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This is useful but how can you determine if the guy is truly high value and acknowledges your accomplishments or if he’s just sucking up to for his own potential benefit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 07:31 PM
26

I posted my experience yesterday. As a slimmer woman, you will get so much attention but since lvm are abundant, it simply means more of them will come. Lose weight to decrease you’re risk of developing diseases and to have more energy, that’s what I’m doing. I’m dreading the attention, especially once social distancing ends. They are going to be like bloodthirsty animals looking for fresh meat. I probably just won’t date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 05:49 PM
13

But I mean....why go through all of this? Why not just find someone new? I don’t understand
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 05:43 PM
31

Why do men do this???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 03:48 PM
13

Don’t doubt yourself, they absolutely know what they’re doing. They don’t care, it’s the truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 01:38 AM
8

Point taken
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 01:35 AM
14

Please get out of that mindset. You will be taken advantage of while he saves his money to spend on a side piece.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 01:31 AM
20

Oh I went from being hit on maybe once a week or so to literally being annoyed every where I went.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 01:26 AM
124

I’ve told this story once on here but for a short time , I worked out 2 hours a day and paid for expensive monthly grooming treatments including facials and professional hair extensions. I turned heads, people were nicer to me but I got increasingly uncomfortable with the male attention. I was disrespected, stalked, catcalled etc. I stopped doing as much because the attention from sex crazed scrotes was too much. I really want to be that beautiful again for myself but men terrified me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 09:57 PM
117

This honestly pissed me off. No woman expects random men to step up and play daddy HOWEVER if you in that woman’s face/space/vagina then yes you need to bring value into her life. This is what we’re talking about. They only want to show up with their dicks and nothing more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 04:55 PM
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I thought this was common knowledge but from what I’m reading on here, so many women have been arm twisted into these relationships by friends and scrotes telling them to lower their standards. 50/50 signals only interest for sex, lukewarm interest, and/or I’m saving for when I get the woman I really want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 03:26 PM
82

My friend went through something similar during the summer with what she thought was her boyfriend of 2 years. He got his side chick pregnant and when she confronted him he said “well, we weren’t really serious like that” 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 02:58 PM
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It is weird. I don’t understand it, the scrotes from decades ago didn’t add much but they did participate in the outside house labor and performance light maintenance. These men now probably don’t what to do with a hammer smh One scrote I know bragged that he didn’t know how to operate a washing machine until he moved out his parents house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 02:54 PM
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Im leaning towards it. What disappointments with men as a whole is they add absolutely nothing to women's lives most of the time and they think that’s how it’s supposed to be. Every guy can’t make 6 figures/6 feet tall but what about other things like grooming/cooking/cleaning/conversational skills/building things/ some travel/attending cultural activities. What’s so hard about doing some of those things i mentioned?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 12:50 PM
176

I was just going to say this. His confession is very telling, pretty much what most of us say on here. Scrotes only see women as fleshlights and things to “assist” in his life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 11:21 AM
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Don’t feel bad, I just blocked a scrote that’s been stringing me along. I can’t wait until I can get to a space where I’m singing sorry not sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 01:50 AM
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That actually makes sense. So hetero women’s standards are just too low. This is why the average scrote thinks he deserves the best woman. A lot of these men don’t have looks, money, or personality but we still fuck and provide for them to our detriment. 🤦🏽‍♀️ I’m so glad more of us are waking up to this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 09:12 PM
76

Omg, it would have taken everything in me not burn his house down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 09:08 PM
339

Okay, I’m starting to understand why men had to jump through hoops and get married for access to women. A lot of just give and give and give with no concept of self-preservation 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 08:27 PM
105

Pump the brake...There are scrotes who refinanced the house without adding their partners??? How does that work if both parties were already on the original loan?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 08:24 PM
20

If I recall correctly, a lioness will rip the throat out of their alpha lion if she thinks he can’t protect or hunt properly....maybe they’re on to something 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 08:09 PM
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That’s kind of what I’m thinking. Now that men don’t have to get married, their true feelings regarding women are showing. We don’t have any value to them and are interchangeable. I think someone posted on here about what men say to other men. A lot of them “joke” about hunting us for sport if we didn’t have a vagina for them to use.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 06:14 PM
8

You know, I’ve never thought about this before but the gay male associates I have do look way better than the average Heterosexual male and quite a few women. Does anyone know why this is?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 03:02 PM
38

This is why I view all male/female interactions now with the mantra of “ if he wanted to he would.” You can’t plan dinner for your woman but can plan amsterdam/ Brazil whore hunting trips with the bros. Can’t make a plan for household duties but can long term plan their entire careers. Get the fuck out of here. IF HE WANTED TO HE WOULD! IF HE WANTED TO HE WOULD! IF HE WANTED TO HE WOULD!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 02:56 PM
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He is like the majority of the men that have approached me, great on paper but terrible personality and low emotional iq. I bet the majority of scrotes and scrotettes fall in this category.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 02:38 PM
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I stopped, at first my family threw subtle jabs saying I won’t get married but now everyone knows not to expect me to mule around the house. Holiday times I sit on my ass until it’s time to eat...unlike the men tho, i usually do the clean up afterwards because I actually appreciate the fact that someone cooked for me and it’s the least I can do to help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 11:47 AM
107

