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STAY WOKEWittyImprovement/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 06:54 PM
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QUEEN SH*TWittyImprovement/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 03:46 AM
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DISCUSSIONWittyImprovement/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 03:24 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYWittyImprovement/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 11:11 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYWittyImprovement/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 02:17 AM
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DISCUSSIONWittyImprovement/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 03:45 PM
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FDS HUMORWittyImprovement/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 05:55 PM
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MESSAGE FOR MALE LURKERSWittyImprovement/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 10:09 PM
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FINE AF FRIDAYSWittyImprovement/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 03:07 PM
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WittyImprovement/r/askFDS01/05/21 06:09 PM
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 REDDIT HATES WOMENWittyImprovement/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 08:07 PM
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PORN SICK, LIMP DICKWittyImprovement/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 02:44 AM
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REMINDER 👑WittyImprovement/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 12:03 AM
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LVM LOGICWittyImprovement/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 11:49 PM
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SHOWER THOUGHTWittyImprovement/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 07:49 PM
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DISCUSSIONWittyImprovement/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 03:45 PM
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DISCUSSIONWittyImprovement/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 05:08 PM
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feeling as though they don't deserve a HVM. I can't speak for others but I have internally felt sometimes that I have to compromise on other standards that I have for a partner because childfree men are very rare as it is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 07:32 PM
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I don’t usually share personal details in my reddit but I think it’s important to be an example and to vocalize what a childfree yet committed life looks like. Totally agree. Thanks for sharing you story! I do tend to wonder if I will ever meet anyone who wants a serious relationship but not kids because all the childfree men I meet aren't serious relationship oriented and the men who do want something serious want kids in the future. I think my age (early 20s) may have something to do with it t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 06:15 PM
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That's nice! How did you meet him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 05:55 PM
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I'm interested in marriage though, just not parenthood. As for partners? Yes, absolutely. I've had fantastic relationships with several CF men. If you don't mind me asking, what were the reasons for them ending?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 05:07 PM
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A good filter Ive found is saying I will never have kids. Dudes who were totally fine not having kids will suddenly start up 20 questions of 'why not?', 'are you sure?', and 'not even someday?'. If they've shown themselves to be decent otherwise, this has served me very well. I don't know if I'm misunderstanding your comment but if they keep questioning why you don't want kids then isn't that a bad thing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 05:05 PM
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Loved this episode!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 12:18 AM
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HAHA love this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 01:28 PM
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This isn't about women individually being sexist. This is about whether or not men are systemically discriminated against
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 01:28 PM
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No that's all he does for facial skincare. He doesn't use moisturizer or sunscreen. Thankfully he actually uses a body wash and deodorant so he doesn't smell like literal dogshit but still. It's not that hard to at least moisturize
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 12:43 AM
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My brother literally washes his face with water and calls it a day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 12:36 AM
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Think my phone's messed up cuz pics got posted out of order but the last one should be the second photo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 10:11 PM
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When my ex and I broke up we wanted to stay friends but as more time passed from the breakup, the less I wanted to keep a Friendship. I do not consider us friends. At most - acquaintances on good terms. I agree that there's really no good reason to stay friends with an ex other than common kids. My ex and I just follow eo on LinkedIn and a few other social medias (I actually have him muted on one because in the initial stages of the breakup it was too hard for me to see his stories). The main re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 05:28 PM
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If only they actually had wallets to guard in the first place 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 03:07 AM
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MGTOW is really just Men Getting Triggered Over Women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 11:05 PM
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Scrotes mad because they know that more women having higher standards means they'll either have to step up and be better partners or stay single forever. Ladies it's working!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 12:52 AM
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I saw a thread on another sub a while back that was discussing coffee/walk vs dinner dates. One dude literally said he prefers coffee dates so he doesn't spend hundreds of dollars on multiple women. He literally told on himself. Refusing coffee and walk dates is actually a good vetting strategy for this reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 09:57 PM
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I don't share my standards with anyone for this reason. I've shared some with my friends but not all. I don't need to justify why I'll date or not date someone if it doesn't affect anyone other than me. As for my 'unhealthy' standards here they are: -regularly works out -abs and muscular arms (but not too much. I don't really like the bodybuilder type) -at least 5'8 -not fat but not skinny -either slight beard scruff or clean shaven. Not into the Santa beard look -has proper personal hygiene, sk…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 05:36 PM
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Men are so out of touch with reality. They seriously think women start decomposing at the seams the minute they turn 30
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 03:30 PM
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Let's normalize calling ourselves bachelorettes because single ladies are living it up 🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 03:23 PM
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“Comments in your code are like sex — even when they’re bad, they’re better than nothing.” Of course tech bros would say that. Just another reason to date outside of my career
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 03:01 PM
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Great post! If you really examine most tv show relationships with an FDS lens you can see how a lot of the couples in the media we are fed are not 'goals'. Another thing I've noticed is that whenever a couple is actually somewhat high-effort and high value, people consider them 'boring'. I think Chandler and Monica from friends are a good example of this. People in the friends fandom often call mondler boring and say roschel is better. The argument I see is that 'monica and chandler are stable a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 02:36 PM
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Agreed. I would not do this for a guy I've already dated. Once I'm done with someone I'm done. The max contact I'm okay with keeping is following eo on social media/LinkedIn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 02:14 PM
