /r/seduction | 07/03/17 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Need help with a situation, a very flirty girl and meBro with that level of investment you shant even wonder what it is you need to do. Tell her to meet you at your house. | /r/seduction | 07/03/17 01:02 AM |
| 1 | How does one appear trustworthy on the street in a tourist city as a local? Not as a pesky guide, seller or con-man?Try to make it as casual as possible with pre-built deniability. You're wanting to take the mutual pressure off the interaction so that she feels no pressure to "not" reject you. | /r/seduction | 06/03/17 10:55 PM |
| 3 | I don't think the 3-second rule works for me.I thought the 3 second rule was about dropping something you eat. | /r/seduction | 06/03/17 10:48 PM |
| 1 | I (21F) want to escalate kino. Is playing footsie juvenile?Depends on what you're doing with your foot. If you're just tapping his foot to get his attention that can be annoying because if you're really interested you'll show real interest instead of just probing for it and seeing how it works out. I get really tired of girls who think they can just present themselves to me, and suddenly I'll be 100% smitten. All I can think is "if these are the only guys they think will fall for them, then I'm insulted they think I'm that fucking desperate" Generally t… | /r/seduction | 06/03/17 09:15 PM |
| 1 | I don't think the 3-second rule works for me.Being your better self or your best at that time. No one is ever their best. They're always getting better. | /r/seduction | 06/03/17 06:40 PM |
| 1 | I can't believe this shit actually works.What works for you? Share. | /r/seduction | 04/03/17 08:21 PM |
| 2 | Does Tinder help with dating?Facebook probably not the best idea. People's identity is directly linked with Facebook as opposed other social media. Plus living your dating life out across the pages of Facebook is probably not a good idea, unless maybe you're using a "hookup" burner account... | /r/seduction | 04/03/17 08:18 PM |
| 3 | Does Tinder help with dating?That's a great point actually. I know Instagram is a way to pick up. But I think the big takeaway from your point is that the best way, if you're going to do it online is in places where it's not as commonly expected. Forums where lots of women aggregate. Here. Google groups Hangouts etc. | /r/seduction | 04/03/17 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Contaminating your game process with incorrect PUAProbably because you're not looking for them to begin with. I at one point wasn't aware of a majority of these either. I'd see a girl do something and go "what the fuck was that about"? Before I had any understanding other than the basics, I had to go to a 24 hour clinic to see about my blood pressure. So I'm sitting there in the waiting, then in walks this drop dead 24-ish dropdead fine blonde. It was one of those situations you where don't expect something like that. It was way too overwhelmin… | /r/seduction | 04/03/17 07:39 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys get into deeper and more personal conversations with people?Who the fuck down-voted this? That article addresses exactly what he's asking. | /r/seduction | 04/03/17 06:35 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys get into deeper and more personal conversations with people?Whoever's downvoting this I'm calling bullshit shenanigans. This article speaks directly to what your asking for: http://www.girlschase.com/content/secrets-getting-girls-art-deep-dive Thread-Cutting and Thread-Amplifying: don’t believe I’ve covered these on here before. Again, long explanations for these; quick and dirty summary is thread-cutting is a technique for shutting down bad, unproductive, or destructive lines of conversation (like a girl talking about how she thinks men use women for se… | /r/seduction | 04/03/17 05:18 PM |
| 1 | What are YOUR best ways to unstifle?Try and frame the event as going out and having a good time. If you go out and you're in a sorry mood that pulls down everything else you've got going for you. Imagine your ideal night out and then go out and expect that night. | /r/seduction | 04/03/17 08:49 AM |
| 3 | Contaminating your game process with incorrect PUAThese are some good lists. http://www.mademan.com/mm/5-body-language-signs-she-likes-you.html https://www.2knowmyself.com/relationship_breakups/body_language_love_signals http://www.speeli.com/articles/view/Signs-that-show-that-someone-likes-you Some other ones: limp wrists exposed writs hair spinning raised voices when speaking nearby getting nearby you leg spreading exposing crotch "accidental" tit touches rubbing her leg next to yours extending elongating body bent backs | /r/seduction | 03/03/17 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Contaminating your game process with incorrect PUAYeah. IOIs are a full-fledged part of any flirtation process. Some want to try and tell you that getting an IOI is in some foolish way detrimental to to pickup. It's not. And point being that IOIs and females showing interest is part of their evolutionarily makeup. They're telling you to deny instinctual-level intuitions.. But moreover I don't think the ones giving this advice have any idea of the full spectrum of any IOIs to begin with, and are giving bogus advice based on limited experience. B… | /r/seduction | 03/03/17 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Should You Drink Alcohol When Talking To Girls? What To Say If She AsksIt's up to you dog. I was at a rooftop bar the other night and I hadn't bought a drink yet and some girl approached me and tried to shit test me on the fact that I didn't have a drink. Then she gave me her drink. | /r/seduction | 03/03/17 06:44 PM |
| – | Let Her Chase You.http://www.girlschase.com/ <<< I never recommend any technique fully. This one is the one I've found with the lowest amount of flaws. The guy admits he still has some learning to do, which is more honest than 95% of any of them. http://www.girlschase.com/content/law-least-effort Trust yourself first and other people later. If something strikes you as wrong or incongruent with your beliefs, don't believe it. Remember it though. Take note of it. If it ever proves true later maybe give it a second … | /r/seduction | 03/03/17 04:45 PM |
| 6 | Let Her Chase You.Dead solid. | /r/seduction | 03/03/17 04:16 PM |
| 4 | How to attractMaybe they can maybe they can't. If you buy into that premise then you're now fighting with your own rationale about what power you think women have to 'smell' if you've be fucked. You need to drop the scarcity mentality and live your life free of that level absurdity. | /r/seduction | 03/03/17 03:22 PM |
| 1 | How can you escalate towards sexual conversation?Give the example you're talking about. | /r/seduction | 03/03/17 03:15 PM |
| 5 | Am I doing something wrong? Girls seem to lose interest after Tinder matchThink of Tindr as a high end nightclub where all the hot women are constantly getting hit on. Except at this nightclub any guy can access it 24/7. That includes you, but if you think you're the only one for her and can be kind of flirty coy or just rely on your looks, there's 5 other guys who are slightly less better looking but can be direct and still get away with it. | /r/seduction | 03/03/17 03:09 PM |
| 1 | How do you convert a primal urge into smooth, truthful words?Just be smooth about it. | /r/seduction | 03/03/17 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Contaminating your game process with incorrect PUAI know dude and that shit kicks into overdrive when a bitch hikes up her skirt to give a full view. I was all 'damn I wonder what that girl thinks about me? I sure hope she thinks I'm a swell guy | /r/seduction | 03/03/17 01:33 PM |
| 1 | How do you convert a primal urge into smooth, truthful words?Don't convert them to words. Just actions. Or better: If you're having a problem with words don't use words use actions. If you're having a problem with actions use words. | /r/seduction | 03/03/17 04:47 AM |
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