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I just do moisturizer and sometimes I’ll do eyeliner and mascara. Sometimes just curl the lashes and mascara. Occasionally for a party I’ll put on blush. It feels so good to be natural and let my skin breathe. Do what makes you feel happiest!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 06:49 PM
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Aw I’m sorry to hear. My dad is such an HVM. And he only surrounds himself with quality people. Therefore, it’s a no brainer for me! My boyfriend is the first guy to treat me like a queen. The only man before who has treat me like this is my dad and brother. It took a while to meet him and a lot of LVMs before I got there, but it’s clear we both see each other as marriage material. He made Valentine’s Day weekend so special for me. And I hope every person finds someone who treats them like this!…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 02:02 AM
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Through family. I met my HVM bf because our fathers are friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 07:03 PM
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I was told by a man I was too passionate and I needed to “chill.” I told him I wouldn’t make myself smaller so I was more digestible for him. Now I’m dating a HVM who knows I’m marriage material and I know he is too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 01:29 PM
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Yep. I love it. Hits the nail on the head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 07:20 PM
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Seriously this. I’ve said that women tend to find someone they really want to be with. Whereas with men, it seems more to be whoever is with them at the time they feel they’re ready to finally commit. It’s no wonder a lot of men cheat and pine after the one that got away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 04:51 PM
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Was gonna say this too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 04:55 AM
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I was working retail and two black men were arguing about who they were voting. One said to the other: I can’t believe you won’t vote for Hillary just bc she’s a woman. I was like WTFFFFF internally…imagine how furious he’d be if I didn’t vote for someone bc they were black or a man. That reasoning wouldn’t sit well w him I’m sure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 02:50 AM
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I just had the same experience happen to me with a man who is 36 years older than I. He was teaching me how to shape and glass boards. A month later he tells me he can’t train me bc he has feelings for me. He’s married and way too old. I don’t understand it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 06:27 AM
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Seems he’s unable to be with anybody really. He changes women every few months. Then retreats. The process happens all over again. I understand the trauma he experienced in childhood has affected him deeply. And I don’t think it’s an excuse. I think he’s real w me. The part you are most right about, however, is that I need to move on. Bc it’s clear he’d rather be w a woman out of chillness and comfort instead of read, deep, committed (somewhat scary) but real love. I’ve seen plenty examples of i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 12:30 AM
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This is so true. There is a man I’ve always had in the back of my head. We have crossed paths for the past three years. He said he feels the same about me. He feels the intensity, the magnetism between us, the profound, deep something that is indescribable between us. However he’s dating someone else. When I asked why, he said “they vibed and it’s chill. It’s what i need right now.” When I asked him why over the past three years he runs away from me, he said he’s scared, he’s never felt this way…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 06:37 PM
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After reading this, I’ve decided my husband isn’t even born yet 😂 Jesus…they’re so delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 02:48 AM
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You can learn something from anyone. Take the good and leave the bad. There are things we can learn from these men and do our own elevated twist and add our flair as women. It’s like when anyone gives me advice. You have to have discernment and sift through it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 11:03 PM
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Sooooo convincing 😂 just own your height and be a good person. Goes a lot further than lying 🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 07:33 PM
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Just ended a 20 year relationship last week. She is LV. The story is so stupid and too long to text but essentially she ignored my sister and my texts saying we’d like to talk to her after her birthday party (she was acting super rude and mean and got way too drunk). She ignored us for three weeks because she doesn’t want to face herself. She drunkenly approached my sister at a wedding in front of everyone and yelled at her. I had to separate her from my sister. We no longer speak. Clearly. It’s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 05:20 PM
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I feel this. I’ve dated men 5-6 years younger than me (I’m 30, about to be 31) and mostly European (I’m from the States, though first gen with Middle Eastern/Euro blood) and Jesus they’re more mature than the 30-50 year olds I’ve given chances to. I currently am secretly crushing on a guy who is mid-60s, which is so odd bc he’s my parents age, and I just wish we were the same age. I just like him as a person, as he is kind, successful, funny, humble, confident, and just an overall badass. I just…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 10:20 AM
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Yes! That’s it. They are from a generation where men were gentleman. They are successful, they are wiser, they are kinder, and they aren’t after sex and girls. They’re grounded and confident and humble.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 05:34 AM
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I knew how to swim before I could walk. I took lessons as a child. I first took surf lessons in Maui. Then was on and off for three years doing it, but wasn’t getting any good. I’ve been consistent for the past year and some change, I go out 4-5 times a week and usually surf dawn patrol. I took some lessons out here in Malibu too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 11:52 PM
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First def learn to swim. Then go to your local beach or point break and get into it. I surf up and down SoCal and when I travel. Malibu is my main spot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 11:48 PM
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Yup. Men stay away from me because they know I’m not stupid enough to have anything fly under my radar. Most feel x rayed and I’ve been told I’m intimidating and judgmental and that a lot of men don’t feel good enough for me (it’s even been said to my parents when I wasn’t around). Good. Let them be afraid, as they should. A man I surf with said I was the kiss of death to men: beautiful and intelligent. And that only a real man could handle a woman like me. Sadly most of the men who treat me bes…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 11:18 PM
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I’ve been banned too bc I subscribe to FDS. So lame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 09:40 PM
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Every time I’d see this and smile and say “her problem now!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 08:27 PM
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Regardless, it’s still in the same area.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 11:36 AM
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Isn’t his anus too close to his penis then? Do guys have anuses an inch further back than women or something? How is someone with this low of an IQ still alive?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 12:48 AM
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This is it right here. God help us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 12:43 PM
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Then tell other men to stop ruining this for you instead of blaming women who are afraid of their lives. He wouldn’t survive one day as a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 08:11 PM
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Imagine if I was like: oh you know I’d like 6-10 hot rich guys that are 6’3” and up. Blonde. Brunettes. You know. One to buy me a house in Malibu, one to buy me a Lambo. One to take me around the world and travel with. Just experimenting and trying new things. He’d def be supportive…right guys?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 11:13 PM
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For me it’s a hard no. I don’t play them and I’ve never dated someone who does. I also am not into guys who watch a lot of sports. If you want to go out and play sports, that to me makes sense (I’m a bit athletic myself as I surf and play tennis. I like running, lifting, and hiking too). Those are my boundaries 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 05:12 PM
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I purposely don’t let a man come over unless he is my boyfriend. Even the few male friends I have can meet me somewhere public. This is my space and I don’t need memories of disrespectful men tainting it as it did in the past.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 06:42 PM
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She’s very patient w him and calls him out when he’s not being his best self. My dad has also taught my mom to value herself even more than she already does. They make a good team ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 02:01 AM
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I understand. I used to feel guilty too but one time my dad offered to pay for my lasik eye surgery and when I said I’ll do it myself he looked so sad. It makes him feel happy to provide for his family
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 08:58 PM
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I dated a guy for 4 1/2 months earlier this year. Really great in a lot of ways. But I’d do my best to dress as attractive and put together as possible. My friends and I took him to a nice restaurant in a trendy part of town and he showed up underdressed. My friends were also meeting him for the first time. I wasn’t happy. And I kept seeing it time and time again. Some other incompatibilities showed up too. I broke it off with him. If I’m putting in this sort of effort why can’t you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 04:28 PM
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I dated a director who would flirt with petite brunettes (yup he has a type and I fit it) who were aspiring somethings in the entertainment field. He’d fuck them and then chuck them. I called him out on his behavior and I’m prob one of the only girls from his past he actually respects, but is terrified of me. Also probably bc I didn’t buy into the bait that worked on these other women (I grew up in the Hollywood biz so I don’t get impressed easily). Don’t act impressed by famous people. Seriousl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 04:23 PM
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My father is HV. If I mention I’m saving up for anything for my apartment for example, he’ll buy it for me. He takes the family on lovely vacations. My mom says she’s looking for a Chanel bag, my dad takes her out to buy it. He constantly thanks my mom for putting up w him. They are both still very much in love and have never cheated on each other. He always encourages us and is super proud of us. He’s also very honest when he thinks I’m not being my best self. He’s very patient and speaks to ev…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 04:15 PM
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First off, I can buy the shoes myself. All of them. Secondly, I don’t want a “nice, weak guy.” And I have never cheated on anyone. Thirdly, I don’t want you, who is clearly overcompensating and proving way too much. Also, yeah, ew, shower curtain? Have you any class? My perfect man speaks multiple languages (with proper grammar and pronunciation), is well travelled, ambitious, kind, respectful, classy, and a leader. He just is these things…doesn’t need to say it to prove it. But yeah maybe he sh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 03:23 PM
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I only pay for something by the third date…and it’s usually ice cream down the street for dessert as a thank you. And it’s a way for us to walk and talk some more if I like him and the vibe. Very few men have gotten this far. Most men don’t last past 2 1/2 weeks with me. I can’t stand most men after that point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 05:37 PM
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The only HVM I’ve met so far is my dad and brother. Some dads of my friends too. But that’s really it. Maybe a handful of family friends that are married to some excellent men. But it’s a small list. My ex had a lot of HVM qualities but was also missing some crucial ones. He treated me and others well and is respectful and kind. But not ambitious and didn’t do a lot to make me feel special. He didn’t want to get married. And commitment was scary to him. He also was the type to just be comfortabl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 11:52 PM
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I deleted my FB. It feels amazing. I have temporarily disabled my IG too. Honestly it feels amazing. I need the peace and quiet rn as I focus on myself and my projects. I also care more about the people who have my number directly and can text or call or meet in person if they care that much. It shows me who is a real friend. And helping me trim the fat even more in my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 11:09 PM
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Thanks that was my instinct too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 02:45 AM
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I took this as sarcasm? Maybe I’m wrong lol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 12:58 AM
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I lost brain cells reading this because none of it made sense. I hope this person doesn’t breed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 02:44 AM
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Girl we need those microscopes for more than just their abs…🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 11:08 PM
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This girl said her husband was abusive and manipulative too and…after everything I don’t believe her. I think she’s the manipulative and Avis I’ve one here. They literally sound like the same person wow. Good for you for cutting her out and leveling up too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 07:12 PM
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This girl doesn’t have a kid but holy shit they sounds so similar. I told her I felt something was up and she gaslit me and lied to my face and said her and this guy were like brother and sister and she just saw him as a friend and she thinks he’s mine. I never said I wanted him. I told her I don’t even think he’s into me. And she still did all this. What is wrong with people? Now she’s become a beach bum who surfs and drinks and smokes cigarettes all the time. She was such a talented artist whe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 06:53 PM
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Just got rid of a pick-me friend and it was the best thing ever. She repeatedly kept pushing me to go for a loser we surf with who LIVES IN HIS VAN. Meanwhile, she was actually fucking him. I have no idea why she pushed me to him when I don’t even have feelings for him and would never EVER date someone like that. She did this weird thing and I cut her out of my life. They dated for 2 months and he cheated on her. Mind you, she’s married and recently “separated” but still living with the husband.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 05:34 PM
