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I am unattracted to promiscuous men. Always have been.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 02:36 AM
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I have never wanted to date a guy who mistreats me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 02:34 AM
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I feel bad for the gf’s. It’s gross to talk that way about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 02:31 AM
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I don’t constantly compliment my female friends lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 02:24 AM
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As long as you can take rejection without making it super personal it’s all good.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 11:04 PM
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The anger of an autistic child can be unmatched. I witnessed one throw a chair through a wall when I was younger. Anger can contribute as much as strength.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:23 PM
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Yes. I am very lucky to have met him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:16 PM
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Because it helps you understand them better and to not put them on a pedestal and to help many not feel ashamed about it. If my bf acted disgusted when I mentioned that my period was coming or that I was currently on my period, to me that would be like him being disgusted that I had a cold or some shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:15 PM
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It’s an angry and very autistic 5 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:10 PM
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My bf’s sister is very open about her period and even her poos with him and his mom lol. Also even talks about her sexual endeavors. Honestly learning about periods when you’re a younger dude would be very beneficial to your dating life and your friendship with other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 09:40 AM
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My bf is best friends with his younger sister and also has a good relationship with his mom. He calls her everyday and such. I feel like this has helped him understand women better and to be able to befriend women without wanting to fuck them. He’s also really supportive and not afraid to show his emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 09:37 AM
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Actually many women are just turning you down gently and pretending they are okay while internally screaming for you to get away. It’s like when I used to deal with crazy or frustrating customers. I gave them a fake pity laugh, pretended to listen to them while smiling and told them to have a nice day. Gentle indirect rejections tend to be safer than blunt rejections.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 09:32 AM
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I don’t like casual sex and also am monogamous so it’s a nah for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 09:30 AM
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My bf definitely values love over sex. As do I. Also affairs happen for any reason but they mostly happen because the person committing the affair isn’t happy with themself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 09:27 AM
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Yeah me too but my bf who is skinny still overpowers me lol. He got natural bigger muscles in his upper body that I don’t naturally have lol. Sometimes even if he puts his arm on me when sleeping I feel squished.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 09:22 AM
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Guns
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 09:20 AM
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Florida teacher beaten and hospitalized after attack by 5-year-old student, police say The victim could "blink and breathe regularly" but was not able to "vocally respond" following beating at Pines Lakes Elementary School in Pembroke Pines. Don’t be ignorant
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 09:15 AM
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Small guys can be crazy too and even frail dudes. You ever seen Saw? Lol jokes aside, yeah most dudes are stronger than women biologically but also dudes of any shape or size are more quick to be aggressive when they feel rejected or wronged. Also Do remember the teacher who got absolutely beat up by a grade school autistic boy. Also too many angry short guys on the internet but least Charlie/penguinz0 is a cool short dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 09:13 AM
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He’s crazy and thinks women can’t orgasm lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 09:09 AM
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Eh it’s funny cause my bf is the one who cares about decorating lol and I don’t care as much but it ain’t torture to let him decorate so it’s whatevs. But it’s essential to be clean, have a clean place, and have clean clothes at least. Also compromise will always be a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 09:04 AM
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I wasn’t. When I was a virgin I wanted a virgin guy but I didn’t want a virgin guy who made a big deal out of himself being a virgin. I chose a guy who was a virgin and didn’t care about it. virgin dudes whose only goal is to get laid are the ones that are a turn off cause they’re being desperate and acting like anyone with a vagina will do. My bf had turned down women before because he was waiting for the right one so it made me feel more special.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:00 AM
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I dunno. According to my bf and others I underrate my appearance. Yay low self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 06:50 AM
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Even if it was a female student who wanted to bang her male teacher, people would still be calling for that male teacher’s head because they are a predator. Same should happen with female teachers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 06:36 AM
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Yes but sadly it’s mostly other men dismissing these men’s claims by saying it can’t be assault because they personally wouldn’t care and “didn’t matter, got laid” mentality. Seen some crazy incels saying they wish women assaulted them when they were younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 06:32 AM
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Apparently not for Ariana Grande lol. I guess taken dude is what she’s after no matter what he looks like. Ethan Slater be so plain looking and is a shorter guy too lol. Anyways for me personality matters a bunch. I never felt anything for people purely on looks. Have to know people before I even really take in account their physical appearance. Never had a celebrity crush since I was a tween lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 06:26 AM
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Nah everyone has different preferences for what they want romantically and sexually no matter what their partner looks like. I don’t care what you look like, if you’re being creepy or you’re bad in bed then you’re creepy or bad in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 03:55 AM
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We met on reddit lol. So I guess by chance. We were on a similar subreddit and he messaged me out of the blue asking to be my friend because he liked my comments on stuff. At first I was like “this is a bit weird” but he genuinely wanted to be my friend and was apparently going through a low point in his life which is why he reached out for friendship. We stayed friends for a year then we thought we were bothering each other so we fell out of contact for a month and then I reached out to him aga…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:35 PM
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He’s a nerdy 5’9” boy who plays video games, likes to code, was very shy when we met, has a silly sense of humor, etc. I love him so much. He’s very caring and thoughtful and sweet.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:37 PM
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Porn addiction starts young and is often used as a coping mechanism for trauma, depression, etc because of the dopamine rush.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:10 AM
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Idk my bf is like this and this is what got me to like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:05 AM
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Yeah exactly. He’s a shitty person and acts like a toddler when it comes to his businesses. He plays with his shiny new toys and then breaks them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:29 AM
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You sure this isn’t in your head/confirmation bias? I as a woman have never treated someone badly or glared at them for simply not being attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:05 AM
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Elon is a terrible person, a terrible ceo, and a terrible father. The shit he’s naming his kids is ridiculous and likely to make them outsiders.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:56 AM
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My Italian uncle is an amazing cook.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:49 AM
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Our household ain’t super traditional but I have made my bf lunch for work before when I have time/feel like it. I made him sushi once and his coworker was so jealous lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:41 AM
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Sex addicts may benefit
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:30 AM
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More money doesn’t mean the job is more difficult. Firefighters don’t get paid much as they should but they do a buncha important shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:27 AM