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This is why I made a separate account to browse non-FDS subs. This account is only for FDS, it's sister subs, and a few other really small subs. I got tired of being trolled on random posts solely for being an FDS member. I still get annoying men coming at me in my DMs but what can I say? Trolls gonna keep trolling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 02:10 PM
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Lol she actually reacted to this video on her Instagram story and roasted that scrote. Look at the 'Not a dog' highlights on her page if you want to see. Also if any mods are reading my comment, y'all should consider asking her the be on the FDS podcast if you do an episode specifically about high standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 03:31 AM
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When will people understand that women paying for dates isn't gonna bring equality? It's not gonna dismantle the patriarchy or end misogyny. It's not going to change the world that we live in. I wouldn't have an issue paying every now and then in an established relationship but not because of 'equality' it's because I like doing nice things for my SO and that's part of it for me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 12:40 PM
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"if he wanted to he would" should apply to friendships with women too imo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 03:09 AM
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I won't let this be me. I refuse to settle for a man who doesn't do his share of household chores. I think marriage with the right person could be a wonderful thing but I'm not gonna desperately chase men just because of that. I'll live my life until it happens if it does
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 01:35 AM
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I totally agree. I think I'm blessed to live in the US for this reason because my parents have to suck it up and be open minded to the idea of dating or me marrying someone outside of my race. Arranged marriage is the norm for pretty much all my extended family except my cousins that moved out of India to the west
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 01:26 AM
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This is one of the million reasons I'll never get an arranged marriage (I'm indian too). The type of men that are presented for it have little to nothing to offer a woman. One of my aunt's really complained that she couldn't find a match for her son and that the women were 'too picky'. Meanwhile her son aka my second cousin was hella overweight and couldn't hold down a job
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 08:45 PM
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Yess! I'm surprised at the number of pro-OLD posts I've seen on this sub lately. Not referring to OP btw
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 06:12 PM
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Porn issues aside, if a woman is willingly having sex with a man then he is desirable to her. At least that's how it should be because why the fuck would you have sex with someone you're not attracted to?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 03:25 PM
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I have strong opinions on my dating standards and part of that is thanks to FDS. I've casually mentioned some of them to my girl friends and they agree with some. But others end with heated conversations. For example, when I said that men should make the first move and propose for marriage, one friend got super defensive and said that 'it's not a man's job'. Sure maybe it's not but countless anecdotal evidence proves that women making the first move doesn't lead to quality relationships. Anyways…
/r/askFDS11/06/21 01:14 PM
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Bold of you to assume they have jobs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 10:58 PM
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When will they understand than matches != Boyfriends. I've gotten hundreds of matches on tinder and bumble individually. A lot of them never bothered messaging or stopped replying after a few messages. Maybe 20-30 guys asked to move to a different form of communication besides the dating app. And then around 10 guys asked me on a date. And then literally 0 of those situations turned into relationships. Sure if I used dating apps long enough and met enough men I could probably get a boyfriend but…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 10:34 PM
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I'm sorry to hear that 😔 I truly enjoy reading your posts. I'm going to miss them and you! I understand why you're doing this and I hope your mental well-being improves. I look forward to all the future content ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 07:16 PM
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I hold potential romantic prospects to the same standards that I hold myself to so no it is not unrealistic for me to want a pornfree man who can wash his ass and is well educated (I look for other things on top of that obv but I ain't gonna list it all out now)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 02:35 AM
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I have a list on my phone of 5 good reasons to remind myself never to use OLD This is a smart idea. I'm going to do this too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 02:59 PM
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Also I think not using OLD allows people to develop better social skills because you're not hiding behind a screen. I know it's easier said than done and I'm not perfect myself but I think pushing myself out of my comfort zone to expand my circle will be a more fruitful experience
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 01:51 PM
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One of my old roommates used to take birth control everyday despite not having sex to avoid forced pregnancy through rape
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 01:48 PM
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I didn't know that. Do they have to provide verification though or can they get away with lying?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 12:09 PM
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Except my best friend and my boyfriend are encouraging me to accept him and if he reaches out to rekindle, to reject him for humor. While I understand their sentiment, I don't think you should do it. What are you going to gain out of it? It just seems like a waste of time in my opinion. I'd say just decline his request or block him if you want and then move on with your life
/r/askFDS08/06/21 03:51 AM
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I will say it doesn't have to do with attraction alone, but with socialization. I'm not straight and most my friends are attractive women. I'm still perfectly capable of having platonic friendships with women I find attractive - even those who are attracted to women. I wasn't raised to see them as objects I'd be entitled to have, and I can respect them enough to not picture them in wet t-shirt contests or other sexually charged scenarios. They're just people whose company I enjoy without needing…
/r/askFDS08/06/21 02:11 AM
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Totally agree with everything you said. And I know you didn't mention anything about OLD but I believe this is another reason to NOT use OLD. These types of men are very likely to be on dating apps - they may have a friend or two to help them or they may get good clothes from homeless shelters to put on a fake persona. If you stick to dating men irl then the chance of running into a hobosexual is very low
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 01:16 AM
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Using their own logic, straight men are sexist because they only date women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 05:14 AM
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Serves them right!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 03:30 AM
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I've noticed that I don't really have a lot of common interests with tech guys other tech. My ex was a cs major and we talked about tech a lot, perhaps a little too much. Most tech guys like video games and anime. I low-key dislike both those things. My hobbies besides coding are more unrelated such as cooking and baking. Also a lot of tech guys are straight incels. Literally the odds of your avg reddit incel being a tech guy are probably 8/10
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 01:22 AM
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That's what I was thinking! Especially software engineers. I've met a bunch of future SWEs as a comp engineering major trust me I know how they're like
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 01:00 AM