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I honestly feel so neutral about it. I’m like “another not surprisingly flaky person. Of course.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 05:34 AM
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I had a guy call me the day prior and chat with me for 20 mins about taking me out for dinner the following night. Never heard from him day of. I saw him at the parking lot at the spot we both surf at and after a bit of convo asked what happened with our plans. He said he was helping a friend out in a specific city an hour south. Weird coincidence that a few other people I surf with were in that city at some music event that same night. I love when people think I’m stupid. I didn’t bring it up b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 06:36 PM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 11:31 AM
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This one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 05:39 AM
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My thoughts exactly. Some bigger than mine!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 06:08 AM
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You’re right. Being creepy makes even the hottest man ugly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 08:15 PM
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Incredible! If you don’t mind, can I message you some questions?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 05:14 PM
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Amazing! What kind of work are you doing online to be able to travel like that? That’s goals right there!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 04:36 PM
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This weekend my friend opened up about an ex female friend who drugged her and with another guy, they raped her while she was out of it. A guy in the group giggled. I snapped and said “it isn’t funny. It’s super fucked up to do something like that against someone’s will.” He later tried to grab my friends chest while we were swimming in the water. I asked him if wanted me to punch him. My friend thanked me later and said she’s so used to people grabbing at her (she’s tall and super curvy) and pe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 07:43 PM
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I’m so proud of you. Hugs and kisses to you and your sweet kitty. You’re worthy of the best in life. Keep working on yourself and achieving those goals. Surround yourself with light and love and now that you’re single, find it within yourself. Doesn’t matter your past or trauma, doesn’t matter if you are bound to a wheelchair, you have so much worth and strength and beauty inside out. You got this and we are here to help should you need anything 🙏🏽❤️💋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 11:12 AM
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Wow. Realizing more and more how high value my dad is. He’s always had an appreciation for good artists. Never mattered if it were a man or woman. Love him even more. He makes it so hard to date ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 04:52 AM
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Pretty much why I don’t date and keep to myself. Would rather be alone than settle. I too take account how many women men sleep with. I also take account the amount of partying they do. I don’t like men who aren’t ambitious and hardworking. The standards I place on men are high. And I have very high standards for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 02:49 PM
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This is how I feel about every man I meet lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 02:21 PM
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Love me some Kali Uchis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 06:26 PM
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Super helpful thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 03:02 PM
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Any specifics you recommend?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 02:47 PM
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As a woman, I personally do everything I can when it comes to being cautious with men. I don’t drink around them. I hardly drink at all actually. Never really had the stomach or tolerance for it. I meet in a public place. And I’m very clear with my boundaries. Even still I’ve had men behave very inappropriately with me. With men you wouldn’t expect to misbehave. For this reason I’ve become even more distant with men. I hardly date. And I keep to myself. But that’s why I feel safest. It’s sad to …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 01:06 PM
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I don’t wear makeup. And I dress sporty. Leggings and a top and jacket with tennis shoes usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 03:49 PM
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Cool I’m making it up then 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 02:36 PM
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Strange. I assure you I see flaws in myself but by society’s standards I’m considered attractive. I’ve actually been told I’m smarter than I look. I’ve been told since I was 10 years old that upon first glance I look like a bitch but I’m actually kind and friendly. So even though I’m beautiful by society’s standards, my intelligence and kindness is assumed to be absent. Which honestly hurts my feelings sometimes. It’s also hard to get asked out. Guys have always found me intimidating or assumed …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 02:32 PM
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Travel, save for retirement, buy nice things, help others.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 02:00 PM
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I thought she was a senior age 18. Still gross and weird but at least legal 🙄 thats gross af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 03:15 AM
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This plan makes sense 👏🏽👏🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 06:07 AM
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Dude sorry you feel personally attacked here but just because you fall short of this list, doesn’t mean others do. Move on and find someone who works for you. Sorry it isn’t her. Bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 09:54 AM
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I know women who posses all this qualities so if a woman can so can men. Also dying alone sounds fine by me. Would rather do that than settle esp when I bring a lot to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 09:52 AM
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What about the men who do this? Men and women sleep around. Find someone with your morals and don’t worry about the people who don’t match.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 09:39 AM
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I think it’s happening on both sides. Not just men doing it. Not just women. There are a lot of unhealed people out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 11:04 PM
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Honey shit isn’t an option. It’s just...shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 10:49 PM
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I grew up w a lot of privilege and was homeless for three years in my early 20s. You’re not the only one. Shit is not a choice. Shit is shit. It’s not edible. Nor is it dateable. Good luck with everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 10:23 PM
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You’re too sensitive. You’re too aggressive. You just want control. You’re overwhelming. You’re intimidating. You’ll never get a husband like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 09:55 PM
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So...no options for either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 09:46 PM
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Mines not a choice. I’m involuntarily starving. You think you’re not starving if you’re eating McDonald’s? You are still starving yourself of proper nutrients. Just because I have the option of eating shit doesn’t mean it’s not starving. Shit is still not nutritious at the end of the day and does nothing for me. Still starving period.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 09:16 PM
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Trust me I’m starving myself buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 09:04 PM
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Of course but it’s only to a degree. If I see a white female smoking crack in an alleyway I’m not thinking oh that’s a white female thing. That’s that individuals choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 05:44 PM
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Someone who has the same goals as me. Someone who is honest and genuine. Yes I’d like to be attracted to them. Just as much as they are attracted to me. Someone who is down to try before giving up. Notice how I didn’t mention specific hair color or height or anything. But I’m also not focused on meeting someone. More trying to make genuine friendly connections w people and if it escalates past that then cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 05:43 PM
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Sure but the point is men and women shouldn’t be grouped together. Person to person there is so much variety. Not all men think and act the same. Not all women think and act the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 05:09 PM
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I would agree it’s trauma. I come from a really solid childhood and background. So I’m not familiar with people just bouncing for this reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 05:07 PM
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I didn’t say unique. I said varied. And it doesn’t have to do with gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 03:25 PM
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So you behave like every single male? And every single female behaves the same? There are plenty of things that other women say or do that I don’t agree with. Have never done. Will never do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 03:13 PM
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There’s a lot of variety human to human. We aren’t robots.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 02:56 PM
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I’m not playing any game. I don’t even participate. I don’t date. And I just try to be friends to see if something natural comes up out of friendship. Dating and marriage are very low on the totem pole for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 02:32 PM
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Ok but we are pitiful in different ways. Men and women are varied on an individual basis. We are too varied to be grouped together by gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 02:31 PM
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You don’t know me dude. I’ve dated fat, skinny, poor, rich, black, white, tall, short. I am not looking for a Chad. Please be less typical 🙄 there are shitty men in all categories.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 01:44 PM
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Not true. Please stop making blanket statements when it comes to men and women. Humans are such distinct individuals. Woman to woman, man to man we differ a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 01:26 PM
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I’ve thought about paying for sex too from a man bc I bet he’d actually put the effort in making me orgasm instead of just pumping and dumping. I like being nurturing and kind. So I show it to my cat, my family, and my best friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 01:04 PM
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Men and women have power and disadvantages in different ways. I’d rather not deal with this at all hence why I don’t date and just make friends. I find relationships to be overwhelming and exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 12:23 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 12:22 PM
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This is how I as a woman feel about men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 11:51 AM
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A ton of men are interested in women. Does that mean they’re of quality? Does that mean they care if a woman orgasms? Does that mean they want to commit? Having a ton of men come after you is exhausting and I assure you isn’t as fun as you’d think. It’s never quality men and weeding through it is painful and exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 11:48 AM
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This 👏🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 11:44 AM
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Have you ever had sex with a woman? It doesn’t sound like you have. Porn isn’t reality. A big dick isn’t enough to make a woman cum. Your vagina doesn’t get loose over time anymore than a penis becomes shorter from going into vaginas over time. The clit is the most important part of making a woman cum. Please educate yourself bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 03:16 PM
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Just dropped a pickme friend who chose a guy who lives in his van over me. After fucking two other friends of his. I warned her that if this is the path she’s choosing to take, that I was out. Feel so freeing! I love me some spring cleaning 🙌🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 05:06 PM
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I feel this omg. I often say I feel I have bigger balls than most men out there. Now I realize it means I’m just more mature and more of an adult than most men out there. I am direct, I have tact, and I am clear. Most humans can’t even be that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 04:09 PM
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Why doesn’t he get surgery to make his dick bigger? Has he ever though how unhappy she’s been with his stupid size?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 08:01 AM
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But all men do locker room talk and all men watch porn sooooo....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 01:50 AM
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I was assaulted at work in broad daylight by a gay man. He grabbed my chest in front of everyone. I was so mortified and cried. I was sent home. It triggered me. He kept trying to yell that he was gay and it was ok. But no. It wasn’t :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 11:23 PM
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THISSSSS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:16 AM
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Aw babe but remember how bad I am at blow jobs? My teeth scraped you and I bit you? Yeah. Can’t do it 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 04:25 PM
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We have sex workers and shit is still bad out there. It’s clearly not curbing anything 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 03:29 PM
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How are we supposed to not be gold diggers yet they don’t want us to be ambitious with careers? Do you want us to rely on your or not?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 05:33 PM
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Sadly most men I’ve had sex with were unable to make me cum or didn’t even care to try. Therefore in the past we would have sex and only one person actually got off (not me) and I’d just be left frustrated. So I’d just never have sex w them again. Had a lot of one timers happen after going on 3-5 dates and then just telling them I wasn’t feeling it. This happened for two years. Then before Covid hit last January I swore off men. Each time this happened I’d have clarity that i deserved better tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 08:12 PM
69

