The projection is palpable; I've spent quarantine fixing my skin, working out, and taking college courses. Ya'll?

jjlew922 · 2020-12-19T19:20:54+00:00

Someone needs to tell him it’s been over for him since 1998 when frosted tips went out of style.

frustratedmarxistfem · 2020-12-19T19:40:30+00:00

24 is an interesting choice. Most consider that the age one becomes an adult, wonder what that means for this guy 🤔🤔🤔

lvioletsnow · 2020-12-19T19:51:55+00:00

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LevelTurbulent · 2020-12-19T19:10:59+00:00

What is it they think is over for us? What plans did we have that are now foiled by our age?

24 was a long time ago for me. My life hasn't ended at all. I have no idea what this guy is on about. Am I supposed to feel sad that gross men I would never let touch me don't want to rape me anymore? Because that sounds like a win to me.

miphasgraceful · 2020-12-19T19:13:50+00:00

Imagine telling on yourself like that, for the whole world to see.

ShoshannaDreyfus · 2020-12-19T19:56:51+00:00

Damn I'm 25 now. Why didn't anyone tell me I'm dead?

sunologie · 2020-12-19T19:44:02+00:00

This is a lie meant to scare women, ignore it.

strainedcrow · 2020-12-19T19:47:54+00:00

The girls who haven't done much could just start a workout routine and change their eating habits...? Men really want you to feel worthless as a woman. Like 5 or 6 years into being an adult you're maybe ok but after that you're worthless because you can't pass as a barely legal 18 year old anymore. Pedo culture. When I was a little girl I specifically remember thinking nasolabial folds and under eye circles were part of being a beautiful WOMAN. I was curious when I would start looking like a woman and not a child. I always wanted to grow up to look like a WOMAN not like an overgrown 14 yr old.

Btw how much money has he made during quarantine? How much has he learned, how many articles or books has he read? How much porn has he watched lol???

SakuraGirl88 · 2020-12-19T19:26:34+00:00

Peak at 24? At 24 I was just graduating from college and starting first big girl job. I'm 30 now and I'm hitting my stride 😂. These dusties mad that I don't give them the time of day lol.

itsneverlupus94 · 2020-12-19T19:55:33+00:00

It’s always the ugly ones

CountingDownTheDays5 · 2020-12-19T19:45:41+00:00

To think some men believe that a woman is at her peak when her brain hasn't even fully developed. She is just getting the hang of adulthood, she is understanding herself and her body. Men like this are great. They tell on themselves so all the women (besides pick-mes) can stay clear. Thank you.

Ana_jp · 2020-12-19T20:25:03+00:00

I contributed 5 months of research to my network that is now being used to revamp university programs for fashion students across Canada. By March I’ll be publishing a sustainability manifesto for designers.

Oh, and I wrote a novel in a month.

I’m mastering the harp, coding, French, and I bought a fancy knitting machine which has been super fun.

Easily one of my most productive years. I’m having a blast decorating the condo I own (outright, no mortgage!) And I did not gain weight. I’m turning 30 in March and I’m still getting ID’d so those boys can just stfu 😆

Maude2010 · 2020-12-19T21:12:51+00:00

My life didn’t even start until I was 28. I was a student till then and focused on school. When I look at photos of myself from my late teens and early twenties I look like a bookish child. Sure, I was cute back then, the way kids are cute, but I was never called “beautiful” or “sexy”. That started at around 30 and hasn’t stopped. If I hit a “peak”, it was probably around 37.

lvioletsnow · 2020-12-19T19:04:45+00:00

This is a X-post from /r/badwomensanatomy.

I barely had time to start scrolling through the comments before it got pulled.

2020-12-19T20:24:15+00:00

Wish men like this would actually leave women over the age of 25 ALONE

Equipoisonous · 2020-12-19T19:40:17+00:00

I’ve been working with a personal trainer, increased my protein intake, and have PRed all my lifts by at least 10 pounds.

And I’m feeling SO much better about my natural face without makeup.