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To most my bf would be average cause he’s just a nerdy white guy who doesn’t stand out in any particular way but to me he is above average and stands out among the rest due to my feelings for him. If I went purely by appearance I wouldn’t really notice him much but I need more than appearances to feel anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:56 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:57 AM
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Me and my bf met on reddit cause we’re introverts.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:49 AM
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Depends on the woman. Some do have a porn addiction and it can affect how they view romantic interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:38 AM
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Can we stop talking about women like stocks? Gross man. Op get some help. See a therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 02:34 AM
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Dude just because you view women as pure sex objects and believe you own your gf’s body doesn’t mean other guys think the same way. He may just be cool with it. It’s controlling for either gender if they try to tell their partner what to wear. Just don’t date people who dress that way. Also it’s not “dressing like you’re single”. It’s just clothes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 02:15 AM
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Exactly this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 02:12 AM
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If you put in effort in your pictures and sense of style, you are more likely to get noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 10:51 AM
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Nah I think it’s based on context. For example, Most incels are shamed not for wanting sex but thinking women are only good for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 11:12 PM
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??? Why do you think 6 foot two is short? Lol that’s taller than average height. My bf is 5 foot nine and I have no issues with it. If women are rejecting a six foot two guy it most likely isn’t because of his height.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:32 PM
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Asian countries are very sexist though and women are treated as if they are inferior. Let’s not forget about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:20 PM
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I mean same thing is used for women. Don’t want a dude who needs porn in a relationship? Don’t be so insecure and controlling. It’s only controlling if you try to make them follow your boundaries after they showed you they don’t want to follow the boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:17 PM
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As a woman I do enjoy and crave sex? Lol why do you think there’s women who have casual sex? Def. Not for “analytical” reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 08:12 PM
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I touch my hair when I feel anxious lol. It’s not always a sign that someone’s into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 08:05 PM
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My bf is nerdy and that’s one reason I like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 08:01 PM
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Public information isn’t private information but I don’t think these apps are super accurate and sometimes people have made fake nudes of people using ai. Also revenge porn exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:32 AM
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The “nice guy” is a dude who thinks that if they act nice a woman will sleep or get into a relationship with them. It’s manipulative behavior. Some guys wait years even hoping the lady friend will sleep with them. It’s pretty gross honestly and kinda pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 08:43 PM
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Hi, Millenial here. I would be considered old fashioned I guess but my bf who is barely gen z is similar to me in that we were friends, dated and never had a talk about exclusivity. We just expected it and that was it. The whole “exclusivity talk” is slightly alien to me but young people have different dating standards because of hookup apps like Tinder. I never liked the idea of casual sex personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 08:45 AM
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No. My bf is not hyper masculine, super tall, super rich, emotionless, etc. we split chores and we comfort each other when we cry. Oh and there is no sub dom stuff. We switch. I’m older than him and sometimes I’m more dominant and sometimes he is. He’s also bi which I have no issue with because he’s very monogamous and 100% attracted to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 01:35 AM
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Honestly women are not a hive mind. Just because most women do something doesn’t mean all women do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 11:54 AM
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My father was a shitty person and never around but I never sought a father figure in my romantic life. I also am very picky about men’s personalities and values and never been with an abusive dude either. Thankfully my bf is a wonderful person.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 11:48 AM
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I’m immature in some ways but I ain’t goin after teens. I was a teen once. Teens are like kids compared 30 year olds
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 12:23 PM
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Ain’t special if he’s asking every woman lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:04 AM
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I met my bf on reddit. We both are introverted lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:01 AM
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Nah but I assume they are either very immature, manipulative, or both.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:00 AM
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Your libido isn’t fully based on how you look. I have a friend who is overweight and they have plenty of sex. There are plenty of attractive people with low libidos too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 07:58 AM
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Everyone should help others if they can and if they feel safe doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 07:55 AM
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If someone finds you beautiful/handsome then you’re beautiful/handsome Not everyone is into insta models n shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 07:54 AM
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But did she say this before? Cause if you were still continuing while she was confused and shit that would be so traumatizing for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 01:46 PM
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Do you follow lots of women on instagram?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 01:38 PM
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That’s really gross that you continued while she was having a ptsd episode and that you’d say you would do it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 01:37 PM
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Look I’m a woman and am against porn addiction but like mostly women like 50 shades of gray so I don’t quite understand your argument here. If you think people with certain sexual fantasies want them in real life then do you think women reading 50 shades want that in real life too? Sexual fantasy/kinks don’t always show what you want in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:50 PM
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Nah. I just like nerdy shit and many guys like nerdy shit including my bf lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:19 PM
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I personally just believe in making friends first and working on your hobbies. Like don’t try too hard to date but also keep the idea open and still meet people and get to know them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:17 AM
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Eh I met my bf on reddit. We were friends at first. I actually thought he was a woman at first because he wasn’t being creepy and genuinely wanted to be my friend and his typing style reminded me of some women online. I learned he was a guy soon after but we still were friends for like a year and then we lost contact for a bit and then talked again and gained feelings for each other. We still didn’t know what each other looked like. We started flirting and he asked me out on valentine’s Day. We …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 02:45 AM
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So you cheating because you hate women? Amazing. 10/10. Just can’t admit that the common denominator is you. It can’t be your shitty attitude nah it has to be women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:47 AM
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Most dudes posting here seem to think women are inferior cept for sex and are the reason they don’t get dates so I ain’t surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:44 AM
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You also clearly don’t respect your own partner either. There is no such thing as not being able to control your libido when you are a grown adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:41 AM
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Op probably thinks women are irrational beings that over exaggerate though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:38 AM
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Ah yes cheating is so silly guys lol teehee~ hashtag justmenthings. Men and women can cheat for the same reasons. Go to /r/survivinginfidelity and you will see that women can cheat for just sex reasons and men cheat for other partners too. Cheating is NEVER a ha ha silly thing. It’s a selfish and calculated act. People make choices when cheating. It doesn’t “just happen” unless you’re being taken advantage of. It is always disrespectful as well. I cheated only once (in highschool) and yes I was …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:46 AM