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I truly believe children 6 - 16 have no business with smart phones. It’s lazy parenting imo. I was given my first smartphone at 15 but I still agree with this. It blows my mind when I see 10 year olds out and about with iPhones
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 09:30 PM
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You're right 😂😯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 05:56 PM
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The cops would say, "WHAT DID SHE EXPECT?! She met him on a dating app." Men would hear the news online and say, "WHAT DID SHE EXPECT?! She deserved it for searching for dates online!", "She's a whore for fucking on the first date!!" while checking their dating apps for messages, hoping they'll get a chance to fuck on the first coffee or walking in a field date ("Women never message me furst! Wahhh. My pee pee sad"). Yeah, male lurkers and super fans. You're predictable and unoriginal as fuck. Y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 03:15 PM
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I don't live in India but I'm a first gen Indian-American so I understand what you're going through. Someone else in the comments addressed this already but sadly it's true. Indian communities are teeming with pickmes and LVMs. My mother is the ultimate pickmeisha. For example, she doesn't know anything about how to manage finances despite being a working professional for over two decades. She just has my dad take care of everything and before she married my dad it was her dad/my grandpa. And th…
/r/askFDS06/06/21 02:57 PM
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Bar so low it's at the core of the earth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 02:49 PM
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txnoor
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 02:08 PM
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Sometimes. I don't know if this is an example since this is the first time I'm hearing this set of words
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 02:06 PM
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Don't want a girl who posts nudes online? Great! Hope you don't use pornhub/only fans. Oh wait....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 04:22 AM
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I can get behind this! I want more HVW friends
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 06:14 PM
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Men (and women but especially men) would have to put in more effort than what is currently required on dating apps such as providing proof of employment, income information, etc. They should basically prove that they are not deadbeats and they are constantly working on improving themselves. Ideally it would be a dating app of solely HVM and HVW. But it's probably much better in theory than in practice bc people might just find a way to lie about everything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 06:13 PM
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Dating apps ruined dating culture. Unless there's a FDS dating app in the future I'll probably stay away
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 01:39 PM
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I stumbled across that sub a few days ago and thought it was associated with FDS and I was sooo confused.... Until I actually read the content
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 04:22 AM
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He really told on himself with that edit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:48 AM
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I'm not vegan but vegetarian and I do think it's a good vetting tool (not foolproof tho). If a guy asks strange questions like 'if you were on an island and the only way to survive was to eat meat then would you eat it?' then to me that shows discreet disrespect for an aspect of my lifestyle. Then of course there's more obvious red flags such as pressuring you to eat non vegan/vegetarian foods or even worse, tricking you into it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 01:43 AM
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I mean he's not overly obese imo. He has a 'dad bod' as opposed to the slimmer figure he had during his friends days
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 04:11 PM
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I agree. He pretty much looks the same to me except he has grey hair and gained a little weight
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 04:06 PM
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Because they expect some perfect woman to come along and accept them for who they are and fix everything about their lives
/r/askFDS04/06/21 03:50 PM
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Love the ring and your nails!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 06:58 PM
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There was this one annoying guy I was talking to ages ago and anytime I left him on read because I had to get up to do something like go to the bathroom or take food out of the microwave, he'd reply being like 'i guess you're done'. I actually intended on replying but I just don't always reply right at the second. Steer clear of men who require your attention 24/7!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 06:54 PM
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This is absolutely disgusting. I can't believe men like this exist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:13 AM
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I wouldn't be surprised in the slightest if 90%+ of millennial men were pornsick. I bet these stats are worse for my generation (gen z) 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 03:59 AM
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I deleted tinder and bumble several months ago. I don't want to go back to those or ever try another dating app again. But I can't say with full certainty that I'll never feel the temptation again. Hopefully I stay strong and stick to being OLD-free 🤞 I feel like a sex dispenser when I'm on those apps. I truly despise OLD for turning humans into commodities. It's always baffling to me when I hear about people marrying someone they met on a dating app... I have never been able to get a whole ass …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 02:11 PM
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I honestly don't want to use online dating ever again. Connections formed in person are more genuine in my opinion
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 02:33 AM
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I don't kiss on the first date or even the second date but I wouldn't wait 3 months for that. Sex on the other hand, I would wait that long because I only have sex in exclusive relationships and it would likely take around that much time to get exclusive. Kissing isn't as huge of a deal as sex to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 09:18 PM
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Blind is such a shitty platform. It's full of misogynists and incels who don't care about anything other than money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 03:58 PM
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I come from a culture where matchmaking is common as well (Indian). I haven't gone through it nor do I ever intend to. But I can speak based on observation of my extended family members. Matchmaking is just as bad as OLD in my opinion but the area where matchmaking has an edge over OLD is that you're more likely to match with someone well educated and financially stable. But this doesn't men that the men themselves are more HV than men on OLD so that's why I say they're both just as bad. In indi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 12:47 AM
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Why does it take having a daughter for men to respect women? How about just being a decent human being 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 04:23 AM
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I guess it’s cause a lot of men are like “MuH ego” and buy into get rich quick schemes. I get that vibe too. Those types of men don't understand the fundamental basics of investing. They just got lucky. If it's a get rich quick scheme to you then you're doing it wrong 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 03:21 AM
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That's why they make us go dutch on a Starbucks muffin /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 03:20 AM
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I invest in cryptocurrency and I'm part of crypto subs on my other acc but I'm mainly just there for information/learning since I'm still pretty new to the crypto space. But honestly I have seen incel-ish and misogynistic comments on investing/finance subs. I think some men's egos go sky high when they start to make just a little extra money and that's why they're like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 01:26 AM
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I remind myself that it's a good thing we aren't together anymore because that relationship did not measure up to what I wanted it to be.
