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| 0 | How to get back exgirlfriend - weird situation | Outer Game | Writerro | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 07:50 PM |
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| 1 | Ever used the 'Pattern Interrupt'?Thanks! Now I get it | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Ever used the 'Pattern Interrupt'?once was talking to a retired TWA 747 pilot who retired with a single-digit seniority number. The guy had “receipts”. What does it mean? I dont understand the lingo here, English is not my first language | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Where would i find a rich millionaire woman?I did not said that such things are not going on. Like I wrote: Of course people are doing illogical things, but chances are low. The chances are just lower, low. Especially if you are with lower social status, since you are a new worker, not rich. And she is someone on high position, if she is supposed to be rich. If it's just a short lived romance where social position is less important, then she will not spoil you. | /r/seduction | 22/06/26 08:30 AM |
| 2 | Where would i find a rich millionaire woman?No single wealthy woman, who have some IQ, will start a romance with someone who works in her company. That's bad outlook. Of course people are doing illogical things, but chances are low. | /r/seduction | 22/06/26 07:50 AM |
| 3 | Where would i find a rich millionaire woman?And so, millionaires like that are not gonna "spoil" you, lol. The OP clearly describe multimillioner/old money, if he wants to be spoiled, lol. | /r/seduction | 22/06/26 07:48 AM |
| 1 | Was I too direct?Yeah, and replying with "you are cute too" would still be a numbers game, but with much much much higher chances 🤣 | /r/seduction | 21/06/26 05:28 PM |
| 1 | How to Smash as Soon as You Meet HerYeah, sure. Sorry for being judgemental I was just thinking out loud. | /r/seduction | 20/06/26 12:10 PM |
| 2 | How to Smash as Soon as You Meet HerPeople really find it pleasurable to fuck some stranger in... the alley? Like, standing in the alley? Probably with a lot of clothes still on, where is the enjoyment of caressing the naked body, WTF. How desperate you are to rush things like that? Where is the value of such sex? Probably only to attain an orgasm in vagina and to get adrenaline rush? Mehh. | /r/seduction | 20/06/26 08:59 AM |
| 1 | My girlfriend accused me of cheating.Women are naturally selective and usually want one man in their lives, whereas men's desires are much stronger and cannot be fully satisfied Cheating justification with some "bro science" evolutionary bullshit 🤡 Same argument could be crafted for cheating women. Its your problem if your desires cant be satisfied by one woman. Some hoes also have this issue and cheat on their man, because her desires cant be fulfilled by one man. As I said - get on with consequences. Either you want long term rel… | /r/seduction | 14/06/26 09:05 PM |
| 1 | My girlfriend accused me of cheating.You cheated or not. Get real with consequences of your actions. "I was practicing with other girls to be better for my gf" is crazy take man, clown take I would even say. Jesus christ, imagine being in relationship with a girl who "practice" with other guys and says that's why I am a better girlfriend for my man. Vomit-inducing statement. | /r/seduction | 14/06/26 08:52 PM |
| 3 | My girlfriend accused me of cheating.Hahaha. I thought it's a comedy post? I am reading it reading, and then suddenly "I am actually cheating on her". I blinked and made sure I read it correctly. Lol. | /r/seduction | 14/06/26 08:42 PM |
| 7 | you think when girls go on a trip they're getting smashedWhat stunt? Go on Holidays planned before she met him? | /r/seduction | 13/12/25 10:53 AM |
| 2 | Is it common for competent women to go after submissive guys?If you would be strong, then it would not bother you. I mean mentally strong and just doing your thing. Being confident just for the sake of it, because you are confident. Not because you pretend to be confident to get something out of it. I don't give a fuck about situations like one described by OP. I have been wondering a few times when I noticed couples like this, but out of curiosity. Good for those guys. I can meet amazing woman easily. If some "spineless" guy can meet one too, then good, … | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 10:12 AM |
| 1 | 10 tips to get women from womenbut don't make yourself TOO available and ask more questions initially than you answer Should I ask more questions than I answer, or I should not? Its not clear for me :D I assume that I should ask more, rather then answer about myself, because I want to get to know her better but at the same time be a little bit mysterious? | /r/seduction | 11/06/25 05:46 AM |
| 4 | With rising anti-men sentiment, how can we game in a way that does not add to the negative stereotypes?Give me a data saying that women are going celibate because of some men being monsters. When you have been lumped up with the rapists and fuckboys? Because I never felt that way. How do we prove to women that we arent their worst assumptions of us? I dont have to prove anything to nobody. How do you prove to the shop worker that you are not a thief and just want to buy things? What a shit mentality. | /r/seduction | 22/09/24 07:08 AM |
| 11 | Family treating you different after learning seduction?I dont understand the exchange between you and the father. What does it mean that he said "it's because you're wrong in my mind then"? What does it mean when he said "because I'am right right?"? You write quite chaotically. | /r/seduction | 13/09/24 12:47 PM |
