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| 30 | Eve doesn't date single fathers, or: cultural misogyny in a nutshell, or: the audacitySo they think being a deadbeat is BETTER?!💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 08:38 PM |
| 33 | Imagine needing pixels to get in the mood..This is the weirdest example of weaponized incompetence I’ve ever seen 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 12:38 PM |
| 46 | I am dying, girls.Definitely digging for it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 01:54 AM |
| 3 | I’d like to hear your opinions here.If financially exploited means living for free in a condo and only contributing towards yearly property taxes in whatever amount I can… then sign me the fuck up cuz rent ain’t cheap | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 04:50 PM |
| 216 | Kate Beckinsale says she's 'never' been on a real date"Do you know I've never really been on a date?" Beckinsale said. "I literally meet someone, get to know them at work, and then either marry them or get pregnant by them." This just goes to show that no matter who you are, you only get as little effort as you’re willing to accept. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 04:47 PM |
| 4 | Exhibit A of why you should NEVER trust a man who says they want to take care of you/their family. ALWAYS keep your career in order.Every time I hear a “traditional” man explain with pride how they want to take care of their wife and kids and provide for them, I roll my eyes internally. This post is EXACTLY the scenario that I imagine will occur. Are there men out there who MEAN IT? Maybe. I haven’t met many, but generally it’s this bullshit. Meanwhile people in the comments are complaining about her spending HIS money as if he wasn’t aware she was a SAH mom for 20 years, co-signed it, and just now realized it. Idk what kind… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 12:20 PM |
| 68 | If you're a Brown Woman dating a White Man, survey his inner circle of close friends and family. If you are the only POC in his life, you are a source of entertainment and validation of his liberal views, not a partner.Good point, Reddit has a bad habit in general with people assuming everyone is talking in absolutes and it gets exhausting. Both OP and the Commenter make good points that represent their own experiences; but at the end of the day their experience isn’t the take away, it’s the fact that whether you like it or not, it’s something that should be taken into consideration when you’re vetting a prospective partner. That’s it. Siding with one extreme or the other and neglecting the alternative possibi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 09:20 PM |
| 4 | “sUB dROp” 🤦🏾♀️Wow, I had no idea that was even a thing. I’m glad you’re feeling better OP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 11:26 AM |
| 26 | This is the type of obtuse mentality that I'm referring to when I say "men are committed to misunderstanding us"Same XD It’s wonderful | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 08:22 PM |
| 12 | This is the type of obtuse mentality that I'm referring to when I say "men are committed to misunderstanding us"Lol, that’s great. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 08:12 PM |
| 35 | This is the type of obtuse mentality that I'm referring to when I say "men are committed to misunderstanding us"Omg. The mental gymnastics they must go through to insist we’re a man-hating club are insane. These are men proudly posting subs literally called anti-feminism. IF we truly were the misandrist they claim we are... wouldn’t we call this sub something stupid like... idk... WGTOW XD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Misogyny and feminismWell damn, better get rid of all those self-defense laws. Don’t want any abusers getting off easy 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 02:32 PM |
| 24 | I dumped my HVM.That’s brilliant. My legacy shall be a “Fuck You Trust Fund” with emergency money to leave shitty husbands 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 07:44 PM |
| 5 | According to the comments, she’s the problem for being overly jealous...She deleter her account before I could do so | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 02:46 AM |
| 343 | Have you ladies seen this? This gorgeous, married woman has been fighting her EX in court because he wants their embryos from the time they were in love, to be born.A part of me always wondered if he wanted to do it so he could then turn around and sue her for child support 🤔 Likely, he also wanted a last ditch effort to keep her under his thumb under the guise of “co-parenting.” Like that guy who posted on Reddit calling his ex a “dead beat mom” after he forced her to have a kid she didn’t want, agreed he would let her sign away all obligations to the child, and was then somehow surprised when she surprised pikachu face didn’t want anything to do with him … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 10:07 PM |
| 31 | According to the comments, she’s the problem for being overly jealous...She’s all up in the comments talking about how women are “naturally jealous” so this one’s on hard mode 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 08:47 PM |
| 80 | According to the comments, she’s the problem for being overly jealous...She should have walked out the second she saw who he was following the first time. This is exactly why we don’t need to explain our boundaries; they just learn to hide their shit better. She keeps doubling down on a bad decision. Yet another victim of the sunk cost fallacy. Just leave girl. NOW. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 08:13 PM |
| 274 | According to the comments, she’s the problem for being overly jealous...I’m starting to feel like Reddit relationship advice is just outsourced gaslighting for shitty boyfriends.... This is absolute insanity XD What normal, faithful human being 1) hides their social media from their partner 2) has to purge their friend list before they see it, and 3) keep this opposite sex friends hidden from their partner? This isn’t ONE red flag, it’s a fucking parade | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 07:25 PM |