Yeah I love anal...I love putting my strap on and just shoving it up a guys ass with no lube. Haha so funny. What it’s just a joke? 😑😑😑😑🖕🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 02:55 PM
25

It’s one day a week not to post memes. The other six days you can. Seems more than fair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 04:52 PM
45

Like what even is the point of men nowadays? Can’t cook, can’t clean, cant provide, can’t even please a woman properly. Useless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 05:34 PM
1

Andrea and Mike in I’m Sorry!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 01:05 PM
9

Why don’t THEY give a chance to a “nice” girl who is “subpar” when it comes to looks and tell me how they like settling? So why should I? I’d rather be alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 09:36 PM
3

Wow I’m obsessed with this. Too damn real 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 02:13 AM
1

How about you work on being the best version of yourself all around and in doing so you’re highly likely to find a good match for yourself? And if you don’t, who cares? Be proud you’re being the best version of you. This can apply to both men and women. Thoughts like these aren’t progressive, true, or remotely interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 11:11 AM
9

Yeah if I tripped and accidentally robbed a bank of $1 million dollars, I’m good right???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 10:05 AM
10

How can you be out of his league and not good enough for him? He can suck a dick. If you need stimulation and validation from so many other women, you’re pathetic. Period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 08:58 PM
3

I mean...yeah 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 I love FDS. I’m not perfect but I’m striving for it and my partner better or...I don’t need one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 10:01 PM
5

Yep. I’ve been saying I want to adopt for a decade. Being pregnant sounds terrible. Maybe if men got pregnant I’d adopt one and have one of my own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 12:46 AM
7

I’m about to turn 30 on Thursday and everyone thinks I’m 18. It runs in the family. My 55 year old aunt looks like she’s barely 40. I hate that I attract older men though who think I’m dumb and want to be their sugar babies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 12:51 PM
44

He’s a grown man who needs to figure it out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 09:18 PM
3

Why doesn’t she care more about her needs? That’s sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 07:00 PM
9

Easy: don’t date guys who play video games. I’ve never dated a single guy who plays video games and I swear you couldn’t make my vagina drier than if you were to tell me you game. Just ew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 05:32 PM
10

So I can cheat if I’m not getting my needs met too right? /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 03:56 PM
30

Men do this to their own children and leave the child behind with the woman (usually to run into the vagina of another woman). This woman asked for help to take care of his husbands’ mistress’ baby and ran away and NOT into the arms of another man. Just because she was forced into something she didn’t sign up for. Fuck that shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 06:35 AM
5

Why did this make me lol so hard?! 🤣 I’m sure negging women on Twitter is gonna get you laid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 02:42 AM
8

Why are you telling my story?! Jk. But yeah no more after two years and no more ever again with anyone else. Lesson learned!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 03:01 PM
5

I dated a guy in his early 40s when I was 28. According to society I’m considered “beautiful, hot, gorgeous, attractive, a catch.” (College educated, I speak 3 languages, self sufficient, eat well and exercise daily, take care of myself, good family, etc) Not being conceited. It’s just what people tell me. I am approached a lot. He was so jealous and insecure. I never brought up age or anything. When I broke it off w him after 2 months he was the one mentioning age and his height and stupid stuf…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 12:45 PM
14

This right here!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 04:04 PM
1

Lol. Honestly I’m more into a persons energy, passion, and drive in life than anything. So if a person has those three things I’m into it!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 03:11 AM
3

I usually end up making the first move. I’m 30F and according to others I’m “beautiful,” “attractive,” and “hot.” I find that guys are too intimidated to approach me, assume I’m already taken, or I get the weirdest guys approaching me. I’ve also experienced it where some guys were intimidated by me doing the approaching, but those guys are insecure and I find it pathetic if they think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 01:18 AM
23

Omg this 👏🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 04:36 AM
1

You say you disagree. So it’s not that women or men have it harder and it’s a scientific fact. It’s just your point of view. Got it. It’s just your opinion 👍🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 08:04 PM
5

