| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 9 | What do members of FDS think of the idea of love at first sight?I believe in horny at first sight ... love? No | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 11:52 PM |
| 84 | The absolute audacity of some of these men. Could you imagine telling your partner that you are taking a three month break from being a spouse and a parent?Oh fuck no. I literally have no words!!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/22 05:21 PM |
| 44 | I should dump himYou’re in medical school? Sheeeeesshhh. Any guy would be lucky to have someone as smart as you. Leave him in the dust | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 12:42 AM |
| 14 | Dating in NYC is just 1 huge game of "choose your LVM"If it comes down to that, It’s very easy to say “I’ll pay for mine, you pay for yours” and that’s it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 02:58 PM |
| 47 | mAyBe hE’s JUsT tOo dEpReSsEd tO wIpEOh my god.... how and why is she still with him?!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 08:58 PM |
| 2 | I'm juat gonna leave this hereI don’t even consider that a suit lmaooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 03:18 PM |
| 14 | The projection is palpable; I've spent quarantine fixing my skin, working out, and taking college courses. Ya'll?“Dusties” thank you for that new word hahahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 12:40 AM |
| 2 | The projection is palpable; I've spent quarantine fixing my skin, working out, and taking college courses. Ya'll?Hmmm I did A LOT of relaxing, did not deal with fuck boys, barely went in the sunlight, did extra online classes, and smoked some 🍁 so I think I prevented some wrinkles during Covid TBH. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 12:39 AM |
| 98 | I'm juat gonna leave this hereHe is an incel. All his videos are so bad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 03:54 PM |
| 8 | 2021 - is my year of celibacyI got mine from Spencer’s and it works perfectly! My next one might be from bellesa | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 06:03 PM |
| 35 | 2021 - is my year of celibacyYes girl!! Today is officially one entire year that I’ve gone without having sex. I’ve grown so much. Dating is so much easier. My mind is clear and I walk away from men who don’t suit me. Love my vibrator | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 05:47 PM |
| 2 | My latest match on hinge.. I have no words. I have never encountered something like thisThank you!! ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 07:04 AM |
| 1 | My latest match on hinge.. I have no words. I have never encountered something like thisIs it really all this bad? )-: | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 06:15 AM |
| 5 | My latest match on hinge.. I have no words. I have never encountered something like thisI’m not tryna be defensive, His message to me was flat out weird!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 05:16 AM |
| 3 | My latest match on hinge.. I have no words. I have never encountered something like thisHahahaha RIGHT | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 05:15 AM |
| 10 | My latest match on hinge.. I have no words. I have never encountered something like thisWay too many LVM traits exposed in his one message | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 05:14 AM |
| 11 | My latest match on hinge.. I have no words. I have never encountered something like thisYeah I just blocked him. I wanted fo reply with something but I didn’t 😂😂 had to take screen shots for evidence | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 03:02 AM |
| 13 | My latest match on hinge.. I have no words. I have never encountered something like thisExactlyyyy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 12:28 AM |
| 58 | My latest match on hinge.. I have no words. I have never encountered something like thisI have to wonder if this shit actually works on some women? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 12:11 AM |
| 14 | My latest match on hinge.. I have no words. I have never encountered something like thisLMAO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 12:10 AM |
| 261 | My latest match on hinge.. I have no words. I have never encountered something like thisMy name is crystal so.... he misspelled my name as well lmao. What do y’all think is the most LVM thing he said on there if you had to rank? 🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Dating the way the older generations did?Btw I’m so sorry you had to go through that. Those people were awful... literally drilling you and calling you insecure. I’m glad you’re back here!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 12:54 AM |
