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ConversationWorried-One2399/r/seduction24/04/24 10:49 PM
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/r/seduction10/11/24 08:51 PM
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My guy… used it last night, got laid… u don’t kno me nor can u give Adivce on situations u kno nothing about Stay in ur lane 👍🏼 not 2 b harsh but I appreciate ur 2 cents. I live my life very differently than most
/r/seduction10/11/24 08:14 PM
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Live for the moment, no expectations, no regrets, no worries… no problems… woman ARE very intellectually competent and if they sense ur on the date for alternative reasons. They’ll pick up on it, so best thing u can do is pay attention to her. Listen to her, and make her feel special. She should be your #1 focus. This isn’t about playing games with her either. This is legitimate dating advice my guy. You will get yourself MUCH further than if ur ‘nervous’ on ur phone etc etc… look her in the eye…
/r/seduction04/11/24 01:29 AM
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Lmao my guy, u can open that part of ur attraction to the ‘right women’. Problem is ur not letting it happen & naturally ur being to much. Hence u can if u ‘WANT TO’. U manifest ur destiny… no 1 else can or will. Pull back, reset yourself. Cease all interactions w/ woman. Focus on yourself. Go back to square 1.
/r/seduction04/11/24 01:25 AM
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Hey bud, I’m glad u left ur comment. Reminded me to update this 🫡
/r/seduction04/11/24 01:18 AM
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Yeah I agree w/ some of ur points, & when people tell me, wat u started out w/ in ur post. Calling me a girl. I say (I kno it’s a joke but for safe keeping) “Yup I am a girl, just identify as a man tho” 🤷🏼‍♂️🤣 I hear u about the warm up, I think if u were in my shoes u might understand things are hard to convey over writing them out
/r/seduction28/10/24 10:40 PM
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I follow a lot. But his name is @zanderspeaks
/r/seduction28/10/24 10:26 PM
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Dude we were making out like MAD dogs in the restaurant. I was like we needs to leave 🤣. Then I walked her to her car after I had asked her @ the table. & we were all over each other before she left. I don’t get it… I think she was afraid she’d end up catching feelings? Idk only thing I can come up w/
/r/seduction28/10/24 10:25 PM
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Eh I follow a bunch of IG dating coaches, one of them said “lets say I had 3 dates set up for my weekend” I’ll tell the first woman, “hey just so u known I don’t want to do anything in sexual I have to save my libido for later in the weekend” & bam he’d be in the bedroom lmao All weekend… I think it depends. This girl came off as a freak & I was feeling like she had pent up sexual energy & tension. So I shot my shot 2x… hopefully the 3rd she’ll break my bat & I’ll get a home run
/r/seduction28/10/24 10:20 PM
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Yeah that’s solid, I realized that… but I felt like that’s why when she asked me to “come out w/ her & I said no” then we met up later that night. It added a little mystery too it. But maybe I should’ve just gone out w/ her. 😭
/r/seduction28/10/24 10:13 PM
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Nooo dude, we were doing & talking like shit would’ve definitely gone down. But that’s a good point. I could’ve pulled back & put a boundary and basically just told her “i just want to show u how sick the view is from my spot & ur turning that down, COME ONNN… I mean u do u, but the girl tomorrow night definitely won’t be” 🤣
/r/seduction28/10/24 10:12 PM
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Ah I don’t drink, & she wasn’t drinking either. Which is fine, but I wish I had some sort of ‘attraction’ @ my apt. Like a dog or some sort of thing to tell them about & make them curious
/r/seduction28/10/24 10:10 PM
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Yeah I agree, @ the early dinner we had she said that she was talking to her boss & she was like “I just want to get laid & have a social life” She was super down, we even discussed wat we were both looking for. And I said I don’t want to put a label on it & she agreed to that. 🤷🏼‍♂️😭 Why wouldn’t she be down, u kno? First date, a little Netflix and hawk tuwah 🤣
/r/seduction28/10/24 10:08 PM
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Yeah I’m trying to, & I am actively doing that. Just thought I had it in the bag. Fumbling is never fun rofl
/r/seduction28/10/24 10:06 PM
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Tell it more precisely EXACTLY wat u want. It’s a Robbot!! EXAMPLE: “Give me a pick up line that is “1-2 LINES long” (make it emotionally charged) and conveys to her that I am interested in getting to know to her because I am myself am a big fan of volleyball” Be creative…
/r/seduction28/10/24 08:44 AM
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Be honest but tell them that it hasn’t been your priority, up until recently & when u make things a priority for some reason the puzzle just comes together
/r/seduction25/10/24 09:57 AM
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High fives, shoulder flirtingly (playfully obviously), let her get comfortable. W/ that, then inner thigh, center of lower back guiding her.. THEN, behind her.. arms around shoulders blah blah blah
/r/seduction24/10/24 05:05 PM
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Hit the gym, ur testosterone is PEAKING… and will stay like that until ur 30’s. So take advantage!! Also, face your fears. This used to be my BIGGEST downfall! I never faced my own fears. I always was “SIMPING”, now I’m in my early 30’s. My last relationship was terrible & I’ve managed to stay single for damn near 11 years. Lmfao… crazy when u think about it like that. But that’s the truth, I used to be SUPER insecure, had body dysmorphia, my self-esteem was absolutely TRASH. But the fact that u…
/r/seduction23/10/24 06:50 PM
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Hit the gym, ur testosterone is PEAKING… and will stay like that until ur 30’s. So take advantage!! Also, face your fears. This used to be my BIGGEST downfall! I never faced my own fears. I always was “SIMPING”, now I’m in my early 30’s. My last relationship was terrible & I’ve managed to stay single for damn near 11 years. Lmfao… crazy when u think about it like that. But that’s the truth, I used to be SUPER insecure, had body dysmorphia, my self-esteem was absolutely TRASH. But the fact that u…
/r/seduction23/10/24 06:50 PM
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Hit the gym, ur testosterone is PEAKING… and will stay like that until ur 30’s. So take advantage!! Also, face your fears. This used to be my BIGGEST downfall! I never faced my own fears. I always was “SIMPING”, now I’m in my early 30’s. My last relationship was terrible & I’ve managed to stay single for damn near 11 years. Lmfao… crazy when u think about it like that. But that’s the truth, I used to be SUPER insecure, had body dysmorphia, my self-esteem was absolutely TRASH. But the fact that u…
/r/seduction23/10/24 06:50 PM
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Practice my guy practice!!!… I used to be SOOOO insecure. Once I turned 30, I realized we only live ONE TIME & I had time on my side (or so I thought). I surrounded myself w/ like minded people And grew from there. It’s all perception & wat u ultimately decide to focus on. I FILLED my Instagram w/ dating advice/coaches, followed subs like this on Reddit, read a book called ‘The Game by Neil Strauss’, moved to a completely new city which millennials r moving to in DROVES. I CREATED my reality, an…
/r/seduction22/10/24 03:50 PM
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I’ve gone through the fire… I’m currently GOING thro, MY FIRE. I kno it will end bcz I have a few prospects. She not even the best looking, but I mesh REALLY well w/ her. Problem is that this isn’t something u can just “go out & get a girlfriend”. It’s a slow process, fast @ times… but the faster that time is, the quicker it will burn. So take ur time, DO NOT RUSH. No one is going anywhere (so u hope @ least) n if they do, they Str8 up did u the BIGGEST favor u can imagine.
/r/seduction22/10/24 01:30 PM
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Check ur PM’s
/r/seduction22/10/24 10:08 AM
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ChatGPT my guy
/r/seduction22/10/24 12:43 AM
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U need to be ON POINT. For example the ‘right’ woman is going to expect YOU (as in the man) to be more acquainted w/ talking to woman. Ur increasing your value externally but are u increasing it internally? That’s what he’s getting @. Keeping your normal height, woman will lower the “bar” (for lack of a better term). But honestly, height is an ego thing. And I’m not kidding when I say that. It to justify yourself for a woman. My cousin is 5’5 just about, married to a 6’2 woman lmao. It’s all in …
/r/seduction21/10/24 03:26 AM
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Yeah… but u know wat, u tried & that’s wat matters. I went out Friday evening. I’m here in Austin, Texas. I don’t really drink I was w/ 2 other guys. 1 of them left & went home didn’t sleep well. The other one wanted to go to a bar DT. I said cool let’s go. Almost a similar situation, he was giving me excuses @ first. I said dude, u can’t think. U just have to GO and talk to them. That’s wat I did, he did get his grove tho & ended up opening to a few woman. But idk how old u guys r, but u showed…
/r/seduction20/10/24 11:45 PM
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Here WE GOOOOOO… Alright bud, Step 1: GTFO (I’m sure ur already out & about depending on where u r) 6hrs late BUT get the F out & dress well (not too well tho) but u do u Step 2. Approach a woman that u fancy. And stoke up conversation regarding something she’s doing, ask her name wat ever The kicker? DO NOT THINK BEFORE U APPROACH Thinking before u approach gives u anxiety!!! It stems ur self esteem & u fantasize about ur outcomes etc. Step 3: Get denied or get a phone number, or even better ge…
/r/seduction20/10/24 02:30 AM
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“NO I WANT u to actually TRY IT”
/r/seduction18/10/24 01:55 AM
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Ask her out, period. Make your intentions CLEAR as day. If she says no, respect her decision and boundaries. U have ur answer. Move on, don’t ghost her tho. If she wants to or considers u a good friend, keep that. That’s a great way to find other woman that u could potentially be interested in. And who knows if she sees u w/ other woman. Maybe she’ll have 2nd thoughts. U never kno dude But then if she tells u. Now ur the 1 in control. Just don’t mess around, that’s all. Tell her if ur interested…
/r/seduction17/10/24 04:57 AM
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Then only thing thats stopping u is the mind that keeps telling yourself an excuse. GTFO there and DOO ITTT. Get rejected, that is TRULY the only way you will get better @ doing watever it is u want to do. “JUST DO IT” - Nike 🫡🤷🏼‍♂️ I believe in u my guy… u CAN do it, I used 2 be in your shoes. Ask yourself this “if she rejects me, wat is the probability I will see her again” If u answer less than 65% u will not…(or 45% you’ll see her again) approach, if the answer is above that #. Move on & fin…
/r/seduction16/10/24 07:32 PM
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Eye contact FTW… once I get multiple glances I’ll go over to her when she’s on a break and ask her a random question that comes to mind. Like how long has she been coming to the gym, then introduce myself once light conversation has been established.
/r/seduction16/10/24 05:16 PM
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U can approach wherever u want… is there a law stopping u? If ur not living in an Islamic ran country. Chances r there are no laws regarding who u can approach & who u cannot. So u do u my guy….
/r/seduction16/10/24 05:03 PM
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My old friend was a photographer. He was getting approached by everyone. He was a photographer for just general purposes. Weddings, engagements, sporting events etc etc… Dude made friends w/ anyone & everyone. Definitely wouldn’t mind picking up a hobby like that 🤷🏼‍♂️🤣
/r/seduction15/10/24 07:15 PM
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She was seeking validation. She already knew if u ended up talking w/ her she was going to say “sorry but no”. I would keep pressing. If she’s not in a “relationship” that means she’s open. Unless she’s in a closed off courted relationship it’s a diff story. But there’s a fine line between being considered “stalker” and friends… I would’ve gotten her IG @ least. Next time u see her, tell her “I missed the conversation we had last time and this time I want to get ur phone # AND instagram, bcz it …
/r/seduction15/10/24 07:10 PM
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Everyone says it, but I’m going to repeat it. Go in, comfortable, confident, no expectations, just have FUN. Flirt, banter, be her “rock”… let her be scissors if that’s wat she wants. The spotlight should be on HER the whole date. Good luck bud, u got this!
/r/seduction15/10/24 03:28 AM
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Be more confident, speaker louder… shoulders back. Stand tall… talk w/ confidence and hold eye contact
/r/seduction15/10/24 03:18 AM
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Thisss
/r/seduction14/10/24 05:41 PM
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A man’s goal should never be a woman… a man’s goal should always be striving to improve their lives. Does that include a woman? Possibly, but that depends on wat his goals are, right? U said ur friends are shooting to make as much money as possible. Those are goals, they understand that if they make as much money as possible woman will naturally enter the picture @ some point. I mean life is balance, also remember that. If u r lucky enough to find the ONE woman. Focus on her, she will be your be…
/r/seduction14/10/24 01:53 PM
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Pick & choose my friend, a hangout is a “hangout”. Play ur cards right. She’ll be riding u like a sea saw by the end of the night 🤣 (JK, kind of) But u get the gist, self confidence goes a LONG WAY when ur on a date like that. Self talk is SUPER important. Breaking the touch barrier is also KEY. But just b careful not to escalate TOOO fast.
/r/seduction13/10/24 11:33 PM
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🤣🤣🤣
/r/seduction12/10/24 07:14 PM
