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I don't think you necessarily have to let her go. It sounds like she is into you, however is does not sound like she is good gf material. Keep her around but don't give her the relationship interest anymore. Be her friend and let her know that you are cool if she has a boyfriend but you will not be chasing her around like a puppy. If she wants you she's gonna have to come to you. In the meanwhile keep doing your thing. I don't think you did anything wrong, you thought you guys were on a date and…
/r/seduction17/06/12 02:51 PM
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Be careful with bartenders. They are used to getting hit on all the time. They will lead you on just for the tip. I'm not saying she might not be in to you, i'm simply giving you a word of caution. My suggestion is never expect to do anything with a bartender and simply use them as practice. Even better, friend them and they can give you value if you become a regular.
/r/seduction17/06/12 02:39 PM
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Join a dance club. I'm not kidding one bit. I used to not be able to dance until I started attending Bachata classes later went on and started dancing salsa. You meet so many great people there and yes there are also people your age that attend these clubs. It's a great way to start because everybody is there to learn. So you automatically have something in common. Women love a guy that can dance. Once you learn to dance, which in all forms of dancing it requires the man to lead, then you will a…
/r/seduction09/06/12 02:12 PM
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You call her tomorrow, say whats up! I'm the dude from the mall, how are you? Talk to her as if you were talking to your best friend or sister. Try and have a conversation with her without interrogating her. Don't just ask questions, talk so that she has to respond to what you say. Easier said than done, but once you do it enough it eventually becomes the easiest thing. Here's what you want to happen, you want to call, not have her pick up, leave a voicemail and wait to see if she calls. If she …
/r/seduction02/06/12 04:51 AM
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This book made me understand women from a whole new perspective. I have been so much more successful with women because of it. Highly recommended.
/r/seduction02/06/12 04:42 AM
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"You miss 100% of the shots you don't take." That quote has brought me really far.
/r/seduction02/06/12 04:35 AM
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lol
/r/seduction02/06/12 04:27 AM
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The correct thing to do is call her tomorrow (if your up for it I know it's not easy at first). If you call you will be more secure of yourself and probably even throw her off guard. If she has some sort of interest in you she will be glad to have a conversation with you. If you feel like she is trying avoid you then so be it, let her go. Shoot her a text a couple days later and wait and see. Also if she does not answer, leave a voicemail. If she does not call back, move on. And yes, that polish…
/r/seduction02/06/12 04:26 AM
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I think you misread day game with video game lol. As far as the judging about calling part, it's sad but true. They might not judge consciously but it is something women judge subconsciously. It's stupid I know, but if your looking to play the game then you gotta play the game as it is intended to be played.
/r/seduction02/06/12 04:21 AM
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I would say this is not the correct thing to do. He just got her number he should wait a day or two. If he texts her now he's gonna show her that he has nothing better to do with himself on a friday night than text her. You don't want that because 1 you look like a loser and 2 you look needy and asking for attention. Wait till tomorrow and send her something personal that you guys spoke about when you met her. I wouldn't recommend asking a questions cause that put's her in control whether she sh…
/r/seduction02/06/12 03:56 AM
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Perfectly stated.
/r/seduction02/06/12 02:23 AM
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Think about it. When you first see a woman you notice her physicality, her curves, her posture. You also notice the way that she dresses and the way that she smiles. Well, since first impressions are usually from a visual perspective, then she notices the same thing. If you look good on the outside then she will want to check out some more on the inside.
/r/seduction02/06/12 02:10 AM
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I was in a similar situation when I was in high school. Here are 2 tips I wish I knew back then. Relax, your making this a bigger deal for what it really is. There's nothing wrong with being a virgin, your life doesn't dramatically change just because you're not. Unfortunately this kind of mentality is put upon by society. You, and only you, can change this mentality and begin to get comfortable with yourself. Which leads me to my next point. Do not make women your priority. Find hobbies, exerci…
/r/seduction02/06/12 01:53 AM
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I'm planning on doing a post very soon about my transformation. I was going through my facebook timeline the other day and it really showed my how different I have become, all the way from my posture to the clothes I wear to the smile on my face. I'm not where I want to be just yet but I feel I will get there soon.
/r/seduction26/05/12 09:56 PM
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This kind of material doesnt just help you with women, it completely redesign the way that you view yourself and the world.