According to who do women have it harder? Why can’t we just say both have it difficult in different ways? Both have experienced damaging and traumatic expectations from society in different ways. No one can really say that one gender has it harder than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 07:27 PM
17

I got out of a 7 year relationship. I was upfront with every guy over the past 2 years about the fact that I’m seeing others and they can too. Men even still tried to posses or control me. They wanted me to fall in love w them to stroke their ego. And when I didn’t they’d play games to get me to be into them. Which didn’t work. Like I already said you can see other people and I am already. It made no sense to me. January was my last date and I needed a break from men bc no matter what I felt I c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 06:33 PM
62

So when I got out of a relationship of 7 years I had some “fun” with hook ups and FWB. I told these men upfront: im seeing others. You can too. Even STILL these guys would play stupid games to get me jealous or try to control me. Even though the agreement was we both get to see other people. Even with that, you can’t win ladies. It’s about control and ego and it’s PATHETIC. I haven’t gone on a date since January or hooked up w anyone in a WHILE...and I’m off birth control bc I’m at this point no…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 05:33 AM
3

Vowed he is my last like that. And I’m sticking to my word. I know (and he knows and has admitted) that I deserve better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 02:21 AM
7

Omg you just described the guy I was in love with for 2 years 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 04:39 PM
8

My brain went there too! Provide then, mother fucker. I need you to provide for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 09:01 AM
39

If he wanted to just hang out you guys would just hang out and catch up not in a four day trip. It would be like over dinner/lunch or coffee for a few hours and wouldn’t be a date. Ughhhhhh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 09:18 PM
27

I’ve had two guys tell me they’re we’re gonna have adult sleep overs when chatting w me at a bar bc one was from another state and one was from another city. I just looked at them and said: what you can’t afford a hotel? They knew better than to ask again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 04:53 PM
97

Never get into a car w a man unless you know you can trust them. I haven’t been in a car with a man in years that isn’t my father, brother, or my sisters bf I’ve known for a decade. I also have rules that I don’t invite men over. Even if they’re a guy friend (esp with Covid now). Even energetically, I don’t want that around me. It sound extreme but I’d rather be safe than sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 03:05 PM
3

I’ve had only LV or NV female roommates. I’ve had 3/4 HVM roomies. Sad to say, but that’s been my experience 🤷🏽‍♀️😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 10:57 PM
2

Anything that doesn’t train you to come out the other side and then doesn’t provide you with the means to cope with war. The PTSD is real and America’s government does nothing to help after the fact.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 12:25 PM
21

No military for me ever. I’ve had friends that dated them and nothing gets my pussy drier than that and guys who play video games. Automatic no from me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 07:13 PM
11

Why should I be less picky? I’m not less picky to MYSELF. I’m so picky about myself. I have high expectations for myself across the board. I set high goals and I smash them. I’ll never date anyone that is average. Bc I don’t aim to be average myself. And if i end up alone because of that I’m more than fine with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 10:48 AM
25

The two men who have loved me most in my life didn’t want BJs from me. One asked me to stop completely bc he thought it was disrespectful and didn’t want to demean me. The second never asked for it and the ratio of oral was 10:1 (him being more generous). Maybe you’re on to something 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 06:00 PM
6

I know not everyone on FDS agrees with this but I have zero attachment issues. If I have sex with a guy early on, I def just see them as a meat stick. And unlike most men, I’m not manipulative about it. I tell them straight up that I’m seeing others and this isn’t going anywhere. He doesn’t know what he’s talking about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 11:26 AM
16

A guy did something like this to me and I broke it off w him on the spot. He kept begging for me days later and I blocked him. Haha. Pathetic 😂 also, while breaking it off I kept calling him “bro” which pissed him off bc that meant I saw him as a friend. PS we went on 3 dates in the span of 3 weeks back in January and he was already calling me his girlfriend. Laughable. Such idiots.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 11:22 AM
1

Ewwwww. Sounds terrible. Why would someone shit on DIY let alone a man? Aren’t they supposed to be crafty and good with their hands? All the HVM I’ve dated loved challenges and like making things from scratch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 11:44 PM
5

I did OLD for 5 days in 2018. Never again. I sometimes meet men in the wild, but with covid not as of late. I surf so it’s an easy sport to keep distance and I’ve seen some really hot surfers but I’m also like what’s the point 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 10:32 PM
8

I haven’t been on a date since January and have written all men off for 2020 but it’s entertainment to listen to them try 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 06:24 PM
84

RIGHT?? Any guy that tells me he’s good in bed, I just lately laugh in their face. I know to run in the other direction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 03:59 AM
18

Aw thanks love! I’ve spent too long caring about men and not focusing on me. I wasn’t even nearly as boy crazy as others but it’s still more effort than a majority of them deserved. This is the first year I’m truly focused on me and a lot of milestones in my life are trucking forward. So I have no desire to do anything to temper with the momentum
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 06:47 PM
64

I don’t date guys who have gaming systems. Period. I also don’t date period so there’s that 😂 I’m on a massive long break and it’s gonna take someone phenomenal to even get me to glance in their direction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 05:32 PM
16

I operate with men I don’t know that are interested romantically only from 9am-5pm. If you’re my guy friend and we are close I stop responding after 9pm. I’m actually not dating rn and focused on myself but I’ve had rude guys call me at weird hours or text and DM way late and I’ve told them to contact me at a more respectable time or I’ll block them. Saying it once seems to do the trick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 05:57 PM
20

They shouldn’t even be doing those things to their guy friends. I would never do these things as a woman to another woman. How gross and degrading. And I like potty humor 🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 05:33 AM
0

And we both lose bc there was nothing about trying to understand each gender here. No coming together. Just you being a wall and me not bothering with people like you. You’re set in your ways and you don’t want progress between the sexes. You just want to fight and yell about how you have it worse. Sounds miserable. Good luck with that. Gonna go over here and work with people who want to uplift each other instead of put each other down. You want me to lose bc I’m a woman. I want us to win becaus…
/r/MGTOW214/10/20 04:43 PM
1

Haha you’re funny. Enjoy your life!
/r/MGTOW214/10/20 04:36 PM
0

I’m sorry people hurt you in the past. And you don’t even know me. And this is exactly why we don’t get anywhere is because of answers like this. Why didn’t I file a lawsuit? Because I don’t have money for a lawyers. Because I’m getting paid way less than my male coworker. I sincerely wish you the best. I hope the two genders can come together and work together towards making this place better for us both. Much love and light to you.
/r/MGTOW214/10/20 04:27 PM
1

I was paid $12k less a year than my male coworker for the exact same job. And I’m a woman. We both had the same qualifications. He would often disappear and not show up to work for days at a time. We had to pick up his slack. He was never fired. Also HR called me the “tits and ass” of the company. Not only do women generally get paid less, but it’s so expensive to be a woman. Get waxed, tweezed, buy products to hide and cover xyz. I think my point is that each gender has their own pluses and min…
/r/MGTOW214/10/20 09:06 AM
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News flash: they’re not. Some act the same as younger men. So why the fuck would I put up with dick that will need viagra and nasty old man belly when I have guys younger than me with six packs and nice cars wanted to take me skydiving on our first date?! Dream on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 12:29 PM
5

While I understand that, please understand that art is meant to imitate life. I’m writing a tv show about my mid 20s. I did some pickme stuff. The character’s will be making mistakes as they grow further along the seasons so you see their arch. My tv show is meant to be a “big sister” guide. And the characters start young and naive and grow and learn their value. Some don’t. It’s reflective of real life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 09:34 AM
16

Age gap? Is 5 years bad? My ex was an HVM and we were nearly 6 years apart. I was 20 when I met him and he was 25. Treats me and women and just humans in general with so much respect. I think the issue here is not the age gap but the fact that he’s not over his ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 10:22 AM
13

Dude. No one wants to date you. Feel free to waste your money on a lawyer but that’s so unnecessary 😂🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 06:58 PM
2

I can understand that. I remind myself that so many unhealed people are walking around distracting themselves, running away from their problems, projecting their past trauma onto others. And most shit can’t be taken personal. At the end of the day we are only in control of ourselves. As long as you’re proud of your reactions and actions, please know your head can and should hit the pillow soundly at night.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 06:50 PM
2