We need start calling these guys negative value men because a man with that mindset will do nothing but drain you emotionally while also extracting maximum value from you. I bet he thinks nothing of forcing his young daughter to play woman of the house because he’s too lazy to do anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 11:40 AM
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Im so confused...why do grown ass men take porn this serious? Do they really think everything on tv applies to real ? These people are actors, they get paid to look the way they do and perform gross acts. So they really think alot of men out here are hot guys that are 6’3 with 10 inch penises, ripped abs, and acrobatic sex moves that lasts for hours and they feel inadequate? What the hell is wrong with them that they can’t separate reality from fantasy? Porn is fake sex!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 09:08 PM
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I’ve heard some women say get a guy that loves you more. I disagreed with that but now I agree. The relationships seems to work better when the guy is super into the woman, wether that’s because he truly loves her or because he knows he lucked up I can’t be certain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 08:35 PM
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Im glad to see this. That mean atleast a large portion of them know that 50/50 is bullshit giving everything we deal with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 02:11 PM
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I might have quit 🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 12:45 AM
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This was my experience, I remember in high school there were girls dating men 10 years older and they absolutely did treat it as a status symbol. The girls were smug ass hell about it. I couldn’t wrap my head around that but they put me down saying I was immature and couldn’t get an older guy. I wonder where this idea that girls/women should seek out older men idea comes from 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 11:52 AM
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No they don’t. They only give women relationship “titles” and marriage when it benefits them. Some do it to impress other men or to look good at work. The other men do it for consistent low effort sex and possibly a maid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 11:40 AM
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They are also attracted to women? Had no idea, if this is true then they just get off on preying on someone extremely vulnerable smh . Maybe I need to take a break from this site. Every day I learn a new depraved tendency of men. I only feel bad for them because they are bombarded with those thoughts. I don’t know anyone that can control every thought that pops into their head. I’d probably off myself if I developed a sexual attraction to kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 03:56 AM
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That’s precisely what they do, trying to jackhammer the vaginal opening which is sensitive as hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 10:26 PM
147

Yeah, I just giggle when people bring up “redpill” men. I’d bet half of the men you come across are every day are serious misogynists, they just have enough awareness not to say these things in public settings. Men have been redpill, think about the fact that they had to make child support laws because they didn’t give a damn about leaving their own flesh and bone destitute. We had to build women’s only shelters so they could feel safe leaving abusive scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 07:40 PM
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I don’t like cooking, the men I was with cooked so I took it upon myself to clean. It’s called being an attentive partner. I could be wrong but i think that for the men that refuse to do chores, it really just comes down to them not caring about your well-being or best interest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 05:46 PM
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Thank you for sharing, I’ve suspected a lot of women give men undeserved sympathy but when you tell a woman she’s treating men better than women they flat out deny it or try to justify it. I literally have no idea whats hard about being a man in developed countries. You aren’t expected to provide, protect or have traditional masculine skills like building. I give them no sympathy. To women that struggle with this, why do you feel like you should take it easy on scrotes?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 04:15 PM
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It’s not that they don’t know, the majority don’t care. Say it with me ladies “men only recognize other men as equals, women and children are just accessories in their lives!” Embrace that, let it sink in, and move accordingly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 12:57 PM
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I am 33 and I’m actually considering lowering my age dating range to late twenties. The amount of 35+ men who put zero effort into their appearance is astounding! They think they don’t have to because they’re making more money and that somehow makes up for the fact that they look like hobos. However they still expect a woman their age to be fit and stylish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 12:21 PM
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The best thing you can do is move far away to a major city like I did. It will hard at first, you will be uncomfortable, you will struggle financially, you may have to couch surf but it’s worth it. If you’ve been reading FDS then you know a lot of people come from toxic families, you have to find a way out for your own sanity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 12:13 PM
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Respect ✊ Yeah this idea that men must spread their seed is just objectification of women and them giving in to their dark impulses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 02:59 AM
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It sounds more like she is worried about who is going to watch the kids while she works nights. I wouldn’t advise this but I do know exes that lived together but had separate lives until they got everything worked out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 09:46 PM
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this has been my outlook on men for awhile now. I’ve seen women get screwed by unattractive men that don’t even make them orgasm. Aim high ladies, they are all equally likely to be scrote so atleast go for your type.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 07:30 PM
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I imagine before their toys, men shut women out by going to bars and social clubs that only men could attend then come home to work in the yard to escape any other duty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 05:11 PM
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There are religious people who take their vow’s of celibacy serious and die virgins gasps in horror I’m telling you, I’m glad I found this site. I can’t take men serious anymore lol. They have the nerve to call themselves ThE LoGICal SEx 😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 03:40 PM
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I want to highlight the fact that a lot of these men only think about themselves, video games/porn/car, and their male friend circle. Everyone else is disposable. I’ve met high salaried men who refuse to pay child support, take vacation,spend money on dates, or good quality clothes but don’t hesitate to spend money on drinks with their friends and video games smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 02:53 PM
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Better yet, up until a few decades ago, men did not have access to sex freely outside of marriage. Let them tell it, not having a chance to sleep with multiple women is going against their manhood and makes them depressed/angry 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 02:43 PM
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Wait....so porn is a human instinct 😂 He could have come up with something better than that. What is he talking about regarding all sex is rape, no one rational believes that. Humans have lived and died without porn until just a few decades ago. I got one, next time I go the doctor and she tells me to cut back on sugar I’m going to her : to stop drinking my Starbucks goes against my human instinct for sugar, how dare you. If you think I should stop consuming too much sugar you’re living in a fan…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 02:20 PM
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Wasnt it the Roman men that thought women were nothing but baby makers so they married them and had kids but nothing else? If I recall correctly their actual love relationships were with other men...I think they should go back to that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 06:28 AM
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Yep, I bet if you asked them what the privileges are its things like sex. Don’t forget they are furious because they have to pay child support. They think they should be able to leave women with nothing if doesn’t work out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 01:06 AM
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I forgot about women saying they were raised to care for the men in their family. Luckily it was just me, my mom, and whatever boyfriend she had at the time. Up until recently I didn’t know there are families where the men do nothing during the holidays and the women serve them all the food like maids. I don’t mind catering to man that does the same thing in return but just blatant servitude because a guy has a penis is just too much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 12:55 AM
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She’s being overprotective about the cat flying but I bet instead of talking to her about he jumped down her throat and made her feel bad. It does kinda sound like he might hurt the cat when they’re alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 10:21 PM
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Women tried to convince me saying it looks stressful but I enjoy my scrote and kids, you should try for a family. Nope, nothing about your life looks like you enjoy it, I’m good over here mam. I didn’t say that of course but that’s what I was thinking. I think this is the real reason a lot of women in developed countries don’t have babies. It’s too much work and you’re expected to do it while taking care of an overgrown man baby who pretends like hes never heard of bleach so he doesn’t have to d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 10:15 PM
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I’m also interested in the singe mom route but if not through a sperm donor it could backfire. A woman I picked while was Ubering said she chose a bum to knock her up thinking he wouldn’t be around. He is so bitter that she used him for sperm he does everything he can to disrupt her and her sons life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 10:06 PM
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Nope, I saw the game was rigged when I was 21. Watched my family and friends give birth, get back to work, go back to school, split bills, come home to clean, cook, organize, give baths, help with homework etc. I decided to nope the hell out right then. I was taught to stay out of peoples relationships but now I don’t care. I encourage women to make an exit strategy when it’s clear she’s the one carrying some scrote on her back through life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 03:39 PM
86

