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You heard Esther Perel not some women. Also she didn't use the word narcissistic the same way you are dishonestly using it and she has made a point to say so. Besides I believe she's wrong. Women aren't narcs in bed, they are overwhelmingly anxious. Our whole life we are told our bodies are smelly and disgusting au naturel which is why women sometimes refuse to have sex if they haven't shaved while they allow and welcome men to be cavemen dad bodied and hairy. I don't think people understand or …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 12:07 AM
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Notice how his boss got angry at this guy and the scrote transferred it gratuitously to his wife. Men learn that women are their emotional punching bags and MIL is partly responsible for that as well even though it's the guy's fault in the end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 07:14 PM
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I believe they do it on purpose to still dehumanize us and not appear as simps, and lose credibility. This man is intelligent, no way he doesn't know what he's doing. He might condemn murder and stalking but misogyny stays, and they wonder why problems persist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 11:04 AM
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Allow me, but I really feel for you. You rose to the top because you are extremely qualified, intelligent and smart and yet to men but even women looking from the outside I bet they see you as an undeserving, a professional managerial class karen being mean to the poor working class males, that you're hauty and all that BS. They probably think sexism in the workplace doesn't exist anymore because hey, you "made it!!! So shut up!!!!" I'm from a very poor background, not classist but the shit I se…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 10:22 AM
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I don't know if you're french/speak French but the original is "le masculin l'emporte sur le feminin". Emporte doesn't just mean the present of beat, it signifies that it always wins against the feminine and it is not a good message to spread. People are not acknowledging male violence, they are saying women are naturally inferior with the smirk and nod included it's not cool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 05:51 PM
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Italian and french are the same. Spent my childhood hearing from teachers "the masculine beats the feminine" 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 04:14 PM
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Sex work is really empowering for MEN. They get to eat the cake and keep it too. Funny that the sex worker cannot retrieve 'consent' but dirty johns can. Eww. I just know that this scrote next time will demand to speak to a MAN for this dEliCaTe affair. That sex worker, having to do all of that...for nothing 🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 12:22 PM
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Why should any woman lower her standards (1), be with someone she doesn't like (2) who doesn't think she's all that (3). It doesn't make any sense whatsoever. Not our fault men can fuck anything that moves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 03:11 PM
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My mom was raped by my dad having us, and yet my mom still tells me every time she sees me that I need to have kids and that at my age she already had three kids. This scrote knows nothing about women. The thing is, we know a lot about men and we find them dangerous and lacking. I'm in my mid-twenties and I'm so grateful I stepped out very early from the conventional route. I know some women that DO want marriage and kids, and they have to put up with shitty boyfriends, they can't freely relocat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 01:09 PM
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Gay and bisexual men having the nerve to accuse women of bigotry is infuriating. They want a free surrogate to give them free babies, childcare and housework (something only the uber millionaires can actually afford but can get for free by convincing an unsuspecting woman that they are in love with her) and use whatever way to persuade us it's US being bigots for protecting our bodies. Don't believe LGBT men are "safe", they're still men and have a history of abusing women as much as straight gu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 05:20 PM
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I'm so proud of women for rejecting him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 12:38 AM
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They do. The basement dwellers probably have a mom doing their laundry and sweetly checking up on their sons while they're writing the most disgusting prose. And these scrotes have no respect for them. I've read that sons respect their abusive mothers more than their abused mother (abused by an adult male). Their brains don't work right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 12:35 AM
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Wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 10:33 AM
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If the sexes were reversed all the scrotes defending kanye woud say that the women are imagining an offence that isn't there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 11:07 PM
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Men revel and find a lot of satisfaction in seeing us in distress with other men. It's the price we have to pay for feminism apparently. Every single time a woman needed help in front of new it's always been me or other women helping out. The only time men helped were my classmates but they were looking up to me for what to do and they probably needed to stay in my good graces. Meanwhile I've helped women I thought were unlikable or have been rude to me without a second though. The smallness of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 05:57 PM
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They take sweet satisfaction out of it too. But in the same breath they admit to leering at everyone at the gym because they are """protectors""".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 05:54 PM
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That and awkward half hugs where we're next to each other work as well and are only awkward in name, everyone gets it that we don't necessarily feel like holding someone tight. Men get away with it because they and some women excuse this behavior and demonize us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 05:55 PM
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In the workplace scrotes say they are too afraid of metoo so they have to not hire women and exclude them from informal meetings where decisions are made, they have to they really do!!! 😢 they might be falsely accused of sexual harassment and you can't even say hello to these broads without them getting upset!!! But in their free time as soon as their dick magically starts working they think rubbing it against a woman without her consent is funny, she has to witness this and is probably flattere…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 12:37 PM
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LMAO I hope so, you're probably right just gave it a second reading. Unfortunately, I said this because the few "younger" men in my field are creepier than the older (female and male) engineers I work with who are actually delightful. When they will soon leave to retire I'll be genuinely upset, it's weird. Millennial men have their brains fried with porn it makes me shiver of disgust, I hate interacting with them. And apart from interns every six months or so, I'm the only young woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 09:07 PM
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There cannot be ethical porn providers because porn users, especially males, will always escalate and need increasingly harder and more violent content. During quarantine the consumption of child sexual abuse content has increased because scrotes had way too much idle time on their hands. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.nbcnews.com/news/amp/ncna1190506
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 07:32 PM
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Hey libfems, is this good? Is this good for women? If sex work was so empowering why is the preference young, naive, inexperienced women? I wish I could have answers. Fuck this, what scares me is that this guy could be anyone in my work circle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 06:40 PM
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That's so true, we should be saving and investing our resources not line the pockets of greedy psycho surgeons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 07:02 PM
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I help out at a women's shelter in my town (I do some basic grocery & thrift shopping) and we own several condos with flatshares and most rooms have two/three beds (often as bunkbeds because many women have kids but each adult woman has her own bedroom). We want to get a new condo for female students, it'd be a roommate situation with two women in each bedroom and we can't afford housing either. A condo we bought isn't ready yet, the municipality claims it doesn't have housing available and we'r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 07:00 PM
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When we tell non muslim women about the dangers of Muslim men we get told we're ""jealous and bitter"". I grew up in this culture and as a white passing person I can sense the difference in treatment when my origins are revealed when I meet men like this at work or out. I'm so sorry for this woman though, I hope she finds peace one day. At least this guy will never be able to corrupt her child, so I hope she NEVER EVER takes him back or lets him near her or the kid. "She's keeping her own child …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 08:30 PM
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Wait a second...She was driving at least 3H a day in the snow, twice a week for this scrote while paying for gas, wear and tear, getting judged on her fashion, and being called a moron? And he wonders if he's in the wrong for letting her "pump her own gas" as if it's a scrote gotcha "why is this woman asking ME to do stuff for HER, feminists pick and choose". Typical. Also? it's not "her own gas" when she's using her car to carry your ungrateful ass. Men are WAY too comfortable being completely …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 01:15 PM
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Sex traffickers use women as well, it's not all "random" kidnapping in the dark by a minivan. Women might approach you and try to get as much info as possible and try to move you in a vulnerable situation. Also, beware of men and women asking you if they can take a picture of you!! They might use that picture to find a client and they will follow you and know your routine. Air tags and Bluetooth stalking devices are a thing and they are being used for nefarious purposes as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 03:01 PM
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Patriarchy just wants us women to take shit left and right and when men make fun of us for being doormats, naive and not choosing the right men then we should just apologize and take shit from these men too. I'm tired.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 02:49 AM
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Knowing that the RP has recently come to my country .... pathetic. It's not even about dating men but having to live in a society with troglodytes like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 12:03 AM
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I heard men would rather cheat because they know women will feel sexually inadequate than breaking up because they see it as being the "bad guy".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 11:53 PM
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Gonna believe it's all of them and send them to fuck off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 11:50 PM
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The comments: Wow. Sounds like your both pretty abusive young people. Definitely agree with opposable grey. Both of you people need therapy. Geez, in those moments of anger while I envision slapping or choking my gf. I always think about how this would look In court or if I ran into her at a party. I have came close to letting my rage get the best of me but once I raise my hands to act I breath and walk away Never forget that men like this are everywhere, as judges, cops, juries ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 11:48 PM
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OMG. I found the thread and the comments???? Cursed. Basically blaming women, calling them bitches in need of therapy, both siding, this is unrepairable. Also, you just know because of reddit karma this ain't close to being the worst they're whitewashing a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 11:45 PM
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Thank you for the comment, and you're right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 07:50 PM
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The patriarchy is literally about robbing us of our self-respect, confidence and to gaslight us into ignoring our self-preservation instincts. Because of that feminism cannot be about whatever choice. It:s about liberation from this system.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 06:23 PM
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13 min in and are these women stupid? Do they think we're an anti feminist sub? They think we're criticising actual feminism when talking about male libfems? God, I don't know of I can watch more. Edit: look at them making fun of women who share their bad experience. Sorry, idiots. Women don't have to be bubbly and mask to protect male egos the same way you do. God, they are embarrassing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 06:08 PM
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I think it might have been higher in the past, lots of kids are now raised by single mothers. I heard that for many girls and women who are sexually assaulted by their bio dad it's when 1) dad gets drunk 2) dad is old and has some form of dementia. The dementia case is common and family members pressure the daughter/young female victim to dismiss it. Often these men had an inappropriate relationship with the daughter that never evolved into sexual assault until they were in this particular menta…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 07:54 PM
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It's such a stupid move. Dude is violent, colorist, unremarkable and hateful against women of his own race. I'm glad she's not married cause she's waaay wealthier, but a baby? Also stupid because she owns an inclusive makeup company and married a guy who calls himself a fashion killah who said dark-skinned women couldn't wear ruby woo mac lipstick. Like girl, think about your business at least...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 01:28 AM
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If I see it happen, I'll pretend I was blind but would help out. The urge is there, it cannot not be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 01:23 AM
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So...I'm kinda scared to google for it. But I've heard that back in the day it was lesbians who pushed the pedos out of the community and it was thanks to them that same-sex attraction was slowly becoming accepted and not seen as a mental disorder. Queer theory is still present to this day, and going strong, unfortunately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 01:21 AM
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It was women who fought for the age of consent to be increased basically everywhere. Correct me if I'm wrong but in the US, the first time black and white women came together as a political class, it was to increase the age of consent to 21 (failed) when at the time it was between 7 to 12 years old for girls. Look at all the places where women have no say whatsoever: men can marry legally rape little girls as young as six. Without strong female voices, with men under extreme patriarchy pedophili…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 01:11 AM
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It is a massive number! That could be a girl for every two classrooms (my high school classroom hosted 35/45 students with a 50/50 sex ratio).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 12:49 AM
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It looks like it's someone quoting an interview.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 11:38 PM
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That's horrifying 💔 I replied somewhere before with data but basically, the stats are that 1 woman out of 6 who had a step-dad has been sexually assaulted by him. That's 17% of women and girls vs 2% (1 in 40) of WAG sexually assaulted by their bio dad. Ah, source https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/6609753/ My mom knows and refused to date until I was older...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 11:35 PM
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The amount of men on this website who despise and look down on their wives even though they're doing the all housework, all the planning, and childcare should have told them something. Being a housewife is extremely unrewarding, looked down, and is a potentially abusive workplace. At least with my job I know I have a union behind my back, my boss is pleasant, I don't need to fuck her or kiss her ass, I have tons of vacation and can take a break whenever I want and most importantly my career pros…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 05:34 PM
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There has to be a psyop at play here. The European Union Parliament has elected a new president who is a woman very much against abortion. The US is also heading that way. So many articles are blaming the decline of birthrates on women's and little girls choices implying too much education is doing us wrong. Female Tiktokers promoting stupid bimbo housewife tradie bullshit lifestyle are thriving. Religious fundamental conservative women and female influencers are being strumentalized. Men and wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 05:26 PM
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If you haven't already read Why does he do that (inside the minds of angry and controlling men), it's available for free and basically required reading. There are so many links available if you want it in another format. It will give you lists of cues you need to look out for. Another thing you need to pay attention to, something I'm stealing from a poster here on FDS, is how you feel and your life has been so far with this man. Sometimes it seems he'd be innocent but meanwhile, you've been remo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 11:13 AM
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It really sucks, you're expected by everyone and even their mothers to play servant to hateful dangerous useless men. Keep vetting and rooting for you to find someone who fits your standards! I think if I might date later in life (separate household).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 09:50 PM
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Exactly, these women can pick and choose from 70ml men (more that an entire medium sized country) and declined. If I ever manage to have a strong semi-passive income stream I can rely on and if I ever own a big house I might be a single mom by choice. I'm choosing this life and I'm ready to put in a lot of tangible work. What I'm not going to do is have dirty men use my body, abuse me, control my kids, or be completely useless and reliant on my labor outside and inside the home. Men are DESPERAT…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 07:29 PM
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You know, the biggest realization I had recently was extremely obvious: the patriarchy isn't just a system to actively and forcibly subjugate women. The patriarchy is hell-bent to destroy women's self-esteem, their natural self-respect instinct, their ego, and most importantly gaslight them into doubting their self-preservation instinct. It doesn't matter: whether we're talking about Islamic caliphates, patriarchal ancient roman societies, extreme liberalism women are expressively told they are …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 06:40 PM
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Ah, ok. I was familiar with the feeding each other which I honestly think, among all the fucked up things in my culture, can be cute, and this seems harmless as well. I remember that video that got posted here on FDS: a bride smearing a bit of cream on the groom and he takes that whole ass cake and smashes it on her face and I think it scarred me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 12:41 AM
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I knew weddings were full of embarrassing rituals for the bride but I didn't know cake smashing was a thing. Like, that's hardcore humiliating and hurtful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 10:17 PM
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This is such a red flag. Like they say this but don't even mean it. They probably mean human as in "she poops, is violent and can commit crimes". Those types of guys who think this way can watch a man abuse his wife and think the wife is an abuser too because he's so "enlightened" about his 50/50 mindset. He probably still doesn't think women are human in the they have feelings, hopes, dream, inner world, pride, ego way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 12:31 PM
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Comparing how longingly and livingly women talk about men and the opposite, how awfully men talk about women distresses me. I can't believe how many women out there lack self-respect and self-preservation instincts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 06:17 PM
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I'm so sorry for what happened to you. To think that if the "sex work is work" crowd wins then women might be forced to accept employment at strip clubs or brothels even if it's for "desk jobs" or "cleaning" makes me see red. These women will have no physical or emotional protection against assault and disgusting males patrons or "colleagues). Thank you for sharing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 04:37 PM
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The way I wanted to throw up reading this, I wouldn't even be able to say hello to a man like this if I knew his thoughts 🤢🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 09:12 PM
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This is infuriating. Men really despise us for succeeding in university now they are giving themselves more opportunities to advertise what they really think about women, that "all women are wh*res". Imagine going to university to improve your chances in life and have to see these jokes of workshops with men snickering around you. We'll never be liberated like that. What happened to helping out poor students with scholarships, orgs, free groceries and the stuff? Now if people know you're short o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 09:06 PM
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I had some success explaining to libfems that porn usage cannot be compared to video games because of the role orgasms and dopamine have in training and motivating the brain. We need to talk to more women about the dangers of being porn-sick (engaging in self-harm), the dangers of being around porn-sick men, and the epidemic of children being exposed to porn at an increasingly younger age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 06:56 PM
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It uses all the Iphones in the vicinity and tracks with Bluetooth. https://youtu.be/lXxWh2tkKgk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 02:45 PM
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I think they detect it with Bluetooth and if you don't have an iPhone you need to download an app that scans these devices but it's up to you to do that manually, it's awful. There's also samsung galaxy tags (less common) and generic tags and the latter are really hard to detect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 02:43 PM
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Yeah I know. I just thought it is very telling that it's all fake, their arguments are worthless and stand on nothing (except for their tangible misogyny, racism, their need to control, dominate us ... ). There's the skinnyness plus also the antisemitism that is used to depict evil people in cartoons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 10:20 PM
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This is so pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 06:18 PM
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In these drawings the suffragettes are all very skinny, with coily hair and Jewish coded facial features. Now men portray us as fat with colored hair and hairy armpits. Edit: Our fight and their hate have remained the same, but their reasoning is and has always been discombobulated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 04:35 PM
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They want us to feel bad for being human. As if we couldn't afford the audacity. OP's right as well, children and all of us keep being told having boundaries is bad. It's like a virus, misogyny always mutates and adapts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 01:09 AM
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Just saw the video and someone in the comments: ​ you should watch some videos with him, he's the biggest teddy bear in real life, wouldn't hurt a fly Y'all I beg the pickmes lurking to stop trusting male celebrities and their PR machines.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 09:24 PM
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It became a meme, so I don't know if it's true but he gave almost everyone chlamydia at NYU due to having unprotected sex with many people and it spread like wildfire. Those are twitter rumors from students. Like Tom here, he used Lily Depp to make himself into a heartthrob but was cheating on her the whole time with men and women. Apparently he treats his male lovers like absolute crap. A blind said he was caught talking behind Zendaya's back (honestly he's not wrong here) because she was parad…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 06:09 PM
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I don't know them very well but Mendes seems way less smarmy and bitter. There was a lot of talk about Tom seeking prostitutes outside of the US and being in some pretty gross stuff as well but don't know if that is 100% true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 04:50 PM
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It's so easy for lib men to ingratiate themselves to a female audience, no matter how weird-looking or short they might be, if they play their cards right everyone can be a heartrob. The best way is to attach themselves to a woman/girl and pretend to swoon and fawn and people eat it up with how cute and wholesome that is. Ryan Reynolds is a guy that seems so slimy to me but people hold him and his cringy marriage to Blake to such a pedestal. The John Mulaney train wreck, Momoa, Chalamet, and thi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 04:45 PM
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Blind items, like this one. Several of them about him cheating and others about them being in a fake relationship, few of them saying Z is not dating anyone but is in a fake relationship. Apparently, it's common for the spiderman movies to have the male lead date his costar, but they've tried pretending they're not dating it's meta and very clever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 03:55 PM
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Tom continuously cheats on her, their relationship is mostly PR and from the looks of it he's the one benefitting the most. Some young women and girls find him attractive for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 12:31 PM
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I do the same but think about weeding out male-identified women as well. Tons of female doctors are sad pathetic pickmes who think showing a little bit of compassion makes them weak so they act like the worse of men. My previous GP was one of her and I actually put her in her place telling her she had no business being rude and treating me like a liar (doctors are trained in gaslighting patients!! I'm not saying it to be alarmist but they are actually taught techniques on how to dismiss and mock…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 06:55 PM
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The things I've been reading about doctors and nurses lately ... We need some sort of metoo movement for patients. Ethel Easter, a black woman in the US, recorded her surgery and found out all the medical professionals were making racist rape jokes while she was sedated. I read a couple of articles and seen some YT videos about it and tons of nurses in the comments say they confirm how rapey doctors, surgeons and nurses are. We should lobby for transparency and have all surgeries where patients …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 06:49 PM
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I looked into it too, it's scary. Even if your job is ""just"" to be a receptionist or to be a cleaner, if you're a woman it's very likely they'll harass you and coerce you and who is going to believe and protect you?? Also working in a brothel and seeing all of that is still sexual harassment for me. I also saw articles of Madames/Pimps complaining their places of work weren't part of the official job search system (the one that you use to prove you're looking for a job to keep the benefits) be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 10:53 AM
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Absolutely. They'll turn asking for a blow job as inconvenient as your male boss asking to make him a cup of coffee. Annoying but not a big deal. I really hate it here and resent everyone pushing us towards this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 01:53 AM
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I meant that even in a country where radfem ideals are more influential (than, say, the US) the structures still succumbed and transformed sexual assault into something purchasable. If they can do it in Spain, the MRAs and libfems might do it everywhere else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 01:51 AM
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Holy shit. Knowing Spain does have a good number of radfem organisers this is scary. What I thought was going to happen is going to happen: legalising sex work = sexual harassment & rape can't be claimed anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 10:42 PM
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The Netherlands? I'm not from there but ugh the things I've seen there 🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 07:53 PM
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They are organizing to make "sex" a human right, organising to make benefits for disabled men to rape for pay young women I just know it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 06:11 PM
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I know "Feminist subreddits" are run by men so I don't even follow them but are women spineless enough to accept the disrespect in the comments? Just saw the pasties friendly bit, I swear to god this seems like something an MRA came up with to make fun of us. Hate this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 06:09 PM
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I hate this so much, like the poster is just salt on the wounds. Tell me you are misogynist pretending to be woke without telling me you're a disgusting misogynist. Who is behind this? Who is bankrolling this? I refuse the notion my sex has to be associated with degrading images like these.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 05:03 PM
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Can she sue for child support if he decides to live abroad?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 01:11 AM
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This is why whenever I see libfems who say men in the future will be raised better I frown. Men don't act like criminal sociopaths against us because their moms simply didn't do a good job. Men live in a society that benefits them over women, all of the education of the world will not stunt the temptation they have to try and dominate/hurt us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 10:49 PM
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That's so homoerotic, it's dehumanizing to the women in their life if they are valued only if other men list after her. And male lust has no value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 06:42 PM
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And we can tell. But women can't even state that they are perceiving the misogyny because that's "self a victimizing". Meanwhile legions of women out there have to stay anonymous, pretend to be men or hire front guys so they can have a successful business.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 04:57 PM
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Breaking moms is also the place where boymoms complain about their boys being held accountable for molesting their sisters. It's a trash sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 01:40 AM
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Men who claim feminism should be for them because they get offended when they are called girly/effeminate honestly don't get any empathy from me anymore. Grow the fuck up. Women actually fought and are still fighting to get the actual right of wearing what they want. Someone called you effeminate and that you act like a girl? Ohhh boooo, if only that was true. Women aren't bad, get over it. And yes, the person who answered you is an MRA scrote. They're like viruses, as soon as women wise up they…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 07:24 PM
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That's the thing. Men don't even care if other men are assholes, if they politically disagree with them etc. If there's something in it for them they'll take advantage, they have actual solidarity. We have to rely on finding the rare people who are normal, decent, just, and likeable (and to be found likeable) but if these people are men we also need to signal we are comfortably distant. I don't want to throw all older women under the bus but some of them I met look at newer female hires as if th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 08:49 PM
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It's so uncomfortable to be a young woman in any industry, the guys your age get mentored by men who see their younger selves in them, but you get seen as a piece of meat. Young men can get the help, the mentoring, the inside knowledge but if you even try to do the same everyone will think you're sleeping your way to the top and get blamed for how you're treated. Nothing makes sense; these men will call 16 yo girls underage women and will use how their bodies look (eww) to prove that they are ma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 07:36 PM
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Congratulations for losing all that dead weight!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 04:39 AM
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I read the Twitter thread and it was chilling. In the airtag case, if you don't have an iphone apparently you need to download a new app you need to refresh and manually have it scan for your environment every time you want to be sure no one is following you. So of course I believe Samsung and Apple need at least to provide apps that can scan both types of tags no matter what phone you have. But now there are the generic stalking devices. For Apple, they claim they can't tell you whose airtag it…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 08:19 PM
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They are already thinking we are assholes though. Also, women are free to change their minds even if it doesn't happen "the proper way". She just realized that this man who hasn't been answering any of her desperate calls for weeks would be a terrible role model for her kid, she'd be chained to him forever despite this guy being a deadbeat dad. Men literally baby trap women to have them hooked and cockblocked forever. She just saved herself and the unborn two lifetimes of trauma. Should she have…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 05:38 PM
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Not only men will gradually let their masks slip, especially after children, but this post is also about the BS advice that gets liberally thrown out. So many women at the breaking point and useless Reddit males have recently posted about being on the brink of a divorce because of the unfair household duties, especially now during the holiday season, and what are people advising? Hire a cleaner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 05:23 PM
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Wish you well, chronic pain is tough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 05:14 PM
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I agree. When I was a student abroad in this city where finding a place to stay was incredibly difficult I found this nice 2bedroom apt where I had to share a bedroom with another girl (we were 4). Anyway, we were forced to include the cleaners fee in the rent and a woman did come evey week for half a day to clean the place. The landlord told me some of my roommates where incredibly messy and the previous girl I took the place of left because she couldn't deal with it anymore. This was a very ni…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 03:34 PM
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No of course, if at some point hiring a cleaner makes sense for me I'd do it too. I do hire a landscaper/gardner (I don't know how you'd call them in English).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 03:12 PM
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I am not saying it's unethical to hire a cleaner. If you live on your own and hiring someone is beneficial for any reason, then do it. I'm explicitly talking about a situation we see come up again and AGAIN where the woman does everything in the household while having a job, gets tired and instead of the man "stepping up" they decide to hire a cleaner instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 03:07 PM
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That's true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 04:08 PM
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33 comments but only 13 are showing? What scrotes, are you busy pretending the word is against men because you are so TOUCH STARVED? I swear I saw men on reddit complaining about this. Also men don't touch other men's lower backs when they are trying to move either. Wonder why.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 02:32 PM
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Exactly, just don't have the time to thoroughly enumerate why porn really can't be compared to romance novels and I assume women here already know why!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 02:35 PM
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I'm not really talking about body types and realistic expectations. But to your point, romance novels are mostly trash written so women can be convinced and soothed while they accept adopting submissive character traits when confronted with the male lead character. It's basicly a cope for women trying to convince themselves that there's sexy misogyny out there. I still find them vile in their own right but they can't be compared to pornography they way Lambke likes to do. Yeah she might have bee…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 02:33 PM
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Dr Anna Lembke does amazing work regarding addition but her conflating romance novels to "acceptable porn for women" so that she can have her porn addict patients open up will not ever not disgust me. Not only it's ignorant of the realities of porn, when she compares so she can win brownie points from her patients, she misses the point why pornography is and should be more shameful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 10:14 AM
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Agreed 100%. As someone who comes from and lived in a 3rd world country, with an entire family that is culturally set behind I am used to code switching and knowing things can't work the same way in all worlds. But FDS advice in its principles is quite solid, and always puts our own interests first. I don't agree with OP either, I've only seen sympathy and understanding for poor women in difficult situations no matter their place of birth/culture. A part from discussions about religion, which I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 12:53 PM
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They are not even faux male allies, they are full-blown MRAs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 10:01 PM
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Exactly. But at the end of the day it doesn't matter. Because associating porn consumption with orgasms/sexual activity will inevitably lead to 1) overall desensitization hence the need to find harder material 2) addiction. Not everyone, but en masse. People always compare porn consumption with video games but completely disregard the role of orgasms have in making one more dangerous than the others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 03:06 PM
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Unfortunately, I saw it. Won't research it either. Her rationale was that mainstream porn was so violent that kids needed something softer to start with (vomit).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 12:50 PM
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Porn stars on twitter making fun of her and saying she shouldn't insult (stigmatize) them 🤢🤮🤮🤮 The porn industry knows quite well children are watching and they don't care in the slightest. Every attempt at at least putting in place age restrictions through verification gets mocked as Puritanism. We shouldn't blame 11 yo girls for being pushed into watching it, we live in a culture where can't even complain about porn anymore. Glad more women are speaking out. Also can't like her music as her ly…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 12:44 AM
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The only potential they see are ONS & degrading sex. They assume "ugly and fat" women have no self-esteem and will be up for anything for some crumbs of male attention 🤢💀💀 every single time they talk about women, even when they say they find them unattractive (as if), they ruminate on how to take advantage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 02:16 AM
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Maybe because she hasn't made a dating profile to look for other women but I'm really not a fan of her style. I think coming off as snarky while giving a long list of fairly simple DOs and DON'Ts you're lacking coherence and basically inviting matches from undercover narcs who love someone who is more difficult who can be a "challenge", so to speak. These men have this picture painted about women in their minds that goes like this "she's PLAYING hard to get but I will make her like me", and it d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 06:38 PM
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Exactly. And how can you meet someone compatible or make the right life choices (career, money, lifestyles, family...) if you're unavailable and in a bad relationship? It harms your overall potential.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 06:15 PM
8

