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In SEA they like you for just being white. In Latin countries white adds like 2 points but it’s still embarrassing to be with an ugly white guy. Latin girls at least in nighttime situations are maybe even more looks centric than in America
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:12 AM
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If you try to make friends with everyone you will be very happy and have a lot of opportunities as well as fulfilling moments. This is like a basic element of all of human life for all of history. It’s sad that’s it’s such a revelation nowadays in this community. You are totally right man
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 08:56 PM
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What I’m saying is pretty much everyone gets “lucky” if they have a good life. You way of looking at it I guess if women are for some reason your priority in life, and I reckon in the end it still has worse results. My mates who are science nerds, fat ugly short, even the worst one is now married and going to have a kid. I’m certain it wouldn’t have happened if they were online obsessing and focusing on getting a woman. But anyways I think we had a good debate. I’ll end it there and wish you goo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 08:37 PM
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You say it’s fun when it happens naturally and then when I tell what it looks like when it happens naturally and how to do it naturally you call it luck. I totally get your point as well btw. I’m just sticking to my point that even the nerdiest shyest guys I work with, because they are so dedicated to their priorities and don’t create a whole drama around women, they generally meet people easily. ALL my friends who struggle have all sorts of explanations for it but when I look from a distance th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 07:40 PM
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Hmm maybe you should ask yourself why I ended up fit and tall… hmm it’s because my back had 4 herniated discs and my doctor literally told me at 16 that I had the back of a 65 year old and that I’d be disabled early in life and to not even bother lifting weight because it could be dangerous. More than 100lbs overweight full of acne and many days couldn’t even leave my bed. A fat hunchback So if you’re imaging I had some huge advantage you’re very wrong. I was repulsive until I decided I was goin…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 06:06 PM
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Oh yes I totally agree I’m also obsessive in this respect. What I’m saying is that your value of the superficial aspect is enough of a drive to get you started and feel/recognize the health benefits over time so they could motivate you as wel. For most people they don’t care enough about their appearance to start earlier, rather as I mentioned, it’s when the health really deteriorated that they have a sudden realization that they need to change fast. You were confused why they don’t just start t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 06:00 PM
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I just look outside at the average young working guy. Not the the young guy who’s still has all his college classes to go to on daddy’s money. Anyways I’m not going to put much more effort into this for no reason but a quick look shows that at the very least 61% of young adults feel serious loneliness. https://mcc.gse.harvard.edu/reports/loneliness-in-america
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 05:52 PM
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You made so many assumptions there. For example me and my friends are, for the most part, extremely shy. We are not extroverted or all that social. But we are genuine, we have priorities of our careers and positive mindsets of joy and appreciation. I see guys out there like a lion scheming to catch their prey. Of course if you approach it like that it won’t be fun. Most hunts end in failure even for the mighty lion. What I’m saying is, it’s not like we naturally and willfully had this life. No, …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 05:35 PM
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If you think young teenage men are generally confident nowadays you are severely mistaken. Just like the girls, the next generation is increasingly troubled with mental health. Im fine im long past the age of caring about that but I certainly think my characterization is accurate for a maybe half the of the average male population. I think maybe you don’t realize so many guys, maybe even more than half, literally half no friends or only a single or two male friends. Pandemic has obviously made i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 05:15 PM
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I think if you’re beautiful enough then you’re perma beautiful but you do have a point that I hadn’t considered. Most “beautiful” people at home looks like unfit normal people in their loose casual home clothes. Probably most average days they’re somewhere in between. Like if you worked with them you’d be stunned by their beauty but just passing them on the street it doesn’t register.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:43 PM
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You’re post is too long to read. Based on the title I do not agree with you. Me and all my friends (men) have a lot of fun dating. All of us in different ways. Some of us are more average and have fun dating by being involved in groups and chatting a lot, and making a connection. Others basically never get rejected and just ask people out wherever. Another one met his girl on tinder. Anyways I’m normal life if you’re open minded and have fun in life anyways I struggle to see how dating wouldn’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:36 PM