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No I wouldn’t, ur still single right? UNLESS, 1 of them says that “she wants to step things up & put a label on it” Ur alllll good. Until then, ur the stallion running around the barn w/ the King Kong dong 🤣 No but really, don’t feel guilty. Do u think woman feel guilty after they’ve made out w/ 3 guys in 1 night before? The things some woman do dude. Is atrocious, and I understand u might say “why add to the list” (or whatever) bcz here’s the reason. WE ONLY LIVE ONCE!! live EVERYDAY like it co…
/r/seduction11/10/24 10:59 PM
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Yup… u did, and now they’re off the another state. COME ON. Close w/ 1 and make her/them understand wat ur there for.
/r/seduction11/10/24 10:52 PM
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She probably blushed after u said that? That’s when u say “don’t worry I love looking @ ur ____ to, now come here” & let her fall into your arms embracing for a hug & a possible kiss? Confidence my ninja… u got to have it & believe in yourself
/r/seduction11/10/24 10:50 PM
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🎯…. Young, foreign woman in the U.S… they’re not here to not @ least SLEEP w/ multiple people.
/r/seduction11/10/24 10:48 PM
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DUDE… 🤣🤣 pick 1. AND Compliment HER, tell her this after: “If I wasn’t gay, would there be a possibility of u sleeping with me?” Now she knows u “fancy her” initiate touch somehow someway. By this throw on some tunes, ask if they want to dance ANY of them. OR ask to see tattoos if she has any, touch them. Ask to see her hands, tell her “I’m afraid they look like ur going to break them, bcz they look so cute & fragile” WHILE u have her hands in your hands* There’s so many things u could do with t…
/r/seduction11/10/24 10:45 PM
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U do u my brother. Love wins, everytime. No matter who, wat, when, where, why. Everyone’s human & everyone deserves to ask a question on a platform. Wat if his name was “Jewhater” would u have said something then? & he made anti-Semitic comments in his post history. Doubtful… Being Jewish myself I WOULD NOT have called him out for anything. BCZ that’s his LIFE, not yours, my guy. Everyone is entitled to their own opinions and those opinions should be kept to themselves!! Not implemented in other…
/r/seduction10/10/24 04:19 AM
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🎯🫡
/r/seduction10/10/24 04:18 AM
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Yeah it’s a shit hole, don’t come here lol 😝
/r/seduction10/10/24 04:15 AM
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U have a point, but the question had nothing to do w/ politics. That’s my point. So for someone to state such a statement on a post that had absolutely NOTHING to do with answering the OP’s questions. That’s childish, IMO.
/r/seduction10/10/24 02:50 AM
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I mean… let’s BEGIN w/ facts: and the fact here is that the question that the OP asked had NOTHING to do with politics. Let’s begin with sticking to the question being asked. I think that would have some merit to it to say the least 🫡 Sorry u prob have quite a bit of time on ur hands & if ur comment wasn’t directed to OP. I apologize. HOWEVER: here’s how it works, u fancy a woman. You may or may not have hooked up w/ her in the passed. It’s easier if you’ve hooked up w/ the individual who u r re…
/r/seduction09/10/24 10:52 PM
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Yeah bcz ur not adding value to yourself. Stop chasing & start understanding that YOUR the prize they aren’t. They’re LUCKY to be w/ a man like u AND “they can be tossed in a ditch” when YOU realize they can 2 right? Go ahead, toss a few in the ditch! Raise your standards my guy. Woman LOVE a guy who has standards. Create ur frame, talk to woman. Ask them questions for example, “hey wat month were u born in?” HER: “June, why?!” YOU: “oh NVM, I could never date a Gemini” Move on. Watch her latch …
/r/seduction09/10/24 01:07 PM
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Bang bang… 🎯‼️
/r/seduction08/10/24 02:06 AM
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Yeah that’s why when 1 gives u the “hey YOU, yeah I want u 2 ask me how my day went” U do it, no questions asked besides the “hey I’m x, wats ur name?” and then getting to the point of her telling u how her day went Then u tell her u can make it better and take her to xyz and make her laugh her ass off EDIT: reading some of the comments, alright alright alright guys. We get it, u guys just don’t “grab your pretty boy nuts” and continually be little ball sack hairs and let em pass ya.
/r/seduction08/10/24 02:02 AM
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Confidence hands down. But u can’t think therapy & therapy alone will help ur confidence. It’s a PIECE of wat made me confident. I exercise (gym) I cold plunge, I force myself to do things I DO NOT WANT TO DO… I go on multiple mile runs when I’m not in the gym or @ a minimum make sure I hit 10k steps per/day… I’ve gone on 100’s of dates in my 33 years of existence & therapy helped me own up to my passed and helped me grow intellectually in a # of ways. I think if u haven’t done therapy, DO IT. I…
/r/seduction07/10/24 02:37 AM
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I get it, how bout Eventbrite ? Or Joining Facebook groups in your local city. 🤷🏼‍♂️
/r/seduction07/10/24 01:15 AM
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My input… it might sound like I’m “hijacking this sub, but hear me out) I moved to a new city myself. I’ll list my old state/city & my new state/city as I’ve found this post a little bit intriguing. I was born & raised in Northern California (Bay area). I went to college there, I had friends there, my life was going good. Only issues were I was “known” my family particularly my fathers side was HUGE. So most of the people heard of my last name per-say. Dating apps were my way of connecting w/ wo…
/r/seduction06/10/24 06:23 PM
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Like in Europe, when u first meet someone of the opposite sex. They kiss u on both side of your face while embracing in a hug. Predominantly Italians (I believe, could be wrong) & South Americans do this.
/r/seduction04/10/24 01:07 AM
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Yeah baby!! DO WORK, DO WORK, DO WORK!! Lmfao. I myself can relate. I used to be crippled w/ anxiety, fear, everything under the sun. I was SOOO insecure, but I found my inner self, I did the inner work in my 20’s to get myself to where I am today. It seems like you did as well! What state (if in the U.S.) do u live in?
/r/seduction04/10/24 12:58 AM
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100% I wasn’t saying to do that… remember ur just talking to woman. If u pay attention to how the r, they are wired to keep conversations going. Men r the ones who typically make an ‘absolute’ to end the conversation. If u understand woman on that lvl. U will win in there minds 9/10 times. As far as conversations go @ least. Read that book, it’ll help u
/r/seduction03/10/24 06:32 PM
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Listen the more attractive people u surrounded by the more attractive people will want 2 b surrounded by YOU. I had this issue myself. U have to learn to separate attraction (emotions) & logic. Once u can do that u can have a logically inclined brain towards “friends” who are probably attractive. But u taught yourself not to view them in that way. Once u have this down things become easier Also build a pipeline so u don’t get ‘needy’
/r/seduction03/10/24 06:26 PM
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Lesson here, if I saw a 10 amongst 6,7’s etc.. never directly go for HER. U approached tried & got denied. Spark conversation w/ one of the other women in the group. Get social validation, woman are SUPER intelligent when it comes to their communication skills. I would approached one of the other women said something that was interesting to her, about her or a random statement about the situation or vibe where ever u were. Slowly the more u get 2 kno the other woman make your presence known. The…
/r/seduction03/10/24 06:20 PM
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Flirt w/ them, banter, sarcasm. Smile, try to be nonchalant. Like regular day-2-day stuff 🤣 u kno lmfao
/r/seduction03/10/24 03:44 PM
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Bingo was his namoooo 🫡
/r/seduction03/10/24 11:43 AM
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I think a healthy mixture of both would be ok. But I agree.. Putting all the eggs in 1 basket isn’t the best of ideas
/r/seduction03/10/24 11:39 AM
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🤣🤣🤣
/r/seduction03/10/24 10:37 AM
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Woman turn friends into romantic relationships. Stay friends, if ur looking for an LTR. Put her on a back burner tho. Just don’t make it known. Also don’t jump thro hoops for her, some woman can be manipulative. You won’t see it either, so if u feel like she begins being like that. Keep her @ arms length
/r/seduction02/10/24 06:17 PM
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Yeah every culture is different, I can’t say in western countries people do that (or the ones that r successful @ least). If u just happen to be walking down the street and see a 8-10. Yeah, just to get her attention. But if ur @ a bar or park or something. Ask a question is definitely the route. I think ur way of going about it is probably better. Do u currently live in Romania?
/r/seduction02/10/24 12:31 PM
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If English isn’t ur first language, wat language is, my guy? I’m currently trying to learn a 2nd language, myself lol. But I agree, however.. it’s tough to learn from an online platform TBH. The best way to learn is to go out & take action. I support people who come on this sub to ask questions. I responded, with the best advice that I know. The ultimate goal, SHOULD be to end up being comfortable. If I answered straight to the point I apologize. But he did ask a question and I answered it. In t…
/r/seduction02/10/24 01:34 AM
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100% in general u should never fake something your not. Short term OR long term. Doesn’t matter IMO. But like I said, diff strokes 4 diff folks
/r/seduction02/10/24 01:30 AM
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🎯… u/epimpstyle if a woman doesn’t find u funny for being relaxed and doing wat they (hopefully) will perceive as nothing else but comedic. She’s not the 1.. move on, but if u r uptight, stressing yourself out. Trying to be funny but ur clearly not presenting as such or coming off as that. Ur in trouble. Move on (like I said), but reflect. Reflection is key bcz u will never be funny if u repeat your mistake over & over again. Being comfortable and relaxed IS important bcz Woman are HYPER aware a…
/r/seduction01/10/24 08:34 PM
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BE YOURSELF, act like she’s not the special one. Be her friend, be interested SERIOUSLY in the words she speaks. Ask questions about wat she says, go deep. Make jokes about things she says. Don’t overthink, overthinking will convey to her that ur 2 SERIOUS. There’s times 2 be serious and there r times u don’t need to be. Sounds like u may be going on a date of some sort. Don’t think (I don’t @ least) diff strokes for diff folks. Thinking gives me anxiety and makes me anxious. So i can only relat…
/r/seduction01/10/24 06:08 PM
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When I was younger, but that was a long long time ago. Humans are emotional beings. So stay on top of ur self specifically w/ how u conduct yourself day-2-day. U shouldn’t have issues w/ keeping them around. But I am a little bit on the older side. (Lmao funny bcz it’s prob not THAT old @ 33) But, I do want to find a LTR like (I’m sure the majority do) basically. I’m a picky mofo, my “friends” kind of make fun of me for it. But I’ll help them if they want to just spark conversations and they’re …
/r/seduction30/09/24 03:18 PM
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Yeah, don’t think about it… U see a woman or girl sitting @ tables. Or at the bar w/ friends. Be spontaneous, the more u think about “how an interaction’s going to go” the less likely you will have a good outcome. (For me @ least) It doesn’t matter wat u say to them, they’re going to judge you by how u come off. Confident? Cocky? Well groomed? Look good? Work out? Smell good? Shoulders? Arms? Shoes? Are they on point? Wat u say contextually is just filler, just be easy don’t force anything. I ge…
/r/seduction30/09/24 01:16 PM
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Next time: there isn’t anything to worry about when another woman sees u getting another woman’s number. This actually works opposite to how men think. Men think (wow she already gave her # to someone etc etc..) Woman are NOT like that, that is SOCIAL VALIDATION to them. YOU are now a HOT commodity and they do NOT like passing up on the newest hottest thing in the bar. So next time don’t even care about wat other woman think. Yes last time as u said in your post “one of them got mad”. And u righ…
/r/seduction30/09/24 02:47 AM
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🤣🤣🫡
/r/seduction30/09/24 02:38 AM
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Another tip (amongst the many) It’s key as well 2 becoming successful in your own way. Do it SOBER, yup u read that right and I wrote it. Doing anything under ANY influence is like a guy walking into a strip club. ALL the woman want is your $. To be true to yourself and to get better @ doing wat ur goal is (which is getting better @ talking to woman). Only way, is to psych yourself out and just APPROACH. Don’t get me wrong it’s SCARY AF. But it’s also the THRILL you’ll be in for and the more you…
/r/seduction30/09/24 01:28 AM
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Congrats my guy… we all need to read success stories like this in this sub!! Happy for ur ass
/r/seduction28/09/24 03:35 PM
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100% no need to elaborate. I see u my guy 🫡
/r/seduction28/09/24 03:23 PM
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🎯 right in the 👁️
/r/seduction25/09/24 03:38 PM
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🛎️ 🛎️ 🛎️ TKO by 1st round w/ in the first TWELVEEEEE secondssss. New HEAVY WEIGHT CHAMPION lol. Solid write up!
/r/seduction25/09/24 11:28 AM
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My game is on lock… and sealed. However, THIS is the last stepping stone for me @ least. I WANT TO LEARN TO DANCE all the dances 🫣 Bachata, salsa, ball room, country dancing… etc etc.. I NEED to learn how ASAP 🙉🤦🏼‍♂️ lol
/r/seduction25/09/24 11:23 AM
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No can do Mrs. Piper, tell her this: “I heard there’s a new plumber in town, have him foot the bill maybe? I do appreciate u thinking of me tho🫡”
/r/seduction25/09/24 11:17 AM
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Maybe u should take action, get denied and reflect. Taken action get denied & reflect. ASKING REDDIT WILL NOT REPLACE your ACTIONS…