Nirvana, the band, couldn't have survived without the women (moms and girlfriends) providing free labor + financial support.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 04:39 PM
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On top of the basic things everyone should get having to entertain someone else's friends several times a week is honestly so entitled from him and exhausting. I bet this woman doesn't have friends of her own, or a basic social life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 12:06 PM
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Like my (male) lit professor said: the overwhelming majority of readers are women and have been women and girls for a while. You can hardly be a prolific writer without being an avid reader, and yes there might be some exceptions, but if it's mostly young girls reading and tackling creative writing then is it surprising more young writers are female? Back in my middle school and high school days many creative writing challenges have been organised. Almost every short story submission was from a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 09:43 AM
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Calvin Klein talking about Kate Moss's child-like features and how they turn men on, of course he had to bite his tongue saying that: https://youtu.be/yu7-0_7ajJ4
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 12:48 PM
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To quote someone in the thread: "I love this song!". Also, this woman is the main breadwinner, everything is in her name including the house, her mom is an attorney and she has a prenup...I really love this song, good for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 01:41 AM
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She reminds me of me as a teen and I'm scared for her. Also the girlfriend , while still so young, shouldn't have snitched on that kid. She sees this 16yo girl living with her dad, with nowhere to go, she should have had more solidarity. Why is it so hard to just dump the guy without giving someone away. I understand people needing to cOmMuNiCate but it could have been done subtly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 08:36 AM
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Yup, and I dont know if 8 minutes of a mediocre "quickie" should even count as sex if, in the heterosexual congress, the woman doesn't have the chance to get off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 07:35 PM
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I get it, especially if you have an eye for aesthetics. I guess follow what your gut is saying! You can still create a social media account with people (mostly women) who are as appreciative and understanding, it'd be like a safe place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 03:36 AM
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Well it is scary, theoretically. When you are with someone you know and vetted then these fears kind of lift. Also, spelling it out like this isn't something that would work for a long term relationship. I'm not giving road maps to how he will get his orgasm, it's too transactional. I will give roadmaps for mine alone. I want to see the raw reaction. I want to know what happens when I only get mine and say I'm finished with it all. And have my reasons for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 03:31 AM
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I LOVE the sex strategy that involves having the first sexual encounter all about female pleasure. Still have to dwell on it, because the idea seems so intuitive to me but carrying it out can be a bit scary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 01:23 AM
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A lot of men place the entire blame of dead bedrooms on women because they "read" a popular 1980s study that said lesbian couples didn't have sex as often as straight or gay (male) couples but had more intimacy ..... And forgot to read the part that defined sex as penetration and generally phallocentric activity. Sending lots of love to my lesbian sisters who routinely get misinterpreted and vilified over nothing. Do these researches care that women have a monthly hormonal cycle that also impact…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 01:21 AM
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Oh yeah, if she's a model then it's another story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 08:59 PM
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Personally, I'm at the point where I don't even post selfies anymore and only send group pictures where I appear in my family/friends group chats. Even my LinkedIn pic is taken in a way it would be almost impossible to use in deep fakes. I still take pics, I want to collect memories of the places I've been and people I meet so I keep them for myself. So my stance is on the extreme side if you will, so take this with a pinch of salt. Anyway, pics you really like you can print and have around your…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 08:57 PM
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This is why I despise most doctors. Sexism, medical misogyny and, for some of them, complete psychopathy. It's as if they're trained to be as callous and rude as possible to female patients. Finding a doctor who actually speaks like a human is so rare and I cherish their work. Also why is it that anytime a man is asked to contribute a little bit more to the chores they automatically think about hiring a cleaner. I don't look down on people hiring a service but this scenario happens all the time.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 05:15 AM
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While I know all of this can this woman adopt me? I really wish I had a figure like her in real life to validate me instead of this void that almost pushed me to doubt myself and think I'm maybe too arrogant to have proper standards. This sub is the next best thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 04:32 PM
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Strongest union ever, LVM keeping the bar for society at large in hell. Pathetic 😂.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 03:17 PM
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I need a post about this because it's mind blowing. Even in ancient times in patriarchal culture men would dress as women and make fun of us....and still some of the findings suggest they'd want to be us. How is penis envy in the psychology books when pussy envy seems to be right there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 02:06 PM
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But at the end of the day he's just looking for a FWB (aka a free prostitute who delivers herself to his place for free whenever he wants, bonus if she brings him freshly baked cookies). He's not even like some of these other scrotes on OLD we roast here who are like: "Fine. I'll be in a relationship but I want this, this and this out of you 😠😡😡" (who even wants you dude).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 02:02 PM
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Oh, good!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 12:08 AM
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This is not a joke, dude is a whole cancer himself. I'm so sorry for what he did, he's vile. Wish you the best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 11:37 PM
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Can't help but feel the scrote who designed this is either an edgelord or a pedophile (or both). Having fun exposing children to shapes like these.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 08:53 PM
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"I tRiEd to FiNd yOu in OthEr pEoPle'S aRmS" 🚮 The audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 08:42 PM
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Thank god I'm automatically repulsed by this phenotype. Not just romantically, can't even bother socialise or know their names. 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 08:35 PM
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Show this as a joke, see if he laughs along.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 06:55 PM
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Thank you so much for the comment. If I had a free award to highlight it I would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 04:08 PM
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He watched so much porn he probably got excited at the scene and forgot his wife was a normal human woman he's supposed to love and cherish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 01:14 PM
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What is even the point of m-- if they can't even stand up for their wives??? WTF. Dude was like, yeah you want sugar and cream?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 01:00 PM
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If I'm not mistaken, normally it shouldn't happen. But there are some brothels who want to have access to the unemployment database and there have been women that seem to have been targeted: call center employees have been sent offers to run sex-phone lines, waitresses to work in certain cafés, and so on. The eomen contact these offers thinking it's something else and it turns out to be sw, which is deceptive. And then there are other brothels who claim they don't need all of this anyway, they h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 11:21 AM
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Outside of the US leftism and liberalism are not the same thing. Liberalism is about protecting and enhancing an individual's freedom, free trade, capitalism etc. Liberal feminism, the way it's framed by some people in this sub, is defined mainly about choice feminism: a woman can pursue sex work if she finds it empowering, men can be feminists and are encouraged to speak about the subject, good relationships are about 50/50 etc. Some of these things seem good on paper but turn out to be detrime…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 02:37 AM
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Thing is, in Germany it does occasionally happen that young unemployed women have brothels reach out to them. Everyone will tell you that of course they are entitled to turn them down and keep perceiving benefits 🙄 (wow that's so generous). I think propositioning women is basically sexual harassment. I don't care about leftists bros reassuring us that it will not be an absolute requirement but women shouldn't be approached for sex by employers no matter how. Funny that men don't get "accidentall…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 10:32 PM
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I'd stay away from showing anything on this hell site. You can't exclude a loser's ability and time to waste not to figure out where you're from and there is no point in titillating these basement dweller-scrotes. They get turned on by women putting their hair in a ponytail, who cares. The way our bodies are sexually appealing to strangers who don't care about us doesn't give us inherent worth as women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 08:59 PM
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Exactly, baristas actually produce labor they are not well compensated for. Sex workers are physically and mentally abused for money. If a male boss asks the baristas under his management to suck his dick the latter can still halt the operations and speak up. Sex workers don't get the courtesy, their human rights are continuously violated. I'm going to unsub from some leftists subs later because their empathy for women is non existent and they have been worse than usual talking about porn and sw…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 08:53 PM
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Another disgusting thing is the many women who admit providing sexual favors to men who do the bare minimum of chores. 🤢🤮 Chore play anyone? So women losing their lubidos over men wearing an apron is BS!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 03:43 PM
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If he brought that attitude to the workplace his male colleagues would be speaking behind his back and hr'd risk losing his job. Don't make a woman have yourk kids if doing through bare minimum angers you this much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 03:41 PM
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Relationships drifting into siblings-like category is quite common. On my side, one of my ex bf started to quietly resent me because his parents really liked spending time with me, and without detailing all of their history, I can still tell you his parents were really HV. I always kept some distance and they were very respectful but we'd actually spend high quality time talking, they'd volunteer to pay for my travels (I was a student), fly me to their house, invite me to all kinds of activities…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 12:42 AM
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What happened to self-respect?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 05:06 PM
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Sis, no need to risk your life!! Stay safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 04:47 PM
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I don't engage at all in them, I'm just studying. But thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 10:01 AM
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Religion is constructed to be very powerful. You can still learn its taxonomy, how it's assimilated, what it produces etc. for your benefit. You can still organize your week so you have a "day-off" for things that are important to you, you can pray for yourself, write down affirmations, exercise gratitude ... find out what makes you tick, you can still have something going on and be happy. But question all beliefs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 02:32 AM
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I saw someone say religion was men's successful attempt at positive discrimination. The fact that mothers have to go through agony to birth kids just to have people believe women are a man's rib? 💀 Or that we should take a man's name and follow his lead?💀 Why does drivel like this need to be repeated again and again like mantras if they were so innate? It's such a huge exercise in brainwashing that I don't have the ability to break some of it down unfortunately, sorry OP. I'll say: learning abou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 02:07 AM
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I think it actually refers to the daughter in law's mom. The young woman hasnt had the occasion to live a normal young adult life (being on your own, making mistakes, ...) because she had to care for her own dying mother. Now that she's getting married she wants to live with the person she chose (her future husband) and their kids and not have another parental figure to deal with. At least this is what I got.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 06:46 PM
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It's going to breed a new generation of serial killers and terrorists: with an improved knowledge of technology, drugs, and weaponry. They'll hurt women because we always end up paying for their own shortcomings. More bad news: all politicians and law enforcement officers are scrotes and pick-mes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 10:00 PM
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Someone should blow the whistle on these hypocrites. Name and shame, the same way anti-abortion pro-family male politicians should be shamed for pressuring their mistress to abort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 01:52 AM
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Oh, thank you. There's no need for being mean, I used to have fucked up beliefs as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 12:44 PM
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On top of it, men are extremely coddled. When threads here talk about discrimination in so many words you'll notice a bunch of men making up things like "can't go to a park with my daughter :/" or calling these annoying "Karens" bitches when a female client is questioning them or doesn't trust their advice. In "neutral" subs, it's mostly dude complaining about being dudes than women? I feel like all of them, even the "good ones" have this victimizing attitude, I have never ever met a man who was…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 12:19 AM
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I'm so happy for you and your journey!! No, men have this POV where everything is catered to them, and their brain are so fried on porn, entitlement and audacity that they can't even fathom these activities don't center their pepees. Don't get me started with their white colon superiority complex, I tested it and I can see it. Women adopt this mindset as well, from pickmeism. Shame because modern neuropsychology is just catching up that these ancient ritual and dances have tangible healing power…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 04:14 PM
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OMG. What a pick me and what a pig. One dude at a woman's retreat? Who did she think she was, a Madam? This is so creepy I'm sorry it happened to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 04:09 PM
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Exactly!! In a word where we constantly have to compete on men's grounds and are told we are inferior and less interesting than men because we can't be as good (literally how scrotes rationalise paying female athletes less than the males) belly dancing is supposed to be a discipline that leverages on our own predispositions + was supposed to be beneficial for us. Men, can't properly do it, even the ones who are very good at drag, so instead it's fetishized and reduced to a dance to service the m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 03:42 PM
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Women don't even like being alone with eighteen men in a classroom or an office. Wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 01:01 PM
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I love belly dancing but hate it when the dancers try to be sexy sexy (you can clearly tell) and when men are in attendance. It takes you out of the excercice. Of course some of the empowerment people will hide behind how hard it is in terms of athleticism to justify attending what are basically stripper shows but I don't buy it. I can't say anything about belly dancing because of how fetishized it is "oh wow so you can perform for your man" 🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 12:57 PM
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But if she doesn't divorce immediately? Like in two years? And if alimony is pretty rare then why should she pay it, she was supporting him he wasn't being a "stay at home husband supporting her career". I mean these questions would be answered when the procedure gets started. This is why you don't confront people immediately, especially with cheating in a marriage. You don't say anything, consult a lawyer and devise a an exit plan that 1) doesn't hurt you 2) maximises your benefit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 12:48 PM
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SAHD are just leeches, try to explain how much of a scam it is and people will call you out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 09:33 AM
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This is horrible. I meant possibly when he finds a job, since his college days are over but that's wishful thinking. Maybe if she stalls the divorce...what a parasite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 09:17 AM
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Boys will be boys attitude 😜🤪🤪🤪 I really don't understand. If I answered back at actual clients who abused me while I worked in retail without informing the manager we would have been in trouble. Scrote kept calling her girly and the boss couldn't do anything about that?????? Let alone the shameless lying, tackling that was above their intellectual abilities. Even some of the misogynistic older men I know would have shut him down and humiliated him. Wtf. Why is he hiring dumbasses, is that the k…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 10:57 PM
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That's exactly what is happening. OP is bending backwards cooking for him appropriate meals and he whines like a toddler and proceeded to eat what he wants. He even accidentally POOPED on her face. How can you not feel the slightest amount of shame and motivation to at least try to make things better for everyone? For instance, my mom is partially disabled but she goes to all kinds of physical therapy, diet and changed jobs so she could be less of a burden for us and so she can still age gracefu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 08:03 PM
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Please ask your professor if you can work with someone else because you feel uncomfortable, and specify you'd rather work with a woman this time around that normally you never had issues, the professor will prooobably get it. Never smile or laugh at his "jokes", the first time you were caught by surprise. RBF and court communication, although I hope everything goes well for your grades.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 07:46 PM
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This is disgusting. ​ Edit; hope she gets alimony since she gave him his lifestyle while his ass was in college. Can't fathom making a possible cancer patient who was cheated on pay alimony, the justice system is really screwed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 04:18 PM
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That's something a lot of these "relationship experts" on Reddit can't grasp because they're low-life men. Even if you get some small things wrong, and you are at fault if your SO blows up at you for the most insignificant thing then they despise your guts. So many women show up on these subs thinking extremely low of themselves and try as hard to tell people reading that their husbands/bf are actually really amazing and receive so much admonishment from the male response.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 04:16 PM
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Exaxtly, wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 12:21 PM
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Because it could giveaway you using FDS! I know it seems like a normal word but I never see it being used outside of here and people who criticize FDS. If it's a common word where you live then I guess it's fine. I'm saying that for our safety since we could be vulnerable. In RL we shouldn't be using words like scrote, H/LVM, redpill, anything reddit-centric lingo etc. for physical protection and to better play the dumb fox. If you don't seem aware of all the manipulation tactics but inexplicabl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 12:46 PM
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If I may....don't use the word pornsick and don't double-triple text. The moment he said your move bitch three times to assert his dominance you should have blocked him with no reply whatsoever unless you needed to retrieve important stuff from his/your apt. Edit: so I saw other people comment in a similar way. Anyway OP I'm sorry, wish you well. Edit 2: spelling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 10:22 AM
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It's something boomer men explicitly teach to young people, including professors making jokes in class on how they get away with not doing chores. Is it surprising that all of them (men) follow the same scrip? "You're standards are too high, you're too stressed, you didn't tell me, nag, stop reminding me I'm going to do it, I was about to do it why did you do it, you should have reminded me". Now the entire meanosphere is up to date (reddit and twitter mostly). I read many scrotes explain step b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 01:05 AM
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I don't know where you live, I just googled "can I sue for sexually transmitted deseas" and many links and venues popped out. But you must be able to prove that he knew he had it before having infected sex with you to win the case. You can also sue for sexual coercion, the fact he forced you to go bare. Try as hard as you can to snoop for info, figure out if you can meet his side chicks, if they are innocent they could provide you with some incriminating texts. Even if you fail to successfully c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 12:35 AM
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This reminds me of those male college students who through a questionnaire would never "rape a woman" but admit they would rape a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 04:39 PM
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She should have asked him to reimburse her for the ruined dress and dumped him. Everyone here already said it all. This woman thinks she's being so smart but her scrote has been thoroughly red pilled, he's been taking note from all the scrotes on this website - it's over for him. Even if he changes and does chores mediocrely she's still in a relationship with a disgusting mysogynist. How can you live and have sex with someone like that, please love yourself a little.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 03:58 PM
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Probably coddled by his mom like my brothers. As a culturally Muslim woman stay away from muslim and ex-muslim men, especially if they have an anger problem and victimize themselves. You don't need that kind of rage in your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 01:06 AM
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This makes me cry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 01:02 AM
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Add men who use their sun signs to joke and explain why they are assholish/cheaters/lazy/whatever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 12:59 AM
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Maybe during the "admiration from afar phase" or when they are thinking about their ideal mate but concretely no. They're just more likely to resent her and if they can they will abuse her in any way that is possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 11:24 PM
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Do you have any links, I don't think I get it. Is that a scent you can buy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 11:16 PM
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Especially when these sex workers make a lot of their money advertising their sob stories where they sympathize with their male clients and their PROBLEMS (bohoo nobody compliments men, he's so loneeely, his wife and mother of his children is a b---- who always nags him about housework, he's never appreciated boohoo). I know they're lying and are only playing a part for the money (do they work overtime) but it's so disgusting. The epitome of trash pick-me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 11:11 PM
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Wow; And there are so many girls who see her as a classy fashion and lifestyle icon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 04:05 PM
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Marilyn Manson couldn't dare to pull on Data Von Teese the same crap he did to other women but he still cheated on her and was a junkie which are just other forms of abuse. Also Dakota Johnson is incredibly well connected and comes from a very affluent family. Never seen her movies (I plan to watch the Elena Ferrante adaptation though) so I can't say how good of an actress she is but she's the ultimate plant and nepotism baby. She may be extremely talented (probably, she had all of the opportuni…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 02:05 PM
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Love that! There was plenty wrong with your last bf though, he was a seemingly decent guy that made you shoulder all the logistics and emotional load of the relationships and weren't getting romanced. Wish you the best <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 01:33 PM
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I agree with all the comments so I'll point out what other things stood out. She's so beautiful I can't take my eyes off her. I'm developing a crush. Dude got fired and is failing all of his classes? Eww, gross. He probably deeply resents her and that's partly why he cheated. He's mooching off of her (netflix password) and really misses all the ways she made his life better (the whiny desperation, fear of telling his family who will probably have to pick up some of the" slack). Disgusting, she's…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 05:22 PM
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And we don't send death and rape threats to men we dislike. I'd like them to stay as far away from me as possible?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 09:26 PM
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They think pick-me have no self-interest and that they only have one desire and it is to worship men. Even the worse ones ain't like that 😂 That's how a lvm wants to be talked about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 02:53 PM
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Won't claim that as mine, I saw someone use it for the "daddies" and liked it 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 02:50 PM
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She's weird but reading it and not knowing her that's sounds like performance art from a glucose baby. Like when the stereotypical Playboy girl gets asked what she loves more about her geriatric spouse and she answers she's in love with how experienced and mature he is 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 03:51 AM
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No way that's not a dude. Pick me women don't talk like that. But I feel the same. Never understood the narrative, the one girl in my class that was dating a 27yo while 19 was looked down upon and she stopped dating him. Never have been with someone older and I don't plan to either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 11:52 PM
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The comments are VILE. From saying that women "fUckEd uP wItH FeMiNiSm aNd kNoW DoN't kNow whAt tHey wAnT" to basically treateing the OP like a prostitue "hope you are hot and can suck mean d-". The comments are VILE. From saying that women "fUckEd uP wItH FeMiNiSm aNd kNoW DoN't kNow whAt tHey wAnT" to basically treating the OP like a prostitute "hope you are hot and can suck mean d-". I seriously believe men are seen better than women for staying at home by society at large, despite men doing …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 01:14 AM
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Please tell me someone shred that man alive. Please, the sheer audacity. ​ Edit: women face actual discrimination in the workplace but never I see a woman complain because it makes things worse; nobody likes women complaining. The men's rights movement is a joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 06:05 PM