I wish more people talked about how artificially stimulating things are warping our reality. It’s why I don’t use toys anymore, I’ve heard some older women say they don’t enjoy sex with men because the toys get the job done faster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 01:51 PM
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yeah, I love the site and I don’t want it to turn into an echo chamber like the scrote sites. In truth I’m projecting a little, I don’t know this woman’s situation, he could have forced her to stay home. With both my cousin and coworkers daughter’s situation it was just laziness and I don’t have much sympathy for that. They weren’t forced to stay home, they loved the responsibility-free lifestyle their boyfriends provided and would give you every excuse as to why they didn’t need to work or star…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 01:24 PM
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So...you ladies are really coming across men out here that can’t enjoy normal sex with a woman because they watch so much porn 💀 Like how do they get to this point? At what point do you realize this ain’t right? Are these guys watching this stuff multiple times a week??? I have questions smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 09:10 AM
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Not “manicure the bush” 🤣🤣🤣 Yep, I’ve made that mistake only he said something dumb before the phone call ended so I didn’t even get a chance to invite him over. Scrotes will find a way to ruin anything, even if it benefits them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 03:05 AM
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I’ve always considered this a controlling scrote thing that I don’t understand. Amber rose and Halle berry built their careers off short hair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 02:17 AM
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Nope, even when you think you’re benefiting from fwb, they will find a way to ruin it. In my case, he got furious when I only had sex. He was expecting emotional labor, dinner occasionally and my free time...but didn’t want a girlfriend 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 02:13 AM
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I think it’s just I’ve seen this play out in my personal life with coworkers and a younger relative that’s it triggering me. We’ve all made mistakes but I mean i literally cannot wrap my brain around being fully financially dependent on “just a boyfriend” for years KNOWING this man has no financial obligation to you. Hopefully her nursing degree pays off. The women I know never recovered and will likely have to work until their 70s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 02:07 AM
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Nah sis. I’ve never heard of anyone advocate for women to put complete trust in boyfriends. Victim blaming is disgusting however I’m not sure what that has to do with this situation. He’s cold hearted definitely but it’s his house, she has no legal claim to it from what she’s saying. She had 14 years to get a full time job or figure out a way to support herself. You should work on yourself to you get to point where you realize women do have to start taking accountability for extremely bad financ…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 01:59 AM
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I really have a hard time being sympathetic to women who play wife without the paperwork. How do you put 💯 percent blind trust in someone without any back up plan as an adult 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 12:20 AM
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I was on a scrote website the other day and they all clowned this one guy because he asked how he could be more attractive to women. They all said WHY DO YOU CARE WHAT WOMEN THINK 🥴 They told him the only thing he should do is learn enough conversational skills to be able to sweet talk women into bed. Straight from the horses mouth, they don’t and never will see us as equals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 06:56 PM
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Same, I’m not sure why everyone like to pretend OLD is not a reflection of the real world. The same scrote who writes things like “I’m a boss” and “ looking for a girl with good vagina” are the same scrotes that try to hit on you in every day life. The decent guys I’ve met had normal profile pictures, listed their interests and also listed what they looking for. We chatted a few days, we then exchanged numbers, had one or 2 convos ( I’m assuming this is men vetting before decided to take me out)…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 06:26 PM
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Nah, there’s nothing wrong with you, most women experience this. The problem is men not seeing value in women besides sex and servitude. They believe they are superior simply because they have a penis 🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 04:27 PM
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Yep!!!! There are sooooooo many low value women that have a martyr complex. They love to complain but will never stop self sacrificing. They love the attention of being a “suffering saint” and wants everyone to know how much they do everybody.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 01:06 PM
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I used to engage in fwb because I was not interested in a relationship but still wanted sex...its not worth it. First, Men CANNOT handle it when you only want them for sex and give them no other benefits. They will turn on you and try to guilt you for “UsING ThEM FoR SEx “🙄 Second, it’s too risky. You may think that he’s single but since you don’t spend any time together you have no idea if he’s sleeping with numerous other women or in a relationship. Third, massive waste of time. The time I spe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 11:39 PM
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You’re right, it seems like everybody is tripping all over themselves to defend violent and gross kinks. Why is this being normalized? I’ve never met any woman who admitted to having nasty fetishes or violent kinks beyond light choking. Why do men keep pushing the boundaries when it comes to sex? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 04:29 PM
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🤦🏽‍♀️ I just read that part, yeah she played herself. He probably married her because he was shamed into by friends, she pushed it, or he felt out of place amongst his social circle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 07:30 AM
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My opinion hasn’t changed but this website has made me realize it wasn’t me. My intuition was telling me that most men don’t care about women but I listened to other women who said “give him a chance to improve”. I listened to boyfriends who fed me beautiful lies that I believed. It makes me so sad that women from all over the world have the same problem regardless of race or religion. If I had to tell my younger self anything, it would be just to go ahead and take a vow of celibacy. I am focuse…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 07:23 AM