Otters-eating-tacos · 2020-12-19T20:00:20+00:00

Funny, I'm 24, and since lockdown started I hiked weekly, biked almost 900 miles since March, I home cooked everything I ate and even when I actually had COVID, I exercised every day while I was quarantined at home and recovering. And the best part is, my financial and career ducks are all in a row. My life has just begun, and will be over the day I hit the grave.

crazykitten27 · 2020-12-19T21:43:33+00:00

24 bitch you can't even rent a car at 24? but yeah definitely our peak. 🙄

2020-12-19T20:45:05+00:00

I'm 25, I'm past my peak, thank God. Since I'm no longer desirable. Scrotes don't want me, they won't touch me, I can finally live in peace🙏

eluriaeve · 2020-12-19T21:13:06+00:00

I’ve spent 2020 being chronically ill and fighting for my life, my mental health, and going to college. Men are still chasing after me. Admittedly LVM that have been blocked for acting foolish, but still. Oh and I just turned 39 the other day. 😅😅😅

This guy is a fucking clown. 🤡

KitKat1705 · 2020-12-19T19:16:33+00:00

Lol too bad people erased his face. We need to see what that incel looks like.

rightascensi0n · 2020-12-19T21:56:31+00:00

“The wall” = sour grapes + negging. They think that if they continually put us down then we’ll worship a guy that’s so generous to deign to recognize us, as if it’s anything special. Being desired =/= respected. 🤨

llii-- · 2020-12-19T20:57:33+00:00

Big words coming from someone that is already balding.

spoonxxm · 2020-12-19T20:39:51+00:00

I really wished that was the case... but males will never stop harassing women. I mean there’s a reason so many men are into „milfs“ lmao

romantickitty · 2020-12-19T21:26:29+00:00

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Melbournegeek · 2020-12-19T20:34:48+00:00

I've started a business making handmade natural soaps. His post reeks of self hatred which is very sad.

UnpeacefulLily · 2020-12-19T23:30:12+00:00

Anyone who calls women "females" is someone that you shouldn't even give the time of day.

throwmefaraway85 · 2020-12-19T21:04:52+00:00

I became a personal trainer and started my own fitness business, but good try 😂👏

Huntscunt · 2020-12-19T21:49:25+00:00

I'm in the best shape of my life and the happiest I've ever been. At 33. And things are only looking up! Lololol

Spicy-kitty · 2020-12-19T20:19:49+00:00

Wait, so he can telepathically see into millions of young women's home and watch what they're doing and just happens to know all of this information as true scientific facts?/s

berned-out · 2020-12-19T22:40:37+00:00

Oh yeah, women are gonna be SO UNFUCKABLE NOW. Man! Dick is hard enough to come by as it is, we'll never reproduce at this rate!

He's tryin' to convince somebody of something but I can't tell what.

Lagaceta2020 · 2020-12-19T23:13:49+00:00

HAVE YOU SEEN HOW SOME GUYS AGE????? PRETTY SHITTY 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Dude you're in for a surprise!!!!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

lvioletsnow · 2020-12-19T20:18:53+00:00

wots your skincare routine 💅

onceuponasea · 2020-12-19T21:38:33+00:00

I started a coaching program In the beginning of summer that is based on depth psychology and just graduated yesterday, was in school full time as well, joined two healing groups to work on my core wounds, up leveled my skincare routine, worked out 4 days a week, walked my dog twice every day, started cooking my own meals more, joined FDS.

What did my ex do? Play video games, jerked off to porn every day, ate like crap and barely left his moms basement.

Oh but wait he did tell me that he started doing push ups and sit ups between gaming sessions so as to not feel so guilty..so that counts right?!?

😂

throwaway23004345 · 2020-12-19T20:18:45+00:00

Since lockdown I’ve made a bff, got a pay raise and got a trainer to gain muscle. And what has he done? Oh yeah be a waste of space 😂

BigDebbie4ever · 2020-12-19T21:48:19+00:00

Such as dramatic rant from a scrote. 24... it's over? HaHAA

And who is he talking about? Did he look in everyone's windows and see them eating junk food all day? Weird guy

chasingastarl1ght · 2020-12-19T21:58:03+00:00

Lol what? If i look at my girl friends they all picked up new hobbies, upped their workout and been cooking like crazy. Skins all looking excellent cause we have time to do masks and never wear make up.