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Probably similar with people who say they’re okay with porn. If many of them saw all the porn their spouse looks at I think they would have some reservations. Probably why many have a don’t ask don’t tell policy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 11:27 PM
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It’s not being defective. Not every body works the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:51 AM
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Thankfully we aren’t living in a black mirror episode…yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:42 AM
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Well I believe in patience and figuring out shit when you love someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:39 AM
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By this logic, Men who finish too quick, take too long, or can’t get it up every time aren’t worth dating either.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 01:36 AM
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Better to be alone than being abused constantly lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 01:26 AM
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Restricting oxygen to brain can always potentially cause long term brain damage no matter how short of a span of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 01:16 AM
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In my opinion it’s really sad that many people would just leave their partners instead of ask why their partner feels this way and try to understand where they are coming from. Also the fact that they would leave because they can’t do one sex act with their partner is also concerning. Makes the supposedly long term relationship feel so superficial to just throw it away like that. This subreddit is always talking about how difficult dating is and yet y’all would just walk away without talking to …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:12 PM
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Actual medical experts have said otherwise. Not sure why people wanna risk getting their partner slapped with manslaughter honestly Edit: Also it can cause long term issues: A distressing new report, which is the first of its kind, found it is common for strangulation to leave no visible indications of injury but victims can go on to suffer symptoms days or even weeks after the incident took place. Researchers at Bangor University and doctors at North Wales Brain Injury Service discovered physic…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:56 PM
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Things are more complicated when feelings are involved. It would mean she had too strong of feelings for you and doesn’t want to potentially ruin the relationship with a threesome cause she may feel like she is losing you. It’s easier for some to do stuff like that with people they have no emotional attachments to. Not everything is about attraction. Humans are complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:25 PM
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Choking is dangerous. I wish it wasn’t seen as a sex act. You could easily kill someone without meaning to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:56 PM
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Sometimes it’s something they don’t want in a serious relationship where feelings are involved. Like a threesome for example. Serious relationship= possible jealousy issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:51 PM
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Just because they enjoyed it previously doesn’t mean they still enjoy it. People change their minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:48 PM
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Actual clinical depression is caused by brain chemistry issues. Same as adhd and other types of mental disorders/illnesses. It’s an illness because the brain is sick and is missing something. This is why meds are needed. Clinical depression isn’t just feeling down sometimes and it can’t be cured by mindset alone. As a person with adhd I can do my best to stay focused and try to remember shit and all this other stuff but my brain literally cannot on its own. Same with clinical depression and tryi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:16 PM
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You’re literally denying that it’s a mental illness by trying to say it can be cured by mindset alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:58 PM
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Yeah I ain’t listening to a depression-denier. If I wanted that I’d listen to my mom who constantly made me feel like a failure because she denied my adhd and depression and thought it was caused by the computer lol. Honestly you’re no mental health pro obviously but stop misleading people about something you have no idea about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:48 PM
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For relationship: Not treat all women as potential partners and work on my own passions and make friends with people who also have similar passions. Worked for my bf. Lots of women like guys who are passionate about their hobbies. My bf’s hobby is programming and I don’t understand it much or care as much but it’s cute how much he enjoys it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 11:46 AM
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Just want to point out that actual clinical depression isn’t a choice. It’s a mental illness. I cannot choose my depression just like I can’t choose my adhd. Course you can choose to take meds but they don’t work for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 11:43 AM
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Wha? Not sure how holding an umbrella is feminine lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 12:35 AM
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Religion is sexist as are most cultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 12:31 AM
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Depends on the company you keep. Some dudes don’t want to have sex with every woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 06:19 PM
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Well I mean he probably had more issues if he resorted to murder. But maybe therapy woulda helped prevent his murder spree if it was available and not looked down upon.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 04:43 AM
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The word incel was first used by a woman to describe herself i thought lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 04:41 AM
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Eh I never cared if my bf was wanted or not. Apparently he was but he was waiting for the right girl. Apparently the girls who hit on him were pretty crazy people lol and they only hit on him because they thought he was mysterious (depressed). But people wanting him never factored in my attraction. Him waiting for the right person did since I was doing the same and it showed he didn’t just want sex from anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 04:38 AM
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Fun fact about Ted Bundy: one girl survived because he threw her out of his car after seeing what her hair looked like. Dude killed based on hair type apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 04:32 AM
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Nah if you wanna be with someone for non creepy reasons and it’s all consensual then go for it says I. Me and my bf were both virgins in our 20’s and there ain’t any resentment happening. Makes sense to wanna be with someone with similar experience level to you honestly. But if you trying to get with a virgin lady to seriously claim some sorta “ownership” over her then you gotta go back to the blackboard and re-educate yourself about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 04:26 AM
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Yeah but I dated people before and he didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:38 AM
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My bf was a virgin into his 20’s and that was okay with me. He never made it into a big deal or felt he was owed sex and respected boundaries. Creepy dudes tend to act like all women are potential sex/romantic partners. My bf did not act like that so I never found him creepy. I found it sweet he was waiting for the right person. I was also doing the same so it was a bonus.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 11:15 PM
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Nah. I knew plenty of horny women who constantly ogled dudes. My coworker got a guy to pick something up for her just to check out his body. I found it pretty creepy and warned her about how some shit she does may cause a sexual harassment complaint. She hit on guy customers a bunch.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 09:09 AM
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Sometimes people have hope that people will change and they still love who that person was before and don’t realize that person never existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:13 PM
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It’s not that simple. Until you are in that situation you can’t say for sure what you will do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 06:57 PM
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The mind is very powerful. Do you know about the experiment some ways back where a psychologist had students act like prisoners snd guards? Guess what happened? After some time they forgot they were students. The psychologist even forgot about the experiment. You could say: “the students chose to stay as prisoners” but that’s not what happened. They just did a role for so long that their minds made them think that this was their role. With abuse victims they are in the role of an abuse victim fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 06:06 PM
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Surviving and comfort are two different things. Also people feel the heat differently. For instance, if you’re going through menopause or feeling other hormonal changes you may get heat flashes. I hot them while on medication. They suck. You can stay in air conditioning and it will still feel super hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 04:08 PM
