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Yup. I agree with you and understand your point; just sharing a bit of my own perspective. She certainly enjoyed it if she kept at it for 18 months so it's pretty hard to believe he was the only one doing the using. I probably should have made my own comment instead of piggybacking off yours.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/18 10:51 PM
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The responsibility is hers and hers alone to make sure she isn't being used. If she wants a relationship rather than just a fuck buddy it is on her to have the self respect to say, "Okay. This isn't going where I want it to go. We either are going to become a couple, or I'm done sleeping with you." I guess this is a long winded way of saying that we get treated like we allow ourselves to be treated. We each have agency and responsibility to ourselves, and saying that someone used you for sex for…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/18 10:03 PM
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I'm late posting, but that hashtag is horribly insulting. I bet you ten bucks the reason she really put that hashtag on is so no one would think, even for a second, that she actually decided to date Daniel. She is using him, utterly using him, but would hate for her friends to think she's dating him. This contemptible behavior out to be addressed by Daniel telling her that he read her post, and she can fuck straight off now.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/09/18 01:16 AM
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I'm late posting, but I wanted to say that you two bantering back and forth always makes me laugh.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/09/18 01:35 AM
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Permanent bitch face. She acts like she's about a hundred times more attractive than she really is. Overly made up, bottle blondes are a dime a dozen. She isn't unique and is making no effort to be so.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/09/18 01:14 AM
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That's exactly what will happen, too. Her husband will find out and leave her, and her fantasy-novel boyfriend will get bored with her and leave, probably very shortly after her marriage detonates because he isn't going to want to be around for that messy drama. She will end up totally alone. She's deluding herself if she thinks her Ashton Kutcher/Demi Moore fantasy is going to do anything but crash and burn her whole life down. In fact, one only has to reflect on what happened to that famous co…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/09/18 11:28 PM
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Okay. In this case it was told from a third party point of view. I imagine the man was so spitting mad that his language wasn't fit for print!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/09/18 02:31 AM
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This is as bad as the news article I saw today about the man who paid 58 grand in child support over the years, only to find out via DNA testing that the child wasn't his. He sued and the mother was ordered to pay the money back...but she doesn't have a job, so I doubt he will collect. I thought about posting it here but wasn't quite sure it would fit the sub.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/09/18 02:24 AM
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"Stop treating me like a commodity; I'm just trying to sell myself.". I think Tinder ought to send out a tee shirt with this phrase on it to each user. Your phrase is seriously is too genius to waste!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/09/18 02:19 AM
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Move that stick back and forth with a good firm grasp. Really work that thing and make me gasp. You're doing so well--get it all wet all over the place. Slow down a bit and find a steady pace. Keep on moving till the best part is here. Okay, here we go...wow...,this moment is great! I could use my kitchen floor as a dinner plate! What...you thought I was teaching you how to blow? I was teaching you how to mop my flo'. 😜
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/18 02:09 AM
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Girl, you missing me? Don't let those tears pour. I'm gonna show you how to make me yours. First strip off the clothes except for panties and heels. I'm gonna show you how to seal this deal. See this stick over here? Put it in your hand. I'm gonna teach you how to please a man. See how it's a bit dirty? Gently wipe it clean. Use a warm washcloth and make it gleam. Now we're ready for the really good shit. Adjust that bra and show some more tits. More to come...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/18 02:00 AM
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I have to say, the term "manlet" is a new one for me. I read your posts to find new words, and you never fail to deliver!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/18 11:02 PM
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That is one of my favorite shows ☺️à
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/08/18 12:08 AM
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Ha! Lucy from Trailer Park Boys!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/08/18 12:07 AM
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As are you, Sir. I think our next lives, our spirit lives, are going to be a great deal of fun. No backing out of your proposal, now 😉
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/08/18 10:31 PM
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Well, I don't have a bridezilla story this bad, but it's worth raising a couple eyebrows over. My cousin got married when I was 17. I was her maid of honor and her brother William was the best man, as he was a former coworker of, and closest friend of the groom. So wedding planning rolls around, and so does HOUR 4 of looking at table centerpieces. Mind you, I had 3 younger brothers at home to look after, plus a dad who was expecting certain chores to be done, as at that point my mom was gone and…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/08/18 03:31 AM
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Yeah, it is funny that they think guys don't know. Women should know that men typically are quite interested in breasts and so make quite a study of them ;0). Sort of like studying to a master's level on a subject--even if all the material by isn't quite to one's taste, one must absorb it all in order to get that master's degree.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/08/18 02:18 AM
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I always enjoy your writing and it seems you outdo yourself a little bit each time. Kudos for a truly awesome, level headed and inherently kind analysis.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/08/18 02:10 AM
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A nitpicking point here, but one thing that annoys me is when women get fat, and some of that extra fat goes to their tits, why on Earth they think that's something sexy? They get big and bloblike, and more often than not take on a long teardrop shape like a sock with sand in it. Bigger does not always equal better. I guess this irritates me because about a decade ago I had a friend who used to proclaim that although she weighed 330 lbs, she could attract my husband any time she felt like it bec…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/08/18 01:20 AM
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And if you did--if you did tell a man to knock off a shitty behavior--you'd just get blasted for taking away her "strong independent woman" badge, especially if it is done in front of her like-minded female friends. It is impossible to do what these women consider right, because they don't even know themselves what they consider right. They twist and turn like weathervanes, pointing in the direction that their group tells them is correct in that moment. Their whole identities are tied up in thei…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/08/18 11:12 PM
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Yeah. Having a huge pannus is pretty nasty. I have had a few friends that had gastric bypass surgery and they all were left with lots of extra abdominal skin, not to mention bat wings in the triceps. What to do? Insurance typically won't pay for tummy tucks, ruling it a cosmetic procedure. Well, in the case of my friends at least, you take a hospital sponsored class that tells you how to inflame the pannus so you develop rashes and fungal infections, at which point it is ruled a real medical pro…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/18 11:29 PM
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Did you post this reply to the article itself? If you didn't, you should, because it is succinct and perfect.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/18 11:16 PM
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Yeah. She says right out in the open that she needs someone to guide her through this rough time and that she doesn't want to be spoiled, just financially taken care of. I think this is the first time I've seen someone lay it out so bare. I want to know why anyone would think that describing their intestinal issues on a dating profile is a good move. If she's this forward on a dating site, imagine what the actual dinner conversation would be like! "Yeah, I love Chinese food, but it really makes …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/18 11:11 PM
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All seven of those guys are great looking. But they don't meet her height requirements. One of the hottest guys I know IRL is exactly my height at 5'6. She's really limiting her options--hot guys come in all heights!!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/18 07:37 PM
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Wondering why you aren't at home lapping water from your dish with the rest of the canines? Sorry/not sorry. I don't typically comment on appearances, but my goodness does she remind me of my Pug. The fact that she extolls herself as the hottest thing around is both laughable and worrisome. What level of delusion must one be at, and how many people have been feeding into that delusion, in order for someone with a face like that to unironiclly make such a statement? What I think happened is this-…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/18 06:30 PM
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This needs to be upvoted more....lolol.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/08/18 06:52 PM
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Yeah, I don't know where so many younger women picked up on the idea that being sharp, edgy, sarcastic and blunt are desirable traits, but it would be good if they learned that they are not. Even friendships with women who are like this feel like this: you reached over expecting to pet a sweet little puppy and stuck your hand in a bees nest instead. Who wants someone who will hold you at arm's length and only let you in after you've macheted your way through layer after layer of defensive behavi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/08/18 11:22 PM
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Plus, there is no guarantee that Sis's life is going to remain a bed of roses. Unless her new hubby is rich, that nice house and multiple vacations probably means lots of debt and mis-prioritizing money. And they met online fairly recently...haven't they ever heard the saying "Marry in haste, repent in leisure.". Without knowing more details, it sounds like a lovely, time tested recipe for disaster.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/08/18 11:07 PM
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Yeah. I feel like she wouldn't be in panic mode if she didn't view her sister as competition and instead could just be genuinely happy that her sister's life seems to be shaking out just fine. She says she doesn't begrudge her, and maybe she doesn't, but she comes off as the loser of some mental contest.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/08/18 11:02 PM
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Like the user name! Great movie...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/08/18 10:59 PM
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I murdered my daughter's cheerleading coach for making her sit out a game and I've been "rehabilitated". So i'll still stab you, but not in any vital organs!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/08/18 02:31 AM
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I'm just wondering if what a great lover in every way is. Isn't that kind of vague? One woman might want a tender, loving encounter and the next might want to be ridden hard enough to make the headboard bust through the wall and into the next room. If she's going to bring it up at all, why not give the prospective bed mate a clue? No sense trying to act coy now!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/08/18 02:28 AM
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As long as he's not "in and out.". Lady...I thought that's what you wanted...some in and out. Make up your mind!!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/08/18 02:23 AM
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I have a brother who is 6'4 and he feels the same. His longtime gf is 5'10. The one before her was 5'4 and it was awkward for them to even stroll and hold hands. He looked like he was playing that game in which you and your partner lift a kid's hands and swing them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/08/18 02:22 AM
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I would have driven the piece of shit myself to the forced sterilization clinic, even if it meant being in her company for a whole day. I feel like one founded abuse charge equals automatic removal of the child and automatic sterilization. No questions, no ifs, ands, or buts. Next!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/08/18 01:36 AM
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Dat's some fine slang 😉
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/08/18 01:11 AM
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A lot of women really do live in this bubble-lkke fantasy that Mr. Right is going to come along and make all her problems disappear, and the part in which she is supposed to give back just sort of disappears too. It's like they read too many fairy tales as a kid and never learned the definition of "fairy tale.". Proclaiming that one is a "strong independent woman" and then leaning on some guy for monetary or physical support is pretty hypocritical. Small but related story--just today our departm…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/08/18 01:08 AM
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Yeah. I knew a real piece of shit who lost custody of her four year old. He was never clothed properly for the weather and the poor damn kid was always, always hungry. I don't mean normal growing boy hungry; I mean HUNGRY. Whenever he'd come over he'd beg for food and he would absolutely devour whatever I gave him. He was far too hungry to have food likes and dislikes like other kids do. It was fucking heart breaking. He wasn't potty trained yet, as his mom and stepdad didn't care enough to do s…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/08/18 12:05 AM
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Good point, and what do you think of the guys that run across their exes (ESPECIALLY this one)? I wonder if they cringe in shame, or maybe this is the first time they even heard that their kid got taken away from the mother.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/08/18 11:47 PM
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Yes to all this. I might add that the "party animal" and "stoner" designations she gave herself more than likely explain how she no longer has custody of her 3 year old. And she made sure to reference it again when she put that she has children that live elsewhere ( in response to the questionnaire section on the profile). Maybe it's the fact that she's so casually dismissive of the fact that she was a bad enough parent to lose her kid, or the fact that she later tries to use it as a selling poi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/08/18 11:43 PM
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What bugs me the most is this: she's a single mom. All these pregnant women on here looking for men are single moms. You'd think their first priority would be making sure their children are loved, cared for and that the home she is bringing the baby into is as good as she can make it for the new little one. I feel like worrying about getting a new boyfriend should be last in the list. I know, I know that the reason they are doing this is to secure a provider/father figure for the children. In th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/08/18 01:46 AM
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Ha! I like what you did with that flair...it was clever 😉. Although I disagree with the premise that I have thin skin, I like how you tied the symptoms and diagnosis together like that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/08/18 12:14 AM
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I feel like you guys have every right to expose treacherous behavior. Why should women get a free pass on sharing their opinions, while you guys are expected to remain mute unless you're heaping praise? I feel like my skin is pretty thick. As I've explained, I can take quite a bit and expect to from time to time on this sub. As long as it is honest disagreements and not disrespectful or cruel, we're all good ☺️.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/08/18 12:01 AM
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Yeah. I read the posts that you, Kevin, LewisCross and others made explaining the sub's purpose. They were all clearly and intelligently written, and the thought crossed my mind that they (or excerpts ) should be required reading for those wishing to join or maybe even just comment. I don't know if there is a way to make that happen, but it would set forth expectations and goals, right at the outset, quite nicely. I came back today really because I missed you guys. That's it. I don't feel like t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/08/18 11:49 PM