/r/seduction25/09/24 03:51 AM
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Says the guy ASKING REDDITORS FOR ADVICE ON HOW TO RESPOND TO A WOMAN 🤣🤣🤣 get real my dude Don’t ask if u can’t come up w/ something yourself clown Ur better off asking ChatGPT 😱😴
/r/seduction25/09/24 03:49 AM
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Cringe? Judge me… it’s an online platform. Cringe 🙈😱 Hide behind ur key boards… I love it 🫡
/r/seduction25/09/24 03:36 AM
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Shit test’s don’t deserve responses @ 40 IMO (but I’m not 40) so disregard my answer lmao
/r/seduction24/09/24 07:51 PM
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Yeah I 2nd the mood mirroring… Positive energy ALWAYS. Negativity ruins everything!
/r/seduction24/09/24 07:35 PM
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TELL HER THIS: “My dream was us, going on a walk in a forest and we had this amazing connection. Like there were rabbits & animal life was rampant all around us. Almost like we were in a fairy tail. It was beautiful, kind of like u as a matter of fact” AND then continue to speak. Like it was NBD. But YEAH… I have dreams myself actually. But when I dream something, it accidentally turns out to be a Deja vu scenario. So tell me, wat else to do dream about? 🫣
/r/seduction24/09/24 07:16 PM
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Well let me tell u… Not one person fits the perfect definition of “depressed” so I’m glad u have ur opinion. I’m not here to argue, but that was my personal experience. Coming from someone who came w/ in a 25% chance of dying (or given a 25% chance of living) bcz of a VERY near death experience (Traumatic brain injury) I was involved in (which this is the first time I have EVER spoken about it on this website/platform) I think is quite telling, now from ur comment it seems as if you’re able to u…
/r/seduction24/09/24 03:23 AM
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I listened to other people’s opinions. They validated me. Then I validated myself, hang around secure people! That was my biggest change. Even if they weren’t “secure” they FAKED it. That in turn made me secure, self confident & my self esteem grew from there. I’m a 33M, and I didn’t get to this point in my life by chance. A massive number of failures that I had to endure in my early life got my to where I am currently. I don’t take life for granted. Gratitude is the ultimate door to happiness a…
/r/seduction23/09/24 01:06 AM
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I think ur missing out on approaching, TBH. I, like you thought the exact same thing. I moved to a new state/city. O.L.D doesn’t work in this city as much as it did where it used to work for me like a charm (Bay area, CA). Now I living in ATX and well. It definitely doesn’t do anything for me. People specifically millennials are to busy with day-2-day agenda and social circle to make time for O.L.Dating. So I started cold approaching woman & it’s not bad TBH. I think everyone has a stigma built …
/r/seduction22/09/24 10:51 PM
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Here’s a tip… GET THEM TO LAUGH!! Woman LOVE to laugh… u ever read the quote “guys who are funny have you laughing & next thing u know ur naked” U ever hear that before? Get good push-pull, be BOLD don’t be afraid to say how u feel and be prepared to defend how u feel or ur perspective if questioned. Make them laugh tho, it’s the best. Bcz u laugh, they laugh.. u initiate touch, they’re receptive but not to much touch. It’s a game. Dont directly ask woman for there numbers. Banter them, they LOV…
/r/seduction20/09/24 11:54 PM
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He stated “I know this is going to take while but I want to learn how to be more dominant” I was responding to that portion of the post. I was giving personal advice, coming from my personal experience(s) as I used to be in the OP’s position. I appreciate u commenting on my post for clarification as maybe it wasn’t clear to him or them. Take care
/r/seduction16/09/24 08:02 PM
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How have I been more dominant? I’ll tell u how, I’m WAY more assertive when I speak to people. Not just woman but men as well. I know EXACTLY what I want & my plan to get it! I noticed I’ve observed my surroundings & say ALOT less when people are talking about topics I know nothing about. (& even if I do I might learn something from someone who has a different perspective than I) I reflect on wat I can do better when I interact & speak about a topic I know a little bit about. I NEVER come across…
/r/seduction16/09/24 06:32 PM
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TELL HER THAT!! “Hey babe, I just want to kiss u but… I’m afraid 2. Can we talk about it.” HER: well yeah of course we can YOU: like I don’t even know where to begin?! HER: well I don’t even know where to begin but I think our lips eventually meet and then it just happens YOU: ok let’s see what happens I WISH I said things like that to my GF’s when I was younger. It’s so liberating to talk things through for BOTH sides your GF and YOURSELF. Believe me, u HAVE to go in with NO thought. The more u…
/r/seduction14/09/24 12:10 AM
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Yeah I hear u… improv helps you talk about subjects on the fly quickly. That’s all it does, you cannot get too into ur head bcz of her appearance. Many men get shy, scared (myself included). She probably feels the EXACT same way as you, believe it or not. (& if u think that she will get nervous to & tell yourself this: I WILL PROBABLY NEVER SEE HER AGAIN SO WAT DO I HAVE TO LOSE Regarding woman: You notice how nervous they get when u approach them if u understand how to read non-verbal language …
/r/seduction12/09/24 06:16 PM
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Been here, anxiety, depression, anxiousness blah blah blah. Yeah it SUCKED! Best thing u can do is combine ur therapy w/ exercise. Gym, cardio, whatever it is you need to do to get yourself & ur state of mind out of the gutter There is no easy pill. It’s a constant fight w/ yourself to keep afloat.
/r/seduction12/09/24 12:09 PM
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🤣oh yes make fun make fun… point finger, finger pointer, finger pointer
/r/seduction12/09/24 04:44 AM
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👍🏼 Well I’ll b damned if I didn’t get that right. Guess I’m going back to college 🤣🤣
/r/seduction12/09/24 04:41 AM
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“Mostly”
/r/seduction12/09/24 04:39 AM
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I hope u know that’s for the weak minded to think negative thoughts & perceptions about “what others/they’re saying” Can u get more insecure? That’s the issue w/ the internet 🤦🏼‍♂️ people just sooo insecure!!! WHY DO U CAREEEE
/r/seduction12/09/24 04:33 AM
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Yeah bcz so it’s SOOOO much better @ a bar. Isn’t it? 🫡🤦🏼‍♂️ OP’s not hurting ANYONE… let him be, if I was in his shoes I probably would be doing the same thing. Call me out, then ask me if a give a flying F wat other people’s opinion is on the subject while people judge me who don’t know me. And they’re sitting behind their desk playing video games w/ a Mt’n du talking rubbish to someone who’s actually trying to improve their life by going back to school & why not kill 2 birds w/ 1 stone. It’s …
/r/seduction12/09/24 04:27 AM
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I attacked my goal on ALL FRONTS… I work out (so I had that going 4 me) Read books on PUA, Followed IG dating influencers, Worked O.L.D (changed prompts according to wat influencers suggested), Went out & still go out, (cold approaches) Look into attending “Improv” classes, EDIT: Joined PUA, Seduction… subreddits.. I won’t lie.. To woman if they ask something. U have 2 choices (well 3), answer the ? Very vaguely OR just pretend she never said it & go on w/ another topic… AND if u are REALLY conf…
/r/seduction12/09/24 01:17 AM
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🤣
/r/seduction11/09/24 04:59 PM
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Let me just start this comment off by saying, I WAS reported to Tinder 1x and I had to “identify” I was who I was w/ a simple verification picture and they had to unlock my account manually. BTW: Bumble… are u banned from that as well? I don’t see it in ur post 🤷🏼‍♂️ Everything happens for a reason, regardless as to why. Now u have to learn how to make woman laugh & feel comfortable based on a F2F meeting. I moved to Austin August 1st, went to a bunch of “MeetUp” events & found 1 guy who said he…
/r/seduction11/09/24 04:50 PM
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I can’t say mind have, but I do know some people who’s views have changed. I think in 10x more confident now than I was say 5 years ago. I’ve gained this confidence w/ in the last 8 months-1-year. I’m a 33M, moved to a new state (Beginning of AUGUST) & it’s been SOOOO much better than where I was @ before I’ve noticed how woman’s brains work which isn’t a bad thing. I can’t say it has changed my perception of them however. It’s actually made me want to talk to them more & get to know them more. …
/r/seduction11/09/24 03:33 AM
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Woman who have a logic component to them are bound to have a harder time finding a solution to their single lifestyle. I’m not saying that it’s impossible for them, but it’s much more difficult. That’s just a known fact, I’m not saying woman shouldn’t go to school. I love an educated woman. I just know that it’s been found they have a harder time w/ finding a S.O and when they do they have to fit a VERY specific mold that they’re trying to find. Not ur fault, u tried ur best. Sometimes things ju…
/r/seduction11/09/24 12:14 AM
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ATX… never been to Dallas only flew into the airport On my way to the west coast 🤷🏼‍♂️
/r/seduction10/09/24 02:09 AM
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Yup… I agree, trying to get the group I do pickup w/ to get into it. 1 of them “jogs”… idk if the other 2 work out like me. But to each their own I guess. It’s a GAME changer FOR SUREEEEE
/r/seduction09/09/24 08:40 PM
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Ht, Wt, BF I agree 1000%, w/ the whole tinder,bumble dating app thing. I haven’t bought the tinder platinum just bcz I don’t see the value in it. I did buy the lifetime bumble membership tho for like sub $300 which I see as an investment rofl I just moved to Austin, & out here I feel like there’s an unnumbered amount of M-F ratio. (Could be wrong) so dating app scene isn’t where it is. I did buy a tinder 1-week pass just to see who liked my profile. I’m part of a PUA group which is pretty cool, …
/r/seduction09/09/24 08:19 PM
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Yeah that’s normal, but the shyer the freakier. Follow the rule I stated early. Tell her u want to go on a “REAL date”. Tell her u want to show her parts of (wherever u guys r @) that she may have not explored yet. Set the premises. ALSO, she wants YOU dude. Go in w/ that thought. When u sit her down (u sit next too) In ur head u have to psych yourself out. It’s weird @ first, bcz it feels like ur doing something u shouldn’t be. But that’s the point, she’ll go along w/ u. Don’t psych yourself ou…
/r/seduction09/09/24 07:18 PM
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MeetUp, Eventbrite, Facebook, toastmasters… find wat u like 2 to as a hobby. Find friends that like doing hobbies u do. Go out & do said hobbies. Meet people, talk to people. Compliment people… that’s the bigger one. When u give a compliment to someone, it changes how people view u. Specifically woman, more so than men.
/r/seduction09/09/24 01:10 PM
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Yeah, I know wat ur saying. Next date u go on, take her to a restaurant or bar (or watever)… make sure u sit right NEXT to her as opposed to in front of her (across the table). This will give u a more intimate setting, opportunities for initiating touch easier. Etc.. Eastern EU woman from my experience @ least are VERY shy. BUT, once u break that touch barrier… they open up, like it’s a WHOLE new world 🙉. A study I read recently wish I saved it but woman desire intimacy like 6-8x more than men d…
/r/seduction09/09/24 01:04 PM
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No no no… not a slow burn. She’s a keeper, u didn’t tell us what country she’s from & that can have a lot of underlying reasons as to WHY it hasn’t turned physical yet!! Listen woman from countries typically Europe & other countries around the world. Feel that the physical part of relationships comes with time. Show up, show her who u r… TELL her who u r, be confident, be courageous and go with the flow. I’m so glad u didn’t force anything, & u were able to read her body language when u met for …
/r/seduction09/09/24 11:13 AM
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A Rising tide lifts all boats… pass it on, bcz the more positive minds & people in general that have a more outgoing attitude. The better off u will be yourself
/r/seduction05/09/24 10:41 PM
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The biggest learning lesson I had to learn was to stop being insecure and start being outlandish. The more u make other people happy, the more you will make yourself happy. Compliments are SOOOOO good. Especially when u compliment a woman. Don’t be afraid, the early bird gets the worm. Discipline is so important, go down a busy street talk to strangers. Tell them “hey I like your hat” or “hey ur shoes really compliment your outfit” I SWEAR, they will smile from ear to ear & u will 2. Watch it tr…
/r/seduction05/09/24 09:10 PM
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Yeah, I’m a perfectionist myself. But if u change the way u view “perfectionist” the only way to truly become a “perfectionist” is to start Just like anything, starting anything new is the hardest part. You have to be ok w/ yourself F’ing up a BUNCH of times. The perfectionist mentality u just described is one of a person who doesn’t want change. If u want change u have to try! Successful people have MANY MANY failures years of them. No one sees the failures bcz they’re covered up w/ that ONE su…
/r/seduction05/09/24 02:17 PM
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Every male is naturally “needy” bcz we don’t have as many options as woman tend to. (Excuse my lack thereof 🤣) BUT, here’s the deal… u work a good job it sound like u have your life pretty well put together. The only thing ur lacking is the arm candy. This is what I would do, I would REFRAIN from txting ur potential “LTR” @ ANY moment when u r not Setting up a meeting/date Don’t have anything to tell her, and wat I mean by this is if it’s not a “hey I just got charged w/ x crime in a foreign cou…
/r/seduction05/09/24 04:08 AM