| 3 | 15 years of dating, 2 kids... and she’s worried about holding *him* up?“Has anyone been in this situation before?” Not even if the throws of pickmeisha-dom would I have looked at that scenario and though “yeah, this is ok” Sis needs A LOT of support. I hope she finds us 😓 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 04:38 PM |
| 36 | Are you f$&@ing kidding me?Yeah I saw it before the update 🙄 Can’t say I expected the massive backtrack though. Though I wonder why on earth they expect any other reaction from REDDIT of all places? Still having a hard time understanding WHAT they claim to have meant; like, how else would you take that massive “fuck you” to women of a title? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 05:30 PM |
| 11 | 🔥🔥The Female Dating Strategy podcast teaser is now live on Spotify! Check it out! 🔥🔥Can’t Wait! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 01:45 AM |
| 50 | If this has been posted before please remove it. But sisters, this is where 50-50 will get you. It's their kid, but her bills.It’s not terrible, but it isn’t amazing either. In the US for a moderate COL area 50k is a good salary to live comfortably while single, but I wouldn’t want to raise a child on it. Unless you’re debt free; in which case 50k would do it. It’s pretty fact specific in that regard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 01:42 PM |
| 29 | Girlfriend had ONE request for Valentines, he decided he would make fun of her insteadAgree. I love puns so I would’ve died laughing at this. Hopefully he did follow it up with something, and given that he brought her flowers it seems possible he didn’t just end it there and actually had something planned after making his joke lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 03:58 PM |
| 54 | The contempt some of these men have for their wives is EVIL.Her Mom’s spitting out straight FACTS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 02:56 PM |
| 7 | The moment when a ZVM realizes he’s Zero Value 🤦♀️😂They’re becoming self aware 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 12:04 PM |
| 167 | She's in a "traditional marriage" but works full time AS WELL AS acting like his servant... Someone save this womanI love how “traditional” only ever applies to the women. Like she has to do all the traditional wife shit but he sure as hell isn’t providing for both of them. Pick a struggle man. 😤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 12:00 PM |
| 3 | Which age you believe is ideal for a straight girl to start dating?Hard agree on 20s. When you start seriously dating later in life you avoid a lot of the bullshit that comes from being naive to men's ways and unsure of what you want in life. You also lessen the risk of giving up your own ambitions for the sake of a guy who probably won't be around long. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 02:15 PM |
| 5 | STOP PLAYING HOUSEYeah, they’re predicting a crash sometime soon. The demand is artificial because of all the aid and low rates, but that doesn’t mean people can actually afford it 😬 Hopefully it’s not as bad as last time 🤞🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 09:55 PM |
| 4 | STOP PLAYING HOUSEShe’s probably gonna get double screwed if she’s in the US, the market’s super unstable. So even if she were going at it alone it might not be a good bet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 09:50 PM |
| 6 | I broke up with my boyfriend todaySo proud ❤️ It’s hard, but you’re moving forward rather than letting him drag you down with him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 09:39 PM |
| 24 | I broke up with my boyfriend todayI’m so sorry :( Putting a pet to sleep is so fucking hard; I luckily had a lot of people around me when I had to do it, but I can’t imagine having to do it while your partner ignores you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 09:38 PM |
| 5 | STOP PLAYING HOUSESo happy you made it out safe! Sounds like he did you a favor moving OW in lol I’ve learned from the women around me that relying on a man is not a good idea; it’s sad and scary how they can easily pretend to have good intentions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 08:29 PM |
| 71 | STOP PLAYING HOUSEThat sucks, and it's so common too. I have no idea why it isn't talked about more. One of my co-workers just bought a house with her boyfriend and when I mentioned titles she had no idea what I was talking about. I am so damn nervous for her. I have also seen girls co-sign on cars for boyfriends and then the car gets repossessed a year after they broke up and she's stuck with the bill and a repo in her credit for a car she had no title to. Yeah, it's a joint tenancy with rights of survivorship. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 07:20 PM |
| 23 | Proud of myselfVery proud of you girl! Don’t need to be wasting our time with boys when there’s men out there who will treat you like the queen you are. In the mean time, treat yourself! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 02:34 PM |
| 16 | When you’re such a pickme you cook for his female roommates and question how to resolve thisShe’s literally Uber Eats for free 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 02:00 PM |
| 24 | FDS has led me to fully embracing how much I care about height and it feels sooo good! Boy bye 👏Did we date the same guy? 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 03:56 PM |
| 9 | The projection is palpable; I've spent quarantine fixing my skin, working out, and taking college courses. Ya'll?Same lol best shape I’ve been in was peak quarantine. But that’s because most women actually focus on self improvement, while most men can barely manage a daily shower 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 10:58 PM |