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Choice? It ain’t a choice to be psychologically fucked by the cycle of abuse. Also not everything is about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 04:04 PM
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Not true bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 10:55 AM
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Women dress in sports bras and such at the gym because they get hot and sweaty and have to move a bunch lol. It’s not for male attention. Don’t assume everything is for sexual attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 10:42 AM
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Women in extremely modest clothing get raped too. Rapists will rape no matter the clothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 10:38 AM
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If short shorts for men were back in fashion like they used to be, men would be wearing them. Men also used to wear crop tops. It’ll probably come back though so have fun when it does. Old fashion trends tend to come back.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 10:36 AM
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Actually i wear leggings and yoga pants cause they’re comfortable and I like the slimmer fit. Jeans are too bulky and uncomfortable. I ain’t trying to show off lol. I’m quickly putting shit on to go to the grocery store. I am socially awkward and avoid people lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 10:35 AM
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In Japan they have to in some schools because of dress code. I felt really bad for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 10:32 AM
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But men used to wear short shorts lol. They still would if it was considered fashionable. They also wore crop tops. Shit was fashionable till the 80’s but it’ll probably cone back again.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 10:28 AM
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Gross take. It’s called it’s hot as hell outside. Women wearing muslim clothes have gotten assaulted before so clothing isn’t the reason if you’re going down that route.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 10:27 AM
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I mean the rent a boyfriend in Japan is popular lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 10:20 AM
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No. Plenty of abusers have no money and are in fact a leech. Abuse isn’t all the same but most of it is this: woman with low self esteem gets hit on by guy who seems nice. They date. Guy GRADUALLY turns into abusive jerk. The woman is basically the frog in boiling water. She did not register the amount of red flags that were building up to this point and when it gets really bad she’s not sure what to do because she doesn’t realize that the previous him was the fake version. Also she may not have…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 08:19 AM
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Confidence is fine but entitlement is not. I don’t care how you look. If you act entitled or aggressive then I’m out
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 08:12 AM
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this is every woman's dream. Hashtag notmydream
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 01:59 AM
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women actually feel ZERO sympathy for men fucked this way, probably as part of their programming Women are not computers. Am a women and would feel sympathy but not as sympathetic if the man in question has such sexist views honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 01:57 AM
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21 year olds I would argue have more emotional baggage because of the level of maturity. They tend to be very immature emotionally and will likely make way more wrong impulsive decisions and part of those is dating a guy old enough to be their dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 01:53 AM
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Nah. It’s just money. It ain’t that deep bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 01:50 AM
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You should never start a relationship on a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 09:43 PM
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Well i know I have some autistic traits myself like being too sensitive to lights, sounds, and touch in crowded environments (this is why grocery shopping sucks) but I think generalized anxiety is pretty bad. My bf had it as well as adhd and says he feels extreme anxiety 24/7 without meds. He said it feels like the world is constantly ending and he’s always in flight mode which sounds pretty terrible honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 08:56 AM
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People change over time and people's futures and ambitions change. Every marriage has a risk. Even men have outgrown women in marriages. It's not just women doing this. It's all humans. It's just part of life. You aren't the same person you were 5 years ago for instance. Also some marriages happened too early, even. Not all marriages start the same. Everything you do in life comes with risks. If you're trying to avoid risks then you aren't really living. All you can do is prepare yourself for th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 08:36 AM
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Nah. My bf has adhd, anxiety, and has a skin issue and I still love him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 12:34 AM
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Nah. Both is equally wrong and both have cheated for the same reasons. This is just sexist nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 12:27 AM
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Or maybe he and her futures aren’t aligning anymore. Not everything is about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 12:22 AM
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People can outgrow others and change as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 12:21 AM
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You’d be doing her a favor honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 12:21 AM
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You can outgrow people. It happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 12:19 AM
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I don’t believe in rating people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 12:12 AM
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Just saying imma side eye a 30 year old trying to get with an 18 year old. I remember being 18. Am 31 and can’t understand how you’d want to get with an 18 year old. I’ve worked with them and have plenty of interests in common but know better than to try and hang out with them. Plus, they can be very annoying and immature at times and make the worst decisions because they are emotionally driven rather than rationally driven.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:38 AM
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Mmm I guess I’m just picky when it comes to personality? Also have trust issues so I don’t trust people easily. I also don’t trust people who are TOO nice. Needs to be middle ground nice. Anyone who tells me they are nice/a good person directly I don’t trust lol. If you are a good person you don’t tell people you are. I had a male friend like that. He always talked about respecting women and ended up being a creep. Stupid teenaged me had a minor crush on him but thankfully nothing came of it. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 05:58 PM
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What you mean? You asking bout my dating choices? Never dated an abusive dude lol. And I befriend people before wanting to date them. I don’t date randos. Only issue is I am socially anxious due to childhood abuse and mental health issues so it sucks :/.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:46 PM
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How do you know that he was racist? Maybe he wasn’t and your assumption is racist instead and you made up a situation in your head to feel like a victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:03 PM
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I feel like when I’m nice to a random guy he takes it the wrong way usually. One time I worked in retail and this guy needed two dollars he didn’t have to buy an item so I bought it for him. He pretty much treated me like I was a divine being and said he felt we were meant to be together and wanted my social media. I declined and felt really uncomfortable. So after that I get wary.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:01 PM
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Both my mom and dad are horrible parents in their own way but at least my mom didn’t sexually abuse my sister. My mom is horrible because of her culture siding with men always and so she has terrible taste in guys who have caused so many issues. I do blame her but I also blame the culture she’s from. But I blame my dad too for being a shithead pervert.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:38 PM
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I literally said some people feel this way about makeup. Not everyone does. Also I don’t know about you but I don’t wear graphic tees to attract people. I wear them cause I like them lol. In fact half the time I forget what I’m wearing when people take note of it. But yeah everyone is different is my point. Don’t be purposefully obtuse. Some people wear it for themselves and some people wear it for others. Oh and some straight women wear it for other women to compliment them on their work like a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 02:33 AM
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It’s called routine and habit. Women used to powder their hair in the past times too. Was it for men? Probably not. It’s just routine. It feels good. Just like taking a shower makes you feel good even if you’re not doing it for others. I don’t even wear makeup cause it was never part of my routine but some people do. Also some people see it as a fun art form and way to express themselves like wearing a graphic tee of a show you like. Makes them feel more unique. Also calling women delusional? Re…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 02:11 AM