/r/askFDS29/05/21 09:50 PM
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I lose a little respect for someone when they say they're into BDSM. Doesn't matter if it's someone I'm trying to date or not
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 01:21 PM
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I think I'll just steer clear of men who watch anime. I can't stand it myself anyways
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 11:51 PM
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I'd love to help out (I'm a computer engineering student) but I still have a lot to learn. I've only worked with like 3 of the technologies you mentioned
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 03:13 AM
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If I had a dollar for every guy I've seen on tinder that had 'looking for the Pam to my Jim' on their profile... 💸💸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 03:04 AM
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How much you wanna bet these men don't pleasure their women in bed anyways 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 06:38 PM
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Obviously they need to get a divorce but they've been together for 6 years... That means they started dating when she was 16 and he was 19 💀🏃‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 10:33 PM
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IF HE CHEATED ON U, instead of leaving him understand the fact that he is a shitty person who doesn't know how to treat you right. You've seen the error in him. Then leave without further explanation. U are innocent & he is not
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 04:41 PM
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I'm in the FDS discord but I don't participate in it because I'm still waiting on a few verification steps
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 12:44 PM
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Maybe if it had the level of security that the FDS discord has it could work. Selfie, voice and video verification.. scrotes can only go so far 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 03:46 AM
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Reason no. 57383 to not use OLD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 08:56 PM
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I agree. Going somewhere with the intent of meeting a man is kind of like trying to 'force' a relationship in the same way that OLD is because you're convinced that you should end up with someone with the end of the encounter. Relationships should happen naturally on their own
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 06:40 PM
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I wish there was an app where you could meet FDS women. Sadly that's probably not safe because of the amount of men who lurk here and larp as women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 06:15 PM
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This is interesting considering BuzzFeed has proven to be teeming with porn apologia in the past
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 03:24 PM
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Saving this as a reminder for when I start dating again. I have a bad habit of over romanticizing my interactions with men I'm interested in. I haven't dated in a while though so maybe I'll be better next time since FDS has allowed me to have a mindset shift
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 03:20 PM
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This. It's a hard pill to swallow for a lot of people but no one is entitled to a relationship with anyone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 03:20 PM
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It's definitely a pickme app cuz they make women make the first move. Their whole logic behind that is to protect women from harassment.. except it like doesn't. All it does is delay it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 06:29 PM
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She also reposted this post on her story. Free publicity for FDS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 05:40 PM
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I actually don't drink coffee yet I went on coffee dates just to order non-caffeinated drinks 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 01:31 PM
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She's an influencer who posted a video about how she won't go on coffee or walk dates and then some sub that posts cringe content posted that video and that post made it to the front page of reddit hence her ending up on TYT and random news pages
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 12:44 AM
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Yep this is her. Her Instagram stories for the last few days have mostly been screenshots of news articles talking about it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 07:51 PM
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Yikes. I bet he said he was gonna surprise her so she dressed up for it thinking it was gonna be something fancy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 07:39 PM
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Nothing bad happened in terms of my overall safety but the men I went on coffee dates with ended up ghosting or being low-effort
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 07:33 PM
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kokobeaute on Instagram
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 06:25 PM
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I feel you. I'm slowly learning to accept that being single forever is a true possibility for me. I think I'm doing much better with it now compared to a year ago. I'm still open to being in a relationship with a HVM but I don't want to let it consume me because that's not good for my mental health. My attitude towards dating now is 'if it happens it happens, if it doesn't it doesn't'. Being single isn't bad at all if you have other things to enrich your life with like a career, hobbies, friends…
/r/askFDS21/05/21 06:17 PM
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I already have a 5-step skincare routine so I can't imagine wearing makeup on top of that everyday. I probably wear makeup like 2 times a year and even then it's super minimal 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:20 PM
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I don't like that sub anymore cuz I realized it's full of libfem pickmes and LVMs who don't want to take responsibility for their actions. There was some post by a man saying that child support should be optional 🤦‍♀️ There's also quite a few misogynistic posts on there that rub me the wrong way like when they shame pregnant women for looking different or shame mother's.. simply for being mothers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 07:46 PM
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I'm childfree and that includes manCHILDREN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 07:10 PM
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Did the episode get deleted? I'm not able to see it on my Spotify. The latest one it shows is last week's
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 03:16 PM
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I used to think I would most definitely change my last name if I got married because my last name is super long but I'm getting two degrees next year and I have worked (and am still working) really hard for those so I'm never changing my last name if I get married in the future. I want my hard work to always be reflected in those degrees with my name
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 01:46 PM
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Omg the woman reporter is such a pickme. The comments are so disgusting too, they're going off about how she's too unattractive to have standards. If she never made that video I bet all these scrotes would be drooling over her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 01:28 PM
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This was painful to read. I feel very very sorry for the wife 😔 and that woman who's laughing about it should be ashamed of herself 😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 12:08 AM
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Facts. I used to have a huge crush on a guy in my class in my first year of college but when I overheard him saying he broke up with his gf for being the top of the class cuz he doesn't date girls that are smarter than him, that went out the window 🏃‍♀️✌️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 01:10 AM
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They get offended over every little thing that gets posted here. I saw some post somewhere a while back criticizing the FDS for teens post because it said 'anything else > a man'. Telling young girls/women that they should prioritize their education and friendships over finding a boyfriend is apparently sexist and misandrist 🤷‍♀️💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 04:16 PM
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Thank you! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 04:14 PM
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Lol the downvotes are prob because this is female dating strategy not female hookup strategy. LOL as if a strategy is needed to hookup. The only requirement to get hookups is to exist 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 01:26 PM
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Starting my new internship today 😃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 12:16 PM
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I don't live in any of the cities you mentioned. I live in a medium sized city and in my experience of using bumble which is supposed to be more relationship oriented than tinder, all the guys I met from bumble were basically lying about wanting a serious relationship. I don't even understand why they would put 'seeking a relationship' on their profile when there's an option to put that you're looking for something casual
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 12:14 PM
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Manifesting this for the future. Also let's add a group of supportive girl friends