| 2 | Dating the way the older generations did?Bc they probably do it themselves and don’t know what respecting a relationship means. The thing is, if the roles were switched, he wouldn’t let this fly either. It’s extremely inappropriate to continue a friendship with someone where there were feelings ESPECIALLY if you’ve communicated how you feel about it. If the behavior doesn’t change, then you gotta respect yourself and leave since he can’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 12:53 AM |
| 5 | Dating the way the older generations did?Read some of your posts and part of FDS is listening to your gut when it’s telling you something bc most of the time, WE’RE RIGHT. If there’s nothing going on between him and that girl, why did he get so upset when you showed up at the store and saw him talking to her? That’s not a very nice welcome /-: it probably embarrassed you! If nothing is going on, why did he act like he was caught in the act? I think you deserve better and I think you know it too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Men are so gross!! This is my ex’s coworker. I didn’t even know he had my number. He said he wanted nothing but then proceeded to ask me to come over 5 min later as if I would’ve been like “omg yes I thought you’d never ask! On my way!!!!!” Entire convo last 10 min. The audacity.Exactly my feelings!! I was a lil sad bc it sucks thinking how low he must view me to think that’s all it would take! But I know it isn’t me, it’s him! He sucks and he’s cocky af. I left him on read and knowing him, it definitely bruised his ego. I’m 99% sure he won’t show his face at my restaurant ever again to avoid embarrassment. Just like my ex 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Men are so gross!! This is my ex’s coworker. I didn’t even know he had my number. He said he wanted nothing but then proceeded to ask me to come over 5 min later as if I would’ve been like “omg yes I thought you’d never ask! On my way!!!!!” Entire convo last 10 min. The audacity.I bartend at a restaurant next door to his workplace (Toyota) so my ex and his co workers would come in all the time to drink after their shift ended. They still come sometimes without my ex. I went to a company Christmas party with them last year as my exes date and we all got lit together so we are definitely acquaintances and know each other. I bantered back bc he aways overtips me and I always appreciate it. I was curious to see what he wanted. But he definitely disappointed the fuck outta m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 11:03 PM |
| 64 | You don't even have to try to weed them out on OLD, you just breathe at them and they melt into incels mid-conversationDude I’m so confused! And men say women jump to conclusions 😳😳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 08:51 AM |
| 4 | "Ultimatum" and a Culture of Boundary-ShamingDefinitely not begging. I think everyone should communicate their needs and if things aren’t changing then it’s time to go. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 05:58 PM |
| 16 | Scrotes are so fucking dumb and obsessed with humbling women and uplifting their own. Who looks at this goddess and thinks yea she looks around the same as him 😂😂 what idiotsshe looks so freaking beautiful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 02:14 AM |
| 86 | "Ultimatum" and a Culture of Boundary-ShamingUltimatums are 100% necessary and anybody who disagrees with them are just looking for excuses to stay in a shitty relationship. If we are dating and you continue to disappoint me and refuse to grow with me, I AM leaving you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Can men stop deflecting and lying about their height when they realise I'm taller than them?Because men think we’re dumb!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 08:48 PM |
| 2 | My coworker y’all 🤮🤮🤮He’s trash lmfao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 10:28 AM |
| 2 | My coworker y’all 🤮🤮🤮I KNOOWW their relationship is shit. Together for 3 years and no signs of a marriage, she’s cleaning shit off the carpet while he says thank you and to her that’s good enough for an appreciation post lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 10:28 AM |
| 33 | Can men stop deflecting and lying about their height when they realise I'm taller than them?Lmao dead | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 10:28 PM |
| 34 | Can men stop deflecting and lying about their height when they realise I'm taller than them?BRO YES | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 10:27 PM |