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You honestly think anyone is going to care about this small little bastion of the manosphere just because some women somewhere else are saying things with more hatred and vigor and without purpose? Yes. I do think people are going to care. It seems that you do too--this is the first sentence of your original post: "This is a response to some of the negative attention we have received over the past week as well as an explanation for some of the posts that have been getting removed regularly." Obv…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/08/18 11:07 PM
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I am puzzled at the disconnect myself. "I'm going to do my best to convince guys that I'm real, kind and caring and supportive, and am interested in what they have to say and what they want out of their lives. Hmmmm...I think the best way to do that is some ass and titty shots.". Unflattering in more ways than one. This woman needs good counsel and a good diet ASAP.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/08/18 10:37 PM
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I'd like to add one more sub to your post. It depends on what you think is more dangerous to women's well being--the "you go girl" encouragement that women heap on each other that you find in XChromosomes, or the calling for male castration and imprisonment that you'll find in a sub like true womens liberation. I didn't link to the sub purposely; I didn't want to draw their attention here. I think it is important for you guys to check it out (I'm talking to you specifically, Kevin and the rest o…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/08/18 10:27 PM
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I should have clarified in my other post why I was asking. In the cunty woman and the woman adopting, both women are taking on another man's child, albeit in different ways.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/07/18 01:19 PM
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Billy_Sunsteel, this may be true for some women (and women like this are indeed cunts) but do you believe that there are exceptions? For example--let's take a childless couple who, after years of trying and failing to conceive their own kid, decide to adopt one? In those cases, what do you think the woman's motives might be?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/07/18 01:13 PM
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U/kevin32, I am interested in talking about this with you at some point. However, you'll have to forgive me for declining to click on your webcam link right now. I would like to chat with you first. That being said, thanks for your post. I appreciate that you are working on solving our difference of opinion.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/07/18 02:51 AM
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Thats the thing about perspective--it of course will vary from one person to another, bit that doesn't make either party right or wrong. We all come to our own perspectives by living our own individual experiences. Obviously you came to your perspective on whether or not women want kids that are not their own because of your personal life story. I certainly wouldn't call it wrong or idiotic, because it is your individual truth.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/07/18 10:14 PM
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Thank you. I appreciate that. I would like to stick around as I find many of the guys on this sub intelligent and informative commenters, but being called a nasty name and unfairly accused of posting unicorn stories and NAWALTING was pretty much the last straw for me. If the sub creator thinks I am a "cunt" and tells other posters to translate what I say into "blah, blah, blah," and furthermore says that women are allowed to post here for their amusement value, those things make it pretty obviou…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/07/18 05:22 PM
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I have been nothing but respectful toward all the guys in this sub, if you read my post history. With that said, I'm done. When the sub creator comes and indirectly calls me a cunt (by flairing Billy with "tattles on cunts" and then accuses me of Nawalting, I think it is time to move on. Thanks to all you guys for the interesting conversations we've had over the past month or two.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/18 04:01 PM
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All right. I see you (or someone) flaired Billy with "tattles on cunts.". I have to say that I feel like that was rather uncalled-for. If you read my past history, you'll see that I've been nothing but supportive of your gender. In addition, I'm sorry if my stories about a successful relationship are offensive or seen as a form of NAWALT. Successful relationships do exist, in multitudes, so I think it is a bit of a stretch to say they are unicorn stories. With that said, I'm done. When the sub c…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/18 03:56 PM
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If a wan is attracted to a guy and wants to date him (exclusively) she probably isn't going to let the fact that he has kids he a deal breaker. Conversely, if she doesn't want to date him and would rather go on partying, or simply realizes that she is in too deep with someone she really doesn't like all that well, she'll use the kids as an excuse to get out.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/18 10:56 AM
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He is a remarkable man. I never fail to be astonished at his energy and how hard he works. He has enormous will--sometimes so enormous that it is a little scary--and he is incredibly driven and motivated. I don't know how he ended up with my daydreaming, mellow self, but it seems to work. I guess what I'm trying to say is that he has kept me captivated through all these years (I'm nearly 41 and I've been with him since I was 17) because I never know what adventure he is going on next. All he wan…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/18 12:56 AM
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Yeah. He treats his hot friend in just the way you describe, instead of pandering to her bullshit and brushing off her neuroticism in the hopes of getting laid. He tells her straight up when she's acting bratty and gives her honest advice when she asks for it. She is forever telling him that she feels like he is her only real friend sometimes. Right now, she has a really great boyfriend (he is ex military, smart, and kind) and he told her to hang onto him because "she's not getting any younger."…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/18 12:43 AM
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Yes. I had a more in depth conversation with him about this because it really interested me. He explained it like this: first, if something were to happen to us and he found himself single, he would NOT date someone with children, so I pressed him again as to why. After a little thought he explained it like this: I want to bust my ass for someone, and build a good life for them, but that someone has to be someone that I know will be loyal and always has my back. If she's divorced or away from th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/18 12:23 AM
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So I have a confession to make. I fully admit I was totally blind to this (the aversion men have about taking on another man's kids) till my husband had a female friend that went through a divorce. The husband was a great looking, very attractive serial cheater. He did it while they were dating and I guess she hoped he would change once they married. Nope. They mutually decided to divorce and my husband said over and over again, "She's never going to get another guy to marry her.". I asked him w…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/07/18 09:59 PM
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Whirlwind...Like sweep her off her feet in a whirlwind. Said whirlwind to consist of equal parts desire and impressing her with whatever your best trait is (sense of humor, kindness, intelligence, etc.)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/07/18 06:22 PM
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Looooool, tindersloot. I never fail the impressed with your euphemisms.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/07/18 06:17 PM
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Nice reference 😃
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/18 03:49 AM
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True, and if this girl had better self esteem she'd be able to tuck this temptation away and move on with her REAL relationship.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/18 01:53 AM
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Yes. He gave her ego a boost and now she wants to validate that boost by having him fuck her. It is really sad because if this bf was around for 7 years he obviously cares.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/18 01:52 AM
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This gal really did seem sweet. You know how you can tell bitch from a mile away, especially in the really hot women who think they don't have to offer anything but their looks? You could tell that this lady was sweet in just that same way. She was attentive to him and obviously they cared about each other. It was a really refreshing change from the endless bitching I heard from the two women sat on sun chairs next to me. I couldn't believe how indiscreet they were in terms of blabbing all their…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/07/18 10:23 PM
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Exactly what I was going to post but you beat me to it. He singled her out as the insecure one and knew it wouldn't take much effort to get her into bed. At least she's debating it with herself instead of giving in immediately like screw-in-the-gym-bathroom girl, but it is ominous that she says she feels like she has to see it through. If she were to get good advice it would be a two-pronged approach: Just because he's hot doesn't mean he's going to be better in bed than your boyfriend, who know…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/07/18 10:02 PM
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I was at the pool the other day and this guy with an awesome body (I love my husband dearly and he is built awesome too, but damn was he attractive) was paired up with a morbidly obese woman, too. I mean, this guy was built lean and sculpted and she had to be at least 250 lbs. I thought maybe it was one of those relationships in which one was encouraging the other to lose weight and maybe he was helping her at the gym or something. I don't know how to describe it exactly, but I thought it was ne…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/07/18 10:42 PM
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Yes. A woman with any sense of class and decency would treat this as what it is-a gift. If someone trusts you enough to tell you a painful or moving part of their past, it means they trust you enough not to hurt them with it. I feel like that is an honor and a privilege to be allowed into the deeper and more private parts of someone's heart and head. This guy should be getting some advice that tells him he did the right thing, just with the wrong person. The woman in the story is undoubtedly one…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/07/18 10:04 PM
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Expanding on this a bit, this is true in some work situations too. In certain jobs, experience beats degrees IMO. I'd rather have someone with 15 years experience behind them doing certain things, rather than someone who tested into the degree by studying and has maybe one year practical experience. Computers, electrical work and cooking are three things I can think of off the top of my head.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/07/18 11:10 PM
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Spot on. This is like asking someone with a revoked license teaching you how to drive rather than going to a qualified driving school.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/07/18 09:42 PM
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Yeah. She lost a lot of friends over that stunt, or at least they distanced themselves as best they could. Not only was it a morally abhorrent and mean thing to do, no one could trust her anymore. If she's willing to sleep with her dying best friend's husband, what other awful things would she be willing to do?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/07/18 07:17 PM
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Yes, they are generalizing men to a large degree when they use this argument. I have found over the years that you guys are all unique. The one defining characteristic I have seen across your gender, no matter what else may be different, is this--when y'all want cereal, you find the biggest bowl possible (a large mixing bowl if one is handy) and fill that sucker precisely 3/4 of the way full 😉
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/07/18 11:35 PM
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You are finding more and more ads in which you don't even have to think of a title. You simply have to post their own words to make them look off the wall!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/07/18 06:14 PM
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Conversation starters: Let's talk about selfies! I love them, just absolutely love them. Bring up selfies and we can talk about them all night...and I'll show you every...single...one. If, by some random, weird, cosmic chance, that topic fails to entrance you for three to four hours, we can always switch over to Snapchat filters, which are my second love!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/07/18 03:51 PM
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Ha! I never thought of the animal kingdom, but you are right. Each gender has their role and they perform it without question or argument. I bet this is because they instinctively know that cooperation and teamwork gives their species the best shot at survival.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/07/18 03:47 PM
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100 percent agree with your comment. Spot on.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/07/18 03:45 PM
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I'd like to know what makes this feminist so sure that she is not the defect. She's awfully sure about slinging that term around without pausing to think that maybe the growing backlash against feminism is proof that she and her ilk have defective thinking. I like your responses. I think you were far more polite than I would have been, which of course is more constructive. She sounds like exactly the type who is going to end up alone and bitter, and probably with no clue why. In her mind, the gu…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/07/18 03:44 PM
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Crazy eyes and a really bitchy attitude. Her post is a preview of the mindfuck she will both exist in and put you through.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/07/18 02:02 PM
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I wrote a second comment to add that some women do indeed keep their male friends around for reasons that are less than honorable. Some, however, have seen or experienced being burned by their women friends and are therefore pretty cautious in their selection of female friends and therefore end up with a skewed male vs female friend ratio. For example, I have a female friend whose best friend was dying of breast cancer. She was far enough along that she was enrolled in hospice--the kind that the…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/07/18 10:28 PM
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That is awesome that you get to help people in your line of work. I've often thought that my counsel might benefit young women, but I'm not in that line of work. I would like to counsel young women to steer away from the feminism that we know today and instead live by their own instincts and values--those instincts of being kind, helpful and nurturing. We see those instincts at play in young children, and somewhere along the line they are told that it is garbage and being demanding, brash and un…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/07/18 10:08 PM
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What I find annoying is the stupid, added on glasses and bows on their heads. I know I want about this a lot, but damn does it get annoying. It seems to be a female thing. I have only seen a guy draw anything once, and it was my son dumping a girl he was dating. He found out she had gone down on a "friend" at the movies, so he found a picture of her and drew a picture of a dick going into her mouth with the words "how many?". He's almost 18 and apparently he didn't need my advice on how to dump …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/07/18 09:28 PM
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Exactly. They aren't really sussing out if the guy is even interested in a LTR, just hoping he is and ending up disappointed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/07/18 05:58 PM
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I'm not saying that it never works out that way, but it isn't working out that way for these women that go online and whine about guys screwing them and disappearing. For those women, a change in their behavior/strategy is in order, yet they never seem to realize this. Thy think that if they just keep doing what they are doing, someday one of those times is going to end up working out. For whatever reason, they don't want reflection or advice. They want to hear that what they are doing is absolu…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/07/18 05:18 PM