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 02:36 AM
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Some people literally believe that fine af fridays is the same thing as porn 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 11:58 PM
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Reddit literally attracts the worst type of men. They're so full of vitriol and toxicity. The comments on that post are proof of this. Literally making fun of her looks and calling her an entitled bitch just because she has a preference for a type of date. @ male lurkers: If the thought of taking a woman out on a high-effort date is so horrifying to you then don't do it, it's not that deep. No one's forcing anyone do anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 10:56 PM
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I'm willing to bet real money that if she was not conventionally attractive they would have been even more violent
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 10:13 PM
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This guy expects us to feel sympathy for him because his ill wife won't have sex with him and he seeked it out on his own? Yeah not happening
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 05:47 PM
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Take up some hobbies or learn a new skill. Think about what you like to do and focus on those. For example, I love cooking and baking and I'm always itching to try out new recipes. I'd love to go to cooking classes later down the line because they sound fun and maybe I could make some new friends too
/r/askFDS16/05/21 04:51 PM
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Claiming misandry exists makes about as much sense as claiming heterophobia or reverse racism exists
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 03:05 PM
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How fucked up. He's basically trying to buy a woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 06:31 PM
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Yes and let's not forget the men that classify well dressed women in stem as 'bimbos'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 05:39 PM
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Seeing that men's version of 'mistreatment' is just a bunch of women on in the internet (that they're probably never going to meet btw) calling them scrotes or low value men goes to show that men don't have it as bad as women.. considering that women get r*ped, kidnapped, murdered, etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 05:36 PM
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Men with immigrant parents are entitled too but in a different way. My perspective is solely about Indian-American men since I'm Indian-American myself. A lot of Indian-American men are mamas boys who had everything done for them growing up. They don't have basic life skills and they expect their girlfriends/wives to do everything for them. Not only that but they don't have a fucking backbone. If their parents were to disapprove of their partners then these men aren't the type to stand up to the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 02:48 PM
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Same here actually.. I don't think I've gotten a cold in nearly two years
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 02:24 AM
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Seriously. If they hate FDS so much then they should shut up about it and move on with their lives. The only thing their bitching and moaning does is give us free publicity and more queens joining us 😂✌️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 07:29 PM
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I feel this so much. I don't think I'll ever share my standards with my friends or family. I don't need to justify myself to anyone. A lot of people in my life have pickme tendencies and they won't understand my reasons for why I would end things with a certain person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 02:27 PM
61

Wow there's really no fully safe birth control other than sterilization
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 04:56 AM
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The guy friends I've been 'closer' with have all tried to sleep with me at some point. The only ones who haven't are the friends that I'm more distant with. Aka friends that I only speak to when I have school-related things to discuss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 11:34 PM
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This reminds me of how FDS keeps growing because men on reddit always talk about how they hate it 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 09:24 PM
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I feel so much pity for this woman. She may literally DIE because of his irresponsibility and lack of concern. He keeps saying he didn't know how pregnancy and recovery works, how long it takes etc. He had NINE fucking months to learn about all that when his wife was pregnant. Bet he took that as a vacation too 😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 04:23 AM
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A lot of those replies had nothing meaningful to add to the conversation. They were just saying dumb shit like 'shut up you stupid bitch'. The internet is a free space and people have a right to speak about what they want to - especially the wrongs of the sex work industry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 04:12 AM
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Take care of his health and hygiene not watch porn or hentai not go to strip clubs even if it's a 'friend' thing be open-minded towards trying activities I like
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:25 PM
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Yes it's totally normal. I hate OLD bc it's mostly shallow men looking for a quick fuck and dating multiple guys at once stresses me tf out (you don't HAVE to do that but when I was using OLD that's just how it ended up happening for me). FDS strongly discourages OLD simply because HVM seem non-existent on there. Even though I've seen OLD success stories on FDS and irl, I would say that's the exception rather than the rule. Let's be real, a lot of women including myself sign up for OLD because w…
/r/askFDS11/05/21 04:46 AM
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Why the fuck is he thinking about his son who's a literal baby becoming a fuckboy and his daughter becoming a wife/mother? That's so weird for so many reasons. This is also an easy way for women to grow up to be pickmes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 04:26 AM
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I've seen this trope way too many times on tv shows
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 04:07 AM
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Because they decided it was a good idea to turn dating apps into hookup apps. Finding a HVM on a dating app is truly finding a diamond in the rough
/r/askFDS11/05/21 12:33 AM
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I agree. I can't believe some people seriously think it's 'controlling' or 'toxic' to want proof. People throw around those words way too casually these days. Looking out for your health is not controlling or toxic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 11:58 PM
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Ego so high they think everyone wants to date them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 02:15 PM
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@ mods, feel free to delete if this doesn't align with sub rules
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 02:19 AM
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So by population distribution, what I mean is geographic population distribution. It's becoming more common in the west and in countries like Japan for people to opt out of having children so naturally the population in those places will steadily decrease. But in areas of the world where there's no such trend, the population will just increase the way it always has been. So basically this means that people will be more concentrated in certain areas of the world than others. Technically that's ho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 09:36 PM
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It's definitely important to check what type of anime the guy likes. If it's just a regular show idc, but hentai is definitely a big red flag
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 03:58 PM
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Even if the marriage and childbirth rates continue to decline, there will always be millions of people reproducing. If anything, I could see there being a shift in population distribution
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 12:53 PM
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Thank you for this. Literally so many people think that we use the high-value/low-value system based on money. The value a person brings to the table isn't monetary. It's about who they are as a person
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 11:29 PM
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I feel like I should be as discreet as possible when I start dating again about the fact that I use FDS. I'd probably ease a partner into it after a long time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:52 PM
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I never understood why reddit hates FDS so much. All we do is preach high standards, focus on identifying red flags and lift each other up to be the best possible women we can be. People who hate FDS are either misogynists, haven't taken the time to truly understand what FDS is about, or a combination of both. I've seen maybe 5 men in the entirety of my reddit use defend FDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:25 PM
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If a woman wants to wait to have sex, she's a prude. If she has sex right away, she's 'too easy'. There's just no winning
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:17 PM
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FWB is the easiest way to get treated like a sex dispenser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 09:23 PM