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So on top of self defense classes, investigative skills, building a semi passive income if you ever plan to have kids (god knows what will happen to your physical and mental health and whether you can rely on your male spouse) but now we also have to have the tech knowledge of a software engineer to avoid dangers 💀 I'm somewhat versed in technology, pick things fast and I know where to look for clues so ok it's not that big of a deak but life as a woman sometimes can feel like a horror movie. I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 03:51 PM
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Any man who uses the word slut in an argument is automatically an abuser to never keep around. Gigi is a bit of a pick me but she isn't a bad person, I feel for her. I think there's potential for her to do things right, I can see her winning full custody and it's probably better if the dad is not around. She can afford it, she's loaded and her own dad is like a billionaire. But definetly not a gamble any of us can take.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 02:16 PM
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Whenever someone was commenting "what about believing victims" these creatures come out saying they don't like Yolanda and we don't know both sides of the story. But the only side of the story we know is Zayn's and he plead guilty. Ouf. Do they know you can be an unlikable person and still be a victim and it's not going to be "deserved"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 11:58 AM
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This is why I can't take seriously mens right desperate cope that women are just as bad and violent as them, their statistics about abuse and what not. Men are rarely in any danger at all. On the contrary he could have injured or murdered her and gotten away with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 11:30 AM
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So many women second-guessing themselves on the relationships subs and getting gaslit by the comments for their hunches really really needs this. Struggling, putting themselves down, making excuses for their men... excellent post OP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 06:00 PM
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43 years to half-learn women are people too is a lot though. The bar is already in hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 12:51 AM
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Is there a TLDR? 💀 Not shading OP though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 12:48 AM
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Exactly, unless you have a boyfriend who is rich and generous (they'd still be private). No, this woman is rotating clients. No man (HV or scrote) would entertain and invest a lot of money on someone like that, unless they were paying for services. Her instagram is her way to market herself to possible clients.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 06:57 PM
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She's definetly a sugar baby or sw of some sorts, depending on the nature of her relationships. There's no way those are actual boyfriends, she's probably selling "The GF experience" though. She just can't spell it out on Instagram but that's literally what these SB do on that platform, especially if they get their followers from OLD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 03:24 PM
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Alright, thanks! I already do the whole non interested but didn't know deleting my history would help out as well! Honestly just tuning in with the situation in Afghanistan or checking the news about covid was enough 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 01:37 AM
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Came here to say that. She wrote she was the ball and chain of the relationship while they were fun 😭😭😭😭 I'M SCREAMING
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 11:44 PM
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"And you'll get empowered if you do everything naked, are sexy all the time, and have no-strings-attached sex with lots of men ;) ;) ;)"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 10:46 PM
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YT is very much responsible for the radicalization of young boys in the last 10 years, more so than reddit imo. They start searching up how to flirt with girls, get sucked into PUA/RP, and then end up in the fasciosphere. And then there's the algorithm hitting you when you just innocently look up the news or basic politics (even watching a presidential debate is enough). I listened to the podcast ONCE on YT and had American right-wing videos being suggested, just a no for me. So FDS is probably …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 05:56 PM
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Honestly, it could be Spotify playing with you. I have the premium version for free but I'm willing to bet they have a similar algorithm to YouTube that is well known for favoring far-right, extremist content and probably pick-me liberal content as well although that gets less scrutiny than proxy-fascism. Whether it's YT or Spotify I consume content that is mostly non-political: adhd, meditation, recipes, DIY that sort of thing. But with youtube as soon as I remotely engage with a lefty source f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 02:54 PM
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Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 10:27 AM
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This is mind blowing. Can we have a title?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 01:30 AM
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I'm so sorry for what happened. Hope that demon gets what he deserves. You're unbelievably strong, it's commendable. Love you as well, take as much support as you need (legal, emotional, ...) you're brave and you deserve help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 11:28 AM
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That's so condescending and idiotic. Do they think acting like a stereotypical psychic works on women now? Lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 09:32 PM
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Congratulations for everything 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 06:20 PM
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I would find that a turn off tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 05:12 PM
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Take my reward because too many people out there think only straight men are scrotes and would accuse us of homophobia (lmao I'm not straight either). They all can be trash, we shouldn't get our guard down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 04:58 PM
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Your boss challenged them online? Because he was probably using a computer as well. My god they are pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 04:42 PM
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Aaaaah there it is. You said you liked and were good at song writing so I got suspicious but being good and engaging in so many activities in front of his parents? Yeah dude got resentful so proceeded to play mind games with you using his finances. That's acting like a jelous toxic sibling but worse. He should have been proud of being with you, and be happy you were having fun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 11:22 PM
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Even with the explanation I still don't get it. OK they're selfish. But why the unprompted $400 perishable makeup but not the resellable $200 guitar? Is it a means to gaslight you? Like making you feel wanting but cornering you so that you can't complain? Ok now I get it. It's a more evolved form of abuse. I still need to wrap my head around this new manipulation tactic. Which shows it's extremely effective. Are they on twitter exchanging trash lab-rat tips like that. Because inconsistency anger…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 10:09 PM
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I've been on a journey to stop dd as well! I know why I do it and I understand this coping mechanism is not sustainable & I don't need it anymore. Thank you, I took note of what you said. Congratulations for your improvements!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 05:48 PM
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I love this for you! Thank you for the post, this is how it's supposed to be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 12:57 PM
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You know they've never touched a woman or seen one up close because they'd know that real women don't have walking filters on them and have better things to do than only posing in "flattering" seductive ways. But you'd think they'd look at their ugly faces and get a perspective on what is realistic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 12:55 PM
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I'm a bit late but do you have any pointers to stop that? What did you tell yourself to make it click?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 09:52 AM
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You're right it's a numbers game. But I still can't wrap my head around roster dating when I have never and never intend to use OLD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 12:08 AM
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Patriarchy is seeing all of these articles and instead of focusing on men's suspicious hatred for smart women, this info is used to convince women to dumb themselves down. It's exactly what Jordan Peterson did, men are in a crisis and they need women to be attacked to find a resolution.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 05:32 PM
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Apparently, before covid, the "new" club fad was FUCKING IDIOTS dropping tear bombs on people dancing. Please google tear gas in nightclubs, I did it in several languages and there are articles in many countries. I was living abroad and my roommates back then warned me that it started being common in that area.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 05:27 PM
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So sorry for what happened to you. I read the book and was so angry and almost sobbed. Some of the chapters in there ..things happened to my mom and us kids exactly as he wrote them. Keep recommending it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 05:19 PM
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In the book "Why does he do that" there's a section about abuser as a parent. OP, please read it. Mothers get shamed for staying in the abusive household but then get told they can't stop the father from getting custody. And if the children THEMSELVES admit to lawyers, even doctors then the mom is accused of using her "powers" to instigate and manipulate her children. The court system is awful and I think they do it on purpose. They can grant a divorce on the basis of abuse but don't mind childr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 03:17 PM
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Religion being positive discrimination for men, and society at large being extremely misogynistic meant that there was a time where men could get wives without their consent. Even though not all men married because even in the past some of them still couldn't afford it, but that's something people forget. Now men are inventing the "feel needed" thing because bypassing consent is nominally frowned upon and they haven't considered leveling up as a class which also means being desirable and learnin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 03:05 PM
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The only reason this guy has such an amazing reputation as a husband is because he was a major sleazeball that surprised his friends and your fiance as well. Always be suspicious when men describe the bare minimum (as partners and fathers) as being amazing. All of this smell No, maybe I wasn't clear. I mean he surprised his friends by getting married and being a mediocre husband. Like imagine the guy in the group who is more explicit in his misogyny and treats women like replaceable playthings i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 02:50 PM
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Strip clubs and just a lap dance, uh? OP no matter what...whatever they tell you is not the entire picture. This other guy has such little respect for his own wife, he has even less respect for you. If this is what they told you, they are hiding much worse. The only reason this guy has such an amazing reputation as a husband is because he was a major sleazeball that surprised his friends and your fiance as well. Always be suspicious when men describe the bare minimum (as partners and fathers) as…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 09:23 PM
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I just remembered, I saw a psychiatric evaluation of mine drawn up for a judge when I was a kid, and the doctor was subtly praising me for talking matter of factly with her without emotions and "theatricality". Now whenever someone says women are free to be emotional and boys can't cry it triggers me. RIP Gabby. You're right, being emotional is illegal if you're a woman. It marginalizes you as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 06:04 PM
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For the sake of the argument in which we'll nod along with this woman's premise, we wouldn't need emotional intimacy that bad from LVM who use those tactics anyway. That'd be degrading, and whatever "intimacy" you'd get would be extremely low quality or no quality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 05:51 PM
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You said it better than me. Is it a coincidence that girls mask better their ND symptoms? Isn't it widely known that boys get over diagnosed with ADHD and autism? Weren't the women here talking about "quiet girls" having to sit down next to "rowdy boys" for class management 🙄? So who is the sex that is most emotionally repressed by society? My dad used to literally torture me psychologically and physically, people knew he was terrifying and I was still mocked for having anxiety by my elementary …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 03:26 PM
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Thank you, I was rolling my eyes at men being emotionally repressed. 😑 Also no, it's not acceptable for women to be emotional women literally get punished for being female and human can we stop saying stuff like this? We have to be stoic and bear men's threats and jokes or else we're hysterical. We can't express our pain without being dismissed. Come on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 01:05 PM
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Ewww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 12:53 PM
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This man is the kind that has been rejected by a totally other girl in highschool and still holds that grudge and makes all women pay for it. You're a model right? He thinks all girls like you should pay for some hurt feefees he felt decades ago. Good on blocking him, it's a shame you have to deal with subpar mind games.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 10:14 AM
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Congratulations! Wishing you well ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 10:07 PM
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I'm shaking just by imagining myself in that situation. WTF.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 07:38 PM
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She's not even getting that, men are shading her for not really understand them and are asking for more compassion *clown emoji*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 12:24 PM
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Hugs <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 09:11 PM
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I'm so sorry. I'm disgusted for you just reading your post. I don’t know why it’s never guys my age but these creepy uncles that KNOW I’m significantly younger are tying to get at me, it’s ridiculous at this point. They get off on it. I've been mostly catcalled and harassed when I was 12-16 by a bunch of significantly older scrotes. They're pedophiles, it's absolutely not you or any energy that you give off. ever since then I get scared to go out of my house at s specific time in the after noon …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 08:59 PM
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"It's a toxic relationship but the sex is amazing". 1) The relationship is abusive. 2) The sex isn't even good, it's just the only time he doesn't insult his partner and she's given some bare minimum affection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 10:22 AM
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This might be a bit OOT but there was an old Jon Stewart sketch (in the 90s?) in which he's imitating/giving voice to a hypothetical gay man and his voice didn't become high-pitched and "whiny/effeminate" and lots of people in the youtube comments remarked on that and gave him kudos for it. Anyway, that's how I started looking out for change in pitch when someone mimics a woman or an LGBT person as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 06:04 PM
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Not the commenters being like "It's her choice to be miserable duh". It's nice of him to give advice, he might have done something that will change the young woman's life. People on these relationship subs are sociopathic, they see a woman self-harming through casual sex and raise their shoulders.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 03:24 PM
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I don't know what to say. Agnes already accomplished a lot and was on her way to do more. Can only hope there's some justice and that evil bastard of her "husband" pays for his crimes. Too many high-level women professional athletes have disgusting companions set to sabotage them. It's awful to think of the line of women, no matter how accomplished and intelligent, have supported their husbands but the same energy almost never gets reciprocated. On the contrary, they get nags, sabotage and murde…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 09:32 AM
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Is this why those delusional assholes at the sub defending the murderer were sharing tips about erotic asphyxiation so people could stay "safe out there with these new practices". I stayed there a whole of 5 minutes. This is disgusting. They are definetly studying this angle but why would he have "kinky sex" with a woman who they claim was unstable and was abusing and hitting him? 🤡💀 Defense sounds stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 09:41 AM
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she babytrapped a man without the actual trapping That part was so sad and ironic. OP herself has been baby trapped by her husband: he promised to be an "equal parent and be her partner"; had her have two children and now he leaves her with 99% of child-rearing, isn't attracted to her mom-bod, and is whining and coercing her to have bad "sex".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 05:46 PM
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This is a bit weird. I could never imagine selecting someone on a handful of unfulfilled hypotheses...Like dude could have flubbed his education, he could have made her life unbearable. Those are too many assumptions for me to take for granted. Also, single mother by choice might be a desirable thing if you already have money. What if you go through a horrible pregnancy? What happens to the great career you had lined up? Maybe if you have some sort of semi-passive income set up and savings. Btw,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 05:37 PM
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This is a red-flag matryoshka. The more he talks the worse it gets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 12:52 AM
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Nobody is going to ask the guy flipping burgers to drink urine (I come from the thread where a pick me was shaming an ex-pornstar for confessing how bad it was and told her to get therapy -_-). On top of these dangerous and strenuous sex acts these women are paid to be degraded and hurt, how can that be ok?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 12:39 AM
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From being a four yo and under his custody? 🤢🤮 There are so many natural mechanisms that exist to stop things like this from happening, on top of the cultural taboo. Imagine being so depraved that you go this much against nature and basic morality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 10:01 PM
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Yeah some people in the comments talked about their dads dropping the facade and telling them "you're just like your mother", everyone knows this is meant as an insult. Now that you have your own opinions, and you're not their little doll who listens to every word ... You've changed 😟
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 09:22 PM
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I have witnesses this in my entire first 14 years of existence 😑. Imagine having your dad covertly telling you - every day- that your mom is an idiot, isn't capable and that's how women are. My mom to this day still believes that even though she handles everything for the family, speaks several languages, is likeable, is a good businesswoman ... I tell her as much as I can how great she is, instead she praises me and tells me I was a good daughter to her. This has done so much damage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 09:20 PM
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Oh sorry! The original tiktok had subtitles and didn't think they'd disappear when downloaded. Bonnie Burstow, Canadian psychotherapist according to google.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 07:52 PM
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The title is about me, if that was what you were asking? I added my comment much later :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 07:10 PM
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To this date my brothers still don't respect my mother's intellect despite depending on her for paperwork, whenever they get angry at her they use the you (plural) because my dad used to pitch us women against him and my brothers. My brothers will probably do this to their own wives and kids. I thought this was just my family but apparently men been doing this. Keep an eye out and never bond with a man negatively over another woman. Edit: the subtitles disappeared from the video. The quote is fr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 06:18 PM
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OMG but yes, the abused would probably be asked to compromise on their boundaries and the therapist would enable the abuser by telling them it's the abused who isn't clear or coherent enough with their attempts at "communication".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 05:51 PM
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This is a bit off-topic but it's foul and so insidious that there is no official information out there about the danger of bad therapy or bad therapists. Yeah, it's probably because there's already lots of stigma around mental health but it's not a good excuse: now people are telling each other to go to expensive therapy as an insult and to tell them they are individually responsible for being abused and cases like that. How many irresponsible folks here on reddit told abused women to go to ther…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 04:17 PM
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This guy is the epitome of what I find disgusting and why I trust nobody 🤢🤮 Reminds me of that professor who was caught with "big breasted student/professor" porn on his tab and everyone was defending it. Why why 🤮🤢 No. If you need racism/sexism/rape/pedophilia to get off you are not to be trusted especially if you work around the people you fetishize. And the moment people know without their consent it's over, fuck off. We had so many posts from WOC (I'm white passing myself), but if we complai…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 03:01 PM
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You were duped Sis, but you got out!! I'm thankful I had guidance and hope other women who are seeing this can realise how hard we are manipulated to take into that role.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 12:22 AM
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I'm glad I'm what a Reddit man considers a complete piece of shit and not the kind of woman we need more of 👍 Never been a ride or die therapist mommy and never will be. Do not ask men for advice about your red flag ridden relationship, or ever even. These scrotes encouraging her to stay with him are disgusting and partly hold responsibility. Hope she sees this and checks the resources and books about abusive men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 09:56 PM
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Thank you for naming and shaming him :) Edit: I have no ideas but just lurking on reddit you see many tales where companies would rather not hire or retain competent women to keep an incompetent creepy male manager...I don't know what hold Schneider had on the network.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 05:52 PM
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Random sex jokes are rampant, I don't tolerate them but I wish I didn't have to mentally prepare myself but you have no choice. Instead of letting people observe me to see how I retort I blank face and look at everyone else to see if they have the guts to step in, I don't perform. I'm very intransigent and have lots of pride, even when I was the intern on the lowest step of the hierarchy I stopped male and female colleagues from saying stuff to me or other people using my composure. In school I'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 05:45 PM
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I do that, but the fact it happens in the first place is just so annoying and I don't want them to explain anyway. I have an attitude that maybe the first few days people think they can just say stuff but after a while, they all get scared of me and keep their heads down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 05:09 PM
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This made me cry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 03:36 PM
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I also live in a country that used to colonize my birth country and it's rabidly obsessed with fetishizing my race. It's traumatizing and I can't wait to move out of here because people make porn-tinted jokes in the workplace but are subtle enough that you feel ashamed to point it out. I'd rather not be represented at all if the only thing I get is 1) oppressed and need white saving or 2) hypersexualized secret nympho. If people didn't know where I was from that'd be so amazing ... this is so sa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 03:32 PM
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When the news about VR porn where you could attach any face through AI first appeared on reddit men wanted to know if they could also change the body (like in the video game) so they could get to their "ideal". The entitlement their pepees make them feel is infinite. I hope they never breed or interact with actual women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 08:58 AM
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There's a whole genre of Blue Beard movies that have similar plot points. They really show some of the small and big tricks that the man uses to 1) manipulate & love bomb the woman to be with him 2) to gaslight her when she starts to have doubts and suspicion 3) to isolate her so he can murder her without being suspected. Maybe the title of this movie is referencing Shadow of a Doubt, the Hitchcock movie about an openly misogynistic serial killer that marries and murders rich widows. Rebecca is …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 07:56 PM
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Me sleeping next to my flatmate's cat who is currently attending to his toilette 🤭 This rodent is so pretty and adorable and I'd adopt if they were compatible with felines 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 07:40 PM
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You should write books 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 02:01 PM
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Men own 95% of the property and feel entitled to half of the 5%. Dude is epitome of being a useless scrote. Bet his dick didn't work either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 12:14 PM
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Rape is also legal because if you do physically defend yourself you either increase your risk of getting murdered or you will be punished by the "fAiR jUsTise sYsTem" for doing so. Plenty of women in prison for fighting or murdering their rapists in self defence. It's also illegal to carry weapons or certain weapons where I live. Also the way women tend to do self defence is automatically seen as premeditative and worse. Men can claim "crimes of passion", "crime of honour", "being emotional", do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 04:38 PM
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There are whole subs dedicated to female politicians and AOC in particular with this type of content (including photoshopped images). It's traumatizing. It's not going to go away, it's their "fveedoom of speech".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 01:36 PM
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Lmao, popular Reddit opinion. How delusional they are. Men can literally be milquetoast bare minimum doers and get accolades and parades. They know"Men are shit" is nothing to be traumatized about: it's generalized and you actually have to be shit to be made an example out of. They get agency and power even when "insulted". Constant sexualization is much worse, it gets to you much more than any "men are bad" slogan. It's violating, inescapable and makes you a passive object. They'd get it if the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 01:49 AM
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I dated two guys who were both a bit youger than me (I'm in my 20s) and what I can say is they often try to act more mature as well, it's cute 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 06:56 PM
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He comes right of the gate with Hey, you communicated a clear and straightforward boundary and I broke it. Here is my insult and what is expecting you if females like you don't get my dick wet. If you don't answer me it's because my words are soo deep you are probably too busy digesting my great wisdom. Hope I ruined your day, in any shape or form, bye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 04:10 PM
1