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Actually many women do think not wearing makeup is not taking care of yourself. Japan is one place where that idea is prevalent. Makeup is routine self care for many and they don’t feel done/satisfied without it. It’s self care.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 01:57 AM
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It’s a theory that breasts= chest ass. The shape of the ass was desirable so the same shape was doubled for maximum desirability.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 01:54 AM
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There are ways to compliment without hitting on people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 01:46 AM
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Do you feel better when taking a shower? It’s a form of self care.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 01:45 AM
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My bf says this was still a thing in 2016 so wouldn’t be surprised if it’s still happening. His sister used to get a buncha simps who would buy her pizza lol and would get guys who would insult her because she was a woman. But then she’d be better than them at the game and they would simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:25 PM
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It definitely happens very often and pretty much daily in Japan which is a decent country. Even has its own name. Chikan.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 06:02 AM
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Um a woman recently was arrested for decapitating a dude and having sex with his corpse. Also she may or may not have taken a bite of him. There are scary women prisoners as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 06:00 AM
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My bf is 5 ft 9 and never approached women and is skinny, nerdy, awkward, and introverted. But women still tried to hit on him tho he rejected them cause he wasn’t into them. I was attracted to him for his personality. We met online and were friends for awhile. Never saw what he looked like but crushed on him hard. Now we’re together irl and still very much attracted to him. Sometimes it can be your attitude/approach. Being needy, begging, aggressive, pushy, extremely passive, etc. can be a big …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 05:50 AM
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Nah. In online games they get harassed for being a woman. All you gotta do is have a feminine voice or very feminine profile/avatar and guys will harass you. Any guy who disagrees should use a voice changer that makes them sound female next time they game.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 05:37 AM
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I’m a woman and I also get these chats. They are spam bots. Everyone gets them no matter what gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 05:32 AM
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Then you will be alone and sad and have no one to blame but yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 05:17 AM
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The mother should always get to choose whether or not she wants to continue with pregnancy. Also why give a chance if it would only live a day or so? Not even a year? And just because the law was slightly amended doesn’t mean it’s specific enough. No slight changes will make it specific enough. There are many more cases where a pregnant woman could die that their amendments don’t cover. AND WOMEN SHOULD NEVER BE FORCED TO BIRTH DEAD OR DYING BABIES. THAT SHIT IS TRAUMATIZING. Anyways back on to …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:40 PM
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Or respond with #fakenews and something about a conspiracy theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 03:58 AM
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https://amp.cnn.com/cnn/2022/11/16/health/abortion-texas-sepsis/index.html Texas woman almost dies due to abortion law https://amp.theguardian.com/us-news/2022/sep/14/louisiana-woman-skull-less-fetus-new-york-abortion Louisiana woman carrying unviable fetus had to fly to New York to get abortion https://www.live5news.com/2023/05/03/woman-says-fla-abortion-law-forced-her-give-birth-doomed-baby/?outputType=amp Florida woman forced to give birth to doomed baby https://people.com/health/beauty-youtu…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 03:36 AM
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Women should still have the option to have life saving surgeries during birth though. Not having that option makes it more scarier. Also some states claim to have the option but make it very vague and confusing to healthcare workers so healthcare workers are not sure where the line is and are afraid of going to jail or being fined tons of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:56 AM
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No every woman’s body reacts differently. Not all births are the same. Complications happen all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:27 AM
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Hmmm I wonder if the current abortion laws have anything to do with women being afraid of getting pregnant. Like in some states if the pregnancy is life threatening they have to still give birth without additional life saving surgery (even though they claim to have an exception but don’t clearly define it)…nah probably not
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 11:47 PM
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Cheaters are selfish cowards who don’t like confrontation and are terrible at communicating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 02:57 AM
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Actually some women do orgasm via only penetration. It’s just rare. Women’s bodies are all different.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 02:50 AM
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And how much porn do you watch? That can ruin your dick lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 02:48 AM
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Wow treating women like objects/toys? Why am I not surprised? You sound like the defective one bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 02:46 AM
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Then you are a very selfish person and probably not very good in the bedroom. Also many women don’t want a guy who cums in just five minutes lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 02:36 AM
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It’s a cultural familial thing and not sexual but if it bothers you then say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 02:27 AM
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I think neurodivergence is average. most people have a little bit of neurodivergence.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 01:53 AM
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https://www.bbc.com/news/world-europe-65959097.amp “ Controversial influencer Andrew Tate has been charged in Romania with rape, human trafficking and forming an organised crime group to sexually exploit women.” https://www.nytimes.com/article/andrew-tate-romania-charges.html Recently released from house arrest but still going to trial.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:37 AM
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Many of these women have low self esteem in the first place and don’t understand how a healthy relationship looks like or how to spot red flags. It’s not all based on looks. They go after the first guy who acts nice to them and get trapped.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 10:25 AM
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So according to you most men are emotionally unavailable so I didn’t go after most men. As soon as someone shows traits I am not looking for I ain’t interested. It makes the dating pool smaller but I found my bf anyways. Wasn’t even dating around. I was pretty adverse to dating honestly cause I thought I was 100% asexual because I was def. Not interested in most guys cause I ain’t into the traditionally masculine dudes. I also wasn’t interested in the porn addicted gamer guys but thought I’d end…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 10:20 AM
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No it’s called not being an adult child and being a partner. It’s one thing to cry all the time and never help out and be a partner. That definitely isn’t attractive. But when you are actually a romantic partner and are emotional than that’s fine. I say the same thing for women and men. If you only rely on your partner for everything it ain’t attractive. Everyone has to help. Don’t have your partner be your parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 10:13 AM
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Words don’t mean shit without actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:05 AM
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I will never trust people who use a rating system seriously. People are not objects. I don’t use a rating system and neither does my bf.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:04 AM
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Andrew Tate trafficked minors and didn’t believe the female orgasm was a thing. He’s an abusive rapist piece of shit honestly. Don’t believe his bullshit. He also scammed his followers with his dumb “school”.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:00 AM
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Nah. Just physical attractiveness doesn’t do it. Care for their needs in the bedroom. Many men don’t. Don’t be selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:52 AM
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Toxic partners do often hide their true selves at the start. That’s how they reel people in.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:41 AM
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Meanwhile I have a bf that cries and it makes me want to comfort him and hold him and give him affection. I enjoy feeling nurturing during these times since he doesn’t treat me like his second mom. He actually helps out with chores n stuff too so it’s not like I have to mother him 24/7. Being your partner’s parent is never attractive unless it’s a kink for you. Stop going after the women who think that it’s a bad thing for guys to be emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:30 AM