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Sadly, feminism, especially the third wave type that has been prevalent for a while, is exactly what does these women in. Just my observation here, but it really feels like young women nowadays are being thrown under the bus by a movement that purports to look out for them. The movement's poisonous hatred for their own gender is obvious, even though they try to disguise it as hatred for men. They feel inferior to men and hate it, and through some sort of blindness or short sightedness undermine …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/07/18 04:25 PM
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This is how we end up with people who are endlessly single. They do the same thing over and over again, yet expect a different result. I must be incredibly old fashioned, but sleeping with someone after just a few dates is not how I'd do things, were I on the dating scene. Truthfully I'd want to get to know the guy first and I'd want him to get to know me. The idea that you won't know if you are "sexually compatible" unless you screw someone right away is BS. I'm a woman, he's a man, and our par…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/07/18 03:05 PM
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I know someone with the same stats as you and he works out too. He is really nicely proportioned. A woman with the stats you mentioned would be pretty damn chunky and he wouldn't date that body type either. I'd wonder if you were my IRL friend, but then I remembered that your preferences aren't at all uncommon 😃.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/07/18 02:15 PM
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Ha! 😃
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/07/18 02:08 PM
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She's damned lucky that her problems on the road were "fixed" although the author didn't really specify how. She could have ended up in serious trouble, stemming from any number of issues. She could have had her money stolen, she could have been raped and left for dead, she could have been kidnapped and ended up with some weird cult. Cross country trips are great, but wow, was this woman unprepared. I would think plenty of money/credit cards and a reliable vehicle would be the bare minimum if sa…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/07/18 02:06 PM
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Also more info gleaned from the comments: she's overweight and has an "odor problem". I'd say that's a big part of the issue as well.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/07/18 01:43 PM
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Heh, I didn't even think of it that way (contacting an OP.) Thanks for the reminder.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/07/18 04:02 PM
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Wow. A website dedicated to teaching women how to be shallow bitches. This author is not nearly pretty enough to make such ludicrous demands, and I can't believe that part of her requirements stem from needing the guy to be at the perfect angle in her selfies. She deserves to be rejected by all men, short through tall, until she grows up. I was going to leave her a note telling her she is a shallow twat, but I couldn't find anyplace to leave comments.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/07/18 01:46 PM
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Part 4 of my post: Now for my questions: --Single mothers should not be allowed. Any woman who bears a child out of wedlock should be required to give that child up for adoption. Single mothers should be barred, or at least very strongly discouraged, from raising boys alone. I am curious to your answer on this. Let's say, for the sake of discussion, that she really loved the guy and thought that he loved her in return. She's young and naive, and doesn't realize the fear that her pregnancy has en…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/07/18 12:26 AM
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Part 3 of my post: Women: --Stop complaining, nagging and bitching Women do this because they fail to fully develop their skills in being assertive. I believe that we all start out knowing how to be assertive. Assertive simply means asking for or stating what you want clearly, concisely, and without rancor. Kids know how to do this. "Hey, I want that cookie." "Hey, I want to go over to the park." Somewhere along the way, girls/women lose this ability to be direct and clear. Along with this loss …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/07/18 12:22 AM
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Part 2 of my post: --roll back "affirmative consent" and "enthusiastic consent" laws, and return to "no means no" Yes. There have been far too many careers ruined and reputations damaged. We need a straightforward system between men and women, and we also need to recognize that abuse to males from females happens. Men are laughed at and shamed when they share that they have been forced into sexual encounters that they didn't want, and that needs to stop. The whole world is supposed to stop when …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/07/18 12:20 AM
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Part 1 of my post: There is, which is usual for your writing, a lot to think about in here. I want to take this opportunity to tell you that I really enjoy reading what you write. I don't always agree with all of it, but it is always thoughtful and well written. Kudos. I'd like to start with what I agree with in your post, and afterward, ask you some questions about the rest. I can't say that I agree or disagree with the rest without more input from you. It seems from your post that you are read…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/07/18 12:20 AM
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She very well could have been in court for her disability hearing when this pic was taken. It is a damn odd choice for a photo regardless of where/when it was taken.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/07/18 09:56 PM
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To, too, and two. One of the most confusing grammar conundrums of our time, apparently. She misused it one two many times for it to be a mistake 😉
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/07/18 07:30 PM
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"My vocabulary alone intimidates most people.". Well, sweetheart, it doesn't intimidate me. Let's get together and see if you know what the word "obnoxious" means. If you don't, I'll be happy to procure a mirror and hold it up in front of your face for you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/07/18 12:45 AM
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I think the ideal mam for this wan in particular is one who is studly and handsome on the outside, bit with no personality of his own on the inside. She really seems to want a good looking, yet empty vessel that she can program with all her desires, and that will serve as a receptacle for her emotional outpourings. He will be programmed to respond to her outbursts just like one of her female friends would, yet perform like a very masculine, take charge, bend me over and pull my hair alpha guy in…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/07/18 12:01 AM
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Hahaha😃. The comments are all encouraging her. No one told her that balancing out this insane list of demands with some positive qualities of her own might be a good idea. One of her demands is that her Christian Gray anticipates her needs. This is an unfair expectation and I would be willing to bet that this mind-set contributed to the demise of her last relationship. It is incredibly childish to expect anyone to anticipate your needs without you opening your mouth to tell them what you want. S…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/07/18 11:00 PM
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Her list of demands almost reads like a ransom note. It also reads like something a 10 year old might write, after watching her DVD of Cinderella and dreaming of her Prince Charming. An adult woman should be more mature than that. She wrote that the guy must think she is the best person he ever met. Who the hell even thinks that way?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/07/18 09:51 PM
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I get it if a guy is looking for some visual stimulation and goes online and picks someone traditionally hot--you know, nice body, pretty face, uninhibited in front of the camera, etc,. I guess I don't understand paying for someone who looks like that. If she's making a living doing it, apparently she has an audience and maybe she has a niche market. Beauty is indeed in the eye of the beholder. I guess what I'm saying is that I would not pay for that--in fact, I'd pay to have it taken off my scr…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/18 09:56 PM
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Looks like I found another one for Snapchat filter prison! The place is going to fill up fast at this rate. Ladies, please. It doesn't make you look younger; it makes you look ridiculous. Let me rephrase that. It doesn't make you look physically younger, but it does make you look very young emotionally and socially--like you are 12 and just got your first phone with a camera. Being selfie-obsessed does the exact same thing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/18 07:31 PM
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What a story, Mark ☺
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/18 02:58 AM
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This is spot on. She wanted to increase competition among men looking at her profile. Her games are so transparent, and serve as a warning to guys that they'll be in for lots more of them should they decide to meet up with her. I just don't understand the disconnect. She claims she wants a long term relationship yet gives nothing of herself but the promise of easy sex. I feel like this is as elementary as 2+2=4. Yet she has failed to realize why she's treated as a one night stand. She is old eno…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/18 12:54 AM
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Lol. I like your username, BTW.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/07/18 11:01 PM
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Someday, they are going to make Snapchat filters illegal, and they are going retroactive with it. (Hey, if you don't like my dream, get offa my cloud :0) Anyway, they are going to imprison anyone who ever used a Snapchat filter. Don't worry guys, 100% of the prisoners will be women. These women are going to have to attend class every day until they can recite the following phrase without hesitation, stutters or any other flaws: "Snapchat filters make me look stupid." That picture with her posing…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/07/18 08:48 PM
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I missed this before- but I wonder if that pic in the top middle is that of her "total tool?". I wonder what purpose posting his picture serves?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/18 03:10 PM
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If you keep collecting two a day for the rest of your life, that's... damn. That's going to be some impressive numbers!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/18 03:04 PM
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Now that you have two of us lined up for the next life, I'm trying to decide if the others on this sub will consider you lucky or unlucky.☺
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/18 02:02 PM
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Let's wait until our next lifetimes, when we can come back as animals--we will then have the wisdom of our human experiences, plus the purity of spirit and playfulness of our animal selves 😉.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/18 12:53 PM
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I bet Wathon2 is right. Obesity is endemic where I live, and most of the women that I know who've lost a lot of weight end up dumping their husbands. I'm not sure how they suddenly come to the conclusion that they can get any guy they want now that they are no longer obese, but they do it all the time. The guy that stuck with them through their fat years is no longer good enough for their skinny years, apparently. It is selfish behavior to the extreme.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/18 12:19 PM
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If he was such a tool, why did you spend the last six years with him, hmmmm? I suspect he wasn't a tool until he dumped you, at which point he became the biggest asshole to ever walk the planet. At least that's what you told your friends, am I right? I am not in the market, but if I were, a guy calling his last gf a bitch would give me reason to pause. Even if she was a huge bitch, a guy that could keep it polite and classy would be demonstrating his maturity and strength, which is incredibly at…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/18 03:45 AM
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The same ones that say, "My kid is my world," are the same ones that take their Stevens to the park and sit on the park bench staring at their phone while the kid is slowly strangling to death in the tetherball cord, or simply sitting in the dust waiting for mom to lumber her way to her feet and half-heartedly push him on the swing with one hand while staring at her phone with the other. They can also be spotted, usually in store parking lots, by their distinctive markings of warm winter coat an…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/18 03:17 AM
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I thought your comment was really kind and had a lot of great advice. Even if she were to read it, it probably wouldn't take, because she's busy blaming everything and everyone else for her massive insecurity. My mom always said that insecurity was the biggest turn off, and if one were to really think about it, insecurity causes most relationship issues. Insecure about how attractive you are? Jealousy is the result. Insecure about your intelligence? A miserable career and a hostile response to c…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/18 02:49 AM
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The part you put about the budget made me curious--have any of them ever offered to pay with pics (if you know what I mean ;-) instead of money?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/18 02:37 AM
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Seriously. Can you imagine her doing one of her online sex acts with those boobs swaying to and fro? Who would pay to see that? There have to be younger, hotter chicks doing the same thing. I can't imagine a guy would pick this over some sweet 20 year old with natural long hair, a smoldering "fuck me" look in her eyes, a taut belly, and firm little breasts pointing right at the camera.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/18 11:32 PM
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Yeah. I totally agree on the child abuse, and the poor kid isn't even out of the womb yet. I wonder where she draws the line in terms of antepartum drug use? "Pot is OK, acid is OK, Molly and shrooms are OK, but meth probably isn't because if he is born with withdrawal symptoms, he will get taken from me and I'll lose my welfare benefits.". I feel so, so sorry for that poor kid. I can only hope that she is drug tested at time of delivery. They do urine drug screens routinely at a woman's OB phys…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/18 10:51 PM
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"Must be 39-43 yrs old, single, goodlooking, have a nice truck and has friends or connections to help me as longs as were dating. And I want get married!" Wow! Just a few demands here. Not only must this guy be perfect in every way, but he has to have friends that are willing to drop everything in their lives and help her out of whatever shithole she got herself into. Just what does she have to offer in return, exactly? She doesn't have a car, a job, literacy, or a plan to put her life back toge…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/18 05:25 PM
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Her tits. My god, are those bad. Cleavage should not reach damn near up to the neck-it should be a sweet little crease that peeks over the top of of a low cut shirt. It should not look like something that will swallow your hand whole. I don't tend to make comments about people's appearances too often, because I believe that everyone has at least one good feature, but it's as if she has done everything possible to become UNattractive. She's 21 and her nipples point at the floor. I guess the best …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/18 05:15 PM
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She admitted that she's pregnant and stoned every day. Hopefully this will alert every guy looking that her decision making skills are shit, and she puts her own desires over everything else, including the welfare of her unborn baby. In addition, she says she likes to rap, listen to music, and chillax. By themselves, there is nothing wrong with these interests, but she didn't mention doing anything that involves getting off her ass. Here is how I picture that poor unborn baby moving through infa…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/18 05:06 PM
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Your reply was open, honest, blunt and awesome!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/06/18 07:33 PM
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Yeah. In order to make it truly Zen, we could word it as something like: If half of the world only has one eye, can the other half not see? Something just confusing enough to sound semi-deep.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/06/18 07:27 PM
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I like your Zen koan. Do I have to achieve total spiritual enlightenment to get the answer? ;-)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/06/18 05:34 PM