A very telling and disturbing fanfiction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 10:45 AM
156

An undocumented woman in my town was trapped in this apartment and forced to do "amateur" porn (videos, pictures) with her "boyfriend" posing as her on social media. Her papers had expired, the boyfriend didn't let her get her paperwork done until she overstayed her visa. She was supposed to be deported but stayed at the domestic shelter I used to volunteer at (I wasn't doing much). She didn't even know what her accounts were. Disgusting, utter disgust. Maybe I should make a post but I don't wan…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 11:26 PM
18

The beauty standard for women is to appear more dainty and smaller than men, it's inscribed in our patriarchal culture. Why do they blame women for subconsciously feeling more desirable if a man is bigger and taller?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 04:12 PM
138

Short sweet guy vs Tall Jerk ....check. I will guarantee you that tall boy is statistically going to be less of a jerk and marginally better to date for your mental health and self esteem. I'm not like these other girls... check. May the force be with you 🤓🤮 Hakuna matata 🤢🤮🤮 Look, I hope this is a troll or a man in disguise because if that's a real woman she must be exhausting. Sis, respect yourself. The cringe star wars quote 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 01:28 PM
1

I interned at a place 5 years ago where they had to redo the stairs because they were uneven, they were dangerous especially for women, and not just because of the heels. This was possible because the unions intervened, management changed, it's a military/industry site so safety precautions were taken very seriously. I was told by my colleagues there that, unless good renovations took place, most doors and stairs are a safety hazard for women and kids in general and particularly in case of accid…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 09:13 AM
88

Remember when they thought female skeletons were male because those skeletons held swords -_- imagine if aliens decided that everyone who wore blue once is male.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 11:49 PM
5

Exactly what I'm talking about. I want to stay home when I'm bleeding, is that weird? I'm much more productive - and more productive than any man - after and before my period anyway. (the obsession on productivity is toxic but you get me). I haven't heard men whine about a paid vacation if THEIR wives were to carry their children. They happily take it and spend it in front of a video game. If you point that out, they turn around and tell you they were trying to be allies so that *we* are discrim…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 11:39 PM
2

100% agreed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 11:24 PM
6

Men are literally considered the default: healthcare, car design, building architecture, even the stairs are made for them. This late lib-feminist push to prove that the school system is failing boys is just proof that men so far were only mediocre and can't compete with ambitious and hardworking women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 11:18 PM
6

We have done great, but I wish we stopped "leaning in" and actually changed the system to something that is more suitable for our biology. Especially as we are succeeding while swimming upstream, we deserve better. One of the major things companies have done for women is giving compulsory paternity leave for men, which benefits them since they use it as a vacation. Everything we came up with so far to help women has massively improved men's lives while just giving some marginal breathing time to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 11:16 PM
104

Please have some money with you, you never know. Even if you're driving you could need an uber, you might have to pay for your own meal ... stay safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 09:40 PM
175

This is not surprising, but anyway most scholars no matter the field have a strong misogynistic bias. This makes sense because you'd think that, especially for humans that are particularly vulnerable and have long infancies, our survival as a species relies on a strong parental support system. This fable of spreading your seed as much as possible knowing that women can only have so many children anyway without supporting your own spawn does not make sense. If that was true then men shouldn't be …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 09:34 PM
8

Maybe leave a comment in your bio about DMs. I think I might do this: if a woman wants to dm me she can reply under any of my comments so I can temporarily enable PM. I can check her history first so it's neat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 09:30 PM
5

read!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 09:27 PM
67

So...what do we do with them? Most of these men have no interest in studying, those who try need their moms and sisters to follow through with their applications for college. If they can't be arsed to even do the minimum, what do they want? Positive discrimination and receiving more facilities than people with actual handicaps? They are addicted to porn and video games, they know they can coast through thanks to a mom that will do their laundry who they can secretly despise as they despise all w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 09:19 PM
37

There's this guys with this take. Eww I despise them: Hey, at least you're getting false hope. Many guys get no hope. For every hot guy getting laid every weekend there's like 6 others on a 2+ year long dry spell. They are truly evil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 09:09 PM
16

I'll tune in when you're ready.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 09:03 PM
21

Talk about men the way they talk about themselves and it's suddenly misandry? Can someone explain? I have years of subtly telling my friends they shouldn't approach guys and ask them out and have been received with surprise, telling me I must be submissive in dating since I come off very strong elsewhere ... they are being insulting and they don't get it. Do not offer yourself up to men, my god.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 09:00 PM
8

This is so true. I'm 5'5 and the CEO of my place is waay shorter than me, I didn't even think about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 08:53 PM
32

No, it doesn't happen, but never forget men do take advantage of women they despise anyway. That includes disabled women, always stay alert.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 05:01 PM
89

What a queen, this is amazing. This is what we want, strong women who stand up to deeply rooted misogynistic traditions, not these wimps who want to be one of the guys and sell out other women. She put her neck out and broke out child marriages despite strong opposition (especially from the parents that didn't want to forfeit the dowries they received for their girls).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 11:27 AM
1

Oh I wasn't implying it happened in front of you, I was just extremely horrified. I'm so sorry you had to deal with this guy. I hope he just said that to be an edge lord.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 09:59 AM
11

Hell no sis, did he try to rape an animal? No no, if that happened in front of me I'd do things I'm not allowed to talk about here. In my home country, in my birth region a psychopathic teenager was drugging and torturing/raping/killing stray cats, a woman complained, the police found the cats (they were penetrated by objects) and threw the boy in prison. (He's a minor and it's a 3rd world country where police are corrupt anyway might as well get something decent out of it for the community). Du…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 11:36 PM
105

The way (reddit) men froth at the mouth whenever a woman does something slightly less than ideal, nevermind something evil like this is pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 01:05 PM
32

WTF. So women getting under the knife and getting hurt to please a porn addict = ethical. Men taking birth control despite never getting pregnant themselves = unethical and damaging to them. The whole healthcare system is a white phallocentric cesspool, start to finish. She's making this post to warn about the surgery, many thanks, but this is so embarrassing. This is the ride or day they've been talking about. Trust her "man" will leave her because the pain she's in is too much for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 10:49 AM
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It's also a sign of a man who probably spends too much time on a misogynistic platform and internet in general. Would you want to date a male redditor 🤢🤮? Also men they do not need more excuses on why they act emotionally distant and disrespectfully. Like somebody here said, men and women are socialized differently. Women want to level up and be a better person, men are looking for tips to manipulate, they think they can look for the secret language of women and find things "that has them". As i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 10:32 AM
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Agree, if I had to generalise the woman would have been mortified of her own behaviour and embarrassed by how forward she was. She wouldn't push it again, and she'd question herself. He's making up a scenario in which a woman acts like a scrote who likes hard to get prey and gets aroused by the chase. Calling BS, this is fanfic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 10:55 PM
39

This guy is probably somewhere on this site giving greasy relationship advice. I'm going to say, he's in some really fucked up shit with all of the VPN purchases. This is so disgusting and scary. There are so many red flags this woman has missed, and moreover, she confronted him already? Extremely bad decision. Ugh, I feel sorry for her. She has a long way to go sadly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 10:07 AM
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I understand internalized misogyny if this is what girls get fed as a love story, this is so pathetic and embarrassing that little me wouldn't want to have anything to do with femininity. I never had a tv at home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 09:41 AM
353

She's more likely to listen to him, he's doing her a favor lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 06:40 PM
84

10 dates and he still doesn't know if he wants to pursue her so he wants it to be on the cheap, and all the scrotes in the comments are calling her out (and modern feminism lmao). Woman should dump him, he's indecisive and not into her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 10:47 AM
4

OP shouldn't you use a throwaway for this post, I'm scared for you please stay safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 10:34 AM
213

It's the "____" that has them. So much to unpack, I don't have the strength anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 10:31 AM
99

Women should be OK with seeing men being tired and doing their jobs. I think pickmes feel this inherent guilt about men (and dads) just doing their normal chores, because they put them on this weird pedestal, that it drives them mad and pushes them either to do most of the chores or to barter sex services. Of course men should know better (lol) and not take advantage of our patriarchal culture. Stop being impressed or bothered by a man simply doing his part. She pushed three melons out of her va…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 09:10 PM
39

Watch him call her a Karen to the kitchen staff, and verbally abuse her behind her back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 10:39 AM
20

Physically too, bet those hairlines on their peanut-shaped heads are receding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 10:36 AM
22

Wait a minute, we have to swallow male edge lord jokes but a small dig at his hairline is a sin? They always have it both ways, they can joke and turn around to tell us that we cannot cause it's offensive. And they have the gall to say people don't care about lame feelings. Meant male, I'm leaving the typo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 10:33 AM
343

I thought we outgrew this, male depiction of women on TV are not how real women act she should know by now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 08:31 PM
118

He twerked on his way to the isle? 😧 🤢 This is so embarrassing, for both of them. I bet he thinks he's so fun 🤓🤪 and such a catch. I'm cringing so hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 08:21 PM
4