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I agree but to me it seems like she's talking about the early stages of dating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 03:04 PM
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I hate that I've gone on pity dates before. Never again will I waste my time with a man I don't have 100% interest in pursuing a potential relationship with. I also hate that I used to feel bad about rejecting men. As if men give a shit about rejecting women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 02:08 PM
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I wouldn't feel safe having a guy idek send an Uber to my place bc then he knows where I live
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 02:05 PM
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Men don't like that she was able to profit off of her past experiences with her boyfriends
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 02:02 PM
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I signed up for the patreon and was having the same issue as u/Partypuppers but this worked for me. Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 04:07 AM
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Yes this. My last relationship stressed me tf out because we were together for several months and never even got remotely serious or moved forward. Turns out my ex wasn't looking for something as serious as I was. It was partially my fault for assuming he was and not addressing this before we got into a committed relationship. Looking back I should've ended things much sooner
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 01:43 AM
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The number one person in my life will always be me. Even if I do find a HVM someday, he gets second place. The only one who will be with me till the end is ME.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 12:00 AM
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They say this yet everytime I read a post on twoX there's male commenters there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 07:46 PM
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For real. They're also really disgusting about it. The common comment I see on other subs is 'FDS is full of fat black chicks'. Not only are they body shaming but they're also being flat-out racist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 05:58 PM
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It's 'muh biology' until they're expected to put effort and investment towards a potential relationship with a woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 05:20 AM
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Sadly men don't realize how rampant misogyny actually is in our society until a man does something terrible to their wives/daughters/mothers/sisters
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 05:04 PM
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"I'm subscribed to only fans... But I'll never let my daughter get one"👊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 04:53 PM
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I saw in a comment on another sub by a man saying that he's subscribed to FDS to be aware of what types of 'toxic' internet communities his daughter will be exposed to in the future 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 04:42 PM
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The most common argument I get told for why this happens to me is my age (21). People tell me things will get easier when I get to 25, guess I'll have to wait and see
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 10:59 PM
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I agree. I've had no problems attracting men in general. But finding men want a serious relationship with me has been next to impossible. They tend to lean more towards casual sex/FWB. People are so quick to say women have it easier in terms of dating because we get more swipes on dating apps.. when in reality it is simply just easier for us to get sex. Not a meaningful, committed, serious relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 10:44 PM
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They know it's bad. They just try so hard to defend it to feel better about themselves. Everytime a woman on unpopularopinion posts that she feels uncomfortable with her SO watching porn people go out of their way to call her insecure, toxic, abusive, controlling, etc. This type of reaction reeks of projection
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 02:49 AM
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I'm still continuing my plan of swearing off dating until I'm done with college so my dating life will remain unaffected
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:06 AM
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The men that are that way is because that is exactly how they want it. They don’t want the responsibility and they want to have casual sex forever. Literally this. Childfree men I've met irl are also relationship/marriage free. They just want no-strings-attached hookups/ONS/FWB
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 09:28 PM
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I mean I don't want kids either but because of the time/responsibility it takes, pregnancy/childbirth, and potentially being tied to a LVM/NVM forever even in the event of divorce
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 09:26 PM
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Ikr? The fact that it was WOMEN shaming her was the worst part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 09:20 PM
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One woman even said that the OP deserves to be ghosted by men. A woman doesn't want a man who gets off to other women while dating her oh no the horror 😨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 08:21 PM
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I read the whole post and all the comments. It looks like only 2 or 3 of the people who replied to the OP were men. So it's also women who have these dangerous views about porn being "morally okay"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 08:15 PM
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Most of the people who replied to that poster were women telling her that it's unjust to expect a guy to pay for dates in the beginning 😐😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 08:13 PM
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"do I like him or am I lonely" is too accurate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 10:22 PM
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How do I explain that casual sex is not empowering to me? You don't. It's no one else's business how much/little sex you have. If these 'friends' of yours keep questioning you over this then it's time to reevaluate those friendships.
/r/askFDS30/04/21 07:54 PM
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Edit: we didn’t work out because I am childfree and all of these men had biological clocks that scared tf out of me. This part concerns me because I'm childfree as well but it seems like most HVM want kids someday
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 02:51 AM
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I used to watch porn myself before I learned how harmful it is. Same here except it was me tryna get into it bc people around me were but I could never really whole heartedly like it. I straight up found the concept of watching strangers fuck as a means to jerk off strange. I just avoided it all together but didn't become vehemently against porn until I started following FDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 11:54 PM
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I agree with not dating men who watch porn or go to strip clubs but if he has done it in the past and realized his mistake and has stopped those habits and I am truly convinced of this then that probably wouldn't be an issue for me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 11:21 PM
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Do universities feel bad about rejecting students who do not meet their requirements? Do realtors feel bad about not selling homes to people who don’t have the money or proper background? No, because they recognize the value they possess and sympathy is not even an option in their minds to overlook flaws they are not willing to stand. Gonna use this argument next time I get criticized for being too picky
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 09:27 PM
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I've never been in a relationship that lasted long enough to meet the guy's family but I think is is really good advice regardless. I think this is handbook material 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 05:24 PM
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This guy is not looking for a girlfriend, he wants a subservient yes woman he can control. Good on her for taking the hints and yeeting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 06:34 PM
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Thank you for this. I've dated before and been in a relationship but I've never had something last long-term nor have I experienced falling in love. It's one of my big insecurities that I'm working on overcoming. I can't help but get serious FOMO when I see people my age (early 20s) post about their SOs on social media - some are even starting to get engaged now, not only that but those couples that are getting engaged have been together since High school or college. I've been focusing on school…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 05:12 AM
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I have a friend I talk to about once in two weeks and everytime we talk he asks if there's any news in my dating life and then I have to tell him for the 2394 time that I'm not dating right now as I have other priorities. It's almost as if society associates a woman's identity with her relationship status
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 07:18 PM
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If a guy asks to split the bill, I'll do it but he ain't gonna see me again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 02:09 PM
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This same thing happened to me a few years ago except the guy lied to me and said he was looking for something serious. Block and delete!