| 55 | Can men stop deflecting and lying about their height when they realise I'm taller than them?MEN ALWAYS LIE ABOUT THEIR HEIGHT. Had a guy say he was 5’7 on a dating app... we met at dinner and he was already there waiting for me (I was meeting him after work). After the date, we stood up and he was eye level to me. I’m 5’1. Goodbye | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 10:26 PM |
| 3 | My coworker y’all 🤮🤮🤮It’s a trend where pickmeishas buy their boyfriends ps5s to prove that they are the best GF and wife material | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 02:33 AM |
| 8 | My coworker y’all 🤮🤮🤮Its so sad dude. I don’t think he’s ever going to propose | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 07:35 PM |
| 11 | My coworker y’all 🤮🤮🤮Dude. No. That’s fucking horrible. WHY ARE MEN LIKE THIS!!!! I never even thought of that possibility | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 06:45 PM |
| 7 | My coworker y’all 🤮🤮🤮Omg hahahah | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 06:40 PM |
| 11 | My coworker y’all 🤮🤮🤮I know I played it down a bit 🥴 she tried sabotaging my job bc I gave her constructive criticism one day (her lack of effort caused me to do more work and that didn’t fly with me since we were getting paid the same.) Wasn’t personal at all. Hopefully one day she gets a wake up call ... hopefully it isn’t when he leaves her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 06:38 PM |
| 2 | My coworker y’all 🤮🤮🤮Yep.... together for 3 years too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 06:34 PM |
| 4 | My coworker y’all 🤮🤮🤮The post was supposed to be an appreciation post... lmfao she posted nothing about what he has to offer! It’s contradicting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 06:34 PM |
| 11 | My coworker y’all 🤮🤮🤮I think it’s insane lol. She talks about that a lot too. Trying to get pregnant | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 06:33 PM |
| 30 | My coworker y’all 🤮🤮🤮LOL ME TOO!! I was expecting some amazing thing he did. I don’t like her but I was seriously rooting for her and hoping that her boyfriend was great since she constantly talks about getting him the ps5 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 05:48 PM |
| 8 | My coworker y’all 🤮🤮🤮He doesn’t post about her on his page so yeah I think you’re probably right! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 05:47 PM |
| 49 | My coworker y’all 🤮🤮🤮He doesn’t like or comment on any posts she makes but he likes and comments on posts that his friends tag him in. I peeped his page to see if the energy was reciprocated and nope lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 05:46 PM |
| 24 | My coworker y’all 🤮🤮🤮He is a gsmer! If you click the pic, her post after that was about her trying to buy the ps5..... she has made like 5 posts about how she’s gonna get him the ps5. But would he ever spend $500-600 on her? Probably not | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 05:45 PM |
| 50 | My coworker y’all 🤮🤮🤮She told our boss I was drinking on the job (she took my cup and gave it to him) , I got suspended and investigated and I was NOT drinking on the job. I was able to come back. I still smile and say hi at her at work. I’m transferring back to my hometown site very soon so she will just be a lame memory. Thank you for your response and caring! 😊❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 05:01 PM |
| 12 | My coworker y’all 🤮🤮🤮Lmaoooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 04:25 PM |
| 86 | My coworker y’all 🤮🤮🤮Her background pic on her FB is a photo of just him. Only him. 💀 she needs an intervention ASAP but unfortunately I ain’t helping her. She tried getting me fired!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 04:23 PM |
| 26 | My coworker y’all 🤮🤮🤮He’s a king and deserves a ps5 bc he says thank you and watches her do literally everything. And she will let everyone know too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 04:21 PM |
| 88 | My coworker y’all 🤮🤮🤮I feel bad too. But she’s kinda mean to me at work so 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 04:11 PM |
| 50 | My coworker y’all 🤮🤮🤮Lmao exactly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 03:52 PM |
| 59 | My coworker y’all 🤮🤮🤮Click the pic to see her boast to her followers how she’s buying him a ps5 for being “the best boyfriend ever” 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 03:51 PM |
| 23 | One of my friends just proposed to her 10 year boyfriend -LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 09:22 AM |
| 34 | One of my friends just proposed to her 10 year boyfriend -ME TOO LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 09:21 AM |
| 24 | He deleted his video afterwards.Men are so dumb and they think they are so smart | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 01:05 PM |