I sent a PM for people reading this, the post is about a supposedly "sexless" marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 03:18 PM
4

Absolutely, if it was that easy then how would you get there in the first place if there weren't other things going on? Mental health and finances are in my opinion so important but then I don't live in a food desert where addiction is more likely and very much real. Also for many people who have an ED counting calories can be triggering but they don't care. They project their excuses negatively on people who try to be understanding and empathetic. Good luck on your weight loss, hope things get …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 03:16 PM
8

WOW I really love that you get in their face, I always do that when someone says something xenophobic or passive-aggressive about me. Well done for standing up for yourself. Yes, I imagined that shame would be counterproductive (and wrong) in every way. And tons of women put off vacations, outdoor activities, and even romance because of their weight. All of the emotional labor and noise you have to carry just to exist is horrible. I love how firm you are with your principles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 03:12 PM
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I don't know what's happening, the men have become even more scrotey than I thought was possible. I just read in another subreddit a post where a woman told her husband to make the sex session be quick as she wasn't feeling it and him throwing mantrum and calling his marriage sexless, despite already having sex 2/w while she's undergone treatment, and fear of cancer. Everyone is siding with the husband and basically telling the woman she should swallow it up and be his flashlight basically. 🤢🤮🤮🤮…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 12:16 AM
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Ewww, I just saw it and them they continued hammering that fat shamimg was good. These people really have no empathy, think women should dress for them and have no clue what's behind the obesity problem in their countries 🙄.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 11:20 PM
24

I just let a long sigh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 04:52 PM
25

Reactive abuse is basically just self-defense but the woman, who is in a relationship with her abuser, continues to stay either for logistical (financial abuse, isolation) or emotional reasons (Stockholm syndrome). They call it reactive abuse because men don't have the empathy to understand, they'll tell you "you pick them wrong", or "why didn't you call the police" (ugh), "why don't you just leave", etc. Of course, I'd encourage women to gather all their strength and to leave but you must have …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 11:50 AM
92

"Reee FDS women hate it when men are happy durrrr" scrotes whenever we point out their addictions to gaming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 12:06 AM
456

Block, delete and do not explain. I was never one to send long paragraphs anyway but this really thought me that communication is not worth it. Men aren't stupid, arguing in good faith, they're not ignorant. They're having fun at women's expense. That men cleverly uphold the patriarchy and lift each other in putting down women. Also I learned not to be ashamed and not to second guess my instincts, standards and boundaries. Real game changer, feel more confident in my everyday life!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 05:55 PM
71

An allergy on top? I'm so sorry, wish her well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 05:34 PM
49

Scrotes are among us if you get downvoted for saying that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 05:26 PM
53

Yes but there were so many women commenting like that!! They're high on those bonding chemicals and collective female gaslighting. I was this close to asking one of them if they'd be happy if their daughters were to live the same life as them. Women are too used to pain and sacrifice it's disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 05:24 PM
230

She died twice for boobs? For men who can't even take BC?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 05:05 PM
86

I just read the thread and omg it's so disappointing. A bunch of women living horror scenarios who are with callous men who demand unwanted sex while they work full time, miscarry, study and provide but tell other women not to shame them for their relationships because better men than that do not exist. I do not care decent men can or cannot exist, f me if I ever live like that just to feel 5 seconds of attachment hormone high and societal approval for being partnered up. F that. ​ EDIT: BY THE …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 04:58 PM
7

I gather it means Artificial insemination and natural insemination (sex without protection).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 03:12 PM
5

Gross and horribly stupid. There are whole clinics that can do a thorough vetting for you and protect you legally (on top of the research YOU should already do by yourself) and you opt for this? On an app? And you propose NI as a possibility, opening so many ways for you to get exploited, harmed, assaulted and dragged in court ??? I don't know if she is ignorant or chooses the stress and struggle bringing a child in this mess. 🙄🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 02:26 PM
9

Normalize making things even harder for women, driving them to burnout, gaslighting them by calling them traditionalists, and cash-in as a therapist. Seriously, hasn't she spoken with enough tired women and narc men to see where this goes?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 02:37 PM
14

Someone needs to shake her and tell her to respect herself. Sadly embarrassment is the only cure to this culture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 02:17 PM
29

If there's a female assassin chasing down people like this it wouldn't be wrong tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 09:50 AM
20

I think I only read 1/3 of the article I couldn't handle it, tgw writing style and the facts. Poor girl, may she rest in peace. Knowing reddit, I know that there's going to be a whole bunch of men making fun and getting turned on by this. We're living among monsters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 09:48 AM
25

Dude is disgusting, perverting something that didn't happen? Ugh, he shouldn't have friends and should stay away from all women and girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 07:02 PM
31

I second what everybody has said but: After that incident what that older dude or whatever she probably knows better though. What incident? "she knows better" is he blaming her for something that happened to your daughter? Is he fantasizing about it? Ewww. This is why you don't tell men about your trauma unless it's to identify a predator to the world. Edit: he's fantasizing and throwing shade at you and your daughter if I guess correctly 🤢🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 06:47 PM
7

She probably lacks self awareness and doesn't realise immediately how demeaning she is to you in particular but she is undermining her parenthood, her son and women (as a sacrificial class). The programming is that bad, even if it's something that happened to her I wouldn't give her the benefit of the doubt because I don't need another internalized/misogynistic person around me. If you reply to her something tactful along the lines that women aren't there to be shackled to men, especially useles…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 07:16 PM
12

Did she think you were a repair shop? Does this old woman realise what she's doing? 💀💀💀 So many women devalue other women so callously and casually, it's disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 01:17 PM
40

Lmao at the scrote lurkers here downvoting you. We can't see your comments :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 11:28 PM
8

Psychological warfare and cultural misogyny. They're preying on women's insecurities (something companies have created and invested a lot of money to maintain) to make some stupid bucks. Idiocy knows no bounds. It's his seed, that fuck can deal with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 02:12 PM
14

I just searched for deepfake ai on Reddit and what scrotes where saying about the app is hallucinating. These people are fucking sociopaths incapable of basic empathy for women and children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 03:55 PM
4

Yep absolutely. People who are sick enough for CP will not stop and will definetly use pictures of children of their own friends and find that arousing. The fact that as a society we don't chemically castrate or let alone successfully identify pedophiles is disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 03:53 PM
52

They do it to female politicians too, the younger and more outspoken the better. They disgust me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 10:06 AM
421

We have to lobby to outlaw this. I can already see scrotes doing this to their female classmates or colleagues to humiliate them (on top of using it for j- off in private).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 11:12 PM
95

I don't even know where to begin. Unbelievable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 07:03 PM
129

Try to tell them that and they'll insult you and pretend you're equivocating them with the "fake gamer girl, fake rock fan" stereotype. Tons and tons of rock stars shamelessly admit they did it to attract groupies but just repeat what they say and they compare you to an ugly nerd who moans about females. I'd hate to be like that, but I hate groupie mentality. The fact that so many of them completely lose their marbles until they throw themselves at them and say shit like "I'd let him use me and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 02:50 PM
7

The "actually could I borrow money from *you* " is such a power move.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 08:01 PM
246

I'm going to say you are right. This is a manipulation tactic. Op, report him if you can. Ugh this is so bad because usually you'd just block delete and find someone else so I don't know what to say. I'd probably text you do not have funds for misc surprise expenses or that you don't lend money, go train as if nothing happened but that sounds so dangerous and uncomfortable at best. And I'd hate to give any justification. I'm going to write down: never hire people from a place without management …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 12:48 PM
57

Love this for you!! Wishing you and your SO well ❤😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 10:02 PM
18

The fact that women get harshly judged for their hair/must/outfit choice at red carpets 🤢🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 11:47 PM
145

It's not even an actual Italian dish btw.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 03:01 AM
9

It's only OK for some women to be sexually harassed, didn't you know? /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 12:10 PM
19

Lmao all the disingenuous comments saying humans have me rolling. I'm not scared of women in general, although there could be individual exceptions. The only class of women that can hurt me are the ones that could do things for a man/men (madames, trafficker aids, pick mes, bonnies,...). Yeah women might help in the kidnapping of girls, but they do it for men who look for sex slaves not women. Even the women who might be petty in a work environment, they do it because there's the old school "the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 09:02 PM
3

Really helped me remove some blockages. Especially if there's a tendency to catastrophize, but I don't know if it would work on other people. When I have an extremely harmful negative thought, sometimes I debate it in my head, pretend it's a whiny hater, stay petty and even tell it to shut up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 09:51 PM
18

I'm so sorry, you've been pavloved really young. I believe I read somewhere that women have an easier time healing from these kinds of traumas, there is definetly hope and you can find peace! I'd advise you to read "the body keeps the score" and do some shadow work to work through the trauma of being exposed to this stuff when you were very young. You are not at fault, it is a form of virtual assault. I grew up in a country where society really viewed women as objects, where women would shake th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 09:40 PM
30

The worse thing is...they know and don't care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 09:07 PM
75

Yep, and it's really worse for girls watching. Men in porn are gross, ugly, hairy, fat, and whatnot. It purely caters to men, and it's the ultimate degradation of women. With that as an "education", women have learned to self-harm through sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 04:38 PM
39

Yep, you delineate it well! If many women are deciding to stay single is because being in a relationship is becoming too tiring when the option to be on your own is on the table. Unfortunately, many women still don't know strong boundaries and standards are what protect them. Like, you hear them say "boys are too much work", "men are a hassle" but then if they hear a woman talking about her standards they side-eye her. Despite all that, we live in a world where having a single income is not enou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 04:35 PM
234

I think it's going to get worse. Young boys in masse and even many young girls are having their brains fried on porn before they even hit puberty or have the vocabulary for full communication. Even boys who don't care about the red pill, who think PUA are cringy losers are still subconsciously consuming porn culture, you'll see them grow up and develop weird kinks and expect unfair "50/50" relationships where the woman will still bear the brunt of everything. I am really really worried about gir…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 02:01 PM
78

Omg, some of the folks on that thread are so exhausting. Imagine having to live with them 😬🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 08:57 PM
7

Oh wow, the cool girls are cool with everyone except other women. It's as if we aren't supposed to truly enjoy our lives. We should just be happy we get picked, hope our SO is too tired to seek something elsewhere and blow them to maintain the relationship. And yes, that's a summary of a tiktok by a woman who explains the pros of dating older men with lots of grandpas in her comments saying stuff "like I'm really not complicated! I'm so easy but it's so hard to find someone who understands". 🙄 M…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 09:30 PM
21

The thought of paying for a man 🤢🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮 They own 90%+ of the worlds property and wealth and still want more. I have my own speech about them being useless anytime someone tries to troll me with the equality bs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 04:10 PM
57

It's kinda stupid but I tell myself I can't do something and then immediately do it. Like I can't raise my hand or fill a glass with water so I can reinforce that thoughts aren't real. Also, before sleep I think about positive affirmations. I used to have horrible nightmares that really highlighted my blockages. Blocking all the dread and remorse the moment I hit my head on the pillow has helped immensely. Then during the day I take time to process my feelings but I don't do that in bed. Also sh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 03:59 PM
76

Their opinions should always be meaningless to you at the beginning. Everyone can talk, especially a man who wants to fuck you. Never act impressed, fish for their opinions if you want and delineate your boundaries. If they start negotiating them and your standards, especially using woke talk, you'll know what to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 08:17 AM
26

Only $2500 more? Ewww I'd ditch the fiance for being so greedy. Being with someone like that would scare me, but she still loves him and doubts herself. I know for some people it's a lot of money but it's really nothing compared to the price of a flat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 08:11 AM
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Maybe he was unattractive or thought so when he was younger. Men who "glow up" externally are dangerous cause they feel entitled to a vengeful rampage against women or some bs like that 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 07:56 PM
28

I thought she was embarrassing before she even showed him "wonder why he picked me tehehehe". This is pitiable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 05:00 PM
48

Some men are really good at faking being sensual and all that. They're not as attentive to a woman as they are to their own script. Your boundary didn't comply with his script (might not be the usual pornsick stuff we'd fear but it's still an entitlement they hold for their ego), before that you were just accidentally getting along.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 02:30 PM
78

It's the real-life version of sending you Reddit care messages. Hate that men have colonized self-help para psychology lingo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 11:02 PM
7

I feel the same, only women and kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 05:23 PM
55

Really unfortunate that the only thing these fake wokes got from feminism is 50-50 expense division and not.... Actual women's liberation and the fact we live in a sociopathic ruthless patriarchy. Those women are going to be even more scarred than they are now, and we'll see those mentality mirrored by men over here even more. Tell off a man who doesn't help his wife after she gives birth and people will hound you for not respecting his PP depression and that you are perpetuating toxic masculini…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 02:57 PM
94

Same. I think only women should have guns. If people who want to stay in these countries to fight forever wars really cared about the women then they should only have trained and armed women. Look how cowardly and quickly the men surrendered. Women are in charge of most of household management and emotional labor even in the West. It's unfortunate, yet most programs to help poor countries should be solely focused on women. Give women money, they feed their families. Men would use it to coerce a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 02:10 PM
4