| 56 | I see you suggesting a park date? Blocked. Oh I'm not like other girls? Damn right, blocked.If they’re face to face and a block button isn’t readily available I like to respond with a concerned look and ask “what’s wrong with other girls?” then watch them squirm as they attempt to water down their misogyny. If they’re oblivious I’ll just contradict whatever they say. “But I LOVE Rosé and basic shit!” 😂 Might as well have a laugh while I grab my purse I guess 🤷🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 06:59 PM |
| 4 | Seriously disgusting. And I left his name visible, as he is a public figure and has an entire page dedicated to this nonsense. 🤬Jokes on them. Most girls in their 20s who have an ounce of self worth wouldn’t touch grandpa with a 10 foot pole. Worst case scenario for the girl, you end up single; and that just means you don’t have a giant man baby to take care of and can spend all that pre-glass ceiling money on yourself rather than his new convertible when he hits a midlife crisis five years into the marriage after realizing waking up to a screaming child is a lot less fun when you’re older and just want a nap 🤷🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 03:58 PM |
| 4 | Scrotes who have the audacity to gaslight you into thinking the woman in a typical age-gap relationship is the predatory one 🙄 clearly it’s the woman with half the life experience and two-thirds the physical strength with the power advantage!Now the real question is, are they really this dumb, or do they think we are? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 07:36 PM |
| 13 | When they hide it so well...I’m so sorry this happened to you; it must be heartbreaking. I’m honestly terrified of the same thing happening, but I’ve realized no matter how hard I try I can always fall victim to it if I choose to trust someone. It’s not a reflection on us or how well we vetted the person; it’s a reflection of the liar and how low they’re willing to stoop. It’s the price we pay for believing in people I guess. But I hope you remain optimistic because you’re stronger than his scrote ass will ever hope to be … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Amen! Anyone else got any similar stories?He said he was 5’10” but he was barely an inch or two taller than me so who knows | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 11:10 AM |
| 48 | Amen! Anyone else got any similar stories?Mine tried that shit and I just told him I loved my small boobs; should’ve dumped him on the spot. Dude was porn sick 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 02:30 PM |
| 42 | Amen! Anyone else got any similar stories?I’m 5’5” and my ex would always complain about me being “tall.” Well, it became pretty clear he was just projecting his own insecurities over being short. So now I’m dating someone who’s actually tall and he can go be insecure all by his tiny self 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 02:28 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, we should all leave reddit at the same time and make the news.I mean FDS is all about leaving toxic relationships so 🤷🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, we should all leave reddit at the same time and make the news.FDS is the only sub I engage with so I’d be down. Sad to leave wholesome memes though 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 09:07 PM |
| 30 | My father on men who wait because they ‘have no expiry date’He’s spot on, I’m happy to know there’s men like that out there :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 08:18 PM |
| 8 | Let’s talk about waiting for a proposal: aka don’t make the mistakes I didI’m so sorry you went through this; be kind to yourself though, it’s not your fault he’s a grade A asshat. You got out and that’s all that matters now, so be proud of that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 07:36 PM |
| 35 | Found some FDS hate in the wild... love this cult lolI love it when NVM tell on themselves 😂👌🏽 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 04:02 PM |
| 3 | Stop telling me I’ll change my mindMisery loves company 👌🏽 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 02:36 PM |
| 60 | Survivor of domestic abuse starts dating a man who reveals himself to be a past abuser. Several people in the comments tell her “maybe he’s changed”I’ve worked with a LOT of abusers in the course of my job. Single occurrences are pretty rare and usually just mean the guy is early in his abuse cycle. Not saying it’s impossible to reform, but I sure as hell wouldn’t risk it. One dude’s first incident was SLICING HIS WIFE’s THROAT. Thankfully she survived, but you really want to risk his second outburst killing you? Nah, sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 10:01 PM |
| 126 | Dinner + “Movie” = SexThey’re not being nice by cooking you “complicated” risotto 🙄 don’t get it twisted https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ha3iox/is_she_playing_games_with_me/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 09:44 PM |
| 45 | "Is she intimidating or are you intimidated?" Old me used to bite my tongue, when talking about my achievements on a date. Now, I'm proud to talk about what I've accomplished. If he's intimidated, he's not for me.“You’re intimidating” is guy code for “I’m insecure and need to somehow make that your fault.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 12:17 AM |
| 23 | What are some prime examples of incompetence in men that you notice?I know a woman that wakes up at 4am to make breakfast for her husband because otherwise her husband will buy it on his way to work with money they can’t afford to spare because he DOESNT KNOW HOW to make coffee and a damn sandwich. Poor woman works super long hours and is eternally sleep deprived. Make no mistake, he can 1000% do it; he just refuses to give up the luxury. | /r/askFDS | 13/06/20 05:17 PM |
| 154 | To all the pickmes browsing this subAll the pick-me’s I know were raised to believe that if they didn’t have the husband and kids they’re worthless. They’re essentially slaves to the idea that they’re nothing without a man. And when they realize they’re stuck with a loser they stay because they’re so terrified to be “alone” that they’d rather put up with the loser instead. It’s honestly depressing to watch. Though I’m sure they look at single girls and think to themselves “at least I’m not like her, I have a man!” The idea that a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 01:18 PM |