| 50 | Don't EVER buy the lie that gaming is a 'cheap hobby'EA snatches money like no tomorrow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 06:05 PM |
| 7 | Don't EVER buy the lie that gaming is a 'cheap hobby'Oh yeah hell yeah overtime it’s a lot hahaha. But I don’t add up all the $$ I’ve spent over time bc to me, it doesn’t matter. I have enjoyed every minute! So why feel bad about it?! It also hasn’t caused any issues with myself and my life. I’ve also had an income since I was 16. So If I spent $60 on a game one month, I made the $60 back the next shift and life goes on. I recently got the game pass on Xbox and it’s like $5 a month for hundreds of free games. That one is lit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 06:03 PM |
| 13 | Don't EVER buy the lie that gaming is a 'cheap hobby'Yeah that’s a lot but it was a one time payment of $400 and that’s it! It’s expensive to buy but the investment is worth it. If I barely played this thing or paid $400 monthly, then that would be a different story. I pay $60 once a year to play online which is extremely affordable. I also don’t have 200 games, I have like 4. There’s definitely a balance to gaming as a hobby. It can turn you broke if you buy every game/expansion pack/skins but there’s where the self Control comes in. Gaming is a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 05:53 PM |
| 28 | Don't EVER buy the lie that gaming is a 'cheap hobby'Animal crossing is so fun!!!!!!!!!!! Standee Valley is similar and it’s very fun too. It has a love story line to it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 05:37 PM |
| 11 | Don't EVER buy the lie that gaming is a 'cheap hobby'I have an Xbox one x! I bought it used 2 years ago for $400. I play almost daily at night when I’m done with school work / actual work so it was definitely worth it. switch out my controllers every few months for $5 bc I have the warranty 😁 I’ve been gaming since I was about 7-8. My parents got my sister and i into it! My sister streams on Twitch occasionally | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 05:34 PM |
| 39 | Don't EVER buy the lie that gaming is a 'cheap hobby'This!! Watch out for those priorities | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 05:26 PM |
| 23 | Don't EVER buy the lie that gaming is a 'cheap hobby'Gamer girl here! It think it depends on which games you are buying. I play cod and rocket league and they are definitely cheap. I bought the newest Cod about a year ago and it was $60 and i still play without having to buy anything else unless I want to get cool outfits for my character. Rocket league is free. FIFA is definitely is one of those games that suck all your money out. It really depends on the game. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 05:25 PM |
| 8 | Don’t forget to peep around his room a bit!Honestly its whatever lol. Like I said, I barely developed any feelings for the dude but he was really nice so I kept seeing him and thought eventually I would. I am dating other men who are just as nice and interested. I also know what I saw and regardless if that statistics books was harmless, the other 2 books were 100% ‘how to’s’ on successful lying | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 08:18 PM |
| 15 | Don’t forget to peep around his room a bit!Yeah I’m getting lots of messages in my inbox now ): a lot of mean things! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Don’t forget to peep around his room a bit!Ew!! Like why isn’t sex with us enough?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 05:21 PM |
| 26 | Don’t forget to peep around his room a bit!And that’s a fair perspective! I’ve thought about that too but honestly it’s been a month of us dating and I lowkey still had a guard up. Like something was preventing me from liking him and developing deeper feelings. I enjoyed his company a lot but I noticed it was taking a while to develop feelings and I didn’t know why. I think it was my gut trying to tell me something because I think I do have good intuition, but there was nothing to really back it up until I saw those books. He was a “too … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 05:19 PM |
| 8 | Don’t forget to peep around his room a bit!Exactly. Educational books like that stick with you... I am currently in a masters program for family therapy and I can’t stop diagnosing my family members 🤣 (as a joke) but yeah those skills stick with you forever | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 03:22 PM |
| 18 | Don’t forget to peep around his room a bit!His bathroom was spotless.. no bed sheets because they were “washing” The room was mostly tidy. I’m just thankful I stumbled upon those booke | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 03:17 PM |