/r/seduction16/05/12 04:50 PM
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Stealth Attraction
/r/seduction16/05/12 04:45 PM
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Can you elaborate on your over thinking? What do you think about when your having a conversation with a woman?
/r/seduction15/05/12 09:18 PM
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Upvotes for everyone!
/r/seduction15/05/12 09:16 PM
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Wow never really looked at it from this perspective. Makes complete sense, thank you.
/r/seduction15/05/12 02:46 PM
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I do the same thing. Just win them over by being awesome.
/r/seduction13/05/12 10:59 PM
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Exactly.
/r/seduction12/05/12 11:56 AM
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The Way of the Superior Man
/r/seduction09/05/12 03:23 PM
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What is your ultimate goal?
/r/seduction09/05/12 02:36 PM
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This is absolutely 100% true.
/r/seduction03/05/12 04:09 AM
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Here's what you need to do. Disappear for a while, stop hitting her up and show her that you can be an independent man that has other priorities. I know this is really difficult to do because you may think that you have done everything right and that she should be into you, and she might be, but she wants to know that you can do your own thing. I say you need to disappear for a while, don't call or text or facebook message. Don't ever update your facebook status, simply disappear. If she is real…
/r/seduction30/04/12 02:11 PM
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I got started off with The Game (obviously) just like a million other poeople. It helps you get an insight of what it it's like, the books gives many useful tips that you can apply to everyday life. Then I went on to reading a book called "The Way of the Superior Man" this is an amazing book which helps you understand yourself as a man and also how to perceive women in a very beautiful way. If it's one thing that I have noticed however it is that no matter how much I read material if I didn't ha…
/r/seduction25/04/12 03:20 PM
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Hello, my name is...
/r/seduction17/04/12 08:08 PM
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Girls will melt over a guy that can dance salsa. Especially one that can lead. I cannot express this enough.
/r/seduction11/04/12 03:07 PM
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This deserves a spot on the sidebar.
/r/seduction11/04/12 03:50 AM
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Work on yourself. Once you do that, the rest comes naturally.
/r/seduction04/04/12 03:17 PM
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Don't hate.
/r/seduction29/03/12 06:16 PM
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The best way to overcome this problem is to do the opposite. Rather than looking for their imperfections try to find something good and unique about them, don't be afraid to tell them either. You have to teach yourself to have this mentality, eventually it naturally happens.
/r/seduction26/03/12 12:24 AM
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Very nice, keep up the good work. The more that you do, the easier it gets.
/r/seduction26/03/12 12:20 AM
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Is this you OP?
/r/seduction23/03/12 07:48 PM
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Great post, thanks for taking the time to write this. I've been participating in seddit for around 2 months now and it has helped tremendously. It helps when people put up success stories because I am on the same path. Good luck on yours!
/r/seduction21/03/12 03:13 PM
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Incredible. Thank you!
/r/seduction21/03/12 03:00 PM
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Excellent great job. You kept her curiosity running wild to the point where she admitted it! You started off really strong in the texts and I noticed it began losing momentum. I think you dragged the not answering questions a little too much, you should have said "Ok I'll answer one question, Make a good one!" That is my only criticism and I apologize, I only do it to help :) As far as the boyfriend thing it's not a big deal. Your only showing her the door, she has to walk through it ;) If she d…
/r/seduction16/03/12 04:39 AM
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Very good. Thanks for sharing.
/r/seduction16/03/12 04:18 AM
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One of Mysterys and Styles way of approaching was saying "If I wasn't gay you would be so mine". They would leave her curiosity running wild the entire night until they finally they found out for sure later in the night. You have to leave room for the imagination. Remember, nothing is official until the words come out of your own mouth. So as testudinidae put it "Only one way for her to find out for sure, right?"
/r/seduction16/03/12 03:57 AM
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Women are cruel creatures. I'm sorry that you had to learn this the hard way. I think every guy has been friendzoned atleast once in their lifetime. Your giving the right advice. You can sit down and have a serious conversation and tell her how you feel (which is probably gonna go nowhere) You can simply show up at her place and as soon as she opens the door, without saying anything, you kiss her. She will either kiss you back, or push you off. This is risky it can either go really well or reall…
/r/seduction15/03/12 07:21 PM
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Unless he's actually interested in her and doesn't want a hit and run. It sounds to me like the OP likes this person enough to want to have a relationship. Hence why he is worrying about the "too much going on in my life" line.
