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6’1 Jacked, Super fit/lean just a lil insecure (weirdly) 185ish lbs probably 12-16%BF

Moved to a new city, come to the gym & it seems like no matter what time I go, the same woman is their.

I kept getting vibes (eyes) from her. I was about to walk up to her & introduce myself. But decided against it. Lone $ behold she came to use the cable machine RIGHT next to me.

So I’m like “what do I have to lose!”

She was in the mode, headphones in… got her attention introduced myself she said her name is N.

& then nervously said:

“how long have u been working out for, I’ve noticed your gains”

Kind of blushed but not really, & said “ohhh thanks I’ve been working out for around 10ish years. HBU”

I said around the same time, we’ll he it was nice meeting u. Take care.

Not the best but I’m glad I did it, the other woman I “warm approached” in the gym I matched w/ on bumble when I was visiting the city I just moved to. So it wasn’t technically a cold approach.

But I only see uphill, help on getting rid of the nervousness? Any tips/pointers?

Or just keep going? 🤷🏼‍♂️