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Eh I’m part of that group… I can’t say it’s wat it’s made out to be or maybe I’m not using it right. Idk… no one ever says much in it besides getting photographers and things like that. Idk I just messaged in it. We’ll see wat happens
/r/seduction05/09/24 03:34 AM
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Dude this is the most SOLID post I have come across in a LONG time. It’s inspiring bcz I’ve been trying to get a small group of guys together in ATX (Austin) to do the same thing. Ah man the part where u had to “come up w/ the fact that you guys went to school together on the fly” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 DUDE fckin GOLD, I’m actually going to make a cross post right after this about getting a couple people from ATX to game @ bars. So stoked for u guys! Lmao
/r/seduction05/09/24 03:24 AM
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Yeah, I read the Xanax comment first… honestly, your friend should b holding you accountable. Once u start approaching it becomes almost addicting. It’s like even if I don’t get there phone #. I just want to talk to them 🤣 Have a few drinks if that’s what it takes. Idk wat ur drink of choice is but if it was me. Go w/ a dirty martini. That’s a solid start & then see how u feel. Raise the stakes, give your friend a substantial amount of $ (400-600) w/ the promise of him giving it back to u IF YOU…
/r/seduction05/09/24 02:51 AM
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Been doing this for maybe like 8 months (if that). It’s different for me each time. Sometimes I’ll see a 8-10 walking down a sidewalk. I’ll tell myself I’m going to compliment x about her just bcz I like making other people smile & I get gratification from them being happy. So it could be as simple as “Hey, I think that dress looks REALLY good on u” Other times I was out @ a bar last weekend (Labor Day in the U.S) & I was just approaching woman & asking them questions that just came out of my mo…
/r/seduction05/09/24 01:49 AM
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Don’t matter, she KNOWS ur a hot commodity now. She’ll come around, don’t txt her. Don’t talk to her, find out where she’ll “be” and get her F2F. Once u have that, then u can PROCEEED the same way. Text/phone has its place, this is not 1 of them. But u do u
/r/seduction02/09/24 12:15 AM
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Came here to say this exact message…
/r/seduction31/08/24 03:41 PM
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Everyone goes through it… (men @ least). It’s part of understanding relationship dynamic between M/F’s. When u have NO expectations, you become magnetic. It’s weird, when u put others before yourself & you TRULY do things w/ the sole intention & the goodness in ur heart. It’s like something happens, I can’t even explain it. Once I started doing things like I said for others. I’ve just been happier, all around a better person. I can’t put a finger on how it’s changed me mentally. But even my fami…
/r/seduction30/08/24 10:31 PM
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Look, I was in ur position. That was me to a T! Learn to disassociate yourself from wat other people think about u. People don’t care about u, want to know wat people care about? PEOPLE CARE ABOUT THEMSELVES!! The only way to stop this feedback loop is to understand how people function in society. Learn to give others wat they want, but here’s the kicker… DO NOT EXPECT ANYTHING in return!!! Bcz that’s the most important part. If u expect from something or someone, you’re setting yourself up for …
/r/seduction30/08/24 06:37 PM
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Wat’s the motto… “If u can’t dodge her, RAM her*”🤣
/r/seduction29/08/24 09:34 PM
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It’s hard, it gets me anxious… makes me stumble when I first start. But after the 4th, all the kinks work themselves out. It goes as it should, u have to just jump w/ both feet in, every once in a while I’ll pre-text my statements. But I think if u just walk up to women & ask her name, where she’s from, how long she’s lived here, wat she does for her job/occupation. U can tangent off of those questions to get her talking more
/r/seduction27/08/24 10:35 PM
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U need to be vulnerable, bcz @ the end of the day. The spotlight should be on HER. Not u, Stay disciplined, don’t talk too much, your answers should b as vague as possible! The more vague the more her mind will aimlessly try to read/think wat u meant. Tease, vague answers, initiate light touch. Show her YOU R CONFIDENT & u can/WILL take the lead!! Woman love a man who knows wat HE wants. I used 2 b in your position, only way 2 get better is 2 just KEEP dating. PUSH yourself, tell yourself “if I …
/r/seduction27/08/24 10:22 PM
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TIP: u need to make eye contact w/ woman. If u have something that’s built up against that (not sure if u do it purposely or not) but anxiety tends to be a factor as to why men don’t make eye contact. A woman will fall for u more of u look at them directly into their eyes. It builds a bond, it brings each of u closer together & it will make any woman feel more comfortable around u. Make sure u smile simultaneously, it’s a warm inviting feeling for a woman.
/r/seduction22/08/24 10:15 PM
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TIP: u need to make eye contact w/ woman. If u have something that’s built up against that (not sure if u do it purposely or not) but anxiety tends to be a factor as to why men don’t make eye contact. A woman will fall for u more of u look at them directly into their eyes. It builds a bond, it brings each of u closer together & it will make any woman feel more comfortable around u. Make sure u smile simultaneously, it’s a warm inviting feeling for a woman.
/r/seduction22/08/24 10:14 PM
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TIP: u need to make eye contact w/ woman. If u have something that’s built up against that (not sure if u do it purposely or not) but anxiety tends to be a factor as to why men don’t make eye contact. A woman will fall for u more of u look at them directly into their eyes. It builds a bond, it brings each of u closer together & it will make any woman feel more comfortable around u. Make sure u smile simultaneously, it’s a warm inviting feeling for a woman.
/r/seduction22/08/24 10:13 PM
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I check all women I’m interested in. Shit even if I seem creepy (majority of time it’s not) but when u have that IDGAF mentality. It hits differently 🤷🏼‍♂️
/r/seduction21/08/24 08:12 PM
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LONG POST read if u have time I guess? I mean… I don’t want to boast or brag. But I do pretty decent for myself considering I don’t exactly have to “try”. It’s weird writing this bcz I’ve never excepted that “I’m that guy” However, I started working out once my GF broke up w/ me in 2009. I’m 33 now & within the passed year it’s almost as if I’ve understood who I am. Why woman & gay men, go Gaga when they see me. It’s a weird predicament to be in, but I don’t complain I guess u could say. I just …
/r/seduction14/08/24 10:50 PM
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I’ll DM you IG handles to follow which helped me progress. I STILL mess up, but I’m FAR better off than I was last year. 🙏🏼 PS. I had the same mindset u have RN. Going into things dating & woman
/r/seduction13/08/24 01:42 AM
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That’s NOT going to get u a woman. I’m just making that VERY clear. Bcz that’s a BETA mentality. Woman don’t like (unless u want to b taken advantage of) Idk about u but woman like excitement, they can watch reality TV for HOURS and be perfectly fine with it. How do u think the Karsashians got SOOO popular? Believe me I was in YOUR exact position 9-12 months ago. I did as much as I could to understand how their brains work. YOU want to, but that exact statement will NOT get her “texting u, chasi…
/r/seduction13/08/24 01:27 AM
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Move on… act like she doesn’t exist. Don’t ignore her, if she approaches u in ur “dance class” be cordial. Be nice, but act like she wasn’t anything anyways. REFLECTION: You need to act like it was a Monday morning exercise talking to her. A drop in the bucket. NBD, let her feel the way she wants. Her attitude towards you should NOT be bothersome to you & YOU should reflect that when u talk to her next time. (Idk when the next class is) but abundance mentality VS. scarce. They’re 2 different per…
/r/seduction13/08/24 12:59 AM
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So here, if you want a woman. She’s hot, she’s an 8-10 on your radar. Checks the boxes blah blah blah. There r ways, I still consider myself a novice. BUT, when I like a woman. I compliment something that I think she probably spent some time trying to decide. For example, woman r quite indecisive. They have a hard time picking out “the outfit” they’re going to wear that day/night. So u can never go wrong w/ praising her choice of outfit. Simply say “______ I love that outfit you chose to wear, i…
/r/seduction11/08/24 02:42 PM
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It’s probably hard to understand, I have trouble myself. However, from an outsiders perspective. U r letting each “date” dictate how u should feel. That’s not wat you should be saying. Also dating is a #’s game, the more woman u can attract. The more will be attracted to u. I wouldn’t say the car from a BMW to a Tesla is a “downgrade”. Woman care about confidence, can u make decisions when she’s unable too? Can u let her vent and state an unbiased perspective or response. Build some credibility …
/r/seduction09/08/24 02:05 PM
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To many comedic posts lmao… Make it fun, make her feel like she’s in the presence of a confident man. Start by complimenting her, don’t overdue it. Just a simple “You’ve got great taste in style. I bet you’d make even a potato sack look chic!” OR Your outfit is on point. It’s like you’ve got a PhD in fashion, can I be your lucky pick for u to teach me your ways Cheesy? Yah, but I woman don’t see it like that. If u say lines like that confidently but with a bit of “ummph” she should see the messa…
/r/seduction08/08/24 04:04 PM
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If ur looking to get her to constantly talk about how much she hates u… but u kno wat that means 🫣
/r/seduction07/08/24 07:33 PM
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Yeah… in this situation, I try my best to take the focus off of me and into the other party. So if someone did say that depending on the party i’de give compliments back to them. OR take the conversation or statement somewhere else. When all else fails & ur just caught way off guard a simple thank you does not hurt. But when people make me feel good it’s almost like they’re subconsciously opening the flood gates. I try my best not to “love bomb” but if it works… it works
/r/seduction03/08/24 04:14 PM
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Couldn’t agree MORE!!! Reverse psychology on the situation. If it works out she’ll see u as the BETTER option by speaking highly of other males. Especially in this situation!!
/r/seduction03/08/24 12:03 AM
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I was in a VERY similar situation, but IN THE MOMENT tell yourself: “this is a bit weird RN, however I need to bring myself out of the mess in my brain and be the man she currently needs” SIDE NOTE: It happens bcz YOU let it. Have an abundance mindset. If u change ur perception to “Well yeah I got rejected, but there will be many in the future that won’t” As opposed to “she was the ONLY one, she texted me when she got home but I’m upset” Stop focusing on the ONE, start focusing on “the many” (as…
/r/seduction30/07/24 10:49 AM
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if he says that he’ll be seeing 👻 bcz she can’t help herself 🤌🏼🤣
/r/seduction30/07/24 10:19 AM
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Listening to others will never make your life happy. Do wat YOU feel makes YOU happy. Comparison is the their of happiness, not saying u r, but that’s how this post comes off 🤷🏼‍♂️
/r/seduction29/07/24 01:37 AM
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Also don’t txt often AND utilize chat gbt when u struggle. I opt for phone calls, I know woman would rather talk over the phone then txt mindlessly. A lot of txts can be easier to miscommunication than an over the phone voice as well.
/r/seduction27/07/24 01:23 AM
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Neither, bcz ur wasting ur time on an app that won’t get ur the best results for life’s satisfaction. The best way to do this is to get her number & call her. Ask her out & meet her, and THEN implement ur dating plan w/ her. Confidence is key
/r/seduction26/07/24 05:47 PM
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U have to keep ur cards close to ur chest… disqualifying her will make her feel like she can lose u @ any moment. Push-pull… I’m still trying to perfect my own version of this. But we’re all in this “mess” (if that’s the right word) together.
/r/seduction26/07/24 05:43 PM
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Last response to u… Look when someone is TRULY confident, they are a different person. When someone is TRULY confident, THEY carry themselves differently. When someone is truly confident they don’t look for external validation or guidance. When someone is truly confident they come from a different perspective. They KNOW they have the tools to make something happen or not. I added my personal experience & perspective to this post bcz I was trying to help others. But anything free it “isn’t free” …
/r/seduction22/07/24 05:06 PM
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Let me start off by saying, I used to be a HUGE over thinker. I still have issues around this topic. Personally, I think people over think things thus why I gave such a generalization answer. Once someone is truly confident, it goes away. U don’t overthink, u don’t discuss… You just DOO, action… is where confidence comes from. Taking action & messing up is far better than an inaction & being full of regret down the road. It sucks, bcz you’re putting yourself KNOWINGLY into uncomfortable situatio…
/r/seduction22/07/24 04:47 PM
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U shouldn’t be having a woman around type of environment. Remember YOU r trying to make HER comfortable if u and your friends are laughing @ jokes that don’t include HER.. It’s clearly not making her feel like she’s in the spotlight. PERIOD No one likes being left out, if you’re going to laugh w/ ur friends, do it w/ out her there. IDK I like to put woman that i’m courting in the spotlight. That’s where they’re most comfortable. Locker room talk w/ ur friends can be done anytime. When ur w/ HER,…
/r/seduction22/07/24 04:42 PM
1