The boys? Videogames all day, lots of beer and take outs.

_mooness · 2020-12-19T22:51:15+00:00

Lost 10 pounds, finished my masters degree, landed an internship as a software engineer, and started my own non-profit business. Wbu scrote? Wtf did you do?

Haha, that’s a joke. You did nothing.

Oh Yeah! You fapped your shrimp dick into oblivion and got even balder 🤢

savagecarebear2 · 2020-12-19T22:58:31+00:00

Same lol best shape I’ve been in was peak quarantine. But that’s because most women actually focus on self improvement, while most men can barely manage a daily shower 🙄

NurseBubbleGum · 2020-12-19T22:12:29+00:00

Uhhh, he's got it turned around. Men hit their peak at 25. They stop growing mentally and start turning into fat, sloppy cave dwellers.

hakunnamatatamfs · 2020-12-19T22:30:23+00:00

Who cares about what they think 😂

complex_answer_22 · 2020-12-20T00:08:35+00:00

I saw this thread on Twitter and he's your average manlet gym bro. Has no neck and the package looks more like a packing peanut. 🙊

Don't listen to men like this, they're all projecting.

waddamelone · 2020-12-20T00:38:48+00:00

That hairline tho lmao. In 1 year men age 27 years with that ugly receding hairline.

devoushka · 2020-12-20T01:23:39+00:00

I got abs during quarantine 😊

chinchaslyth · 2020-12-20T02:42:58+00:00

Why did this make me lol so hard?! 🤣 I’m sure negging women on Twitter is gonna get you laid.

Fitncurly · 2020-12-19T22:25:31+00:00

Lol, let’s see I...

kept up my abs and physique (and got even better at pole dance)

amped up my skin and hair game (even made my own organic products)

booked and paid for my augmentation

countless leveling up in my professional and hobby goals (from learning tech programs to social media)

and I’m about to dye my hair

I’ve literally used the “downtime” to focus on me and level up into what’ll be a whole new woman shortly. My husband working from home was such a blessing because it afforded me the time to do all the things I wanted as he took over. These LVM are for SURE projecting their own failures.

QQueenie · 2020-12-19T23:46:28+00:00

I’ve been redecorating my house, learning Italian, fostering shelter dogs, and successfully baking sourdough. 🤷🏻‍♀️

purasangria · 2020-12-20T00:33:23+00:00

Lol. I started another business, so now I have 5 streams of income. Die mad, broke dudes.

yggiwtmiih · 2020-12-20T01:34:48+00:00

Imagine thinking a woman's only only goal in life is for wanting this random stranger to fuck them. 😂😂😂

Arcaii · 2020-12-20T03:47:08+00:00

First off, it's weird that men like this are over us the second we're not close to our childhood anymore. The closer we are to being children, the more attracted they are. Then when we turn into real adults rather than teens or "baby adults" around 25 when women are fully developed, they're just over it. It's creepy. I don't want a man who wants me looking as close to jail bait as possible. They're the kind of men you know were waiting for Maddie Ziegler and Billie Eilish to turn 18 so they can say what they were thinking probably when they were still 14, but couldn't.

Second, they think our lives revolve around men and also forget that most dudes date in their age range anyway. The myth that men only go for younger women is just that. A myth. Zoosk pulled data from 40 million users, men match with someone an average of 2 years younger even into old age.

It's over for us? Why because no mgtows will love us? Oh no, I guess I'll just buy a plane ticket and travel the world, reading some good books and hanging out on the beach enjoying my life and many hobbies..... but... without a boyfriend..... Wow, what a bummer, damn my life is gonna SUCK. No sexist male around to drain my life force and "remind" me that my entire existence is a rapidly depreciating asset. Just think of all the self loathing and anxiety I'll be missing out on...