Then it sounds like a them problem and not a you problem. I have encountered so many narcissists and egotistical people. I merely say your behavior is like you’re entitled and you’re leading with your ego which is a huge detriment. How they respond after that I don’t really care. As long as I call them out and block them afterwards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 05:13 PM
3

I don’t know your exact situation, but I’ve triggered men before too I suppose. I just don’t really care as most men aren’t considerate or aware of my feelings. And not just men. Some women have behaved that way as well. Is it your approach? I talk to people by stating facts and then saying my feeling. I don’t curse at them or put them down. I just say this happened. I feel this way. It came across this way to me. And they usually can’t refute what I was saying. I keep to myself for the most par…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 03:11 PM
12

This is why I don’t drink and I just do edibles. I don’t trust men. Sounds weird but I’ve even had men ask me if I’m high rn and I’ll say yes I took so many edibles and see how they act around me even if I’m stone cold sober. I’ve had a few try to take advantage and I’ve had to get up and leave. All pre Covid bc I stopped dating in January.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 11:50 AM
8

I am really strong willed, sharp, and call people out on shit (this is bc I want people to call me out if I’m ever doing or saying anything beneath me). I intimidate both women and men. It’s not that I’m not friendly, I’m just really direct and firm. I am super friendly and warm at the same time. I don’t honestly care anymore. My mother asks me if I go on a date “if I acted feminine enough.” She thinks by being the way I am I’m gonna drive men away. Yes, I will. The WRONG ones. Me being this way…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 11:45 AM
4

Guys with huge dicks are like hot women who just lay there. If you have no skills with your hand and mouth you ain’t shit. I’d rather have an average size dick with some good girth (who knows what he’s doing with his mouth and hands) than some guy who thinks he amazing in bed just bc his penis is big. This guy needs to just suck on his own dick and leave women be. Also, get a fucking job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 11:21 AM
8

Seriously why am I being generous 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 05:43 PM
47

“Wow that’s a perfect body. If only your dick was bigger!!!” 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 12:20 PM
3

I’m vegan. I love food. I can out eat most men. I surf 5 mornings a week for 3-4 hours. I eat double what I used to eat now. No guy has ever made any negative comments about my eating habits except to be impressed that I eat so much. I’m sorry you’re experiencing this. People are so frustrating and there a lot of men without proper knowledge who think they know better. My advice to them? Shut the fuck up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 10:45 AM
7

Right? I counted them. I was like I CANT DO THIS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 09:45 PM
7

I agree with this whole heartedly. Just don’t see anything that impressed me except for myself and my friends. Soooo yeah. Why invest? Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 06:18 PM
24

It’s worked for some people but even before I discovered FDS I just knew it wasn’t my preference. To each her/his own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 03:34 PM
226

I did OLD for five days in 2018. Never again. I’d rather be alone and level up all areas of my life. Should i meet a guy that interests me and matches, great. If not I’m still super fucking happy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 02:27 PM
21

Genius
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 01:39 PM
20

My mother watched the movie and called me the day after. She’s a SAHM and while my dad (especially in old age) is HVM, she has been pressuring me to settle down and have kids. I’ve even gone on dates she’s set up to appease her. After watching this movie she told me that she understands me better. I’m an aspiring screenwriter/producer. I have never really given that much of a shit about marriage and men. I told her I’ve wanted to adopt children since I was in my 20s. I explained that her desire …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 01:25 PM
4

Thanks for the offer. I might reach out here and there with some questions! It’s a beautiful language although it’s a bit difficult
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 10:48 AM
13

I’m turning 30 in 2 months! I’m trying to make hella money and adopt. If a man is in the picture, sure. If not then I really don’t care. I don’t like OLD but I guess I’m waiting for a man to drop down from my ceiling magically. I’ve had amazing luck meeting men in the wild pre covid. It’s nice to have a break for now. Hope that helps!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 12:26 AM
12

I just say: seems like you’re unable to have sex and be respectable at the same time. Thanks but no thanks. I stopped harboring anger and any emotion towards any of them anymore. It’s never been worth it. I have some I’ve held on for a couple of years and some new ones anyway. It’s not like there’s a shortage. I hope that helps!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 12:25 AM
53

I can relate. I have gotten attached to only two guys when doing FWB and one was when I was 19. Another when I was 27. All the other ones meant nothing to me. They literally play games to get me invested. It doesn’t work. If I like someone deeply, it’s rare. Men don’t like women who treat men like men treat women. It’s absolutely a control/ego thing. I’m atm not looking for a relationship. I wanted steady FWBs. Like why is it so hard to flirt and fuck? I’m being upfront that I (was) seeing other…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 11:28 PM
1

I agree overall. I’m taking about the inequality of expectations. That’s what a healthy human being does regardless of gender.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 09:38 PM
18

THIS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 04:07 AM
49

I love her and she is someone I look up to. I’m in the industry too and all the producers, writers, actors and showrunners I look up to who are female are single. And for good reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 01:57 AM
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My friend (who I introduced this sub to) was dating a guy for barely a month. From the beginning she noticed a few red flags. She spoke to him about her concerns and he brushed it off. I told her I’d dated someone with a similar lifestyle when I was 19, and she said she wanted to keep an open mind. Barely a week later she texts me that she ended it wit him. They had gotten into another discussion and he posted the above on his Instagram. She texted him that he was immature and ended it with him.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 01:54 AM
2

Never had one never will
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 11:58 PM
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I stopped dating in January and I’m almost 30. I have no intention of getting married. I just want to make hella money in my career (which is started to gain more traction now than ever) and adopt children. If I’m going to raise someone it’s not gonna be. A grown ass man who refuses to be decent, go to therapy, and work on themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 11:47 PM
5

This 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 12:00 AM
18

Same to everything you just said esp adopting 🙌🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 06:34 AM
13

Someone has too much time in their hands. Get a therapist and a hobby. So sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 08:58 PM
5

Lovely! Fingers crossed for you! 🤞🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 08:50 PM
6

Snaps sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 02:02 AM
53

I too went on a few dates with a guy who drove an Aston Martin. The lat date we went on I felt he was too forward so I told him I didn’t want to see him anymore. He said he wanted to see me one last time and have sex with me. I blocked him. Haven’t thought about him since February when i blocked him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 04:39 AM
9

It’s easier for them to take advantage of them because they’re naive. They know women their own age don’t want to date them. That’s why we need to warn younger women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 01:30 PM
2

I don’t remember the rape. I’ll have to reread. Scarlett was also a selfish entitled asshole. She lied and manipulated a lot of people without caring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 01:02 PM
1

He was? I haven’t read the book in a while. And I’ve never seen the movies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 12:23 PM
25

I always said my perfect man was Gomez Addams, Rhett Butler, and Q-Tip put together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 08:19 PM
58

The amount of guys I’ve dated who have done this to me. This is why I’m over most men after a week. The longest i saw men for before getting rid of their asses was 3 weeks and this was before i stopped dating in January.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 11:21 AM
1

True this is even better! I’ve never done it. Just a thought that popped into my head that I thought was silly. Just can’t believe coffee dates is what is being offered. I’ve never even been on one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 11:47 PM
39

Why don’t they just compliment each other and shut up? I feel so much better about myself when a woman compliments me than a man. Women compliment each other all the time. Men should do it to each other too without fear of being seen as gay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 01:02 PM
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I don’t like his gf at all tbh. She’s a very bitter woman but maybe it was only towards me bc she felt threatened by me (not my problem, she must have felt her guy acting weird about me) but when he talked to me the way he did I just said “I don’t think she’d like you talking to me this way, I’m single you’re not. Focus on your girl.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 05:13 AM
2

I don’t even care. Why are you texting me this shit when you have a 10 year gf? Get engaged already and fuck off lol. It’s not fair to her. And yes you too! Stay strong love 💪🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 04:08 AM
2

Omg I relate to this so much too. I have guys I’ve never dated or ever had any romantic relations with (that have 10 year long gfs) that DM me and text me telling me that they think about me and wonder what it’s like to date me seriously. Haha they can keep wondering honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 03:52 AM
2

I relate to this. I have several longtime FWB who I circulate. They treat me w respect. They take me out to nice restaurants, we vacation together, and they are respectful. I just don’t see it lasting long term bc they’re not quite what I’m looking for. Honestly my career and my hobbies, my fam, my friends, and my cat fulfill me more than anything. Should the right man align himself w my life and it fit flawlessly? Great. Should that man add to my life? I’ll take him. If not I’m def not settling…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 02:36 AM
15