| 72 | Bet this guy would have 0 qualms about having sex while “hanging out”Dude... Then just meet in people in real life. It’s an online DATING site, not an online “meet people who you may or may not have an interest in dating at a later point based on your experience hanging out with them” site. 🤦🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 02:35 PM |
| 2 | Big Yikes 😳I’m gonna start requiring any potential date to provide at least three character references from HVW 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 09:24 PM |
| 9 | Big Yikes 😳This is an amazing idea; it should definitely be more mainstream cuz it’s painful when you see a girl dating someone you know is a total sack of shit and the poor girl has no idea. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 08:37 PM |
| 62 | Big Yikes 😳I don’t know her, but I appreciate her 😂🙌🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 01:58 PM |
| 53 | Big Yikes 😳I feel like there’s a story there 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 01:51 PM |
| 19 | OP’s boyfriend manipulated her into thinking she had body odor, because his dad thought him how to neg womenOMG. That update 😧 This is why I’d rather adopt a kid on my own and stay single than have a child with an LVM/NVM. Poor child wouldn’t stand a chance with a loser for a father and a pickmeisha for a mother. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 04:48 PM |
| 49 | NVM calls rich, 24 year old gf a spoiled brat and undermines her success. Asks if he's TA.NVM always hate it when you’re doing better than them. Spoiled or not. An ex tried this shit with me but didn’t have a leg to stand on cuz I came from nothing. I was doing well and it burned him that he couldn’t criticize me for it because we had similar upbringings; I just worked harder. It’s always annoying when someone’s spoiled, but just... don’t date them. I don’t understand these people that go head first into a relationship with someone they seemingly hate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 02:19 PM |
| 3 | This whole bio is completely disgusting. Throw the whole man out, sis 🤮I didn’t even know it was possible to suck so bad... yikes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 01:03 PM |
| 4 | Second disappointing man in one week. My major, apparently, is cute.None of my friends in Marketing even studied marketing 😂 What a weird major to have a superiority complex over | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 05:37 PM |
| 5 | Second disappointing man in one week. My major, apparently, is cute.Oh, definitely. The bad part is that some will pretend it doesn’t bother them and it’s just depressing to watch as the shrivel up right before your eyes due to their own insecurity while simultaneously trying to convince you (read: themselves) that they think it’s sOoOo attractive to them. 🙄 In reality, if it truly doesn’t bother them, they won’t feel the need to tell you. The insecure ones are the ones who will bring it up. P.S. Bonus points for the ones who gas you up and wait for you to do th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 05:31 PM |
| 31 | YOOOO DO Y'ALL WANNA READ THE RED FLAGS I MISSED WHILE I HAD A CRUSH?I went out with one who was really nice, but all I could picture was the inevitable resentment when 10 years later he still didn’t have his shit together. He was in his early thirties working as a substitute teacher and trying to decide what he wanted to do with his life. Meanwhile, I was in my mid twenties making over twice his salary in a career requiring a post graduate degree. Even pre-FDS I could tell that was a train heading straight to nowhere fast. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 03:14 PM |
| 16 | Looks like I hurt an AITA mods feefees making a very honest yet sassy comment about a woman whose husband, rather than using his incredible powers of perception, would constantly pester her with stupid obvious questions about housework and their child rather than help her around the house.Yeah, I’ve all but stopped posting anywhere else. Not that I miss it honestly. People will literally harass you just because you post here; even if your comment has nothing to do with dating/FDS/gender/etc. The fact that you post here alone makes you enemy #1 to some of these people 🙄 It was jarring the first time it happened, but I can’t say it surprised me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 09:20 PM |
| 63 | I can’t believe how long it took me to realize that the “nagging wife” sitcom stereotype is literally just “useless husband is incapable of doing his share of the housework despite being repeatedly asked” framed to demonize the woman.Thank You for saying the thing 🙌🏼 I’m honestly livid that I was raised in a culture where demonizing women is so ingrained in everything that we don’t even realize it’s happening. And it’s supposed to be COMEDY. We’re supposed to LAUGH as the women in these shows are degraded and disempowered. We’re also encouraged to empathize with the useless POS husband and Awwww as he does the bare minimum to not be in the “dog house.” Women are essentially indoctrinated into pickmeishadom without even reali… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 06:27 PM |
| 13 | Scrote stumbles across posts his SO made about him on FDS. Scrotey outrage ensues!Yeah, I don’t buy it for a second. I play super casually (a couple of times a month) and whenever I do it’s typically longer than that. If he’s into it enough that he’s playing on a daily basis there’s no way he’s only doing an hour. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 08:11 PM |
| 26 | Can you be my GF without expecting me to be your BF? K, thanks. 🙄Agreed! I feel like they start out like this and when they realize that it doesn’t work as well they start to hide it :/ This guy sounded young, so his next iteration will probably know better unfortunately. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 06:13 PM |