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At my high school it was “rumored”that one of the female teachers has a thing for football players. Once I graduated, my younger cousin said he had a teammate that told him she tried to come on to him. I’m not sure what happened to her but it really just drives the point home that you really can’t trust anyone with your kids. Also where’s there’s smoke, there’s probably fire. It’s possible David Isn’t being inappropriate with them, a lot of pervs get off to the image. I bet 5 dollars he has hour…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 04:55 AM
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Yep, the LOgiCAL SeX 😂 I don’t get it, the women I’ve met that are bums date other bums. Men for whatever reason think they are entitled to get whatever woman they desire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 01:32 AM
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This is honestly what I think it is, men have gotten so lazy that now they don’t want to put any effort into anything. This is what happens when coddle people from birth just because they have a penis. My 21 year old cousin complains constantly that he can’t find a pretty girl. Nevermind he has no job, no ambition, doesn’t wash his ass unless he’s leaving the house, plays games all day, has no interest in doing housework or yard work but somehow he’s entitled to hot sex. Before covid, I’d tell h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 11:53 PM
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I’ll take “Things we know” for 500 Alex. Everyone please share this on your social media for the pickmeishas...straight from the horses mouth. They hear you, they just don’t care, they know when they’re making you uncomfortable, they don’t care. They know when they’re hurting you....THEY DONT CARE! As he said, you’re here for my benefit therefore I don’t give a damn about your cries, wants, or needs. I will give him props for admitting tho, I don’t think 99% of men would ever acknowledge this in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 10:29 PM
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Nah, he just decided to do what men have been doing forever...hitch themselves to a successful woman for clout. I’m sure he loves her but he only married her because of HIS socio-political aspirations to improve HIS social standing and run in the same circle as the world’s elite. LV behavior. This is why women stay losing, men strategically pair up to improve their lives. Women just seem to pair up without thinking if they will actually benefit from doing so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 05:48 PM
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This is true but there is fine line between being incompatible with someone and mistreating them/wasting their time....That’s when you become a bad person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 01:17 AM
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Truth be told most people are average in looks. It’s just that 50% of men put no effort into their appearance. How hard is it to go to the barber every 2-3 weeks and get a 15 dollar hair cut? How hard is to find color coordinated clothes every once in awhile? How hard is it to moisturize your face and get a pedicure for those crusty ass feet? Smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 01:14 AM
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I was just thinking about Hillary Clinton. The hate for her went well beyond her politics. It was the first time I really opened my eyes to just how many people view women as a lesser beings, including other women. Someone told me their ex-husband told her he didn’t want her to feel empowered, that’s why he voted for trump. I heard people say president is a mans job. I heard people call her all kinds of bitches. Disagree with politics but you can’t deny that she’s brilliant, resilient, quick wit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 07:45 PM
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Trust me, there will be women crying he trapped me, he told me he was on birth control smh. Atleast with male birth control they literally will have no more excuses. When single men complain about paying child support to multiple women I usually say well vasectomies are reversible now... crickets lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 01:18 PM
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This is just unbelievable to me. I was just reading an article about when men leave sick spouses. It just came down to they refuse to do any emotional care, housework or routine planning. I think this is the REAL reason men refuse to commit to a relationship and shut down in long term relationships. They want all the benefits of having a woman and/or children but get resentful when they actually have to give their time and energy to anyone. Most of them are completely unwilling to put anyone’s n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 01:12 PM
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Okay, I think we need formal classes or workshops to teach women and girls to think less with our emotions and more with logic and self interest like men do. She pretty much said she’ll be financially ruined but wants to do it anyway . Real clown girl shit. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 05:26 PM
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Yes they know, even teenage boys know. They just like having the upper hand over a woman as well as stroking their ego.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 01:56 PM
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Honesty it’s not just men, people are nasty! I worked with a lady who thought it was funny to tell stories of her dogs. Anyway she proceeds to say she doesn’t worry about mopping or sweeping her kitchen because her dogs just lick everything up. Same woman I had to remind constantly to flush the toilet after using the bathroom in the office.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 01:53 PM
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Girl.... I think that’s why I’ve allowed myself to gain weight, it does repel a lot of people. Pretty sure I still have PTSD from thirsty scrotes following me everywhere. At one point I thought about making it official with the guy I was dating just to have a companion with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 12:03 AM
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Smh, I legit don’t understand this. I would have lost attraction for him. How do you get to the point in life where you can’t manage simple tasks that adult men and women have been doing forever? Now I’m wondering does she wash his balls for him too? Does she feed him dinner with a bib? I would not have told anyone about this....he literally starting crying like a child that doesn’t understand the homework.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 09:46 PM
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Because a woman in her natural state does not stimulate their penis as much, therefore unattractive. Our only value is in how much they want to fuck us. What I find amazing is that they like the polished look of women but also hate the fact that they have to compete for her attention and call her high maintenance. I did get more attention from men when I went through a Barbie phase but I couldn’t handle it. They actually become more entitled,aggressive, and gross the prettier you are to them. I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 07:20 PM
54