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Too many men think porn is a manual on how to have sex and anyone following Andrew Tate and the like think the female orgasm is fake. Also listen to your missus. Stop thinking all women work the same. Just because one method worked for others doesn’t mean it will work for her. Like some women for example don’t jive with clitoral stimulation even though most do. Don’t be selfish. Warm up your lady and don’t demand certain sexual acts. I bet more women would be willing to give blowjobs and the lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 01:15 AM
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How many women have you spoken to that told you they get 50 tinder matches in one day? Lol I was on free bumble dating site back in the day as a woman and I got like two guys who talked to me and it wasn’t anything sexual even lol. One guy I explained what negging was and we had a conversation about pick up artists.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:21 PM
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I live with my bf and it’s chill. We get along great. We sleep in the same bed too and prefer it. The only issue is sometimes i go to bed later than him because I am a night owl but he’s a pretty heavy sleeper.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:17 PM
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I don’t think the same women wanting to be single are the same ones looking for relationships. But in general, a bad relationship is always worse than being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:13 PM
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Yeah exactly. I used to work in retail and customers trying to talk to me while I was helping them was very grating lol. If I talked back, I would make mistakes at my job. And sometimes I’d have coworkers who were probably on the spectrum who would be way too chatty as well and I felt bad for feeling annoyed lol. And also my bf has a gaming group and I tried to play with them a few times but I get overwhelmed easily in social situations especially with people I don’t know well. He has one friend…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:55 PM
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Also more women go undiagnosed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:08 AM
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I am only attracted to my partner lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:48 AM
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Dude no. Stop lusting after teens.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:46 AM
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My bf isn’t into teens thankfully lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:45 AM
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My. BF made plenty of female friends with video games lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:40 AM
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But there’s way too many men who think women are inferior to them anyways so not sure if that’s acceptance. Just saw a video where a dude claimed he thought his wife had no capacity for reason for ten years of their marriage lol. He apparently thought all women had no reason capabilities. Also I’m adhd and have sensory issues so I can’t stand people who talk too much or are too awkward even though sometimes I talk too much and am awkward. Though I’m a bit more self aware than some. My bf is adhd…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:17 PM
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Yes but cheating doesn’t just suddenly happen because you lost attraction. I’m sure some cheaters were like that but usually cheating happens because the cheater is insecure. People have cheated even if their partner is super attractive and great overall. Op’s post implies that cheating is based on what the person cheated on did or didn’t do. In reality, no matter what you do you can’t fix someone’s mental state.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:31 PM
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My advice is understand everyone is different, be respectful, stop relying on porn to define your standards for dating and sex, don’t expect sex just because you are nice. Be nice/respectful to everyone unless they are a really bad person. Oh and stop trying to find a date 24/7. Focus on making friends with all the sexes and get to know people. Eventually you will click with someone. Me and my bf found each other on reddit lol. We weren’t even looking for a partner. It just happened naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 12:55 PM
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Nah. Me and my bf both are goofy and cutesy and take care of each other. I could never call him daddy lol would be weird. We’re only a couple years apart and he’s younger lol. Also the red pill literally says treat women like children because women are emotional and not logical so it is being dismissive and sexist. But yea I prefer an equal relationship. In fact I feel bad for my bf right now cause I’m struggling to find a new job. I wanna help out too and not rely on him for everything. We are …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 12:41 PM
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Cheating ain’t based on attraction. It’s based on insecurity within the cheater. Cheating is purely a selfish and often cowardly act. It is never the fault of the person being cheated on unless they were like really abusive or some shit. I cheated once when I was in highschool. It wasn’t based on attraction. It was based on me being a confused teenager who didn’t know what she wanted and didn’t understand how to take relationships seriously. And I was too cowardly to break up. After that I never…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 12:27 PM
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Well some men think that just by having sex and orgasming themselves then the sex was good enough for their lady. But no, that’s not how it works. Porn and the objectification of women in general has caused many men to be self centered when it comes to sex and many women even fake orgasms to end bad sex. Many women don’t even know what good sex is. There are men who do know how to please their lady but honestly not enough lol. You also got Andrew Tate followers saying that the female orgasm isn’…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:18 AM
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Whether he was physically abusive or not, their marriage was strained already. He didn’t just snap. He was unhappy about it and decided to cheat and had a huge ego. He saw his family as his own property that he could destroy. Instead of fessing up to his wrongdoings or divorcing his wife, he decided to rid himself of the problem completely. He was a psychotic coward.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 05:26 PM
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Porn addiction is becoming a huge issue so yeah many men don’t want sex with real women. Or at least they don’t want a monogamous sexual relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:57 AM
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That’s because those men are abusive and controlling and would still be abusive even if she wasn’t pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:54 AM
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Men who treat pregnant women this way will also treat non-pregnant women this way. The only thing that bothers me right now concerning pregnancy is the dumb abortion ban that’s forcing people to give birth no matter what. They also want to get rid of birth control. Lol talk about impending low birth rates. Sex will be too risky.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:43 AM
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Rom coms aren’t real life. I’d advise to not use them as dating tips. In many the guy will harass a woman and the movie will spin it as a romantic gesture lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:39 AM
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Yes I went to another country for a month and my bf never cheated. He thought of me and missed me. I didn’t cheat either and was okay even though I was never alone in my room cause it’s a small room I shared with Family. We also were LDR in the beginning and saw each other twice a year for two years and no cheating or discussion of open relationships happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 05:30 AM
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Everyone should do what they can to help. One person shouldn’t do all the chores. Split your laundry, clean your plate after eating, help out with chores on non work days, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 05:14 AM
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Eh I personally have always been into shy guys who aren’t aggressive but aren’t extremely passive either. My bf was shy but was the first to tell me his feelings even though I was the first to flirt with him. I wouldn’t have minded approaching him but I have a low self esteem of myself so it was difficult. I woulda been into him either way. He showed interest a lot too but I was in denial of it at the time lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 05:10 AM
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It’s possible she did many times but he dismissed her feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 05:02 AM
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Idk cause like Terry Crews struggled with a porn addiction. You calling him a low value unattractive guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 04:48 AM
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I would be put off by the random lying lol. It would make me question his mental stability and I’d be wondering what other random thing will he lie about next.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:50 PM
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I am 100% turned off by the stereotypical masculine man trait. Also younger women have different tastes than the previous generation of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:01 AM
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Insecurity isn’t attractive unless you’re specifically looking for insecure people to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 01:57 AM