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I think a quick google search of stats would be more helpful than days swiping on tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:34 PM
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Not that complicated. Everybody has different mental barriers and dramas that require differing amounts of energy to overcome. You value superficial appearance very much so it energized you to exercise. I think although they care about their appearance, they don’t actually value it that much. Like yeah I see them have a little breakdown because their fat every once in a while but most of the time they’re laughing and having a good time eating with their friends or at least blissfully distracted …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:32 PM
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The difference is the guy basically knows its all a fantasy. They try because even the impossible happens sometimes. And if the boy is naive enough to think ugliest get a chance with prettiest girls then his first rejection will open his eye REAL QUICK. The girl on the other hand always thinks it’s really possible and normal thing for a hot guy to want to settle down with an average girl but that just doesn’t happen. Think of how much guys like sex. But instead of seeing this reality the girl go…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:14 PM
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We can chat bro but there’s not much to know honestly and it’s not as extravagant as maybe I made it seem. 95% of the time I’m just unkempt chillin at home. I do not keep an active sex life mostly because meh, other things to do. Also it’s not like I look crazy unattainable look. Literally just having good fitness and tall is enough My only secret is that for years and years and years when others took a break I just kept going. A week off is fine, 2 weeks every once in a while. But apart from th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 09:58 AM
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You have to get lean for it to work
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 05:03 AM
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Keep in mind I was fat first so it took me like 2.5yrs to lose 80lbs. Then from the 160 skinny starting point I’d say say 6mnths to get a good enough boost that you should have decent success in conversation with women especially with the height. But still wouldn’t be approached, and would have to be flirty to have a chance. At the club a few times I’d say hello to girls and literally receive no response. Totally ignored. I would say the full effect didn’t happen until more recently where I bulk…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 03:41 AM
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From obese to lean muscular pretty boy. Btw I hate that term I’m a shy gym nerd but just to give an idea. 6 3 250 fat-> 160 skinny -> 190 low body fat In normal daily life I’m pretty much treated the same. Normal transactional interactions have always been pleasant for me. In terms of women, yes it’s all about looks. From literally not a single moment of attention in 20 years, to getting random people in class “accidentally” bump into me in class. Girls bringing me brownies because they “had som…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 09:20 PM
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Bro what do you squat
/r/seduction24/06/22 05:15 PM
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Dont even know how I found this shit but I hope you figured it out. It was a lot of fun to read because I’m that’s exactly what I told myself when I didn’t have success. I don’t want to say I’m attractive because I don’t quite see it, I think I have a strange face, but also always told to model. Anyways, you have it so goddamn ez. You have no idea. I was living in my hometown and I was exactly like you. Then I moved to nyc and honestly desperately was looking for friends, when I met girls I was …
/r/seduction23/06/22 09:41 PM
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I think you shouldn’t view guys as EITHER they care about me OR want my body. The truth is even the best guys will have a bit of both at different times. Theyre kind of espérate things in a way. Every guy who talks to you romantically will want you for your body. Then once you accept that then you can focus on choosing a caring guy. This type of guy mostly will not be found at a bar or online dating tho it’s possible. But don’t be surprised to just get used by guys from here. The best type of gu…
/r/seduction18/05/22 02:45 PM
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Ngl i didnt read what you posted but most couples I know irl met by starting as friends
/r/seduction18/05/22 02:38 PM
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Youre 16, even girls are figuring shit out right now. You don’t have to be alter and act in some specific way to be liked. You just have to be nice and have good intentions with people. Just be a guy that cares and listens to people. If you’re actually hot you don’t need to do anything but “be around”. Im terms of actions be calm and relaxed, don’t get hyped like a stupid monkey, calmly say hi to everyone. Walking into a class say good morning to everyone around guys and girls and just chill w t…
/r/seduction18/05/22 02:02 PM
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What can I say, most couples pair with someone of equal or similar attractiveness, and I mentioned it so you don’t get obsessed with a girl will probably say no anyways. The process is the same. Don’t overcomplicate. It’s literally about saying hi just like you would with any friend and seeing how she reacts. Just chat for a bit and go from there.
