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WowzerzzWow/r/Divorce_Men01/07/19 01:08 PM
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This sounds a bit fictitious. If you’re LITERALLY saying the marriage is ending because of the size of your penis (I only read half of your post because I eye rolled so hard) then you have some real issues that aren’t as superfluous as this. That being said, hire a lawyer and go into porn or something.
/r/Divorce_Men28/01/21 01:53 AM
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Good god. Get your own. Even “amicable” starts go south real quick when divvying up money, assets and support are involved.
/r/Divorce_Men23/01/21 09:51 PM
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Mods must be sleeping
/r/Divorce_Men23/01/21 11:44 AM
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Are you a judge?
/r/Divorce_Men23/01/21 05:37 AM
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Unless you’ve got some Uber lawyer that can beat anything in court, you should know that you’ll always loose. Maybe if you have irrefutable proof you can fight it. If not then suck it up and stop the “he said, she said,” fuck fuck games.
/r/Divorce_Men23/01/21 05:32 AM
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To be honest... I would just pull all of the cash from that account. You may think she’s being cordial now but when the time comes it’ll be the house and your assets she’ll be after next.
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/21 11:13 AM
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Consult with a lawyer. That’s always your best bet. My own opinion (and I am NOT a lawyer, just a divorcee with kids) is she gets the money that she gets and she has to make that work. Anything above and beyond is to your discretion. You can’t wring blood from a stone.
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/21 10:24 PM
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Do you pay child support? If so, she can pull the payments from there. Unless there’s a court order saying you must pay MORE than CS or alimony, fuck her.
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/21 10:19 PM
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She’s not your daughter. You don’t owe support. Her father owes support. Don’t even let her think that she’s going to get child support from you.
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/21 10:44 PM
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Yep. Took some time. But, i spent a while getting to know myself, acting like a manwhore, and hitting a lot of lows and highs. Now i'm happily remarried to a fantastic woman with a new lil munchkin.
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/20 10:36 PM
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If only the state would pay you interest on the money you’ve essentially loaned out...
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/20 03:27 PM
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Honestly... check in with your case worker and consult a lawyer. My terrible, shitty, awful internet advice: unless it’s coming out of your check, stop payments. Just don’t send them in. Your work usually does it as a courtesy. I pay for mine monthly with a mail in check and circumvent having the state stick their nose in my shit. I’d follow my first piece of advice before the nuclear option though.
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/20 05:43 AM
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There we go. This makes more sense. First... your lawyer fucked you. What was her basis for abuse? I can’t see it going far unless there’s irrefutable proof (and if you do abuse but are looking for sympathy points via the internet, fuck you. I digress). Second... you make 100k. That 1840 makes more sense now ESPECIALLY if she’s not working. Realistically, if you can get the “abusive” thrown out, you can take primary custody or at least fight tooth and nail for it. Third... if she wants to slande…
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/20 03:49 AM
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If you don’t have kids or pay support (unless you’re a lawyer) your comment isn’t relevant.
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/20 06:57 PM
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There’s not enough information here. 1840 is an extraordinary amount to pay. I think key pieces of this story are missing.
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/20 05:42 PM
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When I separated and divorced, I had that same feeling. Is it missing her or is it missing just normality? That’s the question you should be searching for an answer to. Most of the time it’s the hardest thing to loose. The relationship is over. It ended for a reason (for better or worse). My advice... find your new normal. Don’t try replace it with relationships. Enjoy time as a single man.
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/20 04:24 AM
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She argued because you were helping the kids? Ummm...
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/20 11:52 PM
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If the wife does it she’s “escaping.” If a man does it he’s “kidnapping.” (Granted, I do not want to demean women who leave abusive relationships.)
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/20 10:21 AM
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There’s way too much to unpack here...
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/20 01:24 AM
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Psycho bitches will always be psycho bitches. And the courts will always love them. The best you can do is continue to be a good dad in whatever capacity you can. Kids know. Big thing. DO NOT stoop to her level. If you talk negatively about the ex to the kids, you’ve lost.
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/20 02:44 PM
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Just remember... the system will always be in favor of the mother. Unless you can prove that she's an unfit mother (and if she isn't, scarring the children for life) then she'll be the custodial parent and you'll have to pay for support. Even if it's "50/50." Like anything on this subreddit, i will always mention that you NEED to speak to a lawyer and not just random internet person.
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/20 09:08 PM
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Holy shit... I thought I was the only one. My ex was a cluttered mess. I was always neat and orderly. My wife (I remarried) is just like me.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/20 03:05 AM
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First... you need to breathe. You’re not coming across as someone who has it together. Second... I’m not a lawyer. I’m a divorcee who hit rock bottom and pulled himself up from it. Third... I’m not going to offer any advice (specifically legal advice) besides the advice I’ve already given. You asked if you should go back. No. That ship has sailed. Move on, keep you head up, and don’t let this shit ruin you. Good luck.
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/20 02:15 AM
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No.
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/20 01:54 AM
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Sometimes pride is its own reward. Don’t expect a thank you for anything. That’s just naïveté.
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/20 04:00 AM
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Alimony is a fucking joke. A full handful of salt in a wound. People who push for it are lazy as dog shit and deserve to catch the Coronavirus.
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/20 03:06 AM
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Hey Jodi boy! Rough, tough Jodi boy! Jodi boys a real cool cat! Till I beat him with my baseball bat. Fuck her dude... your better off without her.