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???I am a woman and I am confused. I have never told my bf what to wear or eat or questioned his whereabouts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 04:42 AM
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We’re living in a society that is both harming men and women but at least men aren’t having their reproductive rights slowly being taken away. I hope they come out with the male birth control soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:32 PM
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Op probably is attracted to all his female friends though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:30 PM
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Most women do not lol. Only the crazy women do and maybe dumb teenagers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 10:01 AM
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I’m a woman and I once dated a guy I thought was pretty great at the time and then when we kissed I felt awkward. He was all tongue like a dog. But I was a teenager at the time so I don’t think I was even emotionally mature enough to have a long term relationship. I also realized that although romantically he was sweet, he has some weird ass ideologies and also was kinda too clingy. We met online btw. I wasn’t even paying attention to his looks. Also I was friends with plenty of guys I wouldn’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 05:00 AM
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My bf says more girls crushed on him than he crushed on them lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 12:07 AM
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Elliot was psychotic. That was his issue. No same person kills people over being a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 11:02 PM
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Um Elliot was also a crazy psycopath. Not a good example.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 10:58 PM
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If a woman were to use a man for sex then yeah she’d be an asshole too. You know why? Cause it’s premeditated. The whole not feeling up to sex thing is most likely not premeditated. Could be they didn’t feel well or some shit. Using someone for only sex usually is premeditated. But if they were using someone to only get a free meal and shit then yeah they’d also be an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 11:58 PM
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/r/redpillwomen exists so I’m sure you’ll find someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 08:31 PM
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obviously those are great or we wouldn't have married them. Lol not always the case sadly. Many people are like: my husband treats me very shittily 20% of the time but other than that he’s wonderful!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 08:21 PM
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It’s the same with men. Also same with porn addiction. If you’re always craving variety you ain’t gonna be satisfied with one person.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 01:17 PM
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But he finds her attractive. That’s what matters. Doesn’t matter what you personally think. If he’s attracted to her then it’s a win-win for him. Human beings aren’t collectible items.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 12:55 AM
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Yo you do know that love exists right? Lol. Also he’s clearly into her my dude even if you aren’t. Imagine being this bitter lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:07 PM
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Also he used to be a dude who bragged about being a virgin and pretended to be an anime character in college lol. He was a biiig loser virgin incel type of dude then. Now he’s matured more but still is a but cringy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 03:58 PM
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He ain’t that jacked lol. He’s fit in a normal way as in he goes to the gym regularly. Not like he’s got huge muscles or tons of abs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 03:55 PM
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My guy, gay dudes exist too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 01:33 PM
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Actually autistic women exist more than you think but it doesn’t show as much as in men. Even other men can tell you may be autistic if you are presenting certain behaviors. I’m a woman with adhd and people can definitely tell when I can’t shut up about certain topics lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 01:25 PM
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It just means all animals have their own way when it comes to sex and relationships. Many animals mate for life for example and in some animal species gay relationships are more prevalent like in giraffes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 01:16 PM
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Well luckily there's like more than 6 billion people on this earth so your own experience doesn't count for the whole. Also moistcritikal is short and has a gf lol. She was his gf before his youtube popularity.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 12:22 PM
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Then you don’t understand humans. Just because you don’t see him as appealing doesn’t mean that she feels the same way. What are you? The love police? Plenty of people are in love with people that many people aren’t attracted to. We humans cannot be put into one box. We are all different.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 08:44 AM
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It’s called keeping up appearances when in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 10:16 PM
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Dude stop trying to defend why you wanna go after teenagers. It’s creepy. Life experience when you’re 30 is different than life experience when you’re 19. Also the brain doesn’t fully develop until you are like 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 10:14 PM
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Humor and similar interests. When I was in highschool I literally crushed on a guy cause he did Naruto hand signs one day lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 10:11 PM
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Yeah i feel you on that. I think people who need constant validation from strangers probably don’t belong in many monogamous relationships but yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:20 PM
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That stache is terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:52 AM
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Gross. Not into dudes who constantly need validation on their looks and who look like a douche lol. Also personality matters a ton to me so yeah no thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:51 AM
1

Not all marriages are like this. No one is forcing you to get with a lazy sexist guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:50 AM
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Eh i’m a woman and didn’t have sex till my 20’s i do think clubs are made for hookup culture though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:40 AM
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It’s still choice with men. You don’t just slip and fall and have your dick land in a vagina
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:38 AM
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You know back in the day men would marry children and you could use the same argument here that the child got his protection and shit so it’s okay but it’s not. If you’re going after vulnerable people on purpose and using them for sex then you are indeed a predator.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 11:34 PM
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Gotta go with that then. Can’t be with someone with a shitty personality lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 01:56 AM
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Anyone can cheat. That view point of yours is a bit toxic imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:32 PM
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What’s their personality like?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:31 PM
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I try to be. I try to treat my partner the way I want to be treated. Sometimes I can be a brat though lol but it’s usually my adhd talking.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 04:41 PM
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As a woman I dated my bf while he was broke and in college and i was working a part time job. We’re still together years later trying to figure our stuff out. My love for him hasn’t wavered and I feel bad that currently he is the main provider since he is making like 60k a year and I am currently looking for a job to help. I think money is useful in long term relationships but it can come from either or both parties. Also pewdiepie from youtube used to be very broke. Him and his gf used to live …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 09:06 AM
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I am a romantic woman. I compliment my bf a lot and have taken him out on dates and even gave him flowers and random gifts. He does the same for me. I comfort him when he cries and shower him with affection. He does the same for me. So don’t lump all women together.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:47 AM
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I think a big contributor to many dead bedrooms in the current timeline is porn because porn addiction is a thing that many men (and women) have sadly and it can cause issues with real life sex. I don’t think it has much to do with how people look. Porn causes people to change how they view sex and people in general. Many men use porn as a coping method from childhood trauma similar to how people cope with drugs and alcohol but porn is more accessible. Just wait till we get porn on A.R. Headsets…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:42 AM
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I have never paid attention to how my bf’s height compares to others lol. He’s 5”7 and that’s totally okay with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 08:26 PM