I was an extremely poor uni student and I had sheets, a decent memory foam pillow and my bedroom looked really decent 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 02:03 PM
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Poor girl. My heart break for her and all of our sisters. Don't forget that some disgusting incels are probably on this sub right now JO over this and our sadness over these events.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 01:43 PM
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They dont care about the harassment that happens to women, they think it's not that bad and they're happy we're upset. The problem is, whenever i see them whining about dating apps these weirdos all talk about their fake fat/chubby female accounts they make and their logical conclusions about dating and I'm like.... You're probably american right? And in America 70% of people on dating apps are male but of the other 30% how many of them are actual women and not bots placed by the apps to lure th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 12:57 PM
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Out, je sais pas si on s'est déjà croisées ici? :) Ewww the Taylor Swift saga, and how he made everyone else gang up on her? She was a teenager if I'm not mistaken. I believe Irina was hired to do some damage control, I think Kim divorced him because he started being a religious nut (ironic after he pornified all aspects of her look) but the rumors about Jeffrey Star could gave gotten to him and his team. Not saying it happened, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 11:06 AM
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Kanye is obsessively controlling of women's appearances and grooming. He allegedly "forces" his partners to keep a specific manicure because he likes ass play (that part is true, amber rose said it, and Kim shaded him by showing her new long nails after their separation). Also, his misogyny is just one of a kind, he has macho man in the closet hatred of women. I can't believe people were fawning over him during the J Kimmel interview, where he talks about Trump and has this: Kimmel: Do you feel …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 05:10 PM
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There's a book I read so many years ago called "Models or cattle" (Mannequins ou bétail, in French) written under a fake name that probably denounces Luc Brunel. The book is at my mom's house, as I read it 10 y ago, and it talks about women being lured to become models from these big agencies while they are actually trafficked without them knowing. Many of them, who are from everywhere especially poor countries, are forced into prostitution and some of them, that the author met, have been murder…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 03:09 PM
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I don't think she would date Kanye West for free, especially after everything has been said about his sexual preferences. She was also was with Bradley Cooper and Ronaldo, all three of these men are rumored to be in the closet. Ronaldo's mom also used to verbally abuse her (probably along with him), for not being good enough for her son. And I think she used to get annoyed at Bradley Cooper's mom as well, for living with them? Considering how beautiful, wealthy, and traveled she is I can't under…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 02:54 PM
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Being LGBT+ is more acceptable if you're a musician but not as an actor. There's a rumor I heard Leo was afraid of coming out cause it'd jeopardize his acting career as leading man (same with Bradley Cooper). But I don't know if it's 100% true. On one hand I can conceptualize fake relationships for PR but this behaviour of propositioning women like that is gross. This is Kate W talking about men in the closet in Hollywood of all places: https://www.news.com.au/entertainment/celebrity-life/star-c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 12:39 PM
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I learned last year that picky eater doesn't mean what I thought it meant. I have high standards for food but it only affects me, but apparently picky eater means eating chicken nuggets and French fries 😭🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 12:27 PM
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I will corroborate that, because I know people in beauty pagents in several countries. What I heard was that he'd leave notes through his assistants who would contact women of a certain type to meet at an hotel room and sign exactly as you said. Apparently he f them doggy style, while listening to whale sounds (anyway he always wears earbuds). Every single woman states the sex is really bad. Moreover, it's highly rumored he's not straight. Apparently he was seen trying to pick up guys in bars in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 12:20 PM
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I just can't anymore. Living on this planet with people like this is setting our entire society to failure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 12:06 PM
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Yep and, at 25 she's older than OP who at 23 became a wife and mother to three monsters!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 09:41 AM
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Scrotes: male friendships are so much better than female ones, we don't betray each other and aren't that shallow!! Our friendships last a lifetime!!! Also scrotes: the slewer slide rate among men compared to women's is due to the fact men don't have strong social lives while women get too much support from their entourage which they are capable of maintaininh on the long term!!! Therefore women owe relationships to men 😡🤬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 02:00 AM
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I might be harsh but the kids are also a bunch of morons. My brothers and I never got an actual education and still didn't bully people around. My own dad (worst scum i know of) used to bring random gfs, abuse them and would try to convince my little brothers to hit them to which my brothers responded by protecting them and staying away from him. I know children absorb and yada yada but I was perfectly capable of acting stubbornly against my parents scrotery. And she's 25 now, she can't self ref…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 01:55 AM
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Add to that list "newly widowed men" or men who divorced a sick woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 01:41 AM
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You see sex work is work but the women who practice it shouldn't dare to have a family of their own. That means no parents to disappoint (if you do it's your fault), no brothers or male cousins (they are going to be teased by their friends), and no husband (what kind of s-mp and a c-ck would marry that), let alone children (aren't you ashamed??? your kids are going to be bullied!!!!! A woman like that? She shouldn't have chosen this type of career if she wanted to have these things). But sex wor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 05:34 PM
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There was a stripper on one of the relationship subs that danced for a bunch of guys who were bullying her step brother. You can't imagine how suddenly the male commenters became "anti sex work" 🙄. Slut shaming her for what she does for money, some telling her she should refuse people who know her family and so on 🤣🤣.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 12:40 PM
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Thank you so much, I'm actually buying this book right now. I read some reviews and looked up the table of contents! Thank you for your suggestion, I have been putting off reading it but you convinced me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 10:35 PM
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Everything I hate. "Gifting a woman" "Spicying up my marriage 🤪🤓🤪" 🤢🤮 "Look how cool I am" 🤢🤮 "It's our anniversary so I am gifting him my former roommate" "Accepting immediately and driving 6h for a threesome" First of all, how do you expect your idiot lv husband to have any semblant of respect for you when you show him slutty pics of your friend as if you were showing him electronics on a catalogue. I know respect from a scrote isn't a thing, but can't she see how pathetic and unattractive tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 07:20 PM
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Thank you so much for your comment. I'd like to say that I mentioned being on the Ace spectrum because of my personal experience. As a teenager is was extremely uninterested in dating and didn't think about sex, like a lot of my peers. That could have been because I was going through an extremely though situation but even then, a lot of people my age could have engaged in hypersexual behaviour, out of trauma. Anyway, the Ace community generally advises against labelling until you fully mature (b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 12:26 PM
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Thank you and everyone else who responded to my comment. It's heartwarming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 12:07 PM
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They have such a poor understanding of women's bodies and sexuality, and I'm being nice. I don't get turned on from random males, my engine doesn't start working after only seeing someone three times. It takes a lot to even get to the point where I can trust and respect someone intimately. This is my experience but I know women who tell me they can be into it quickly, I can't relate but we're all different. And then there are men who literally get turned on and want to f every woman they see, wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 04:01 AM
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The most important thing is to develop strong boundaries and standards. Everything else is mostly a consequence of that. I believe if you know when you are in a deep aroused state then you'll gauge whether you need lube or not. I'd say to avoid using it clinically, and automatically as soon as you start. Listen to your body, it's you who sets the pace for the dance (heterosexual relationships). Even if a man initiates women should actually decide when everything starts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 06:09 AM
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Oh interesting! Thank you for telling me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 11:41 AM
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Thank you for answering, unfortunately it doesn't work, I think it might be disabled in my country. On mobile, I can't even see the followers, and here on desktop, the number of followers I have is just text, not a link I can click on :/ Before I used to block someone as soon as I got a notification usersomething is following you, but now I have 5 followers I don't know anything about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 11:01 PM
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OT but someone explain to me how to block followers/not have followers? I tried googling and can't find the list thing to do that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 10:22 PM
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And she popped two of his spawn. Imagine risking your life carrying this scrote's children and he has the audacity to compare you to your 17yo body. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 03:06 PM
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As soon as she said she feels she can't do anything right I knew. He's either been cheating on her or he wishes to, anyway he's too much of a coward to divorce cause he has it so good and he resents her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 03:02 PM
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I'm so disgusted by the comments. All the insels losers trying to bait op and shame her because they think she's enforcing "tOxIcc MaScUlInItY and can't admit she wants an Alfa Male" are sending me. No scrotes. If you had anxiety like I do you wouldn't ask a complete stranger to talk to a stranger on your behalf if you are scared of talking to strangers. I'd be so embarrassed to bother anyone, let alone a date. And you wouldn't ask women to do things for you, when we are notoriously mocked and a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 04:19 PM
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He's raping her, she feels unsafe in her own home, she has panic attacks and she is ripe to develop some psychosomatic illnesses considering she probably feels safer when sick/invalid. My mom had a similar problem, 15 years later she still spends too much time in bed and is sick when something disturbs her emotiobally. The PTSD she'll have to manage as soon (if) she leaves him is going to be so severe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 08:19 PM
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I think it's porn induced ED? I also second the fact that p-rn sick men (who cu-k themselves into having erectile and intimacy issues) take their "pain" on women and minorities. Their misogyny pervades every aspect of their lives and their (racial) sexual anxiety intensifies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 08:24 PM
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Permission granted to all of you, of course 👍. Don't hesitate to remind them they are on your payroll, that they can shut up and that Satan doesn't suffer fools 🤣.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 08:19 PM
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That guy is still probably salty that thr smart girl in his class was smarter than him and didn't even notice his presence. Most DA are like that, wishing they were actually intelligent and trying their hardest to emulate that. They probably blame feminism and positive discrimination for all of their problems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 05:02 PM
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My previous boss tried to salvage something he said by adding he was just being a devil's advocate and I told him I wasn't aware he worked for me 😭✋ It's cheesy I know, like all French banter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 04:59 PM
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I feel guilty for liking rock music because (almost?) all male rock stars are utter trash men. The worst of the worst. Always knew, even before FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 03:46 PM
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Lmao as if she was taking money from food banks or the government, meanwhile big companies received state benefits and tax breaks none the wiser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 01:26 PM
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I actually cover my whole body with oil, and my sheets and pillows are pristine. Meanwhile my brothers used to occasionally leave yellow stains AFAIR. But I also wear PJ + my mattress and memory foam pillows are protected + I always sleep with at least two cotton sheets (above and below) and finally I naturally have a low body temperature compared to other people. I think it's probably eccessive sweat and a high body temp, maybe deodorant and a ventilation system are needed? In don't sweat a lot…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 09:35 PM
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This is what I do as well! I hold myself to very high standards and I want someone as considerate and respectful as I try to be :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 07:42 PM
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No, not HV. Grief is difficult and a gut wrenching process to go through, I empathise with that but working overtime to actually stay stuck in the denial phase is not good. You can't control people, even when they're dead. It's not healthy and it shows he also has issues with withdrawing control of situations outside of himself. Btw I hardly think he is even capable of remembering her as a person rather that a crystalized ideal he made up for her. I'd rather remember someone by continuing their …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 05:10 PM
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These men are old, with no social skills and ugly and it's up to women to pursue them and even pop the question? 🤢🤮 The author can't even offer anything concrete for the benefits, what does "strong candidate for marriage" mean if these guys can't even bother with a decent resume and cover letter??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 11:27 PM
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The most traumatic experience in his life: a woman tried to put his dick in her mouth and she didn't even bite it? Get the f away from here. The way he wrote a whole paragraph to victimize himself and to explain his PA 🤢🤮 Shut up. You didn't even go down on her. And the pathetic pick me boy: "opening up with your experience is king shit 🌈❄". The coddling of men knows no ends. Edit: these are the same folks who use the lock and key analogy on women who had more than one sexual partners. Pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 01:28 PM
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So "safe word" is the new no doesn't mean no, uh? Why am I not surprised, I h-te this world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 01:12 PM
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Vede retro Satana 🤢🤮✋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 10:37 PM
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I can't with women like this, and yes I actually believe it's a woman cause I see so many of them on reddit. I can't with women like this, and yes I actually believe it's a woman cause I see so many of them on Reddit. Imagine being this starved for male attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 03:50 PM
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“I feel hurt. I’m being hurt” This is an excellent post, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 08:25 PM
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What a creep, poor dog. He browses FDS, how did you know?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 08:21 PM
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I wonder if this is how those women end up helping men in their human trafficking ring. Yeah, I'm afraid it is. These women become so desperately attached to these assholes that they lose all sense of compassion for everyone who isn't a man. Many of them start when in abusive and violent relationships with men, they have them walking on eggshells which makes these women ready to please them so they redirect the abuse and have the men "appreciate" them. When the men get out of the picture *then* …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 09:28 PM
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Can we take a moment to appreciate the number of women who come here to ask about the best strategy to cope and accept male abuse ("I feel bad he disrespects me but it's my insecurity, my feelings are my responsibility why can't I bear his abuse without complaint?? Am I weak emotional female??? 😟"). Vice versa, let's also give it up to the all the scredditors that gaslight women in the comments telling them they are insecure and need therapy whenever a woman is upset about a man disrespecting he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 11:24 AM
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It's their way of "negotiating our expectations to the ground" cause they're desperate. If it was true then they would just let us grow old in peace. Truth is, the man you talked to doesn't have the emotional maturity to think these things through properly or to attract a HVW. His dream is to be chased by someone who will be his nagging forever girlfriend so he can dangle the carrot in front of her for kicks and this LVM is such a scrote that having children in his old age isn't something that w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 04:11 PM
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I hope I don't get downvoted for this. There's lots of men out there who don't want to commit, are only in it for the sex and yet only seek out women who want relationships and are turned off by those who want something casual. I don't see anything wrong if you're only attracted to men who want to commit to you even if you have better plans, as long as it benefits you. Nonetheless it's still better to be married before getting pregnant. Even if the guy disappoints you'd have more of an insurance…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 12:10 PM
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Not harsh, excellent advice. Clear and to the point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 12:01 PM
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Food and how it's consumed varies across cultures, and that's ok. Italy, France, Spain, Portugal basically Southern Europe and North Africa. It's not the country that does this, if a table orders two bottles of wine, several entrees, and a cheese/charcuterie board that are shared among people it's impossible for the restaurant to divide the check other than splitting. It's up to the clients to order in a way that is right for everyone, the restaurant will accommodate. I like bistros and I'm ok w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 12:04 AM
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I know. This thing doesn't happen with my friends cause we all used to be students until recently or because they have basic decency (we can cover for each other and the people who eat less/don't drink pay first then the rest can share if they agree). Mocking the "that girl" in the friend group is just part of pop culture, what I mean. The problem mainly arises when you are networking or having dinner outside with colleagues, people talk behind your back if you're ""stingy"" and will comment on …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 03:59 PM
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Unfortunately, this has been the norm in Europe (or at least the countries I have been in). Very often people ask for wine bottles and several entrees to split with everyone so you don't have the possibility to divide per meal. It's ok if your friends are decent people and you know in advance but it's well known that it can cause awkwardness and resentment. Often in a friend group, you have someone (usually a woman) who doesn't drink and eats very little so they either get upset at having to pay…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 03:30 PM
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OMG I can't even bear to imagine what the conversation and the vibes were like for dinner. This post also shows the dangers of having low standards from the get-go (first date is coffee and she pays for herself), her reflexes didn't kick in fast enough to stop this from happening. I know people have different reactions and temperaments but holding your priorities and boundaries helps women, even the ones on the more socially awkward spectrum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 03:21 PM
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Who in their right mind would let an inexperienced 19 yo (who is also black btw, wonder why) take the decisive penalty??? I don't know who the manager/trainer is for England but it must be a racist sociopathic POS cause even I who knows nothing about football knew he was going to get abused before he kicked the ball. No surprise, the black players have gotten plenty of monkey emojis on their socials.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 03:15 PM
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He doesn't even like her, she was the only who would have him and he's angry at her for that on top of whatever nonsense he wrote about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 02:13 AM
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I read it somewhere else in here but just pay for yourselves, even if they did actually forget their wallet it's not our responsibility. You're going to block them anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 09:00 PM
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No, when I was talking about my experience Iwas talking about my actual friends spotting me with other people and coming over to say hello not random men. It happens and of course I'm going to talk to them. I have several groups of friends that are separate one from the other. That was to say even when my friends or people I know interrupt me when I'm with someone else I keep things short, so her friend impolitely letting her attention drift to a strange rude man has no excuses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 04:48 PM
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Your friend is an idiot, sorry, or a pick-me. Why would you ever let someone, let alone a strange man, impose themselves during your private time and ruining your peace like that. There were times where I was having coffee/gelato with others and I was approached by someone I knew but the other person/people didn't. I kept these moments short and include the others cause it's plain rude not to do so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 10:20 AM
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This girl has the go-getter energy, it's not luck or having it easy her mindset is so good that whatever she wants she gets and it looks effortless to outside viewers. I love that for her. And I live for it, sometimes I can get into that "zone" as well, too bad I occasionally self-sabotage. If she stays with this scrote she might lose herself, I only hope she knows he's garbage because tons of women ruin their lives to be in relationships with envious worthless men. The guy is a misogynist: he's…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 06:44 PM
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Living in France I can confirm that people really change their tune when they find out about my origins. I never cared for the men trying to flirt with me so sometimes I mention them. I actually broke it off with my first boyfriend over his family being annoying (racist undertones). I met them at their house (never again, I was young but even then I knew it was wrong and meeting at a restaurant is a better idea!!) and some of their remarks were about that and I didn't like it. Thanks to FDS I no…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 04:11 PM
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I feel you. I'm not a hater but I hardly like any musician or movie director now because how scroty or pick me they are. I only admire Nina Simone and other old school artists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 12:43 PM
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Damon Albarn of Blur and Gorillaz would walk around with a Karl Marx book, showing it off for the same purpose. And no he never cared for the "cause".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 10:56 AM
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Unpopular opinion: just pay your fucking taxes and throw the man away. The last part is not the unpopular bit. I know people don't like taxes etc but at least 1) her money is going to get back to her and scrote can't rob her 2) there's probably a way for her to get a rebate or work something out. I'd rather pay taxes lots of taxes that fund public schools than have that money go to someone untrustworthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 07:31 PM
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She's a woman in STEM and she doesn't know about the time value of money and investment opportunities? If she can easily downsize her lifestyle by 75k she could invest the cash in a low-risk account; she could be a multi-millionaire by the time her future kids (if she plans to have any) become of age. I'm referencing kids because even if she splits up she'll be trapped and anyway re-entering her field will be practically impossible as she states. And she's with a police officer? Blergh. Not only…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 10:38 PM
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I've noticed a pattern since childhood honestly. The logical sex and even most women expect women to always be "above it all" and to always be moderated, never to generalize. Men are allowed to make songs and comedy bits where they can be as gross and misogynistic as they come (and hey YOU don't have a sense of humor if you get triggered). Meanwhile, we are not allowed any kind of radical or generalized thought even when we're trying to protect ourselves. Us being weary of all men and telling wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 09:28 AM
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Probably a man complaining about his tired and out-of-shape wife who doesn't fuck him anymore. "How can I get my wife to be skinny again and willing to sleep with me after popping out my spawn" wouldn't really pass muster as a question, even on reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 01:43 AM
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He has the same hairstyle as Donald Trump with a pubic texture 💀 It's always the guys using 3 in 1 shampoo that are deliberating about hotness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 01:02 AM
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I got lightheaded from all of the depravity this guy has. First of all, the belief that rape is a banal backstory for women to have to then become Strong Wymyn TM (women who can finally aspire to be equals to men!!) is way more common than we'd like to think. It's in many movies and tv series and this belief that trauma, especially rape trauma for a woman, makes you stronger are held by basically all LVM in my acquaintance. How do I know? I often end up discussing media with my colleagues or fri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 01:01 PM
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What makes me mad about this is that he gets to act like a scientist about it. This is our lived experience and we can't escape it (online or in the rw) but for him, it's just an experiment where he can control the situation he puts out to then collect the data and be all "unbiased" about it. It's as if when we complain it's worthless as if we exaggerate. Moreover, he clearly posted while writing and sounding like a guy/pick-me woman so he probably hasn't seen it all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 02:26 PM
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That's so cool to hear!! I feel so sorry for the kid and the mom and I'm so glad they are safe :) thank you for the update!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 06:46 PM
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So he cheated on a woman while she was pregnant, whom he used as a mommy to pay his rent, clearly doesn't have enough money for a child since he can't even cover his basic expenses and completely disregards the health of his previous SO and mother of his child. Man truly belongs to the streets. I would care about the health of my innocent baby nephew/niece over a scrote brother, and that's completely normal. I wouldn't call OP HVM necessarily, this is basic. My own brothers aren't HVM but they d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 08:38 PM
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Did you just call me out on my craft? 💀😂😂 My spirit guides said "no pick-mes, have self respect".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 03:14 PM
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You prob already know but keep a screenshot of this private conversation, just in case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 09:44 PM
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Lmao next time I get comments about my lack of smiling I'll tell them they're just not handsome enough 💀😂😂😂 The sad thing is I smile a lot, I even laugh on my own and when I don't it becomes too noticeable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:03 PM
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Thank you so much for sharing your story. Reading what you wrote I'm reminded of some sleazy male professors in uni that always gave me a shuddering "funny" impression. I have just recently learned how to spot porn-sickness (and maybe even john behavior) in men thanks to FDS, I was too polite and pudic in my thought process. So glad you're out of SW. Even as a wlw we still have to live in this patriarchy, might as well arm ourselves with some useful knowledge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 05:45 PM
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Never too late sis, sending you my heartfelt thoughts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 04:54 AM
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I think this works for every guy who has a deep complex about themselves. It sucks, but I learned the hard way that women who feel bad about themselves will tend to keep their reaction inwards and try not to bother other people / take less space while guys will man spread and impose their insecurities on other women. An empathetic woman who genuinely does not care about these things, to begin with, might fall into the trap of assuming women and men are socialized the same and the latest trend of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 01:20 PM
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Thank you, I missed this post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 11:46 PM
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This is chilling. A lot of married women's lives sound like horror movies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 05:17 PM
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That's genuinely impressive 😮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 11:49 AM
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This is so true and the imbalance alone makes me too tense to even relax in this world and orgasm. This is why I never took BC (my mom suffered from it) and when I became sexually active I mostly had non-penetrative sex + protection + toys. Told my boyfriends that I would NOT take a hormone-altering pill just so they could stick it and it was cool they were happy with it. The way we're treated by doctors and medical researchers is immoral, they care very little for our pain and comfort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 12:10 AM
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You're right, it doesn't make sense. I'll just take advantage of your reply to post some links: here and here. Also according to this doctor: Hi. I'm Art Caplan and I head the Division of Medical Ethics at the NYU School of Medicine. We're going to get into a tough subject in this particular opinion piece. Can you trust men? Why am I bringing that up? Probably, many women are thinking about that all the time, but we've seen recent advances and announcements about male contraception. We're starti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 12:02 AM
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But I thought women had inherent value and men were the expendable sex, hence the need to coddle their ego and fefees because the world is so HAARD on them???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 11:53 PM
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It can vary of course, but women are only fertile a couple of days a month. Men can go at any time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 07:32 PM
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They cancelled male BC because it was deemed unethical since, apparently, in medicine the side effects cannot be worse than the cure. So because men don't get pregnant, don't need to abort and they don't have issues they'd need BC for, the side-effects are too much for them. Meanwhile, doctors think it's ok to open up women and put them under the knife to give them -orn boobs and labias.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 07:30 PM
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I know what you're talking about .... and I used to live there. I hope the people who answered the poll get doxed and shunned, this is no laughing matter. The idiots saying that certain women are more deserving of being degraded than others ... it must be so easy to have two points of IQ rubbing against each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 04:19 PM
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Lurkers are gonna hate me but most men can't be trusted to write psychological papers or form theories about women's and girl's experiences, not that women are automatically any better. Here's Freud claiming abused girls are actually craving sexual contact from their fathers and here's today behavioural psychologists going to great lengths into interpreting women's behaviours in a way that coddles the patriarchy. And if you say you disagree then you are in denial, so much for falsifiable science…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 04:08 PM
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This has been among my WORSE FEARS for some time, especially now with the reface app becoming free and widely available to all? people can use one of your non-descript profile pictures for their own fun. I think there's a sub about it on this cesspool site and people are complaining about the lack of NS-W content. Reading the article and how defeated this woman sounds, even after she called the police (useless gits) is so depressing. If this happens to you, these scrotes can leverage the Streisa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 04:00 PM
8

What 🤢 🤮🤮 Vade retro please 💀🤚
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 12:32 PM
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Wasn't Jay Z grooming her, while she wanted to leave her father's domineering act? I think J was her only boyfriend and he's so much older than her 🤮🤢🤢🤢 While I do feel some sympathy for her I wouldn't listen to her advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 12:43 PM
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These men know they're full of shit. They just want women to be compliant and objectified but they know they wouldn't like to be treated that way. Hence, using the Karen moniker (especially after seeing other people use it) it's just a code for "shut up, woman" since they are not actually offering their real opinion or advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 12:25 PM
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I don't go around letting myself being hit, this type of thing never happened to me fortunately. When people are physically rude (shoving for instance) I do respond rather strongly but it doesn't come from my consciousness but from my instinctual hate of disrespect. And I'm not mindlessly building a lot of muscle mass, my objective is to be fit. Watching these videos and my own issues weight me down. I don't feel like hitting people, why should I have to learn mortal combat to be in this world?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 12:10 PM
15