/r/askFDS23/04/21 12:30 AM
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I also think we as women have been socialized to think that we need to date someone for a long time (4-5+ years) before getting married to build that "connection". Yeah no men know very early if they want to marry a woman and I personally won't waste my time with someone who appears to need several years to figure that out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 07:16 PM
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I hate "wyd" texts 💀 I'll tell you what I'm not doing and that's you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 01:52 AM
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What is considered the least sketchy form of communication? I use whatsapp and snapchat to talk to some friends. I wouldn't feel comfortable giving my phone number to a guy I just met whether that's online or in person. What's the alternative?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 07:21 PM
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Hey I know how you're feeling. I'm around your age and I feel this way from time to time and it was worse in the days when I had never had experiences that other people my age were having such as first kiss, boyfriend, sex, etc. but now after having those experiences, I can say that dating in college is a very mediocre experience. Most of the guys I've gone out with including my ex didn't want something as serious as I did or they didn't know what they wanted. After breaking up with my ex I came…
/r/askFDS19/04/21 04:15 AM
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Love the podcast! I listen to it while doing homework
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 05:48 AM
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Credit: womantowomanx on instagram
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 06:55 PM
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Mood. This is one of the hardest things about being single for me. I have a VERY high sex drive but I just refuse to do casual sex. I still want romance and love so my preference leans towards serious relationships. But at the same time dating is so overrated sometimes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 02:55 AM
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I recently realized that my life lacks women friends. I have a few close women friends but not a lot. Most of my friends are guys bc I'm in a male dominant program at college. And some of my guy friends have made passes at me for FWB before which I refused. They respected my refusal and didn't push for it but I'd rather have friends that are strictly platonic. Friendship and dating are two separate things for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 04:44 PM
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I lost my teenage/high school years to strict parents. I've lost my college years to a difficult degree. I hope it gets better after I graduate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 03:51 PM
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I'm never getting on hormonal birth control unless I have a medical condition that basically requires it. No man is worth all those side effects. I hate it when people are so quick to treat plan B and abortion like birth control methods too. Honestly if a guy won't wear a condom, he can GTFO. My health is more important than his need to fuck me raw
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 03:04 AM
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What in pickme nation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 02:48 AM
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Fr tho. My history textbooks from school were just full of old white men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 03:47 PM
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This is a hard pill to swallow but very true. Relationships are based solely on luck. The whole concept of not dying alone is dumb. Everyone dies alone because dying is something that you do alone. My previous relationship (and only relationship so far) happened when I wasn't actively looking for one. Whereas when I was trying online dating, I got heartbroken a few times bc I over-romanticized interactions with guys I found myself getting interested in. The more i go on FDS, the less I want to a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 03:24 AM
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I've never wanted to go to a male gyno simply because a woman will understand the a woman's better because she IS a woman. But now I know to straight up avoid male gynos.. this is some jane the virgin shit except that was an accident
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 02:27 PM
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Life is short and time is precious. I'd rather not waste an entire evening on date with a guy I'm not interested in just for a free dinner. Boring dates are worst and seem to never end
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 02:10 PM
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I wish I came across this sub in the days when I was crying over LVMs who ghosted/stood me up but I'm glad I have found it now. Next time I date, whenever that is I'll really carefully vet to make sure I don't waste my time and it's all thanks to this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 12:35 AM
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I'm Indian-American and I am strongly against arranged marriage. I believe it is a system that benefits men. Literally if it didn't exist these men would probably never get married just bc of how LV they are. Not only that but I don't like the amount of family involvement there is in the whole process, everyone and their sister will know about you meeting a certain match. It may not be a forced marriage but it is a pressured marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 06:03 AM
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Either he definitely has an STD but doesn't want to reveal it or he's a literal manchild who can't independently take care of his basic needs, possibly both. I don't see what you have to gain from this situation. Make sure you look out for yourself and your health. I usually make it clear from the get-go that I will not have sex with a guy unless he gets tested. It hasn't been an issue so far but if it becomes one, then that tells me everything I need to know.