Ur not laughing… Woman are turned on by men who crack jokes, and are laid back* Ur laughing bcz she’s laughing. Put her first & you’ll see results (better @ least)
/r/seduction22/07/24 02:33 PM
4

When u truly understand it.. it becomes engrained in u. U no longer have to “fake it”. So technically ur not faking it. Ur essentially moving thro life as a much more confident self. Faking it is faking it if u haven’t gotten to that point. Like I no longer fake anything. It’s in me, as it should be in you. I did read your post. Be who u want to be, don’t get caught up in wat she thinks, bcz who gives AF!! Woman think 1 thing then act on a completely different thing. Just move thro life like wat…
/r/seduction22/07/24 11:27 AM
14

Fake it till u make it. I used to be like this exact post. But I kept pushing through, kept forcing myself to date. I would get dating fatigue. I kept going, it didn’t matter… soon I learned to never force an interaction, I got comfortable in my own skin. I began to think on my own, making decisions w/ out consulting anyone. Woman dig a confident, well groomed man that can make decisions w/ confidence. Work on yourself, start going to the gym. U say in ur post “kinda jacked” so one would assume,…
/r/seduction22/07/24 05:22 AM
4

Grow, spend time w/ yourself. Don’t bring up your passed. They were “life lessons”, not something for you to mourn for yourself & treat yourself less bcz of an incident that happened to u. When u tell the story, have a third person perspective. This will help u understand that u can’t keep doing wat u did to yourself. Theoretically… Let your actions speak for themselves, build a new “person” essentially. Not a fake one tho, but a new one. Good luck
/r/seduction18/07/24 09:45 PM
1