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I have seen your wrath, and have no desire to have it directed at me. I am glad we understand each other ☺
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/06/18 10:56 AM
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I think you are being facetious, buy in all seriousness, I hope my past comments show that I don't believe that about men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/06/18 03:40 AM
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I am not sure if you mean this in a good or bad way. I will say that I like the flair.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/06/18 03:37 AM
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Those women are missing out. There's nothing like being made love to by a man who loves you. Sorry if that sounds weird because you are a guy ☺. But it is true. He will do anything he can to please you in bed and he makes it obvious all the time how much he loves and wants you. The women who are just out fucking anybody aren't getting made love to--they are getting fucked. How can they not know the difference? That's the thing about being with a man who loves you--really loves you. If you want t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/06/18 01:07 AM
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With approved Beta Provider Credit. Interest charged at time of breakup. Current Divorce Payment Rate of 50% will be assessed at trade-in time, offer subject to change at any time. Sold As-Is, No Warranty. I honestly read this to myself in that sped-up radio salesman's voice!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/18 07:40 PM
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No shit. There'd be hell to pay. I'd be enraged if I saw someone using my dad's gravestone that way.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/18 05:15 PM
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Ugh. She has a premature son who obviously isn't completely out of the woods yet in terms of his health, and she's shopping around for cock online? Nice. And she drinks often too. How is she going to watch out for signs of impending illness in her vulnerable infant while she is drinking or drunk? Does she just not give an absolute fuck? She ought to be focusing on her son. Clean up your damned act, quit drinking when you know it is absolutely critical for you to be alert and aware, and take care…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/18 05:12 PM
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Another plastic, fake blond with fake tits. They may as well just stamp them out at a factory.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/18 05:05 PM
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Yeah. It is a protective mechanism, just like cynicism is. It becomes a problem when it spreads to other areas of life, like a metastasis. I imagine it becomes a problem in dating life, too, when someone is too jaded to recognize that someone else really loves them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/18 04:58 PM
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Ha! This is true. You'd almost need some sort of witchcraft to make some of those profiles appealing. You are right about trying to tell women the truth about what they are doing to themselves, too. They claim that they want to know "what men want," but when they are honestly told what men want, they recoil from that, because it contradicts a lot of suppositions that women have. Women are attracted to different things and wired differently from men, obviously. The trouble comes when they put the…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/18 04:56 PM
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Good and kind men deserve nothing less. Everyone needs to feel like they matter and are loved, and are set apart from everyone else.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/18 04:49 PM
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Yeah. Some of these flairs are pretty creative!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/18 10:55 AM
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Thank you. I appreciate that. I hope so too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/18 10:54 AM
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I can say that I have given up on saying anything. I don't talk with my guy friends about their relationships unless they bring it up, and I'm pretty non-committal in my responses. I have a few truly awesome guy friends, friends that really have a lot to offer a woman, and all I do anymore is listen. The head games that they have described make me furious, but truthfully the guys always wake up to them, in their own way. The unfortunate part is that they always get raked over the coals emotional…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/06/18 11:56 PM
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I want, I want, I want, I want, I love, I like, I want, I need, ad nauseam. You know what I want, honey? For you to open your eyes and realize how demanding and selfish you sound on your post! There are these other things called "people" in this world. They are all around you. Why, if you stop looking in the mirror, you might see some of them walking around, doing ordinary things like getting the mail or mowing the lawn. Did you catch a glimpse of any of them? Well, these other creatures that in…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/06/18 08:49 PM
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I am going to tell you something. We (women) can see this predatory, bitchy behavior in other women, and we can see it from a mile away. When we try to warn our guy friends that one of these harpies is headed his way, claws out and ready to take him down, we are told that we are "jealous" and "judging" her before we get to know her. It isn't jealousy that makes us speak up. It's being able to see pretty much instantly that she's going to chew him up and spit him out. We can see bitch coming, and…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/06/18 07:09 PM
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They were bearly talking a few weeks ago. Well, dear, perhaps this is your answer. Maybe, just maybe, he wanted someone literate to hang out with. Some guys really dig chicks that can read and write. Call it a fetish thing if you have to. After that, we haven't been on any other real dates, we would just have casual sex from time to time However, I suspect that this sentence explains what really happened. You gave it up to him, he knew he could get it whenever he wanted, but he also knew somethi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/06/18 05:43 PM
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All I have to say is, well done. You avoided a bad situation and warned other guys. She is clueless, absolutely clueless, and until she grows up she deserves to be alone. She should be focusing on her daughter anyway. She only has one chance to raise her daughter right and she's squandering it simply to see how much dick she can get.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/06/18 03:08 PM
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So...she actually posted a brief bio, and next to that she posted a text in which she told some guy that she cleaned her ex-husband out? WTF? What kind of strategy is that? Chalk it up to lack of sleep, but I am honestly puzzled. Who the hell does this? Or did the guy texting her run across her profile and, because he wanted to warn other guys, put this up? Sorry for being so clueless. I honestly don't get this. Nice of her to post her daughter's pic so any freak predator can look at it. Parents…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/06/18 02:50 PM
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This is true. She could have really picked the wrong guy and been in a world of hurt for it. That would have been a lesson painfully learned. The world of heavy metal concerts is a strange one :-) He is an avid concert-goer and probably goes to 20-30 a year. A lot of weird things happen, but it isn't all that common to see a nearly spherical woman with manly clothes and a butch haircut try to beat the crap out of a fit man. It sounded like she was built much like the woman on this post. Who was …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/06/18 06:30 PM
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Yeah. He was mad enough to tell me that it had been a long, long time since he wanted to smoke someone in the face that bad. I think he scared the hell out of her, though, by shouting in her face and using her fist to steer her toward the back exit. I am quite certain she is used to hitting guys and having them do nothing in return except walk away, at which point she calls them a pussy or something. I was raised with a lot of brothers and they all told me the same thing: whether you are a man o…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/06/18 05:01 PM
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Yeah. My husband thought that maybe because she was smashed and the place was crowded, she mistakenly thought he was the one who pushed her down. It probably didn't occur to her booze soaked brain that someone who pushed you down isn't very likely to extend a hand to help you up. He was still steaming about it the next day. He can usually shake things off pretty well, but that incident really, really pissed him off. I think part of the reason that he was so mad was because a couple of times at o…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/06/18 03:59 PM
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She'd be cute if she had some life in her eyes. Did gender studies really kick her ass that bad? Wow! Here's a tip since you are a youngster: plenty of people have had successful relationships in which their family and friends didn't like the partner. They were successful because they showed each other that they loved each other despite, and against, some pretty tall odds. There are a multitude of reasons why a family and/or set of friends might not encircle your partner. Maybe your family still…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/06/18 02:48 PM
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No kidding. He said she was very butch and manlike, so maybe she was trying to prove how tough she was? Too bad she picked the wrong guy to try and start a fight with. There is something a lot of women don't really understand. Men are stronger, by a large margin. I am five feet six inches and 135 pounds, and I am confident that if I were to come up on a guy exactly my size, weight and height, he'd still be way stronger than me, simply because men are developed different muscle-wise. Women who ac…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/06/18 07:23 PM
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Gimme gimme some of that dick Upon that dick I will suck and lick I'll do it so well you'll think it's a trick Especially coming from a country hick. Till the time comes when I get bored I'll be faking when I scream "oh Lord!" That's the first signal that I'm gonna need more And if you don't give it to me you're out the door. Just like the last hundred guys I fucked And turned into sad old worn out cucks I was proud of how I rolled him in the muck If he were one of my horses he'd have better luc…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/06/18 07:06 PM
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My pussy's broke But I still like to smoke Come take a toke You poor ignorant bloke. I'm going to fuck you silly I'm going to turn you into my Billy I'll pay attention to your willy Until you bore me silly. Then I'll take you for all you've got I'll tell my friends that you're a sot I'll tell them to get the rest of what you've got You should have known--I'm just another Thot.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/06/18 06:39 PM
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I feel like this is what she did. She Googled the following phrase: "things that dudes like to do in their free time." She then copied this list. Then she Googled: "how much do men like sex?" She got this answer: A LOT. She then figured that she had better add some sex stuff in there. Nothing subtle--nothing to capture a guy's imagination and make him want to figure out a little more. This is in your face. "If you make me laugh as hard as you make me cum, we are getting married." "I like to keep…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/06/18 06:34 PM
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I'm going to LOLOL you right back. That was good :-)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/06/18 06:22 PM
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I feel like I have a lot to offer and don’t know what else to improve on. I’m fit, I used to model lingerie/swim professionally and still look the same. Still young. Multiple degrees. 6 figure career. Property owner. Lots of hobbies and interests. Excellent chef. Don’t mind cleaning and chores. Almost never in a bad a mood since I really do have an ideal life aside from dating. I’m feminine and fun, always trying new things. Ive put in a lot of effort, so much so that I don’t know what else to i…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/06/18 04:08 PM
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I like how you capitalized every word and copied her language style, terrible spelling, and barely passable grammar in your reply. Clever :-)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/06/18 02:55 PM
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I don’t date your kind. Yes, I mean “kind” as in “different species”, because that’s what you are to me. I’m a human being, not an uggo like you, and I don’t do bestiality. You should be socially aware enough to know disinterest when it’s right in front of your homely ass face! Ugly men who act “confident” act out of character, and that’s creepy. Know your place and leave your genetic superiors ALONE!! It really is that simple. Don’t like it? THAT’S TOO D*MN BAD!! You’re not entitled to sex or c…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/06/18 02:51 PM
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Ha! She sounds like a complete bitch who thinks she's tough. A short, wide tank of a girl pretty similar to this, except more butch (by description) had a run in with my husband at a concert about a month ago. I wasn't there, but he and my oldest son told me about it the next day. For purposes of discussion I will refer to her as Tank Girl. Tank Girl got knocked down onto the floor, pretty much flat on her back. My husband knelt down and extended a hand to help her up. She got on her feet, and p…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/06/18 02:38 PM
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I was wondering if there was such a thing as "market saturation" when it comes to pictures of breasts. It looks like I have my answer. I've been saying for a while that these women need to change it up in order to stand out from the endless line of "look at my tits because that's all I feel like I have to offer" shots.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/06/18 12:24 AM
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Dude. Leave her, NOW. If this is tearing you to pieces just thinking about it, it is going to burn you alive when it actually happens. You sound like a caring and loving husband and you deserve better. Just because she's scratching her seven year itch doesn't mean you have to be a party to it, put up with it or let it consume you. Let her slut around--later she is going to regret tearing her family apart. She might sugarcoat it on the outside to family and friends. She might act like it was no b…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/18 11:41 PM
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Ha! Okay. It is interesting to hear info like this. Thank you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/18 12:18 PM
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Complete sentences. Are a. Thing. You should. Try them. Sometime.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/18 12:54 AM
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Yes. As if molesting her sister wasn't bad enough, she went on to publicize it. What could she have possibly hoped to gain from that? She is a warped person, and she deserves every bit of scorn and derision that she gets. She has earned every bit of it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/18 12:52 AM
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You are exactly right, LewisCross. It is spooky how well you put your finger on this. Women who suddenly act like they want to "open up" the marriage after being loyal don't want to lose their husband, but they have someone else picked out that they want to sleep with. They figure that the trade-off will be worth it. Their husband will get to sleep with someone else and she will hate that, but she will accept it as long as it gives her a chance to sleep with the guy she's been lusting after. Wom…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/18 12:13 AM
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Ha! This made me laugh. Lena Dunham is nothing but a walking, talking pile of human excrement.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/18 12:03 AM
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Ok guys. I am endlessly fascinated with what you guys deem attractive in the female gender. Is this it? I'm not talking about her words or post; I am talking primarily physical attraction here. I am asking because I feel like she could be quite pretty if she weren't so masculine. I don't know if she's a bodybuilder or what, but she doesn't have a very feminine physique. Go over to YouTube (I don't think I am allowed to post links directly here, unless I am misunderstanding the rules) and look up…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/06/18 11:13 PM
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She's really living inside a deluded bubble. I saw nothing in her post that indicated anything but an empty vessel that, when pressed, turns to her dad's values because she has none of her own. Otherwise her existence is based primarily on the superficial. I think her boyfriend finally woke up to this and decided that some other guy could take on the responsibility of becoming Mr. Perfect to her family and friends. Hopefully when he broke free, he felt like he could finally be himself again. No …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/06/18 11:08 PM