| 35 | Don’t forget to peep around his room a bit!Thank you guys so much! After reading your responses about what to do next, I feel much more comfortable ghosting him. If I explained anything to him, he could use that to make him more sneakier in the future which would HELP him. He thinks we are going mini golfing next weekend 😬 skrrrrrrt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 03:15 PM |
| 29 | Don’t forget to peep around his room a bit!That’s true but yeah the other books were very questionable. I didn’t have much time to remember the other titles but the statistics title stood out to me a lot. The other book titles were also “how to” books on lying but the title was longer. Also now when I reflect on our conversations, I can’t help but think he was using these skills on me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 02:06 PM |
| 36 | Don’t forget to peep around his room a bit!I want to ghost him but I’m not sure how to go about this! I definitely don’t want to continue dating though I feel rubbed the wrong way. My ex was a huge manipulator and it took me a while to escape that so never again!! Part of me wants to give him an explanation though 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 01:59 PM |
| 26 | Don’t forget to peep around his room a bit!Thank you! Dang I’m sorry about that but I’m also really glad to hear you’re out of that!! Very cringe when men refer themselves as alpha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 01:57 PM |
| 12 | To answer your question, "Does FDS hate men?"We speak about LVW as well! Not just LVM haha they just mad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 09:29 PM |
| 5 | One crazy good trick for avoiding the desire to text back a man who is being crappy or giving mixed signals/an LVM...I used “fuck face loser ass” 😂😂😂😂 I love this thread | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 06:47 PM |
| 6 | Any ladies that dont drink, smoke or do drugs?So happy you’ve reflected and won’t allow yourself to act like someone you’re not in order to be accepted! You don’t need alcohol to have fun - always remember that!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 02:36 PM |
| 2 | 50/50?!Comical | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 02:29 PM |
| 8 | Any ladies that dont drink, smoke or do drugs?I smoke weed and drink alcohol! When I’m asked “what do you do for fun” I tell them things like cooking, soccer, and hanging with friends. I rarely ever disclose that I smoke weed until we get closer. I don’t mention drinking as something I do for fun either. If any guy thinks you’re boring because you don’t drink or smoke, move on. There are manyyyy things that can make you a fun person and drugs and alcohol ain’t it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 01:59 PM |
| 11 | This is what I had sent my ex husband after I found he cheated. My growth from then to now is in the commentsI have chills. So happy for you QUEEN 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 07:20 AM |
| 22 | Texting is a time suck, but guys would rather message back & forth for days than talk on the phone. NOTE: I should’ve ignored after his objection to the call. (Sharing as a learning opp to stop communication when sudden bad behavior emerges, no matter how promising it seemed before)Not really a “talk on the phone before meeting” type of guy? I have never heard of that one before. But I’m sure he would be the type to bang on the first date. Bye and Block! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 03:52 AM |
| 3 | LVM when they realize FDS was set to private temporarily for pre-scheduled maintenance and not because Reddit took the sub down. LOL YOU ACTUALLY THOUGHT!! 🖕🏻🖕🏻I thought I got banned! LMAO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Is A College Degree A Requirement?A degree is definitely not a requirement. Placing worth on a degree doesn’t sit right with me. Not everyone has the privilege to go to college. I think have passions and goals are far more important. My sister didn’t go to college and I definitely don’t think she’s LV | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 12:54 PM |
| 12 | "Where can you lead me? Not up."This made me so angry!! My responses to him would have been totally different lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 01:30 PM |
| 2 | I’m not a fan of time wasters and I wrote a poem that trolls them. Saying “hey” doesn’t do it for me. Get to the point or gtfo.A++++ poem! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 05:29 PM |
| 3 | I’m not a fan of time wasters and I wrote a poem that trolls them. Saying “hey” doesn’t do it for me. Get to the point or gtfo.A FUCKING PLUS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 05:28 PM |
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