Oh, how have you been since then?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 11:00 PM
28

I'm so sorry to hear that, damn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 10:04 PM
60

My mom has those 😭 I was thinking how hard it must be to have irregular periods or more periods per month 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 09:45 PM
65

Whenever I hear men complaining about the school system favoring girls because 'boyzz cant stay stillll!!!' I always have to remind them women didn't even go to school a few decades ago 😑🤚 most current school systems across the world were created for the males. Also look how different little girls act than little boys when they are neurodivergent. I had undiagnosed ADHD and was an immigrant with racist teachers I knew I couldn't be hyper and talk a lot because I'd be despised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 09:39 PM
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He had it coming. I'm so envious, I feel like I don't have the killer instincts or the ability to physically defend myself. Despite going to the gym I always feel weak, it's probably psychosomatic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 09:35 PM
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Imagining other people's pain (especially women's) is so hard for them 🤚 The most annoying thing about my period is the bloating and the feeling of a change in the center of gravity + pretending everything is all right in front of other's, men in particular. You can avoid being kicked in the balls if you don't do anything stupid and act right we can hardly escape this and they come every single month 🙄😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 09:23 PM
18

From his main probably, and then he'll brag that his negative comments got guilded.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 01:22 PM
10

I did report and block, and I'm sure I'm not the only one. But seeing how many comments he posted is what jumped out for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 01:01 PM
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I don't know how on earth you were allowed to contribute but shut the f up dude, all your comments on here were stupid and not needed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 12:47 PM
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The company shuttle would probably give my id away 😭 but I'd have to say while there was a terrace on the courtyard side that was a bit calmer, my room looked down the street and I couldn't keep the windows open because of the very loud noise (ambulances, buses, tramways ...) even at night. I don't mind the noise when awake, I miss it makes me feel like I can go out at any moment, but I need absolute silence to sleep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 09:57 AM
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I'd honestly see it as a good sign if a SW says that she'd never date a client/viewer because then I'd take it it will become easier for her to leave that line of work. I have none of that hope for men who are pornsick, men are masters of cognitive dissonance it's embedded in the patriarchy. Women are more rational, generally. I knew some actual prostitutes, who work on the streets. They are oppressed people in a very difficult spot, not uni students camming from their dorms, and they know they …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 12:37 AM
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Nothing has been as good for for my mental health as living in a place that had the following: historical building in a very nice area close to several tramways and two train stations that also had a metro extremely safe, you could basically go out at all times of night unbothered had two 24/7-open supermarkets two public libraries, one gym 5 min away most important of all a shuttle bus that stopped right below my apt that I could take to go to work (4 in the morning and evenings every 20 minute…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 12:07 AM
42

Not the most appropriate award but this is today's funniest comment. Stealing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 01:02 AM
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I 100% believe that. Since my brothers didn't share the same early childhood experience that I had (been raised by both my parents - my dad lived in another country when I was born, was extremely abusive, and also had cancer) I can attest that I am the only one who doesn't drink/smoke, never had casual sex, first one in my family to have a masters', I finished two degrees despite undiagnosed ADHD and poverty, and basically had to raise myself after being separated from my real family. I can also…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 06:23 PM
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I'm extremely curious to hear about women who have families who pressure and encourage them to get plastic surgeries. You know the families who gift their 16yo a nose job and spend every single meal commenting on girls' weight and embarrassing them in front of the family? I don't want to be rude but it seems that is very common among certain Asian, Brazilian, Middle-Eastern and Jewish families... Where I live you can't even get a finance job in the luxury industry if you're not a 000 skinny woma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 02:14 PM
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14. There was an "amateur video" going viral on PornHub that was actually footage of a 14-year-old girl getting raped. It took the girl posing as a lawyer for PornHub to remove the video from their site. —nnelson2330 I'm going to edit this later as I'm on mobile but wtf 💀💀💀💀 You know there are people who think PH is some sort of wholesome company??? It's true. They see stupid propaganda about snow shovels, free PH premium during the first month of quarantine, or "nice "post nut" comments or some…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 01:48 PM
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Olivia Munn? She's been obsessed with him for a while now, apparently. EDIT: my theory is that they've been dating while he was still married. He couldn't have this story out before the news about the divorce became public (to protect his nice boi rep) and this is why his wife was so blindsided by her own divorce. Anyway, trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 10:54 AM
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I grew up with my mom, grandparents and several aunts and uncles who all cared for me, changed my diaper, fed me, played with me etc. Their love is and was so pure I'll be forever grateful for my luck and I believe it's truly what gave me a lot of confidence for all the shit that came after. Also my mom wasn't emotionally well after giving birth, so the price of this kind of support is unmatched.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 10:40 AM
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Thank you for your service Queen. I'm going to 🤢🤮🤮🤮 now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 10:06 AM
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I'm so sorry, I understand what you mean. Your subconscious tried to block you from forming some unwanted bonds with a dangerous person. Maybe I should add that in my comment, I see why there are so many reasons why a woman doesn't come. Studies like this don't always explore how vulnerable and dangerous it is for a woman to be alone with a man in a sexual setting. With so many abusive men out there ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 09:20 AM
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I think the gap is in largely due to men being incompetent and/or selfish, especially if we're talking about hookups where men explicitly state that they don't care about the woman. But unpopular opinion: even when the guy is determined and skilled a lot of women are uncomfortable with receiving pleasure in a heterosexual dynamic due to social norms, porn culture, and sometimes even pick-meism. Regarding pickmes in particular, I hear lots of women who claim they don't need orgasms to have a good…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 08:12 PM
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I think the point of this post is to say that men can't claim they are in their prime at 50, therefore entitled to date 19yo virgin women as so many folks over the manosphere delude themselves to believe. We all age, and none of us owe beauty to others. 50+ people are still allowed to feel good about themselves and be happy about how far they've gone in life (without the entitlement that scrotes can't help but feel :D ).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 03:09 PM
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I think he's also an involved activist: awareness against sexual harassment, rape, date rape, child sexual abuse and environment. Which is pretty cool. Ross is still awful and a "nice guy".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 03:03 PM
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It was also supposed to be for people who had serious disabilities or disfigurements (think acid or fire burns) and found themselves isolated because of it, which is something I actually have empathy for. Having acid thrown at me is seriously one of my phobias and I can see how your professional, social and dating life could be affected.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 07:00 PM
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Really is potentially abusive. He found out a woman liked him and now is asking reddit scrotes and pickmes how to turn her weakness to his advantage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 06:49 PM
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Same! Sis, imagine buying yourself a manor and maybe open it to the public as a bed and breakfast in the summer. I need to show people these ones: the library in this one actually has me floored ladies please look at the 4th pic this has some 1930 - Old Hollywood vibes this house makes me want to open a boarding school or some business I would raise a family here or open a b&b because it looks so cozy and familial If you sort by price, some of them aren't even that expensive compared to an apart…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 01:00 PM
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I'm from France too and I already have my sights on what I like :D Ugh, l'administration. Tell me about it. The biggest issue is not even the price tag (LMAO I can't believe I said that) but the location. My dream house is not as much as an actual castle, although that'd be rad, but a nice historical mansion. A maison de maître or hôtel particulier in a city would be nice too; I haven't finished my life plans. I think that even if I become financially indipendent I'd still like to work for that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 09:59 AM
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Sis same, it's my dream. Either a directory style house or a chateau. I heard it was possible to buy one with a viager sales contract in France.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 10:07 PM
28

Yesterday I got traumatized reading about men asking tips to SA their -probably minor - sisters/family members they can shut the f up about "most toxic sub". Losers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 11:24 AM
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Sis, I'm cursing him under my breath 😭😭💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:35 PM
42

Often men of color treat white women (and their mixed kids) better, they manage to present themselves in a nicer more idealistic manner. So it goes without saying, vet vet vet. I know cause depending where I go I get to be white passing and when people find out my origins/religious background both the racists and my 'compatriots' treat me very differently 🙂. Like you, I have a preference for people who have experienced adversity, express gratefulness and have taken the responsibility to heal and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:29 PM
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They get female attention, an ego boost (the I still got it factor), they get the thrill of doing something illicit and they could revel (sometimes subconsciously) in the fact they're humiliating their partner who is probably too overworked to soothe his fragile ego and perhaps told him he was a slob so now they want revenge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 04:19 PM
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"Moving to your city." That's scrote for "I have a GF/Wife I want to cheat on but don't wanna get caught and if I don't find a cluelessly compliant side-chick I still have the convenient excuse of being between jobs/moves", usually the poor woman is pregnant/a mom or she's the breadwinner. The guy thinks he's sleek and that he won't look like an asshole to both his SO and this new girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 03:05 PM
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Omg. Lmao actual money? 💀 And then they say the paygap doesn't exist and that women and POC just aren't good enough and don't know how to leverage opportunities as well as yt dudes 💀. Men look after each other meanwhile women at work try to coddle and hire males so that they can't be accused of being biased or god forbid political (hello HR). For the anectode, the last internship before graduating college my boss hired an apprentice who not only looked like he could be his father, dude also happ…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 06:59 PM
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This reminds me of something. You know a lot of the older men I work/ed with hire male interns that look like them. I comment on it every once in a while, it's like they're choosing their sons. And they'll hire a woman only if they get pressure from HR (it's so wonderful when they want to resent them later and want to imply they don't deserve the job but they can't because they actually have qualifications and soft skills 😏).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 05:54 PM
42

He designated survivor his spawn?? 😭 Everyday I learn something new I rather didn't 🤚
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 05:48 PM
39

We can't even have dads now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 09:36 AM
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I don't go around saying I hate men for exactly this reason 😭😭 I know they will violently find that sexually stimulating. I had a man asking me if I hated them and I just said no, I don't really pay that much attention to those things 😭. But your actions speak louder than words and silently maintaining boundaries can buy you so much leeway and dare I say "respect".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:36 AM
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Brooke Shields, Britiney Spears, Christina Ricci ... all started as incredibly talented young girls that had to be targeted for male pleasure. Brooke Shields is still in denial for what her mother forced her to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:04 PM
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Oh god, I'm so sorry. Really am, what a piece of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:28 PM
20

You're very insightful even if you didn't watch it! The movie (I'm not an easy man, I believe) was interesting and quite acclaimed by the audience but don't get your hopes up if you are expecting an actual alternative world with the power flipped. I remember it was very simplistically made (but how can men understand otherwise lmao) but it was really unrealistic. The marketing was either wrong or wrong on purpose, a matriarchy wouldnt work the way it was depicted - not at all as you guessed corr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:18 PM
10

Omg thank you so much, didn't know about the short! I will definetly check it out this weekend :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 12:37 PM
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OMG let me tell you. You know when they pseudo-philosophize about "which gender has it really bad" and they yap about women "living on easy mode" or what they'd do if they "were women tomorrow"? They always ALWAYS resort to a fantasy where they are promiscuous and dress provocatively. That's their definition of womanhood basically. I remember a while ago French Netflix had this movie about a man waking up in the matriarchy where he and other men were sexually harassed by women - who in this univ…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 11:24 AM
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Same, it's disgusting. I wish we could normalize telling women about their husbands being such sluts but since I stop the flirting as soon as I detect it there's very little to lead with if I am ever to approach the wife. I'm sure the situation would backfire against us, especially if we're younger or if they are colleagues. Also, some men even had the audacity to tell me that I should be more selfish in going after what I want (lmao and that would be you?????) cause "being too ethical is overra…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 07:50 AM
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This is a real thing y'all. I had to scream on my phone to force my brother and my mom to neuter his cat a year ago because he didn't want to (projection!!!!!!!!!!) and yes, and the fact males don't get pregnant. This is so irresponsible, I browsed the website of an adoption center and many cats in his town were found with feline HIV. I booked a vet appointment for him to force him to listen to an actual professional because apparently I'm too whitewashed to be listened to for these matters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 07:34 AM
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Now she has the entire mainstream of Reddit against her accusing her of farming sympathy through a PR operation. Billy escapes their considerations, of course. She's the gold-digger that gets to be under scrutiny. Edit: I'm sure she's not innocent but how come she's a self-serving digger who condones pedophilia while allegations about her husband aren't even taken seriously outside of the qanon or anti-vaxxer crowd???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 12:16 PM
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And she was looking after her aging parents too? And for a long time she pretended to be "oNe of DA bOyzzz" at her stupid misogynistic video game company? And now she's dissolving and laying off her own employees in the middle of the pandemic because her stupid husband couldn't handle the spawn???? And her stupid scrote husband instead of being a normal father spent his time teaching his sperm how to disrespect their mother while she worked?? And now they have to live off her own savings??? I'm …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 02:35 AM
5

Or worse OPP 🙄 🙄 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 09:18 PM
6

It's an emoji I wanted to use to show my gratitude :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 08:38 PM
66

It's the feminism in practice manual that I've always been waiting for ( ื▿ ืʃƪ)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 03:53 AM
16

I'm so sorry this happened to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 08:06 PM
3

You're so kind, thank you for interacting really improved my mood today <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 05:17 PM
1

hypocritical Do you mean undercritical here? Or insincere/hypocrisy? Hypocrisy. I'd say that most people where I work try to be woke (I'm not in the US so their version of woke is, of course, different, since it's another culture) and they verbally acknowledge the fact that gratuitous negative criticism and gossip should be frowned upon. Do they believe that tho, and do they actually act like that? Not really In France, people tend to be extremely critical and usually they get triggered if you b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 04:50 AM
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For me, I do it to protect myself, self-preservation. Esp when you're not white things like plucking your eyebrows and waxing can help in not making you stand out negatively or attract hurtful stereotypes. It's completely normal to want some respect and one way you get some of that is through outer appearance. Even if it's superficial, it makes things go smoothly. It's sad, and I don't like it either. Being beautiful is cool, and doing things to achieve a certain look can be fun every once in a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 09:24 PM
16

You can push the envelope by complimenting a famous woman...not necessarily a "celebrity/performer" but say a scientist, a writer, screenwriter/director a doctor, or a journalist who has been on the news. The overwhelming majority of the time, men will want to bring up the fact that she's a woman (even though their gender has nothing to do with their accomplishments) because then they see an opportunity to make disparaging comments. In my circles, it is really bad form to put down a colleague or…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 08:25 PM
1

I understand what you mean, I appreciate it and I agree to a general extent but there are limits to everything. Believe me, I know my way around courts. My father was horribly abusive, particularly to me and then my mother, and I knew my mother wasn't to blame. She tried to shield me as much as possible and her margin of action was very small so I was not saying this with a heartless mindset. I'm not blaming women who are abused for the abuse happening to their children. I've lived in women's sh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 05:07 AM
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The mother is abusing the child too at this point, even if it's second-degree exposure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:35 PM
4

What 💀 we really need to have a discussion about gay/bi people in a seemingly open hetero official relationship (often with an heterosexual spouse) who think that cheating and or dating outside without disclosing their status is OK because they're "queer".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 03:27 AM
16

Most of the red flags that I struggled to identify with men in general I was able to pick up on from wlw, it was very instructive. The low key fuckboy mentality, the dismissal, the diminishing of your problems, always disagreeing to whatever thing you say.... These are signs of insidious emotional abuse that were easier to recognise for me as being a premeditated attempt at manipulation (I though I was too sensitive 🤡 I'm not even that sensitive or emotional 🤡). Now I see that behaviour everywhe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 06:02 PM
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Also, what’s with this idea that you can’t judge a person by the tasks they do and don’t do? It's one of the many differences that exist between being a mom and a dad. Dads are judged to be good at parenting if they spend time with their kids, have fun with them (Facebook dad here), and basically if they don't abandon them. They're not judged for the tasks they need to accomplish (which aren't even valued) but for the sentimentality of their mere presence. Moms are judged based on the tasks they…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 11:20 PM
10

We play into it and pretend that we can handle it "all" because we're scared men will take advantage of us and therefore have an excuse rooted in capitalism to take away our rights and our freedom to be financially independent. It's so sad but I'll take burnout instead of going back to not be a house slave. This is why we need feminism, as a moment for liberation not equality with men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 11:10 PM
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I think I was comfortable with it, because I am so busy You're too busy OP to answer him, but not busy enough to block and delete ;). What a self-aggrandizing twat, he's not clueless just deprived of basic decency.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 04:39 PM
236

Finally recognizing that men will always have the audacity to assume they are smarter than us, despite how obviously intelligent and accomplished we can be, was so freeing. There is no point in seeking their approval, on the contrary, that would be degrading. They are free to underestimate us, while I'll find their ineptitude and incapacity of recognizing my humanity as amusing from my point of privilege. Their opinions are worthless, and how can they not be? Women are required to work, study, m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 05:01 AM
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Jesus. ACAB, because what is even the point of them? They can't even fake being useful? This is basicaly the purge universe. This is distressing because it means that a guy can basically roofie a woman to rape or murder her (or both), claim she OD on her own drugs, and get away with murder. The family of the dead person needs a very good lawyer for that one (unless it's a state attorney who is working on a dead victim's case?). I have a friend who had her pepper spray confiscated during a "routi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 03:35 AM
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At first, I was like...it is literally illegal not to help someone in need, it's a very serious crime. Many people have ended up in prison for it. Then I googled and found out that in the US (from where - I guess - this scrote comes from) there is no obligation whatsoever to help someone who is dying, injured or under attack. I'm shocked. While it's a crime in many countries here is an anecdote I find horrifying from Wikipedia: In an 1898 case, Buch v. Amory Mfg the New Hampshire Supreme Court u…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 03:12 AM
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Who wants to bet he's getting his dick wet when she's babysitting her ex's children that he made when he was still in a relationship with her? It's like the seventh ring of pickme hell. He's probably dating around giving women sob stories about his dead wife, how he's a lonely widow and his kids are his little rays of sunshine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 12:37 PM
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SAME. If you visit the original post and sort comments by controversial you can see how he feels about our sub too LMAO these guys are energy drainers which helps them in thinking everything they do is god's gift to earth. The fact this was some grand realization EUREKA moment is so pathetic and he's being rewarded?? Some women fall for this cause they're too tired to sort the ideas society is bombarding them with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 03:30 PM
47

Imagining how great of a man and how good of a boyfriend I would be is why the bar I hold for men stays high.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 02:32 PM
21

Thank you for your replies! I keep these feelings inward: outside they don't show it's just that in the back of my head I always think that any person is capable of the worst.. I don't let these things get out of hand but I did feel bad for thinking this way :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 10:14 AM
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So basically I'm not paranoid, my anxiety isn't irrational - got it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 03:23 AM
10

I thought he was married to his (male) rival surgeon on tiktok LMAO I thought they were flirty husbands omg. Good for him anyway, I love his content.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 07:35 PM
14

I can't even bring myself to have free food with the nice side of my family - for whom I don't have to wax and at least I know they're not going to rape or murder me - who gave them the audacity to think I'm enjoying food with mediocre to terrifying company.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 11:35 PM
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Right? Dating is not a human right, yet he sounds like he's complaining to Feminism HQ that gender roles are oppressive LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:42 PM
3