Goddamn that was epic, she honestly made me reevaluate myself and my goals lol We have it worse in some ways than our foremothers. Men a 100 years were expected to work and Learn traditional male skills like building/fixing. We still deal with things they dealt with, domestic violence/cheating/rape but now they literally bring no value. We are expected to be happy with coffee dates and a man who “babysits” their kids every other weekend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:27 PM
26

I am 5’3 and my cousin is 5’8 loves heels but feels self-conscious. I encourage her to wear them everywhere we go. I tell her the same thing I tell short men who are insecure. There is nothing wrong with you! Walk with confidence and own that shit. Society really does a number on peoples self esteem and then wonder why so many have self destructive behaviors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:48 PM
4

...and thats the truth. Yes men like our servitude and softness but that’s just a bonus. If they could figure out a way to activate us for sex and then put us back in the closet all day they would. That’s literally all we are to large portion of them...orifices to play with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 02:37 PM
30

Oh shit, I haven’t thought of how savage their going to be once they are able to go out again. I was going to date when social distancing lessens but now not so sure. All these men cooped up that haven’t been able to go out and cheat or have one night stands are going to ramp up their degeneracy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 01:23 PM
9

Yep I made a similar comment in another thread. They don’t want to contribute in any other way to woman’s life so there no benefit to being with a cheap or poor guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 01:15 PM
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Ummm.....noooo. Look we all have our weird ticks or living rules but no sir. He sounds like he likes the security of sleeping in plush surrounding so buy fucking weighted blankets, not sleep like a 6 year old pretending to be a bird 🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 01:08 PM
24

Right? You don’t know how to approach or have conversations with women because you’re content to watch tv/ play video games. This shit really isn’t that hard. Why can’t they cultivate a personality and learn basic social skills?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 12:15 PM
55

I need for them to get the memo that the problem isn’t necessarily their income, it’s their laziness. Let’s say I have a baby and need you to step up while I recover from birth, are you going to provide? Nope, instead of working overtime, finding another job or finding a second job, they’ll just complain and demand that the woman gets back to work as soon as possible. On top of that, they still expect you to go 50/50 on bills and do most of the child rearing and housework. Explain to me how a wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 12:10 PM
7

Nah, they just careless about things that don’t concern.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 12:56 AM
29

The woman or her parents have money. Don’t want to pay child support. I literally said this the other day, 99% of them only marry if there is a tangible benefit. I mean today’s hook up culture is proof. Since men can now get sex/servitude from so many women, they don’t even want to give you a girlfriend title anymore. They only do things that benefit them or their male friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 12:18 AM
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I struggle with blocking, I don’t want them to know I blocked them. I notice true scrotes get a kick out of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 02:54 AM
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I don’t think it’s even biology, I think it’s majority socialization, including religious doctrine. They are taught from birth that by virtue of having a penis they are superior and women are to “serve”. Think about it, The human race would have gone extinct long time ago if men were this lazy and selfish in the early humanoid days of hunter/gatherers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 09:58 PM
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As someone who dates men out of her league on occasion in regards to education, I too find it hard to date blue collar men even though they tend to be less arrogant and more generous in my opinion. I just can’t stand that they’re not interested in cultural activities like the ones you mentioned. My friend suggested that I should date blue collar men and then have female friends to do those things with. Also, I’m not sure if you’re aware but they tend to make great money depending on their trade …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 06:36 PM
16

You notice how they keep coming up with ways to mean I just want a woman to make me cum. I don’t understand why it’s so hard for him to be honest and say “I’m disabled but still desire sex and I’m willing to pay”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 06:20 PM
16