| 23 | Can you be my GF without expecting me to be your BF? K, thanks. 🙄Vast improvement for his profile 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 05:51 PM |
| 158 | Can you be my GF without expecting me to be your BF? K, thanks. 🙄I think it’s FOMO largely too. Considering most men have a ridiculously overinflated ego they need to keep themselves available in case 20 Victoria Secret models invite them over for their own private orgy! That and laziness/responsibility as you mentioned. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 05:50 PM |
| 79 | I love finding these videos!Yes! These always put me in a better mood. I should hoard a bunch and send them en mass to anyone who dares utter the phrase “yOuR sTaNdArDs ArE tOo HiGh” ugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 03:49 PM |
| 26 | I love finding these videos!I love this ❤️ So happy for her! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 03:48 PM |
| 5 | DON’T BE BORING.... Proceeds to be the most basic fuckboy imaginableAll these unemployed or underemployed world travelers... yikes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 12:51 AM |
| 23 | DON’T BE BORING.... Proceeds to be the most basic fuckboy imaginableTHIS. You nailed it. I was talking to two recently and the contrast was STARK. One was talking about the ways he’s hoping to stand out at work to get a promotion he’s been aiming for and the other is apparently still trying to figure out what he wants to do with his life. And ladies, the younger one was the ambitious one. So this BS about “mature” older men is just that; BULL. As someone who finds ambition hella attractive, I don’t want to be my partners career coach. You better have your plans … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 11:08 PM |
| 27 | It's funny cause it's true... and sad, but true.I love this sketch 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 09:28 PM |
| 14 | DON’T BE BORING.... Proceeds to be the most basic fuckboy imaginableI love how there’s a story there 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 08:14 PM |
| 11 | Lol. How about no?Omg, yeah, that’s such stupid stuff to lie about 🙄 I mean, any lie is bad... but really... that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 06:49 PM |
| 14 | Lol. How about no?What did he lie about? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 04:55 PM |
| 15 | Ahhh emotionally abusing your wife for tiktok clout. How romantic!😍He’s a raging douchecanoe, and not even cute. Sis needs to upgrade pronto 👀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 03:38 PM |
| 20 | Relationships are an option, NOT a necessityThis comment from u/ManchurianCantaloupe pretty much explains it 👍🏼 https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/g0qrqe/why_is_keanu_a_flair/fnba7ft/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 02:50 PM |
| 120 | Relationships are an option, NOT a necessityUnfortunately, I couldn’t find the Keanu flair. It would’ve been too perfect 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 01:49 AM |
| 167 | Brother tells hard-working doctor sister to lower her standards as she’s 37 and single 🤬People act like staying single is some horrible death sentence 🙄 She’ll be perfectly fine enjoying her success on her own until the RIGHT person comes along. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 11:37 PM |
| 109 | Saw this on Instagram...People need to cut this BS out 😡 That’s how you end up with young women tolerating ABUSE because He PrOmIsEd HeD ChAnGe FoR mE. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 04:24 PM |
| 4 | Men who wear the "I tell truth, take it or leave it, I dont care if you dont like it!!!" badge. Honest or emotionally immature?Stuff like that usually means they’re emotionally stunted, rude, and unable to take responsibility for their shitty behavior. Instead, they’ll gaslight the people they hurt into believing THEY’RE the problem for being sensitive. Nah bro, you’re just a dickwad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 04:20 PM |
| 40 | Imagine having this level of audacityOh, probably. AITA is known for having people post fiction all the time, so it should always be taken with a grain of salt. I have fun with it anyway cuz it doesn’t really matter in the end. Also, not such a gullible raisin after all... lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 03:24 AM |
| 164 | Imagine having this level of audacityHe made a comment that he doesn’t cook well and intended to rely on her cooking when they moved in together. Homeboy doesn’t even try to pretend he’s not useless 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 02:35 AM |
| 30 | Last few months I’ve been going around with an attitude of “well, if a man can do it, it can’t be that hard, I bet I can do it too” and ladies I have yet to be wrongOmg, this. They simultaneously get more and more useless while crying in dating forums about how women should ask THEM out. Boy, bye. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 01:20 PM |
| 86 | Serious question: is there a sub that we can use to out cheating scrotes? I’ve seen so many MARRIED men on dating apps since quarantine and it makes me madLol, they’re all over the hinge sub complaining about how they keep getting banned FoR nO rEaSoN | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 01:39 AM |
| 7 | How is this gem still single?I usually stay away from anyone who explicitly asks for a girl who “takes care of herself” or “enjoys working out like me.” It’s just a dog whistle way to say “no fatties.” The irony is that I’m a gym rat myself and would like to date someone who enjoys exercise. However, men who straight up demand a workout buddy make me feel like they’re just gonna judge everything about your body and expect you to look like a fitspo 24/7. They will also eventually dump you the second you gain any weight or th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 09:43 PM |