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The law of unintended consequences certainly does apply here. I am in full agreement with your assessment. I have a soft spot for children, as I've alluded to before, and that soft spot clouds my judgment. Thank you for your thoughtful reply.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/06/18 03:11 PM
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This was an awesome analysis. Well done!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/06/18 01:49 PM
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Is anyone else getting echoes of Caddyshack here? The parody almost writes itself. This woman treated her boyfriend like he was nothing more than one of her expensive little purse dogs, and wondered why he finally bolted. She fed him treats in the form of gifts and vacations and tried to fatten him up into a complacent "good boy" who would do whatever she commanded. This part really annoyed me too, for two reasons: I told him he needed to be college educated (only so he could have better employm…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/06/18 01:10 PM
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Yes, sir!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/06/18 08:55 PM
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Thank you! I was going to say the exact same thing...f'ing Snapchat filters. Arrrrgggggh.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/06/18 05:46 PM
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I don't know what it is about this post and these pictures, but it all makes me ineffably sad. There is a smiling little boy who has no idea yet that his little world has been torn open by his parents separating. His mother might get another guy and maybe even someday get married to him, but that little guy is always going to be shuttled back and forth between his mom and his real father (assuming his mom and real father still cooperate in terms of visiting, et cetera.) He is destined for a life…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/06/18 05:44 PM
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Part of the issue, I think, is that a lot of women don't understand the difference in definition of the words "aggressive" and "assertive". The first is off-putting; the second isn't, for one thing, especially when talking about female personalities. They think they are being assertive when in fact they are being aggressive, annoying, and coming off as entitled.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/18 09:39 PM
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Too bad Billy didn't fire off a snappy answer about how it was really too bad that he didn't realize she was an emotionally blackmailing slut before, but now that she has corrected that for him, she could GTFO and take her fantasies of some other guy's dick with her. Alternatively, he could wait till they were in front of his friends and then tell her he almost screwed his ex-gf, who had a tighter everything. Tit for tat.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/18 08:48 PM
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I don't typically like to comment about people's appearances unless I can say something positive, but good heavens. That shot of her boobs from above, in the green tank top, is misguided at best. The cleavage goes up to the neck in this picture and I bet anything there is food, loose change, and other debris trapped in there.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/18 06:05 PM
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There doesn't seem to be any easy answers, that is for sure. I feel like positive encouragement goes a long way in most any interaction. No one seems to be telling the younger generation any of this stuff and it is really too bad, because the entitlement is only going to get worse if the brakes aren't somehow applied here. My thoughts keep circling back to not rewarding them for their bad behavior, and I do understand your counter-points to that. The stuff they are teaching in universities doesn…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/18 02:03 PM
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Fair enough.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/18 01:42 PM
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This is actually my second comment, which I meant to address in the first and didn't. Your sentence: "You are just passing the blame onto men, yet again, to solve the innate problems women created when they voted for welfare social security blankets." What is the "yet again" piece about? Have I given you or anyone else the impression that I routinely pass blame onto men for the problems we talk about in this thread? If so, I would like to know about this. Thank you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/06/18 08:15 PM
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"You are saying the only solution is for men to go against their biology." Is it safe to assume you were talking about sex, or did you mean more than that? A good part of the rest of your post is related to sex, so it is that context is where I derived my question from. Not at all what I said, although since I didn't elaborate further I can understand why that is what you are reading into my comment. What I meant was stop letting the emotional blackmail and verbal abuse go unchecked. There are w…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/06/18 08:10 PM
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That is an undeniable fact. The only way that will change is if you guys decide to make it change. You may have read about what is called the "herbivore" movement in Japan. It is their version of MGTOW. I brought it up here because I thought the name was rather clever.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/06/18 03:44 PM
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Haha :-) That made me laugh because I was told exactly that by a male source this weekend--my 20 year old son told me that all that women need to do is take a picture of their boobs and post something like "hit me up" and she would get responses. It makes me laugh when two guys that are complete strangers reach the exact same conclusion about something like this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/06/18 02:39 PM
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Very nicely done post. You really did do a nice job dissecting this woman's poisonous mind-set. You deserve gold, but I'm heavy into bills this month :-)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/18 08:55 PM
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Ugh. She says that she wants to put the most important stuff out there so there is no wasted conversation only to find out that they aren't compatible, and then she puts that her favorite color is green? (That part of the post is in the comments below as it was inadvertently omitted.) I guess it isn't too crazy--ALL the people I know in successful relationships first ascertained before anything else that their favorite colors were at least in the same color family! Heavy sarcasm intended. She do…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/18 08:50 PM
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I was really putting myself out there to allow myself to connect with that guy. I just can’t take it anymore. How do you keep going on with dating when it seems hopeless? How do you find someone compatible with you? How do you handle the constant, unending sting of rejection? I’m tired of the ghosting, the “I’ve found someone else” texts, the constantly swiping and messaging that goes nowhere. I just can’t take it anymore. I just want to fast forward through it all until I’m settled down with my…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/18 06:12 PM
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So she's seeking a man for "long term." Contradiction #1--she then goes on to say she wants to keep things light...see what organically happens...try to meet people who might love a new friend if nothing else. She goes on to contradict herself yet again by saying, "If I don't respond, please don't be offended. I know what I'm looking for." If she would have kept that "keep things light...new friend if nothing else," bit out of her text, it would have been fine. Just some minor inconsistencies in…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/18 06:00 PM
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I probably don't need to point this out, but it looks like she's had gastric bypass surgery (meaning that she had a lot of loose skin when the weight came off too quickly for the skin to react in tune with the weight loss) and then gained the weight back. I say this because I know a LOT of women who have had this surgery, (obesity is absolutely rampant in the Midwest) and all but one gained the weight back and look very similar to this--obese, yet with the weight distributed oddly. This is a per…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/18 05:33 PM
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Yes. She might see her daughters just now starting to enter the stage of their lives where they have their peak physical beauty (and if they take after her they probably are going to be very attractive, and even more so if their dad was a good looking guy too) and it might make her feel insecure and wistful for days in which looking good required nothing but her own youth. Looking actively for a party scene on her post might mean that she is overcompensating for this. It makes me feel sorry for …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/18 05:00 PM
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The assumption is that most or ALL women are fine "as is" without any requirement to adjust or implement self-improvement to attract a high-quality man. This is what I was trying to say in my post above, but you said it more succinctly. Thank you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/18 04:00 PM
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She can't even fake a smile convincingly. Trust me guys, there are women out there who despise these types of women as much as you do. I get it if you don't believe me, though, because women like this seem to be on the front lines of female to male communication. As women, we ALL need to seriously evaluate our behaviors in regards to treating men well, and we can ALL use good counsel on how to do that, but women like this are not the place to get that counsel. It bugs me that she is from a natio…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/18 03:58 PM
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I know this isn't a child rearing forum so excuse me for focusing on that more than anything, but damn it. She has two teenagers. Apparently they are going to be second fiddle to the party scene, and women who treat their kids this way are completely fucked in the head. These are the women that, after getting rejected from the party scene for being and looking too old, get lonely and only then wonder why their adult children are so distant, both physically and emotionally. It is a completely avo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/18 03:49 PM
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Back in the dinosaur days when I was younger, our mothers told us exactly that--that guys didn't have much interest in long-term relationships with girls that slept around. I know mine did, anyway. It is one thing to experiment a bit, but quite another to sleep with 27 guys and not even be done with sophomore year of high school yet. I am not sure why mothers of high school girls--women my age--would not want to help their daughters by giving them advice and encouraging their kids to love themse…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/18 11:08 PM
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Could be. It could be that she isn't being honest in her post either about what may have caused this long string of breakups. She might very well know, but declined posting it because it made her look bad somehow. It just seems sad to me that she's throwing in the towel without even trying anymore. As obvious as this is, and should be to her, she's not going to achieve her dreams of getting married and having a family if she doesn't even try.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/18 08:00 PM
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Yes. My thoughts were that she either really is sleeping around to this extent, or she isn't, but bragging that she is because she thinks that more guys will want to go out with her if they think they will end up getting some. Either way, it shows that she has some major issues and she's only 15 years old. I asked my son about her parents and he said he really didn't know anything about them. I was curious, because as you pointed out, maybe she's doing this because her parents don't watch over h…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/18 07:56 PM
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I don't understand why people put pictures of themselves with their children in their dating app photo. I can see mentioning that you have children, in order to alert the guys who are absolutely uninterested in women with children, but the pictures of them are a little much. It feels like they are saying, "You aren't going to date me, you are going to wine and dine my whole family." I'm not even a guy and it is a huge turnoff! There had to be someone who'd be willing to snap a pic of her, or loo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/18 05:32 PM
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You don't get to be 36 and not achieve any of your dreams of marriage, family, etc., unless you are driving the guys away somehow. It seems like she might have had this same idea and went to counseling. It sounds like she went to counseling and THEN gave up, which I don't quite get, unless I am putting the pieces in the wrong chronological order. Why not use the tools she learned in counseling to work on herself and present herself in a better light? Why do the counseling if you're just going to…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/18 05:19 PM
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Yup. My high school son came home about a month ago and told me about a sophomore girl in that same school. Apparently she had already had 27 lovers, and was bragging about it. Thankfully he didn't need my stern warning to steer far, far clear. He told me he wouldn't touch her if his unit was wrapped in a Hefty bag. If she makes it out of high school without getting pregnant or having statutory rape charges brought on some senior-year student, I'll be amazed. Some of those kids are over 18 in th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/18 05:12 PM
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Well. I can't imagine some guy not wanting to be around someone as pleasant as she so clearly is. (s/) Comparing her plight to that of the Jews in the camps smacks of immaturity and entitlement, probably worse than I've seen from any of the other posts that I've seen on here. Internal thought process: "I got stood up, so I have every right to compare my situation to those that were ostracized and beaten by people hellbent on enslaving Europe, and then eventually starved, gassed, watched their fa…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/18 04:27 AM
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Hey I always respect women who give me a BJ on the first date but deny me PIV. That's how I know she's a lady This was too funny. Thanks for the laugh :-) Your whole comment was good, but that was classic.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/18 04:06 AM
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He was considerate, sweet and enticing enough to convince me that making out at the beach on a first date was a good idea. Right away, she's blaming this dude for her decision to make out with someone on the first date. She wouldn't have been convinced to do so had she not been ready to be convinced. He also convinced me that stopping by a motel on our way back to the city was a not so bad idea, but at least I was sane enough to withhold sex that night. We made out some more, settled for oral an…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/18 04:03 AM
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This is true--presenting yourself as best you can no matter what you have to work with is attractive, too. It shows the world that a person has confidence in themselves--basically, "Here's what I've got, like it or not. I like it." That alone makes a huge difference in someone's attractiveness level. Being able to take criticism (hopefully leveled by a friend) about where you need to improve, either in presentation or in personality, is important too, and working on that issue. For example, if s…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/18 02:49 AM
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I hear you and understand what you are saying. To me, it would seem that at a time when kids are teenagers, with every hormone in their body firing off pretty much all the time, and pretty much forced into confinement with one another for eight hours a day, it might be prudent on the part of the faculty to make sure that tits aren't hanging out and butts are covered up a little better than they are. Boys at my son's school have to wear knee length shorts, for example, and girls can wear pretty m…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/18 10:16 PM
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Thank you. I explained elsewhere that I wasn't really aware that height was a sensitive topic among guys and that I thought it was more to do with baldness. That probably really was naive of me, but in my defense I grew up with a lot of really, really tall guys in my family (I posted elsewhere that my brothers are all 6'4" and a couple of them an inch or so beyond) and subsequently I never heard anything about height, except for the occasional lament about how hard it was to find pants and boots…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/18 10:08 PM