If you mean he keeps himself from every woman and doesn’t date then thank god he’s doing us all a favor 🙄😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 05:28 PM
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Why not treat every woman like your potential daughter then bro 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️ Ugh I’m honestly so terrified about opening myself up to a man. I stopped dating in January and the more I see and read about what’s out there I’m like fuck I’m good. Gonna continue to build my career and finances and adopt two kids at this point sans a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 03:38 PM
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I love this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 01:32 AM
2

Surfing!! 🙌🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 12:28 PM
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Same queen. Grateful for FDS but I reread some texts and think about some things I said or some actions I took and thanks to my upbringing I was already doing some of these things beforehand without realizing it. Now I can read advice here and consult the handbook and do it better, deeper, and be even stronger. I’m turning 30 in December and I can’t wait to be an even better version of my badass self in my 30s with this new knowledge!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 04:23 AM
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Can’t wait to be single for a long time. It’s year 2 and I’ve gotten so many things done and gotten further in my career. I’m so happy and glowing and just in such a good spot. My dad is my biggest supporter. Both my parents really. But my dad supports me emotionally and spiritually. He even said he’d help me financially if I ever need it because he believes in me so much. He’s stepped in and randomly given me money or bought me a new laptop when I mentioned i was looking. My future man better b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 04:08 AM
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Imagine. You show up. He pays for your coffee and food. Then you just say thanks bye! Actually sounds like an amazing time 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 03:51 AM
3

If they start talking over me I raise my voice and say HEY I WASNT DONE TALKING. And they usually shut right up and I finish my thought. I’m not gonna let them start and finish shit if I wasnt done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 10:34 PM
7

It seems you’re projecting a bit here. Trust me we want BOTH of you to do your own version of leveling up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 07:08 AM
12

My baba is the same and I refuse to be with anyone any less generous than him. He believes in me more than anyone on this planet (and when I was younger even more than myself at times). I would rather be single than settle for anyone less than him. He’s someone I really look up to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 07:02 AM
3

Love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 08:05 PM
7

The problem is their personalities suck and they’re all trying so hard to be famous or somebody they aren’t genuine kind humans. I’m LA born and raised and hate that the transplants that are so glitzed by Hollywood give my city a bad name. If you’re from here you couldn’t give less of a fuck about celebrity-ism, this includes people working in the industry. It’s like any other business to ya 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 12:21 PM
2

Not everyone makes the kind of money where they can get by with one person income. The world is way more expensive and a lot of people think because things are more equal in the world that both should step up financially which is fine. If one person makes more (man or woman) and the agreement is as such then great. Where did I say women have it worse? I didn’t. Each gender has their own set of issues and I wish we could be progressive about this so that men and women come together to fix societa…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 06:54 PM
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I live in a city there are plenty of drug dealers. The point is men and women are responsible for bringing people into this world. I wish a license was required to be a parent. Have a wonderful day.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 02:47 PM
1

How would Becky know? So many people hide their pasts. They’re both to blame. Date, marry, commit to children and family. I’m first gen American and my parents were able to stay married, work through every issue, they commit to family, neither ever cheated. Despite the ups and downs they’re still madly in love to this day. They show it to each other and to us children. I won’t even entertain a man if he doesn’t want that same type of family. I’d rather be single than settle for anything less tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 02:12 PM
1

You should shit on him as much as Becky and the other five because he is responsible too. His sperm was needed as much as her egg. He should be wearing a condom as much as she should be taking birth control. Both parties are at fault here buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 02:05 PM
6

I dated a mainly HVM for seven years. I never sent him a single nude. Guys have asked for some (I’m single now) and I always say no it’s not my style
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 02:00 PM
3

Fds says the same. Don’t put man on a pedestal. Focus on yourself. In every thread you’re going to get angry people who blame men or blame women. I just wish men and woman could acknowledge the difficulties each gender experiences and try to work together to appreciate and respect and hear each other out more. I want progress not a shit storm.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 01:57 PM
5

Not unique to men. It now takes a two person income to survive. So while women now are expected to also be providers alongside their men, they’re also still expected to take care of the kids and the husband and the house work bc “that’s a woman’s job.” Women are at a disadvantage when it comes to marriage. Statistically married men are happier and single women are happier. Doesn’t take a genius to figure out why.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 01:51 PM
1

Why are men so pressing and pushing when it comes to sex? It takes two to tango. How come you’re not shitting on men who refused to stop being sluts and stick it up multiple women and have babies with a whole array of women? In these scenarios the man is equally at fault. Why isn’t he marrying, committing, and raising a family w one woman? He gets to walk out and most of these single women are left with the child. I’m sorry if women treated you like shit or your mom didn’t love you, but man. I h…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 01:49 PM
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What I do is I don’t talk much. It makes men nervous and makes them talk more bc the silence is uncomfortable. Then they blurt out things and you learn a lottttt more about someone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 03:12 PM
1

Haha I’m not interested in any of my guy friends dicks. If I was interested in that I would have told them. So I cannot relate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 04:18 PM
4

So what do you recommend we (women) do? Just straight up be distant with guys and only allow one guy in that you’re going to date? And if any guy approaches me that I’m not interested in just state: I’m not into you go away? Shit buddy it’s 2020. I have plenty of guy friends. If they want to bone me, well they haven’t expressed it. They’ve actually been there for me and I for them in the way that a true friendship is. They treat me like one of their bro’s and I see them as another friend. We han…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 11:47 PM
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I’d love that! And I’m striving for it. Thanks for your input. Hoping us men and women can bridge the gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 05:52 PM
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I got out of a 7 year relationship 2 years ago. I was with a guy who was for the most part HVM. The only issue was that we didn’t have the same vision for our futures. Hence why we are friendly to each other to this day. I have only been seeking FWB situations since then. I am not ready for a relationship, i don’t like one night stands. So FWB are perfect for me right now, but i am still very picky and seek people on my level to be that way with. I have two guys that are my FWB and we are all on…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 04:43 PM
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Wow. I’ve seen men played by women too. I don’t doubt their scientific abilities. Some people were born in horrible environments. They’re used to a cycle of abuse. I thought that was common knowledge. I really hope you open your eyes and see that there are idiots everywhere and it has nothing to do with gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 12:45 AM
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Why did you delete your other comment? I found some interesting points there! I could be reading things incorrectly but you come across as resistant and content where you are. There is a lot of pessimism (understandable as i have my moments too) and you seem to stay in that energy. I don’t have a single man wanting to build w me and I’m anything but stagnant and stuck. I’m moving forward and upward, man present or not. I’m hoping someone with similar energy and gusto with align w me and we just …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 11:56 PM
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Exactly. If nothing is going to change your outlook, then why would a woman try to build with someone so stuck and stagnant? Especially if we’re willing to change and mold with you. Hey, we expect the man to work on himself and believe in himself. Especially when we are doing the same for ourselves. We don’t have a man believing in us and bettering us. We are doing it for ourselves from within. It’s too exhausting to do it for ourselves and you. We feel like we are your mother and raising yet an…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 03:36 PM
1

What do you consider slutty?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 02:28 PM
1