This infuriates me 🤬 I will never live with a man who thinks being tired from working normal hours is an excuse for doing absolutely nothing else. My job is very stressful, I work for a large insurance company and help manage 400 policies with various rules. Most of the time I’m so damned drained after work I can barely walk and talk at the same time. Yesterday, even though I was tired, I washed/folded a load because I needed clean under garments. I cooked because I was hungry and cutting back o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 03:51 PM
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I’ve heard this too from men 25+. Translation: I’m only going to date YOU so I can waste YOUR time without any pressure to commit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 02:50 PM
21

I’m sorry to hear that. My old coworker was 55 married to a man in his 70s. She didn’t like leaving him at home too long, she had to constantly keep up with drs appt and growing medications, never took any trips out of town for fear that something might happen to him. She claims she wasn’t resentful but she was one of the most miserable people I’ve ever met.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 01:05 PM
22

I honestly don’t know how to feel about this. This is weird as hell. I can’t imagine any of my doctors adding me to their social media. The audacity.... Can someone explain to me how he got fired tho? Im ignorant about the law he violated. I’m assuming they actually spoke to each other and then he added her later. Also assuming he did not disclose personal information, how is it a violation of privacy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 12:58 PM
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I think it’s partly insecurity. As a currently fat and curvy woman I’ve experienced similar. I think they can’t admit to themselves that they find you attractive because wHAt WoULd My BrOs tHink. Men that are “vocal” about their preferences are huge red flags and I’ve never understood why they feel the need to share with everyone what they like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 12:35 PM
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I’m honestly shocked, I didn’t know women actually felt this way. We should know this is garbage. Yes, there are men who won’t pay attention to you over 25 but guess what? They are only youth obsessed and do not care about you as a person. Truth be told, a lot of visible aging comes down to how you manage stress and how you take care of your body. Notice people that still keep up their looks exercise religiously. All of that sounds easier said than done, life comes at you fast as you gain more a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 11:03 AM
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The most horrible stories I’ve heard about women staying in age gape relationships are when she ends up playing part time nurse to a man with failing health. I’d gladly grow old with a man and we help pick up the pieces from each other but wasting my 40s/50s caring for a scrote, I can’t imagine, I wouldn’t do it. I think a lot of women for whatever reason fail to think strategic and just marry for whatever benefit/feeling they have currently. Men almost never do this, if he’s marrying you its 95…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 03:30 AM
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Man, I’m going to screenshot this. The sunk cost fallacy is real and I can admit to knowing things need to end but don’t want to face the truth. Some times you just need to see it spelled out for you for it to sink in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 11:43 PM
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How in the hell are you younger ladies attracted to men 10 plus years older???? I’m not judging, I just simply don’t get it. How do you not see them as a father or older brother figure? I’m especially baffled by the 20 plus age gaps. I am 33 and the typical single 48 to 55 year old man around me reminds me of an old man. They have various health problems, receding hairlines, completely unkept appearance, etc smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 08:56 PM
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Yep. Biology my ass, it’s control and the allure of innocence. Since I’ve been 12, I’ve habitually been hit on my guys ten years older.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 08:45 PM
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I am disturbed...why are they testing toddler girls on nurturing skills 😕 I guess this is why men say we’re not fun and any woman who doesn’t partake in caretaking is looked at sideways. We’re programmed from birth to take on responsibilities. Meanwhile, males can do whatever the hell they want until they decide to settle down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 09:51 AM
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This, I’m starting to think the reason a lot of men enjoy casual sex so much or meeting new women has nothing to do with biology. It’s to stroke their own ego and hide behind their insecurity of being a garbage person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 08:07 AM
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I just dumped my scrote the other day and I’m already feeling some kind of loneliness. I finally called and told him all my grievances in a calm, rational voice. Know what he did? Laugh....just laugh. I have never felt so small or invalidated before that moment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 02:19 AM
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Men have it easier in dating because they are only looking for a decent body to have sex with and someone who will occasionally cook. If we treated men like organic dildos they’d have a breakdown tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 12:52 AM
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Preaching to choir sis! I peeped that the misogyny has never been talked about. I am a black American female and it pisses me off so bad how we are largely left out of the conversation regarding discrimination against black people. Do you recall a few years ago that it was either a white or Asian male cop that kept raping black females in his custody? They kept hollering about it being racist but no one touched on the fact that he targeted WOMEN. He targeted those that were accused or has priors…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 07:42 PM
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I was just thinking about this yesterday. They’ve been trash way longer than 5000 years. Think back to earliest humans who where hunter/gatherers out of necessity. You wanted to find AND keep a wife, you had to defend her and compete against other men. You wanted to eat you had to hunt. You get cold at night and want warm furs you had to hunt, clean, and skin the animal. You want housing you had to chop wood or make raw materials yourself. With every advancement in technology they have gotten in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:23 PM
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This is an absolute lie. Most women want a man who is taller but I’ve never heard of all these women demanding the guy be a 6 figure earning. There is middle ground between broke and 6 figure salary. Scrotes say this because they are jealous of the plethora of options men have that are in that category. They think they should have just as many options without offering anything in return.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:49 PM
22

the worst relationship stories on here tend to involve 10 year + age difference where the man is the older one. I wonder if there is a correlation 😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:13 PM
13