| 38 | You've got to be kidding me. This is just unacceptable.How in the world is he confused as to wether he’s an asshole or not? Either the creative writing exercises on AITA are getting out of hand or we are in dire need of a stronger plague. Seriously, just send the flood already 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 06:45 PM |
| 3 | Playing wifey as a girlfriend never works outYeah, he can buy her a gaming PC but is too broke for a ring, so what does that say? Regardless, I know plenty of couples that got married while working themselves out of debt. It’s not all or nothing. Not exactly HVM themselves, but smart enough to lock it down ASAP. The real question though is why is he looking for a better paying job AFTER paying off the debt... kinda backwards considering he would’ve paid it off much faster with that higher paying job. Whole thing’s just weird. I wonder what… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 08:44 PM |
| 80 | Husband gets wife DEMOTED from high level corporate job because she’s being “UNUSEFUL” [sic] at home.Part of me feels like he was already itching for an excuse to boot her and this made it easy for him to justify it. I mean, if even her HUSBAND thinks she can’t do her job then what wrongful termination suit would survive that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 08:25 PM |
| 131 | Husband gets wife DEMOTED from high level corporate job because she’s being “UNUSEFUL” [sic] at home.Right?! It’s almost a running joke in older shows. The woman calling to ask when her husband is coming home for dinner. Never in a million years was it presented as him not being able to do his job. No, he was just busy being a powerful man and would be home when he was done. End of story. But a woman? Nah, she just can’t handle that kind of work... 😤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 08:22 PM |
| 33 | Husband gets wife DEMOTED from high level corporate job because she’s being “UNUSEFUL” [sic] at home.Same here, but I’ve just met so many men I can see doing this that I can definitely see it happening. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 08:19 PM |
| 134 | Husband gets wife DEMOTED from high level corporate job because she’s being “UNUSEFUL” [sic] at home.Exactly, that part boggles my mind. Do they not realize he’s effectively told her boss she’s unqualified for any future promotions or even the job she currently holds. He essentially stopped her career on it’s tracks with that company forever. And if it’s a small industry, perhaps everywhere. Fingers crossed it’s a big industry and word doesn’t spread so she can find something elsewhere where she can grow without that incident following her around forever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 08:10 PM |
| 160 | Husband gets wife DEMOTED from high level corporate job because she’s being “UNUSEFUL” [sic] at home.Link to Post: https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/gnfwi4/aita_for_going_over_my_wife_and_speaking_candidly/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf I’m truly speechless. I want to cry for that poor woman. To work so hard and have your NVM POS husband just squander it all because he’d rather you mommy him more effectively. My heart just breaks for her. I hope she dumps his ass and finds an even better job far away from him and her equally questionable boss. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 08:07 PM |
| 18 | Hope she gets pickedI’ve come to the conclusion that the reason LVM and pickme’s love this narrative about good men getting cheated on is because it keeps men from trying thereby dooming everyone to a miserable cycle of LVMs who can justify their shitty behavior and Pickmeisha’s convincing themselves than an HVM will just fall in their lap if they cast the widest net of low standards ever sown. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 07:15 PM |
| 47 | The bar is so low on advice subsYeah, I stopped posting there when I got harassed for telling a girl there was nothing wrong with her for not wanting to hookup and she shouldn’t feel bad about it. Imagine getting called a Clown for telling women they have bodily autonomy... Scrotes are mad the secret is getting out I guess 🤷🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 07:34 PM |
| 93 | Girlfriend puts her own money/time/effort into boyfriend’s business, doesnt even get a public thank youSTAY TUNED FOR: AITA for dumping my entitled girlfriend after MY business became successful? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 05:44 PM |
| 9 | HVM trait - celebrating your interests, quirks and hobbies. Men who make fun of you or make you feel badly for these things do not deserve you (more details in the comments).It sucks, and I wish I’d seen it for the red flag that it was. I think I let it go on because I always called him out and he would apologize; but at the end of the day, the source of the issue was his own desire to be admired and that’s why we were incompatible. He cared A LOT what people thought of him, and I couldn’t care less. Ironically, I was the most objectively successful one so I imagine that must’ve burned him and made him feel like he needed to prove he was smart too. Only issue was th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 05:35 PM |
| 255 | HVM trait - celebrating your interests, quirks and hobbies. Men who make fun of you or make you feel badly for these things do not deserve you (more details in the comments).THIS. Omg I should’ve dumped my LVM ex on the spot when he called me basic for something I liked. I called him out on it and let him know I didn’t give a fuck what insecure edge lord’s think about my interests, but I definitely should’ve been done with him at that point. I cringe thinking about the things I felt I couldn’t watch or listen to around him. Never again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 11:27 AM |
| 26 | *disgusted but not surprised face*This has to be a joke, ngl I chuckled 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 06:34 PM |