/r/seduction15/03/12 06:56 PM
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Sounds to me like a very successful day. Starting off talking to guys is a good way to start and it seems that you accomplished a lot on your very first day. Speaking to guys is much easier and it can become an art of it's own because later in the future when you begin to master your skills and see a woman with a bunch of guys, you will be able to approach and talk to the guys in order to get to the women. So all in all this is good practice. My recommendation is talk to everyone. Doesn't matter…
/r/seduction14/03/12 03:22 PM
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Every one of the people that have commented here is right. Follow what they say and it will help you turn your life around.
/r/seduction14/03/12 03:01 PM
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Congratulations man. Seddit has the potential to help a lot of people but everything depends on the individual whether they want to change or not is all up to you. I was in your position once and then began getting my game on and now I have no problem approaching, talking, and closing. It's really easy once you get enough practice. Anyways, it's stories like this that make me content. Keep up the good work and just be yourself.
/r/seduction14/03/12 02:55 PM
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Uuuu...she said hi to you and you didn't say hello back?
/r/seduction14/03/12 03:51 AM
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Exactly what I was gonna say.
/r/seduction13/03/12 05:49 PM
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Cut all contact until she gets a hold of you.
/r/seduction13/03/12 05:41 PM
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Ok first of all, you need to work on your mentality. Reading this made me feel sad for you because you made yourself seem pathetic. That's the problem, and that's why your not grinding on any girls. If you want to start grinding on girls you gotta first change the way that you perceive yourself. Start seeing yourself as a confident person and don't be intimidated by rejection, everyone gets rejected starting out. But you have to stop using words like "My own patheticness" and you don't have to b…
/r/seduction13/03/12 03:09 AM
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Wow, thank you for writing this. Very informative and many people can learn a lot from this.
/r/seduction13/03/12 02:21 AM
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Thank you for writing this. I can't thank you enough.
/r/seduction04/03/12 01:12 AM
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I've had the same problem. I would assume that it is an insecurity. I think about it and tell myself I don't need it, but when I don't have it I feel like I need it. It's really fucking annoying. My problem may come from porn though, as someone else on the forum mentioned, porn distorts your perception of sex. We feel like we have to live up to those expectations or something. So if you watch a lot of porn I would recommend to do your best to stop it. It takes time but It's totally worth it. Thi…
/r/seduction04/03/12 01:04 AM
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I got out of a relationship 6 months ago and now I'm on the top of my game. I set goals for myself. I knew that I wanted to start making more friends that were women and I wanted to live the single life. I read "The Game" (obviously) which helped me understand women and build up confidence. I took initiative, I started going into forums like (pick-up-artist-forum.com) which has all the answers to all of our questions. I also began coming to this forum and learning much from other sedditors. The …
/r/seduction02/03/12 07:26 PM
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Don't waist anymore time. Go for the kiss, she's obviously into you. There's a number of reasons why she would tell your sister that she isn't in to you..number 1 being...that she's your sister lol. Number 2...she want's to keep it on the down low. You never know, the only thing that you do know is that she has given you the signals, so go for it. The worst that could happen is that you go for the kiss and she pulls back and says "what are you doing, I just wanna be friends?" if that happens, yo…
/r/seduction02/03/12 06:34 PM
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My one concern is that she knows me from a very prim, proper, professional environment. This shouldn't be a concern. You can actually use this to your advantage. You now contain the element of surprise. Just be yourself and show that you can be a fun guy. Show her that you are professional at work yet very fun outside of work. This will make her realize that you are really responsible. As far as k-closing, stand tall, throw a couple negs, do some kino (hand on the shoulder is the easiest, howeve…
/r/seduction01/03/12 08:22 PM
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Same exact boat. Not sure what to do either.
/r/seduction28/02/12 03:55 AM
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Regarding the "friend zoned" guy. I know exactly what you mean. A couple weeks ago I experienced the same thing where a friend of mine (girl) had her guy friend completely wrapped around her finger. I stared at him, almost sympathizing because it reminded me of myself a couple months ago. It made me a bit angry to see the way that he was treated because it was almost as if he was being taken advantage of. As if it was the girls way of making herself look or feel better. I kinda jumped in the guy…
/r/seduction27/02/12 09:42 PM
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