THIS^ If any male told me he didn’t understand why women have a mental breakdown after sexual abuse I would stop all further communication with him because it’s obvious he doesn’t see women as people. Scrotes think it’s a woman’s purpose in life to be fucked and impregnated so in their mind it really shouldn’t be that traumatic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:15 AM
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This makes sense to me now. If all you value women for is sex and compliance, then you probably don’t care if she has the maturity of a toddler compared to you. Damn....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:05 AM
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Wait... So you all actually know younger women who entertain older men? I hear scrotes talk about having sex with younger women but I don’t know a single woman who is willing to date a man so much older than she is unless he’s paying for her lifestyle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:02 AM
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Thinner???? she can’t weigh more than 125 pounds. Didn’t care one bit about how it might affect her mental or physical health. So basically he wanted her to not eat so he could have the blonde-starving-unattainable trophy wife look that he thinks other men admire 🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:30 AM
128

I know I’m going to catch heat for this but this is why I’m getting less sympathetic towards them when they get unfairly targeted by others. As a black woman who has been around black American men my entire life, I’ve had the displeasure of seeing them go out of their way to make life harder for black females. Getting black women pregnant, refusing to marry them and then GLEEFULLY watching them struggle alone. Mocking our hair styles by saying it’s not attractive but then making fun of us for we…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 10:53 PM
33

Any of you ladies know of any websites I can you use to search people beside truthfinder? You can send me a private message if you want. I kept getting this nagging feeling this guy was a creep but ignored my instinct. Before I slept with him I decided to go full stalker mode and it paid off. Turns out, I wasn’t able to find him via google because he gave me a false last name and he had a charge for lewd acts with a minor. Free game: If you can’t find basic info via google, it might be because h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 06:18 PM
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I give zero fucks for men who talk about how hard it is being a single dad...welcome to being woman. Oh, you no longer have time to fuck off or hobbies? Oh, it’s not fun doing most of the household duties and emotional labor?.....NO SHIT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 02:56 AM
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Nah, they need to be talked about, I might make my own thread on this if nobody else does. Men are the primary enforcers of patriarchy but LVW are the gatekeepers and enablers...why do you think LV men depend on their mothers so much? She’s the first person who coddled him, told him he deserves the best despite being a piece of shit, and continues to clean up his messes well into adulthood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 11:44 PM
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I was just about to say, a lot of men REFUSE to provide or hoard money from their family. I don’t agree with this but I do know lots of women that stay in “okay” relationships because his income does add value to their life. The problem is a lot of them only take value on top of being unhygienic, unkept, stingy, lazy, and broke. It’s only for so long a woman will tolerate that before leaving or “acting crazy” as scrotes say. You cannot be an incompetent grown ass man and expect unconditional lov…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 02:29 PM
3

I dont know about blaming OLD. The same lying/cheating/bummy men I’ve met on apps are the same men I’ve met offline. The only thing OLD does it make it easier for you to weed them out by their profile biographies. Sadly, I think it’s a reflection of our current degenerate society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 12:35 PM
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the one house husband i knew off did the cleaning/cooking but nothing else and just slept all day. She still had to do the shopping and half chauffeuring to after school activities so he could “finish dinner”....I looked at her like she grew another head when she told me the arrangement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 01:18 AM
29

I am guilty of this in reverse, I tend to think I will get better treatment from women business owners and mechanics so I’m nicer to them even though I’ve met so many low value women (this deserves its on thread) that I shouldn’t think this way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 08:52 PM
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Someone in another thread said this is why you don’t date men at the slightest hint of cheap/stingy behavior. They will nickel and dime you throughout your entire relationship and then leave you with nothing but wasted time. Question is why do these guys actually get married or live with women they don’t like or care about?????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 06:34 PM
13

I literally just posted about the same thing on another thread, they see us as dogs that speak like humans. It’s really depressing me right now but it finally makes since. I used to wonder why so many men refuse to be just friends with a woman that’s attractive to them. That’s the only value we have to them is if we’re feeding their ego and give them what they want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 01:54 PM
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Lately I’ve come to the conclusion that a large portion of men only recognize men as people worthy of respect. The level of selfishness displayed towards their own children, mothers, and women is unbelievable but I rarely see this same disregard directed at other men. It’s making me really sad, they see the rest of us as no different than their dogs....human like beings that exist to feed their ego. The moment we want something or become inconvenient we’re killed, neglected, tossed aside or made…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 12:59 PM
69

Yes! I was about to say wow, how selfish of her but I legitimately felt anxious with his reaction. I just knew he was going to lay her ass out in front of everyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 01:18 AM
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Once again, I want them to be honest. What they really mean is “I hate that so many young women prioritize making money over having sex and catering to me. “ I really want them to start being honest
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 06:06 PM
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Honest question, So this a thing? Grown ass men sharing/downloading photos of random naked women they want to have sex with? I’ve never heard of this. I remember teenage guys doing this but I thought it was something folks grow out of, seems very immature and gross. EDIT: omg 😳 looking at all these replies confirming that this is a thing makes feel sick. Maybe I need a break from this site. I’m 33 and thought I’ve seen/heard it all til I look on here and there’s a new depravity that I’m educated…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 05:36 PM
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I’m going to disagree with the he’s calling it quits because he has power. The person above called it, he NEVER planned on marrying her. She was convenient for him until he saved up the money he wanted and now wants to level up. I fault him for leading her on, I find major fault with her for being lazy and not working/ securing resources for her son.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 05:29 PM
1