I don’t think they can join dating apps under 18… I could b wrong tho
/r/seduction14/07/24 01:41 AM
1

Relentless confidence & having an abundance self-esteem. AKA giving off the vibes that woman don’t have as much control over u as they “think they do”
/r/seduction14/07/24 01:40 AM
0

That’s why u take it a step further BEFORE asking such questions. LIKE: Hey, I think we’d be a good team send me ur number? I want to take you out and get to know u further!
/r/seduction10/07/24 05:51 PM
1

U already have dialogue w/ her? I’ll give u options u can do if u have AND haven’t spoken to her… (from wat I read u guys have had super light conversations) Haven’t spoken to her: (starting w/ the perceived harder 1; it’s not it’s just perceived as it is) Next time u r in the gym and she is as well, & ur eyes meet, smile, wave whatever u guys do. This is what ur going 2 do: STEP 1: Walk right up to her, (obviously if she’s not doing anything, holding eye contact) if she is occupy yourself until…
/r/seduction09/07/24 02:46 AM
-2

NO I told this to my roommate. As a male I put the LEAST amount of information that I can on my profile. I don’t list my job, where I went to school, etc… I am back in school ATM so I did put that in my profile. But I don’t put my social media existence nothing. But then again, it might not work for everyone. In my bio I list what it is I am looking for in excruciating details. Woman like when a man knows what he wants, VS. hasn’t made up his mind.
/r/seduction07/07/24 05:44 PM
2

Nah man… I live in a suburb myself. I live outside of a big city that I rarely travel too. Big cities yeah they’re good if ur trying to get a foundation down. Bcz (this is going to sound contrary) it’s better for your self esteem. AS u will get denied more which essentially will make you more resilient to well getting denied. Start w/ a low bar, see a cute girl… in ur mind say to yourself “i’de be happy w/ just getting her name” Then go up to her, compliment her & ask her name. No more no less, …
/r/seduction07/07/24 12:42 AM
5

No special place “u go to meet them”… just go about ur day like ur normally would. Grocery stores, gyms, restaurants, fairs, etc etc…
/r/seduction07/07/24 12:28 AM
7

Unless ur a top 5% in the looks dept. Cold approaches will be ur best bet.
/r/seduction06/07/24 10:24 PM
15

As said, woman ALWAYS say something… but unless she’s a strong feminist boundary holder. Just continuously go back to square 1. She’ll eventually come around, but there is a fine line u have to be careful with. Just something to note. If she’s laughing, having fun & ur just “their” Don’t sweat a rejection, as long as she’s smiling, & laughing. Ur good 2 go, if she doesn’t want you to continuously initiate she’ll DEFINITELY let u know. Otherwise push-pull
/r/seduction05/07/24 05:30 PM
5

Not much just a lot of dates that turn in to make out sessions. I need to get better @ executing as in finding someway to get them back to the house I am living at & I’m passionate about Like a dog or something along those lines I’m just not up for the commitment end of having a dog
/r/seduction05/07/24 05:38 AM
2

Mixing ALL of them in one mix, a little of this & little of that is definitely going to get u places. I noticed on the 2 dates I went on over the weekend I just was owning the conversations. It’s so embedded in my mind. it literally just comes almost like I don’t even have to think about it. I’ve re-wired my brain, it’s crazy to think about it
/r/seduction02/07/24 12:21 AM
1

Bingo 🎯
/r/seduction27/06/24 12:57 AM
1

Struggle is there… but it’s more of a trying to convince myself that I’m the prize… But yes u can attest from a 6’1” blonde white male here 🙋🏼‍♂️
/r/seduction17/06/24 04:10 PM
6