That’s good. Us women are cynical too. How can we fix this? I mean we’re having the same issues pretty much, men and women!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 04:44 AM
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I’m glad to hear that you have that kind of support system. Most men tell me they super lack what you have. I’m trying to encourage change because statistically men commit suicide at a higher rate than women and that concerns me. It is different but it’s still satisfying. Of course love between a man and woman is different than with friends and family. Look, I’ll be honest with you. You kind of proved my point here. I’m a woman being super open and supportive and suggestive. I’m trying to come u…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 04:43 AM
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Yeah I’ve dated guys where I’ve had to love them enough for themselves and me. It’s exhausting and it’s not worth it. You have so much love and light for yourself that you can expel it on others bc it’s overflowing so much. You’ll probably attract a woman that loves herself so much and has so much light she wants to give it to you too. But that balance has to be there or it’s draining. And why dont you open up to other men about how you feel? And share with them that they are worthy of love and …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 04:26 AM
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So here’s my theory on this. And I’m interested in your input. Woman’s relationships are intimate, vulnerable, and affectionate. We don’t have the stigma of it being “gay” or “homosexual”. Men, on the other hand, do not have these types of relationships bc society has taught men to be strong and independent and that it’s not masculine to display this type of closeness. Men are starved of intimacy. That’s why when a woman shows even the tiniest of interest they go nuts. There is an immediate crav…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 04:04 AM
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But the only way you can enact the change you want is to be that change and try to connect with others. Also, these feelings you have are largely felt by everyone. We all think we’re alone and misunderstood and not accepted by society. Don’t do it to receive praise. Don’t do it for recognition. Do it bc you’d want someone to do it for you. You don’t have to be famous if you don’t want to. Fame is a killer anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 03:56 AM
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Depression is something that can be worked on. As far as passion and affection, you can obtain this in other ways than just a woman or a SO! As a woman, I feel passion, intimacy, vulnerability, and affection from my friends and family. Even strangers sometimes. I feel it within for myself from myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 03:30 AM
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Why don’t you do something world changing for yourself as the incentive? Or for other people? Nothing to do with women? Everything I do is for myself or for others. I don’t do it to impress a man or to obtain a partner. I don’t actually care if that happens or not eventually. If I find a good fit great! And if not then I did good stuff for myself and others!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 03:28 AM
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Thanks for sharing. I agree on the career thing. I’ve dated rich and poor men. Across the board they had to be passionate about something. That has always been attractive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 02:42 AM
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Do you ever feel you have room for growth? Do you ever seek further knowledge to see if there is something new you’ve never learned about before that might shift your mind and make you want to try another angle when it comes to being charitable, mindful, and empathetic? Do you feel like you’re just at the maximum version of yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 01:58 AM
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What do you mean by “they don’t have truly inquisitive minds?” That’s not a gender thing that’s a person to person basis. There are plenty of women scientists. That’s like me saying that men don’t make good artists because they aren’t as creative as women. These traits vary across the spectrum of humans and have nothing to do with gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 01:52 AM
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We’re not doing these things to impress a man. We are doing these things for us. Also, I have to say people (men and women) in general don’t tend to get into their nurturing and empathetic side bc they’ve been shamed of it in the past. So what do you value in a woman besides that “silliness?” What do you consider the true “essence” of a person or relationship? Btw i know we can’t ever tell tone via text. I’m here to sincerely learn and expand my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 01:48 AM
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How do you recommend leveling up in life? I’d like to learn! And also how do you work on being a better person all around?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 01:07 AM
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I find men utterly useless as well most of the time. Not great communicators, unhealed, egotistical, etc. Plenty of women like that too. Just on a lesser scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 01:04 AM
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I have a hard time finding men who are nurturing and empathetic. Two qualities i look for in a man as well. Therefore I tend to be that way more with my family and friends. It takes me a while to be outright with those qualities when it comes to men because i don’t see it appreciated by them, reciprocated by them, or respected by them. I find modern men pretty boring too. It’s hard to capture my interest bc I’ve found most men to be unhealed, unaware, unable to be introspective and egotistical. …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 01:02 AM
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Ok cool. So how do we fix the issues between men and women? That’s what I really care about! And I mean it. I want more unity, understanding, and teamwork between the sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 07:05 PM
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I understand you more clearly now. Thanks. You’ve opened up a different perspective to consider. Gonna sit with that and allow it to marinate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 06:22 PM
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I still am unsure how seeking higher knowledge and seeking professional advice is showing signs of insecurity. Insecurity is not admitting you have a problem. If you don’t know how to do something, you hire a professional to help. Not every humans has the tools to be able to do everything in life. That’s why it takes a village. That’s what support and love is for. That’s why a business is comprised of multiple people running it who work and collaborate together and fill in where the other person…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 05:58 PM
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So if you have a broken arm, going to the doctor is insecurity? How about being mature enough to process that some trauma from your past is affecting you how and you need help overcoming that? That is the opposite of insecure: that is maturity and awareness. Yes I’m sure some people get degrees to prove they’re better than others. However the drive and urge to learn and expand your mind is something we should all be striving for. How does that show insecurity? You have to learn and grow by conne…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 05:02 PM
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How is going to college, learning a trade, or diving into education insecurity? How is going to therapy insecurity? I have seen both men and women grow from therapy. I know many men and women who could use it. I have broken up with men who are unable to communicate and show emotion. My ex and I of 7 years had the best relationship bc of communication and proper expression of emotions. We didn’t last past 7 years bc we envisioned different futures, but we have remained friendly and only speak kin…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 04:31 PM
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How are we emotionally insecure? Intellectually insecure? More of us are enrolled in higher learning. More women are in therapy than men. Men consider being in tune with their emotions as “feminine/gay/unmanly”. Most men I meet lack basic social skills in business, dating, etc. You clearly have a very negative view on women. But I’m familiar with people needing to put others down to make themselves feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 03:23 PM
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It’s about leveling up yourself. Being the best version of yourself that you can be. Financially, spiritually, emotionally, physically. Then finding a man doing the same. I value and love myself and others. He should value himself and love himself and others. Then we find each other and do that for each other too. Sometimes I see women get heated and angry about something. I see some harshness when expressing that. But I try to brush that off and focus on leveling up and being the best version o…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 02:53 PM
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You are using one life example to paint a brush over every woman. Would be just as bad if I did that about men who do the same thing. Isolated incidents will never be a proper representation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 02:50 PM
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We crave financial security bc at the end of the day we still do not receive equal pay from men. We still have so far to go when it comes to our careers. A lot of companies don’t hire women with the fear that she will get pregnant and leave. Men don’t face these kind of issues in the work place. Also I find a lot of men to be insanely insecure. Because insecurity is a human trait found in both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 02:46 PM
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I am inspired by myself. I workout 6 days a week, I speak 3 languages and am learning a fourth. I went to a good university. I come from a good family. I eat well, take care of my skin, hair, etc. Career wise, I’m still on the up and coming, but my hustle is opening doors with seeds I’ve planted 2-3 years ago. Emotionally, I don’t go up and down. Pretty stable. Never been diagnosed with anything. Worked on my insecurities. Practicing selflessness, gratitude, and humbleness. Spiritually, I try my…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 02:30 PM
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I agree. Should have put /s. But you’re right even as a joke. Thanks for encouraging me always operate from a higher level and not dip below that 🙏🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 12:17 AM
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Let them have it. Another guy I dated kept begging me to give him another chance and when I said no for the 4th time he said “you’re boring, you’re beneath my level, you’re not interesting. Let’s get one thing straight. I broke up with YOU.” I didn’t even answer. Just blocked. Haven’t spoken or seen him since January. Man....fragile male egos are hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 09:49 PM
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Omg dude the guy I’m referring too said “sorry for loving you” after I mentioned all the reasons why I didn’t want to be with him. The amount someone claims to love me will never be enough if he’s not working on himself and can’t be a stand up partner
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 09:31 PM
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I’ve also experienced a guy who hit on my friend to make me jealous. I blocked him. He came to my work the next day and tried to tell me he respects me. I ignored him and didn’t look at him in the eyes or face. Lol. I’ve also experienced a guy who talked shit about me loudly when I left the restaurant earlier and had just met his friends. Bc they heard him talk so much shit about me, they called me w gold digger. He texted me saying that he was defending me. I told him the story didn’t add up an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 03:45 PM
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Nice thanks for the tip. Gonna look into that for sure. And ugh I want to move to London’s (dual citizen) and go to Paris every weekend. And also eventually just travel around France and see the different parts. Like a sexy road trip!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 11:36 AM
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She needs to be POTUS in 5 years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 11:33 AM
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I broke up with a guy last year (2 1/2 months of exclusivity) and he was 13 years older than I. He had cheated on his ex after 11 years bc she was “neglecting him” (maybe use your words to communicate how you feel instead of cheating?!) and I broke it off due to his insecurity, walking on eggshells for the last 2-3 weeks, and him always worried about ME cheating, I broke it off. He asked if it was because he was short. He asked because he was old. He asked if it was bc there was someone else. No…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 11:27 AM
