In the circles I run in I am a very generous person. It's important to me that all the people around me feel happy and important to me. At most bars weather I know the people there or not, I generally tip 50 to 100% the first time. This almost always ensures people there will recognize me. The other thing I do is treat everyone as my equal. There is nothing that gets the females tingles going stronger when you show the emotional level IQ that doesn't bear the need to judge, and that YOU have the power to energize or up the positive vibes. When you're upping the good feels in the room every woman will come scrambling toward your feet.