Step 1: Block her out, all socials + her #. Step 2: O.L.D… hit the gym fill ur schedule w/ any free time u MUST find something to do! Step 3: find friends or if ur strong enough to go out by yourself and meet people Should get u started
/r/seduction17/06/24 02:49 AM
0

🎯
/r/seduction15/06/24 12:52 AM
20

If something is going on, she’ll tell u… and then thats when ur ONLY once and FORALL option IS to… act as therapist, while she uses u to spill all the problems she’s been going thro w/ the current man she’s banging 🤣
/r/seduction12/06/24 03:14 AM
17

Men mature from damage… That’s it… the more damage one lives thro the more mature they become. Learned this after I’ve gone thro enough damage for 5. So I’m glad I’m still alive… but do wat u will w/ that
/r/seduction08/06/24 06:22 PM
1

33 here just turned less than a month ago. Going back to school… Not 1 bit fazed, I have a feeling… sure u do 2.
/r/seduction07/06/24 03:35 AM
2

He doesn’t say “he sees said woman everyday”… am I supposed to infer that? Sounds like u know what ur doing.. take over, I just gave my opinion on his conflict. Best of luck
/r/seduction06/06/24 09:17 PM
4

Treat it like a business transaction. Dry, don’t react… just do and tell her she needs to leave bcz u have 2 do xyz. Separate emotions & logic. I struggle myself STILL. But it’s a work in progress… 22 u have time to work up your confidence and build up your self esteem. But u have to follow through. Action > Inaction Get denied, thrown in the gutter… become irresistible to it. That’s when u kno & can say “alright she said no, but I know all I need is 1 yes.” Soon you’ll find yourself getting 1,2…
/r/seduction06/06/24 04:17 PM
7

I’m moving to Austin. I’m 33M, I have a friend that moved from Miami to Ft. Lauderdale & he just moved to Tampa. I think staying in state would be a better option for u. I went to TX for a wedding & fell in love + I’m going back to school. Either way, try a different scene within Florida and then decide from there?
/r/seduction05/06/24 03:18 AM
8

she definitely respected your reach… or over reach therefore 🤣🤣
/r/seduction02/06/24 09:44 PM
1

Dang, I haven’t been lucky. But I’m definitely open to first date casual 🤐 stuff lmao
/r/seduction01/06/24 07:47 PM
0

Well here u can look @ it like this: You don’t approach, and u don’t get the feedback that u subconsciously need to improve on the next “attractive woman” so you can’t grow. WHO CARES, if u biff and mess up… that’s what I’ve shown myself. Messing up is OK, u have to come to terms with that. You continue doing what you’ve always been doing and post more complaints on Reddit asking for help, yet ur not willing to help yourself by putting yourself in uncomfortable situations like u stated above. CO…
/r/seduction01/06/24 07:41 PM
1

Bingo was his nameo… 🎯
/r/seduction01/06/24 02:49 AM
27

U have 2 set a bar for yourself. For EXAMPLE: Let’s just SAY, u SEE a woman that u thought was definitely in your perspective 1 that u would approach if u didn’t have “AA”. Tell yourself, (in your head, w/ in the FIRST 5 seconds) “I’m going to approach & just give her a compliment on her jacket, bcz she deserves to be happy & I want it 2 b caused from ME” After u do it, (maybe small talk ensued in between) YOU WON. YOU, yes YOU just did wat 98% of people (u currently DO NOT DO). Str8 up, DONT EV…
/r/seduction30/05/24 05:05 AM
1

w/ in the 2nd message (after the first usually banter breaking the ice). I’ll tell them “I want to take you out when are you free?” OR “Are you free this weekend?” Typically will make arrangements after that
/r/seduction28/05/24 02:10 AM
1

Hands down I agree w/ this post. I’m not good @ BSing over the damn apps. They’re there to find people that r ur interested in AND they’re interested in YOU. Just don’t understand men AND woman, think they can get to kno each over messaging each other 🤦🏼‍♂️🤣
/r/seduction27/05/24 09:50 PM
3

Keep going, dude KEEP GOING… this is when u don’t stop. This is when u keep grinding it out, bcz people who give up are the people who don’t believe in the process. BELIEVE in the process, it’s to make u better, it’s uncomfortable as SHIT. I was literally in this SAME position not that long ago it seems like. I’m WAYYY more comfortable now when I go on dates, I take control of situations. I’m not afraid to be myself. It’s such a relief, just keep pushing and you’ll find your groove!!
/r/seduction23/05/24 06:58 AM
3

🎯
/r/seduction22/05/24 11:13 PM
2

If u don’t see wat she could be implying… then that’s where u officially dropped the ball. Lol she wants to kick it & maybe things will turn into romance? Idk who knows, but go for it, if u find her attractive. What do u have to lose?
/r/seduction22/05/24 01:03 AM
4

Not if u have confidence from/on another lvl. There isn’t such thing as “terrible” bcz a confident man can turn a terrible interaction into a great one. No matter what happens between individuals
/r/seduction21/05/24 02:59 PM
5

Super tricky, if they look @ u & look down immediately it means a few things: They feel overpowered (subconsciously) which is a really good thing. Woman aren’t meant to be dominant so they’re basically telling u “hey I think ur attractive, approach me please” They’re nervous and they want to hide the fact that they’re nervous and don’t want to show their true self. But that’s when u call them on their emotions and tell them ____ fill in the blank
/r/seduction21/05/24 02:58 PM
55

Eyes r important. When they look @ u, and then immediately look down. U know u won her. U just have to have the balls to start a conversation. I’m not the best but I’ve made ALOT of progress. Just start talking to people, bcz it only gets easier by practicing!!
/r/seduction21/05/24 06:23 AM
1

Hey dude slow down, overthinking things makes it quite complicated. Let your absence create the picture for her. No more texting, u did good tho by (from wat u said & I believe) txting for meet ups. So kudos on that. Sports games, u could take her 2? Theme park? Is their something she’s interested in that you wouldn’t mind going & tagging along. (Maybe buy the tickets?) Flowers? Idk woman LOVE when u give them flowers (most @ least). Ice cream? I mean I can go on, but just don’t F it up by txtin…
/r/seduction21/05/24 01:32 AM
5

Yeah, but check it… UR MOVING TO MF NYC fooooolll!!! FUCK EVERYONE 🤣🤣 that’s what u need to look forward 2. Take ur mind off the weak & apply it to strengths. Abundance & positivity. Negativity gets u no where except useful in specific situations
/r/seduction10/05/24 11:31 PM
14

Listen here, ur down on yourself bcz “3 dates cancelled” on u. Let me tell u this, that’s nothing…. YOU HAVE TO HAVE THE MINDSET, that it’s THEIR loss. NO way is it yours, bcz they never got to know the “real you”. Move on, do u kno how many woman r in the world? Think about that for a second. 4-billion of them & there is PLENTY more out their. Come from an abundance mindset & try not to have tunnel vision on “the 3-dates that cancelled” Honestly tho
/r/seduction10/05/24 10:47 PM
1

Their r a MILLION reasons why she said that. We can’t guess, Maybe she had a BF already She might’ve been drunk & masked it REALLY well Maybe she just wanted to taste u 🤣 So many things to contemplate, not worth it. BUT, use that confidence to do the approaching. She flat out told you “YOUR HOT”… Now u kno ur hot in the eyes of woman. Now the only way to boost your confidence is to go out and talk to WOMAN. They are people, just like your best friend!!
/r/seduction10/05/24 10:43 PM
19

Don’t chat… introduce yourself AND jump right into u wanting to take her out. IME woman like to be w/ upfront Str8 to the point men. No fumbling around
/r/seduction10/05/24 06:08 AM
-1

Bingo was his name-O 🎯
/r/seduction10/05/24 03:27 AM
5

1000% if I see an 8-10 (not AGE 🤦🏼‍♂️) Woman walking around… it’s game on But I’m quite picky
/r/seduction06/05/24 08:20 PM
6

🎯
/r/seduction02/05/24 04:45 PM
30

Yeah I think this is the best route to go, if they Still “think ur old” then the good news is that there r plenty of fish in the sea
/r/seduction01/05/24 11:24 PM
2

Approaching woman is exactly what u described in the second example. PLUS, woman DO get intrigued if u compliment them on their “looks”. That’s why they “dress cute” bcz they want to “look their BEST”
/r/seduction01/05/24 03:21 AM
1

Jacked can have multiple different definitions depending on the person who is saying “they’re jacked”… its a term used to describe someone or something. Like I said I appreciate your comment nonetheless
/r/seduction26/04/24 07:55 PM
1

Let’s not focus on my body aesthetics & focus on giving me tips on how to improve. Thanks for the comment though, I appreciate the feedback
/r/seduction26/04/24 06:40 PM
8

STOP MESSAGING…. This exact scenario/situation would happen to me. SOOO what I do is I get them to message me back/match watever. Then one of the very next messages is “Hey I’d love to take you out, what does your schedule look like” OR “Hey ____I want to take u out I have ideas, send me ur # if u could?” You’d be surprised bcz woman get turned off w/ lots of messaging as you’ve noted that is a concurrent issue with women and your matches. SO, use OLD like texting them. They don’t want to hear y…
/r/seduction26/04/24 04:48 AM
3