/r/askFDS09/04/21 05:38 AM
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I'll never sit around waiting for a man to respect me. If he doesn't respect me to begin with I'm out bc I respect myself enough to walk away
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 01:38 AM
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Right? I'm tired of being looked at as a weirdo because I only want to have sex within a committed relationship. Straight up that's a controversial opinion in the real world now, at least in my experience
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 04:57 PM
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The comments in this thread and in other reddit threads I've read before make me never ever want to get on birth control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 03:40 PM
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That's a good idea although my parents think online dating is weird so they'd probably be more annoyed that I'm on the app in the first place
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 04:08 AM
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I saw a post on unpopularopinion the other day about FDS. The OP was saying the sub isn't as bad as people claim and then people in the comments as always were criticizing the fuck out of it. One dude literally linked posts from this sub that were literal MEMES. He was mad that we make generalizations about "all men".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 03:51 AM
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Gonna use this argument when my parents start nagging me to get married when I'm that age
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 03:38 AM
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Is it? I thought the "correct" definition was a man who keeps pursuing a woman who's clearly not interested in him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 04:57 PM
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People don't even know how to properly use the word 'simp' anymore. Any man who treats his woman with respect and shows her love is automatically labeled a simp
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 03:55 PM
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I don't plan on even dating someone who isn't financially stable. I don't necessarily care that they make 6 figures or something but they should at least have their shit together financially - being able to take care of their monthly expenses while still having leftover money for occasion luxuries. I refuse to be held responsible for someone else's debt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 02:14 PM
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I've done clapbacks at LVMs before. Never again. Those mfs do not care. In fact I was making a fool of myself for continuing to pick at the situations when I should have just let it go then and there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 05:01 AM
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The other day some LVM was arguing with me on TwoXchromosomes about abortion... Yeah like rachel in F.R.I.E.N.D.S said, "no uterus no opinion". Seriously why do men think it's okay to have a say in issues that affect women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 09:04 PM
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Why would I dig for gold that I already have (literally)?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 09:44 PM
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I hate the notion that not wanting your SO to watch porn is "controlling". I feel very hurt if a guy I'm dating watches porn bc he is literally fantasizing about sex with other women while being with me. It's basically just mental cheating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 09:40 PM
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The other thing that helped was taking a hard look at the realities of motherhood with an unsupportive partner. I now really and truly understand that parenting with a LVM would be MUCH worse than never having kids at all. I'm childfree for many reasons but this is one of them. If I inadvertently married a horrible person and had a kid with them then I would be tied to them forever whether I liked it or not (even with divorce) bc he'd be the child's father. No thank you, when I want to be done w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 09:38 PM
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This is true. I have a hard time accepting that I may be single forever, it's a work in progress
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 03:12 PM
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I've tried to educate my brother on being a HVM but he'll just respond with "I'll just make sure I don't associate with crazy feminists"... I truly hope he sees the light someday 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 09:27 PM
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Plus, men have very high standards for a girlfriend or wife as well; the only difference is they’ll keep using other women for sex while they look for her. Disgusting. Exactly! This is why I feel so offended when a guy I know asks me to do FWB. He's basically saying "hey you're hot and I would totally fuck you but you're not good enough to be my girlfriend". Yeah fuck that, I am girlfriend AND wife material. But if a guy can't see that he doesn't get to see my body either. Sex with me is a privi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 02:10 PM
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They're obviously threatened that they don't meet said woman's standards. Do they realize that there are women out there whose standards they DO meet? It's really not that deep cuz at the end of the day I only want to be with one person so obviously standards will be sky high
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 05:04 AM
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unpopularopinion is where misogynists go to cry
/r/askFDS02/04/21 09:15 PM
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I agree with this concept but I also think the first date isn't the best indicator of whether or not a man is HVM or LVM. I've had LVMs take me out to dinner at a fancy restaurant and they were the ones who initiated and planned it. The important thing is to keep vetting after the first date and not assume that they're "such a great guy" because they impressed you with a nice date. I made that mistake
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 08:31 PM
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The fact that she is willing to have kids with this guy just to keep him in her life 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 03:37 AM
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Instead of asking “do you watch porn?” (they are more likely to lie, especially if you have told them beforehand that porn is a dealbreaker for you), ask “what porn do you watch?” And watch them spill their guts. Personally, I would avoid telling a man upfront that porn is a dealbreaker for me because the risk of them lying is too high. I think this is a great strategy not only for vetting for porn addicts but also figuring out if they have other qualities which would be dealbreakers. Putting th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 03:08 AM
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I've sent some of the stuff from this sub to one of my close friends and she agrees with those things. But for the most part I don't go out of my way to educate everyone. I don't have the energy to try to change other peoples opinions about feminism. It's simply not my priority. I'll approach dating my way, they'll approach it their way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 03:02 PM
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She should get proof and take legal action against him. This is so fucked up and he's causing literal harm to the baby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 06:10 AM
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Cats have been culturally linked in the west to the feminine aspect for centuries, it's some very deep psychological conditioning. This is true. When I was VERY young I used to think all cats were girls and all dogs were boys. Also as for the cat hatred from men, the most common argument I've heard is "cats are evil" and they don't even explain why
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 11:57 PM
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I need to get better at this. I do it more than I'd like to admit and it makes me sound unsure of myself when in reality it's in my natural instinct to not offend someone. Ive done this when explaining to a guy that I'm not interested in going on more dates w him, I'll usually say something like "I don't THINK I really see this going in a romantic direction". I don't think, I KNOW, I'm just too wimpy to be assertive :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 10:56 PM
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Too many women have been indoctrinated by Disney to believe that the ultimate fairytale for women is to find "the one" and then live happily ever after. I hate to admit that I'm one of these women. I remember watching disney princess movies as a little girl and wanting to find my "prince" and then as I got older, romcoms became my new standard. Then when I started meeting guys from OLD, I realized what a disappointment men can be. But later on I was able to get into a relationship with a guy I m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 03:42 AM
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I'm sorry for your loss ☹️❣️ hope you find fulfillment and happiness in your new job
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 03:06 AM
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I honestly like this sub. I don't see eye to eye with EVERYTHING that is posted on here but I have found some advice to be very useful and I do see myself using those parts when I'm dating in the future. Also, literally everything that I've read about this sub on other subreddits such as r/ unpopularopinion and r/ changemyview has proven to be false based on my experience of being subscribed to FDS for the last few months. They say that everyone on FDS are misandrists who believe men are subhuma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 12:58 AM
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Idg why men are so salty about there being a female-only space when there's millions of subs where they can comment. Men don't understand issues women go through so it's not their place to constantly interject their opinion. There's other female-centric subs where they can do that if they desperately want to anyways
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 12:24 AM
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I'm childfree for life and I'd be lying if I said my issues with my mother didn't partially contribute to that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 03:28 AM
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This post reinforced my desire to pursue sterilization in the future
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 03:58 AM
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Bumble is just tinder repeats in my experience.. and we all know tinder is a cesspool of LVMs just looking for a quick fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 02:14 AM
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She's right. So many women (including myself in the past) expect some hypothetical perfect man to bring them happiness. Of course if you're in a relationship it should only be with a HVM who makes you happy but happiness shouldn't solely be dictated on external factors
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 01:12 AM
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