/r/seduction18/05/22 01:51 PM
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I spent 2 years “practicing” this BS. I don’t claim I was doing it right or anything. But unlike your own experience, I just got fit and everything happpenwd automatically, and would’ve required no hours of “practicing”.
/r/seduction18/05/22 01:49 PM
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Say hi.
/r/seduction18/05/22 01:38 PM
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Be good looking yourself and say hi
/r/seduction18/05/22 01:37 PM
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Only 6inches I don’t like hem that long
/r/seduction18/05/22 01:26 PM
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Both are lies. The “realistic” rational and person with low confidence and bad emotion is also just a story you tell yourself. A lie that you’ve grown so used to and now believe. It’s not faking it till you make it, it’s not faking it, it’s literally being confident. You think you need to work out all sort of mental and perhaps physical and economics and social things to be confident but it’s not true. All that is just a long process to convince yourself about your lie. It’s not faking it, it’s …
/r/seduction18/05/22 04:09 AM
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Pretty much everyone on earth including women are clueless weirdos. All of have to do is be somewhat sexy and say hi
/r/seduction18/05/22 03:57 AM
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Have you tried tinder and going out to clubs/bars? Do you have any active social friend groups? This sub is just for fun tbh. Most people irl can meet a woman with just a bit of bravery. No need to learn and prepare etc. Don’t get trapped in that. Just start saying hi to people. If that doesn’t work then come back but I think for a person who simply hasn’t taken initiative due to shyness this might be the worst place for them since it’ll just make everything more complicated. Truth is you just s…
/r/seduction18/05/22 02:52 AM
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If you live online and on dating apps and in clubs then what you say is true, especially the importance of looks. In real life people work with each other, go to class together, talk in normal situations and through that meet another nice person. It’s not really all that theoretical, it’s just life.
/r/seduction17/05/22 05:46 AM
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Definitely don’t go straight for a hug unless you’re model attractive lmao. At least say hi first and be a normal human.
/r/seduction17/05/22 05:44 AM
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I always hated this observation both because it’s superficial and because it’s something that I can’t maintain. But as someone who has been obese and also close to being modelesque I can say it has mostly to do with looks unless you really have an exceptional personality, which is where your post might help. However, just at my best looks there is never a flake, but not because no girl would flake on me, but because I had enough Interest from enough girls that I could just talk to the ones that …
/r/seduction17/05/22 05:40 AM
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She is being nice in the hopes you flirt with her
/r/seduction17/05/22 05:22 AM
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I mean yeah what kind of life are you expecting? Just keeping your gym schedule you’re winning. I think it’s easy to fit in one dinner/hangout with a group of friend every week or two and go out also and one night ever week or two weeks. That’s it for fun. Then if in that time you’re lucky enough to find a good relationship then it’s honestly pretty non time consuming. She probably has to work and you can chill together at home most nights, even just workout and make food together.
/r/seduction17/05/22 04:27 AM
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Being born into humanity is a real trip. Lots of things are just arbitrary and often not fair. You can let each situation hit you like an emotional truck that disturbs and angers you Or you can have a laugh and go for it.
/r/seduction17/05/22 04:24 AM
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My own personal experience is when I was large I got no attention. Maybe if my personality was great it would be possible. But once I got lean I literally needed no personality lol. I needed bravery because I still had to approach but they basically made it obvious i should do it. Maybe not helpful but it’s my experience
/r/seduction17/05/22 04:22 AM
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Well there’s your problem. They don’t translate your lifting as athleticism they translate it as fatness. You can still find a great girl because you will be their type, but do not expect it to be the guy who easily get stared at by women everywhere he goes at high body fat.
/r/seduction16/05/22 06:32 PM
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Are you defined? Personally the difference for me between 18%bf and 12%bf is game changing, people have actually told me I look better at 18% but the reactions and stares, especially in nighttime environments rise exponentially with definition and low body fat Nonetheless even ar that point it will be extremely rare to have girl approach you. They will just get close and occasional eye contact so you still need to be brave to approach
/r/seduction16/05/22 06:24 PM
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