Yeah this isn't the 1800s anymore it's really not as tragic for us as men think it is. Men are the ones who can't handle the mid-life crisis. They usually rebel like a fucking teenager. It definitely is projection, aging is harder for them. They don't have the emotional abilities to cope with it.

spicyspa · 2020-12-20T05:04:26+00:00

Now that is an interesting cope.

ivy176 · 2020-12-19T23:58:06+00:00

24 was 10 years ago for me and I'm still alive, just got married (2nd marriage) and working on pur house etc. Considering having a kid. I wasn't even fertile at 25, I went months without a period. I was the same weight I am now, did similar levels of exercise, my hormones just did not want to cooperate. Once I hit the "wall" according to them, all of a sudden I had a regular cycle for the first time in my life and have ever since for 4 years. The acne sucks though. It's not terrible but I'm more pimply now. It's like I went through fertility puberty at 30

Izzy4162305 · 2020-12-20T00:07:40+00:00

The joke is on him when he eventually realizes that as we hit our 30s and 40s, we get to our sexual peak. Meanwhile, he’s heading downhill by the time he hits 30. Good luck keeping up, little man.

saltedpretzel2 · 2020-12-20T00:08:46+00:00

Lol, if anything, I've lost weight in quarantine. But also, I get mistaken for being in my early 20's all the time, and I'm nearly 30. I have a male friend who is a year younger than me and easily looks 5 years older than me. What a joke.

sugaredberry · 2020-12-20T01:46:58+00:00

I see a jowl in this guys photo lmao

seekingcodingjedi · 2020-12-20T02:03:21+00:00

Why would a guy like that even think his opinion matters?

redwineandsolitude · 2020-12-20T03:51:55+00:00

The only thing that really ages us is men like him

MagnfiqueMaleficent · 2020-12-20T05:36:27+00:00

Using his logic, if all us women got old and fat and shit’s “over” for us, there are only a few 18-20 year olds left for ALL men to date. Hence, the competition to date those worthy 18-20 year-old women just went up exponentially for men. If they were struggling to find a woman before, now they’re really screwed. It sounds like it’s over for them, actually.

Equal-Ear2312 · 2020-12-20T11:26:04+00:00

"Females"... anyone who refers to women and girls as females and isn't involved in scientific research, brings zero value. This is either an incel, a redpiller, an MGTOW, or a men's rights proselyte. He spews trash because that's what he is.

Speaking in absolutes "It's over for them" and having zero research to back it up... I know a man who'll keep company to his left hand for the rest of his life when I see one.

2020-12-21T04:53:49+00:00

That's a lot of words for "I'm a pedophile"

wibble69 · 2020-12-20T00:27:29+00:00

I LOST 6kg during lockdown and my skin is better than ever thanks to less radiation and more sleep lmao just because this dude sat on his ass eating Cheetos and didn't wash for months doesn't mean we all did. Lockdown was great, gave me months of peace from other people. Makes me look forward to retiring one day when hopefully my life will just be gardening, baking and cute animals

2020-12-20T00:50:58+00:00

His face his covered. But I can tell he has a jelly bean shaped head and is overweight. And with the way he's talking i can guarantee his personality is as pleasant as a smelly fart.

overthinkersanon8 · 2020-12-20T00:53:43+00:00

I was a mess at 24. I’m way hotter, smarter, healthier, and richer now. I spent quarantine going on long walks for exercise, working, and getting my doctorate. Haven’t dealt with fomo at all. It’s been great.

PmMeYourFountainPens · 2020-12-20T01:37:04+00:00

Oh thank god. This must mean LVM are finally going to leave me alone now, right? Right??

MulticoloredCatMug · 2020-12-20T01:50:05+00:00

Oh no, I’m too old for some predatory scrote. How will I ever find fulfillment in life now?!?! It is indeed over for me...