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For me I am more attracted to personality first and looks come second. My current bf of 5 years was a guy I met on this site. We were friends for a year and never saw what each other looked like but I started crushing on him later on because of his humor, support, morals, adorableness, intelligence, interests, etc. when we decided to date we webcammed for the first time and he turned out to be a skinny nerdy guy which I actually prefer over some gym bro. I am a slim nerdy girl as well. When we m…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 08:18 PM
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If you’re talking about me then no. I don’t wear skimpy outfits but plenty of women do. Crop tops are still popular for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 09:02 AM
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Gotta say that is kinda predatory behavior to specifically look for insecure people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 01:32 AM
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Seems you expect less so that they only depend on you so you can feel more secure by making them insecure but okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 01:25 AM
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For me I am more attracted to personality first and looks come second. My current bf of 5 years was a guy I met on this site. We were friends for a year and never saw what each other looked like but I started crushing on him later on because of his humor, support, morals, adorableness, intelligence, interests, etc. when we decided to date we webcammed for the first time and he turned out to be a skinny nerdy guy which I actually prefer over some gym bro. I am a slim nerdy girl as well. When we m…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 12:45 AM
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My father was a deadbeat and I never slept around lol or went after older dudes. Everyone’s experiences are different. I just moved on after finding out how shitty he is as a person. Washed my hands of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 12:19 AM
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Depends on the reason lol. There are good ways to gently manipulate people into bettering themselves for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 12:14 AM
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I am not attracted to guys who see me as some emotional child/pet who shouldn’t be taken seriously or who think I should have no say in stuff. I avoided gym bros or frat boys when I was single.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 12:13 AM
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Awful take. Sex doesn’t guarantee a serious relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 12:06 AM
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Exactly. Also clothes can be EXPENSIVE. You’re expecting them to change their whole wardrobe?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 12:02 AM
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Like with any boundaries you can ask but can’t constantly enforce. Also don’t date people if they already dress in a way you don’t approve of. Same goes for hair styles and makeup and tattoos. Heck, even hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 12:00 AM
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Kinda scary take not gonna lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 11:51 PM
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Nah. That ain’t me. I prefer guys who actually respect me as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 07:27 PM
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As a woman, NAWALT. As soon as someone’s a jerk/asshole I’m out. Thankfully I’ve never had to deal with dating jerky dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 11:29 AM
1

did you accidentally a word?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 06:47 PM
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It’s not just the money. It’s what he does with it. He’s a kind hearted dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 02:30 AM
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Is your instagram feed of naked girls and your pornhub searches indicative of what you want in a relationship? Porn doesn’t follow real world logic. There are women heavily into the omegaverse fanfics and they’re not looking for guys who can give birth through their butt.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 12:45 AM
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I am the same way with the “partners name-sexual” bit. I need emotional bonds. They mean more than physical characteristics.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 12:40 AM
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I’ve always believed in the concept of toxic masculinity before I was on the pill. The only thing the pill changed was taking away my periods lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 12:39 AM
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What organism are you trying to buy and why do only prostitutes have it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 12:25 AM
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There’s a myth about men that they always enjoy sexual advances from women. Just like there’s the myth that women always choose the jerk.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 12:15 AM
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I don’t cold approach or like being cold approached by anyone no matter what they look like. Just leave me be. I don’t date strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:58 PM
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Why are you upset that women can decide to not have sex? That should always be a thing. Consent is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:29 PM
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How long have you guys been together? He sounds very insecure. I did this by accident too and my bf didn’t say a word.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/21 06:44 PM
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Have your sons bake and cook as well. All children should learn in case they are single and don’t know how to cook. Have them both tidy up as well. Cleaning is important. If your girls wanna play sports let them. There’s nothing wrong with being strong. Have them do martial arts for self defense and discipline. Also do not punish any of your children for not turning into your dream kids. Children don’t exist for you to live vicariously through. They are their own people.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/21 10:24 AM
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Don’t do anything just to make him happy. If you aren’t comfortable doing it, don’t push yourself. A good man is not happy when his partner is uncomfortable. Also explore your own body first and make sure that he does focus on you as well when you start getting intimate. Don’t jump to sex right away. Explore each other first. A man who jumps to sex first is someone who only cares about his pleasure. Start with fingers first and use lube. Do let him know that you are a virgin and don’t let him pr…
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/21 09:29 AM
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Ask him what he prefers.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/21 09:20 AM
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Julie Andrews has a nice classy voice.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/20 08:36 AM
1

You must watch Rick and Morty.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/19 11:48 PM
1

I will say marriage after three months seems really soon. I’d be concerned as your parents because of this aspect. But you just have to let them know how happy you are
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/19 01:51 AM
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Your attempts at trolling are awful. -0/10
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 11:22 PM
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Ha ha i think you should be redirected to Diff subreddit like braincels or iamverybadass. Calm down bro.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 11:14 PM
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I think the idea that only adults should be having sex is unrealistic. There are individuals who feel the need to explore with various people before they settle down. Sure, when you’re inexperienced your first partner seems great but for some they may long to have certain things that their sexual partner can’t provide. They may be bisexual and are the type of bisexual person to long for sexual relations with the other sex. They might have kinks that their current partner isn’t sexually into. Lik…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 10:02 PM
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They probably lie to you because you seem desperate as hell and really insecure. Spoiler alert: you are.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 09:50 PM
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I mean I personally prefer guys who aren’t super masculine and leadershippy. Everyone has different preferences. Also her second example has nothing to do with being “beta/unmasculine” and has everything to do with the guy being a jerk.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/18 09:31 PM
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And the first subreddit you come to is this one? Oh boy.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 10:50 PM
2

The grammar's terrible, sir.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 10:28 PM
1

Plates are women you have casual sex with.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 10:27 PM
1

We’ve known each other for lil more than a year so we have been saying we love each other.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/18 10:17 PM
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My ldr boyfriend has many insecurities. I have some of my own. I encourage him to speak to me about his feelings and to not hide them. When he’s upset, it makes me want to love and comfort him even more. Sometimes it’ll end up with us both crying over skype call. We’ve been together for like three months and he always thinks I’ll leave him due to these emotional outbursts. But I love him. I never expected him to be free of insecurities. I knew he was struggling with depression and such when we w…
/r/ExRedPill05/06/18 06:20 PM
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