Mouse infestation? Why are these people keeping a women's shelter in these conditions? I'm so sorry to hear this, you're very strong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:36 AM
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Sorry to hear that, that's awful. Sending you lot's of love. I lived in a women's refuge for six months, I understand a bit. I can't cope if the house is not spotless, I need everything to be clean + candles lit + everything organized and pretty, my roomates now are very clean and too proud to have me complain. Hope everything gets better soon. Hugs xxx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 09:04 PM
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Among the many glaring red flags and all of the outrageous audacity ... it is extremely common for LVM (and frankly LVW, roommates or partners) to shame you and put you on the spot if you have standards for tidying and cleaning. They make it a "you" problem if you like things to be clean and "you don't have to do it if you do not want to" and "if it is really important for your mental health to live in a clean pleasant home it is your responsibility to deal with these feelings". Observe how many…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 06:29 PM
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He gets help from his family too on top of the 125% child support payments 😭😭 dude is super privileged and doesn't acknowledge it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 02:11 PM
21

Yep, exactly. They changed the frequency of payment, the amount they could charge among other things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 05:49 AM
42

Depending on where you live, banks can also close your accounts without an explanation. OF, I believe, suddenly changed their pricing policies last year to the detriment of many 'providers' so at any point they're not even free to charge as much as they "want" like they're being convinced they can.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 05:08 AM
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I used to know some sex workers through volunteering work (7-5 years ago), they were immigrant women who had "normal" day jobs at school/work canteens - something we helped them find - and did prostitution on the weekend and some nights. Most of the "profit" would then be sent for their children and parents back to the home countries, the families know and they gladly pocket the money. I'm genuinely empathetic to women from similar backgrounds but it was this experience that thought me the dange…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 01:04 AM
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I got banned from the ask feminist sub after being snarky to the moderator who was like "aCtIvE fDs uSeRs cAnT pOsT tOop cOmmEnts" but pick me man with uninteresting perspective gets the most awards just for writing about not being a s-itty man. Lib fems love glass elevators and are not to be trusted for our well-being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 12:27 AM
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My brother's cat looks exactly like this dapper gentleman - it's uncanny, up to the bald eyebrow spots 😭 I sent him the Reddit post earlier today, his cat isn't as romantic but still a good boi.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 11:07 PM
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Thank you for your kindness! I love fire placements and Jupiter energy, my Jupiter is in sag and the person I'm seeing rn has their Jupiter conjunct my Venus in Aries which is really really nice, he's so happy whenever we get to hear from or see each other! For relationships take a look at the moon signs and how they interact with each person's personal planets, fire placements need continuous mental stimulation, ideally they will be with people who will respect their aspirations and ambitions. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 06:47 PM
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Thank you so much, I was insecure about this but everyone here is so nice!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 11:07 AM
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That's so nice of you to say, tbh. Really glad you commented.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 09:53 AM
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I'm sorry if I'm a bit out of topic and you can delete my comment, but I've taken an interest in astrology lately and that reminds me of a saturn square mars aspect dynamic. Looking at it metaphysically, there are people who will thoroughly dislike your energy and drive and will do anything to undermine you. This usually starts with quip jabs and negs about your interests. Anytime you show any enthusiasm, they're triggered and they have to shut it down, if you don't talk you don't talk enough an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 09:23 AM
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I'm so ashamed of me coming out now. Like, I'm cringing right now. I hate this. I hate scrotes, they can choke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 09:47 PM
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This is so embarrassing, especially when these girls are saying these preferences are due to their "daddy issues" 💀🤦. Porn, TV and music is increasingly being polluted with subliminal and not so implicit messaging about these things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 01:55 PM
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Why isn't she cOmMunIcAtIng that she wants her child not to be dropped and injured?? Anyway, in the animal world - something I have heard many men say whenever they are about to justify misogynistic practices - the female of the species does attack anything that threatens her children's well-being. This woman has to grow up and put her baby daughter FIRST and protect her from all enemies - foreign and domestic - instead of nursing her hubby's feelings. There is no excuse for this behavior, he's …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 12:47 PM
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The purpose of the belladonna you ask? Oh just to enlarge my pupils so my husband enjoys looking into my eyes when he r---- me ☺😊😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 07:43 PM
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Not only they murder and terrorize but if they also have a face that looks like somebody's son they'll still be coddled and victimized by the press, who will ask us to empathize with the difficult upbringing that stunted their potential :'(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 04:37 PM
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Most of the men I know have too much of an ego to act in such a pathetic way, not that that makes them good people. Either the guy is an enormous loser who grew up observing men who abused women and wasn't smart enough to wise up or he's a psychopath and enjoys sucking the life out of a woman's body.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 01:59 PM
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I mean the natality rate in Italy is abysmal, last year (with covid) there were way more deaths than births - more than usual. I want to add something to this topic since I actually lived in Italy for a very long time: there is a considerable cultural difference between southern and northern Italy, and another difference between urban/metropolis and the country in terms of mentality. More people are homeowners in Italy than in most other countries, most people inherit and it's possible to buy at…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 02:38 PM
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Her replies are so depressing too. Apparently at the beginning of the relationship she was working two jobs plus studying while the scrote was just working a part-time and his family were giving her the dribble about hoping she was a good housewife and giving him a good house💀. Also he's in the military and he's not going to pay child support as custody would probably be 50/50 in case of a divorce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 09:48 AM
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If even the cops are calling you out, you're some A level scrote 😭🤚🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 11:45 AM
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Saved your comment. I need to stay remembering that if they can open up with a strange woman like that but not to people of the same sex then it's a red flag. They're predators, as much as the others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 10:56 AM
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Yep, people will scoff and say you're humble bragging but it's awful to be an innocent child and to basically be slut shamed by your own parents if you wear normal 'appropriate' clothes. And even if you wear long pants and sweats during the summer you still attract unwanted attention because you stand out. So now you have to find clothes that have the magic fit but can't be seen as provocative. The worst was when you'd have to change clothes and wear the same thing as everyone else like a sport …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 07:46 PM
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Jesus Christ.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 05:13 PM
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The police trying to cover up their ineptitude most probably. EDIT: wow the police and males in general love to prove my scepticism right, even when my opinions are based on wild guesses. The police truly threw women (victims) under the bus to protect their "reputations", pigs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 02:09 PM
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My mom is a divorced woman and the saddest thing is that it made it harder for her to have (female) friends. Married women of her culture are scared of divorced women, mainly because they are afraid of them taking their men (hilarious). Not only she got abused until she snapped but now she's punish for it in so many sickly ways, as if that is her consequence to bear. I'm sick and tired about male validation being so valued and women who perpetuate this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 09:03 AM
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That's a new fear unlocked. I didn't think of this when watching parasite. I guess I'll have to golden girls and live with roommates forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 09:47 PM
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Yep, men are literally out there complaining about their mental health issues nobody else understands meanwhile women's mental and physical health are completely disregarded because most studies are done on MEN, LGBT folks are being systematically violated and so on. Women get continuously misdiagnosed, belittled by healthcare professionals, kept in ACTUAL PAIN, are given the wrong medication but men have the gall to say society gives them a hard time if they are emotional? The nerve, us women a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 09:43 PM
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OMG, I volunteered at various women shelters (lived in one as a child) and did some admin work for an anti-trafficking organisation, I do not talk about it to other people because I find these discussions with most folks uncomfortable. Anyway, the amount of men who WHINE and devil advocate for men's rights to be edgy who wouldn't lift a finger to put action in front of their thoughts is equal to the amount of men that I see on a regular basis. I thought they were supposed to be the rational, sol…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 07:48 PM
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I haven't committed to being childfree or having children someday, but if I ever do have a child with someone and I am the one getting pregnant the prenup will have to stipulate that I get a house in my name or something. Considering the cost of surrogacy, egg donation, daycare, therapy it is actually a reasonable demand. And if I'm with a man and he starts acting like a scrote, I could leave and be safe in my own house. Kudos to you for cutting those men trying to force you in having an affair …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 07:35 PM
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Wow, I think I'm in love with her...she's so impressive. She must be really highly emotionally intelligent, I wonder if in 1958 doing inner child, shadow work and meditation were more common than today (I do not want to presume, just because we have the internet today does not mean we are always better off in terms of available information) because if not she's truly exceptional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 07:55 AM
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This is absolutely pathetic, I was having a discussion with a scrote on Reddit yesterday. What is worse is that men are not even expected to care or celebrate IWD but don't ask them to stay in their lane they must make this day and every day about them because that is "equality".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 08:56 PM
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I believe the term was fairly gender-neutral, as many broke but titled men would marry an industrialist daughter/heiress with the promise of improving the connections and status of her family. And if I recall correctly, not only many gold diggers were men but they were once old money too while women would often be called "routurièr.e" (a term which sounds more insulting for women) if they were (wealthy) commoners trying to marry into the nobility. Then the trope changed through movies, and there…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 08:04 PM
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Yep, men literally work in teams. The bad cops enforce the outward violence, the "good" cops will scream "nOt aLl mEn" from the top of their lungs, expecting "fair" treatment (what they believe is 50/50) and enjoying the power they have over women since there are so many a-holes that could be so much worse. And if a woman says anything objective about men as a class, they act shocked and claim they are enduring a sexism. These good cops turn their heads when another man rapes, they think they sh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 05:48 PM
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The way she describes her relationship with the gravitas of a JOB, a job she doesn't even get paid for and can't change once she finds a better deal is so amusing to me. She thinks for the marriage to work she must have no way out ~ NO EXIT PLAN, inviting late-stage capitalism to her own household. This woman receives no sympathy for me because she's basically explaining to impressionable women how to get financially, emotionally, and sexually abused by a deified low-level idiot. My husband as t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 09:39 PM
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Nice to have you here :) Honestly, I've never thought about this this way but someone posted a discussion about us forcing female animals into torturous situations to consume their milk and eggs here and it completely changed my perspective. I'm have been reducing my animal consumption for years but I might go out of my way to truly become vegan. I'm BI too! And there are some other women here who did or are in SW, and the accusations are ridiculous, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 01:57 PM
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Wow, good thing I don't underestimate their (misogynist Reddit men) cunning. So much for being called a pessimist and a cynic 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 04:20 PM
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I truly believe the music we listen to affects our psyche. My coping mechanism about it was to change the lyrics in my head, if the song was catchy enough to the point I would believe it. And I also listen to music without lyrics (classical, instrumental, vaporwave, whatever it is that I like at the moment). I like to pay attention to what I put in my body and that includes what my mind consumes which is why affirmations, meditation, and I critically select what I watch and listen to. I think we…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 11:19 AM
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Bet many moderators of those subs are also men. I wouldn't be surprised if they weren't even 'feminist men' but actual radicalized red pillers. (Not to invalidate the pickmeishas there being pickmeishas 🤮).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 12:45 AM
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Thank you so much for this post, I'm BI and I spent most of my teenage years thinking I was probably ace (never had any romantic feelings or sexual urges until I was like 19/20), I've been close friends and dated women and men and if you are not carefully vetting (which I was doing before) the gender dynamics can be extremely toxic. This sub isn't just about dating, I found FDS to be a good space for women who want to learn both how to lvl up in life and who want to learn how to deal with these …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 07:39 PM
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I could easily pass this off as just a circlejerk of traumatized radical feminists who cope with their trauma through hatred. I really love the gall of this guy being dismissive of the trauma men dump on society, placing the blame and ridiculing women for pointing it out - as usual - and then being like "reading a couple of facts made me want to k-- myself". Like that's it, that's what it took? But women documenting actual facts, in all their glorious horrendousness is a circlejerk ? Yeah he can…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 12:49 PM
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I relate to this to an extent, had to parent my own parents, take care of two brothers who didn't respect me (because of them) and having to cook, clean, tutor, babysit, translate, take care of the paperwork since I was a child. Hate so much what it did to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 09:19 AM
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Maybe it's time OF clients became public, if it's ok to watch porn and mock those who make it, the camera should stare back. I know that is complete fantasy but having the porn category each of these scrotes watches as public information could shut their mouths real quick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 06:26 PM
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Nothing irks me more than men, who are notoriously bad at empathy and human emotions, who try to pseudo psychoanalyze people by giving them made-up dramatic backstories.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 11:18 AM
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Thank you for this post. I have to say, while I love Jane Austen I've always been disappointed with the conversations I had with people who are into Austen adaptations (maybe because they aren't English speakers or maybe I'm too neurodivergent for most conversations). They always misinterpret the characters and what happens. Mainly as you said, Darcy is this cool brooding character (he's not he's shy and socially awkward???), that women like men who don't stop pursuing (Darcy proposed a second t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 02:55 PM
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Some of these sperm donors have 60 children though, I wonder if there's a better option.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 04:21 PM
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OMG. I have the same problem it's eating me alive (lol). I love love baking, I love how crafty and precise I can be but I hate how it's seen by other people as if I was trying to be a wifey or a pick-me. I don't have a sweet tooth and I can't eat everything I make, even if I freeze it I get bored of it. I used to make cakes and bring them to a place I used to do relief work at and that is the only place (other than close family) where I felt happy doing this for and was genuinely appreciated (it…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 03:33 PM
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There is definitely part of it. Notice how they love to assume that powerful women like to be degraded/dominated in the bedroom. I was looking at comments that were very disgusting under an AOC video on youtube and then I discovered whole subreddits dedicated to JO to her and female politicians - I wanted to puke. Doesn't help that the pick-me's desperate for male approval are out here looking for being violated in bed and being proud of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 03:14 PM
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Yep. Goes to show that these men don't really even care about beauty as much as they say they are visual, they get off on the power trip of getting someone like that and screwing them over. She also gave him two children, studied law, is a polyglot, has an amazing career, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 12:53 PM
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And his "old" wife was none other than Monica Bellucci and men think it's a blast they get to dump one of the most beautiful women for a barely legal person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 08:31 PM
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That's when we should hit them with "so you agree? so you agree the male species is depraved and that includes you? "
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 09:06 PM
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This is so amazing, what a queen <3 <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 08:23 PM
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This is so well put, how can they think this way????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 07:03 PM
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On top of everything, your friend isn't even intelligent. "Porn is acting" and "Porn is acting between consenting adults" are the stupidest lies people believe. They know actors are not tortured for real while women in porn have to be actually hit, choked, penetrated and what not? Let alone the fact that actors are surrounded by a team, and can get accommodations while women in porn are treated like cattle, have been trafficked and groomed since they were children. As you said porn must have don…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 06:33 PM
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I also believe this might be a man, nevertheless, I'm in shock.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 08:41 PM
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I almost downvoted you 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 07:22 PM
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You mean that wasn't enough for you? And women say they appreciate introspection and emotional maturity in guys 🙄.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 02:48 PM
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She was probably subconsciously trying to emulate the women he likes and it backfired on him. If these men could only focus on the person they already got their SO wouldn't need validation from others. But of course, the very smart people on that page are saying that women are free to look at other penises or porn as if men were that attractive in the first place or as if porn was catered to women in the first place. LOL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 01:33 PM
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The comments on the original post are so frustrating. Never saw so many people think they are being reasonable while being so obnoxiously obtuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 01:20 PM
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Sorry if it's a bit off topic but the thing about parents being more attentive to their boys when they eat is literally why I had an eating disorder since I had brothers. Not only that but my dad used to take food out of my plate to give to my brother, told me continuously I eat too much and to this day when I am at home my moom cooks my brotherw savoury meals and serves diet food to the two of us (she divorced my dad thankfully 😑). Because I am incredibly stubborn I used to eat the food in my p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 10:29 AM
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We will leave you alone and childless. I don't understand why women who don't have children are mocked, pitied, etc by men (not only in real life but in fiction this is soo common it's considered a given rather than an assumption). Women can literally decide to have children at any moment, save fertility issues. Men are the ones who need to brace themselves into a lot of pre-emptive work finding, courting, and "securing" a woman willing to give them children. Sperm and surrogate mothers come at …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 09:10 PM
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This is also true for me. On the one hand, valentine's day seems to be manufactured and over-marketed which puts me off but on the other hand, I have this unresolved envy towards other people who just get to enjoy these things, no matter how ridiculous they seem to be. I have yet to learn to take things easily etc. I grew up poor and an immigrant from a very harsh family, we never celebrated things like birthdays or Christmas. I crave being spoilt and I made sure my partners knew about that (not…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 10:35 PM
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The men that share my ethnicity degrade their women and exploit but prefer white women. Most of them will never see us as equals, will never try, and eventually will feel free to abuse us as per culture. White people, in particular men, also mock and degrade us as women, dedicating a whole porn category accompanied by a lovely list of slurs and of stereotypes. All of this should make vetting easier but people are insidious like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 07:46 PM
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I'm so sorry you feel this way, don't feel bad about your sexual orientation (easier said than done). At least, you are knowledgeable - to an extent- in knowing how to avoid women-hating LVM and in leveling up; that will help you have a fulfilling happy life regardless of your marital status.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 07:40 PM
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Wow love your insights, your distinctions between radfems and libfems in terms of integrity is so eye opening to me (I'm new here but you queens are saying things I entertained but couldn't properly articulate before). How did this guy got ripped off by the pick me ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 12:52 AM
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OMG. Someone needs to tell women that their economical and social emancipation comes first, she should be using that money to build her wealth/invest/experience new things/improve herself ... whatever gets HER on the next level not to help out some guy who doesn't seem to be into her that much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 07:53 PM
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Misogyny is absolutely everywhere, is perpetrated by men and women but it takes different shapes. You are right, it doesn't only happen where you live, I'm not putting down the West, just pointing out that it is unfair how women from poor countries are continuously misrepresented. In a Muslim country that is economically and politically strugling, life is hard for women and at the same time, a wife is supposed to have her own money, receive gifts, and is also entitled to her husband's money (who…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 07:28 PM
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I'm so sorry for that... since I travel a lot sometimes I end up in places where all the guys are like the people you described and it wears me down having them as colleagues (forced socialisation). In that case I try out as many different scenes as possible (friends of people I like, cocktail events, expos) but depending on the city/country finding people you connect with can be such an intercultural mess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 01:26 PM
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too, am exhausted of being around men. Only exception of my gay guy friends, cause apperantly a guy who isn't attracted to women knows how to show more love and respect than someone who's supposed to be attracted to women The only men I can have around are those that are romantically attracted to women, and my definition of romantic attraction might be wrong but it includes interest, admiration, curiosity, and affection (people of all genders and sexual orientations can have this ability). A lot…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 12:59 PM
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Thank you so much for your insight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 12:45 PM
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Yes, there is definetly something to it. As someone from a --- background but who has lived in Western Europe, North America and SEA I noticed how in the West we really tend to idolize people, not just for their accomplishments, but also for the wrong reasons and by romanticising all the bad aspects they bring to the table too. We have become perplexed by simple things like pragmatism and common sense and tend to romanticise (the) suffering(of women mostly) or excusing (the) suffering perpetuate…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 09:19 AM
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These folks forget Russian/Soviet women got 'equality' in 1917 and then were expected to do everything men did including toiling in the death cold, working long jours, sacrificing their well being for their country ( including being forced to get hormones to win gold medals) all that while receiving less respect and recognition.... It explains how cut throat and practical they are as women on top of being traditionally smart and capable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 01:19 AM
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