(/s)

Rasaya87 · 2020-12-20T02:21:37+00:00

Such bullshit. I bet they never turned that introspection inward. Lol 😹😑

Mediocre_sinner · 2020-12-20T02:30:56+00:00

Oh no I’m 24!! Where’s this guys number? I better hit him up before I turn 25 soon and become worthless /s

HumanAdhesiveness360 · 2020-12-20T02:36:11+00:00

Lol!!! Peak at 24!!! Hahaha!!! Oh boy

BungalowBootieBitch · 2020-12-20T04:34:56+00:00

His tinder profile is probably set to women ages 18-18.5 years old 🙄

horrorqueen797 · 2020-12-20T04:45:27+00:00

Wow 24. I was so insecure and trying to figure things out at that age.

I had no idea who I was, where I was going or who I wanted to be.

At 31 I'm just starting to figure it out, own my power as a woman and come into my sexuality. I'm just starting to feel I have my shit together.

I'm sorry but what woman would give this piece of crap the time of day? I'm so happy I won't have his or any other dirty fuck boys unwashed fingers near me ever again.

Idiot.

bigandlittledog · 2020-12-20T04:58:27+00:00

I have literally never looked better and I’m in my upper 20s. Learned how to actually style myself, started a business, read a ton of books, left a toxic work environment, learned what eyebrow shape and eye makeup looks best on me. I look back at pictures from when I was 20-22 and I’ve definitely gotten better with age.

CloacaDiddler · 2020-12-20T05:11:45+00:00

Oh no. He says it’s over! Women, start lining up and crying for his forgiveness! He hath spoken! Goodbye hobbies, friendships, careers, education, travel, RandomFuckingOgre has declared that IT IS OVER. The law is written.

He probably patted himself on the back so hard after declaring such a powerful statement that he broke his arms. I hope I can come back in another life as a tiny fairy that can teleport to pompous assholes after they make a dumb statement and bitch slap the words back into their mouth. And for any trolls thinking I must be so upset because this applies to me lol I’m 20 and this upset because men are absolute trash

neatsqueefs · 2020-12-20T05:49:39+00:00

Seems how it's all bullshit anyways, I'm gonna start saying men peak at 24. They're either good people who have all their shit together by then, or they're an old wasted loser for the rest of their future.

Unlikely-Marzipan · 2020-12-20T07:36:03+00:00

These guys are so weird. Like...if that’s genuinely what he thinks. Does he really think women care what he thinks? Doesn’t he realise that women have them dodged a massive bullet NOT being shacked up with a man, if this is how they think? I’d rather be single. Because even if a woman “gets” a guy before she’s 24... clearly at 24 that’s the magical age (or 16,18,25,30,35,40,50 - I’ve heard all of those ages), that her looks decrease and she’s going to get traded in for a younger model apparently. So why not just remove ourselves from a game that’s clearly rigged? That’s what I would do. They really think they are the prize...

2020-12-20T12:38:57+00:00

Oh honey... If FDS is any indication, we women have THRIVED during lockdown. Leaving our LVM/NVMs, focusing on our careers, hobbies and health, helping build each other up and realizing what really matters in life. This pandemic was atrocious, but it was an eye-opener as well.

caffeine_inmyveins · 2020-12-20T14:30:58+00:00

The worst thing about this is not men, but women who have also internalised this idea that all we have to offer is our youth and beauty.

One of my good friends (whom unfortunately I am unable to rescue from a controlling relationship) has mentioned to me how sorry she feels for some other women who was lead on by a guy, dumped in her late 20s because "a women's worth is in her youth".

It's as if she saw that as a bad end, that this woman was not married to this guy who was lukewarm about her, rather than her being liberated to find someone who truly cares about her.

No surprises why she ended up with a guy who is extremely abusive (controls who she hangs out with, what activities she's allowed to do, where she can go) 🤷‍♀️

amyanubis · 2020-12-20T15:39:10+00:00

He defo watches teen porn the absolute predator.

Thejasminedragon1215 · 2020-12-20T21:10:48+00:00

I look hotter in my mid to late 20s than I did in my early 20s. The hotness of the men I attract reflects that. Stay mad bitchass scrotes.

Wtfpwned69 · 2020-12-20T00:39:34+00:00

Hmmm I did A LOT of relaxing, did not deal with fuck boys, barely went in the sunlight, did extra online classes, and smoked some 🍁 so I think I prevented some wrinkles during Covid TBH.