| 7 | HVM dad spotted <3I love these posts :) With all the hate and harassment FDS gets it’s nice to know there’s some good ones out there. No matter how hard the trolls try to prove otherwise. Quite frankly, the irony that they’re so anti-FDS when all this sub says is to wait for a good man (ergo, acknowledging that they do in fact exist) is hilarious. Like... are you against this sub because you want to spread the word that all men suck and women should settle? Cool story, dude. Yikes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 03:47 PM |
| 60 | Anyone else have a pickmeisha for a mother, and therefore learned no female dating/life skills at all?Mine is. it’s frustrating because she makes it seem like the point of life is getting married and having babies, but then she’s always miserable because my Dad emotionally drains her. Somehow she’s convinced herself that raising my brother and I was worth her whole independence going down the drain. I mean, we turned out okay, but that’s just sad to think about. My Dad’s not the absolute worst, but I wouldn’t call him HVM either. I just wish she hadn’t indoctrinated me into that line of thinking… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 07:36 PM |
| 199 | Congrats on 70k+ Members!No longer letting myself be gaslit into believing my standards are somehow unreasonable. Thanks girls! ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 02:56 PM |
| 68 | This is why you must have separate accounts even if you think he's a HVM. You can never be too sure.Idk where he is, but ironically he’s probably wrong about that. If she keeps the money in a separate account it remains a non-marital asset in many jurisdictions and he’s entitled to nothing. It’d only get split if she commingled it with the marital assets. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 01:14 AM |
| 16 | Pickmeisha’s final form... (but actually, internalized misogyny is the absolute worst)Specific to the US, but here’s the article for anyone interested: https://www.cnn.com/2020/05/06/politics/education-secretary-betsy-devos-title-ix-regulations/index.html | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 07:03 PM |
| 13 | Am I going crazy or are men starting to look worse and worse?Definitely true, and then they’ll look down on men in other countries who take care of their skin as if taking care of yourself is something to be ashamed of 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 08:47 PM |
| 9 | Am I going crazy or are men starting to look worse and worse?Omg, that was perfect 😂👌🏽 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 07:35 PM |
| 53 | Am I going crazy or are men starting to look worse and worse?Nah, it’s not you. I think that men tend to look down on taking care of their appearance as girly and end up taking this “manliness” to the extreme. Although I imagine some are just lazy and since they’re not bombarded with the YOULL BE ALONE FOREVER IF YOURE NOT A MODEL messaging women get, they have no motivation to even try. I wish they knew how UNATTRACTIVE it actually is. I know multiple guys in their mid 20s with crazy wrinkles just because they REFUSE to put on sunscreen. Friggin sunscree… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 06:21 PM |
| 3 | Do you date when youre not your ideal weight ?I don’t, but that’s because I like to feel my most confident when I’m dating. Dating is hard for me as it is because I’m more reserved, so doing it while not feeling confident would be very hard. That being said, I would never put anything else off because of my weight. I’ve traveled while at my ideal weight and otherwise and I enjoyed it regardless because I wasn’t all that concerned with my appearance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 02:29 PM |
| 15 | Are you ever disappointed when a prospect shows he’s LV?That sucks, I’m sorry. I guess I’m glad I posted this because this sub, as awesome as it is, sometimes makes me feel like there’s something wrong with me for feeling that way. I know I’m better off, but that doesn’t change the fact that at my core I’m a positive person that likes to believe people are inherently good. So when they prove you wrong, it sucks. I could adopt a more cutthroat view and start by assuming the worst from people, but that just sounds like a miserable existence. I’m caring… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 12:31 AM |
| 18 | Are you ever disappointed when a prospect shows he’s LV?Yeah, prototypes #2 and #3 just got promotions 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 12:02 AM |
| 28 | Are you ever disappointed when a prospect shows he’s LV?True, that’s why we peace out immediately ✌🏽 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 12:00 AM |
| 39 | How to stop being a pickmeisha?I would highly recommend reading The Purity Myth by Jessica Valenti. This idea that contact with a Penis somehow fundamentally changes you as a woman is one of the biggest cons ever effectuated on womankind. Your value as a human being has nothing to do with the number of people you have or haven’t slept with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 09:55 PM |
| 35 | Emily Gilmore, the original FDS leader 😉Yeah, future Jess seemed way better adjusted. I’m here for some good character development 🙌🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 02:22 PM |
| 39 | Emily Gilmore, the original FDS leader 😉He routinely emotionally tortured Rory tho... nah fam | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 02:10 PM |
| 19 | i think i need advice on a potential red flag situationI think you should also ask yourself if you’re okay dealing with the ex and child for the rest of your relationship. Now that there’s a kid involved it’s not like he can ask her to disappear. Are you okay with the addition of a child and it’s mother to your relationship? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 05:34 PM |