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Back when I was in a position to help guys become better lovers, (meaning when I was single) I would have been far too timid of a coach or teacher. As silly as this sounds, back then, I had a fear and aversion to saying things that I felt might hurt somebody's feelings, so I am thinking I probably would have not been a very effective teacher. I think someone needs to be more assertive than I was back then to truly help in that situation.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/18 09:46 PM
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Haha...I shouldn't have made assumptions. I will say that your username is more feminine than mine is--every damned one of them I tried to come up with was taken already. Eventually I just picked the first one that Reddit said was available.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/18 03:26 AM
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I realized that after I posted it and should have taken it down. I still do appreciate your kind words though :-) This thread got a little confusing today but I hope I have everyone sorted out now. I sincerely didn't mean to irritate anyone, and the vast majority of you guys have been really cool.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/18 01:47 AM
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I wish I could remember exactly what post it was in (it wasn't in this one) and then I could direct you to please look at it. In it, I said that women are far more critical of appearances than men are. It is not your exact wording (the visually shallow piece you mentioned) but I would say it means pretty close to the same thing, if not the same thing. I fully realize that men have to work a hell of a lot harder in the sexual marketplace to receive even a fraction of the attention that an average…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/18 01:43 AM
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Okay, now I think I've got you. I probably got a little defensive because I felt like I was being flamed out (not just by you, believe me) for being as honest as I could. If I overacted or said something out of turn, I apologize. Thanks for sending a message explaining what you meant, too. It was nice of you to do so.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/18 01:18 AM
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Not to sound like a terrible slut here, but there are some guys that you just know would be good lovers. I don't know how to explain it, but you just know it somehow. It doesn't mean I act on that knowledge, but it is there sometimes. Do you guys have that same type of thing working for you in reverse? It's probably a pheremone thing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/18 01:14 AM
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It seems like 3 is the one I hear most from guys (I get a LOT of information, sometimes more than I'd like, from my oldest two boys.) They are quite free with their opinions regarding female attractiveness and I hear that, or some variant of it, a lot. Work with what you have and don't plaster it over with a ton of makeup. They also don't like when the stomach sticks out farther than the boobs do, or short hair on women, or women who dress slutty. I mean, they like to LOOK at the slutty attire, …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/18 01:09 AM
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I don't think it is wrong for people to have attraction preferences, either--male or female. We like what we like kind of instinctively and I don't know that is really something that can be changed--you know, that first glance when you size someone up and decide within that first little bit of time if you find them attractive or not. Plus we each have our "things," for lack of a better term. For example, I have a "thing" for redhead/gingery type guys, although my husband isn't a redhead, and I a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/18 12:56 AM
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That is good to know. I wasn't aware of that percentage. I have several brothers (I come from a big family :-) that are 6'4" so when we are all together he is actually the "short" one. I think they got so tall because both of my parents were six feet even. My mom was very tall and slender built and so was my dad. I guess I am the anomaly, because I am only 5'6". I think that height is pretty average for women in this country. Goodness knows how the height worked out that way, but I'm glad it did…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/18 12:35 AM
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Oh, please. You overlooked everything positive I said. I would say being married for almost 20 years to the same guy you were dating in high school is something to take into consideration, wouldn't you? I don't feel like you did, not at all, and truthfully I find that unfair. If I were only into him for his height, now OR then back in high school, which is what you seem to imply when you highlight the fact that I said he was tall, followed by your "basic," comment,then how come I didn't go throu…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/18 08:34 PM
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Read my reply to MyDogLovesHisHuman, please. I hardly think that being attracted to my husband is a bad thing, tall or not, fit or not. Am I supposed to be ashamed of liking tall fit guys, (and then marrying one) than you guys should be shamed for liking what you like (which I have gathered from my reading here is a youthful, fresh look and being fit)? And ffs. I never said I wasn't like the other women. This would go better between us if you'd stick to what i wrote and not what you are assuming…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/18 08:23 PM
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Yes. He's tall. Well, I consider him tall at 6'1". Did you not read the part in which I said I have been married to him for the past nearly 2 decades? I suppose you didn't because that wouldn't fit in with the little theory you've created about "basic bitches being basic." I guess the part where I said he makes good money means I'm sticking around just for that, although I started dating him in high school and I make nearly as much as he does and work full time just like he does. Let's see. I do…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/18 08:14 PM
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I am glad you appreciated it. It would seem that it inflamed some of the other folk, which was certainly not my intention.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/18 05:02 PM
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That would be good advice--to someone who isn't married :-) I've been married to the same guy for nearly 2 decades now. I don't know if he's what you guys call a "Chad" or not, now that you have me thinking about it. He's tall and in good shape. He has a physical job that keeps him in shape (actually 2 jobs in the summer.) He also makes good money as his job is in one of the trades. However, it seems like to be a true "Chad" a guy has to be good looking with a good job AND be sleeping around wit…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/18 05:01 PM
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As a follow up, perhaps you can help me then. Since you say my comment smacked of "I'm not like the other girls," perhaps you can shed some light on my dilemma. First option--explain my viewpoint without saying "I'm not like that," and still get flamed for the assumptions YOU are making about my post. Second option--explain my viewpoint and say, "I'm not like that," and get flamed for saying, "I'm not like that." BTW, I didn't say that, and if you can please point out where I did, I would apprec…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/18 02:55 PM
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Now who's projecting?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/18 02:46 PM
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Never said I was.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/18 12:56 PM
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I didn't post this in MGTOW.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/18 10:35 AM
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Channing Tatum--yes. The others? Meh. ;-) I find a lot of female attitudes nowadays disgraceful (and I am speaking as one) but I will say that until a female reaches some emotional maturity, we honest-to-goodness think that you guys want us to look like porn stars...flawless everything, and able to take whatever you guys want to dish out sexually. Now I am not naive enough to believe that you guys don't find porn stars hot. I have, however, figured out that even though I don't look like them, an…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/18 02:47 AM
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You know, when you say "sex with the help," you gave me an idea. Maybe in order to solve her dilemma, she needs to go to Denny's, wait till some guys are finishing their shift, and then literally...have sex with the help. No wasting time on social media--why not go straight to the source and get what she needs? No driving time or wasting gas for the guys either, which I'm sure they'll consider a nice bonus.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/18 02:25 AM
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This is great...a perfect reference and play on words. I wish you could do the rest of the menu, too!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/18 02:22 AM
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And when the eyes look like they are in orbit, waiting for any sound or sight to make it past the waves of whatever she's tripping on to the distant planet that is her brain, those probably shouldn't be photographed for a profile pic, either :-) She really does look like she's either gazing off into the distance, thinking tender thoughts about love and a hopeful twining of hearts, or like she's wrecked out of her tiny little mind.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/18 02:17 AM
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Yes. You could collect the information just like you would any other interesting specimen. I want to call her the Green Bastard (a nod to Trailer Park Boys, one of my favorite shows), but she isn't the right gender. I would christen her this because TPB is a great show and this is probably one of the greatest pics I, in my infancy to the site, have seen so far.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/18 02:06 AM
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I agree with you. It is hard to tell with her though. On the one hand, she brags about being psychotic and then tries to soften it up by saying it is the female perogative, so just accept it, damn it! On the other hand, we have those eyes, which tell a million stories, some of them probably quite scary. I don't get the feeling this one would be boring. Insufferable, yes, probably--but not boring.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/18 02:02 AM
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Your post made me laugh and laugh. I honestly can see her scaring the shit out of someone late at night with a knife, or a length of rope that she's caressing in her hands while looking at you with those big crazy eyes and breathing heavily. I wonder if they glow bright green if the light strikes them just right, like your dog and cat when you snap their pic on an older camera. Egads!!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/18 01:58 AM
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I want to know why she doesn't want both...someone to raw dog her behind a Denny's and then lay in the grass afterward, talking about life, love, art and philosophy. I'm sure a Denny's somewhere has to have a grassy strip behind the restaurant ;-) How she makes the profile while tripping just cracks me up. You guys truly are finding gold today!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/06/18 07:07 PM
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She can't stand other women because she has killed all the ones she used to know and probably uses their remains for crazy bitchcraft rituals. The eyes say it all, gentlemen...the eyes say it all. LOOK AT THOSE CRAZY EYES!! Picture it: it is two a.m., and she's spending the night at your place, and you wake up to go get a glass of water, and you flick on your kitchen light and the first thing you see is THIS FACE is coming at you, wielding a knife and screeching that she's going to kill you. Pla…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/06/18 05:02 PM
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Don't get me wrong, she's a very pretty lady, but does anyone else think she looks older than 18? Maybe it's just the lighting or something, but to me, the area around her eyes looks like she's older than 18. Not to nitpick, but methinks she's lying about her age.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/06/18 04:19 PM
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Yeah...if the comments were directed at the right folk, and not the gal in the pic. Since she didn't make the post herself, I wouldn't want her somehow coming across my vitriolic comments any more than I'd want her son coming across that picture/meme. Now had she really made it and posted it herself, I'd have no issue with her reading it at all.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/06/18 02:17 PM
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In fairness, then, I took them down. I knew it wasn't a hookup site profile but I didn't know it wasn't a meme. I figured some woman actually made and posted this. I only want my angry tirades directed at those who deserve it. Thanks for the info.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/06/18 10:56 AM
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I knew it wasn't a profile on a hookup site, but I did not know it was a meme. I figured she made it and posted it. In defense of my angry tirade, I will say it wouldn't have made me nearly as upset if I didn't know people like this in real life. I'm going to take the comments down though because I only want my ire directed at those who deserve it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/06/18 10:46 AM
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I agree with your analysis 100 percent. She's exactly the type of woman who ends up in a third-rate nursing home, staring up at the water-stained ceiling and wondering why her kids never visit. Unless she matures dramatically, something I rather heavily doubt because it hasn't happened already and she's got to be in her late 20's at least, she's going to be thinking something very close to this: "I just don't understand. He never comes to see me, after all I've sacrificed for him? I did my best …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/06/18 02:41 AM
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Of those .006 men, how many of them will be turned off by the "disabled wrestler" part? And you read really good...I mean, well. You read really well :-)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/06/18 02:23 AM
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I cannot believe she is willing to belittle her child for the sake of a few "likes" on social media. I simply cannot believe it. Someday he might run across this post. It could even happen tomorrow, if she leaves her phone on the table or something and he begins playing with it, exploring around and she forgot to close all her windows. I'd love to hear her explanation. "Sorry, son, but my life is a vapid, empty shell, and I am devoid of anything approaching intelligent thought, much less the bas…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/06/18 02:12 AM
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What a shitty ass thing to say about your child, you reprehensible piece of shit. I bet he's going to feel really good if he runs across this post, huh? You'll probably be too drunk and taking dick in all of your orifices simultaneously to notice anyway. The best thing that could happen to that kid is you dying, and when it happens it will probably be from a case of latent syphilis that will spring up in your later years. Here's a tip: just because you CAN act like an entitled asshole doesn't me…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/06/18 01:23 AM
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Ok. Parsing her grammatically disastrous post out logically, she doesn't want anyone. She doesn't want the guys that society might classify as "bad guys"--racists, transphobes, misogynists, fat shamers or fat enablers. So that takes care of that category. She doesn't want fat fetishists, either. Finally, she doesn't want "good guys." Who does that leave then? She's leaving herself with very few choices if she's going to be this particular. I mean, having likes and dislikes is fine, but you have …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/06/18 01:07 AM
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You gave a lot of good information, but the picture of a guy screwing someone else's fat rolls with butter or whipped cream or whatever sincerely made me sick. I guess if I'm going to hang around this sub, I'll have to toughen up :-) Seriously though, that was really interesting info and I hadn't heard that before. I wonder if she is looking around for one of those guys. Now you have me wondering if there is a site specifically for obese folks, like there is for Christians and farmers and other …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/18 10:03 PM
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I didn't even read the comments before posting, as I was in such a hurry to type this question out so sorry if I am saying what all of you said but--who the hell embarks on a weight GAINING journey? Why? Did she put on maybe 20 extra pounds, and try to work and diet it off and was unsuccessful, and thus was like, "Screw it. We are going all the way and see just how far we can go with this one!" She is harming her body big time by packing on the pounds like this, as if I need to point this out to…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/18 09:59 PM