Thanks for being honest.. 👍🏼 lol
/r/seduction25/04/24 02:45 PM
-2

Cuz ur post history says different lmao
/r/seduction25/04/24 05:25 AM
1

Are u a Male or a Female?
/r/seduction25/04/24 05:13 AM
1

🎯
/r/seduction23/04/24 12:54 AM
0

Honestly, do what feels natural. Did u have a good time? Assumingely u did, so yeah go for it. People feel like they need to b careful about “sending texts” when texts weren’t around 25 years ago. CALL HIM, leave him a voicemail if he doesn’t answer and simply say “Hey _____ I wanted to hear your voice, instead of sending a plane old text, I had a great time on the date, we should do something fun again” Maybe the conversation will go on a tangent & you guys might talk for hours who knos lol OR …
/r/seduction22/04/24 12:02 AM
1

PM’d u
/r/seduction21/04/24 01:18 AM
2

Yes I learned this lesson over the last year. It’s probably the most positively rewarding part of understanding what woman like, vs wat we interpret as wat satisfies ourselves
/r/seduction20/04/24 09:00 PM
22

DUDEEEEEEE… they feel SAFE with YOU. TAKE THE HINT 😋
/r/seduction20/04/24 06:31 PM
3

🎯
/r/seduction15/04/24 05:57 AM
2

Hey dude stop worrying about everyone else!! They got problems just like u have problems. Just different problems. Not 1 human can put themselves in another’s shoes, focus on yourself & put yourself in the best position to “Win” In your own mind define wat “winning” looks like. It’s not about you VS Joe Shmoe… it’s YOU vs YOURSELF, period
/r/seduction13/04/24 04:40 AM
2

I’m used 2 b on the same boat, get eyes everywhere. I smile, woman always thinking I get so much attention. Which is a fantasy they make up for themselves. I don’t want to come off as full of myself. But I’ve gotten better and seen improvements in myself (I’m super self aware u could say) I didn’t do the whole “ask for feedback from 10 woman after you approach them” which is actually a really good idea I might implement into my own life so thanks u/crazyRepulsive8244. I also used to get weird ar…
/r/seduction12/04/24 07:17 PM
12

Leave it b… she would’ve given u her # and not made excuses to make u jump thro hoops. Chalk it up as her loss… bcz ur gonna kill it
/r/seduction09/04/24 02:52 PM
4

Confidence, make assertive decisions, w/ following actions that prove wat u just said. Make her feel comfortable, and safe… don’t be afraid of rejection unless awkwardness is present. Solid communication is also up their and will be a good indicator if she’s comfortable or not. Do your best to avoid awkwardness, it only is awkward if YOU make it that way. Silence is normal and if u want a “short or long” term relationship w/ a woman then there will be lots of silentness moments
/r/seduction08/04/24 03:33 AM
2

Gonna have to use this one…
/r/seduction08/04/24 02:03 AM
2

DO IT i f’n HATE games. Cut the BS, games only bring issues to relationships which never existed I hate how we’re playing this BS as humanity. Text messages should never exist when ur interested in a individual.
/r/seduction07/04/24 07:20 PM
9

Invite her over again… but this time u have nothing to lose. Tell yourself that, all u need is 2 “breaking the rules u set upon for yourself. To get 2 wat u envision”
/r/seduction07/04/24 02:44 AM
-4

1 glove does not fit all… I guess wat I meant to say I’d be the opposite of her…
/r/seduction07/04/24 02:41 AM
29

Confidence, don’t care about her shyness, don’t care about her being too reserved. Be loud, be the guy she envisions “men to be”. EDIT: Be loud with confidence* By following suit and aligning to her. She won’t be attracted to u. Have good ideas, woman like to be the followers (sometimes; most of the time)
/r/seduction07/04/24 01:51 AM
2

She can have every “right” to have access to money that I have made. Bcz she’d b my wife…
/r/seduction05/04/24 03:27 PM
11

Step 1: Tell her she probably has manly hands, & make her show them 2 u to “prove” that they’re not Step 2: Touch her hands by comparing yours to hers. Step 3: Now that “touch has been established” that barrier has been broken… EDIT: I read your other comments…. Ask if she’s ticklish, if she says “No she’s not” tell her she’s lying and start seeing if she is in the places u think normal people r ALSO, WOMAN LOVE IT WHEN U PUT YOUR HAND ON THE INSIDE OF THEIR THIGH WHEN U R DRIVING. DO IT… HAVE T…
/r/seduction05/04/24 05:32 AM
1

Nothing to lose than to simply ask… easy peasy, she likes u, she talks a lot around u. She’s comfortable around u…. Ask her yesterday!
/r/seduction05/04/24 02:48 AM
1

This is the wayyyyyy ODALLEYYYY
/r/seduction04/04/24 04:06 AM
5

Ultimately, it’s NOT up to u brother. I got downvoted for something I said that was true a little while ago HOWEVER, It’s up to her, so mess around. Don’t focus on her, make HER want to lock u down. Otherwise be free to do whatever u want. Bcz technically u r… free to do so.
/r/seduction01/04/24 01:21 AM
2

It’s a marathon NOT a sprint… keep GOING. Wait burn out? I’ve experienced it before. You get more resilient to it when u go thro it 1-2 times. I’ve had my share, but the more you go thro it the more u will learn how to adapt & change course. Try different avenues: Dating apps In person contact Go to the gym Don’t fear rejection, get USED to it Theirs nothing like constantly being surrounded by good looking woman. Force yourself to try different avenues when u get burnt out of one PS. Sorry if th…
/r/seduction31/03/24 05:25 PM
8

Focus on THEEEE self. Woman will flock towards Man who focus on THEEEE self 🫡
/r/seduction26/03/24 11:26 PM
2

All must bow to the master 🙇🏼‍♂️🤣 nice job
/r/seduction24/03/24 11:37 PM
0

I might b… I’ll never tell 🫡
/r/seduction20/03/24 02:41 PM
-3

I Struggle myself, BUT… u can do either. But u won’t regret either also. Let’s weigh each however: Approach in the gym: AFTER you see her look @ u w/ her eyes. Get some balls & walk right up to her NEVER breaking your gaze from her eyes. (She will most likely look down & try to advert looking @ u) BUT YOU WONT, YOU will walk RIGHT up to her introduce yourself: MAKE A COMMENT about her following AND the likening of your photo “the other day” EXAMPLE: “Hi I’m ______ I just wanted to introduce myse…
/r/seduction20/03/24 05:11 AM
3

I think u should be as straight forward as possible. Just because it’ll show that ur confident… not that I do this myself bcz I’m like u Yet, idk ur age but the fact ur in “uni” tells me your definitely younger 🤷🏼‍♂️
/r/seduction04/03/24 11:57 PM
8

Solid explanation
/r/seduction03/03/24 05:31 PM
8

Yeah, I agree w/ this… BUT I’ve found a way to combat it. TAKE CONTROL, own her… be DOMINANT. I’m 32 and when I do that she’ll feel more confident in initiating w/ u.
/r/seduction03/03/24 07:18 AM
1

That’s what guys do, speaking… idk why being a woman changes that 🤷🏼‍♂️
/r/seduction29/02/24 03:50 PM
2

I agree & to add to that (kind of hard to explain in writing). BUT as a matter of fact, I feel like compliments go further in an older woman’s brain when it’s more pure. For example, “u find her funny” or her eyes etc.. But only if she’s showing signs of interest obviously. I think you’d b attracting the wrong type of woman if she excepts your compliments & they’re strictly come from a “body image” viewpoint.
/r/seduction26/02/24 09:16 AM
8

Glad to hear that dude. I’m not near ur lvl from what u just stated. But I’m well on my way & I have the rest of my 30’s to go. So time will tell, but I feel u on getting down voted. People r harsh on the net, but that’s the way it is.
/r/seduction23/02/24 07:00 AM
1

I don’t want to stop u from sharing your thoughts. But the longer u think about them (for me @ least) the less likely I’ll b to execute on them. That’s why I try not to think about “a hypothetical” situation. I try to go w/ the flow, not always the case. BUT, I try… just a suggestion 🤷🏼‍♂️ Also telling a woman that u thought she looked good yesterday is a good start. I would say that & follow it by u asking if she’d be interesting in getting drinks after work (or whatever ur situation may be)
/r/seduction12/02/24 06:45 PM
30

Hands down a solid comment to this thread. 🎯 U stated how to communicate & then u gave examples of what not to do 💯
/r/seduction07/02/24 01:28 AM
106

Game>Money… I kno some of the poorest MF’s, yet they pull the baddest women.
/r/seduction11/09/23 12:01 AM
19

FIRET step… no one is “unrealistic” Second Step.. talk to them Third step. Sleep w/ them Easy as 1,2,3 But wait… THERES MORE Jk don’t look to far into it. Talk to them, tell them what they don’t want to hear, get reactions, tease & “push/pull” w/ their emotions. 🫣🤣
/r/seduction15/08/23 12:37 AM
2

I made it up… lol stop pinpointing the numerical value, all I was trying to say was. ITS all in SELF-CONFIDENCE. Period!!
/r/seduction02/08/23 02:18 AM
0

Do u go to the gym? Do u work on yourself? Do u partake in making sure your groomed well?… there’s a lot of things I could go on about. But I think it boils down to is the person disqualifying themselves, be4 they even make the attempt. For me no women is above my standards. Once u let the idea/concept into your head (if u r a male that is) it’ll make things WAYYY easier for u
/r/seduction02/08/23 02:16 AM
-3

ALL women that are single are interested, they just need that “door” to be opened. Unless your really coming out of left field, u need to get ur life on a new path. Lol, but generally speaking 98-99% of women will be interested, if u say the correct lines. (Which I still suck @) but am still a work in progress 🫣
/r/seduction02/08/23 02:00 AM
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