I’m not sure it’s that simple tho, lots of men that have nurturing jobs go home to their wife and kids with no issues. My understanding oxytocin only increases around loved ones for men. Kinda makes sense, they compartmentalize everything else, they probably do the same to their own damn hormones 🤦🏽‍♀️ Scrotes just feel entitled to women’s servitude because “reasons” and “The Bible says women are helpmates ....blah blah blah....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 11:39 AM
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Interesting, I was told my grandfather was the gatekeeper in the home. He did the exact same thing only worse because he was military. I was told he would constantly criticize my uncles/aunts to the point of tears if everything wasn’t ironed to perfection, bed weren’t made immaculate, any dirty dish was left in the sink. He’s still very organized but he’s older so I’ve never seen him freak out, he just gets up fixes what ever you didn’t do right. I wonder if it’s a mixture of controlling and ego…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 03:15 AM
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You know I’m getting real sick of this type shit. I really just want men who think and make comments like this to be honest and say “ I ONLY WANT WOMEN AROUND FOR SEX AND SERVITUDE. PLEASE DONT ASK ME TO DO ANYTHING FOR YOU. That’s really all it comes down to, I just want them to admit it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 06:02 PM
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But what is reasonable to you may not be to someone else. There are quite a few men that just hate doing anything that requires them to sacrifice or put in effort for a woman. I’m not talking about that. I have witnessed women nitpick men/children to hell over not washing the dishes within a few minutes of them asking or getting mad if everything is not clean to their exact standards, or if it’s not done exactly the way they want it done. That’s honestly controlling as shit but she thinks it’s r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 04:41 PM
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I’ve been thinking about things like this for the last few days and I’m trying to figure out when to let things go and when to assert myself. I think it’s because most women are comfort/ security seeking that we tend to get irritated quickly when things are messy or in an uncomfortable environment. You do have some men that are rude and nasty and other men that simply don’t get it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 02:23 PM
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I’m trying to figure out why people seem to think online is mostly full of creeps. I’ve met more horrible men in person but that’s just my experience. For dating apps, I usually ask why they use tinder. Most of them will tell you upfront, I’m trying to hook up or I work a lot and this is the only way I can find dates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 05:54 PM
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As a woman who just began seriously dating over 28 divorced men with or without children I’m noticing that they don’t have anything else to give so don’t take it personal. They’re still not over their ex and likely paying child support to woman they despise and children they don’t really care about. They just don’t care anymore and hope they can find some woman who will enjoy their company without having to do anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 01:08 AM
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In theory, I have no issue with people buying sex from a willing person. In reality, Ive just started reading article upon article of people being trafficked and coerced. Even more disturbing is people selling their underage children to perverted adults. I read an article a few months back about European women traveling to Jamaica for “sex tourism” and some of the male prostitutes were interviewed. They admitted they hated having sex with women 3 or 4 times their age and performing degrading act…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 11:19 PM
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Okay, let’s say that is is biology...how is this any less hurtful? But wait, there are men that don’t cheat...so does that mean that those men are not biological men 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 05:00 PM
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Yep, this just dawned on me how they operate while listening to this scrote I’m dealing with. He bends over backwards to listen/support his friends but when I need emotional labor from him...crickets But you know, it’s because men are strictly logical, they can’t process empathy like women..what a load of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 03:04 AM
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I believe this is the majority of men based off my experience and they are completely shocked when the woman breaks up with them or cheat. I’m starting to think the low emotional IQ of men is a lie, I notice they seem to have plenty of sympathy/empathy for other men they deem respectable and I have personally seen how they will go out of their way to help their male friends. They don’t care about women, children, meek men.... Why? Because it’s BENEATH them to care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 07:47 PM
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I feel personally attacked...situationship right now 🤦🏽‍♀️ Edit: I know I need to leave him be but I’m honestly lonely because of covid and I’m afraid I’ll feel even worse without the little attention I’m getting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 04:47 PM
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Yeah I find this hilarious. Literally no one here has complained about not getting sex and/or relationships. We’re just tired of being taken advantage of and mistreated. This is literally the easiest time in history for men to get premarital sex and they still mess that up. Any male lurkers that can’t get laid or having trouble keeping women around then you need to : 1. Be pleasant to be around aka develop a personality and hobbies 2. have good hygiene and stay in decent shape 3. Cook/clean up a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 12:49 AM
3

Can someone please explain to me why so many men think they shouldn’t have to take care of kids that THEY helped bring into this world and clean the home/clothes THEY own???? It just doesn’t make any sense to me 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 09:59 PM
14

I hope whoever this woman is he’s talking about heard this and acts accordingly. I mean he pretty much said you’re just a hole to me. I had that sobering realization I’ve been strung along when all I got was a hey happy Valentine’s Day text....@ midnight. I started thinking back on everything he’s said to me for the last 6 months and had to face reality that he has been feeding me lies to keep me around for sex during social distancing but never intended on making a commitment. Actions> Words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 04:21 AM
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I’ve been lurking for awhile but I just had to comment on this one. It seems to me people are excusing this by saying they have a personality disorder. Here’s the truth.... the overwhelming majority of men don’t care to do anything for anyone that doesn’t benefit them. This goes double if you’re a woman that’s not related to them. I’ve never had a man say this to me but judging from their actions, it seems we only exist to make their lives more enjoyable. If we’re not doing that, we’re useless t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 05:12 PM
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