| 30 | This LVM missed his child’s birth so that his work mate could see a dying relative. The gender of that work mate? SURPRISE... female.A friend of mine is married to an EMT and she tells me that the vast majority of the EMTs and Firefighters there will divorce their spouses and then immediately shack up with a fellow EMT/Firefighter. She watches her husband like a hawk when female coworkers are involved. I can’t imagine feeling like I have to do that. I wonder what else he’s put the wife through for the sake of the coworker. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 02:23 AM |
| 23 | All pics are the same male, takes roids and posts on "mgtow" forums LMAO@ this asswipeThis is why you don’t skip leg day 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 04:26 PM |
| 85 | This is what happens when you date a child... and the comments 😤Yeah, I think that’s the key here. There’s nothing wrong with thanking your partner, but our culture tends to treat female labor as expected and male domestic labor as a favor. I can imagine she’s frustrated with the weight of the expectation that she’s going to do everything by default and he’s just “helping out.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 02:00 AM |
| 26 | This is what happens when you date a child... and the comments 😤It says in the post she’s told him several times though; so I put my money on her already having tried that with no success :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 01:30 AM |
| 36 | This is what happens when you date a child... and the comments 😤Link to Post: https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/g8klzx/aita_for_telling_my_boyfriend_i_shouldnt_need_to/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf So apparently she’s the asshole for pointing out the obvious (that she shouldn’t have to thank him in the first place)... smh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 01:09 AM |
| 3 | How do I not get depressed from dumping an LVM?I recently went through a breakup and focusing on leveling up keeps me happy and occupied. I’ve been taking courses on edX, working out at home through videos, and scheduling video chats with my friends to help keep us all in good spirits. It has all helped tremendously because it helps me remember that I didn’t lose much of anything, he did. Plus, coming out of this relationship AND out of quarantine better than ever is great motivation 💪🏽 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 06:34 PM |
| 6 | “The Relationship App” 🙄That was all the same dude so... probably 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 04:30 PM |
| 48 | Thought I’d make something.You’d think the “Nice Guys” would love this sub 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 07:57 PM |
| 2 | FDS Book clubIf you have a library card you can get ebooks and audiobooks through apps like hoopla and Libby. It’s my favorite thing ever considering audiobooks are so expensive. I wish I’d discovered it before spending a bunch of money on audible 🤦🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 12:58 PM |
| 2 | HVM but you’re not sure you’re attractedI dated a guy I felt like that about and he fucked me over as soon as I started to actually like him a lot. Not worth it, sis. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 09:26 PM |
| 8 | FDS Book clubTrick Mirror sounds intriguing to me; they’re good picks :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 08:35 PM |
| 33 | Being a Kinkmeisha traumatized me, but now I’m recovering!I think this post is a great example of all the good that can come out of this community; not just for it’s members dating lives, but also for their sense of self worth. It really is all about leveling up as a person. It is something you carry into everything you do, not just your romantic relationships. This attitude can serve you in your career and your interpersonal relationship with friends, family, everyone. Good Luck and Congrats on this new wonderful chapter in your life :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 11:53 PM |
| 133 | This is what happens when you compromise and date a pornsick man. This guy chose porn over his girlfriend and told her to fuck off and thinks he’s not the asshole.I’m legitimately surprised the comments aren’t terrible, maybe there is some hope left in the world lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 02:15 PM |
| 4 | Is anyone else annoyed with the internet’s response to the Tiger King documentary?YES. I have been fuming in silence about this! I listened to the whole story on the Wondery podcast (I think it’s titled Joe Exotic) and it is NOTHING like what the docu-series portrayed. Needless to say I was baffled by all the people supporting Joe after the Doc came out. Overall, I think it’s a serious case of the filmmakers having an idea of what they wanted people to think. And most people fell for it: hook. line. sinker. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 08:35 PM |
| 9 | LVM doesn’t give a flying fuck about wife’s bday, she is wondering if she’s in the wrong for being upset about it...I’m not sure how the statutes are written in Canada, but at least in some US states alimony is tied to the length of the marriage. In other words, the longer she stays the longer she may end up paying alimony. At eight years she’s already in a moderate term marriage; but if she waits too long she’ll be in a long term marriage and thus getting into permanent alimony territory. At this point it’s a balancing act. She can stay long enough to try and get him an independent income before she files fo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 02:49 PM |
| 2 | What's your Meyers Briggs?Same 🙋🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 09:48 PM |
| 2 | I don’t know why Pickmeishas bother bragging about their husbands like I can’t date him too.Yeah, I’m curious about Kanye. He’s a weird one for sure, but he seems to really value Kim. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Any tips for approaching girls who are wearing earphones?Just grab their attention with something neutral; and if they want to chat they’ll take them off. Some people just want to listen to music while they walk 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/seduction | 08/01/20 05:52 PM |
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