OpenCelebration3 · 2020-12-20T00:59:09+00:00

Well that escalated quickly ....

2020-12-20T01:05:34+00:00

Oh man, I'm so with you! I've been doing exactly the same :D even lost weight; didn't gain. Lol at this loser's assumptions 🤣

allergictoscrotes · 2020-12-20T03:46:58+00:00

I’m more fit now than I’ve ever been by a landslide but ok lol. As if men haven’t been struggling with overeating and lack of motivation to exercise too 🙄

penhasink · 2020-12-20T05:04:08+00:00

Come on now don’t block out his @ I want to see what kind of peak he is 🤣

Unfit_Needleworker · 2020-12-20T05:04:43+00:00

It’S oVeR fOr ThEm. I can just imagine them looking like Spongebob saying that.

Aggressive_Birthday4 · 2020-12-20T05:23:35+00:00

Lmfao I canNOT! I’m 23 now and I can’t wait till I’m 30 when I’ve saved up enough to buy my first home and have gained more experience in my field. I’m not trying to get “accomplishments” in my relationships, I’m trying to look out for my future.

favoritesound · 2020-12-20T06:02:16+00:00

Damn I’m over here in my 30s getting more than enough attention from men. Funny how that works.

madonna_whorecomplex · 2020-12-20T06:20:10+00:00

The fuck are they trying to do here? Scrote languages are like sentences put together by people who are high on cow shit. "Oh no, you got me scrote, whatever shall I do??? I only have a few years left so I should probably get myself an old scrote to waste my youth on and be miserable~ I'll certainly not suck your wallet dry thou, nah-uh."

Emergency-Feed8216 · 2020-12-20T06:23:18+00:00

Look kids, it's Biff Tannen from Back to the Future. https://images.app.goo.gl/zFQz11ULaiGwZyp57

kalina95 · 2020-12-20T08:09:30+00:00

Ah yes. 5 cent wisdom on twitter. Good lord there's this one guy who's all "alpha male, coding, peak physique" harr harr on twitter. Its so annoying. Why do they even try to sell themselves like this?

Has anyone ever encountered these idiots in real life?

7Cuervos · 2020-12-20T11:26:10+00:00

Let me guess, this scrote probably says shit like "we need to impregnate girls when they are barely 18, you know for HeAlThY cHiLdReN"

Nah scrote. I guarantee you no woman wants him.

boredbitch2020 · 2020-12-20T12:00:41+00:00

That's just how they feel when their games and MANipulation stop working. Bros maddddddddd

juliet-elia · 2020-12-20T14:36:18+00:00

Why is he so obsessed with women? Who denied him a corona date on tinder?😂 Which one of yall was it???

2020-12-20T14:58:26+00:00

This is hilarious.

I can only imagine how women like me, who give zero to negative fucks about the opinion of men, make them feel.

I am focused on being a role model to all women and girls in my life. The male gaze does not factor into my decision making anymore.

I’m generating wealth to pass on to my nieces one day. Literally not even thinking about you.

thepanichand · 2020-12-20T15:38:13+00:00

What actually happens: you hit your forties, you literally do not give one shit about what men might think, and you STILL get them hitting on you no matter what shape you're in or how allegedly past your prime you are, and you don't care one whit. And you marry someone excellent who thinks you're hot no matter what, and men like this seem like the ridiculous ignorable infants they all are.

Austenma · 2020-12-20T15:51:40+00:00

Funny. I'm in better shape now than I was at 24. I run almost everyday, eat healthy,and hardly drink any alcohol. I've gotten a hobby going that's going to be a side gig.

I have yet to meet a man who's done anything in lockdown besides video games.

2020-12-21T07:35:13+00:00

Now the wall is 24... it gets lower every day

protectinidentity · 2020-12-24T05:36:05+00:00

Knew he was trash at “females”

Title	The projection is palpable; I've spent quarantine fixing my skin, working out, and taking college courses. Ya'll?
Author	lvioletsnow
Upvotes	665
Comments	175
Date	December 19, 2020 7:03 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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