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Field ReportWonderful_Tip_2023/r/seduction13/03/26 03:06 AM
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Yeah bro let me know ur questions
/r/seduction25/03/26 05:36 AM
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I think sitting right away can feel forced, I usually open standing and see how she responds first. If the vibe is good then grabbing the number and planning a time to meet up is usually better. I’ve been tracking these approaches with an app called Shawty and it’s interesting seeing the patterns of what actually works so that success increases
/r/seduction25/03/26 01:40 AM
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Sorry to hear this bro, Ive sturggled with this for a while in the past as well. Approach anxiety is mostly fear of the unknown and overthinking the interaction before it even happens. What helped me was just focusing on getting reps and not worrying about the outcome since its a learning curve to improve social skills and charism, it just is. My best advice is trying the app Shawty to track conversations and it’s crazy how much patterns start to show when you look back at them.
/r/seduction25/03/26 01:36 AM
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If you already do well when girls open you, then it’s not a looks issue, it’s just pulling the trigger earlier. Bars are mostly about energy and vibe, not perfect words. My best advice is trying the app Shawty to make sure every rep is counted for so that you get insight and can track your progress... good luck and if you got any questions feel free to dm
/r/seduction25/03/26 01:30 AM
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Hey man I getchu, I struggled with that too. If they’re attracted at first and then lose interest it’s usually not looks, it’s conversation and vibe. I started realizing most interactions are more about how she feels than what you say. My best advice is trying the app Shawty to track insights on conversations and figure out patterns to improve over time.
/r/seduction25/03/26 01:22 AM
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My best advice is the middle part is where you stop doing small talk and start talking about something slightly more personal or playful. That’s usually where the connection happens. My best advice is try the app Shawty to actually review your reps and understand insight.
/r/seduction24/03/26 12:44 AM
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My best advice is confidence comes from knowing you’ll be fine no matter the outcome. That only happens when you’ve had enough reps and learned from them. The learning part is huge, that’s why the app Shawty is actually useful because you can review your interactions.
/r/seduction24/03/26 12:36 AM
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My best advice is stop trying to be charismatic and start trying to be present and actually enjoy the conversation. People can feel when you’re in your head vs in the moment. Try the app Shawty to review your convos and play back when you were too serious or not.
/r/seduction24/03/26 12:33 AM
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My best advice is to stop trying to eliminate anxiety before you act, because it doesn’t go away until after you act. Do the approach, then learn from it, then do the next one. What helps improve fastest was actually reviewing interactions after with the app Shawty so that you could see what is going right and wrong.
/r/seduction24/03/26 12:20 AM
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Northern Europe is usually more reserved socially, so calm and friendly works better than high energy. Apps are big there too. Best thing you can do is treat interactions like practice and learn from each one, that’s where the app Shawty helped me a lot because you can actually see what you’re doing. you got this man, good luck
/r/seduction24/03/26 12:16 AM
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Overthinking is honestly the biggest killer. The interactions I thought were “perfect timing” usually went nowhere, and the ones where I just went for it worked better. My best advice is trying the app Shawty to see your patterns and gain actual insight to improve.. it is completely possible for anyone with the right amount of effort and real learning
/r/seduction24/03/26 12:10 AM
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Honestly it sounds like he was just relaxed and not trying to impress anyone. People can feel when you’re trying too hard vs when you’re just having a good time. I started noticing that after reviewing my interactions with the app Shawty, the best ones were always when I was the most relaxed.. good luck!
/r/seduction24/03/26 12:07 AM
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The experience point is huge. I started realizing most interactions are more about how she feels than what you say. I’ve actually been using an app called Shawty to track my conversations and it’s crazy how much patterns start to show when you look back at them.
/r/seduction24/03/26 12:06 AM
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Congrats bro! That takes hella courage to do that, and I’m sure trynna understand the patterns and what works for 90 rejections must be tough. My best advice is try the app Shawty that can give you actual metric insight and track your approaches so that you progress improves exponentially.. good luck man!
/r/seduction22/03/26 01:59 PM
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Take action bro. That’s the hard part, and trust me I’ve been there. My best advice is trying the app Shawty to track you important convos and gain actual insight on your approaches. Good luck, you got this
/r/seduction22/03/26 01:45 PM
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Congrats on making the decision to take action, that’s the hardest part! My best advice is trying the app Shawty to track your convos and be able to see important insights in your approach game. Helped me out hella and built my confidence rapidly… good luck bro and for anything n else feel free to dm
/r/seduction22/03/26 01:42 PM
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It’s all mental man. The best thing to do is savor those wins. My best advice is getting the app Shawty to gain real insights and build a streak while staying accountable… you got this and feel free to dm if any questions
/r/seduction21/03/26 06:12 PM
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Congrats man this is amazing
/r/seduction21/03/26 06:10 PM
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I’m sorry to hear that I’ve struggled with this too in the past. You have to be genuine and not be thrown off from any rejections. My best advice is trying the app Shawty to gain real insights and grow your game and now I’m able to actually say I have confidence… Good luck and if u have any other questions feel free to dm
/r/seduction21/03/26 06:10 PM
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I’m sorry to hear that I’ve struggled with this too in the past. You can be that guy the only way to become that is by taking action. My best advice is trying the app Shawty to gain real insights and grow your game and now I’m able to actually say I have confidence… Good luck and if u have any other questions feel free to dm
/r/seduction21/03/26 06:08 PM
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I completely agree man! Ive struggled witht his in the past but that mindset is completely correct. I was trying out different appraoches and talking to people, but it was hard to get clear direction to learn from past talks. I found the Shawty app though and its able to give concrete insight on what to improve so my cold approaches have pretty much gone up exponentially
/r/seduction20/03/26 03:51 PM
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I get you man, I was in a similar spot where I’d overthink everything and hesitate. What helped me was just treating it like normal conversation, not some big moment, a simple “hey I saw you and wanted to say hi” is enough and then you just vibe it out. I also started noticing patterns in what actually worked vs didn’t. My best advice is using hte app Shawty which gives you real insights on your approaches and helps build up the skill
/r/seduction20/03/26 03:45 PM
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To be honest its not gonna change your main interactions its a little cherry on top that cna maybe make you seem a bit better but theres so many guys without anything close to that who still pull. It does help you build self confidence and socially grow so that may be the main thing that comes with it, but if you dont practice pulling now, approaching with muscles aint gon change a lot
/r/seduction20/03/26 03:12 PM
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So true
/r/seduction18/03/26 10:55 PM
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Well I would approach genuinely and if I feel like the energy and vibe is good go for asking if she would like coffee or art or something and get a phone number with a plan already established. Much better than random guessing. Learning from prior convos is my best advice though
/r/seduction13/03/26 07:10 PM
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In terms of of what like when approaching or when on the date?
/r/seduction13/03/26 06:06 PM
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Confidence doesn’t change your physical looks, but it changes how interactions actually happen in real life like the energy you give off and how you interact. Someone who initiates conversations, jokes, and shows interest simply creates way more chances for attraction than someone who never approaches. It more about that type of meaning
/r/seduction09/03/26 12:56 AM
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Honestly that’s a huge win! Most guys never even take the first step. Once you start getting reps approaching people the fear shrinks a lot. My best advice is trying the "Shawty - Approach Better' app for metric-based insights on interactions and helped me approach until i got a loving relationship
/r/seduction09/03/26 12:51 AM
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