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They’re both beautiful and talented. Love the support ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 04:30 AM
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Dude I know so many men with daddy issues who blame their mom and treat their moms like shit bc of what their dads did. But yet it’s still our fault? I’m FUCKING CONFUSED ABOUT THE LOGIC HERE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 03:06 AM
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I love this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 04:06 PM
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Bet this guy is 5’2” and weighs 195 lbs. He can suck his own dick and keep his comments to himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 02:25 PM
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Our country and our government may no be impressive and suck in many ways but there are incredible individuals doing their best within a shitty system. Be supportive of this HVF American
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 06:05 AM
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Yes exactly. I don’t have sex with men who don’t respect me and when I see a change once the sex happens I block and move on. I’m not desperate for shit. Unsatisfying dick is a dime a dozen so yeah. It’s hard to find respectful FWB but they’re out there and willing to please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 09:00 PM
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I actually use men as fuck sticks back which I know isn’t FDS (I’m not ready for a relationship Bc I got out of a 7 year one barely 2 years ago) and they are SO confused when they meet me bc I don’t get attached easily. I am open and honest from the beginning that i am not looking for something serious and that I’m seeing other men. They’ve tried to be controlling or make me jealous by flirting with other women or mentioning other women. I mention the other guys in my deck (I only do long term F…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 08:14 PM
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So grateful for my brother and father. So sad and sorry for this family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 06:12 AM
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Women in the Middle East wearing full niqabs are raped. It has NOTHING to do with what we’re wearing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 03:23 AM
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I’m already starting and I can’t wait to deepen this even more! So proud and glad to hear about your journey and success! So grateful for you women and for this group.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 10:34 PM
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Thanks love. I’m still learning every single day how to be better to myself and others. And how to cut out what doesn’t serve me. I’m turning thirty at the end of the year and can’t wait to see what gifts the universe grants me as I continue to gift myself with proper energy and who/what really serves me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 07:49 PM
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Yes I do. I wouldn’t recommend two languages at the same time. Maybe focus on one for now. Go slow and don’t forget google is your best friend to look stuff up. I like Duolingo for vocabulary. The grammar stuff isn’t explained as well it just teaches you the patterns via repetition. But I’d recommend just googling stuff you don’t know. You can also message me if you have any questions!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 07:15 PM
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I speak Spanish too! I want to learn Farsi and Arabic too at some point. Just know all these languages and be able to travel and talk. Most guys I’ve been dating the past two years speak 3-5 languages and are worldly. I want to be more like that. Yes to all of this! I love being alone and raising my standards even more. I also have a job opportunity after a few months of unemployment. Low value dick is a dime a plenty. No need for it honestly. Same with LV friends. No timeeeee!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 02:07 PM
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I’m spending 30 mins studying French every day on Duolingo (97 day streak!). I exercise a lot (tennis, hiking, surfing, hiit, jogs, swimming) and I’ve lost 10 lbs, I’m spending a lot of time w my family (were a super close middle eastern family). And I’m writing a lot. I have been making good contacts in my field despite Covid. And I’ve been checking in on my friends making sure their mental health is good. I’ve baked cookies and dropped them all on doorsteps of my friends and family with person…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 06:01 AM
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Love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 03:41 AM
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I’ve dated men who are fat, short, and have a small dick (not all one person, that would be ridiculous) and I decided no more. I don’t want to deal with their insecurities and complexes. I’m fit. I exercise 6 days a week. I’ve been told from men and women I have a perfect ass. I’m 5’3”, tan, middle eastern mix. Too much going for me to deal with someone else’s insecurities. Last year I dated a guy who was short and older than me by 13 years. When i broke it off w him he asked if it was bc I thou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 02:54 AM
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It’s funny bc these guys end up ruining their own lives by just looking at women as objects to stick their dick in. Most of them end up being 40-50 years old, alone, unable to get decent women, so they prey on younger women who are only using them for money (if they even have that lol) and usually they end up leaving them for other guys bc they realize what losers they are. These men fill the void with alcohol and pills and more porn which fucks them up more. Hoping these type of men don’t repro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 02:33 AM
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My ex of 7 years sounds like this guy. Thoughtful and so kind but not ambitious enough for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 01:12 AM
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My dad is one of the only HVM I’ve ever experienced in my life and he’s not even perfect. He’s taken me to Europe, paid for my schooling, believed in my writing even when I didn’t believe in myself. I don’t want a husband if he can’t beat that. I’d rather be alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 01:00 AM
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Send 80 dick pix back that’s what I do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 12:22 AM
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I buy myself flowers and my friends and family flowers for now reason on the regular. Ugh the bar is so low 🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 03:55 AM
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Ego is a killer. How unattractive. Therapy or you leave. Tell him that insecurities are not a reason to put others down. If he doesn’t change move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 05:07 PM
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Deadddd 😂 I love the women here so much!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 03:27 PM
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I just posted this too 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 08:09 PM
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I’m gonna make a jar for every time I cum...and that jar will be empty 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 08:09 PM
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This and the Cher video are my life 🙌🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 08:05 PM
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I was hanging with this guy I had a crush on last year. Every time he made a mean joke about me I’d hit him back in a similar vein. He was too much of a weak ballsack to handle it. I had to explain that I was joking similarly to him. He said I was defensive and needed to work on it. Guess who is blocked? 😈sick of these weak ass men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 03:18 PM
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I’m not even kidding this is my goal. I’m an aspiring writer and I hope one day to get paid to write scripts and travel with my cat Luna!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 04:20 AM
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First off men don’t even do that with each other, let alone other women. So many men I talk to wish they had some sort of support system instead of thinking that they have to face shit alone. That’s not how the world works. Community and intimacy are vital needs for people, man or woman alike. Being vulnerable and intimate is one of the strongest things you can do. It is literally super manly. Holding shit in and therefore experiencing lack of emotion or extreme anger is not something anyone wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 08:32 PM
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The level of laziness is atrocious. On both sides for men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 07:52 PM
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Men are NOT getting in touch with their feminine side. That’s not what’s going on at all. Most men have issues expressing their emotions, needs, trauma, etc. a lot are afraid of therapy. A lot express either lack of emotion, or anger. There is no in between. It’s good to be king. So where are they? Most of the time I even talk about leveling up with men (and women) I hear “it’s hard.” No shit. Do it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 04:18 PM
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Have you read any relationship issues on Reddit? So many women are asking their SOs to step up and help. Most men want to work, come home and expect food to be ready despite their woman also working, and then be left alone. They pretend to be bad and incompetent at cleaning and child rearing so they’re off the hook.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 03:39 PM
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So why don’t men step up and create circles of friendships and support so that they can get over things easier? Men not properly dealing with their issues and lacking real intimacy from other male friends is such a problem and part of the reason why I feel men are falling behind in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 03:34 PM
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Two wrongs don’t make a right. You sound hurt and shouldn’t be putting yourself out there with that bogus mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 03:29 PM
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Men are only getting weaker bc they find weakness in being vulnerable and open. They are ashamed to be open about their feelings and emotions. Women appear stronger bc we’ve had to step up and embrace what society deems as “masculine” (fighting for our rights to vote, own property, have a bank account, work, wear pants, etc). So now women have to look good, make good money, still run a household, be mentally stable and strong and be careful with our emotions as not to scare men off, etc. it’s ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 03:26 PM
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Wtf? What does hair color have to do with it? People will use any excuse or any stupid ideology that “society” has to ruin something that would be perfect for them. I can’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 12:01 AM
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Yup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 06:46 PM
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Men are so stupid to ask other men for relationship advice about women. So over that kind of stupidity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 05:30 AM
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Dated a French guy for three weeks in January. The last week he showed signs of trying to be manipulative and controlling. He mentioned he related to Joe from You. I didn’t get it until I broke it off w him for pulling some low level shit that’s way too long a story to explain and watched it. I was actually terrified for a month that THAT is the man he looked up to and could relate to 🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 09:08 PM
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Remind him that his wrinkly saggy balls will hit the floor probably way before your tits hit hour belly button. Stupid ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 09:00 PM
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I did one dating app in 2018 for 5 days. Never again. I like being unavailable. Shit, I don’t even post many photos of me on Instagram. For someone to be in my presence and life and be around me, you have to earn it. Too many leeches over too many times. So yeah. I’m unavailable and you’re lucky if I make myself available to you at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 12:18 AM
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