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My first thoughts were either an abusive situation or meth addiction. I knew someone who was twenty-freaking-four and she had edentulism from meth addiction. I learned that the incisors are the first to go because people put the pipe in their mouth and clench it between the top and bottom incisors. A sad, bad, scary situation either way, especially for the 3 kids...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/18 02:34 AM
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You seem to feel about animals the way I do. I truly love them, too. That little aside being said, this woman clearly has issues and she threw them out there, which takes some bravery. However, she didn't really offer anything to counteract all the scary stuff she put out there. She could have even said something generic like, "I've made some poor choices and had some battles in my life, but I really have learned from them and grown from them, and I am a more mature and kind person because of th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/18 02:26 AM
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My thoughts are: this HAS to be a joke. I have no job cuz Im not meant for getting these nails dirty? I guess I haven't seen it put that blatantly before!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/18 02:16 AM
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Interesting thoughts. "Normal," of course, is what we say it is and as such the definition can be modified. Maybe the more thought-provoking way to look at it is this: what would we want out of this new generation of people? Would kindness toward others be toward the top of the list, or would physical dominance? Obviously there are a lot of traits in our species to choose from--those are just two examples that came to me quickly. Who would get to decide which traits are the most valuable and thu…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/18 02:09 AM
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As I am sure you know, egg extraction from the female is nothing like sperm extraction from the male...that's a lot easier ;-) Women who do consent to having their eggs extracted will probably demand a hefty price to do so, since it is a painful procedure that carries risks that any surgery or procedure would have. Perhaps by the time artificial wombs become a practical reality, another method to extract eggs will have been devised. As I said, I have to wonder if there would be some essential hu…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/18 01:38 AM
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Neither one of them, the wife or the "best friend" know what it means to be a true friend to somebody. When you distill this situation down, that's what is left, plain and simple.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/18 12:52 AM
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Yes...I think as she grows up and matures, she will realize that she is being quite ridiculous. Like I said before, you can't just assemble a person like you are making a batch of cookies, following a recipe and using specific ingredients. Anyone who had all those traits would either be a one in a million type of person, or a complete phony who wears those traits like a coat in order to get women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/18 12:44 AM
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It is interesting that you bring up Hilary Swank, because while she does have a more masculine jawline, I find her more attractive than Kristen Stewart, and by a considerable margin. Maybe it's because Stewart was so rotten to her boyfriend--her co-star Patterson or whatever his name was. (I know women were supposed to swoon over him, but I never did--he's certainly not a type I go for, I guess.) Actions and behavior certainly do color perceptions of one's looks and that can work in the reverse …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/18 12:39 AM
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You are right about what the answer is, but it is going to take the majority of guys saying/doing that. Getting a majority of guys to accept this mind set is going to be really, really tough unless they can see an alternative. Enter the world of sex-bots and artificial wombs! While I have to wonder what a child produced from an artificial womb would be like emotionally, the concept itself is interesting. I think of it mainly in terms of couples who can't have their own children due to infertilit…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/18 12:31 AM
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I have to say, it was quite educational. However, I found it repetitive and boring, and while I did last a bit longer than 15 seconds, it wasn't much longer!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/18 09:43 PM
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So when you say masculine jaw, do you mean a thick heavy jawbone? One example I can think of personally is that chick who did the vampire movies--Kristen Stewart. I've never understood how anyone finds her attractive because of her jaw and her dead eyed stare. Do you mean a jaw like that? Being a female, I naturally wonder what features a guy finds attractive vs. unattractive in a female face. I can say with certainty that women are much more critical of other female faces then men are, and by a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/18 04:04 AM
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"Beauty is only skin deep, but ugly goes all the way through." Song lyric by Otep. You guys want to read about one crazy chick, read about her. You guys want to read about a real man-hater, read about her. A guy at one of her concerts called her a dyke (which she is, or at least bi-sexual as she's said this publicly many times) and she swung a microphone stand at him, hitting him so hard in the head that an ambulance had to be summoned. This is only one example of her craziness.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/18 04:00 AM
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Thank you. That explanation makes more sense than what I was thinking. I am still astonished that she laid her list out like that--exactly like making a grocery list. Pick the items out and form her "perfect man," just like following a recipe, and one whom she would quickly find very boring because he would never have any spontaneous thought of his own. This demanding list she made is a perfect example of looking at the parts instead of the whole.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/18 03:50 AM
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I don't think the person who put this list together as a favor to her friend did her many favors. This comes off as a very demanding laundry list of traits, and offers absolutely nothing about the other person except that she is 20 and migrated here in year 8. Maybe I am missing something because the hour is growing late and I'm tired, but does anyone know what she means by year 8? I'm thinking either 2008 or 2018. I'm inclined to think it is the latter, because if she has been here since 2008 s…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/18 02:37 AM
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Really? I'm gonna go troll, errrr, I mean check it out now. Nothing else to do while under a tornado and flash floods warning.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/06/18 09:05 PM
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Probably :-)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/06/18 07:07 PM
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When you said "a budding relationship" you were spot on. After a while people become more secure in their relationships and don't spend as much time in the bathroom. Then, eventually, the pendulum swings to the opposite side and she emerges from the bathroom in a flannel nightgown, with big heavy socks and a colorful clay or cream mask on her face ;-) The way to combat the hour-long wait is to tell her that you like her just the way she is, and she doesn't need to go to such extreme lengths to m…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/06/18 06:00 PM
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You nailed it on the "Cosmo" magazine (and other types in the genre) advising women to play it cool and act unavailable. They go on to say that acting this way will challenge the man's competitive hunter instincts and chase the woman with even more vigor. Those articles truthfully do advise women that the only men worth consideration are the ones that keep on chasing, and basically offer proof of their interest by standing outside the woman's bedroom window and pricking himself repeatedly with t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/06/18 02:35 PM
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I guess I've never really gotten speed dating. What are the people really looking for? I really don't know how anyone could find a true partner using this method. If you are surrounded by this many people, each of whom you are evaluating as a prospective partner, I really don't know how you can tell which of the guys you are viscerally responding to, if any. Are we looking at purely physical aspects or are we trying to see which one connects on a deeper level? Her requirements seem to indicate t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/06/18 02:05 PM
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"Then I start to think about the past, and how my dashed hopes for his attention were indicative of so much more than a singular bad sexual experience, but of a loneliness that would characterize the next several years of my life. And I become uncomfortable all over again." BEWARE. This is the author starting to think about how she can validate her poor decision. It says right in the article that the sex was consensual, although a little more aggressive than she would have liked. Nowhere did it …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/06/18 08:07 PM
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I know more and more people as time goes on who are perfectly able-bodied yet choose the route that your younger female friends did. They are setting themselves up for a miserable life and depending on the government to keep them going is a bad, bad plan. What if some crisis happened--I'm talking a major money meltdown--and the government was unable to provide that monthly check anymore?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/06/18 01:05 AM
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Yes. Alcohol is no friend. If it were a person, we'd shy away from him/her. Imagine it as a person who made you lose your inhibitions, clouded your judgment, and made you think you were being funny when you in fact were just being annoying or downright mean. No one in their right mind would take and keep such a friend. I am of course not talking about it in moderation; I am talking about people who have a problem with it. I wonder if people made vows to themselves to approach dates sober would h…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/06/18 01:02 AM
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Yes. Growing up, my mother was adamant and relentless in telling me this phrase: Easy come, easy go. She used this phrase constantly to highlight the immutable fact that guys will treat you like a ho if you present yourself like a ho, and if you present yourself as a respectable woman that is how you will be treated. She had a lot of her own issues, but she was consistent and firm in giving me this advice. Her advice boiled down to this, not just in male/female relationships but in all walks of …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/06/18 12:31 AM
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It is certainly a study in people working against their own self interest, and being completely--stunningly--oblivious to it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/06/18 12:12 AM
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This literally made me laugh out loud. Thanks :-)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/06/18 11:51 PM
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She is worried about investing time with someone only to discover that they aren't sexually compatible. Whatever happened to getting in bed with someone you are attracted to and actually showing or teaching that person what gets you going in bed? Does every first "lay" have to be one that shakes the Earth? Isn't half the fun getting into bed with someone you really care for and finding out that they are willing to try whatever it takes to make you happy in bed? What I take away from this post is…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/06/18 11:44 PM
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Those women never saw me right when they woke up. You know how some women wake up and stretch gracefully, energized and ready to start the day? I am most certainly not one of them. And women who get up and immediately go running--I think they must be from another planet or something :-) Thank you. I will accept the compliment gracefully, with the caveat above. In this new place where I work, there is a cluster of 3 or 4 who give me the stink eye when they see me, but otherwise the women (and men…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/06/18 08:12 PM
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As someone who would cause children and animals to flee in terror if I stepped outside without getting cleaned up and made up, I totally understand :-) I don't sleep well--I have a lot of back issues that surgery has failed to fix--and I wake up looking like I have been in a boxing ring all night. Face all puffy, hair a complete mess, brain maladjusted. I need a lot of hot coffee and about an hour before I resemble anything human. Full disclosure here :-)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/06/18 06:29 PM
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She'd be kind of cute if she didn't have the drawn on eyebrows. She has some nice features. Eyebrow fleeking/drawing is a trend that I wish would stop. They don't look natural and overpower the face. I am also puzzled by the picture of the guy in the middle. Is it common for people to post actual pictures of the type of guy they want in their bios? I can't say I've ever seen this before. In my mind, if I were a guy (who didn't look like the guy in the picture) and I was looking around, I'd be ch…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/06/18 03:58 PM
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I never thought of it like that. I'm an old lady (older than most of you posting, I'll warrant) and I've been off the market for a long time. Maybe my squeamishness stems from the fact that I have been with the same man since high school. That being said, you are right. If I were willing to give oral to some guy I met two days ago, the risk of STI and how many women he'd been with would likely be one of the last things on my mind. I am trying to put myself into such a female's shoes and I confes…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/06/18 11:51 PM
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Good to know. I honestly thought that the girls made these words up to try and obfuscate. Can I ask if you are an equal opportunity type of guy, meaning that you like small, medium and large, or if large is your preference? Follow up question: does it sound like I'm discussing options from a drive through menu? ;-)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/06/18 11:36 PM
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Yes. I think it is a pic of her hip/side of her rear end. Odd choice for a photo angle ☺
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/06/18 10:26 PM
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Don't forget "thick." That one is worse than curvy, IMO. Cutesy euphemisms don't change perceptions or mask reality. Owning up to being overweight is probably painful, but more honest. Since I am in the mood to opine, I think that the use of these words, intended to disguise, is an exercise in denial. The thought might run something like this: if I tell the world that I'm thick instead of overweight, maybe they'll believe it too! Folks who do this probably don't mean to insult anyone's intellige…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/06/18 10:22 PM
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Great reference! I'd upvote you a hundred times for that if I could.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/06/18 08:33 PM
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Hers is a cautionary tale, to be certain. Going down on someone is a risky proposition these days.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/06/18 08:29 PM
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Yes. They are curiously blind to what they are doing to themselves and probably will be quite surprised when their strategy falls through.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/06/18 05:48 PM
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I was going to post something, and then realized that I could not say it or sum it up any better. I will note that she was pretty graphic while describing some of her escapades (I confess I lost track of which guy it was) and that is a red flag for me. She isn't respecting his privacy, or her own, and to be quite honest, the image of some guy going down on this woman makes me ill. I hope he brushed his teeth and really hammered the Listerine to his mouth afterward, because he's probably got trac…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/06/18 05:18 PM
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Dumb strategy to show your inner workings to the enemy, though. Their overconfidence just might be their undoing, wouldn't you say?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/06/18 12:50 PM
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I was brought up by my father and six brothers, so I definitely hear you :-) It sounds like you are a nice person so this will probably come naturally to you--but when I feel in doubt of how to handle something, I try and take the kindest possible route. It is hard to go wrong and you'll find that people gravitate toward you, because kindness is in short supply these days, it seems. Best of luck to you!