| 1 | How to get back exgirlfriend - weird situationI mean what could be done at that time when there was still a chance? | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 10:49 PM |
| 1 | How to get back exgirlfriend - weird situationOkay, but at that moment when I still had a chance - what was I supposed to do? | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 10:07 PM |
| 0 | How to get back exgirlfriend - weird situationDont you think that it would be unattractive to do that? Showing that I am needy. If there would a second meeting maybe there is still a chance? How would I shot my shot? Flirt with her? Be sttaightforward about coming back together? | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 10:01 PM |
| 0 | How to get back exgirlfriend - weird situationOkay, so maybe its not worth to porsue her. She is not even pretty. In other comments you wrote about being good with women, self respect, knowing things that are outside of my awareness. What would you recommend to do/read to change myself so in the future if situation like this would come up with some ex, I would just laugh it off and let her go? How to work on myself with regards of dealing with women like that? | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 09:36 PM |
| 1 | How to get back exgirlfriend - weird situationLets say that in my place there would be a self-respecting high value guy. Guy with awareness of things that I am not aware of because I am quite "vanillia" with dating. He would also do nothing if he would see that she doesnt want him? What if he would bet with a friend that she could win her. What he would do? Ofc it might be impossible for me since I dont have skills and mentality of someone who is a "player" with high self esteem and respect, but I am just curious. | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 09:34 PM |
| 1 | How to get back exgirlfriend - weird situationOkay, you would let it go. BUT if it would be a challenge for you to get back to her what would you do? You seem like experienced guy :) I know about my clinginess. That's why I am not making any move with her. Not proposing next meeting, nothing right now cause I wonder if I could do something that would give me a shot with her. Like I said, some ballsy move that guys like me do not do. | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 09:31 PM |
| 1 | How to get back exgirlfriend - weird situationPlease elaborate. Because someone who is good with women would not brag about it? | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 09:28 PM |
| 1 | How to get back exgirlfriend - weird situationEven the fact that you think sleeping with a woman means you're good with women, shows your level. I do not think that. But I think that it means I am not completely bad with women. So she knows you're not one of them because she has been with you in a relationship. You're the comfort guy, the nice guy, the person she can rely on. But she also deals with guys on another level. Those guys obviously won't date her - that's when you come in. She told me that "I have changed a lot since then, for th… | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 09:23 PM |
| 1 | How to get back exgirlfriend - weird situationYeah, sister and a brother. But she is not in touch with sister very well. More with brother and brother's girlfriend. | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 09:20 PM |
| 1 | How to get back exgirlfriend - weird situationTbh I dont know any of her female friends. She is not very outgoing person, rather family centered. So it will be hard to do that. | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 09:14 PM |
| 1 | How to get back exgirlfriend - weird situationHow can she know that I am not very good with women? Since breaking up with her I had numerous flings from Tinder and 3 relationships. While I never compromised on girls looks. So I am not completely "bad with women". You sound like you are trying hard to be right. It doesnt fit 100% this situation. I think she just wanted a closure maybe after all these years since we never broke up properly and she was just curious how I am doing. | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 09:14 PM |
| 2 | How to get back exgirlfriend - weird situationThanks for sharing this! The thing is, we are not very young. I am 30 and she is 28. But I guess I do need to tread lightly. | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 09:12 PM |
| -1 | How to get back exgirlfriend - weird situationHow are you sure that it's zero? Why she would be saying to me that she changed, that she sees how I changed et cetera? | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 09:02 PM |
| 1 | How to get back exgirlfriend - weird situationBTW guys, do you think that friendzoning her instead would be a powermove? Let's say I would write to her something like "oh, you knew me years ago, maybe you could give me a advice because I found someone hot and got a number. Did I look good in shirts back in the days or sweaters were better on me? Wondering what I should wear" Is self-bragging good idea? Probably it can blow up in my face if I wont be careful and she will feel that I try to brag. But it's not a lie, I dont have problems with … | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 08:49 PM |
| 1 | How to get back exgirlfriend - weird situationYeah, I know that I need to stop having this mindset that I want her. And you're right, I idealized her for years. I have been with different women over these 4 years. But right now I want to give it a second go with her. I believe it could work. We both are aware of what went wrong. I was shocked how aware she is what were her mistakes, and I am aware of mine. Your advice is wholesome, but right now I am looking for advice on how to maximize chances with her, instead of "forget about her". I li… | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 08:20 PM |