/r/Divorce_Men08/02/20 09:49 PM
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My ex did the same. She spoils my boys and I refuse to. They’re both getting to the age where they can decide to live with whomever. But, I’m sure that my son won’t because of all the shit he gets from my ex (and her mom.) Don’t let it get to you. Stay in their lives as much as possible.
/r/Divorce_Men28/01/20 02:23 AM
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Sucks to suck. She wanted the car. She fucked it up. Give her the money, tell her to be on her merry way and enjoy your life.
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/19 05:21 PM
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I don’t mean to sound insensitive, but why would you marry someone if the sex is just “meh?” It’s an important factor for intimacy in a relationship. I understand some religions say, “no sex before marriage,” etc... I tend to believe that viewpoint is becoming antiquated. Also, do you openly talk about sex? Or is it just an action? Talking about sex and the things you both like is a major factor in boring sex vs great sex.
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/19 12:38 AM
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Dude... what?! She cheated and you forgave her. Tbh, she sounds terrible. Good riddance. Grow a spine and move on. Stop paying her damn bills too! Yes, you shouldn’t have cheated but neither should she. And, you should’ve ended it at that point. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and get your shit straight. -from on divorced dude who got on the right track
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/19 03:47 AM
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Yea... keep it to yourself. If I’m not allowed to know what my ex does with my money, I’m not going to tell her how much I currently make.
/r/Divorce_Men30/07/19 08:31 PM
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Yes. You need to move on. If you continue on this track, it’s going to spiral out of control. The best thing you can do is A: cut all emotional ties with your ex B: focus solely on your child C: keep emotion out of every conversation and maintain your composure. If you can’t keep all that straight, she’ll completely fuck you in court. Time to move on. That “perfect life” will be waiting for you farther down the road. Best of luck!
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/19 02:03 AM
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Such is life. Like it says, talk to a lawyer. Once again... Make sure you can document everything. That'll help you out in the long run.
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/19 03:12 PM
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Not sure what state you're in but most of that is going to be looked at as purely anecdotal. Unless you have proof to back it up. I'm no lawyer but i've gone through the divorce process and let me tell you that you'll be fighting an uphill battle because the laws favor the mother. If you can prove that she's unfit to be a mother, than that's where your fight will be. You'll just need to deal with the ramifications of that. From here on out, just make sure to document EVERYTHING. Make sure everyt…
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/19 01:47 PM
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I think it's about years and years of things that have been left unsaid. You've come to the point that there are (in his eyes) no consequences because the one thing that could happen from saying something wrong, has happened. So, the floodgates have opened. Realistically, marriages aren't one sided. They fail because of smaller sums leading up to a bigger whole. Odds are, your emotional response is going to be very different than his. Like it's been said here already, you're probably just seeing…
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/19 02:28 PM
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Interesting. I wonder if this'll actually pass and the task force will be formed. I'd love for them to address the inequality in parenting abilities of the father and mother. Instead of consistently siding with the mother it'd be nice to see the father come out ahead.
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/19 04:38 PM
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What would the divorce task force do exactly?
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/19 04:26 PM
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Do not be that guy. Please. Your kids will see through everything and then emulate it in the future. If you can’t make it work, then man up and end it.
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/19 02:17 AM
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No it won't. If you can reconcile, do so. If not, then what happens, happens. You'll be ok and it's going to be shitty for a while, but life will move on. Keep your head up and don't be a defeatist. Best of luck.
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/19 02:50 PM
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I wish i had been given this advice when i was going through my divorce. I was told to "Suck it up. The man always looses. You just need to make sure that you're conscientious of how you win while loosing."
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/19 05:23 PM
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This is really sneaky and deceitful. I love it! lol...
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/19 04:36 PM
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Is this the first lawyer you've had? If they're telling you that, i'd swap to someone else. If you're making 90k a year, you can afford to shop around.
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/19 11:51 AM
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Did i read $20k/month correctly?!
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/19 02:54 PM
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Suicide is NEVER an option. You need to think about your kids. Things fall apart. It happens. And, it takes two people to make it happen. Don't place all the blame on yourself. Just keep your head up. Things will be real shitty for a while, then they get better. Accepting defeat before you've even begun to fight shouldn't be an option. Good Luck!
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/19 12:59 PM
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Fight. Don't give up and don't give an inch. The courts hate men. Make sure you look as good as you possibly can. If you want those kids, then you're gonna have to fight hard.
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/19 04:27 PM
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Go to counseling. Get him to talk. Maybe he's saying things you want to hear rather than his own opinions. Idk. Noone knows your marriage besides the two of you. Good Luck.
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/19 04:20 PM
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You never fail alone. Don't forget that. It takes two people to make this work. That's the biggest thing i learned when my first marriage fell apart. We both weren't getting what we needed. We just never discussed it. And, yes. It's gonna suck. You're gonna go through a lot of hard times, but you'll figure it all out and if you do it right, you get stronger. Start working on yourself. Maybe do some crazy shit. Or maybe play some video games till your eyes bleed. Whatever you need to do to make t…
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/19 03:13 PM
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It's the money they give your caseworker to buy their lunch with....
/r/Divorce_Men01/07/19 05:30 PM
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That's ridiculous.
/r/Divorce_Men01/07/19 05:09 PM
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I wonder if that's flipped for my ex wife? I can deal with the fee if it's the same on her side. She barely works. Takes 2 vacations that she "saves up" for a year. Maybe a fee for her to access the child support is worth it on my end.
/r/Divorce_Men01/07/19 03:12 PM
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