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/18 12:49 PM
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Need more info. Does he work at a job in which carpal tunnel or other overuse syndromes are a possibility? Shaming him for needing help if he is in pain is a horrible thing to do. Think back to your wedding vows--"In sickness and health." That being said, even if he doesn't have any problems with his wrists or hands, so what if he asks you to open a jar? Maybe he feels the same way about you when you ask him to do something you should be able to do for yourself, such as kill a spider or program …
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/18 11:31 PM
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She may have a master's degree and be educated, but she certainly did not take the time to reflect this in her little bio. It would have been more impressive had she used commas and capitalization consistently, instead of sprinkling them throughout the post as if using a salt shaker. What caught my eye was that she has "3 major trips planned this year." She obviously loves to travel, so my unsolicited advice to any guy who gets serious with her is to keep that in mind, and keep a firm hand on yo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/06/18 11:00 PM
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Instead of pragmatism, why not go full ulitarianism since that is what a lot of these women are doing, although they aren't admitting it? They are straight up asking for men with good careers and a car and their own home, plus physical requirements, so why not bring this full circle and post an ad something like the following: 30-something male looking for a slim, good looking woman in her early to mid 20's, with beautiful perky breasts, long, soft hair that looks good spread out on a pillow, le…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/18 03:43 PM
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Chalk this up to me being incredibly naive, but I am quite surprised to see that this advice is being so blatantly shared. It is as if creating a subterfuge personality in which they at least act like they are looking for that "one true love" is too much work, so they've decided to strip that mask off and approach the dating scene as their true manipulative selves. Why don't they save everyone the trouble and just make all the guys fill out a literal job application, complete with photos and pro…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/18 11:58 AM
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I would very much like to continue this conversation with you a bit later. It has been really interesting and I can't tell you how neat it is to read your honesty. When I say I am astounded at how powerful and immutable a man's love can be, I also find it a little scary. I have 2 somewhat paradoxical reasons for saying so, which I'd like to explain later. I'd also like to offer a friendly challenge to you to see if you can guess what they might be. :-). Thank you and hope you are somewhere you c…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/18 11:25 PM
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That was awesome :-). Made me smile, and it is correct as well as funny.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/18 11:16 PM
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Thank you. I like it here and hope you guys keep letting me post here without feeling unwanted. I have had some really nice talks with folks here and each of you has made me feel welcome. Each of you that I've had talks with have made me feel like you've read and considered my posts, which I appreciate. Have a good rest of your Saturday!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/18 08:31 PM
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Can I say one more thing, to your very last sentence? It astounds me, in a completely good way, how strong a man's love can be. Sometimes it feels like a (I'm struggling to come up with a simile here) rock, or a piece of iron. Something permanent.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/18 08:24 PM
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Yes. Things have been rigged against you guys especially when it comes to things like child custody/support, alimony, and so on. Going off on a bit of tangent here, but there is no reason a man should have to pay alimony, ESPECIALLY if the ex-wife has a job. This alone would make me shy away from marriage if I were a guy--the thought that I'd have to support another grown adult in this way. The ex wife should be made to get off her rear end and support herself. Interesting times we live in, to s…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/18 08:22 PM
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You have given me a lot to chew on. I appreciate it, and thank you once again for how honest you are. I do know the answer to the "can women keep that promise" question. I realized after I posted my answer that you had given me the answer already. You seem really intelligent and like you spend some time reflecting inward. I am introspective, too, and feel lucky when I come across someone else who does, and who isn't afraid to show it. It is the exact opposite of shallowness, and something we cou…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/18 08:16 PM
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Hello, and thank you for your thoughtful response. I am always interested in other people's viewpoints and your honesty is insightful and refreshing. That being said, I would like to use my response to clear up a couple of misconceptions. My comment: People who have been burned have a tendency to be very cautious and I fully respect and understand that. Your response said that not all of you have been burned and that some of you have wives/girlfriends. I get that, and nowhere in my comment did I…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/18 07:13 PM
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I think you answered your own question. "How can men even begin to change female's imperatives?". Answer:. "What they can do is stop pandering to women and putting their vaginas on a pedestal." I think we've all seen it--a guy allowing himself to be treated badly just for the sake of some probably mediocre sex. You guys quit allowing that to happen and the tide will slowly start shifting. Quit accepting the lame excuses for being bitchy or manipulative. Also, pay attention when you are out with …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/18 01:54 PM
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I have a male friend who says just about exactly what you have said. He went on to say that if men started withholding sex, the value of it would increase and eventually, given enough time, women would be the ones putting men on pedestals for sex. Not to sound smarmy or over-cutesey (forgive me but it is late and my usual word-finding skills are failing me) but if women want true equality, they need to stop demanding to be placed on that pedestal and instead request that they be able to look at …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/18 05:05 AM
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A cold and calculating woman will certainly use these things to her advantage, to be certain. I am glad someone explained the AWALT comment and I very much appreciate the insight. I am not offended, because truth be told, whether I like it or not, I am going to be viewed skeptically for a while because of my gender. People who have been burned have a tendency to be very cautious and I fully respect and understand that. I would like to introduce a few things about me, though, because I don't want…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/18 04:57 AM
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Still a newbie...can you please tell me what DM stands for? Thank you. I'll pick the lingo up quickly with a bit of guidance. Have a good night and thanks for the conversation. It was interesting and fun.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/18 04:47 AM
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Mine, too. A lot of families lost great people. Those among the dead paid a dear price for this company's negligence and greed. They spent the last year of their lives in agony and died horrible deaths. I had the privilege of being with my dad, holding his hand as he passed. If we could talk about this more sometime, I'd like that because you seem to have grasped the gravity of the situation after one reading. Some folks in my life still don't get it. I don't want to clutter the sub with unrelat…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/18 03:26 AM
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How so? No offense taken; I'm genuinely curious to know why you feel that way. I'm here to learn and share some of my insights as a female, so I appreciate honesty. Thank you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/18 02:08 AM
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It was a different upbringing, full of a lot of interesting (for wont of a better term) experiences. Unfortunately, what my mother died from was alcoholic cirrhosis when she was 45, and there is definitely a history of abuse. Odd how it is easier to say that to a stranger. I do think, though, that a lot of the experiences I had shaped me in ways that I consider quite positive. I think people with childhoods like that are forced to grow up quickly, or get lost. At any rate, my dad did his level b…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/18 02:01 AM
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The revenge part is true, but so depressing. First of all, needing to get revenge on someone you once loved is far more damaging to you than it is to the other person. That being said, if she sat and thought about it logically instead of letting her emotions carry the day, she'd realize that the best revenge would be to go on and have a happy, fulfilling life without him. That may sound cold, but I do believe that it is what people with confidence, self-love and a well developed sense of self wo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/18 12:52 AM
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A woman can't control anyone else's sexual history--only her own. Thinking of it in those terms, it seems silly to worry about anything as nebulous as the "double standard" in regards to male vs. female sexuality. If a woman talks about the double standard, she should be reminded of this. If she appears to be thinking about this, and perhaps even wants to have a conversation about this, that's a good sign because it means accountability is not a totally foreign concept to her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/18 12:17 AM
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Gotcha. Thanks!!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/18 12:06 AM
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It is really, really too bad that some of these girls don't have the wherewithal to withstand a breakup. While I firmly believe in loving your partner, being attentive to him (or her, as the case may be), and encouraging him/her in their pursuits, it is also incredibly important to have your own interests that are separate, along with your own convictions and morals (which hopefully align with your partner's.) When a breakup happens, a person should be able to fall back on this developed sense o…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/06/18 11:43 PM
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Being generous and assuming we are working in a month with 31 days in it, that works out to 1.72 different guys per day. We need the salacious bits--was it a marathon of sorts that she was trying to win? All kidding aside, I find that really, really sad (and physically repellent.) She is asking for disease, presumably unwanted pregnancies, and heartbreak. What I find sad is that she thinks she is asking for love and affection.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/06/18 11:11 PM
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I need to learn the lingo, since I am new to this sub. What is TRP?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/06/18 11:09 PM
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32!! 32!! It bears repeating...32!! What kind of college was she in, anyway? If she was in college to learn how to give herself away to anyone who came knocking, I'm sure she received an A+ with extra credit. Ladies, if you want someone who is going to value you for who you are, you have to value yourself first. Giving yourself away to just anyone tells guys 2 things: he is going to get a quick easy lay; and that you are not worthy of his time, effort or love because you are just going to throw …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/06/18 06:05 PM
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You call him a man with potentially a lot to offer, if you can put aside your shallow expectations and vanity. Height should have absolutely nothing to do with evaluating a potential mate. I personally would be far more attracted to kindness and intelligence, which are qualities that are usually readily apparent. Selecting mates based on their height is like selecting a car solely based on paint color.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/06/18 01:38 AM
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