| 1 | How did game change from 2005 to 2020?Tell what? I am curious, as an outside observer (not an OP, not a PUA). | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 12:00 PM |
| -1 | How to deal with shit tests about age differences ?Almost twice of age? If a girl is in her 20s, she can be lets say 24 yo. 24*2=48. 38 is not "almost" 48. And given the fact that most people really start living and experiencing life after 17-18 years of age you have ten times more life experience than them Ten times? If a girl is 24, according to you she have 6 years of "experience" starting at 18. 10 times 6 is 60. WTF? I am not arguing the point, it's just that your numbers are not numbering. | /r/seduction | 02/05/24 06:23 AM |
| 1 | Boyfriend not having sexPerhaps he is stressed to perform well? That's why sometimes he might be avoiding sex. | /r/seduction | 25/04/24 10:10 AM |
| 5 | I had a unexpeted hook up and I feel bad about itI have something similar. It's not natural for me to just hookup, and then no further connection between us. I kind of feel bad the day after, like anxiety or minor depression? It's much better to have sex with someone that you feel the connection beforehand and keep in touch afterwards. Dunno why it is happening, perhaps it's hard to disconnect sex from personal connection. | /r/seduction | 22/04/24 01:59 PM |
| 2 | How do you respond to the common shit test of “Well you (or I) do/did it, why can’t/ don’t you?” 🥺Why you dont want to send selfie, afraid that you're ugly? If you dont reciprocate how do you expect the flirting to continue? Yes be playful etc whatever But what EXACTLY do I say? When you will be flirting with girl, you will say "hold on, I need to check on the internet what EXACTLY to tell you"? You said it yourself, be playful. If you will not learn to be playful then reading on reddit "what exactly to say" will not help you. It will hurt you and make you "rigid" because you will not be tal… | /r/seduction | 22/04/24 06:48 AM |
| – | Why does society condition men to be beta males instead of alpha males?modern society as well as internal conditioning has cowed them into submission Tyler's definition of what it means to be a man and what it means to be free are just as arbitrary and self-destructive as what he believes are society's definition of success/celebrity/status and every bit as harmful when treated as the way to measure your own worth. So in other words, hero of that book went from one toxic thing - doing what society told him to do to be successfull, manly etc, into other toxic thing … | /r/seduction | 25/12/17 10:16 PM |
| – | Why does society condition men to be beta males instead of alpha males?What you would call here that is "taking it too literal" and how should it be taken instead? I read a book and watched a movie, but some time ago, and not sure if I understood it right. Maybe I also took it too literaly. | /r/seduction | 25/12/17 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Why does society condition men to be beta males instead of alpha males?Thanks for adding this to the conversation, it's quite important. Also right, it is a myth that high testosterone will always make you more aggressive, I omitted that in my thinking. | /r/seduction | 25/12/17 09:16 PM |
| – | Why does society condition men to be beta males instead of alpha males?Fixed URL: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k757dFxysOI Yours sent me to "my youtube" page. | /r/seduction | 25/12/17 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Why does society condition men to be beta males instead of alpha males?Im thinking mainly of the educational system and how boys and girls have a very different trajectory. One of the things I've seen a lot in my time in school is a constant antagonism against troubled boys, which is understandable, but doesn't lift anyone up. It doesn't address troubled homes or the roots of violent behavior. Rather, it seems to simply perpetuate it. It's like imprisoning criminals but never addressing the origins of crime, and still hoping for things to turn out fine. Meanwhile, … | /r/seduction | 25/12/17 08:07 PM |
| – | Why does society condition men to be beta males instead of alpha males?Boys are, essentially, coerced to comply in many situations, and learn that their voice doesn't matter to a whole lot of people - specially adults. This can lead to several different reactions, but typically leads to boys growing up to seclude their feelings and to either toughen up or grow insecure. Usually the latter. Could you give some example? This sounds interesting, but how society is teaching the boys that their words doesn't matter and why it is not also the case for girls? Some example… | /r/seduction | 25/12/17 06:58 PM |
| – | Why does society condition men to be beta males instead of alpha males?Why does society condition men to be beta males instead of alpha males? Does it do that? I don't know, but assuming that you're right and it does, two options come to my mind: That it's because of dominance hierarchy. Maybe by definition alpha males are not so many, and beta males are common? You need to have guts to rise above beta and be alpha? Beta is "default state". What u/luaudesign wrote: Human society is a pyramid. It conditions everyone to fit in its chosen shape. The base is much large… | /r/seduction | 25/12/17 06:45 PM |
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